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ይህን የምፅፈው በከፍተኛ ጭንቀት ውስጥ ሆኜ ነው። i wish ወደዚህ የጥያቄ ደረጃ ባልደረስኩ ወይም እግዚአብሔርን እንዲህ ባልተጠራጠርኩ ብዬ because my religion (Christianity) is ሁሉ ነገሬ የተመሰረተበት መሰረቴ ነው እና ሰሞኑን when i started to question, everything in me started to shatter በጣም ትልቅ ፍርሃት ተሰማኝ የመኖር ትርጉሙ ጠፋኝ።
መጠየቅ የጀመርኩት እግዚአብሔር ሁሉን አዋቂ ስለሆነ በጥያቄዎቼ አይሰጋም ብዬ በማመኔ ነው፤ ምክንያቱም እንዳሰላስልና በምክንያት እንድመራ አእምሮን የሰጠኝ እሱ ነው።
First of all i didn't find a very convincing evidence if God is real or not, ይሄ እንዲያውም ብዙም አያስጨንቀኝም but even if there is God which one is the right one? Because every religion claims their way is the only right way and have some kind of evidence. ግን most of the evidences are presented in some twisted way there is no way me as person can confirm whether it is true or not.
I grew up in a Christian household. My mom prayed her whole life but nothing different happened. ሌላው አላማኝ እንደሚኖረው ነው የኖርነው በፀሎት የተለወጠ tangible የሆነ ነገር አላየሁም። personal experience ሌላ ነው እሱ ለኔ evidence ሊሆን አይችልም። also as someone who studied psychology those so called personal experiences has psychological explanation መንፈሳዊ experience ከመሆን ይልቅ።
Also church ስንማር the bible እስትንፋሰ እግዚአብሔር ነው ተብለን ነበር also God is perfect and doesn't change through time. But when i read the old testament i get really confused because God ordering people to be killed and tortured??? And in new testament ደሞ ተቀይሮ loving ሲሆን?
The concept of people being tortured forever in hell for not believing in Jesu's sacrifice seems absurd and not so loving because እኔንኳ በክርስቲያን ቤተሰብ በchurch አድጌ it doesn't seem very convincing ሌላው በሌላ religion ያደገ ሰው ይሄን እንዴት comprehend ሊያደርግ ይችላል If some miracles didn't happen? when i think about my non believer friends and family በጣም አዝናለሁ they're nice people but they're going to burn in hell forever?
if God wanted to save the whole world ለምን ለሁሉም ግልፅ በሆነና በማያወላዳ መልኩ አይገለጥም? Instead of ድብብቆሽ መጫወት ከሰዎች ጋር?
Honestly i am asking these questions just to have clear understanding on what i believe not just to argue or debate. If you have answers እሰየው otherwise you don't need to say anything. But if you have been there and find an answer please አንድ በሉኝ። I badly wanted to believe in God, a perfect loving God, it is getting out of my hand. እንዲያዉም በsocial media በማየው ነገር ለሴጣን በር ከፍቼ እምነቴን እንዲበትን ፈቅጄ ይሆን ብዬም አሰብኩ but it isn't making any sense. And I also prayed to God to show me himself so that i find peace but nothing happened so far i don't know what to do I'm really confused.

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First of all I want to thank all the people u gave their advice it was like a wake up call.
And after thinking about i decided to tell him and when I told him he was very mad as to why I'm stayed quiet I told him I just did want to stress you and he said "that what marriage, is share eachothers stress and that doesn't matter who the person is nobody can you comfortable, you're my family just like them and if they have forgotten about that I will remind them"
So he first met with his mom and sister and they talk and then call for a family meeting and said what he told me earlier and that its none of their bussiness and that he did not marry a baby making machine but a partner in life also children are a possibility in the future not a duty on me.
I tired to holding tears but as soon as I hear those words the water work just started its not that was a weak person but in the moment of my weakness and poor judgment he was there for her stood up for again his own family he looked so determined and proud as he spoke of me. He didn't even question if what I said was true or not he look me in the eyes and that was enough for him to believe me.
After crying so much, I was quite on our way to our home I didn't know what to say i just said l love you and he smile and said I love you too.

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My dad caught me jerking off

There was a shack in our compound, separate from the main house, where I used to spend a lot of time. It didn’t have a door, so I hung bed sheets over the entrance for privacy. The whole thing was made from ቆርቆሮ so when it rained, you can't hear a thing.

