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As you know the entrance exam is in 2 months and I’m feeling overwhelmed and confused what should I do my academics are going down the hill and I haven’t covered all the topics I’m getting anxious my parents expect a lot from me can you guys give me tips

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There is this girl that confess about her virginity stuff yesterday at aau confession and that's literally my story too. There was this guy I met at university he was my first...I had no idea about anything sexual then I met him we make out every night like at uni in some darker place we kissed fingered and we make out most of the time with my pants on because I don't feel comfortable about the touching. And honestly I don't enjoy any of it  because as I realized it now I wasn't in love. But one day we were out for dinner and he got a room to surprise me then we kissed and make out like naked and he asked me to penetrate but I said nooo and he was okay he did it slowly like pushing we actually practiced sex with out doing it but the thing is when he push me on the end part in the hymen idk I feel pain like not that deep but uncomfortable only in the middle the tip part that I enjoy...then we did it all night like I can't get enough of it I just want to be pressed the tip non stop and he went Down to that part I stopped him and he said me endezi ko atchershim enat lgba chafun bcha chafun bcha eyale btam rub aregegn like not that hard tho honestly I didn't enjoy it as I thought it will be then no blood no that much pain then he buy me postpill and I went to class after that idk mayb it's bcoz I haven't observed it before buy there is structural change of mine like the leaf part idk the name the 1 side gets a bit bigger and moved to one side but still my thing is small...I consider my self as a virgin we broke up 3 4 yrs ago and I haven't dated after bcoz I hate the process and this thing I barely have sexual feeling now like I nearly puke when I think it....what do you think if I met someone now I will say I am virgin is that a problem because I am right what is the actual feeling of losing a virginity please I wanna know what will happen I was walking normally I saw people siyaneksu mnamn  no blood...what bothers me is the idea of him I was so immature and Jil when i did it i really regret it I wasn't in love I like him mayb but because I haven't had a male friend even in my life I mistakenly take him talking me as a love mind you I am the beautiful girl in campus you will literally know who I am if I tell you the uni. But it doesn't matter I was saved from him he was manuplative

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Hello guys am 24 and i like waching big dick since childhood what should i do

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Me hate all 🫩. Me hated it 😒. Guy promise world😏. Guy lied😡.Guy treat me like shit💩. Guy using me 🥱. Me need money 😪. Me count good sun days 😌. Me leave soon 😎. Guy think me love him 😐. Me wait no more 👿.

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This is supposed to be a reflection of my observation of societal norms in our country and if you feel offended by it, I unfortunately just recommend you to scroll past this. If you see a flaw in my logic then I am open to challenges. These are patterns I noticed from my daily interactions with people who are close to me as well as online platforms where Ethiopians dominate (like this).

So, lately I have been trying to figure out why our society is so backwards and I observed a really common pattern that is shared by the average Ethiopian. Most of our opinions pivot around hasty generalizations (surprisingly, it is also common in the newer more "literate" generation). What I mean by that is, when we make generalizations, we often isolate a variable with no justifications just so we can apply it across the board.

Here are some examples:

1. Most guys here in Ethiopia get furious at the mention of the word "feminism". They often pivot around the common trend of unauthoritative but loud tiktokers who are straight-up misandrist while the core concept of feminism circles around equal rights, opportunities and treatments of all genders. Just look at a vent that talks about feminism in this channel and I guarantee you, most assumptions have this idea of women demanding more while none of the vents carry anything suggestive of that ideology. Feminism is an abstract thing, how it pans out entirely depends on who is operating it and the concept of women demanding unfair rights loses points of relevance as long as the women that are carrying out the movement have equal rights in mind.

2. The mere mention of the legalization of homosexuality is guaranteed to generate some heat and the most prominent argument is the false parallel that is drawn between the legalization of homosexuality and the rise of male rape and pedophilia. The real question is, what is even the relevance of that law being written to the occurrence of these crimes? If that claim was logically sound, it should also follow that straight marriage should be banned because it "normalizes" rape towards women and pedophilia towards girls. Just because there are incidences of some terrible people disgustingly raping young boys, doesn't mean the mere legalization of homosexuality will lead to the rise in these crimes.

