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It's something related w hygiene...do yall guys shave your butt Crack hair ? Js wondering do yall clean the back of ur ears n belly button incase if u guys r not aware of it I'm here to remind you

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Hey everyone 28f here
so its been a year since I got married to my husband and it been amazing I was worried of the " he will change once u get married " thing but he became even better. Now the issue is his family, at first they were so nice and treated like a princess since he is their son they were oner the moon when he got married but as soon as we got married they started asking for grand children which is normal but it started to get out of hand. every gathering will turn into a discussion as to why I'm not pregnant yet , we and my husband have already told them that we wanted to what abit but for some reason the judgment is hard on me. For context me and husband both have good jobs and I pursing my masters and his pursing his PhD along side our jobs which pay well. they think that im the one who saying no to my husband and that im being spolied and selfish.
my husband has already told them that it upto us to decide when we want to have kids to which they said ok but the moment im alone with they strats again and now they accusing me of being infertile and hiding it and strat to insult me. I dont want any conflict to happen b/n my husband and his family but it getting hard to ignore what they're doing.
So should tell my husband every thing ?

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent 15th October 2022 Here I am. Sitting on a couch. Eyelids so heavy almost as if they carry everything of everyone. I sometimes think that sleeping is the only way out, like it's the only place for serenity, peace…
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March 22 2020
I was an adult, with sharp articulation and a sharper mind. A grade A student. A nibbling curiosity at the back of my mind, always wanting to know more, discovery is a joy. Curious, I was.
I remember the first time he invited me to his house. I don't remember where I was exactly, probably going about my day in our compound as usual. "wanna come over, I want to show you something" Sure, why not. I always admired how curious I was. "wait here" I sat down, the wooden seat was where I always sat as it was good manners. Something slipping off, a cold feeling, then warm, the first touch, scrambling in a new sensation which I haven't been able to recognize yet. Nodding in agreement to the increasing intensities of the levels of the game we were playing. Curious, I was.
I went back by myself the next time, Curious of the new discovery. A surprised look he gave me, nonetheless menacing. The same seat, levels rising, heart beats fast, this time was different from the last but I'm not sure how. I want to know how. "don't tell anyone, alright?" Curious, I was.
Seconds to months, every new type of sensation is filling up the curiosity in my head and leaving it empty at the same time. I am used to this source of ecstasy now. Addicted. Twice a day? Maybe three. Everything else started to become boring, my thoughts always drifting to when he'll comeback and teach me something new. The best type of something new. A new playground. Curious, I was.
He whispered to his friend about what we just finished doing as I came in to the living room and was sitting down. Didn't he notice I was a curious one yet? I sense something eerie. A request presented, refusal followed. This was his sensation to teach me, not a stranger's. Mocking smiles were thrown at my vulnerability. "show me yours, then" I trembled. They just smiled back. I was starting to think we were equals, but I was reminded of how less I was. Much less. I felt sacrificed. I started to insist, they started cackling louder. Cried my lungs out in anguish, in realization, in hurt. Curious, I was.
Nobody should know, I decided. His request. Not an adult anymore, not articulate anymore. Became labeled as the "Silent one." Grade A student because books were a hideaway. The "Smart one." "Easy one." The addiction he planted persisting. Continuing what he taught me to feed the nibbling curiosity he left hungry and empty and cold. Curious, I was.
"….used to be so active, they just grow out of it, am I right? Anyways, the merchant then said….." nobody was asking why. It was just change, they presumed. Curious, I was.
" look at him, he just spends the whole day sitting around and doesn't go out to play or get into fights. He's such an angel." Curious, I was.
"besmam, he's always silent and does what he is told. Look at him, isn't he sweet? Always reading and drawing, look at what he drew the other day……" Curious child, I was.
"essey my obedient child, you have changed for sure…." Curious child, I was.
"what are you thinking about this much? You're only 8 snap out of it and hand me the spatula…." Curios Child, I was.
"your child is an excellent student from all 4th graders as we can see from his report card. But he struggles to make friends and just spends his time alone or in the library…" Curious child, I was.
"you used to act like an adult, like an old witch with your sharp words and fast thinking. You sure grew out of it. ahun jil honk, jezba neger, atawera atsema, eyesemahegn new aydel…." Curious child, I was.
"I'm breaking up with you, you're so weird..." Curious child, I was.
"look how fat he got…." Curious child, I was.
"he's a loser now…." Curious child, I was.
Curious child, I am.

