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I have a gf ena ex neberat kene befit so kesu ga eyalech nude mnamn yilalaku neber then break up argew kenega kehonech buhala elekewalew abreshign kalonsh mnamn eyale asferarat ene ex endalat hula alakm neber enquan yihen Hulu neger keza yihe neger sifeter hulunm neger detail negerechign begizew betam tenadje neber keza gn enedemnm rasen aregagche kalechibet neger endweta areku negerum mifelgewn yakl birr kefye fix arekut keza buhala gn smete endedrow alon alegn esuaga mn mareg nw yalebgn

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Hey guys,
Do you remember that guy I told you about that I met on @NovaNestMatchBot  ? Yeah… I stopped talking to him immediately.
But now I met another guy on the same bot and honestly he feels sooo different. Like, he’s very calm, respectful, and the way he talks to me is just… different. The topics he brings up, how he listens, everything feels kind of genuine and innocent.
The problem is my friend keeps telling me he might just be pretending, like “guys on dating platforms are players” and all that. And now it’s stuck in my head.
But at the same time, I really don’t fully agree with that. I feel like a lot of guys on these platforms are actually just introverted or shy. Like, they’re not the type to go up to a girl on the street and ask for her number. Maybe they just want to avoid rejection or they’re more comfortable talking online first.
And honestly, those kind of guys are usually the calm ones, the respectful ones… the ones who actually want something serious, not just playing around. That’s why part of me feels like he might actually be genuine.
So now I’m confused 😭 should I trust my feeling and give him a chance or am I just overthinking everything?
What do you guys think?

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Pello 26 M and I’m busy most of the time work takes up a lot of my life. I even work on weekends, but occasionally I get random days off, maybe a couple of days here and there. The problem is, on those free days, my mind goes to a really dark place. I start having messed-up thoughts and find myself thinking about death a lot. Suicidal thoughts come into my head. When I’m busy, I don’t have time to think about those things I just get tired and sleep well. But when I’m free during the day, those thoughts take over. Then at night, since I haven’t worked and still have energy, I can’t sleep. It feels like the weight of the world is on me. When it gets dark, the feeling gets worse I think about dying, not necessarily hurting myself, but wishing I could just pass away peacefully in my sleep. This usually happens about twice a month, which is also when I tend to get free time. Someone suggested going to the gym, and I’m thinking about starting not to get big, but just to tire my body so my mind can rest and I can sleep better on those days.
Does anyone else feel like this?

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Suppppppp i got stn to say im i tho only who loves and enjoys one or lelam sew like seX chat like me i like getting wild and n@sty idk why but im liking it fr my ex Gf used to love it now im alone to do it sad life

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Sup wegentat set lj best friend kalat lefkr atmechm mnamn ybalal am the type of dude who crack he's besties,abro adegs...mnamn even they have bf they're down for it and i like coz it's for free so dating, jinjna,no stres mnamn negr so it's lit gn demo ahun gf lemeyaz sasb trust wef erase yerkut negr set edalamn argogal
Ena yhi negr bestie tebablo diry mehon ene gar bca nw weys alacu?

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hey everyone, i’m a uni student and i wanna stop feeling “cringe”.
so im not an introverted person but im not an extrovert as well. it just kinda depends on the situation. the thing is, i get embarrassed a lot. i get embarrassed by my actions, by others actions. in fact, second hand embarrassment is the worst for me omg, it just makes me soooo uncomfortable.
and now i want this feeling to stop. i want to get rid of my fear of being perceived and judged. i wanna live my life without feeling embarrassed. bro, i get anxious about the way i walk, the way i talk to people, the way i eat, communicate and just breath.
it’s not like im a shy person eko but it’s just idk how to explain it but beka i feel like everyone’s watching me the moment i do something.
im not defar.
i want to be a gegema and defar sew.
so i want advice on how i can overcome this, how i can get rid of this “cringey” emotion and be a grown up??
please don’t give me some dumbass advice. make it a realistic one.

