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Selam endet nachu i need to talk betam selechnekegn I'm 20yrs gurl ena I've a job 8000 be wer agegnalehu 😒kedeha beteseb new yeteweledkut
Timhrten teche eyeseraw new gn maryamn kebdognal yebet kiray 4000 ekeflalew keza lebeteseb yetewesene setche leasbeza transport.......yewnet kebad new alawkem gn endiw sebakn edmeye yalefe new yemimeslegn I'm trying eko gn alhonelegnm tewat wetche mata egebalew gn mnm
Eshi endet new kene edme yanesu ena ekuyaye yehonu lijoch bezi lek wealthy yehonut ebakachu bekinenet mekerugn esti endet new eyenorachu yalachut mn aynet risk wesdachu new ?? Energy yalegn lej negn still tesfa alkoretkum gn demo mn endemaderg alawkem akime tedebko kertual please esti yihenen age yalefachu sewoch endet new asredugn

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Hey y’all, I’m 20. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now (high school sweethearts 🤭). He’s handsome, tall, really masculine, and he spoils me. he’s good at everything… but sex. Honestly, he’s awful at it.He has a best friend of over 10 years. they’re like brothers. but lately his friend has been flirting with me. He even said “nice tits” to me. He’s really handsome and more my type. He kissed me first, and yesterday we made out. I was like, “Ooh, what are we doing?” 🤭 It felt kind of wholesome.Now I’m tired of my boyfriend and want someone fresh. What do you all advise? I don't even like his best friend idk what I'm doing but he's jst ma type.

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Sometimes I feel strange for wanting this.
I’m a girl… and all I really want is one online friend — a girl like me. Not a big group. Not noise. Not shallow energy. Just one deep soul.
I want someone who thinks about life instead of just passing through it.
Someone who questions who she is becoming.
Someone who wants to live authentically, not just fit in.
I want late-night conversations about life principles, healing, identity, growth.
About childhood, fears, dreams, purpose.
About why we are the way we are.
I want a girl who loves books — who highlights lines, who sends paragraphs and says, “This changed me.”
Someone who can sit and think for hours and not feel bored.
Someone who feels like an old soul in a world that moves too fast.
If you’re out there… let me know. 🤍

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Hey guys please I need your comment.  23 F I’m a final year university student 4 months left and honestly I feel lost. I don’t like my major, my campus, or even my neighborhood.and sometimes I feel like I worked so hard in something I don’t even love.
Recently I’ve also been seeing my parents struggle financially and with their health, and it’s been heavy on me. I feel like I need to do something, like I can’t just sit and wait anymore.
Growing up, my parents were always very serious about education, especially my dad. I remember when  relatives and friends  told him I was beautiful, he responded that beauty isn’t important, only the brain matters. And yeah at home what you get compliments at is about being smart not looks. That stayed with me. I was raised to focus only on academics.
Now at this age, when people compliment me, I don’t feel much from it, like shut up who cares. And I love learning like I learned something in every sector idk what i really want in life. I am good at everything I learned except my major 😁 and i thougt about freelancing stuffs after i graduate because my degree is time and energy demanding.
Recently, we were watching this beautiful social media girl Instagram video in class, and I talked about the beauty of this girl and stuff and they said  “Why don’t you start? You’re more than her ko stuff.” I laughed at first, but they were serious, and it made me think. I am tired of the academics way like am failing when I try something  and I am watching people's having it all by trying this and you know I want it too I want to provide for my family. but still idk am afraid

I actually love taking photos. I even have a nick name for this😂” I know I’m camera-friendly. But I feel like if I ever start something like content creation or modeling advertising stuff, I would need to move to Addis. I don’t want to be seen doing it in this city. I don't feel safe
I’m confused. I dont even know how to start. How is the market in this path? And Should I focus on finishing my degree, or should I start side hustles now? What would you advise?

