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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Heyy I need y'all to help me with my love life before I go insane. Like I need someone to tell me an opinion real quick and if u want i will give u my anonymous opinion too. Gn for now ebakachu dresulignn.

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Hey guys
I’m in a desperate need of help or advice idk becha I’m losing my shit …I’m 24 going to 25 in a few months …so I have been in a relationship since Grade 11 mind u I have been in a relationship for 7 years …owww u think that cute and shit aydel no it’s not !!! So I came from a very dysfunctional family I don’t know what love is …all I know is fights after fights violence …each and everyday and my mom no matter how much she gets disrespected no matter how much he lets her down …I have never seen her complain about him with other people …she deals with it alone(she is a beautiful woman who was born in Addis had a lot of opportunities but choosed to settle )
And here come me
I’m beautiful woman I’m not trying to brag here I want u guys to understand the situation so that u can help
I work ,I can provide for myself
But me too I have settled like her without getting married he treats me like shit …he verbally abuses me …one time he even “accidentally punched me “ me too as a person has a lot of issues I carry ….fhe place I work in is shit like I can’t even explain it it’s Ethiopian Airlines if uk uk …my family Wey teleyaytew ayleyayu Wey abrew honew aysemamu …it makes me sucidal thinking about them and me I am a middle child with a lot of traumas and emotional attachment …ena I’m tired now Ymr dekmegn
He used. Me for his sexual needs (I was V )
He kept me cause I am pretty
And he didn’t know that I came with responsibilities relationship comes with that
Now he abuses me sooo I don’t know but help cause I can’t breath it’s really hard

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Okay I'm gonna sound slow here but they're no other place I could dump this stupid feeling.

why can't I genuinely have good relationships with anyone? Ts breaks my heart everytime. I remember ድሮ I used to think it was because I was ugly(I was not). I've had good friends in highschool but that's it we were friends because we sat together it didn't survive outside of school. I have had some some friends after I got in university as well, they were okay. But one friendship I regret the most. After that I kinda noticed the pattern (I always lose the person) and tried to do my best to keep the next friendship. I'm still friends with those people rn it's been few years now, so grateful i love them betam. But lately the vibes kinda changed like befit bihon ignore malaregew aynet stuff, like sometimes when we're eating together mnamn they'll just talk to each other the whole time(something I can't join in), sometimes they ignore me when I talk to them like they definitely hear me but hulete soste degagme kalteyeku I won't get a reply, i feel like one hates me and the other doesn't care enough to say "let's be considerate". Mind you mnm yarekut neger yelem. And befit endi alneberum bcha this friendship makes me feel self-conscious, disrespected. Keza demo some days they're good to me like they treat me like their friend bcha they're so random with it. Hang out senareg my energy, my mood gedel new migebaw. Like if I meet them in a good mood one(the one I feel like she hates me) says something or takorfalech then I literally feel my energy drain siyaderg bcha what I'm trying to say I know it's better to be alone but as I've said hule endezi aydelem and I've never had a friendship that lasted longer than this one and I'm genuinely scared of not having anyone

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Hey u guys am 20 F betam confused slehonku please give me your advice betam yemwedew bf alegn he is my fourth ena kemejemeryaw ex gar ahunm enaweralen bzu neger asalfenal lemejemerya gize sex yarekut kesu gar neber keteleyayen 3 amet alfonal lela manm nektogn ayakm neber kesu lela kebzu setoch gar cheat argobgn neber yeteleyayenew bezalay emnetachn yeteleyaye neber kerejm gize behuala kahunu bf gar sex aregn lesu I am the first relationship wst gebto ayakm best friend neberen lene crush neber princess treatment new yemiyareglgn fikru aynu lay yemiyastawk aynet sew new besst new yemiyayegn enem bhon betam new yemwedew esun matat alfelgm lemanm endi hognem alakm gn yehone neger tefetere ex dgami sex endnaderg abren endnhon mnamn yfelgal kategebe demo merak yelebetm abren yemnseraw sra ale kerakegn hulum neger new yemibelashew sex kalaregn ena abren kalhonn hulum neger ykr beka anchi saysh yalefew neger ykochegnal ljnet new endeza endaderg yasgededegn alegn keteleyayen behuala lela relationship jemro ayakm manm set endanchi lthonlgn alchalechm ylal ene demo alfelgewm mnm neger endinoren alfelgm gn beka eshi byew room geban gena sismegn yemastawsew bf new chrash tetseyefkut keza slkun block argew kesum slk lay slken atfchew tchew wetaw kiss endaderegn bf biyak betam ydebrewal lene bzu neger honolgnal aynun mayet erasu akategn engenagn silegn sebeb eyefeterku ekeralew afre esti mn tlugnalachhu please ngeregn chenkogn new

