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was thinking and ended up here 😭✨ like where are u my person my best friend 🤭 I really like when someone is both like we laugh at absolutely nothing then randomly switch into those deep 2am 3am convos about life existence random theories 🤓 yeah a lil nerdy I like that one minute we’re unserious next minute we’re overanalyzing everything like a whole thesis no one asked for 😭 someone I can be like a raven with 🐦⬛ like we just get each other without doing too much uk 🤍 soft energy no stress no weird games just good energy tbh 😌 and that connection where even if I turn my back I still feel u there like yeah that’s my person 🤭 also if u tell me we went to the moon I might actually argue and say idk sounds fake 😭😂 don’t start explaining all the astronomy behind it like I’m in class 😭 but I’ll listen anyway just make it make sense to me 🤓✨ if I find u fr it’s not taking months to figure it out iykyk 😭 if u’re the one u’re the one 🫶🏽 like Rumi said what u seek is seeking u so if u’re mine u’ll find ur way to me inshaAllah 🤍 people always say “that’s personality not a type” 😭 like okay yes tall and handsome is a type too but this… this is my type 🤭 so… what took u so long 😭😌🌸
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was thinking and ended up here 😭✨ like where are u my person my best friend 🤭 I really like when someone is both like we laugh at absolutely nothing then randomly switch into those deep 2am 3am convos about life existence random theories 🤓 yeah a lil nerdy I like that one minute we’re unserious next minute we’re overanalyzing everything like a whole thesis no one asked for 😭 someone I can be like a raven with 🐦⬛ like we just get each other without doing too much uk 🤍 soft energy no stress no weird games just good energy tbh 😌 and that connection where even if I turn my back I still feel u there like yeah that’s my person 🤭 also if u tell me we went to the moon I might actually argue and say idk sounds fake 😭😂 don’t start explaining all the astronomy behind it like I’m in class 😭 but I’ll listen anyway just make it make sense to me 🤓✨ if I find u fr it’s not taking months to figure it out iykyk 😭 if u’re the one u’re the one 🫶🏽 like Rumi said what u seek is seeking u so if u’re mine u’ll find ur way to me inshaAllah 🤍 people always say “that’s personality not a type” 😭 like okay yes tall and handsome is a type too but this… this is my type 🤭 so… what took u so long 😭😌🌸
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 I am ኤምራኬል𓅼 I need to vent ርዕስ 🫠🫠🫠🫠 እጠብቅሽ ነበር እንደ ዓመት ጉባኤ ልይዝሽ እሻ ነበር እንደ ማርያም ሱባኤ ብስምሽ አምሮቴ እንደ ቀሲስ መስቀል ደስ ይለኝ ነበር ወዝሽን ብፀበል ........ አከበርኩሽ እንደ ታቦት አመለኩሽ እንደ ጣኦት እመኝ ነበር ብሆን የአንገትሽ ነጠላ ዘንድሮ ግን እንጃ ልቤ አንቺን ጠላ ....... ዛሬ ግን ብትበሪ ለጸሎቴ…
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❤️🩹ዛሬ ግን የለችም💔
ይገርማል... ሰው ለካ እንዲህ ነው
እንዳዘነ አይሞትም እንደሳቀ አይኖርም
ሰው ሚያየውን እንጂ የልብን አያውቅም
--- በቃኮ ሞታለች አለፈች ተባለ
ያሁሉ ምግባሯ በጠቢባን ቀለም እንደዚህ ተሳለ
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ያው እንዳማረባት እንደተሞሸረች
ሰው ሲቃዋን ሳያውቅ ሁሌ እንደሳቀች
በዛ ሁሉ ፈገግታ ህመም በሞላበት
ይሀው እንደሳቀች መቃብር ወሰዳት
አበባ ጎዝጉዤ ለምድር ሰጠዋት
እዩ ከንፈሯን እስኪ እዩ አይኖቿን
ምታውቋት ከሆነ የኔን ውድ ሟቿን
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....ዛሬ ግን የለችም....ከልቤ ሰሌዳ
ከነመወደድዋ ከነመጠላቷ ከነመነቀፏ
ላትመጣ ሄዳለች አበባ ታቅፋ
እኔም......