3. And this is probably the most destructive one "a certified professional within the realm of x profession wasn't able to help me so that profession must be unreliable". This is usually common in healthcare where patients usually consult a physician when it is already too late and subsequent complications or death will be attributed to doctors being incompetent. Or in a more "valid" sounding but invalid way, a patient that had a bad experience with one doctor will avoid going to hospitals as a whole.


Here is the conclusion I am trying to get at, generalization is good in some cases, it is how we as a species survive but human competence lies in identifying the correct variable to draw a generalization on. The variable worth generalizing in the feminist case isn't being a feminist, it is being uninformed about the ideology itself. In the second case the variable that is worth generalizing isn't being gay, it is being a criminal/terrible person. In the third case the problem isn't modern healthcare, it is professional incompetence from a few select doctors.

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So someone said when a girl is nice to a guy he thinks she's flirting with him or attracted to him because a guy dont like to be nice to girls they dont find attractive. N that shit clicked so hard cuz damn its too real the amount of times I was just being nice(humanly kind) to a guy they feel like i like em n try to flirt n shit😭😭
you lot make me sickkkkkk(with british accent n all)

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everything is lie there is no real friend every single person u met is temporary and theyre jealous of u when u perfom better than them bro only ur dad and ur bro loves u when are better than them brooo frienddsssssss omgg they really don want u get succeed i concluded this i may hv friemds but i am liar and they re pretty liar too u can find a friend but deep down he is jealous bro i don know may be amm wrong or may be am crazy or may be its truth.
hate life

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M25, So am kinda numb right now,

Here is the situation am in, my little sister(19) has been acting up lately and my parents has been telling me she going in the wrong direction and I should intervene, she respects me the most and I always try to be on her side on whatever family drama. She come to me to openly complain about them which I would mostly agree with her and try to cheer her up. They recently found out she has been sneaking around with someone who is kinda not relative but seen as family and they come to me with evidence. She doesn’t know that I know but they have told her to immediately stop contact with him and he was vanished from the family. Now for some reason they believed she is still in contact with him and asked me to tap her phone, I was so furious she did that in the first place and she kept contact so I tapped her phone and saw things I wish i never did and that my little sister would do such things, apparently there is another guy she kinda in relationship with but from the texts the guy is clearly using her for sex. Currently am sitting with this information and told my parents she is not contacting him and all is good but how do I stop her without embarrassing/traumatizing her? I don’t know what do at this point and any advice would be helpful.

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26M here, I've never been in a relationship, never even had my first kiss. And yeah… I do crave that connection sometimes not just anything casual, but something real, someone who could actually be a future partner. But at the same time, that's not all thats been on my mind. For the past 2 years or so I've been focused on getting my life together, chasing money, trying to build something solid. Because of that, I haven't really been socializing much... Recently, I went back to my hometown and helping with my father's business. One day, a girl came by to buy food for a hen they had for the holiday. She didn't really know what she was doing which was kind of funny... i mean hens eat anything. And she was coming from church, looking tired and all. So I offered her a place to sit. She sat down, we talked for a bit, nothing crazy… just a simple conversation. Then she bought what she needed and left.
But she seemed… nice.
I've always told myself I don’t really have a "type" I used to believe looks alone aren't a reason to be with someone and I still believe that, mostly. But this time felt a little different. I actually wanted to get to know her more… mnamn. Still, I didn’t ask for her number, not because I was shy… I don't think that's it. If I'm being honest, I think it's because I don’t feel ready to be with someone yet. I've always had this idea that I need to be stable first like I should have my life in order before bringing someone else into it.
I used to think people could get into a relationship and figure things out together as they move forward. But these days… I don't really see it that way anymore.
Then, about three days later, I saw her again. She was just passing by the shop. She didn't say hi… but we looked at each other. For a moment, it felt like there was something there. I wanted to talk to her but I was with customers.
And that was it. Just wanted to let this out before it gets buried somewhere deep in my thoughts.

