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I just need to write something for him ....There were so many difficulty's in our relationship yet I still tried my best to keep us but I realized u can't force what God hasn't planned so I'm just glad about the time we had tho I wish we had more , but anyways I know things won't be like the begining I still love you and I never blamed u for us not working out maybe in another life🫶🥹

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Hello everyone 27m
It has been a long time since I vented. I want to vent about the things am going through so the things I was in a relationship for about a year and we broke up I asked her if we can fix it she said no like I respected her respected her boundaries. I never asked anything of her but she left me without a reason blaming because we argued I argued with her because she became cold I just wanted to know why anyways I am sad about that it has been 2 month still not talking with anyone and becoming Isolated life is becoming a little bit depressing I do two jobs I am unsatisfied with that I am trying my best to change my circumstances but I don't know why between my break up and unsatisfying job life has becoming depressing and I have no energy now a days I don't show it but am struggling deep down I just need an advice how to be alright because it is difficult for me you know loving a person trusting hurts very much

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22 f here did you guys feel like eyadegachu stmetu abatachun eyetelachu memtat i mean metlat eko aydelem gn mn endemlew yhenn feeling alawkm like eyadeku bemetaw kutr ye enaten ye fit tkuret ማዲያት bayew kutr abaten eweksewalew like esu ye wendnet halafinetun biweta nuro enate endezi athonm neber like set endemehonem betam yanadegnal esu gn mnm endalatefa new act yemiyadergew i mean lene eko metfo abat honobgn aydelem gn lenate mnm tru bal aydelem i mean yaw legnam bihon he just exist enji enatachn nat both side most of the time halafinet yemtwetaw ena ahun lalenbet dhnet ena chgr andande beka esun bcha eweksewalew like esu senef bayhon noro esu ጠጪ bayhon noro at least endezi anhonm neber yemr bcha eski mn yderegal eyemokern new lemenor

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What’s up? I really need advice on this. Maybe there’s someone in the same situation as me.
Here it goes: How do you show that you care about people? I mean, what does caring even mean in the first place?
I’m the type of girl who doesn’t care about other people’s business, and that behavior makes people misunderstand me. I don’t love people, but I do like them just because they’re human, not because of what they have or what they do for me. I give them the respect they deserve, but I don’t want to get deeply involved with them.
I like being alone. I like doing things by myself. It’s not that I’m introverted. I can connect with people easily but I just don’t feel the need to. When people talk about others, I lose interest. I hear them, but I don’t really listen, and later I don’t remember anything they said.
I’m always the last person to know about rumors. When people tell me things, I don’t react much, and they think I’m cold or emotionless. But that’s not how I feel inside. it’s just how I come across.
I’m very active in my work. I don’t like waiting or being late. I focus on what needs to be done and I do it well. If someone asks me for help, I help as much as I can. But after that, when they try to start a conversation, I just smile and leave. It’s not because I dislike them—I just get tired quickly.They think I’m weird.In short, I don’t enjoy long conversations, especially when they’re about other people. I don’t understand why people don’t just focus on their own lives. Why do they care so much about what others are doing. Why do they care about what I do, what I eat, or family issues? It feels so exhausting to me. Even when my mom talks about things, I just look at her without responding much, and she stops because she knows I’m not interested. But I want to care. I want to be better at connecting with people maybe it doesn’t come naturally to me. I’m also inconsistent with simple things like greeting people.Sometimes I pass by without noticing them. Other times, I say hi, but they question why I ignored them before. I honestly didn’t even see them. They tell me I should greet people, but I don’t feel like doing it. I don’t see the point of asking “How are you?” when I already know the answer will be “I’m good.” People tell me I should ask others how they are and show more interest. But to me, it feels repetitive and not meaningful. I don’t expect anything from anyone, so I don’t understand why they expect these things from me. Still, I can see that it affects them.They even get upset on my behalf when someone jokes about me, and when I don’t react, they get frustrated. I don’t understand why my reaction matters so much to them.My biggest issue is with my boyfriend. He wants me to show more emotions—like caring, jealousy, love, even anger. He says it’s part of being human. i know it is and i feel it too but my problem is showing . I think he’s getting tired of trying to change me, but he still hasn’t given up. He plans to marry me next year, if God wills it. But we are very different. He loves being around people and wants a home full of life and visitors. I, on the other hand, prefer peace, quiet, and space. I don’t hate people—I just don’t enjoy being around them for too long.
I’m not a rude or bad person. I smile, I respect others, and I help when I can. But I have limits. Being around people for too long drains me.
So… do you have any advice on how I can change myself? any suggestion ?