ጨክኜ ቀበርኳት በወደዳት ልቤ
ምን እንኳ ባልረሳት ባትወጣ ካሳቤ
ባይሆንልን እንኳን ተሞሽሮ ለመጋባት
በወደዳት ልቤ ሞሽሬ ቀበርኳት
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21/07/2018
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❤️🩹ዛሬ ግን የለችም💔
ይገርማል... ሰው ለካ እንዲህ ነው
እንዳዘነ አይሞትም እንደሳቀ አይኖርም
ሰው ሚያየውን እንጂ የልብን አያውቅም
--- በቃኮ ሞታለች አለፈች ተባለ
ያሁሉ ምግባሯ በጠቢባን ቀለም እንደዚህ ተሳለ
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ያው እንዳማረባት እንደተሞሸረች
ሰው ሲቃዋን ሳያውቅ ሁሌ እንደሳቀች
በዛ ሁሉ ፈገግታ ህመም በሞላበት
ይሀው እንደሳቀች መቃብር ወሰዳት
አበባ ጎዝጉዤ ለምድር ሰጠዋት
እዩ ከንፈሯን እስኪ እዩ አይኖቿን
ምታውቋት ከሆነ የኔን ውድ ሟቿን
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....ዛሬ ግን የለችም....ከልቤ ሰሌዳ
ከነመወደድዋ ከነመጠላቷ ከነመነቀፏ
ላትመጣ ሄዳለች አበባ ታቅፋ
እኔም......
ጨክኜ ቀበርኳት በወደዳት ልቤ
ምን እንኳ ባልረሳት ባትወጣ ካሳቤ
ባይሆንልን እንኳን ተሞሽሮ ለመጋባት
በወደዳት ልቤ ሞሽሬ ቀበርኳት
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21/07/2018
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So been a while since i have this urge of being Dominated by a women i have had previous encounters where i exchanged the power dynamics but now i want to fully submit and see how it feels to be under someone’s control and do as they please
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So been a while since i have this urge of being Dominated by a women i have had previous encounters where i exchanged the power dynamics but now i want to fully submit and see how it feels to be under someone’s control and do as they please
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M25 need to vent. Lately I’ve caught myself thinking about something I’ve never even experienced… and it’s starting to get frustrating.
I’ve never actually experienced a girl who likes to be in control… and that’s what’s been on my mind lately.
I know I’d like that energy — confident, bold, takes the lead without hesitation — but somehow I’ve never crossed paths with it.
Starting to wonder if it’s rare or I’ve just been looking in the wrong places.
So where are the dominant girls at? Do you actually exist, or am I just missing you?
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M25 need to vent. Lately I’ve caught myself thinking about something I’ve never even experienced… and it’s starting to get frustrating.
I’ve never actually experienced a girl who likes to be in control… and that’s what’s been on my mind lately.
I know I’d like that energy — confident, bold, takes the lead without hesitation — but somehow I’ve never crossed paths with it.
Starting to wonder if it’s rare or I’ve just been looking in the wrong places.
So where are the dominant girls at? Do you actually exist, or am I just missing you?
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Hello people,
M24
Straight to the point(question)
Is pausing(I'm not 100% sure to say stopping 😂) masturbation making me sane or insane?
Let me make it clear, I used to do that thing since a long time(not daily or mnamn gn yes a long time) and i remember going max a month without doing it. And i am starting again this time and it has been weeks but not a month, yet i still watch a lot of porn, i guess to trick my mind that I'm doing it🥲, and I am hating watching that stuff day by day, because no gain in it, no nutting, no regret
That sounds a good thing to me but at the same time I feel like I am also desensitizing myself, I'm horny like everyday and doing nothing about it. Will it drive me crazy at some point or is it part of the process.