One afternoon, while it was pouring outside, I was inside the shack, gooning, facing away from the door. Suddenly, I felt a tap on my shoulder. I freaked, panicked, hastily pulled my pants, and turned around—only to see my dad smiling as if nothing had happened. He casually said, “Come eat mekses,” .

Life went on as if that moment never happened, but every now and then, the memory resurfaces—and it still weirds me out. I'm traumatized 😫

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wendoch edtmelsulgn new mfelgew 1 set mfelgut le sexual neger bcha new wey stayuat be sex ayn new mtayuat

Ewnetun ngerugn?

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Can you advise me how to make a man fall in love or what is really man wants in a women ! I don’t want to change my self but I want to know

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yall im cooked  ...
im a freshman uni student n first year non caffe mezgba alneberm , so for the 1st 5 months my mom souported me , and for the next semster she was hoping that i will be non cafe n the pressure wont be that difficult .... buttttt i wanted the money of the next pays of the non cafe or i will keep calling it  food money so i wanted it for my self to buy something for my career since its so expensive and at this moment if i even say a word about the thing i'm going to buy it wont be good for me , so i lied about getting paid the food money ....
i said nahh non caffe  mezgba alefeng ..... my mom literally lost it she kept saying i didn't care for her mnamn yk how moms are ...., and  the thing is i cant say i have the money  tho , so she said you will eat that damn cafe food i ain't gonna send you shit boyyyyy i wish there is a cafe food i wishhhhh daium i wish but nothing i cant even eat at cafe coz im  non cafe.

so idk she probably said she wil send me 2k even if im non cafe the choice is  I have to forget the idea of buying that thing and eat fr , or try to adjust... But adjusting takes much time ... And the cash won't be enough.
its either food or progress in life
  .... idk how to deal w this ,
and my bros can't ask them coz the one is married with serious debt the and  other strugels to just survive my sis unemployed the other her wedding is this march  EC . so im cooked fr , n my dad he's as good as a dead person even when i was little he never lifted a finger to do shit .....
so yeah im about to learn magic called SURVIVING UNI WITH ONLY 2K 👌

and my mom is even saying she wont take me w her to my sis wedding boy , its far like ye 2 ken guzo nw eza lmedres imagine her paying dersomels for me . the  thing is i just made it hard for her it's not only me  tho ....its the  situation its not really working for my mom .....


and you might say why are you telling us ... well this is a vent channel and im here to share my stressful life w ya and if i actually  made it and buy the thing i want and survive then attend my sis wedding  at the same time .... its a win wish me luck .... i'll write an update .

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Hey… 25M. Just moved to Bahir Dar Uni for some course, and I won’t lie—it’s been a bit of a strange start.
Everyone hypes up gibi life here, but right now it’s just me, a tight schedule, and a lot of quiet moments. Feels like something’s missing… or maybe someone.
I’m not really looking for anything too defined. Just someone chill, a little spontaneous, maybe a bit curious like me… someone to explore the city with, share late conversations, and see where the vibe goes.
If you’re here too and feeling the same—or just curious—reach out. Might be a long shot, but yea.

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This is a rant/question from 27 year old woman. As a feminist I’m so ashamed of myself and quite frankly angry at myself too. I never thought that I have internalized misogyny the way I have , I used to think i was clean of the blood so righteous that i used to boast about how I’m not mentally chained like the other male centered women are but turns out we have a lot in common than i thought. Saw a guy on here boastfully talking about how women in my age group are difficult to date because they have a lot of ”baggage” and they just love sticking it on every partner they meet. Well I understand that one should not even begin a new relationship if still wounded and hurt because it will affect the quality of the next relationship for the person and the person they’re with , throwing shade on women on their obsessive “trust issues” when it comes to being objectified and later on try to justify your objectification of women by saying “since the other ones had your body it’s only fair that I have it” as if it’s your God given right and her abstaining herself is above her because she’s not a “virgin “ anymore implying that’s just because this woman has had HUMAN experiences with other men she’s not worthy and deserving of that respect . Jeeez I wonder why these women have trust issues eh 🤔 ? Anywho the sad reality is that is how most men think in a highly patriarchal society like ours. I’m not trying to throw habesha men under the bus I wish it wasn’t true and this can also be seen by how the male centered ,men worshiping women view themselves and other women around them again just a lump of meat for a men’s desire and a baby machine. If a man does not “pick” you to give you the most mediocre sex of your life and fill your bellies up with babies every two years while he’s probably cheating on you and living his life to the fullest, then welp you have failed as woman in this society. Now imagine having these two groups of people in one setting ,now imagine existing in them , you can’t fathom the amount of internalized misogyny you have absorbed throughout your entire life especially on your early important developmental ages. Don’t get me wrong the older I’ve become the more I have started to see and really appreciate a women’s ability to create life it’s one of the most beautiful things to ever exist. And the nuclear family format sounds so good on paper but in reality it’s quite the opposite. So women I need you to understand that the bullshit that we have been fed ever since we were little kids is absolute BULLSHIT! I’m not saying you’re not going to find love but attraction and love is so much more complicated than you think, I’m not saying you can’t be a wife & mother I’m just saying those are BIG and life altering responsibilities and you should ask yourself why you want to be them so bad? Is it because you’re aging and you’re scared you’re not going to be desired by pedophiles who like underage girls ? Why do you want to me desired by men who think a woman’s value depends on her age in the first place ?? Why do we want that to be THE FATHER OF OUR CHILDREN ERE TEWUUU!!! Let me calm down…. As women we get so caught in these stupid societal delegations that we miss out on our lives and our true desires. Do you know how important it is to make money as a human being?? No you don’t you’re too busy chasing Abebe because you want to be a baby mama “atleast” eshhh 🤦🏾‍♀️!

