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Hello, no judgment please.

I’m a 26 M. There’s one girl I’ve been casually involved with we’ve been seeing each other and sleeping together on and off for over 5 years. There’s another girl I have a similar situation with in the past, and i still meet occasionally with both of them.

Recently, I met someone new. We mostly talk on the phone, and I really enjoy our conversations. She’s intellectual, understands my humor, and I genuinely like talking to her. I haven’t met her in person yet, but she seems serious and more relationship-oriented.

The thing is, I’m not sure I’m ready for something serious right now. At the same time, I can see her as someone I could be with in the future, at least personality-wise. I’ve been thinking about ending things with the other two girls, but I feel conflicted.

I’d appreciate any advice.

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ሴቶች በመንፈሳዊውም ይሁን በስጋዊው አለም በአፈጣጠራቸው የፍላጎታቸው ተገዢ ናቸው እንጂ አፍቃሪ አይደሉም። ይህን በምሳሌ ላስረዳቹ፦👇
አንዲት ሴት ከአንድ ወንድ ሀብቱን፣ ባህሪውን፣ የወሲብ ግንኙነቱን ወዘተ ከዛ ወንድ(ሰው) ስለምታገኝ ለፍላጎቱዋ ስትል ትወደዋለች እንጂ በነፃ ፍቃዱዋ አታፈቅረውም። የምታፈቅረው ግለሰቡ ጋር ያለውን #ፍላጎቱዋን ነው።

አንዳንድ ሴት እህቶቻችን #አፈቀርኩ ብለው የሚናገሩትና የሚያዝኑትም ግለሰቡ ጋር ያለውን ፍላጎታቸውን እንጂ ግለሰቡን አይደለም።

ሴት ልጅ በተፈጥሮዋ አንድ ሰው ብቻ ነው ምታፈቅረው እሱም #ልጇን ነው። እስቲ ሴት ልጅ ማፍቀር ተፈጥሮዋ እንዳልሆነና ለፍላጎቱዋ ተገዢ መሆኑዋን ከመፅሐፍ ቅዱስም ከታሪክም እያጣቀስን እንመልከት።