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Guys hear me out fr. It was a lovely day. I slept 8 hours. My Stomach was filled. My colon was empty. My heart was beating. Batekalay, your girl was happy. Whyyyy in the hell on this beautiful day I mentioned the idea of feminism to my guy friend and he fought me with his life saying we don’t need feminism since all people are mistreated in life??? He said we should advocate for everyone because we are human beings. He said word by word "feminism saying girls are being treated unfairly makes it sound like men are treated fairly”. Excuseeee meeeee??! He had the audacity to tell me, as women have it unfair in life, men also have it the same. And guess his example?? Men also lose job opportunities because beautiful ladies get hired instead of men. He also said men don’t cry about Equality when they are sent to wars!! I meannnn I still would like to think he was rage baiting me but he was deadass. I thought we had this conversation before but apparently not. Now i hate the sight and sound of him. I feel lied. Like I don’t know who this person is. I keep thinking wasn’t he a nice person? Yall this is a friend of 6 years!!😭😭 i believe in staying friends with different standards but this is just not! Doesn’t this say sth about him as a person? I just don’t like to do anything with him and I am just creating distance. Now he thinks I have never valued our friendship and I am just dropping it easy just because we have different opinion. But I believe this is just more than opinion. I am just here looking for validation my lovelies 😭 am I being dramatic? Isn’t this really disturbing to think about sijemer? Would you keep this person as a friend? Ene I can’t see him the same anymore.

And you, if you see this, hope you reflect on what you said.

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Hey
There is a girl who really loves me and i don't know what to do.
I mean I know that she loves me, not only because she told me. Also how she treats me too.
She washes my dirty clothes even my legs. She always treats me like I am special but i can't say i feel the same about her. Of course i like her and i like to be around her but i don't think about her when i think about my future. And i feel really bad about it.
What should I do?

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I’m a female who graduated last year, and I’m working right now, but honestly, it doesn’t satisfy me. I’m grateful to have a job, but after some time, I’m not happy with it. I go to work, come home, and repeat the same cycle every day. It feels like I’m just surviving, not truly living.

I also don’t have real friends. I’m around coworkers, but it’s not the kind of connection where I can truly share my thoughts, dreams, or struggles. I miss having genuine connections — people I can laugh with, grow with, and be myself around.

Sometimes I feel stuck. Like life is moving, but I’m not really moving with it. I want more — more purpose, more growth, more real connection. I just don’t know where to start.

What would you do if you were me?

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Guys hear me out fr. It was a lovely day. I slept 8 hours. My Stomach was filled. My colon was empty. My heart was beating. Batekalay, your girl was happy. Whyyyy in the hell on this beautiful day I mentioned…
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Okay okay yall. First of all, the comment section was baffling. I was expecting some backlash regarding the way I handled it, but never expected to see comments full of insults because I said women and men are OBVIOUSLY not treated the same way.
Couldn’t reply to you all because really, there is no point in replying to a bunch of non sense.
Two or three men who gave respectful thoughts, you are true men! Bless your soul.

So sons of ladies, who were disrespectful in the comments, I am writing this vent to understand your stan. You can provide a valid logical point why you were so against feminism because I rly want to know if this coming out of hate for women or the ideology itself. Actually let me rephrase my question. Are you against the ideology of feminism or you don’t entirely believe in supporting and giving equal opportunities to women? When we say equal, we are not talking about sex equality, it is gender equality so don’t drag the biological differences. I want to clarify and stress enough, we are not talking about modern feminists (maybe let me say misandrists) where they are hating on men generally and degrading them. I don’t believe in that. We have amazing fathers, brothers, uncles, friends and husbands. We are talking about the original feminism where it says, let’s empower women, let them pursue their passion, let’s create a safe environment for women, lets protect and advocate for women who are raped, killed and assaulted by men. And all men who are part of women’s misfortune, they should be well punished and pay for their mistake.
So are you against this idea because this is what’s feminism all about? If so, we failed as a society and it is sad we all are breathing the same air as you.

I am genuinely asking out of curiosity. Since you all thought feminists are dumb and illogical, and most of you actually provided insults(which shows you have no opinion btw) and no logical points, be the bigger person and put your argument in a respectful manner.