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Guys zare mrt yehone sra lsetachu new yemr bzu 12 yakwaretu or demo uni honew genzeb manm maylklachew ljoch alu enesum bayhonu genzeb ende atakelay hulum mesrat yfelgal ena ene betam mrt yehone sra setachwalew awrugn yemr ye gibi temari honachu weekend sra felgalew mtlu MN eda alebachu teketrachu mtserut dormachu bcha honachu mesrat mtchlut neger eyale enante eza teketrachu mtagegnutn 2-3k birr temari kehonachu bewer 6k argachu tagegnutalachu 12 wedkachu or mnm sra yelelachu kehonachu demo yemr sraye blachu bedemb focus setachut keserachu bewer 20-30k kezam belay mesrat tchlalachu ene bemsetachu sra Maryamn ne wmlachu Guys sraw real new 100% enem eyeserawt beyekenu withdraw eyareku eyetetekemkubet new yetechegerachu slalachu enantenm ltkem bye new awrugn yhen edl atabaknu @leotrossardglazer

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It has been one year since I lost my father, but I still can’t believe he is really gone. My father is a person who can’t spend even one day away from us, so sometimes it feels impossible that he left us here. I miss him more than I can explain. I’m the oldest in my family, so everyone thinks I’m strong and that I can handle everything. I try to be that person for them, but the truth is I’m exhausted. I have so many responsibilities, and I feel like I have to keep everything together for everyone else although I think am not doing it.when I’m alone at night, I can barely breathe from the pain. I cry a lot, I can’t sleep and I feel like I’m carrying everything by myself.
When my father got sick, I left my job. Now it has been three years away from work, and going back feels very hard. Everything feels new and unfamiliar, and sometimes I doubt if I’m even capable anymore. My mind is always somewhere else, thinking about him and worrying about the future. Watching my father during his illness was one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. I saw his weakness, but I also saw how much hope he had to get better. Those moments, especially his last moments, are still stuck in my mind. When I hear about people surviving cancer, it hurts me deeply. I keep asking myself why not him, when he wanted to live and fight so much.
People think that time has passed and that we are doing better, but i still feel the same pain. wellahi I miss him every day. Right now, Im not close to any of my friends sometimes I just need someone I can be weak with. Someone I can talk to while I’m crying, someone who can listen and understand without expecting me to be strong all the time. I need a place where I don’t have to pretend that I’m okay but i have lost them through this time

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21M ena mndenw ngeru ke 4 wer befit yehonch lj tewaweki nbr ena be normal ende jelese enawera tebabelen mawerate jemren keza betam tegenaban yelile  bezu gezi ende mitewawek sew honen bemehal  kezare 2 wer befite tetalan beyhon gudaye keza sry beyate tareken keza mawerat ketelen degami tetalan betenesh nger malt yehin yahel ayatalem benawera misetekakel nger nbr esua gn enbi alech belat beserat gegemechbgn ena lemaseredate semoker lila tefatoch atefaw gn lemetarek bey nbr keza bka mnm lesemagn alchalechm akomen mawerat ena bka ene mnm leresate alchalkum betam seletegbaban nw meslgn sisterin endataw ayente semet nw misemagn yelile nw yedebregn ena mn telalachu hasabe setugn mn yeshaaalale ?

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Hi I'm 25 M I’m not looking for perfect, just someone genuine. Someone who wants to build something real together — laughter, late-night talks, and love that feels like home. Any on relates

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I need to vent for a second… and I could really use some advice. 🙏

So I met this guy on LinkedIn (yeah… probably not the most typical place 😅). It started completely professionally, I needed advice about school/work since he lives in that country. We talked for about two months, and over time we got more comfortable and started sharing more personal things, like family and everyday life.

Somewhere along the way, I realized I was starting to like him. He’s honestly my type introverted, intelligent, easy to talk to.
But then, in the middle of one of our conversations, he mentioned that he has a girlfriend. He said she was his best friend before they started dating. That really threw me off. I couldn’t understand why someone in a relationship would build such a deep connection with someone else.

After that, things got awkward, and we stopped talking. It’s been about five days now.

So now I’m stuck wondering… should I text him first? He’s the introverted type, so I don’t think he’ll reach out. But at the same time, I know he has a girlfriend, and I don’t know what the right thing to do is even if we do start talking again.