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Soo guys i met this guy who is nice not on the looks but he is caring and loving he helped me with some financial problems without even meeting me and i didn't even asked mnamn so the thing is he said he liked oral sex and i said ok but now he wants to make avideo when we meet but also he says he's gonna marry me mnamn and i got confused guys i don't wanna do it but also i know there are things i must compromise in relationship
He said that he wants me he's kind of stable financially overall he is like the person i imagine to marry but idk endet endemadrg

Pls help me what should I do

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Hi guys I'm here to ask for sth ridiculous so when I was in 5th grade i went to this school called kids paradise it's around bole atlas it was in 2011 EC but afterwards the situation wasn't good for my family so we moved to mekelle and I lost contact with my friends. Now ik it's going to sound weird to be searching for ppl from 5th grade but try to understand please anyways I'm really desperate to reconnect speciallyyyyy with the boy called Elnathan we had some history and I want to just talk to him atleast one i gotta fulfill my promise too and I'm a girl btw so if anyone knows anything please share thanks in advance 💗

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I've been thinking about this for a while now: many dudes are somewhat okay with casual sex. I want to assume that it's the opposite for girls but, who are all these dudes sleeping with then?

I know that's not the best case scenario. Most people want to have a good romantic relationship that leads to marriage. If possible, they'd wait until they're married for sex. Otherwise they'd have sex before they get married. Either way it's confined within the romantic space and that's somewhat socially acceptable.

This vent is not to ask about what's normal or acceptable. I am curious about those who'd be up for sex (or physical intimacy like making out or touching each other) outside of romantic relationships: people who aren't bf/gf, fiance, or husband/wife.

I think I have the perspective of what it feels like to be a guy, and I hear enough stories to know that guys would like to have casual sex. I also know that girls say they wouldn't, even though they have the same capability to be horny.

I want to hear from girls about this so please let me know in the comments if you're a girl and still don't mind having physical intimacy with someone who's not a romantic partner.

For others, please keep the comments judgement-free, and don't be a jerk to others. I'm trying to collect a new perspective here.

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Do you think I should try harder to get his attention? 🥺 I really like him, and I can’t stop thinking about him 💭💕 It’s something new for me. But he hasn’t made any effort to talk to me 😔 Do guys not like girls like this? What if I tell him how I feel? 🙈 He’s also kind of religious (Orthodox)..

Btw I'm 23F, and I’ve never been in a relationship before... I’ve never really met anyone who attracted me 😭

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😩በበዓል ያለ የስራ ብዛት አይጣል። ለዚሁም ዋይ ዋይ ይባልለታል በየሚዲያው በቃ፣ ወገባችንም እቺን ሰምታ ነው መሰል ባጎነበስን ቁጥር ቀጭ ቋ ትላለች። እናላቹ ጠዋት የቤት ጽዳት ከግድግዳው እሰከ በሩ ጀርባ፣ምንጣፉ አይቀር ወለሉ😁 በአዘቦቱ ተነክተው የማያውቁ  ጥጋጥጎች ቦርቡሬ፣ ሶፋ አንሸራትቼ፣ ቲቪ ተሸክሜ፣ነቃቅዬ ድጋማሜ ሰካክቼ። ትንሽ የተናፈሰለት ድካም እህትየው በምትከፍተው  የበዓል ዘፈን  ዘራፍ እያልኩኝ ሳባርር፣ ቀልዱ ሳቁ ስድቡ 😁ብቻ አለቀ። ቡና እና ቆንጆ የመጨረሻ የጾም ምሳ  መስታወቂያ ላይ እንደምንያው ሀይል ሰጪ መጠጥ ( አዎ ልክ መስታወቂያው ላይ እንምናው የተጋነነ ሀይል) አበርትተውኝ ለቁሌትና ለኩሽናው ወረድንለት ላይ ታች ስል በሃሳብ ስዋትት፣ "ሽንኩርቱ በሰለ ነይ አንቺ እይሊኝ" (ልጅ ለእናቷ ምጥ አስተማረች የኛ ነው) "እረ ቆይ ትንሽ አብስዪ (እኔ ስሞጣሞጥ)። ብቻ ብለን ብለን ዕቃ አጠባ ላይ ደረስን ብርታቴ እያለቀች ነው። ባይደክመኝም ገና የዋናው ዕለት የሚጠብቀኝ ስራ እያሰብኩኝ በብድር እደክማለው። ለማማመር ቃላቶቼን እያሰናዳው፣ በእጄ እቃዎቼን እያሸው ....