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Hello people,
M24
Straight to the point(question)
Is pausing(I'm not 100% sure to say stopping 😂) masturbation making me sane or insane?
Let me make it clear, I used to do that thing since a long time(not daily or mnamn gn yes a long time) and i remember going max a month without doing it. And i am starting again this time and it has been weeks but not a month, yet i still watch a lot of porn, i guess to trick my mind that I'm doing it🥲, and I am hating watching that stuff day by day, because no gain in it, no nutting, no regret
That sounds a good thing to me but at the same time I feel like I am also desensitizing myself, I'm horny like everyday and doing nothing about it. Will it drive me crazy at some point or is it part of the process.
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Lol I used to think there were girls and boys in this channel but nowadays its only boys talking about some real thing and fake accounts.
I thought there will be some good girls that want to be good friends and talk about real things, but I'm seeing that this channel have fallen.
But if there are some girls out here I wanna say there are some good men in here and they wanna be heard and also can here. Thanks
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Lol I used to think there were girls and boys in this channel but nowadays its only boys talking about some real thing and fake accounts.
I thought there will be some good girls that want to be good friends and talk about real things, but I'm seeing that this channel have fallen.
But if there are some girls out here I wanna say there are some good men in here and they wanna be heard and also can here. Thanks
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"ከስር ደርቼ ድሪቶዬን፣ ከላይ ብለብሰው የፀዳውን፣
ሰው እንደሁ ሚያየው ፊቴን ፊቴን፣ ከልላለው ገመናዬን፣
ግን አንተ አትዋሽም፣ አትታለልም! አይንህ ዘልቆ ልብን ያያል።
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የተገለጠው ማንነቴ፣ ይኸው በፊትህ መድኃኒቴ፣
አቅም አጣሁኝ አግዘኝ፣ ያዘኝ ኃይልህን አልብሰኝ"
ጌታ መድሃኒቴ ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ሆይ፣ የኔን የተደበቀ ክምር ሃጥያት ረስቼ የልጆችህ ስህተት ላይ ለመጠቋቆም ስለደፈርኩ ይቅር በለኝ። አንተ ለእኔ ለማይገባኝ ሃጥያተኛ ይቅርታ አድርገህ ሳለህ እኔ ግን ለልጆችህ ይህንኑ ለማድረግ ባለመፍቀዴ ይቅር በለኝ። ከአንተ የመፅናናትን ቃላት ተቀብዬ ልጆችህ ላይ ግን የክፋትን ቃላት ለማውጣ፣ አንት የምትጠግን አምላኬ ሆነህ ሰባሪ ሰው ለሆንኩት ለእኔ ምህረትን አድርግልኝ። አንተ እኔን እስከ ሞት ድረስ ወደኸኝ ሳለህ እኔ ለልጆችህ ፍቅርን ለከለከልኩበት ይቅር በለኝ። በአንተ ስም እንደተጠራ፣ በአንተ ርህራሄ እንደታሰበ ሰው ላልተመላለስኩበት ጊዜ ሁሉ ይቅር በለኝ።
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"ከስር ደርቼ ድሪቶዬን፣ ከላይ ብለብሰው የፀዳውን፣
ሰው እንደሁ ሚያየው ፊቴን ፊቴን፣ ከልላለው ገመናዬን፣
ግን አንተ አትዋሽም፣ አትታለልም! አይንህ ዘልቆ ልብን ያያል።
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የተገለጠው ማንነቴ፣ ይኸው በፊትህ መድኃኒቴ፣
አቅም አጣሁኝ አግዘኝ፣ ያዘኝ ኃይልህን አልብሰኝ"
ጌታ መድሃኒቴ ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስ ሆይ፣ የኔን የተደበቀ ክምር ሃጥያት ረስቼ የልጆችህ ስህተት ላይ ለመጠቋቆም ስለደፈርኩ ይቅር በለኝ። አንተ ለእኔ ለማይገባኝ ሃጥያተኛ ይቅርታ አድርገህ ሳለህ እኔ ግን ለልጆችህ ይህንኑ ለማድረግ ባለመፍቀዴ ይቅር በለኝ። ከአንተ የመፅናናትን ቃላት ተቀብዬ ልጆችህ ላይ ግን የክፋትን ቃላት ለማውጣ፣ አንት የምትጠግን አምላኬ ሆነህ ሰባሪ ሰው ለሆንኩት ለእኔ ምህረትን አድርግልኝ። አንተ እኔን እስከ ሞት ድረስ ወደኸኝ ሳለህ እኔ ለልጆችህ ፍቅርን ለከለከልኩበት ይቅር በለኝ። በአንተ ስም እንደተጠራ፣ በአንተ ርህራሄ እንደታሰበ ሰው ላልተመላለስኩበት ጊዜ ሁሉ ይቅር በለኝ።