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I saw people writing messages abt their partners nd it made me realize something…I don’t think he truly understands how much I love him he thinks he knows but nooooo ...it’s deeper than that he walks around thinking he’s all strong nd masculine but in my eyes? he’s just my baby 🥹 Sometimes I look at him nd feel bad that he has to exist in such a cruel world with so much on his mind I just wanna protect him from everything I wish I could give him the world like literally everything he’s ever wanted nd yeah sometimes we fight but one thing I’ll never ignore is how pure his heart is he’s genuinely such a sweet soul nd don’t even get me started on how fine he is i always fantasize cracking mnamn 🙂hes fine af 😭
I just love him… more than he probably realizes

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I'm just not happy and it feels like I will never be happy. I'm not exited to wake up the next morning and to start the day. Most of my nights I spent wishing, not to wake up the next day. Sometimes I feel ntng and some other times I feel everything and i have to physically stop myself or try do something to get away from the unorganised and overwhelming thought. And it feels like I'm spending my youth carelessly and I have no strength to get it back.

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This might be a sensitive topic so if I'm giving a trigger warning! ⚠️ Well, how can I say this, I have decided not to have kids. By kids I mean getting pregnant and giving birth. I found through other women's lives and hearing stories about the reality of pregnancy and I just thought that, that life isn't for me. Sure it might sound baffling to say this as an Ethiopian. Because here it's not a topic that's rarely brought up as most people here agree that children are a gift from the Lord. I mean you have the right to think that way. People are entitled to their opinions. But I'm just stating my opinion here. I'm not saying this on behalf of other women or anything like that. You might get upset and judge me like "how dare she deny the gift from the Lord!" or somewhere along those lines but as I said,this is my opinion. I don't wanna lose myself mentally and physically to have a baby in this economy. I can't afford that. I would never get back to my old self I used to be. Also I think I'm protecting my children by not bringing them to this world. It's better not to have children than have them only to regret them later. I'm saving them from hearing nasty insults, telling them they ruined my life for existing, etc. I mean, why would you do that when you brought them to this world, when they didn't ask for it? Also the thing some parents
flexing to your child "I brought you to this world so you should serve me for the rest of your life!" I'm sorry what? That's your child not your servant. If you want one just hire not give birth and treat them like shit.



Anyways sorry if this seems long and I also don't expect good comments here I just wanted to take this off my chest. You may dislike or disagree with me. Thank you for taking time to read this 🙏🏻

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I have a gf ena ex neberat kene befit so kesu ga eyalech nude mnamn yilalaku neber then break up argew kenega kehonech buhala elekewalew abreshign kalonsh mnamn eyale asferarat ene ex endalat hula alakm neber enquan yihen Hulu neger keza yihe neger sifeter hulunm neger detail negerechign begizew betam tenadje neber keza gn enedemnm rasen aregagche kalechibet neger endweta areku negerum mifelgewn yakl birr kefye fix arekut keza buhala gn smete endedrow alon alegn esuaga mn mareg nw yalebgn

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Hello guys, I met him through a Telegram dating bot called @NovaNestMatchBot  He was a perfect gentleman who had just arrived from Canada a few days prior. Our conversations were refreshing; he was incredibly…
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Hey guys,
Do you remember that guy I told you about that I met on @NovaNestMatchBot  ? Yeah… I stopped talking to him immediately.
But now I met another guy on the same bot and honestly he feels sooo different. Like, he’s very calm, respectful, and the way he talks to me is just… different. The topics he brings up, how he listens, everything feels kind of genuine and innocent.
The problem is my friend keeps telling me he might just be pretending, like “guys on dating platforms are players” and all that. And now it’s stuck in my head.
But at the same time, I really don’t fully agree with that. I feel like a lot of guys on these platforms are actually just introverted or shy. Like, they’re not the type to go up to a girl on the street and ask for her number. Maybe they just want to avoid rejection or they’re more comfortable talking online first.
And honestly, those kind of guys are usually the calm ones, the respectful ones… the ones who actually want something serious, not just playing around. That’s why part of me feels like he might actually be genuine.
So now I’m confused 😭 should I trust my feeling and give him a chance or am I just overthinking everything?
What do you guys think?