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Hey I'm 19F
The thing is I'm someone that everyone don't expect to get in relationship. And my friend introduced me to a guy Im in campus and he is in the city I live anyways we started talking and he is kinda nice so I liked him but he always says I don't think long distance can work. Then we get in relationship after 1 month of meeting then something really triggers me then I told him we should call this off and he agreed and we ended it and it is already 3 months and I still can't forget him like I always think about him what if I ask him to go back together what do you guys think

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hi,
I was dating this guy for over 2 years now. We have our ups and downs (lot) like any normal couple. We had plans moving in together (bought fridge and stoves the expensive ones) and get engaged. I was choosing my engagement ring at some point and I went downhill after that.

We fought about the ring and it's price manmn (he has the means but doesn't want to pay that much or a jewelry he says) and beka one thing led to another medebaber meta and tekorarfen a week mnamn and am always the one who breaks contact first. He always said anchi batdewyim medewele aykerim neber. He always says that.
So kemedebaber and mekoraref behuala he seems to loose interest (in his defense I stopped having sex with him and he feels lonely) and in my defense I lose interest in sex if am not happy in the other aspects of the relationship.

So one thing lead to another he start being disrespectful and he actually insulted me and I was devastated. He said it was a joke but he never apologized even after I told him I did not like the joke nor it was funny.
Anyway, beka I told him efetesedebku relationship wust alkoyim and I left blocked him and now it’s almost been a week and beka endelela gizew sinikoraref aleksalew I feel broken mnamn but now I feel numb like I don’t feel sad even.
So does that mean my love and patience for him is over or I never loved him really from the start nw? What do you guys think??

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Here is a preview of your confession:

ranting about my struggles. I'm a dom i like to be dom and take control most of the women i meet don't know bdsm and are not into bdsm.

My type is a women who likes to be submissive also who can push me over to own her . That's very hot and powerful to me, But very hard to find.

What do you guys think, is there no ethiopian women like this?

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What's up guys, i was fwb with this girl and we met. She was very shy which was okay I'm the dominant guy in the relationship so i led her and we had fun. Keza after we finished was the problem, she felt so guilty and disgusted by herself and i told her she was beautiful not disgusting and it was a normal thing to do but she just felt guilty which made me feel guilty. Anyways my point is I'm so tired of women who are scared to be adventurous in bed. I'm always trying to convince them to have fun and at the end of it all they are happier for it but it is back to square one the next time. TBH i dont even blame women, it's the fear the society has put on them. Even in an FWB they are always scared and shy, it is getting very tiring.

I just wanna find a women who is confident about what she wants and wants to experience and have fun in this short life. I dont know if i can find that yet.

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So I've been talking to this guy and he seems like he doesn't mind being submissive to his woman. I used to think that men feel like submitting to their women would make them feel less masculine u know? So guys what are ur thoughts on this really like

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Hey guys I ve been with someone ena koy let me tell ya
Look mawerat yejemrnew telegram lay yehon bot ale ena eza lay nw yetwaweknew ena esu ene endemflgew ayent sew nw malte age ,yemiyawerabet way , ,yalbet sera ena beka abzagnaw becha type nbr except his religion gen mndnw ene eygfawet nbr beka abzagnawen geze senawera yenberew malte esu lendezi ayent ngr ahun hasabu ayedelm…ena kesament befit Bamn meknyat endhon salak tezgagten nw rasen yagegnwet ena betam kesu ga mehon nw meflgew ewnet betam endet kesu ga mehon endalbegn alawekem …kangerkut beka sayfelg selhon lemgnaw nw mimslew zem kalkut demo im really miss him ….ena demo betam yemiwedegn ena yeminkebabkbgn ale gen Weshetam nw lmn kesu mehon endemalfelg gen alawekem…becha amakrugn guys

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Hey guys, so I’m trying to be friends with my ex, but it’s kind of difficult.
Let me tell you the whole story. We were both a bit childish, and that’s why the relationship didn’t work out. After we broke up, he texted me asking to get back together, and I agreed. But after a week, we broke up again.
After that, I reached out and asked him if we could get back together again, but he refused. He said we would probably break up again, that he needs to work on himself, and that he doesn’t think he’s committed enough. He insisted that we stay friends. I didn’t want to be friends, but I agreed.
Now the problem is, I can’t be just his friend. I get jealous of every interaction he has with other women. Eskiyamekegn ekenalehu.
What do you guys suggest?