#አለም በሴት ጠፍታ በሴት ብትድንም፣ እናትም እህቶቻችን ሴቶች ቢሆንም ተፈጥሯቸው ግን እጅግ አደገኛና ለማፍቀር ምቹ እንዳልሆነ መፅሀፍ ቅዱስም፣ የታሪክ መዛግብትም ይነግሩናል።
የጠቢቡ ሰለሞንን ያህል ማን ጥበበኛ አለ ግን በሴት ተሸነፈ። የዳዊትን ያህል በእግዚአብሔር ፊት የተወደደና ሞገስ ያገኘ ማን አለ ፈጣሪ እራሱ "እንደልቤ" ያለው ሰው ነበር ግን በሴት ተሸነፈ ወደቀ! የሳምሶንን ያህል ሀያል ማን አለ ግን "ደሊላ" በምትባል ባመናትና ባፈቀራት ሴት ሀይሉን አጣ። ወደ ሰው ልጆች የመጀመሪያውን#ሞት ማን አመጣ? ሴት አይደለችምን?! እንደ አምላክ ለመሆን ካላት ፍላጎት የተነሳ አትብሉ የተባለውን ፍሬ ቀጥፋ መብላቷ ሳያንስ ለአዳምም ሰጠችው ሞትንም አመጣች። የጥንቱ አለም ስልጣኔ በማን ፈራረሰ በሴት አይደለምን?! የአክሱም ስልጣኔ በማን ፈራረሰ በሴት አይደለምን?! በዮዲት ጉዲት...!
#ሳይንስ ሴቶችን ከወንዶች በተሻለ በማሰብ ክህሎት( IQ) 1.6% ይበልጣሉ ከወንዶች ይለናል!
የስነ-ልቦና አባት ተብሎ የሚታወቀው Sigmund Froide ለ36 ዓመት ስለሴት አጥንቶ በመጨረሻም አንድ ነገር ተናገረ "የሴትን ልጅ ትክክለኛ ስሜት ማወቅ አይቻልም 99 chamber አላቸው፤ አለን"! በአንድ ልባቸው 100 ሰው መውደድና ለእያንዳንዱም ተመሳሳይ የፍቅር ስሜትን ማሳየት ይችላሉ። ታዲያ ከመቶውም የሚፈልጉትን(ፍላጎታቸውን) ለማግኘት እንጂ ለመቶውም ፍቅር ኖሩዋቸው አይደለም። ይህን ለመረዳት queen of kiliopatra ማየት በቂ ነው። እያንዳንዱን የጦር ጄነራሎችና ባለጠጎች በፍቅሯና በውበቷ እየጣለች ፍላጎቶቹዋን ስታገኝ...የጦር ጄነራሎች ሳይቀሩ "ውበትሽ ከአንድ ባታሊዮን ጦር ይበልጣል" እያሉ በውሸት ፍቅሯ ሲማረኩ ይታያል። ታላቁን ባለቅኔ #ፑሽኪን እንኳን ለሚስቱ ሲል ከፈረንሳይ ልዑል ጋር ገጥሞ በመጨረሻም በልኡል ሰይፍ ከተቀላ በኋላ የፑሽኪን ሚስት በፍቅር አይን ልዑሉን አግባታዋለች። ሲግመንድ እንደሚለው የሴትን ስሜት መረዳት አትችልም 100 ወዳጆች ቢኖሩዋት ለመቶውም ተመሳሳይ የፍቅር ስሜትና ፍላጎት ማሳየት ትችላለች። ለየትኛው ጥሩ ስሜት እንዳላት ከእራሷ ውጪ ማንም በትክክል አያውቅም! የሴት ተፈጥሮ ለማወቅ የመፀሀፍ ቅዱስና የታሪክ መዛግብትን ማገላበጥ በቂ ነው!
ሰይጣንም ቢሆን አዳምን ያጠመደው #በሴት ነው! መጀመሪያውኑ አዳም ጋር መች መጣ?! የሴትን ተፈጥሮ የተረዳው የእስራኤሉ ሞሳድ እንኳን አብዛኛውን የስለላ ተቋም ምልምሎች #ሴቶች ናቸው። የእኛም ንጉስ አፄ ቴዎድሮስ ለስለላ ተግባር እንደ ታንጉት የአሉትን ሴቶችን ይጠቀሙ ነበር። እንደ #ጣይቱ ያሉት ነገስታት ደሞ በአድዋ ጦርነት እንዘምታለን እያሉ#ፈሪ ወንዶችን በስነልቦና አሳፍረው "ሴት ዘምታ" እኛ እንዴት እንሸሻለን እያስባሉ ከፊት ያዘምቱ ነበረ! ሴትን አትናቅ እየናካትም ከሆነ መናቅን አቁም! ሳቀችልኝ ብለህ ዝም ብለህ አትገልፍጥ እየሳቀችብህም ሊሆን ይችላል። ሰይጣን እንኳን ስለ ሴት ሲጠየቅ እኔ ስለ አለቆቼ ክፉ አልናገርም ብሏል አሉ።😄

ሴትን ለመጉዳት አትሞክር መቀበሪያን ነው ምትቆፍርልህ! አትናቃት ግን ተጠንቀቃት!!! በተረፈ ሴት ልጅ ጋር#ፍቅር ማለት ተረት ነው። ተፍጥሯቸው ያን አይፈቅድም። #ሴት አንድ ነገር ብቻ ያሸንፋታል እሱም የወለደችው #ልጇ ብቻ ነው!!!!!

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Hey everyone! A 22f curious to aks how do u all manage to live with other people? Yeah, everyone got flaws, but what do u do about those who pretend to be friends 👫 while backstabbing, smile at u with bad intentions 😈 or seem calm and composed but turn out to be trash? How do u keep smiling back when you know their true motives? How do you tell who’s genuinely kind and who’s fake, and how do you deal with the anger 😤and hurt after being betrayed by someone who always seemed sincere? The thing is i always struggle with this if i detach n stay by myself it feels like it’s not human to do so if I get closer, my energy just can’t lie tho n i end up drained and hurt also hate the fact that their after all is just attention 🤬

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Sup yall i vent stn about my last time and the moment j wrote that vent i were in a deep shit like everything was dark and empty no help nothing at all now Tnx To God im 3 weeks clean all lust is gone like before I used to beat my meat smoke a lot shit now im weeks clean and happy until stn happens the guys i call brothers were talking shi behind me like a bitch uk and the only thing I realized we cant leave peacefully idk why

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I want to be alive. I want to feel energy in my body again. Right now… I can’t even shower. I can’t sleep. I can’t sit properly. I can’t even stand. Everything feels heavy, like I’m trapped inside myself. My brain won’t stop spinning, but my body won’t move. I have plans, I have things I should do… but I just sit, and the days disappear.