"አንቺ ነይ እይው እስቲ"  ከነአረፋዬ መነሳት፣ ግማሽ መንገድ ስደርስ፣ "በዛውም ያንን ዕቃ አምጪ እስቲ" በእሳት ላይ በንዚን ማለት ይሄ አይደል? ኩርቱ ፌስታል የማይችለውን ሌንቦጭ ደፍቼ ተመለስኩ(ፌስታሉም ተከልክሏል የሚታፈስ ቢሆን በምኔ ልይዝ ነው? ግን አስባቹሁታል ባኮረፋቹ ቁጥር የሚዘረጠጠው ሌንቦጭ መታፈስ ቢኖርበት?😂ማንም አያኮርፍም ነበር) ከዛማ በመሃል መንገድ ቆሜ ከእጆቼ ድንቡጭ ያሉ ሁለት አረፋዎችን አየሁኝ ለምን በአፌ ትንፋሽ እንዳበረርኳቸው አላውቅም፣ ከጣቶቼ ሰፈፍ ብለው ወረዱ "ሳይፈነዱ!!" ከመሬት ደርሰውም አልጠፉም ኩፍፍ እንዳሉ  ቁጭ። ከማላውቀው አለም ገባሁኝ፣ ከልጅነት አለም....

ልጅ እያለሁኝ እነዚህን ፈረንጆች bubble 🫧 (በኛ አረፋ ነው መሰል የሚባሉት)የሚሉትን ነገር ለነፍሴ ነበር የምወዳቸው። እጄ ሳሙና በገባ ቁጥር እነሱን ሰርቶ በአየር ለማንሳፈፍ ሞት ስቅሌን ነው የማየው። (ማዘሯ  ወላ የእጅ ሳሙናዋ ወላ የእቃ ማጠቢያዋ ሳሙናዋ  በየሳምንቱ በዚ እንደሚያልቅ ብታውቅ አሁን እኔን ከሞቀንጠጥ ወደኋላ አትልም) እናላቹ እሱ ሁላ አልበቃኝ ብሎ  ለእሱ ተብለው የሚሰሩትን መጫወቻ ሁላ አስገዝቻለሁኝ😂 አይይ ልጅነት!! ደሞ የክፋቱ ክፋት ለኔ ሲሆን አይቻቸው ሳልጠቅብ ገና ቡልቅ ብለው ወጥተው ፍንድት! አቤት ንዴቴ ማነቅ ቢቻልና ባንቃቸው እንባዬ የሚመጣበት ቀን ሁላ አለ። በቃ ቡሎልኝ ደሞ መሬት እስኪደርሱ ሲንሳፈፉ በቃ እንደ አየር ቀለው፣ ጸሐይ  ሲነካቸው በቀለም ደምቀው ሲሽቀረቀሩ፣በቃ በዚም በዚያም ተሽከርክረው ወደታች ሲዞሩ አስማት ነበር ሚመስሉኝ። ውስጤን እንደሞሉት ሁሉ አብሬ የምንሳፈፍ ነበር ሚመስለኝ፣ እኔም በቀለም እንደመኩኝ አይነት ነገር። 


በቃ በዚ ዋዜማ በውሸት ተዳክሜ እያየኋቸው፣ የልጅነቴን ስሜት በአዋቂ ልቤ ፈለኩኝ። አገሰራሞቴ አረፋው ካለመንሳፈፉ ብቻ ሳይሆን የልጅነቴን ደስታ ከማጣቴ ነው። ከእጄ ኡፍፍፍ ብዬ ሳባርራቸው ጉጉቴ  የነበረው ውስጤ ሊፈጠር የነበረውን ደስታ በመጠበቅ ነው ....በያንስ በዛ ደስታ ኩርፌዬን  ለመሰብሰብ(ፌስታል የለማ😁) ግን ደስታዬም የለም ልጅነቴም አድጋ ትልቅ ወይዘሪት ሆናለች፣ አረፋዎቹም ቀለም የላቸውም (በእርግጥም ጸሐይ አልነካቻቸውም) ..ውስጤ ሲቀየር ይሰማኛል፣ የነበረኝ ሲያመልጠኝ በሌላ ሲተካ

"አንቺ ሞዛዛ አታመጪም?" 😂 ወይኔ ድካም ወንድ ብሆን ኖሮ እግሬን ሰቅዬ እቀመጥ ነበር ።

መልካም ፋሲካ ይሁንላቹ❤️❤️

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Ok the thing is that due to yest infection at home I stopped wearing underwear and one day in a hurry I forgot to wear underwear and went out of the house wearing a dress. The thing is that I liked it and done it a few times and now I do it more often so is it bad? Am I the only one?