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What's up guys this is not a vent but a quetion Bteley setoch I need your help😭 U know how U R😅 so the thing is 3 years ago I had a crush on this girl😍 she is cute, beautifull (everyone wants to be with her) and funny (kawekuat behuala techawach nech), then we spend time together and I tald her that I had a crush on her and that I love her🙄 but uk setoch😭 she said she likes me as a friend ( demo enen blo afkari🤭) and then endemangnawum set she said we could be friends and I love her sooo much betam new mwedat so I sai yes🫠 after that it's been 3 years. 3 years of laugh, moments, so many memories together😊 but still I don't get her she always give me mixed signals😩 like she worries to much for me enat new mthonelegn☺️ and then cold thonalech mnm atnegregnem😒 sew hulu couple new mnmeslew even both our friends don't belive us (I wish it was true😅) but we're not. and on the top of that she even has a bf🤫 but she says she don't love him, ke esu gar mleyayet endemtfelig new mtnegregn gn she couldn't or wouldn't bicha the point is I'm loosing my mind.
So setoch please help your lil bro🥺 tell me what's on her mind🙏🙏🙏🥹🥹🥹
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What's up guys this is not a vent but a quetion Bteley setoch I need your help😭 U know how U R😅 so the thing is 3 years ago I had a crush on this girl😍 she is cute, beautifull (everyone wants to be with her) and funny (kawekuat behuala techawach nech), then we spend time together and I tald her that I had a crush on her and that I love her🙄 but uk setoch😭 she said she likes me as a friend ( demo enen blo afkari🤭) and then endemangnawum set she said we could be friends and I love her sooo much betam new mwedat so I sai yes🫠 after that it's been 3 years. 3 years of laugh, moments, so many memories together😊 but still I don't get her she always give me mixed signals😩 like she worries to much for me enat new mthonelegn☺️ and then cold thonalech mnm atnegregnem😒 sew hulu couple new mnmeslew even both our friends don't belive us (I wish it was true😅) but we're not. and on the top of that she even has a bf🤫 but she says she don't love him, ke esu gar mleyayet endemtfelig new mtnegregn gn she couldn't or wouldn't bicha the point is I'm loosing my mind.
So setoch please help your lil bro🥺 tell me what's on her mind🙏🙏🙏🥹🥹🥹
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22 M...I have to write this because I am about to implode.
I am a chronic gooning addict, been doing it since I was 11 (that was when I was in 5th grade). And no one really introduced it to me, it is a ritual I discovered on my own. I wasn't exposed to sexual stuff when I was young or anything but I knew about sex by then and I had a very high sex drive. Fast forward another 11 years, I am now 22 and there is nothing on God's green earth that I haven't gooned to.
Just to put it in perspective, there was a time when I was in 11th grade where I tried to suck my own cock it was unbelievable, I used to run through hoops to get a few bucks just so that I can buy a mobile card which then I will use to watch corn...to get to the most outrageous stuff, I even used to get aroused by my teachers. I didn't do anything about it obviously but it was (still is) completely out of my control and I have tried to prevent myself from becoming horny but I always find myself hard as a brick.