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1 month of no contact
I can't understand why I can't let him go. The pain feels less intense now when I think about him and remember how he wronged me. It's as if holding onto this hurt is the only way to keep him in my thoughts, and a part of me isn't ready to release that. Letting go of the pain feels like it would mean forgetting him, and I don't think I'm prepared for that. It seems like I've chosen to cling to the hurt, replaying memories in my mind just to ensure I remember him well enough.

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Am 27M do good in my life i have question for married man if there r here and if u love ur wife.
But first let me say dome thing about my self. Never had sex,no alchol or drug......am good with women date some girl rejected by some but prefer by some to. The thing is don't beg (mababel) women if she say no or seems uninterested am out even if i like her. Since i don't desire the for temporary stuff i don't have to beg them but lately i see my friends most of them have GF i see them beging (i don't know what to call it..)
My question
1.do u thing lowering for women is necessary to get Wife?
2. If u married out of love did u put to much effert to get her was that worth it?

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hey, this is for women's. YOU did you have any fucking idea how much we work for you to be happy, not for us, for you ungrateful bitches, did you ever try to understand the level of frustration and hustle we go through to be seen enough in your eyes, no you fucking don't. we raise in the same house in the same environment and guess what we expected to be the man who know everything, the man who fix everything, the man who shows you everything, the man who answers every stupid fucking question you ask, we have to be a God fearing gentlemen, while having numerous degenerate stories, to be seen as experienced, we have to be work our ass off to provide for our family and to be the man of the house while giving you enough time listening to you whining's and naggings we have to be a great dad, knowing everything about a child raising and being a second mom changing dippers while you sleep like a mf, we have to be all of this while gaining respect from our friends and coworkers, and did you see any man complaining about it NO, you DON'T, cuz guess what we have to be also emotionally stable and stone called hearted. i see the way all the women's in the social media act's like and you makes it like the world and all the man is against you and nobody cares about the man's. this is to remind you that you have we also have huge burdens and responsibilities that makes our brain explode, thank God for the way you are and stop complaining about everything, uhh.

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22 F
Keljnete jemro insecure neberkugn tlk shon yitewegna bye neber gn betam eyebasebgn meta. yehonech friend neberechgn be sewnete betam insecure aregechgn beyegizew tashemakekegn neber kechn negn gn bzum sayho mekakelegna neger negn ena betam insecure negn lela setochn gar compare aregalew ena yisemagnal. Sibeza over thinker

gn mnm bareg rasen lwed alchalkum mnm bmokr

Endet new setoch erasachun mtodut?

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I had this ex boyfriend, which I really loved, like he was my whole world , we dated for 2 years thru the years tho I feel like I was the one who was constantly chasing, putting effort while replying to my text was hard for him or he’s jus “ to busy “ to reply while sending snaps, and we eventually ended things cuz of his hg.
And it took me months to move on , and I did but then I saw on insta that he got new girl and all , they seems happy tg , he is treating her how I wanted him to treat me. I thought I moved on , I thought I don’t care but here I am with this feeling.
And I thought maybe I should try with other guy , so I did we went out, we communicated, for the first time after my ex i started to catch feelings, but the problem is he is not to open about he’s feelings, like if he’s mad he’ll just ignore me for days, and I started to feel like I’m chasing again, I don’t wanna be back to that cycle, the cycle that never ends, the cycle who drained me . I tried to tell him about it but he kept saying he’s busy .
So I decided to check if he even cares, so I stopped texting first, here we are it’s been days since we talked, but the thing is I’m already inlove with him, I admire him, I thought we were something , I feel drained, but I don’t wanna lose him at same time.
HELP😭🙏🏾

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የሴት አምባገነንነት እና የወንድ ሞኝነት
የዘመናችን ትልቁ አሳዛኝ ነገር የወንድ ሞኝነት እና የሴት ጥቅመኝነት ጋብቻ መፍጠራቸው ነው። አንተ ወንደ!.. ለማፍቀር መስፈርት የማታዋጣ ሞኝ ነህ!  እሷ ግን የጥቅም መስፈርት (Criteria) አውጥታ የወንድን ልብ ሳይሆን የወንድን ኪስ ትመርጥለች!።

1, የሞራል ኪሳራ

— ጥቅመኝነት እና የውሸት ፍቅር ፤ ሴቲነተን በራስ ወዳድነት ( Ego ) ጥቅመኝነት (Advantageousness )እና አጋጣሚን በመጠቀም (Opportunistic)የተሞላ ነው።