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Pello 26 M and I’m busy most of the time work takes up a lot of my life. I even work on weekends, but occasionally I get random days off, maybe a couple of days here and there. The problem is, on those free days, my mind goes to a really dark place. I start having messed-up thoughts and find myself thinking about death a lot. Suicidal thoughts come into my head. When I’m busy, I don’t have time to think about those things I just get tired and sleep well. But when I’m free during the day, those thoughts take over. Then at night, since I haven’t worked and still have energy, I can’t sleep. It feels like the weight of the world is on me. When it gets dark, the feeling gets worse I think about dying, not necessarily hurting myself, but wishing I could just pass away peacefully in my sleep. This usually happens about twice a month, which is also when I tend to get free time. Someone suggested going to the gym, and I’m thinking about starting not to get big, but just to tire my body so my mind can rest and I can sleep better on those days.
Does anyone else feel like this?

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Suppppppp i got stn to say im i tho only who loves and enjoys one or lelam sew like seX chat like me i like getting wild and n@sty idk why but im liking it fr my ex Gf used to love it now im alone to do it sad life

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Sup wegentat set lj best friend kalat lefkr atmechm mnamn ybalal am the type of dude who crack he's besties,abro adegs...mnamn even they have bf they're down for it and i like coz it's for free so dating, jinjna,no stres mnamn negr so it's lit gn demo ahun gf lemeyaz sasb trust wef erase yerkut negr set edalamn argogal
Ena yhi negr bestie tebablo diry mehon ene gar bca nw weys alacu?

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hey everyone, i’m a uni student and i wanna stop feeling “cringe”.
so im not an introverted person but im not an extrovert as well. it just kinda depends on the situation. the thing is, i get embarrassed a lot. i get embarrassed by my actions, by others actions. in fact, second hand embarrassment is the worst for me omg, it just makes me soooo uncomfortable.
and now i want this feeling to stop. i want to get rid of my fear of being perceived and judged. i wanna live my life without feeling embarrassed. bro, i get anxious about the way i walk, the way i talk to people, the way i eat, communicate and just breath.
it’s not like im a shy person eko but it’s just idk how to explain it but beka i feel like everyone’s watching me the moment i do something.
im not defar.
i want to be a gegema and defar sew.
so i want advice on how i can overcome this, how i can get rid of this “cringey” emotion and be a grown up??
please don’t give me some dumbass advice. make it a realistic one.

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Guys zare mrt yehone sra lsetachu new yemr bzu 12 yakwaretu or demo uni honew genzeb manm maylklachew ljoch alu enesum bayhonu genzeb ende atakelay hulum mesrat yfelgal ena ene betam mrt yehone sra setachwalew awrugn yemr ye gibi temari honachu weekend sra felgalew mtlu MN eda alebachu teketrachu mtserut dormachu bcha honachu mesrat mtchlut neger eyale enante eza teketrachu mtagegnutn 2-3k birr temari kehonachu bewer 6k argachu tagegnutalachu 12 wedkachu or mnm sra yelelachu kehonachu demo yemr sraye blachu bedemb focus setachut keserachu bewer 20-30k kezam belay mesrat tchlalachu ene bemsetachu sra Maryamn ne wmlachu Guys sraw real new 100% enem eyeserawt beyekenu withdraw eyareku eyetetekemkubet new yetechegerachu slalachu enantenm ltkem bye new awrugn yhen edl atabaknu @leotrossardglazer

