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Okay people I need your opinion on this. Me and my guy friend are travelling to a different city to deliver a gift to someone okay? But since we are going all the way there, we also decided to see the city around and return back late at night. By coincidence, the guy I like and been talking to for the past few months resides there. My friend's close friend is in the same city as well so I came up with an idea. We go there, deliver the stuff, see the city around until evening, go our separate ways and meet our people( I will see the night view with the guy I am into😋 ) and he will eat dinner with his buddie. Finally we will reunite to go back home. This sounds like a perfect plan. Now this dude is acting like I committed a sin for even thinking about it. He keeps saying this is our plan and why j am involving someone else, that I should stick to one thing at a time, that if I want to see the guy j should come some other time alone. He even said he is not interested in going anymore. I honestly didn't think it was that deep. So my question is, am I oblivious to social manners or is it just a him problem? Now I feel like I am the bad guy. Do i need to revise the plan? Thank you all 😊

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Sometimes I feel like my heart is stuck in two timelines.
One part of me is still attached to someone from years ago — someone who once liked me, someone I cared about deeply, maybe even my first love even though we never dated. We stayed friends, a really good friendship, and I think that’s why he still crosses my mind every single day. Not romantically anymore… just emotionally. He was such a big part of who I was becoming.
And then, out of nowhere, there’s someone new.
We talked for a few days, and it just clicked. The vibe was right, the conversation easy, the connection surprising. And then suddenly… silence. No explanation. And now I keep wondering — was it mutual? Did I imagine the connection? Did he stop because of my friendship with his best friend? Did I do something wrong by not texting first?
It makes me feel guilty on both sides.
Guilty that I still think about my old friend.
Guilty that I was excited about the new guy.
Guilty that I don’t actually want a relationship right now, but somewhere deep down… I want a connection. Just not one that drains me.
And maybe that’s the real issue — I think I might be afraid of relationships.
Afraid of losing myself, afraid of ruining friendships, afraid of choosing wrong, afraid of caring too much.
So I’m here… overthinking every small sign, feeling too much, saying nothing, and acting like everything is fine.
Anyone else ever feel stuck between what your heart remembers and what your heart might want next?

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Hi,am 20F
This for my muslim brothers and sisters please please please haram relationship west gebtachu mnmn kza enegebalen belachu mesmer atetasu buhala mechem maytefa tebsa new mikerbachu sabr argu kalchalachu dmo tolo tezeweju kalhone nessebsh endihon dua adergi just reminder ena lela yetazbkut neger wend lemesab attention lemagiget aguagul neger almareg like tsegur mawtat suri be abaya mnmn hell nooooo le market alkerebshm eko le zina raseshehn ataskemchi leb kamne bki new mnmn blo neger yelm yehnn sel rasen ende angel arge mnmn zenb yelelbge arge adelm gn bka adera adera

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Ene mlachihu for both guys and gurls too ur best freind cheat eyaregech weym cheat eyarege endehone binegrachihu honestly speaking what do u do ?

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Over 15 missed calls in a week. Finally, she picked up and said she was busy with an exam and assignments. Guess what? I still believed her, and after a week of that, she broke up with me. And again, guess what? I am still begging her to stay till now... 🥀 At least the suffering I feel when I am with her is much better than the suffering I would feel if I let her go.

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Hey 👋 I'm 22 f and i recently came across a video of a girl saying the kind of girl she doesn’t wanna be with is one who fantasizes about getting married and having kids. Honestly, while I believe everyone has the right to choose who they wanna be with and she’s entitled to her opinion, here’s the thing I've been noticing this a lot lately. Why is being a housewife so undermined in our society? 🤔

Why don’t the so-called “women with passion and careers” understand that being a housewife can be a passion too? It takes real emotional intelligence and empathy, and that naturally complements a woman’s nature. I’m not denying that everyone deserves education, goals, and the freedom to make their own decisions but a conservative woman choosing to prioritize marriage and raising children is just as valid as those "know it all"

The thing is, not only have certain movements made being a housewife seem insignificant tho society has also fed this delulu 🫠 mindset into immature men who think providing for their wife and kids is some kind of favor. It’s not!!! A man providing for his wife is like paying for a service after you’ve received it you’re giving back for what you’re already benefiting from. And paying for your kids’ education isn’t a favor either, it’s your responsibility.

Somewhere along the way, society also blurred the line between being submissive and being trapped submissiveness isn’t weakness tho🤗 It’s more like a child listening to their father you wouldn’t call that a cage right?

Overall, I genuinely believe everyone has the right to choose their own path. I respect my career driven girlies, but at the same time labeling conservative women as weak or passionless while claiming “I’m the standard” is just absurd. If you really believe women should choose their path then that should apply to trad wives too. I was raised by an amazing housewife a calm, beautiful soul 😍 who gave me her full attention growing up. I know what that kind of love feels like n i'm grateful for it. So to anyone who’s more conservative there’s nothing wrong with prioritizing your marriage and family. A healthy family is the foundation of a strong society.