— የጥቅም ጋብቻ፡ ሴቶች ወንድ የሚፈልጉት Economical ችግራቸው እንዲቀርፍላቸው ነው። ውላቸውን፣ ህይወታቸውን፣ ፍላጎታቸውን ይነግሩታል፤ የሱ ግን መስማት አይፈልጉም ይህ ፍቅር ሳይሆን የገንዘብ ዝርፊያ ነው።

— የውሸት ገጸ ባህሪ፡ (Artificial Character) ያላቸው Romantic የሚመስሉ አጭበርባሪ ወንዶች ይወዳሉ። ተግባር እና Serious የሆነ የሞራል ሰው አያደንቁም ይባስ ብለው ደባሪ እንደሆነ ያስባሉ። የወንድ ዝምታ ለነሱ አይናፋርነት ወይም ኩራት ነው፤ የባህሪው አካል መሆኑን አይረዱም።

— የጥላቻ ፍቅር፡ በሚያሳዩት የውሸት ፍቅር ውስጥ ጥልቅ ጥላቻ አለ። የወንድ ቤተሰብን እንደ ቤተሰባቸው አይቀበሉም ከልጃቸው ውጭ ያሉትን ልጆች እንደ ልጅ አያዩም። ሴት ለሴት ያላቸው እርስ በእርስ መናከስ አስመሳይነታቸውን ለማየት በቂ ነው።

2, የፌሚኒዝም እና የበታችነት ስሜት ፤ ፖለቲካ ፍልስፍና ሲወራ የሚደብራቸው ሴቶች

— የማይስማሙበት ነገር ከተናገርክ ይጠሉሃል በ logic አይሞግቱህም የ Dialectics አቅማቸው ሲበዛ ትንሽ ነው። ጠጠር ያለ ወሬ ሲወራ ያሳክካቸዋል Serious የሆነ ርእስ ሲነሳ ይደብራቸዋል።

— ( inferiority complex ) ትንሽ ፊደል ሲቆጥሩ ከጥራዝ ነጠቅነት አልፈው ፀረ-ወንድ ( feminism ) የዘመናዊነት አንዱ መገለጫ አድርገው ይወስዱታል። ይህ ሁሉ የሚመጣው ትልቅ የበታችነት ስሜት የተጠናወታቸው ስለሆኑ ነው ። አብዮተኞች (Revolutionary) አይደሉም ለውጥ አይወዱም!

3, የወንድ ስቃይ ትዳር ላይ ሲበዛ ያልተነቃበት ፤  አምባገነናዊ መንገድ ይከተላሉ።

— የወንዱን ሁለንተናዊ እንቅስቃሴ በቁጥጥራቸው ስር ለማድረግ በጣም ይጥራሉ። የወንድ ልጅ ስቃይ ለነሱ አንዳንዴ እንደ Orgasm ነው። ባገኙት ትንሽ አጋጣሚ እና ስልጣን ወንድን Abuse ለማድረግ ይፈልጋሉ።

— ልጆች አባት ላይ እንዲነሱ አባት ላይ ጥላሸት እየቀባች ልጆች ከአባታቸው እንዲርቁ እንዲሸሹ ታደርጋለች የወንድ የቤት ተፈጥሯዊ መሪነቱን ለመንጠቅ ይሻሉ።

—ወንድ ሁሌም Open የሆነው የወሲብ ፍላጎት ጆሮ ዳባ ብለው ባይተዋር አድርገው፣ አይኑ ሌላ ኮረዳ እንዲያማትር ይገፋፉታል። ይህ የወንድ ባህሪ ካለመረዳት የሚመነጭ ያልበሰለ አካሄድ ነው።


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አካላዊ፣ ሞራላዊ እና መንፈሳዊ ጥንካሬ በሚፈልገው ነባራዊ አለም፣ ስትወድቅ መነሳት በሚፈልገው የአለም ባህሪ የወንድ አሸናፊነት ግድ ይሆናል የሴት አምባገነንነት እና የወንድ ሞኝነት መቆም አለበት። ወንዶች አትሸወዱ!
ሐሳብ አስተያዬታችሁን " በተለመደዉ!! ኢትዮጵያዊ ጨዋነት! " አጋሩኝ።

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I missed you so much that you can ever imagine😭😭😭 Ik you’ll never see this, even if you see it you’ll never know that it’s me. It’s been sooo long since we last talked but you’re always on my mind I’ve never slept without thinking about you. Our love was unbreakable, we used to talk 24/7, it was unique and pure, it was genuine, it was true love but we were forced to stop our relationship, i gave it all I have I’ve never loved anyone like you and will ever do in the future, I will never forget you NEVER EVER!!! You will be my one and only love till I die. I still love you so much and I hope you do too, I hope our problem is solved and GOD bring us together soon. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER❤️

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