PS: For some of you who tried to challenge me with "men don’t have it easy” please save yourself from embarrassment and hide in your coccon. Don’t even dare compare your mistreatment in life with women's abuse, death, rape, trauma caused by men. Your own species! Keep your misogynistic ass to yourself. So yeah please be my guest and let us understand eachother well.

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25 M

Hey everyone! I want to vent here. I am a kind of person who actually tries to know everything and humbly
Speaking, I know alot about things, one thing I haven’t known much is relationship.

I have been obsessed with my works since I was 18, I made what a majority would say “ Made it level” and can honestly stop working for 10y and still live as I am living right now.

So 2 years back, I start experimenting what dating life means, I met a girl on TG, whom I instantly loved. We share same values, ideas, goals and general outlook in life. It felt like home, we spent nearly everyday talking together.

I honestly believed she was one of the best person for me, assumed she was securely attached and a loving person.

I am the kinda guy who truly loves his freedom and so is she, so it felt like I found the one and genuinely convinced I was gonna marry her.

After we passed the honey moon stage, 6 month or so, we started having issue, minor issues like she becoming bit distant and me wanting to connect with her more. I rationalized it by saying “since both of us are new to this, it’s okey.”

Then life continues, I was excessively feeling lonely, not being taken seriously and just not feeling loved.
I couldn’t bear it anymore and I told her, she says sorry at first but deep down she didn’t want to do anything, and I still didn’t know what I have done to felt like that

Few weeks ago, I ended the relationship! I was feeling more lonely than the time I was alone😂
I truly never got why I was feeling that way until I researched more on attachment theory, boy ohh boy I was living with professionals emotionally unavailable person.

You see, I first assumed she was securely attached aka a person whom can accept love and give love hence why I was putting alot of effort in the first place. But the girl were “A dissmissive avoidant”

I was feeling anxious when ever I tried to be emotional vulnerable with her, she always take a step back. Always making a small talks, always dismissing emotions.

I honestly put alot of effort into the relationship, tried to push her to be the best version of her self, when ever she needed me I was there but the vise versa wasn’t true and it honestly made me insane and couldn’t stop but think, why I am here


I might sound like an angel here but I was not, but the difference between me and her was , I was fighting to keep the relationship, she was almost waiting me at the door so that she can escape if things got worse and by worse me wanting to have an emotional closeness to here

I used think I was an avoidant until I met a real one lol.


So, my advise is, genuinely, never date an avoidant women. They will drive your life insane and honestly they don’t even care, I don’t believe the bullshit that deep down they care that fugazi, those people only care about their wellbeing and don’t care about you if you get hurt.

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What's up guys, I'm so tired of women who arent adventurous in bed. I'm always trying to convince them to have fun and at the end of it all they are happier for it but it is back to square one the next time. TBH i dont even blame women, it's the fear the society has put on them. Even in an FWB they are always scared and shy, it is getting very tiring.

I just wanna find a women who is confident about what she wants and wants to experience and have fun in this short life. I dont know if i can find that yet.

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I just lost my sub a month ago yall and I'm still not over it.let me do this reddit style, I(25M) met, let's call her S(22F), a year ago almost and we agreed on everything we wanted to do and we became FWB fast.
We met up every week and it was fun you know, we fulfilled all of our desires and everytime we met we wont get back until both of us finish😂.

Anyways fast forward a year and now she is gone because she got a scholarship wch hager( be tru menged nw yetelyayenew). And i just miss being with someone who is so fun and free with me. I just like pleasing a women who knows what she wants, it is very hot. Hopefully i can eventually find someone similar or more fun

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Quickly i wanted to vent about how i met a sub girl on a website called fetlife. She was into pet play, and punishments. And i kinda got too into it and traumatized her(her words😭). It wasnt even bad i only spanked her which she asked for but like i said i was to into it and went a bit hard and made her cry.

And i do feel bad because i didnt stop(bc our agreement was dont stop until i use the safe word). Bcha endet atakomim saleks bla she got mad and blocked me. I really dont know what to say.

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Quick rant about my አልጋ struggles lmao. I'm a switch i like to be half half, most of the women i meet and be with are subs. And very few are doms nothing in between(aka my type).