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It's something related w hygiene...do yall guys shave your butt Crack hair ? Js wondering do yall clean the back of ur ears n belly button incase if u guys r not aware of it I'm here to remind you

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Hey everyone 28f here
so its been a year since I got married to my husband and it been amazing I was worried of the " he will change once u get married " thing but he became even better. Now the issue is his family, at first they were so nice and treated like a princess since he is their son they were oner the moon when he got married but as soon as we got married they started asking for grand children which is normal but it started to get out of hand. every gathering will turn into a discussion as to why I'm not pregnant yet , we and my husband have already told them that we wanted to what abit but for some reason the judgment is hard on me. For context me and husband both have good jobs and I pursing my masters and his pursing his PhD along side our jobs which pay well. they think that im the one who saying no to my husband and that im being spolied and selfish.
my husband has already told them that it upto us to decide when we want to have kids to which they said ok but the moment im alone with they strats again and now they accusing me of being infertile and hiding it and strat to insult me. I dont want any conflict to happen b/n my husband and his family but it getting hard to ignore what they're doing.
So should tell my husband every thing ?

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March 22 2020
I was an adult, with sharp articulation and a sharper mind. A grade A student. A nibbling curiosity at the back of my mind, always wanting to know more, discovery is a joy. Curious, I was.
I remember the first time he invited me to his house. I don't remember where I was exactly, probably going about my day in our compound as usual. "wanna come over, I want to show you something" Sure, why not. I always admired how curious I was. "wait here" I sat down, the wooden seat was where I always sat as it was good manners. Something slipping off, a cold feeling, then warm, the first touch, scrambling in a new sensation which I haven't been able to recognize yet. Nodding in agreement to the increasing intensities of the levels of the game we were playing. Curious, I was.
I went back by myself the next time, Curious of the new discovery. A surprised look he gave me, nonetheless menacing. The same seat, levels rising, heart beats fast, this time was different from the last but I'm not sure how. I want to know how. "don't tell anyone, alright?" Curious, I was.
Seconds to months, every new type of sensation is filling up the curiosity in my head and leaving it empty at the same time. I am used to this source of ecstasy now. Addicted. Twice a day? Maybe three. Everything else started to become boring, my thoughts always drifting to when he'll comeback and teach me something new. The best type of something new. A new playground. Curious, I was.
He whispered to his friend about what we just finished doing as I came in to the living room and was sitting down. Didn't he notice I was a curious one yet? I sense something eerie. A request presented, refusal followed. This was his sensation to teach me, not a stranger's. Mocking smiles were thrown at my vulnerability. "show me yours, then" I trembled. They just smiled back. I was starting to think we were equals, but I was reminded of how less I was. Much less. I felt sacrificed. I started to insist, they started cackling louder. Cried my lungs out in anguish, in realization, in hurt. Curious, I was.
Nobody should know, I decided. His request. Not an adult anymore, not articulate anymore. Became labeled as the "Silent one." Grade A student because books were a hideaway. The "Smart one." "Easy one." The addiction he planted persisting. Continuing what he taught me to feed the nibbling curiosity he left hungry and empty and cold. Curious, I was.
"….used to be so active, they just grow out of it, am I right? Anyways, the merchant then said….." nobody was asking why. It was just change, they presumed. Curious, I was.
" look at him, he just spends the whole day sitting around and doesn't go out to play or get into fights. He's such an angel." Curious, I was.
"besmam, he's always silent and does what he is told. Look at him, isn't he sweet? Always reading and drawing, look at what he drew the other day……" Curious child, I was.
"essey my obedient child, you have changed for sure…." Curious child, I was.
"what are you thinking about this much? You're only 8 snap out of it and hand me the spatula…." Curios Child, I was.
"your child is an excellent student from all 4th graders as we can see from his report card. But he struggles to make friends and just spends his time alone or in the library…" Curious child, I was.
"you used to act like an adult, like an old witch with your sharp words and fast thinking. You sure grew out of it. ahun jil honk, jezba neger, atawera atsema, eyesemahegn new aydel…." Curious child, I was.
"I'm breaking up with you, you're so weird..." Curious child, I was.
"look how fat he got…." Curious child, I was.
"he's a loser now…." Curious child, I was.
Curious child, I am.