Just to give you a perspective of how bad it is, when I am left alone at home, the first thing that crosses my mind is sexual stuff and getting bricked up is almost instant. Not only that, guys normally experience a rebound period where they can't get hard anymore but mine is almost instant. I might have masturbated 30 seconds ago but by the 10th second, I am already getting bricked up for round two. I try to control it but it is almost uncontrollable and I was beginning to suspect if there was something wrong with me. Heck the only time I stop is if my dih was hurting because of the 30 consecutive goons I unleashed on it.
The weird part is, my goons aren't even associated with anything. Normally a straight man gets aroused at the thought of an appealing woman but for me it's all in my head...like there is a cult of girls that aren't even real in my head that I get sexually aroused by. I am not saying I don't get aroused by real women but when it comes to this compulsive behaviour, it is almost always by a partner that I came up with entirely on my own. There were even times where I was naturally getting approached by other women in a sexual way but I much rather go home than jack-off than sleep with a girl. Ladies, if you feel disrespected by this, I am really sorry but it is completely out of my control.
Now, I am trying to get this compulsive behaviour under my control and it has been 3 days since I have rubbed one out. I was just lying in bed right now and I was at the cusp of relapsing but I brute forced my way through it. I really hope things get better for me and I finally break free but even as a busy student, I find it hard to concentrate on a task without wondering about some sexual fantasy.
A quick side note: some of you might be judgemental of me but I honestly don't care and I am not trying to make myself feel better by saying this but odds are 90% of you prolly have gooned before. There are men who have masturbated before and there are liars.
Another side note: this is not meant to be a slander at people with high sex drives, it is just a way to reflect on a behaviour that has been affecting me negatively for me. And ultimately, whether you decide to have sex or masturbate or stay completely clean is up to you.
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22 M...I have to write this because I am about to implode.
I am a chronic gooning addict, been doing it since I was 11 (that was when I was in 5th grade). And no one really introduced it to me, it is a ritual I discovered on my own. I wasn't exposed to sexual stuff when I was young or anything but I knew about sex by then and I had a very high sex drive. Fast forward another 11 years, I am now 22 and there is nothing on God's green earth that I haven't gooned to.
Just to put it in perspective, there was a time when I was in 11th grade where I tried to suck my own cock it was unbelievable, I used to run through hoops to get a few bucks just so that I can buy a mobile card which then I will use to watch corn...to get to the most outrageous stuff, I even used to get aroused by my teachers. I didn't do anything about it obviously but it was (still is) completely out of my control and I have tried to prevent myself from becoming horny but I always find myself hard as a brick.
Just to give you a perspective of how bad it is, when I am left alone at home, the first thing that crosses my mind is sexual stuff and getting bricked up is almost instant. Not only that, guys normally experience a rebound period where they can't get hard anymore but mine is almost instant. I might have masturbated 30 seconds ago but by the 10th second, I am already getting bricked up for round two. I try to control it but it is almost uncontrollable and I was beginning to suspect if there was something wrong with me. Heck the only time I stop is if my dih was hurting because of the 30 consecutive goons I unleashed on it.
The weird part is, my goons aren't even associated with anything. Normally a straight man gets aroused at the thought of an appealing woman but for me it's all in my head...like there is a cult of girls that aren't even real in my head that I get sexually aroused by. I am not saying I don't get aroused by real women but when it comes to this compulsive behaviour, it is almost always by a partner that I came up with entirely on my own. There were even times where I was naturally getting approached by other women in a sexual way but I much rather go home than jack-off than sleep with a girl. Ladies, if you feel disrespected by this, I am really sorry but it is completely out of my control.
Now, I am trying to get this compulsive behaviour under my control and it has been 3 days since I have rubbed one out. I was just lying in bed right now and I was at the cusp of relapsing but I brute forced my way through it. I really hope things get better for me and I finally break free but even as a busy student, I find it hard to concentrate on a task without wondering about some sexual fantasy.
