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Everday I keep breaking down in the middle of my shift, my coworkers see my eyes red and keep asking if im tired.
Shes going out and having fun like nothing happened, I guess what we had didn't mean as much to her. I can't believe she broke up with me.
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Everday I keep breaking down in the middle of my shift, my coworkers see my eyes red and keep asking if im tired.
Shes going out and having fun like nothing happened, I guess what we had didn't mean as much to her. I can't believe she broke up with me.
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แฐแแ แฅแแดแต แแน แแฌ แแแณแฝแแ แแแ แแ แ แแณ แจแแแน แแแตแแฝ แ แ แจแแตแแฉ แฅแ แฅแฎแ แ แแฝแ แฅแแ แ แแ แแญ แแแแฃ แ แตแ แแ แแแ แฅแจแแฐ แฒแแฃ แแ แตแแฝ แแซแตแจแแ แแแญ แแ แแ แแ แแฐแแน แแฐแแฝ แขแแฉแแ(แแแซแ แแฐแแฝ) แแแญ แแ แ แแณ แจแแ แแฐแแฝ แจแแแ แฅแ แฅแฃแซแฝแ แ แฃแ แตแแจแแแ แแ แแฐแฃแ แจแ แจแแฝแ แซแ แ แแตแฅ แ แแแฉแ แแแตแแน แฐแจแแแซแแ แ แแต แจแแแแธแ แญแญแตแฒแซแ แแฐแแผแ แณแแแญ แ แ แแ แ แฐแญแ 9 แแญ แแ แจแแจแ แ แแแ แจแแฅ แแฐแ แฅแแแแแ แ แแแฉแ am 26 btw
The main point is แแ แจแแแแ แ แ แแค แจแแแ แแแตแ แแแแแ
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แฐแแ แฅแแดแต แแน แแฌ แแแณแฝแแ แแแ แแ แ แแณ แจแแแน แแแตแแฝ แ แ แจแแตแแฉ แฅแ แฅแฎแ แ แแฝแ แฅแแ แ แแ แแญ แแแแฃ แ แตแ แแ แแแ แฅแจแแฐ แฒแแฃ แแ แตแแฝ แแซแตแจแแ แแแญ แแ แแ แแ แแฐแแน แแฐแแฝ แขแแฉแแ(แแแซแ แแฐแแฝ) แแแญ แแ แ แแณ แจแแ แแฐแแฝ แจแแแ แฅแ แฅแฃแซแฝแ แ แฃแ แตแแจแแแ แแ แแฐแฃแ แจแ แจแแฝแ แซแ แ แแตแฅ แ แแแฉแ แแแตแแน แฐแจแแแซแแ แ แแต แจแแแแธแ แญแญแตแฒแซแ แแฐแแผแ แณแแแญ แ แ แแ แ แฐแญแ 9 แแญ แแ แจแแจแ แ แแแ แจแแฅ แแฐแ แฅแแแแแ แ แแแฉแ am 26 btw
The main point is แแ แจแแแแ แ แ แแค แจแแแ แแแตแ แแแแแ
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Hi
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And the thing is i have super severe period cramp ena like yalhedkubet hekmna yelm ena hulum get married and have kids endza nachew ena ke gize wede gize eyebasbge new guys ena lzi teblo ahun family arranged marraige linorge new ig ( its normal in muslim community) i dont know what to do
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And the thing is i have super severe period cramp ena like yalhedkubet hekmna yelm ena hulum get married and have kids endza nachew ena ke gize wede gize eyebasbge new guys ena lzi teblo ahun family arranged marraige linorge new ig ( its normal in muslim community) i dont know what to do
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Guys mn endechnekeng tawkalachu egziyabher fekdo tedar keseteng privacy mnamn mibalew neger chenkongal the first one abren ketengan behuwala how am going to see his eyes huletengaw period mnamn simeta lebsen binekaw mnamn siyameng lelaw toilet segeba beka privacy mnm yelem ena endet nw yehe neger milemedew
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Guys mn endechnekeng tawkalachu egziyabher fekdo tedar keseteng privacy mnamn mibalew neger chenkongal the first one abren ketengan behuwala how am going to see his eyes huletengaw period mnamn simeta lebsen binekaw mnamn siyameng lelaw toilet segeba beka privacy mnm yelem ena endet nw yehe neger milemedew
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As you know the entrance exam is in 2 months and Iโm feeling overwhelmed and confused what should I do my academics are going down the hill and I havenโt covered all the topics Iโm getting anxious my parents expect a lot from me can you guys give me tips
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As you know the entrance exam is in 2 months and Iโm feeling overwhelmed and confused what should I do my academics are going down the hill and I havenโt covered all the topics Iโm getting anxious my parents expect a lot from me can you guys give me tips
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Urgenttttโผ๏ธ