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I'm 27 i am feeling very weak and tired of believing something good will happen in the future like getting married,having good business and so many other my child hood dreams sometimes i feel like if suicide is…
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It has been one year since I lost my father, but I still can’t believe he is really gone. My father is a person who can’t spend even one day away from us, so sometimes it feels impossible that he left us here. I miss him more than I can explain. I’m the oldest in my family, so everyone thinks I’m strong and that I can handle everything. I try to be that person for them, but the truth is I’m exhausted. I have so many responsibilities, and I feel like I have to keep everything together for everyone else although I think am not doing it.when I’m alone at night, I can barely breathe from the pain. I cry a lot, I can’t sleep and I feel like I’m carrying everything by myself.
When my father got sick, I left my job. Now it has been three years away from work, and going back feels very hard. Everything feels new and unfamiliar, and sometimes I doubt if I’m even capable anymore. My mind is always somewhere else, thinking about him and worrying about the future. Watching my father during his illness was one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. I saw his weakness, but I also saw how much hope he had to get better. Those moments, especially his last moments, are still stuck in my mind. When I hear about people surviving cancer, it hurts me deeply. I keep asking myself why not him, when he wanted to live and fight so much.
People think that time has passed and that we are doing better, but i still feel the same pain. wellahi I miss him every day. Right now, Im not close to any of my friends sometimes I just need someone I can be weak with. Someone I can talk to while I’m crying, someone who can listen and understand without expecting me to be strong all the time. I need a place where I don’t have to pretend that I’m okay but i have lost them through this time

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21M ena mndenw ngeru ke 4 wer befit yehonch lj tewaweki nbr ena be normal ende jelese enawera tebabelen mawerate jemren keza betam tegenaban yelile  bezu gezi ende mitewawek sew honen bemehal  kezare 2 wer befite tetalan beyhon gudaye keza sry beyate tareken keza mawerat ketelen degami tetalan betenesh nger malt yehin yahel ayatalem benawera misetekakel nger nbr esua gn enbi alech belat beserat gegemechbgn ena lemaseredate semoker lila tefatoch atefaw gn lemetarek bey nbr keza bka mnm lesemagn alchalechm akomen mawerat ena bka ene mnm leresate alchalkum betam seletegbaban nw meslgn sisterin endataw ayente semet nw misemagn yelile nw yedebregn ena mn telalachu hasabe setugn mn yeshaaalale ?

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Hi I'm 25 M I’m not looking for perfect, just someone genuine. Someone who wants to build something real together — laughter, late-night talks, and love that feels like home. Any on relates

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I need to vent for a second… and I could really use some advice. 🙏

So I met this guy on LinkedIn (yeah… probably not the most typical place 😅). It started completely professionally, I needed advice about school/work since he lives in that country. We talked for about two months, and over time we got more comfortable and started sharing more personal things, like family and everyday life.

Somewhere along the way, I realized I was starting to like him. He’s honestly my type introverted, intelligent, easy to talk to.
But then, in the middle of one of our conversations, he mentioned that he has a girlfriend. He said she was his best friend before they started dating. That really threw me off. I couldn’t understand why someone in a relationship would build such a deep connection with someone else.

After that, things got awkward, and we stopped talking. It’s been about five days now.

So now I’m stuck wondering… should I text him first? He’s the introverted type, so I don’t think he’ll reach out. But at the same time, I know he has a girlfriend, and I don’t know what the right thing to do is even if we do start talking again.