I’m frustrated. I’m tired. I’m scared I’m wasting time. I want to feel awake. I want to move. I want to exist fully, not just float through life.

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Hi
Lately I was having suicidal thoughts, it's not like I will do it but it's the that comes to my mind when something goes wrong. I really tried opening up but either people don't really care or they don't understand me like I want them to, people think they have to say something or give advice but I just want them to listen. They will be like others had it worst 😭 for God sake I know and it took me forever to reach out to you and you decide to say that to me and I already feel like attention seeker for asking for help. But at the end of the day they don't owe me anything. But it would be really nice if they just listen.

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I need to respond to the guy who said women can't fall in love.
Here we go.
Let me just start by saying This is a completely foolish and inaccurate take one can have. Let's break it down one by one.
"ሴቶች በመንፈሳዊውም ይሁን በስጋዊው አለም በአፈጣጠራቸው የፍላጎታቸው ተገዢ ናቸው እንጂ አፍቃሪ አይደሉም" ላልከው take, we can use that same logic for men and say "ወንድ ልጅ ሴትን ከወሲብ ውጪ ለምንም አይፈልጋትም::" but that would be an inconsiderate and uneducated thing to say, because even though we have multiple examples that support this take, we wont, because our experiences and opinions are not a universal fact.

You used the Bible as an example to convise gullible teenagers, while in reality, half of the examples you used tell on you and your alikes.
"በሴት ተሸነፉ" የምትላቸው የ መፅሐፍ ቅዱስ ሰዎች መሳሪያ ተደቅኖባቸው ሳይሆን ለ ስጋቸው ተገዝተው ነው:: why is their lack of self control being blamed on women?
ዳዊት የሰው ሚስት (ከሱ ጋር የቀደመ ወዳጅነት የሌላትን ሴት) አየ: ተመኘ: ባሏን(የገዛ ወታደሩን) ለሞት አሳልፎ ሰጠው:: would it be fair for me to use this example to convince people that men will sleep with their loved ones' wives and kill their loved ones to cover it up? No. Why? Because that's idiotic.
You, my guy, are an idiot for using this example as an "evidence"

Saying "ይሄን ለማረጋገጥ እገሊትን ማየት ብቻ በቂ ነው" as if women are programmed the same way, as if they don't have different mindsets due to different experiences and environment is foolish and unwise.

We have an overwhelming amount of stories that tell us how men lied, killed, betrayed and stole, but its not blamed on their gender. Because when a man does something bad, its because he's a bad person. BUT if a woman does something bad, it's because she's a woman. Do you see how unfair, inconsistent, and hypocritical it is?

"ምድር በማን ጠፋች?" ብለህ ጠይቀሀል:: እኔ ደሞ ልጠይቅህ...
ምድር እንድትድን ክርስቶስ በማን በኩል መጣ? የክርስቶስን ከሞት የመነሳት የምስራች ማን ቀድሞ ተናገረ? ማን ወለደህ? ማን አሳደገህ? ሴት ልጅ ባታፈቅር ነው ራሷን ማንነቷን ጥላ ባል እና ልጆቿን በመንከባከብ እድሜዋን የምትጨርሰው? ሴት ልጅ ባታፈቅር ነው እየተደበደበች መለያየት ማትፈልገው?
Why are women being called evil for using their brains? ሴት ናት ያደደበችህ?
women choosing a rich man was a survival method, because they weren't allowed to go to work and provide for themselves so getting married was the only option to be financially free. A broke man meant an empty stomach. While I do believe that there are women who use men for their money and status, that's clearly not the case for every woman.
Currently, 94% of women want love and companionship as the primary reason to marry(Check researchgate/Kinsey findings) if you want a real evidence