There is this girl that confess about her virginity stuff yesterday at aau confession and that's literally my story too. There was this guy I met at university he was my first...I had no idea about anything sexual then I met him we make out every night like at uni in some darker place we kissed fingered and we make out most of the time with my pants on because I don't feel comfortable about the touching. And honestly I don't enjoy any of it because as I realized it now I wasn't in love. But one day we were out for dinner and he got a room to surprise me then we kissed and make out like naked and he asked me to penetrate but I said nooo and he was okay he did it slowly like pushing we actually practiced sex with out doing it but the thing is when he push me on the end part in the hymen idk I feel pain like not that deep but uncomfortable only in the middle the tip part that I enjoy...then we did it all night like I can't get enough of it I just want to be pressed the tip non stop and he went Down to that part I stopped him and he said me endezi ko atchershim enat lgba chafun bcha chafun bcha eyale btam rub aregegn like not that hard tho honestly I didn't enjoy it as I thought it will be then no blood no that much pain then he buy me postpill and I went to class after that idk mayb it's bcoz I haven't observed it before buy there is structural change of mine like the leaf part idk the name the 1 side gets a bit bigger and moved to one side but still my thing is small...I consider my self as a virgin we broke up 3 4 yrs ago and I haven't dated after bcoz I hate the process and this thing I barely have sexual feeling now like I nearly puke when I think it....what do you think if I met someone now I will say I am virgin is that a problem because I am right what is the actual feeling of losing a virginity please I wanna know what will happen I was walking normally I saw people siyaneksu mnamn no blood...what bothers me is the idea of him I was so immature and Jil when i did it i really regret it I wasn't in love I like him mayb but because I haven't had a male friend even in my life I mistakenly take him talking me as a love mind you I am the beautiful girl in campus you will literally know who I am if I tell you the uni. But it doesn't matter I was saved from him he was manuplative
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There is this girl that confess about her virginity stuff yesterday at aau confession and that's literally my story too. There was this guy I met at university he was my first...I had no idea about anything sexual then I met him we make out every night like at uni in some darker place we kissed fingered and we make out most of the time with my pants on because I don't feel comfortable about the touching. And honestly I don't enjoy any of it because as I realized it now I wasn't in love. But one day we were out for dinner and he got a room to surprise me then we kissed and make out like naked and he asked me to penetrate but I said nooo and he was okay he did it slowly like pushing we actually practiced sex with out doing it but the thing is when he push me on the end part in the hymen idk I feel pain like not that deep but uncomfortable only in the middle the tip part that I enjoy...then we did it all night like I can't get enough of it I just want to be pressed the tip non stop and he went Down to that part I stopped him and he said me endezi ko atchershim enat lgba chafun bcha chafun bcha eyale btam rub aregegn like not that hard tho honestly I didn't enjoy it as I thought it will be then no blood no that much pain then he buy me postpill and I went to class after that idk mayb it's bcoz I haven't observed it before buy there is structural change of mine like the leaf part idk the name the 1 side gets a bit bigger and moved to one side but still my thing is small...I consider my self as a virgin we broke up 3 4 yrs ago and I haven't dated after bcoz I hate the process and this thing I barely have sexual feeling now like I nearly puke when I think it....what do you think if I met someone now I will say I am virgin is that a problem because I am right what is the actual feeling of losing a virginity please I wanna know what will happen I was walking normally I saw people siyaneksu mnamn no blood...what bothers me is the idea of him I was so immature and Jil when i did it i really regret it I wasn't in love I like him mayb but because I haven't had a male friend even in my life I mistakenly take him talking me as a love mind you I am the beautiful girl in campus you will literally know who I am if I tell you the uni. But it doesn't matter I was saved from him he was manuplative
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Me hate all ๐ซฉ. Me hated it ๐. Guy promise world๐. Guy lied๐ก.Guy treat me like shit๐ฉ. Guy using me ๐ฅฑ. Me need money ๐ช. Me count good sun days ๐. Me leave soon ๐. Guy think me love him ๐. Me wait no more ๐ฟ.