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Hey guys I am 23 F.
I met this guy on taxi with hilarious moment and shared about 30 minutes together and he had a really good vibe. I am not being arrogant but I barely give my phone number because I feel like it is not my actual time to be in r.ship but that guy had a good look and approach so I gave him my number. Tbh I forgot him as soon as we went apart. After two days he called and stuff and then the coming days he calls and I reply as a random person and he goes like you don't look for people right tefash eko kinda stuff.. Like why would I look for him?... Anyway time brought us closer and we started to talk a lot minamn eyelemedkut metahu... His friendliness, openess, he had a humor, He is physically my ideal type so everything was going good. In the routine he said why don't u also call me in the morning ( my girly ass be like erere princess treatment, why r u gay... min yalalkut ale be wiste) but i got ntn to lose if he insisted so I did that then after days kom bye sasib😅 I am the becoming the one who reaches out and relatively with more effort endede alkuna meles alku because it is only early stage...bro መቀማመል jemerelachu...you know the best actors in the world are men in the first 1/2 weeks of dating...then I still chose to stay consistent because why would I make a drama like he did?... Bezaw semon one day I called him morning akababi and didn't pick his phone up and he didn't call back either then we accidentally met outside after 7 hours. Bro be like hey minamn I saw it gn I was busy... Aha akesi alkuna i replied oh eshi it's ok. The next day he didn't reach out and again accidentally we meet outside in the evening I couldn't alfew lihed you know deberegn and I greeted him and he goes hey I just got out of work we will talk later when I get home. I am someone who genuinely believes in open communication no matter what happens, so I waited for him now it's been 4 days. Betam eyabesachgn yalw my single ass was fine and i was enjoying my life and this mf just entered to my routine and kenen eyamesakelw nw (I gave him chance while other dudes were dying just for a 5 minutes call just because I was attracted to him but he is bitching around now, i ain't lying btw)... The only reason is I was interested because he was my type you know what I'm saying. But he ain't behaving like a man and not being assertive I was thinking of possible faults I made but there is none. So it is just he is inconsistent and his pervert ass didn't let him to stay serious any longer (I saw signs of higher sexual intention obviously). So the thing is do I have to call or text him and ask him what he is thinking or do I have just to simply leave him as it is without any closure? I am just feeling the void.

Thanks for your comments in advance guys ❤️

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I just need to get this off my chest and maybe get judged a little.
I’ve been in a relationship for about 6 months now, but honestly… we’re very different. We don’t love the same way, we don’t see things the same, and we fight a lot. Like… a lot.
Recently, my ex came back into my life. He was someone I loved deeply, and I won’t lie — I still have strong feelings for him.
When he asked if I was in a relationship, I told him no… even though I actually do have a boyfriend.
Now I’m in a situation where I’m seeing both of them.
And I feel really conflicted, because part of me still loves my ex, but I’m also still with my current boyfriend and thats not fair to him.
I know this isn’t right, but I don’t know what to do.

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Hiii i just want smtg from.you guys like am girl with 2 body count like its not 2 its 1 but the second guy we were having makeout shit then things get wild shit he doesn't remembered everything he was high gn i remembered he just wanna but his d* on my i insist he didn't put it in me but he doesn't remeber it becha ahun am feelings to get nesha then i won't have anything likr this until am married
Gn guys does having 1 or 2 body count affect yargal my future life

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Just wanna ask when u kiss what do I guys feel I kissed once and I was blank when he was kissing me I didn’t know where I was is was all black idk how to tell u guys I wasn’t there idk if that means I liked it or not but do I guys also feel like that ? If I feel like this while kissing what could I feel when I have sex hehe is it like that ?

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I've come to realize that I'm using him to escape my pain and I can tell he is doing the same too. I enjoy the attention he gives me and how he makes me feel heard, but I don’t love him or even like him. I'm just a girl trying to mend a broken heart. Should I feel guilty about this? He’s clearly a player, he’s admitted to sleeping with many women and finds it easy to do so. So, when I talk with him as if I'm genuinely interested while actually using him, does that make me a bad person?

Sometimes, I feel like I might start to have feelings for him, and I'm scared for my self, but I don’t care if I end up hurting him. He’s a player who can have anyone he wants. I have no desire to have a future with him, but I want his company now to help me through my darkest days. He’s not innocent, he is playing games with me and here I'm pretending to not know and using his attention for my own good, doesn’t that make us even?