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selam sewoch endet nachu ahun ley betam gra yemiagaba hiwet wst new yalewt tariku betam erejm new gn ahun ley 7 wer yekoye relationship wst negn kezi gngnunet befit gn 5 amet koyto yenebere relationship neberegn gn le 1 amet rasu ayhonm and ley yehonew long distance relationship neber kesu ga eyalew new yhen lij yawekut ena bzu gizewochn abren masalef jemern ena lesu yalegn smet eyetekeyere meta esum endemiafekregn ynegregn neber 6 wer mnamn betam tagye neber keza buhala gn alchalkum ena lezagnaw be tnshum bihon slenegeru negrew wshet binorbetm beka kesu ga teleyayen ena kezignaw ga honkugn yemijemeriawochu gizewoch des ylu neber gn eyekoyen sinmeta bahriw eyanadedegn new ke mejemeriaw ga mawedader jemerku ena esu yemifelgew esu yalew endihon esu hule tkkl endehone beka hule enen manipulate madreg new yemiakew esu tfat serto endemnm azuro ene ley yasabb ena ene ykrta teyaki ehonalew gn betam new beka yemnadedew demo sle gngnunetach enate tawkalech betam new yemtwedew ende lijwa new yemtayew ene betam new gra yegebagn ene esun alamnewm lemn endehone alawkm meleyayet efelgalew gn be mn menged beza ley demo kbren setchewalew ena demo he is police esu ahun ley tdar bcha new yemiasbew ene gn gena bezi amet new yemmerekew bzu masakat yemfelgew neger ale ena wedefit kesu ga tdar memesret eferalew bahriw yasferagnal please btamakrugn betam des ylegnal ebakchu

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Wtf is wrong with me gin beka i don't belong anywhere
I’m too conservative for this generation, too Gen Z for the Millennials, too religious for the philosopher Jema, a little agnostic for the devout, too quiet for the loud, too reflective for the impulsive, too serious for the jokers, too dreamy for the realists, too logical for the artists, too emotional for the stoics, too cautious for the risk-takers, too adventurous for the planners, too curious for the indifferent, too indifferent for the curious, too old-fashioned for the trendsetters, too modern for the traditionalists, too honest for the manipulators, too polite for the blunt, too blunt for the polite, too forgiving for the grudging, too stubborn for the flexible, too predictable for the spontaneous, too spontaneous for the predictable, too sensitive for the thick-skinned, too thick-skinned for the sensitive, too simple for the complex, too complex for the simple, told I'm too pretty for some people hideous for others, too short but still tall for the shortie queens, too girly for the tomboys still too edgy foe girly things, Am I too much or too little, or just a loner trying to find where I belong?
Where's my people God, do I even have any

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Hi girl 25 so I wanted advise so growing up I had very bad relationship with my dad he threw abusive words all up my face i did feel the hate growing up from some of the words that stick with Me were I rather die than be a grandfather to your kids if you ever have kids,I hate you,you ruined my life if you were not here my life would have been perfect,you are my regret I wish you didn't exist all this words stick with me growing up I did believe his words at some point right when I was 17 I tried to swallow pills cause I felt trapped with his abuse in the home half way I stopped I'm my mom and dad's only child only daughter so after some time my body started reacting bad to his abuse and yes I moved out at 18 I begged my mom ill do anything ill go to university just let me move out and she put her rent money on me for 4 years finished university graduated got employed the next year got financial capability to pay my own rent finished my second degree I was driven I did visit them every weekend so last year my mom had stroke I helped and did all I can the guilt of not living with her I carry it all the time but I chose my peace I felt like i would did if I ever move in that house again I know I'm misunderstood by relatives and neighbours but nobody knows my pain and what I dealt with so whenever I visit them my mom tells me to be close to her which I am call her and there every weekend and my dad tells me to quit my rented home to live with them which I know will be the end of me any advise?

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ትምቀነቀናለች፣ ማለቴ ትራመዳለች። እዛ የፎቅ ጫማዋ ላይ ተሰቅላ ትወዛወዛለች። በጠዋት ነው ከቤት የውጣችው፣ በእህቷ የልብስ መረጣ፣ ጸጉር ማንጨባረሩ፣ሽቶው፣ የከንፈር ቅቡ ምንም አልቀራት። እንደተለወጠች ለራሷም ታውቋታል፣ ያልታየ ውበቷን መጋረጃውን ገልጣለታለች። የጸጉሯ ጥቅልል ከትከሻዋ ተንዘርፏል፣ በኩል ያደመቀችው አይኖቿ ከሌላው ጊዜ በትለየ ጎላ ጎላ ብለዋል፣ ከቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲህ ከየት መጡ ሳይባል አበጥ ያሉት ጡቶቿ በለበሰችው ቀሚስ ተወድረው የማንም ቀልብ ያፈዛሉ። ዳሌዋ ሰፋ ተለቅ ብለው ስትራመድ የግል የመንግስት እያሉ ይሮጣሉ። ፍርሃት ፍርሃት ብሏታል። እንደዚህ ሆና አይቷት አያውቅም። ሁሌም ማማሯን ቢነግራትም ለአፉ እንጂ ከልቡ እንዳልሆነ ታውቃለች።