A quick side note: some of you might be judgemental of me but I honestly don't care and I am not trying to make myself feel better by saying this but odds are 90% of you prolly have gooned before. There are men who have masturbated before and there are liars.
Another side note: this is not meant to be a slander at people with high sex drives, it is just a way to reflect on a behaviour that has been affecting me negatively for me. And ultimately, whether you decide to have sex or masturbate or stay completely clean is up to you.
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There is a girl in my life toward whom I feel a strong intellectual and emotional connection, but I do not feel physical attraction. She truly loves me and shows it consistently through both her words and her actions. May he her love to me is 1 in millions ymr. She is very mature for her age, and we are both around twenty-two.
I have tried many times to develop romantic feelings for her, but I have not been able to. I simply cannot love her in that way. I know what love feels like from my past experiences. It is missing someone deeply, constantly thinking about them, imagining a future together, and feeling excited just to see them even if time passes slowly. I have never felt those things for her.
Even though part of me wishes I could love her, because she is honestly the kind of person anyone would want to marry, I still do not feel that romantic connection. She keeps telling me that her love is growing stronger, not weaker. I have told her many times that we cannot be together, but I struggle to explain why clearly.
This situation is starting to stress me. When I think about her, I feel confused. I care about her deeply on an emotional and intellectual level. I enjoy our conversations, the way we think together, and how we support each other. But something important is missing for me, and that is the romantic feeling.
She is very complete as a person. She is strong in her beliefs, she reads, reflects on life, and is genuinely good. Sometimes I even feel like I am less mature compared to her.
So this is where I feel stuck.
I think there are two types of marriage.
The first type is a marriage built mostly on respect, patience, understanding, and shared values. This is the kind of marriage many of our parents had. People stayed together for years, built families, and grew together, even if there was not intense romantic love. There may have been some love, but it was calm and steady, supported by responsibility and commitment. If I imagine myself marrying her, I feel like I could succeed in life. She is supportive, and being with her feels like I could build a stable and meaningful future.
The second type is a marriage built on strong love and romance. This is where both people deeply love each other and continue to fall for each other even after marriage. There is excitement, passion, and a strong emotional pull. This kind of relationship feels more common in our generation.
I feel torn between these two. On one side, I see stability, support, and a good life with her. On the other side, I know that I am missing that deep romantic connection, and I cannot force it.
So guys, please share your thoughts. It could be from your life experience, your beliefs(specially from Islamic perspective) , or any perspective that might help me see this more clearly. I would truly appreciate honest advice.
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There is a girl in my life toward whom I feel a strong intellectual and emotional connection, but I do not feel physical attraction. She truly loves me and shows it consistently through both her words and her actions. May he her love to me is 1 in millions ymr. She is very mature for her age, and we are both around twenty-two.
I have tried many times to develop romantic feelings for her, but I have not been able to. I simply cannot love her in that way. I know what love feels like from my past experiences. It is missing someone deeply, constantly thinking about them, imagining a future together, and feeling excited just to see them even if time passes slowly. I have never felt those things for her.
Even though part of me wishes I could love her, because she is honestly the kind of person anyone would want to marry, I still do not feel that romantic connection. She keeps telling me that her love is growing stronger, not weaker. I have told her many times that we cannot be together, but I struggle to explain why clearly.
This situation is starting to stress me. When I think about her, I feel confused. I care about her deeply on an emotional and intellectual level. I enjoy our conversations, the way we think together, and how we support each other. But something important is missing for me, and that is the romantic feeling.
She is very complete as a person. She is strong in her beliefs, she reads, reflects on life, and is genuinely good. Sometimes I even feel like I am less mature compared to her.
So this is where I feel stuck.
I think there are two types of marriage.
The first type is a marriage built mostly on respect, patience, understanding, and shared values. This is the kind of marriage many of our parents had. People stayed together for years, built families, and grew together, even if there was not intense romantic love. There may have been some love, but it was calm and steady, supported by responsibility and commitment. If I imagine myself marrying her, I feel like I could succeed in life. She is supportive, and being with her feels like I could build a stable and meaningful future.