What would you do if you were in my place?
Help your girl out 🙏

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ይህን የምፅፈው በከፍተኛ ጭንቀት ውስጥ ሆኜ ነው። i wish ወደዚህ የጥያቄ ደረጃ ባልደረስኩ ወይም እግዚአብሔርን እንዲህ ባልተጠራጠርኩ ብዬ because my religion (Christianity) is ሁሉ ነገሬ የተመሰረተበት መሰረቴ ነው እና ሰሞኑን when i started to question, everything in me started to shatter በጣም ትልቅ ፍርሃት ተሰማኝ የመኖር ትርጉሙ ጠፋኝ።
መጠየቅ የጀመርኩት እግዚአብሔር ሁሉን አዋቂ ስለሆነ በጥያቄዎቼ አይሰጋም ብዬ በማመኔ ነው፤ ምክንያቱም እንዳሰላስልና በምክንያት እንድመራ አእምሮን የሰጠኝ እሱ ነው።
First of all i didn't find a very convincing evidence if God is real or not, ይሄ እንዲያውም ብዙም አያስጨንቀኝም but even if there is God which one is the right one? Because every religion claims their way is the only right way and have some kind of evidence. ግን most of the evidences are presented in some twisted way there is no way me as person can confirm whether it is true or not.
I grew up in a Christian household. My mom prayed her whole life but nothing different happened. ሌላው አላማኝ እንደሚኖረው ነው የኖርነው በፀሎት የተለወጠ tangible የሆነ ነገር አላየሁም። personal experience ሌላ ነው እሱ ለኔ evidence ሊሆን አይችልም። also as someone who studied psychology those so called personal experiences has psychological explanation መንፈሳዊ experience ከመሆን ይልቅ።
Also church ስንማር the bible እስትንፋሰ እግዚአብሔር ነው ተብለን ነበር also God is perfect and doesn't change through time. But when i read the old testament i get really confused because God ordering people to be killed and tortured??? And in new testament ደሞ ተቀይሮ loving ሲሆን?
The concept of people being tortured forever in hell for not believing in Jesu's sacrifice seems absurd and not so loving because እኔንኳ በክርስቲያን ቤተሰብ በchurch አድጌ it doesn't seem very convincing ሌላው በሌላ religion ያደገ ሰው ይሄን እንዴት comprehend ሊያደርግ ይችላል If some miracles didn't happen? when i think about my non believer friends and family በጣም አዝናለሁ they're nice people but they're going to burn in hell forever?
if God wanted to save the whole world ለምን ለሁሉም ግልፅ በሆነና በማያወላዳ መልኩ አይገለጥም? Instead of ድብብቆሽ መጫወት ከሰዎች ጋር?
Honestly i am asking these questions just to have clear understanding on what i believe not just to argue or debate. If you have answers እሰየው otherwise you don't need to say anything. But if you have been there and find an answer please አንድ በሉኝ። I badly wanted to believe in God, a perfect loving God, it is getting out of my hand. እንዲያዉም በsocial media በማየው ነገር ለሴጣን በር ከፍቼ እምነቴን እንዲበትን ፈቅጄ ይሆን ብዬም አሰብኩ but it isn't making any sense. And I also prayed to God to show me himself so that i find peace but nothing happened so far i don't know what to do I'm really confused.

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Hey everyone 28f here so its been a year since I got married to my husband and it been amazing I was worried of the " he will change once u get married " thing but he became even better. Now the issue is his family…
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First of all I want to thank all the people u gave their advice it was like a wake up call.
And after thinking about i decided to tell him and when I told him he was very mad as to why I'm stayed quiet I told him I just did want to stress you and he said "that what marriage, is share eachothers stress and that doesn't matter who the person is nobody can you comfortable, you're my family just like them and if they have forgotten about that I will remind them"
So he first met with his mom and sister and they talk and then call for a family meeting and said what he told me earlier and that its none of their bussiness and that he did not marry a baby making machine but a partner in life also children are a possibility in the future not a duty on me.
I tired to holding tears but as soon as I hear those words the water work just started its not that was a weak person but in the moment of my weakness and poor judgment he was there for her stood up for again his own family he looked so determined and proud as he spoke of me. He didn't even question if what I said was true or not he look me in the eyes and that was enough for him to believe me.
After crying so much, I was quite on our way to our home I didn't know what to say i just said l love you and he smile and said I love you too.

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My dad caught me jerking off

There was a shack in our compound, separate from the main house, where I used to spend a lot of time. It didn’t have a door, so I hung bed sheets over the entrance for privacy. The whole thing was made from ቆርቆሮ so when it rained, you can't hear a thing.

One afternoon, while it was pouring outside, I was inside the shack, gooning, facing away from the door. Suddenly, I felt a tap on my shoulder. I freaked, panicked, hastily pulled my pants, and turned around—only to see my dad smiling as if nothing had happened. He casually said, “Come eat mekses,” .

Life went on as if that moment never happened, but every now and then, the memory resurfaces—and it still weirds me out. I'm traumatized 😫

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