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Hy guys am yo
Mn meslachu gf nebrachgn yetwasne month nw abren ye koyanw eswa campus nat ena distance nw r/ship chn betam humble ena understand metdargegn set nebrch ke tinsh gize buwal conflict meftar jamre be mekaklchn lek be physical sengangn negru demo solution yagegnl betam etmamnbtlaw eswam betam emnat nebrat bane lay gin ahun lay gin mnm bemlakw block adergagnlchi eswa Esu yakl bicha nw metlaw so mn temkragnlchu ene Ande gebchlaw breakup maderag demo alfelgm eska mechrashw keswa gar nw mehon mefalgw ……
Mn temkragnlchu?

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so i’ve been in this on-and-off relationship for like 5 years… and honestly most of it was basically a breakup with occasional comebacks. recently we got back together and at first it felt okay, but then he reminded me exactly why i left in the first place. his communication is terrible, he never really knows what he wants, and it’s just so exhausting to deal with.

i finally blocked him and ended it for good this time.

the confusing part is, i’ve had 2 boyfriends in between, but nothing ever felt the same as it did with him. maybe it’s because he was my first and i was so emotionally invested in the beginning. but now? i don’t even think i have real feelings for him anymore. i think i was just there for the physical part, while he was catching feelings again.

and he became so unbearable… like when i ask him what he’s feeling or why he’s acting controlling, he just goes all nonchalant and distant. i hateeee that fake calm act, it’s so frustrating.

also we used to smoke together sometimes, but now suddenly he’s acting all religious and it just annoys me because it feels so forced and he seems he is in religious psychosis shit.

anyway… my real issue is this: i feel like i can’t find someone i actually like AND who makes me feel loved. the guys who approach me are never the ones i want, and i don’t really have the confidence to go after the ones i do like.

i don’t even know why i’m venting at this point… but girls please tell me i’ll find someone eventually. i just need that reassurance i guess.

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I'll try to keep this short i dont have trustworthy friends to talk to about this and chatgpt always agree with me
I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now we're both muslims so we agreed not to have sex before marriage he has 6 bodies and i have 1 and dont want to add any more no matter what. but my bf is really horny ik he loves me but am scared he might cheat i try to ignore it but i dont think he can wait until marriage
Recently we were talking about cheating and he asked what i'd do if he cheated i said i'd break up like any normal person then he said he would never leave me if i cheated that made me crash out cuz wdym u dont care if I cheat and you would take me back i expected something crazy like "I would kill you both " because he's usually so obsessive and gets jealous a lot
Now am thinking he said that because he cheated and feels guilty so he wouldn't mind if i cheat and another reason I felt this way was that he said it’s only okay while dating not after marriage
What do you guys think? please help 💗

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Greetings to y'all
M 24
I had this colleague and she is 25 and we started talking because I fixed her electronic device. Then she was kinda interested in me - she used to call me, text me, she comes and sits by my side in the office n we talk blah blah blah. She was kinda my type and I was hers too I think because we had a lot in common. So one day we were talking on the phone and she was asking me a lot things about myself and she told me she was very intimidated by me like she wants to be like me.... Then I asked about herself lke 'who is Ms x?' and she started mechenanek u know, so I told her to tell me if she's comfortable and it's not a job interview that she needn't to worry about what she's saying and kaltemechesh lela gize enaweralen biye zegahugn. I tried to call after that, she picks up the phone but she had some excuse everytime to avoid talking. Then she ghosted me😁😁...... She's kinda my type but I did not flirt once n I don't have anything for her n it's ok by me but we had so much in common n I used to enjoy those conversations. Keza behuala beka lesua yenebergn value tefa bc I used to think of her as someone mature enough to have serious conversations. I think I was wrong. But do you think that it had something to do with me?

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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26 F.The thing is loneliness is eating me alive this days like never before. I grew up in a strict family being almost isolated, so I would say I'm introvert and i prefer private times mostly. Infact, reaching out to my friends when i want to hang out sometimes has become dissapointing lately. They say they always has sth to do. Even if I'm a kind of person who doesn't like to ask twice, i tried to catch up ignoring my feelings. The thing is they even say they can't make it in my birthday. Ik I'm a person who doesn't make much effort towards my friendships,so i would say i have had friends not best friends most of the time,so i never had much expectation from them.But them saying they can't make it every time i ask them to go out, makes me realise i don't even have friends finally. On the other hand, my male friends has been the one who always shows up when i wann them, but realising the fact that they are men who are waiting for the right time, after all, obliges me to accept that it's not real friendship. This days i feel like i may find myself using drugs, specially if i find someone influencing. This is the time when i started to go to church and started to make friends too, but i still feel lonely and find myself craving deeper connection, w/c was unlike me. The fact that am single and living by myself making things worse, i guess.

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