The second type is a marriage built on strong love and romance. This is where both people deeply love each other and continue to fall for each other even after marriage. There is excitement, passion, and a strong emotional pull. This kind of relationship feels more common in our generation.
I feel torn between these two. On one side, I see stability, support, and a good life with her. On the other side, I know that I am missing that deep romantic connection, and I cannot force it.
So guys, please share your thoughts. It could be from your life experience, your beliefs(specially from Islamic perspective) , or any perspective that might help me see this more clearly. I would truly appreciate honest advice.
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23 female.
I don't why I'm writing this.. But I think I have to let it all out. After you telling me How she treated you I promised to my self that I would treat you better and show u how real love is but I think you are already used to such kind of toxic attachment. I gotta be honest with myself I miss you. I really do. I miss your humor, your kumneger and chewata , I miss kissing your lips and touching your body. I am speechlessly suffering thinking of your comfortable hug. You know aa I love your smile, that rabbit teeth of yours... Your voice, Your skin tone... Your presence, the gugut I had till I see your face on our dates. I think that feeling I had for u was completely real🥹. Sometimes I feel like bidg bye betih bimeta ena bagegnih ena akfeh nafkoten biweta fikren basayih gn ayihonm yihe kerase gar yatalagnal It makes me forget the reason I left and start the cycle all over again, the logic I erased all the memories of us and every possible way to reach out to you. We don't belong to each other you don't communicate, you give silent treatment and you had some irreversible behaviors that didn't align with my own values.. I know eko we had amazing gize gn ayihonm ene ayihonegnm even though I was spending time with yoylu I was dying inside... You didn't listened to me as I listened. You didn't validate my emotions... Yaskefagnin bahrihn sinegrih akaleh lemalef mitmokrew neger eyegodagn meta (plus I didn't feel appreciated)... I had to leave whether I like it or not because I couldn't tolerate them all... But I still love you I still miss every single thing about you... Sitnafkegn nefs ayikerilgnm but I choose to suffer here silently and alone... I am so grateful for the memories and the lesson that shaped me well enkuanm awekuh... But You are not the man for me and I am not the woman for you. I'm also glad I realized this before it is too late for both of us... I love you❤️
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I don't why I'm writing this.. But I think I have to let it all out. After you telling me How she treated you I promised to my self that I would treat you better and show u how real love is but I think you are already used to such kind of toxic attachment. I gotta be honest with myself I miss you. I really do. I miss your humor, your kumneger and chewata , I miss kissing your lips and touching your body. I am speechlessly suffering thinking of your comfortable hug. You know aa I love your smile, that rabbit teeth of yours... Your voice, Your skin tone... Your presence, the gugut I had till I see your face on our dates. I think that feeling I had for u was completely real🥹. Sometimes I feel like bidg bye betih bimeta ena bagegnih ena akfeh nafkoten biweta fikren basayih gn ayihonm yihe kerase gar yatalagnal It makes me forget the reason I left and start the cycle all over again, the logic I erased all the memories of us and every possible way to reach out to you. We don't belong to each other you don't communicate, you give silent treatment and you had some irreversible behaviors that didn't align with my own values.. I know eko we had amazing gize gn ayihonm ene ayihonegnm even though I was spending time with yoylu I was dying inside... You didn't listened to me as I listened. You didn't validate my emotions... Yaskefagnin bahrihn sinegrih akaleh lemalef mitmokrew neger eyegodagn meta (plus I didn't feel appreciated)... I had to leave whether I like it or not because I couldn't tolerate them all... But I still love you I still miss every single thing about you... Sitnafkegn nefs ayikerilgnm but I choose to suffer here silently and alone... I am so grateful for the memories and the lesson that shaped me well enkuanm awekuh... But You are not the man for me and I am not the woman for you. I'm also glad I realized this before it is too late for both of us... I love you❤️
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Everday I keep breaking down in the middle of my shift, my coworkers see my eyes red and keep asking if im tired.