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Me hate all ๐ซฉ. Me hated it ๐. Guy promise world๐. Guy lied๐ก.Guy treat me like shit๐ฉ. Guy using me ๐ฅฑ. Me need money ๐ช. Me count good sun days ๐. Me leave soon ๐. Guy think me love him ๐. Me wait no more ๐ฟ.
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This is supposed to be a reflection of my observation of societal norms in our country and if you feel offended by it, I unfortunately just recommend you to scroll past this. If you see a flaw in my logic then I am open to challenges. These are patterns I noticed from my daily interactions with people who are close to me as well as online platforms where Ethiopians dominate (like this).
So, lately I have been trying to figure out why our society is so backwards and I observed a really common pattern that is shared by the average Ethiopian. Most of our opinions pivot around hasty generalizations (surprisingly, it is also common in the newer more "literate" generation). What I mean by that is, when we make generalizations, we often isolate a variable with no justifications just so we can apply it across the board.
Here are some examples:
1. Most guys here in Ethiopia get furious at the mention of the word "feminism". They often pivot around the common trend of unauthoritative but loud tiktokers who are straight-up misandrist while the core concept of feminism circles around equal rights, opportunities and treatments of all genders. Just look at a vent that talks about feminism in this channel and I guarantee you, most assumptions have this idea of women demanding more while none of the vents carry anything suggestive of that ideology. Feminism is an abstract thing, how it pans out entirely depends on who is operating it and the concept of women demanding unfair rights loses points of relevance as long as the women that are carrying out the movement have equal rights in mind.
2. The mere mention of the legalization of homosexuality is guaranteed to generate some heat and the most prominent argument is the false parallel that is drawn between the legalization of homosexuality and the rise of male rape and pedophilia. The real question is, what is even the relevance of that law being written to the occurrence of these crimes? If that claim was logically sound, it should also follow that straight marriage should be banned because it "normalizes" rape towards women and pedophilia towards girls. Just because there are incidences of some terrible people disgustingly raping young boys, doesn't mean the mere legalization of homosexuality will lead to the rise in these crimes.
3. And this is probably the most destructive one "a certified professional within the realm of x profession wasn't able to help me so that profession must be unreliable". This is usually common in healthcare where patients usually consult a physician when it is already too late and subsequent complications or death will be attributed to doctors being incompetent. Or in a more "valid" sounding but invalid way, a patient that had a bad experience with one doctor will avoid going to hospitals as a whole.
Here is the conclusion I am trying to get at, generalization is good in some cases, it is how we as a species survive but human competence lies in identifying the correct variable to draw a generalization on. The variable worth generalizing in the feminist case isn't being a feminist, it is being uninformed about the ideology itself. In the second case the variable that is worth generalizing isn't being gay, it is being a criminal/terrible person. In the third case the problem isn't modern healthcare, it is professional incompetence from a few select doctors.
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This is supposed to be a reflection of my observation of societal norms in our country and if you feel offended by it, I unfortunately just recommend you to scroll past this. If you see a flaw in my logic then I am open to challenges. These are patterns I noticed from my daily interactions with people who are close to me as well as online platforms where Ethiopians dominate (like this).
So, lately I have been trying to figure out why our society is so backwards and I observed a really common pattern that is shared by the average Ethiopian. Most of our opinions pivot around hasty generalizations (surprisingly, it is also common in the newer more "literate" generation). What I mean by that is, when we make generalizations, we often isolate a variable with no justifications just so we can apply it across the board.
Here are some examples:
1. Most guys here in Ethiopia get furious at the mention of the word "feminism". They often pivot around the common trend of unauthoritative but loud tiktokers who are straight-up misandrist while the core concept of feminism circles around equal rights, opportunities and treatments of all genders. Just look at a vent that talks about feminism in this channel and I guarantee you, most assumptions have this idea of women demanding more while none of the vents carry anything suggestive of that ideology. Feminism is an abstract thing, how it pans out entirely depends on who is operating it and the concept of women demanding unfair rights loses points of relevance as long as the women that are carrying out the movement have equal rights in mind.