My type is a women who likes to be picked up and be dominated but also sometimes will push me over to take over. That's very hot and powerful to me, But very hard to find.

What do you guys think, is there no ethiopian women like this?

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Just one question how do u get over a boy while still talking to him ? how do I get mutual feeling as friends we dated for like a year but i don't know didn't work out but it's complicated so how ?...

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Hey, I just wanted someone to talk to because I’m at a very low point right now. Sometimes I feel like you’re the only person who has ever made me feel truly loved , no one before or after. First, thank you for being part of my life.

For no specific reason, I sometimes find myself staring at your Telegram pictures. I sliding through them and then just leave. I don’t text. I did once, and you didn’t respond. I’m not blaming you, why would you? It has been years.

What confuses me is that I’m still at the same place you left me, still wondering what was wrong with me and what I messed up, because the reason you gave never felt enough to ruin the relationship.

I’m not always thinking about you, but when I do, I spiral almost the whole night.

Anyway, I hope you’re living your best life 🤍

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Hey f18 Whenever i start a romantic rship with someone their life starts being a literal hell idk how i can explain it but everything starts going wrong. the first 2 months are usually alright but after that i don't know what happens. I'm not saying this based on one experience.. it's every single time.

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Confession #19093

Hi guys something has been bothering me so much lately, and it’s about sex. I’m male and I’m 19 years old. I’m Muslim, I’m a virgin and I’m quite religious. Ik ዝሙት or Zina is a huge sin but I’ve been struggling with it. Tbh not to flex or anything, if I wanted to lose my virginity I could. I have money and I’m quite good looking. But I’m scared of the haram. Ik I shouldn’t do it because it’s haram but lately my mind is telling me that’s it’s so normal, everyone has done it, they enjoyed it a lot, so why don’t you? It’s telling me that’s it’s common and it tells me that I should enjoy my time and the idea of sex is so appealing to me. I don’t want to date because it’s haram and I can’t marry because I’m still a child. I’ve been tempted since. Please help. I can’t control myself

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Yoo guys
I'm struggling on bed.
Sometimes i can't ejaculate no matter how much i try.
It's becoming just an exercise.
I think i have a problem. Imagine doing it for 50 mins and not cuming once..
Is there medication or something for this kinda shit?
Help your homies out.

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I’ve been thinking about something lately and I wanted to hear men’s perspectives on it..

I’ve noticed that a lot of men seem emotionally under appreciated in everyday life. Like they rarely receive compliments, affirmations or emotional care unless they’re in a relationship.. and sometimes not even then. And when they do receive something small, it seems to mean a lot.

It honestly makes me sad to think that many men might be moving through life without feeling deeply seen or valued in that way.

I could be wrong, which is why i wanted to ask respectfully, what makes you personally feel loved, appreciated or emotionally safe? And as a woman, what are simple things i can do in my own relationships (romantic or not) to show care and respect that actually matter to you and that genuinely make a positive difference?

I’m asking from a place of care and curiosity, i want to understand better. I’d really appreciate honest perspectives.

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Hey am 19 ena relationship wst mgbat flgalew bka ale adel yene bye masbew sew endinor flgalew hasaben mnamn bka mtlbet klbe mwedew sew ena bzi edmeye lk new relationship wst mgbat Tru new blachu tasbalachu wey mkerugn eski gn bka flgalew yene mlew sew endinoregn maweraw mnamn 🥺

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Hey guys,

I hv been with this girls like for almost 4 years. Our rln ship started when we were both in campus like we were on the same field same class.