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Im a 26 year old guy i am is it me that have grudges on his family like because of previous things they did i always felt isolated with them i haven't been seen as a mature person in their eyes they always hated my ideas telling me i don't understand when i even wanted to make best memories with them it should be on their terms other than that they won't accept it the thing is when i get angry specially on sundays can u help me please i would appreciate it

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Guys please hasabachun ende tanash ehtachu argachu mkerugn wede adiss abab move lareg new ke beteseb teleyche ena menorbet bet ale ye akste bet ena 2 cousinochem abrew new move migaregut(wendoch nachew) keza lela setm alech zemed neger ena ahun ke beal behuala lehed new ena gizew siders ferahu chenekegn gena ahun new graduate yarwkut ena real life endehone sasb chenekegn eski ebakachu mkerugn negerochn liyakelelegn michl neger mnamn mkerugn eza makachew sewoch alu boyfriendem ale cousinochem alu ye gbi jeleoschm yimetalu gn ferahu

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Im a 19 year old female
And im having a hard time with my life rightnow i feel like nothingis working as its supposed to be
I feel like my life is falling apart im on my second year in uni studying computer science and its hell this is my last semester and i have no idea what subjects im taking or what are they about my first semester i tried to cheat on an exam becuz i had no idea what to do so i did and i got caught and they put me in a disciplinary council and i got away with it becuz i denied what happened and they believed me
And this semester i tried cheating again on a test and i got caught this morning and got my paper snatched away and lets not talk about the embarrassment ugh im still convincing myself its all a bad dream
This Thursday i have two tests which i clearly have no idea what they’re about
And the reason im like this becuz my parents forced me into doing this major
Back then i had no idea what i wanted to study but its sure as hell not something that will consume me
And for the first time in my life i have a goal which is studying what j really want abroad and i talked to my parents about it and after multiple draining sessions with my parents i ended up convincing them i started preparing everything and then yay daddy dearest changed his mind he now wants me to complete my bachelor degree in my home country and then go abroad and studdy another major if i want to
Im still trying yo change his mind i told him thag i couldn’t do it anymore its all too much not just my studies but my whole life especially the toxic ppl i was surrounded with
U see i feel like shit becuz i did everything i can to get out of this toxic environment but nothing seems to be working
And right now im thinking of what i could do to finish this year before it finishes me
Im always on high alert im wondering when will i ever be at peace not thinking about anything at all.

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I really like this girl, but I haven’t told her… and I don’t even know why.

The funny part is, when I’m in a good mood, I turn into some kind of charm machine. I talk, I joke, girls are smiling… everything just flows. But the moment it’s her? Suddenly I forget how to act like a normal human being.

It’s like my confidence just packs its bags and disappears.

I start overthinking everything — what to say, how to say it, whether I should even say anything at all. And instead of doing something simple like telling her, I just stand there like I’m buffering.

So yeah… I just keep it to myself, acting normal on the outside while my brain is running 100 different scenarios.

At this point I’m just wondering… do I tell her, or continue my career as a professional overthinker?

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18M here maybe am the ine who fumble he's all tsom time akfay neberku curch skeds nebr yadrkut yhedkut wt ma girl besties nebr then 9 sat snweta gbiw wst honn N i start having bad idea ... dirty idea i start to squeeze her boob and even be netla tesfhe i suck it🤦🏽‍♂️ it's nice at the time but now i regret it even tsomu biftam ahun regret lay neg frr N am not flexing here gn guys sometimes aymroacn emyamtawn idea mekotatr melmd alebn😭

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​Does anyone else know the feeling of missing out on new things/experiences in life? Everything in my personal life feels stagnant. I will turn 30 this April, yet I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I have known two men's in ma life, but z experiences with both were disappointing and not as what I expected. 

Bzw i lost my v when I am 25. Till that I am a very reserved women and I don't expect to lose my v that way. But due to different reasons i let that happen. I can't forgive myself for that decision. What bothers me alot is I can't get true love from both of them and I am confused how my life is going like this. I need some one by my side who give me love and I give him back..........

I am a kind of women everyone says 'abet balsh tadlo' ...........
I am not good at social media's, I am not good at chatting with guys, ..........so I ask myself may be I am not going the same with current system or may be I am so much reserved, how people get in to relationship,  .......what makes me a lonely single girl???? I am confused guys, say something
Thank you for reading this confused txt😁😁

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