2. The mere mention of the legalization of homosexuality is guaranteed to generate some heat and the most prominent argument is the false parallel that is drawn between the legalization of homosexuality and the rise of male rape and pedophilia. The real question is, what is even the relevance of that law being written to the occurrence of these crimes? If that claim was logically sound, it should also follow that straight marriage should be banned because it "normalizes" rape towards women and pedophilia towards girls. Just because there are incidences of some terrible people disgustingly raping young boys, doesn't mean the mere legalization of homosexuality will lead to the rise in these crimes.
3. And this is probably the most destructive one "a certified professional within the realm of x profession wasn't able to help me so that profession must be unreliable". This is usually common in healthcare where patients usually consult a physician when it is already too late and subsequent complications or death will be attributed to doctors being incompetent. Or in a more "valid" sounding but invalid way, a patient that had a bad experience with one doctor will avoid going to hospitals as a whole.
Here is the conclusion I am trying to get at, generalization is good in some cases, it is how we as a species survive but human competence lies in identifying the correct variable to draw a generalization on. The variable worth generalizing in the feminist case isn't being a feminist, it is being uninformed about the ideology itself. In the second case the variable that is worth generalizing isn't being gay, it is being a criminal/terrible person. In the third case the problem isn't modern healthcare, it is professional incompetence from a few select doctors.
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So someone said when a girl is nice to a guy he thinks she's flirting with him or attracted to him because a guy dont like to be nice to girls they dont find attractive. N that shit clicked so hard cuz damn its too real the amount of times I was just being nice(humanly kind) to a guy they feel like i like em n try to flirt n shit๐ญ๐ญ
you lot make me sickkkkkk(with british accent n all)
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So someone said when a girl is nice to a guy he thinks she's flirting with him or attracted to him because a guy dont like to be nice to girls they dont find attractive. N that shit clicked so hard cuz damn its too real the amount of times I was just being nice(humanly kind) to a guy they feel like i like em n try to flirt n shit๐ญ๐ญ
you lot make me sickkkkkk(with british accent n all)
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everything is lie there is no real friend every single person u met is temporary and theyre jealous of u when u perfom better than them bro only ur dad and ur bro loves u when are better than them brooo frienddsssssss omgg they really don want u get succeed i concluded this i may hv friemds but i am liar and they re pretty liar too u can find a friend but deep down he is jealous bro i don know may be amm wrong or may be am crazy or may be its truth.
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everything is lie there is no real friend every single person u met is temporary and theyre jealous of u when u perfom better than them bro only ur dad and ur bro loves u when are better than them brooo frienddsssssss omgg they really don want u get succeed i concluded this i may hv friemds but i am liar and they re pretty liar too u can find a friend but deep down he is jealous bro i don know may be amm wrong or may be am crazy or may be its truth.
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M25, So am kinda numb right now,
Here is the situation am in, my little sister(19) has been acting up lately and my parents has been telling me she going in the wrong direction and I should intervene, she respects me the most and I always try to be on her side on whatever family drama. She come to me to openly complain about them which I would mostly agree with her and try to cheer her up. They recently found out she has been sneaking around with someone who is kinda not relative but seen as family and they come to me with evidence. She doesnโt know that I know but they have told her to immediately stop contact with him and he was vanished from the family. Now for some reason they believed she is still in contact with him and asked me to tap her phone, I was so furious she did that in the first place and she kept contact so I tapped her phone and saw things I wish i never did and that my little sister would do such things, apparently there is another guy she kinda in relationship with but from the texts the guy is clearly using her for sex. Currently am sitting with this information and told my parents she is not contacting him and all is good but how do I stop her without embarrassing/traumatizing her? I donโt know what do at this point and any advice would be helpful.
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M25, So am kinda numb right now,
Here is the situation am in, my little sister(19) has been acting up lately and my parents has been telling me she going in the wrong direction and I should intervene, she respects me the most and I always try to be on her side on whatever family drama. She come to me to openly complain about them which I would mostly agree with her and try to cheer her up. They recently found out she has been sneaking around with someone who is kinda not relative but seen as family and they come to me with evidence. She doesnโt know that I know but they have told her to immediately stop contact with him and he was vanished from the family. Now for some reason they believed she is still in contact with him and asked me to tap her phone, I was so furious she did that in the first place and she kept contact so I tapped her phone and saw things I wish i never did and that my little sister would do such things, apparently there is another guy she kinda in relationship with but from the texts the guy is clearly using her for sex. Currently am sitting with this information and told my parents she is not contacting him and all is good but how do I stop her without embarrassing/traumatizing her? I donโt know what do at this point and any advice would be helpful.
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