I was so grateful to hv her🙏 like I can't breath without her mnamn neger ena with all the times we hv been together there were much lovely moments istG I did everything I can for her. Ena gbim lay kegbi behuala demo for a year and half I got a work tekerayehu mnamn ena arif gizem eyasalefn neber ena I make a big decision like I should hv to be self employed neger bye lerase ena wetahu kesra (the big reason is that I can't marry and live with her with net 25k ETB bye)

Ena mngenagnew like be samnt 2 or 3 times new yaw ken kdame new bedenb mngenagnew like le 2-3 hrs andlay enasalfalen mnamn arif momentoch andande demo betm eyetegenagnen malet new ... ena valentines day lay lngenagn ketero neberen ena kerech ena keza befit demo 3 kdamewoch altegenagnenm so 4th Saturday neber amemegn alechgn ena tkeralech ena i was disappointed mnamn alea kedmesh btenegrign yshal neber mnamn bye mknyatum eyetekeyerechbgn sleneber mnamn kezam befit mtfelgachewn negeroch hulu amualche eyetebekuat neber ena tnsh tenegagern mnam keza behuala beka betm eskngaba memtat endematfelg mnamn negerechgn yaw set lj wchi snagegnat new des milat mnamn gn fetari bemiyawkew ene s*x mnamn teykiyatm adrgenm anawkm yaw leloch staffoch neberu mnamn ena bemehal ene lekso yagatmegnna yekbr zemed eza neberku keza aweran mnam memtat endematfelg bet negerechgn matfelgiachew negeroch ykru gn ney alkuat wef alechgn ena esu bcha endiker new wey mtfelgiw alkuat awo alechgn yezan ken keza alaweranm tegnach ....

On the next day sasbbet aderkuna searchm mnamn eyareku lemn set lj wend bet memtat endematfelg mnamn bye 'beka ykr anchi tbelchibgnalesh ykr atmchi' alkuat keza bekagn yegna rln alechgn malet mnamn bye awerahuat ena sijemr betesebm ayfelgum yegnan rln sewm amttew tewawkiyalew alechgn💔

Lbe sbrbr alech beka wendm alhonkum keza behuala ena lbe lay yalew fkrm kensual alechgn dngt alku mnamn mnareku mnamn slat kezih befitm sntala ene beka wey enleyay mnamn bye neber gn istG ke 1 ken belay aykoym egrua lay wedke ykrta teykiatalew ena yetechalegnn lemekas mokrialehu...ena leksom lay nebrku beka lemenkuat ewnet 'twejignalesh eko gn slat' alwedhm ke 1 side bcha ayhonm love alechgn 'eski maryamn bey' byat 'maryamn' alech beka enen aydelehum keza behuala

Sle tdar, sle lewt, manm bemehalachn manm endemaygeba betesebm bihon, sntm amet yfj lewtachn endemtebkegn kal yegebachlgn set ayy beka lelam sew astewawkewgnal alechgn (benesu fit enlewetalen bye tenagrialehu endatasafregn) yalechgn set endih alechgn beka 1 samnt mnamn lmena

Endngenagnm alfelgm yhenn tsom sle fkr mitasebbetm aydelem krstosn new maseb yalebn alechgn (krstos sle fkr sil aydel ende waga yekefeleln?) ena nsha abatem lawrachew ena eshi esachew endemilun enarg alkuat tesmamach awerahuachew mnamn yaw be EOTC yalewn eskemechereshaw hkta dres balna mist and lay lihonu endemigebachew beteseb mnm endemaymeleketew tdar lay negerugn negerkuat keza eshi gn enesun mesmat alebgn alechgn...

Ena beka be 1 ametm bihon tolo magbat new mfelgew alechgn keza biyans enawra sewyew eskimeta alkuat tesmamach gn ahun ene negn bzu text mlkewm 'ewedhalew' enkuan beygn slat alchlm alech😔

Ena ewnet ene yegna rln ezih ydersal bye beftsum behiwote asbe alawkm
-Sew hulu mikenabet neber benem ygerembgn neber hula endet endemwedat slemiyawku
-Yechalkutn hulu mokrialehu ewnet betechristian heje eyalekesku eskemetseley
-Ena yalefe case amtten endemannegager awrten neber gn esua 3 wer yemolawn case ametta ahun lemetaya sebeb aderegechw
-Ena bet slasgededugn endttelagn bye new yane lbe lay bota yelehm yalkuh alechgn
-Ftsum lela set honechbgn ena kenate belay wedshalew kemanm belay yalkuat set endih kalech kezih behuala ene mn madreg alebgn?

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