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I can't stand myself I feel like a loser.

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Hey guys bewnet balefew vent baderekut be dedebna fkregnae kenega endthun slemnat ende neber teredchalw ena zare Mar 25 26 couragun aginche one final message mn yahl dedeb endehonkugn ena meketel endemtfelgi weyim endematfelgi negerign "anketlm beteyi you're not something different enketl kalsh gn I'll make sure to make u feel different" beye be secondary accounte text lakulat bcha bezawm profiluan be accountu check sareg yehone ye gibiwan(university) wend post argalech story lay "HBD BOSS" bela mind u guys on my BD she didnt even wished me a hbd by a dm 😆😆😅 she didnt said anything to me be main accounte alayeutm hide arga nw leka post yaderegechiw 😁 textun lakulat ena she said ok let's end it here 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ I said okay it doesnt matter keza tseloten tseleyku keza yihew metche vent argealw life goes on she's not my ex I dont wanna count a mistake 😁✌️ ena thank you lelachu felge nw guys yall really opened my eyes lenem lesuam breakup maregachn ye geta fkad nw smu yibarek 🙏

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hey yall F,27YR old ,Here iam running to my 27th year lsot in the middle not being lost but trying my best to not make regrets or mistakes that would bite me later.so speaking of my life i work in a good place thankful for it but we seek for something bigger and thing i can make my parents happy and help them live a happy life make my little siblings get a life tofether and iam applying somewhere i think i wanna see my self working i still didnt get accepted yet but itts under review but iam in the middle of it and if i get it trust me i know some part of me would be happy and i know i would make my fam happy and get them out of streess so what iam curios is that the fact i got this man i got in my life where i think no one handled my emotions ,my secrets my youth i dont know he made me feel comfort in the best way posible and i dont want to loose my best friend of long years and now my bf and we have plan on .....alot becha dont get me wrong he knows about this opportunity and he told me if i get accepted he will come with me and look for a job there but iam scared in away my gut feeling me weirdly getting abroad aint easy its something we cant just jump into for either of us and on his past his girl of 5 yrs was out for work they were talking to move there together but he didnt come to her ,he told me there werent meant for eachother and iam scared that he will again or i dont know i met his fam he met mine he came when i feel low on my happy days my worse days and i beilve i was there for him too gn yaw i dont know i have talked to him about it he obvuiosly didnt say i wont come there he said iam not leaving u anywhere so can you advise me if u were in my place.