አምስት እርምጃ አልትራመደችም። ሰፈር ውስጥ ከላይ ታች ሁሌ ሚገላምጣት ልጅ አፉን ከፍቶ ሲለክፋት። ኮሶ እንደዋጠ ፊቷን ጨፍድዳ ተመናቅራ አለፈች.... መለከፉን ጠላታው አይደልም፣ የልቧን መደለቅ እንዳያውቅባትና የልብልብ እንዳይሰማው እንጂ። መዳረሻዋን እስክታጋምስ ለከፋውና ፉጨቱ እንደ ትንሽዬ ቡችሎች ከኋላ ተግትለትሉላት። ልቧ መደለቅ በቻ አይደልም እስክስታ ወረደ፣ ዋንጫ ለቀለቀ። በትንሹም ቢሆን ጎበጥ ያልችው ጀርባዋ ቀጥ ወጠር አለች ጡቶቿም የባስ ተሰበቁ፣ ወገቧ አጠፍ፣ አረማመዷም ቀበጥበጥ፣ ወረግረግ፣ ነጠርጠር አለ። ከጎኗ ከትድረደሩት የመኪኖች መስታዎት የራሷን መልክ ሰረቀጭ ራሷ ከፍ አለች፣ በከፍታ በረረች ።


በታክሲ መሄድ ሰትችል መራመዱን መረጠች። በአይን ትርምስ ውስጥ መሽሞንሞንን፣ ከሰው ጋጋታ ውስጥ መፋተግን። ሰልኩን ዘቅዝቆ አንዴ ራቅ አንዴ ደሞ ቀረብ እያለ ሲከተላት የንብረውን ልጅ አላየችውም፣ የሚቀርቡላትን ፈገግታዎችና አንገት ቁልመማዎች ስትቆጥር።
"ይቅርታ ማማዬ ሳይሽ ከልክ በላይ ስለከየፍሺኝ ቪዲዮ ቀረጽኩሽ ችግር የለውም አይደል?" ጸጉሩን እያፍተለተለ፣ ሊወልቅ የድረሰ ሱሪ አስሬ ወደላይ ይታጠቃል። ቆማ ቀረች። ልቧም ድለቃውን እግሯም እርምጃውን ገቱ።

"ማለት??" ግራ በተጋቡ አይኖቿ ዙሪያ ገባውን አይታ ወደሱ ተመልሰች
"ቲክ ቶክ ትሰሪያለሽ?" ጥያቄዋን በጥያቄ መለሰላት፣ እንደ ሽንኩርት ይልጣታል። ልብሷ ተገፎ እርቃን እንደቆመች ሁሉ።
"አይ የለኝም" ምን አይነት ስሜት እንደወረራት ከፊል ጥናት ላይ ነጭ
"ማርያምን ይሄንን የምሰለ ውበት ካልሰርሽበት ጅልነት ነው። ለማንኛውም..." ማይገባትን ቅጽል ስሙን ጠርቶ እጇን አፈፍ አድርጎ ጨበጣት። ".... ቲክ ቶክ ላይ ከ200,000 በላይ ተከታይ አልኝ ቪዲዮን ልፖስተውና ሜንሽን ላድርገሽ?"
ወደያዘችው ስልክ እያየ
"ቲክ ቶክ የለኝም ግን..." ካፏ አላስጨረሳትም። እንድትከፍቺ ላሳምንሽ፣ ቡና ለጋብዝሽ በምን ያህል ደይቃ ውስጥ ቫይራል እንደምትወጪ እንይ ከዛ ተቀላቅይን??"
"ወይ በጣም ቸኩላለው፣ ግድ የለም መክፈቱን ከፍታለው፣ አንተም ፖስተው" ፈገግ እያለች መራመድ ጀመረጭ
" አብረን ብንጫወት ደስ ይለኝ ነበር።" እንደማኩረፍ እየቃጣው።
አመነታች ልታማልለው የቆነጀችለትን ላንዳፍታ ረስታ ...."ገድ የለም ባይሆን በምን ላኝህ??" የተውሳስበውን ስሙን ነገራት ጻፈች። እንደመሮጥ እያረጋት ሳትሰናበትውም ፈገግቷን ለመደበቅ እየታገለች ሄደች.... 10,000 like? 100,000 like? ወይስ 3million view? ቫይራል ትውጫለሽ ያላትን እውነታውን ለመቀበል እያደገታትም ቢሆን..... ሊሆን ይችላል የሚልውን መርጣለች.....ልትፈምስ፣ ልትታወቅ፣ በየማስታወቂያው ቲቪ ስታጥለቀልቅ....።