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I saw people writing messages abt their partners nd it made me realize something…I don’t think he truly understands how much I love him he thinks he knows but nooooo ...it’s deeper than that he walks around thinking he’s all strong nd masculine but in my eyes? he’s just my baby 🥹 Sometimes I look at him nd feel bad that he has to exist in such a cruel world with so much on his mind I just wanna protect him from everything I wish I could give him the world like literally everything he’s ever wanted nd yeah sometimes we fight but one thing I’ll never ignore is how pure his heart is he’s genuinely such a sweet soul nd don’t even get me started on how fine he is i always fantasize cracking mnamn 🙂hes fine af 😭
I just love him… more than he probably realizes

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I'm just not happy and it feels like I will never be happy. I'm not exited to wake up the next morning and to start the day. Most of my nights I spent wishing, not to wake up the next day. Sometimes I feel ntng and some other times I feel everything and i have to physically stop myself or try do something to get away from the unorganised and overwhelming thought. And it feels like I'm spending my youth carelessly and I have no strength to get it back.

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This might be a sensitive topic so if I'm giving a trigger warning! ⚠️ Well, how can I say this, I have decided not to have kids. By kids I mean getting pregnant and giving birth. I found through other women's lives and hearing stories about the reality of pregnancy and I just thought that, that life isn't for me. Sure it might sound baffling to say this as an Ethiopian. Because here it's not a topic that's rarely brought up as most people here agree that children are a gift from the Lord. I mean you have the right to think that way. People are entitled to their opinions. But I'm just stating my opinion here. I'm not saying this on behalf of other women or anything like that. You might get upset and judge me like "how dare she deny the gift from the Lord!" or somewhere along those lines but as I said,this is my opinion. I don't wanna lose myself mentally and physically to have a baby in this economy. I can't afford that. I would never get back to my old self I used to be. Also I think I'm protecting my children by not bringing them to this world. It's better not to have children than have them only to regret them later. I'm saving them from hearing nasty insults, telling them they ruined my life for existing, etc. I mean, why would you do that when you brought them to this world, when they didn't ask for it? Also the thing some parents
flexing to your child "I brought you to this world so you should serve me for the rest of your life!" I'm sorry what? That's your child not your servant. If you want one just hire not give birth and treat them like shit.



Anyways sorry if this seems long and I also don't expect good comments here I just wanted to take this off my chest. You may dislike or disagree with me. Thank you for taking time to read this 🙏🏻

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I have a gf ena ex neberat kene befit so kesu ga eyalech nude mnamn yilalaku neber then break up argew kenega kehonech buhala elekewalew abreshign kalonsh mnamn eyale asferarat ene ex endalat hula alakm neber enquan yihen Hulu neger keza yihe neger sifeter hulunm neger detail negerechign begizew betam tenadje neber keza gn enedemnm rasen aregagche kalechibet neger endweta areku negerum mifelgewn yakl birr kefye fix arekut keza buhala gn smete endedrow alon alegn esuaga mn mareg nw yalebgn

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Hey guys,
Do you remember that guy I told you about that I met on @NovaNestMatchBot  ? Yeah… I stopped talking to him immediately.
But now I met another guy on the same bot and honestly he feels sooo different. Like, he’s very calm, respectful, and the way he talks to me is just… different. The topics he brings up, how he listens, everything feels kind of genuine and innocent.
The problem is my friend keeps telling me he might just be pretending, like “guys on dating platforms are players” and all that. And now it’s stuck in my head.
But at the same time, I really don’t fully agree with that. I feel like a lot of guys on these platforms are actually just introverted or shy. Like, they’re not the type to go up to a girl on the street and ask for her number. Maybe they just want to avoid rejection or they’re more comfortable talking online first.
And honestly, those kind of guys are usually the calm ones, the respectful ones… the ones who actually want something serious, not just playing around. That’s why part of me feels like he might actually be genuine.
So now I’m confused 😭 should I trust my feeling and give him a chance or am I just overthinking everything?
What do you guys think?

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Pello 26 M and I’m busy most of the time work takes up a lot of my life. I even work on weekends, but occasionally I get random days off, maybe a couple of days here and there. The problem is, on those free days, my mind goes to a really dark place. I start having messed-up thoughts and find myself thinking about death a lot. Suicidal thoughts come into my head. When I’m busy, I don’t have time to think about those things I just get tired and sleep well. But when I’m free during the day, those thoughts take over. Then at night, since I haven’t worked and still have energy, I can’t sleep. It feels like the weight of the world is on me. When it gets dark, the feeling gets worse I think about dying, not necessarily hurting myself, but wishing I could just pass away peacefully in my sleep. This usually happens about twice a month, which is also when I tend to get free time. Someone suggested going to the gym, and I’m thinking about starting not to get big, but just to tire my body so my mind can rest and I can sleep better on those days.
Does anyone else feel like this?

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Suppppppp i got stn to say im i tho only who loves and enjoys one or lelam sew like seX chat like me i like getting wild and n@sty idk why but im liking it fr my ex Gf used to love it now im alone to do it sad life

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