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Please post for me, I wish I could even record.... The ladies out there, in the name of God, no matter what happens, do not, I repeat, do not take emergency contraceptives more than twice a year.... One thing they won't tell you, one thing your bad bitches and spoilt friends won't tell you is "emergency contraceptives is different from birth control", if you're not ready to get pregnant, please find birth control pills and not emergency contraceptives..... As I'm texting, I feel like ending my life, I know suicide isn't an option, but staying alive and knowing I'm going to get married one day but wouldn't be able to give my husband children is like a knife being pierced into my heart... Ladies please, no matter what, EC's aren't the option.... Not like I've taken it 4 or five times, just thrice guys just thrice and this happens.... I am just starting life yeah, I have the most strict parents, not a dbee but I have strict parents and siblings so when I get the chance to go out, i go and have fun... Not like sex, but go out buy a drink or two and come back home quietly I've just had sex twice, the first time was actually a mistake but the second time wasnt, I wanted to know why i felt pain in my abdomen the first time i had sex,not like hymen cut pain but abdominal pain,more like in being hit by something in my abdomen,took EC after the act as well,the third time wasn't sex but the guy mistakenly wiped my v with his p ,so me been scared,i took the pill again.... So recently I was bathing when I felt this sharp abdominal pain again, followed by bleeding, honestly I couldn't cry because I couldn't tell my parents the bad stuff I had done... I wore pad and told my bf, we went to the hospital together and that's where I found out I've always had an issue with my womb and with the least mistake I may suffer from etopic or miscarriage.... Hmm, according to the doctor if I've took an EC before having the sharp pain and bleeding then my womb has become vulnerable it wouldn't be able to hold a seed 💔,yes I couldn't tell him I took it.... We left the hospital after being given drugs... But I know it's the end for me, my dream of being a mother has just been spoilt by my stubborn self, my bf is acting all nice and he's going to be there bla bla, but I know when it gets critical, he'll leave, I've already prepared myself for that, yes Arnold , you're here I know you'll leave me soon, Even if you marry me out of pity you'll cheat.... Hmm, after all this , I decided to do a research on EC , that's where I found the difference between emergency contraceptives and birth control pills💔💔💔, according to my research one EC is equal to 30 birth control pills... So the two in postinor pack is actually equal to 60 birth control pills, so something someone would take in 60 days , you take in a day..... Imagine taking it continuously ladies😭💔,just thrice and I've lost the strength of my womb, what if I had taken it 4 or 5 times? Ladies please, and please, don't follow pleasure and spoil your future like I've spoilt mine. If the guy doesn't have condoms, don't let him eat, if he rapes you, report him, because when it becomes critical and you can't have kids , he'll cheat and leave you... No matter what, don't take EC pills, Even with the birth control pills, the more you take the higher your chances of becoming infertile is... Ladies I beg you.... Don't follow pleasure and kill your future kids

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Am so in love with selte men like ds silu am half selte ena bka like eyadeku semta mnmn sehed hager bet they respect their women mnmn religious nachew wellahi bza becha enem selte magbate new ekede becha keep it up telyubgalachu ezim kalachu🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Hello am 24 F
I have been dating a guy for almost two months now and he seems very attracted to me and he's not Ethiopian. The thing is I feel like he's too obsessed with himself and his nationality that he doesn't want to admit that he's attracted to me (an Ethiopian girl ) and he looks down on all other nationalities , he never directly compliments me , even though I know he finds me very beautiful and he does such a great effort just to meet me and see me and continuously asks me for photos . I have never felt like this before, I never doubted my beauty. I don't know what to do it's really bothering me .

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How can a girl like me survive in this country? I wanna stay virgin till I get married but I also wanna have fun and explore while still being a virgin. I don't know how that works. But yeah, that's my issue.

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Hi everyone.
I want to ask you a question. You know how we usually judge people for leaving their partners when they are ill? Imagine hearing a story where you heard someone left their partner cause they had cancer. Horrible right? I know. I might think that too.
But what if they were mentally ill? Because it really doesn't mean they've lost their minds. It might mean they are depressed. The person you called your world is now not picking up your phone, not answering your texts, and partying with friends,for you- (especially us girls) this is a sign that you are not loved anymore. For him- he is acting out. Escaping from all his dark thoughts and he just doesn't want to drag you in.
I can understand this world do contain evil and toxic people but, trust me, sometimes people are just tired. Therefore we are often faced with 2 decisions.
A. Choosing yourself
B. Choosing your loved ones.
Now I have tried option B before and it almost killed me. But different person different story. ( I know you think you see a pattern here but trust me it's not :) that's an entirely different situation) but the pattern here is me, not wanting to 'fix' people, I hate that term, but not being willing to leave when things get hard. Right now, I am trying so hard to move on from a man I truly love, just because he has been acting out for months. Most days, I felt like I can't really help him no matter how much I contact him,he just wants to party out with his friends, he wants to avoid home because of what he is going through.
I don't drink or do any drugs and I really don't want to be with a person who does those things. But, how can I be supportive without sinking to that world myself? Because then I would also be a burden to him, my family and my friends. I really thought I would marry this guy but God had other plans I guess... let me know your thoughts.
And if anyone knows any rehab centers or good place for therapy, please let me know on the comments.
Thank you

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