"ማነሽ እናቱ ወይ ጊቢ ወይ ደሞ ዞር በይ ሌላው የግባበት፣ መስታዎት የለም ቤትሽ?" ረዳቱ ከቀን ህልሟ አባነናት? ከመቼው ታክሲ ሚያዝበት ጋር ድረሰች?? ብዙ ቆመች? እግሯን ትንሽ ደንዝዟታል.... አለም ነገሯን እየረሳች በቅን ህልሟ የምትጓዝበት ቀን መቼ ነው ሚያበቃው?? ልጁ አናግሯታል? አይኖች አይተዋታል? እውነታው ከቀን ህልሟ ተደባልቆ፣ ሲፈካ የነበረው በራስ መተማመኗ ቀስ በቀስ እየመነመነ ወደ ታክሲዋ ገባች፣ ትመር ታስጠላ ሳታውቅ.....

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Hey y'all, To my incredible girlies out there, and indeed, to everyone who reads this i wanna share my experience that transformed my pov of courage and self-worth. I'm a recent grad and employeed just a few months ago. Initially, my boss appeared charming and attentive creating a seemingly positive environment. However, this facade soon crumbled. He started approaching me in a way I didn't like back, and when he realized I wasn’t interested, he actually told me, "You’re about to meet the cruelest person you’ve ever met."

And he wasn't lying tho he made every single day a nightmare. I had to literally beg him just to sign off on my work, and he tried so hard to make me feel like i wasn't good enough. I spent every morning just hoping he wouldn't show up. The other day he called me to his desk at lunchtime after tormenting me for weeks n he tried to play it cool, sayin' everything was my fault and all he did was mirroring my energy. I’ve never picked fights with colleagues tho I’m an introvert and always try to have pure intentions but he accused me of being arrogant n i asked What do you mean by arrogant since being introverted ain't the same thing but he kept twisting my words to guilt trip and manipulate me. I said okay and left. I kept asking myself Why am I letting him control me with fear? Why can't I even think straight anymore? The turning point was finding out i wasn't the only one. He had treated a bunch of girls before me even worse, and they all just stayed quiet. Hearing their stories made me so angry and sad for them. I realized if I stayed silent i was just letting him keep hurting people even if i left the job someday, he would just do it to the next girl. So, even tho i was scared gathered my screenshots and recordings and went to HR. Honestly? Praise Lord, they were so supportive. Everything changed immediately. The guy who used to make me beg for a signature is now the most polite person I’ve ever seen. He even asks me if I need help now! 😂

My message to all the girls out there is never let fear steal your peace!! Ur happiness is worth more than anything and plzzz, never stay silent just speak up for yourself and for the people who might be suffering in silence too. Some people say you should "just forgive and let go," which i was told to do so but i don't think that’s what good people do. Good people make sure others are safe too. My girlies we all might run into a trash like this at some point. When it happens, don't let them see you shake neverrr even if it's uncomfortable, don't let them think they have any power over u. Just stay strong and do what’s right let’s look out for each other.

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Feminism is not optional it is absolutely neededdd. Women were once treated first as property of their fathers and then property of their husbands, beaten, raped, silenced, and forced into marriages they never choseee, living in a world where speaking out could mean punishment or death. Today, even though women can work, vote, study, and speak up, the risks and inequalities are far from goneoo. And for men who belittle women for not wanting to give birth .....Pregnancy alone carries real dangers, including severe complications and even death, and postpartum depression affects nearly one in five mothers worldwide, sometimes leading to suicideee. Women are still expected to endure abuse or risk being shamed, and in many countries, including places in Ethiopia, it remains culturally acceptable for men to hit or control women, making violence feel normalized. Just being “human” and asking for respect is not enoughhh; feminism fights for protection, rights, and agency that women would otherwise be denied, it allows them to choose their lives, survive dangers society still refuses to acknowledge, and exist freely without constant fear of being hurt or erased. Feminism saved lives, gave voices, and created opportunities it is needed now more than everrr especially in Ethiopiaaa