What would you do if you were in my place?
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ይህን የምፅፈው በከፍተኛ ጭንቀት ውስጥ ሆኜ ነው። i wish ወደዚህ የጥያቄ ደረጃ ባልደረስኩ ወይም እግዚአብሔርን እንዲህ ባልተጠራጠርኩ ብዬ because my religion (Christianity) is ሁሉ ነገሬ የተመሰረተበት መሰረቴ ነው እና ሰሞኑን when i started to question, everything in me started to shatter በጣም ትልቅ ፍርሃት ተሰማኝ የመኖር ትርጉሙ ጠፋኝ።
መጠየቅ የጀመርኩት እግዚአብሔር ሁሉን አዋቂ ስለሆነ በጥያቄዎቼ አይሰጋም ብዬ በማመኔ ነው፤ ምክንያቱም እንዳሰላስልና በምክንያት እንድመራ አእምሮን የሰጠኝ እሱ ነው።
First of all i didn't find a very convincing evidence if God is real or not, ይሄ እንዲያውም ብዙም አያስጨንቀኝም but even if there is God which one is the right one? Because every religion claims their way is the only right way and have some kind of evidence. ግን most of the evidences are presented in some twisted way there is no way me as person can confirm whether it is true or not.
I grew up in a Christian household. My mom prayed her whole life but nothing different happened. ሌላው አላማኝ እንደሚኖረው ነው የኖርነው በፀሎት የተለወጠ tangible የሆነ ነገር አላየሁም። personal experience ሌላ ነው እሱ ለኔ evidence ሊሆን አይችልም። also as someone who studied psychology those so called personal experiences has psychological explanation መንፈሳዊ experience ከመሆን ይልቅ።
Also church ስንማር the bible እስትንፋሰ እግዚአብሔር ነው ተብለን ነበር also God is perfect and doesn't change through time. But when i read the old testament i get really confused because God ordering people to be killed and tortured??? And in new testament ደሞ ተቀይሮ loving ሲሆን?
The concept of people being tortured forever in hell for not believing in Jesu's sacrifice seems absurd and not so loving because እኔንኳ በክርስቲያን ቤተሰብ በchurch አድጌ it doesn't seem very convincing ሌላው በሌላ religion ያደገ ሰው ይሄን እንዴት comprehend ሊያደርግ ይችላል If some miracles didn't happen? when i think about my non believer friends and family በጣም አዝናለሁ they're nice people but they're going to burn in hell forever?
if God wanted to save the whole world ለምን ለሁሉም ግልፅ በሆነና በማያወላዳ መልኩ አይገለጥም? Instead of ድብብቆሽ መጫወት ከሰዎች ጋር?
Honestly i am asking these questions just to have clear understanding on what i believe not just to argue or debate. If you have answers እሰየው otherwise you don't need to say anything. But if you have been there and find an answer please አንድ በሉኝ። I badly wanted to believe in God, a perfect loving God, it is getting out of my hand. እንዲያዉም በsocial media በማየው ነገር ለሴጣን በር ከፍቼ እምነቴን እንዲበትን ፈቅጄ ይሆን ብዬም አሰብኩ but it isn't making any sense. And I also prayed to God to show me himself so that i find peace but nothing happened so far i don't know what to do I'm really confused.

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First of all I want to thank all the people u gave their advice it was like a wake up call.
And after thinking about i decided to tell him and when I told him he was very mad as to why I'm stayed quiet I told him I just did want to stress you and he said "that what marriage, is share eachothers stress and that doesn't matter who the person is nobody can you comfortable, you're my family just like them and if they have forgotten about that I will remind them"
So he first met with his mom and sister and they talk and then call for a family meeting and said what he told me earlier and that its none of their bussiness and that he did not marry a baby making machine but a partner in life also children are a possibility in the future not a duty on me.
I tired to holding tears but as soon as I hear those words the water work just started its not that was a weak person but in the moment of my weakness and poor judgment he was there for her stood up for again his own family he looked so determined and proud as he spoke of me. He didn't even question if what I said was true or not he look me in the eyes and that was enough for him to believe me.
After crying so much, I was quite on our way to our home I didn't know what to say i just said l love you and he smile and said I love you too.

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My dad caught me jerking off

There was a shack in our compound, separate from the main house, where I used to spend a lot of time. It didn’t have a door, so I hung bed sheets over the entrance for privacy. The whole thing was made from ቆርቆሮ so when it rained, you can't hear a thing.

One afternoon, while it was pouring outside, I was inside the shack, gooning, facing away from the door. Suddenly, I felt a tap on my shoulder. I freaked, panicked, hastily pulled my pants, and turned around—only to see my dad smiling as if nothing had happened. He casually said, “Come eat mekses,” .

Life went on as if that moment never happened, but every now and then, the memory resurfaces—and it still weirds me out. I'm traumatized 😫

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wendoch edtmelsulgn new mfelgew 1 set mfelgut le sexual neger bcha new wey stayuat be sex ayn new mtayuat

Ewnetun ngerugn?