Shes going out and having fun like nothing happened, I guess what we had didn't mean as much to her. I can't believe she broke up with me.
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Everday I keep breaking down in the middle of my shift, my coworkers see my eyes red and keep asking if im tired.
Shes going out and having fun like nothing happened, I guess what we had didn't mean as much to her. I can't believe she broke up with me.
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ሰላም እንዴት ናቹ ዛሬ ውለታችሁን ፈልጌ ነው በጌታ የሆናቹ ወንድሞች አአ የምትኖሩ እኔ እጮኛ አለችኝ እናም አሁን ላይ ልንጋባ አስበናል ጊዜው እየሄደ ሲመጣ ግን ትንሽ ሚያስጨንቅ ነገር ገጠመኝ ምን መሰላቹ ጏደኞች ቢኖሩኝም(መልካም ጏደኞች) ነገር ግን በጌታ የሆኑ ጏደኞች የሉኝም እና እባካችሁ በጣም ስለጨነቀኝ ነው ሊተባበረኝ የሚችል ካለ በውስጥ አናግሩኝ ወንድማቹ ተጨንቂያለሁ በፊት የማውቃቸው ክርስቲያን ጏደኞቼን ሳናግር አቅማሙ ለ ሰርጉ 9 ወር ነው የቀረው በዛውም የልብ ጏደኛ እንሆናለን አናግሩኝ am 26 btw
The main point is ሚዜ የሚሆነኝ አጠገቤ የሚቆም ወንድም ፈልጋለሁ
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ሰላም እንዴት ናቹ ዛሬ ውለታችሁን ፈልጌ ነው በጌታ የሆናቹ ወንድሞች አአ የምትኖሩ እኔ እጮኛ አለችኝ እናም አሁን ላይ ልንጋባ አስበናል ጊዜው እየሄደ ሲመጣ ግን ትንሽ ሚያስጨንቅ ነገር ገጠመኝ ምን መሰላቹ ጏደኞች ቢኖሩኝም(መልካም ጏደኞች) ነገር ግን በጌታ የሆኑ ጏደኞች የሉኝም እና እባካችሁ በጣም ስለጨነቀኝ ነው ሊተባበረኝ የሚችል ካለ በውስጥ አናግሩኝ ወንድማቹ ተጨንቂያለሁ በፊት የማውቃቸው ክርስቲያን ጏደኞቼን ሳናግር አቅማሙ ለ ሰርጉ 9 ወር ነው የቀረው በዛውም የልብ ጏደኛ እንሆናለን አናግሩኝ am 26 btw
The main point is ሚዜ የሚሆነኝ አጠገቤ የሚቆም ወንድም ፈልጋለሁ
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And the thing is i have super severe period cramp ena like yalhedkubet hekmna yelm ena hulum get married and have kids endza nachew ena ke gize wede gize eyebasbge new guys ena lzi teblo ahun family arranged marraige linorge new ig ( its normal in muslim community) i dont know what to do
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And the thing is i have super severe period cramp ena like yalhedkubet hekmna yelm ena hulum get married and have kids endza nachew ena ke gize wede gize eyebasbge new guys ena lzi teblo ahun family arranged marraige linorge new ig ( its normal in muslim community) i dont know what to do
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Guys mn endechnekeng tawkalachu egziyabher fekdo tedar keseteng privacy mnamn mibalew neger chenkongal the first one abren ketengan behuwala how am going to see his eyes huletengaw period mnamn simeta lebsen binekaw mnamn siyameng lelaw toilet segeba beka privacy mnm yelem ena endet nw yehe neger milemedew
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Guys mn endechnekeng tawkalachu egziyabher fekdo tedar keseteng privacy mnamn mibalew neger chenkongal the first one abren ketengan behuwala how am going to see his eyes huletengaw period mnamn simeta lebsen binekaw mnamn siyameng lelaw toilet segeba beka privacy mnm yelem ena endet nw yehe neger milemedew
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