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Hey sup yall emmmmm i wanna confess about stn I used to enjoy like i realized that im deep in it when i found out im only want that here is the spin i had a gf and uk we used to f a lot ena she is so cre@My and uk natural w@t like (dr!ppy) and after i broke up with her i met a girl after a long time and we dated like a year mnamn ena we decided to do stn like physical intimacy and we went to my place we make out mnamn keza when the shi about to happen she is lot w@t that much and i cant feel the vibe i used to feel before and that shi turns me off now we ain’t together we broke up idk what should i do with it frrr. What do u guys think is this normal

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Urgent !!

22 ga yalew leza coffee hule tewat tewat coffee etetalew ena eza mimeta lij nbr. I have a crush on him, I don't even know his name ena guess what the coffee house tezega...and I tried my best to search for him in other coffee houses twat at the same time but I couldn't find him.

Any suggestions😭😭?

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I am a 25-year-old male. After I relocated to Koye Fetch, I don't have many friends to hang out with. I spend my weekends and after-work time alone. So, is there anyone here who shares this situation?

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F23 Hey… I don’t even know how to say this without sounding weird but I’ll just be real I’ve been living as a mistress, and I have people around me who treat me like I’m above them… like completely submissive to me. Some of them have normal lives, families, good situations, but when it comes to me it’s like they switch into a different mindset they act like they worship me. The level of obsession is honestly scary sometimes and it’s not just one person, it keeps happening over and over again at first I thought it was just attention or control and I didn’t really question it. But now I feel stuck in it. Like this is the only version of me people see, and I don’t know how to step out of it anymore ..It’s getting exhausting, and I don’t even enjoy it the way I used to I don’t understand why people get so attached to me so quickly or why it turns into that kind of dynamic every time Now I’m starting to question everything… is it something about me? Did I create this pattern without realizing it? I lowkey just want a normal life at this point, but I don’t know how to break out of this role or stop attracting the same situation again and again.
What would you do if you felt stuck in a version of yourself you don’t even want anymore…?

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F23 Hey… I don’t even know how to say this without sounding weird but I’ll just be real I’ve been living as a mistress, and I have people around me who treat me like I’m above them… the lick my feet mnamn like completely submissive to me. Some of them have normal lives, families, good situations, but when it comes to me it’s like they switch into a different mindset they act like they worship me. The level of obsession is honestly scary sometimes and it’s not just one person, it keeps happening over and over again at first I thought it was just attention or control and I didn’t really question it. But now I feel stuck in it. Like this is the only version of me people see, and I don’t know how to step out of it anymore ..It’s getting exhausting, and I don’t even enjoy it the way I used to I don’t understand why people get so attached to me so quickly or why it turns into that kind of dynamic every time Now I’m starting to question everything… is it something about me? Did I create this pattern without realizing it? I lowkey just want a normal life at this point, but I don’t know how to break out of this role or stop attracting the same situation again and again.
What would you do if you felt stuck in a version of yourself you don’t even want anymore…?

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Hey please help am freshman student in wolaiyta sodo uni and I wanted to learn comprehensive nursing but I got public health idk what to do I need some advice what do u guys think is it a good field how is the work opportunity the salary can I go abroad with my degree in it and how can I upgrade to med please help me

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I recently experienced heartbreak and thought I would never recover from it. However, after some time, I met this guy, and I like everything about him. I'm scared to fall in love again, and I don't quite understand why I'm developing feelings for him so quickly. I’m not sure whether I'm using him to forget my pain or if I genuinely like him.

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Heyyyy everyone

I don’t wanna make it long I just got scammed…. I bought my first sewing machine from marketplace for 17,000(for a student it’s a lot)and I had no idea it was shit I took it to Merkato and the technician told me “ow I remember this machine I fixed it some weeks ago” the thing is she lied since I didn’t know anything about sewing machine at that time I believed her and also when I went to her home to check it it looks fine and seeing that she was a single mom and she said it was her friend and she wanted the money to pay loan my empathy kicked in and I said I will take it… it’s a been a month and this whole time I thought I was the problem not from the machine….and when me and my brother called her for return she said NO!!! Even we asked for half the price to exchange…. Is there anything I can do anyone who had the same experience and got a solution.

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