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Can you advise me how to make a man fall in love or what is really man wants in a women ! I don’t want to change my self but I want to know

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yall im cooked  ...
im a freshman uni student n first year non caffe mezgba alneberm , so for the 1st 5 months my mom souported me , and for the next semster she was hoping that i will be non cafe n the pressure wont be that difficult .... buttttt i wanted the money of the next pays of the non cafe or i will keep calling it  food money so i wanted it for my self to buy something for my career since its so expensive and at this moment if i even say a word about the thing i'm going to buy it wont be good for me , so i lied about getting paid the food money ....
i said nahh non caffe  mezgba alefeng ..... my mom literally lost it she kept saying i didn't care for her mnamn yk how moms are ...., and  the thing is i cant say i have the money  tho , so she said you will eat that damn cafe food i ain't gonna send you shit boyyyyy i wish there is a cafe food i wishhhhh daium i wish but nothing i cant even eat at cafe coz im  non cafe.

so idk she probably said she wil send me 2k even if im non cafe the choice is  I have to forget the idea of buying that thing and eat fr , or try to adjust... But adjusting takes much time ... And the cash won't be enough.
its either food or progress in life
  .... idk how to deal w this ,
and my bros can't ask them coz the one is married with serious debt the and  other strugels to just survive my sis unemployed the other her wedding is this march  EC . so im cooked fr , n my dad he's as good as a dead person even when i was little he never lifted a finger to do shit .....
so yeah im about to learn magic called SURVIVING UNI WITH ONLY 2K 👌

and my mom is even saying she wont take me w her to my sis wedding boy , its far like ye 2 ken guzo nw eza lmedres imagine her paying dersomels for me . the  thing is i just made it hard for her it's not only me  tho ....its the  situation its not really working for my mom .....


and you might say why are you telling us ... well this is a vent channel and im here to share my stressful life w ya and if i actually  made it and buy the thing i want and survive then attend my sis wedding  at the same time .... its a win wish me luck .... i'll write an update .

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Hey… 25M. Just moved to Bahir Dar Uni for some course, and I won’t lie—it’s been a bit of a strange start.
Everyone hypes up gibi life here, but right now it’s just me, a tight schedule, and a lot of quiet moments. Feels like something’s missing… or maybe someone.
I’m not really looking for anything too defined. Just someone chill, a little spontaneous, maybe a bit curious like me… someone to explore the city with, share late conversations, and see where the vibe goes.
If you’re here too and feeling the same—or just curious—reach out. Might be a long shot, but yea.

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This is a rant/question from 27 year old woman. As a feminist I’m so ashamed of myself and quite frankly angry at myself too. I never thought that I have internalized misogyny the way I have , I used to think i was clean of the blood so righteous that i used to boast about how I’m not mentally chained like the other male centered women are but turns out we have a lot in common than i thought. Saw a guy on here boastfully talking about how women in my age group are difficult to date because they have a lot of ”baggage” and they just love sticking it on every partner they meet. Well I understand that one should not even begin a new relationship if still wounded and hurt because it will affect the quality of the next relationship for the person and the person they’re with , throwing shade on women on their obsessive “trust issues” when it comes to being objectified and later on try to justify your objectification of women by saying “since the other ones had your body it’s only fair that I have it” as if it’s your God given right and her abstaining herself is above her because she’s not a “virgin “ anymore implying that’s just because this woman has had HUMAN experiences with other men she’s not worthy and deserving of that respect . Jeeez I wonder why these women have trust issues eh 🤔 ? Anywho the sad reality is that is how most men think in a highly patriarchal society like ours. I’m not trying to throw habesha men under the bus I wish it wasn’t true and this can also be seen by how the male centered ,men worshiping women view themselves and other women around them again just a lump of meat for a men’s desire and a baby machine. If a man does not “pick” you to give you the most mediocre sex of your life and fill your bellies up with babies every two years while he’s probably cheating on you and living his life to the fullest, then welp you have failed as woman in this society. Now imagine having these two groups of people in one setting ,now imagine existing in them , you can’t fathom the amount of internalized misogyny you have absorbed throughout your entire life especially on your early important developmental ages. Don’t get me wrong the older I’ve become the more I have started to see and really appreciate a women’s ability to create life it’s one of the most beautiful things to ever exist. And the nuclear family format sounds so good on paper but in reality it’s quite the opposite. So women I need you to understand that the bullshit that we have been fed ever since we were little kids is absolute BULLSHIT! I’m not saying you’re not going to find love but attraction and love is so much more complicated than you think, I’m not saying you can’t be a wife & mother I’m just saying those are BIG and life altering responsibilities and you should ask yourself why you want to be them so bad? Is it because you’re aging and you’re scared you’re not going to be desired by pedophiles who like underage girls ? Why do you want to me desired by men who think a woman’s value depends on her age in the first place ?? Why do we want that to be THE FATHER OF OUR CHILDREN ERE TEWUUU!!! Let me calm down…. As women we get so caught in these stupid societal delegations that we miss out on our lives and our true desires. Do you know how important it is to make money as a human being?? No you don’t you’re too busy chasing Abebe because you want to be a baby mama “atleast” eshhh 🤦🏾‍♀️!

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I can't stand myself I feel like a loser.

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