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I'm F 29. I can't ask this to any of my family members or friends without being judged or pressed so I need an outside opinion, please help. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years now. My boyfriend lives in a different country and when we started dating he was doing his masters but he did not have a job and he still lived with his parents and honestly that never bothered me because at the time I didn't care about money and a proper job. And because he didn't have any earnings we planned that he comes to meet me in person once he graduates and gets a job. When he graduated he got hired immediately but unfortunately in order to be paid well he needs to finish 3000 hours of under supervision work when he sees clients and he doesn't get a lot of clients because he's not good with socializing so he only does like 3-4 hours of work a week. Other times it's meetings and stuff like that. So he's been doing that for about 3 years now and he still has about 800 hours left to be licensed and be properly paid. In the first 3 years of our relationship it never bothered me but as I start to get older I started noticing things. He buys games, multiple laptops, Nintendo Switchs. And he got into meditation so he buys multiple books a month on meditation and therapy , and he buys expensive trainings every month. And it's starting to bother me that he has money to do all of that but he doesn't eveb have a $200 to save every month so we can meet? And on top of that he's 35 still living with his family, doesn't have a car, doesn't even have a driving licence and his family always drives his to wherever he wants to go including work and the market, and he goes to Disney Land at least once a month ( he says his family have a yearly subscription or something). And he always complains about his family even when his under them and that pisses me off. In the beginning of our relationship he did sent me clothes twice but after that he didn't get me at least a flower for my birthday and it bothered me but since I know that he doesn't earn much I didn't want to stress him out so I kept my mouth shut. But recently I talked to him about it. I told him that I'm getting older and it's getting irritating waiting for him and I asked if he's serious about us that since he's got a lot of free time on his hands he should get a part time job and make our meeting happen sooner. Then he gave me a bunch of bullshit saying if he get another job it will distract him from his main job and once he gets all his hours he'll get paid more blablabla.... So I stopped asking him because I love him and also I can be annoyingly patient and forgiving. I know he loves me very much and he means what he says. But tell me honestly am I being blinded by love? Is he simply a loser or he doesn't see my worth or how much I'm sacrificing by waiting for just by trusting his words? Is he playing me?
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I'm F 29. I can't ask this to any of my family members or friends without being judged or pressed so I need an outside opinion, please help. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years now. My boyfriend lives in a different country and when we started dating he was doing his masters but he did not have a job and he still lived with his parents and honestly that never bothered me because at the time I didn't care about money and a proper job. And because he didn't have any earnings we planned that he comes to meet me in person once he graduates and gets a job. When he graduated he got hired immediately but unfortunately in order to be paid well he needs to finish 3000 hours of under supervision work when he sees clients and he doesn't get a lot of clients because he's not good with socializing so he only does like 3-4 hours of work a week. Other times it's meetings and stuff like that. So he's been doing that for about 3 years now and he still has about 800 hours left to be licensed and be properly paid. In the first 3 years of our relationship it never bothered me but as I start to get older I started noticing things. He buys games, multiple laptops, Nintendo Switchs. And he got into meditation so he buys multiple books a month on meditation and therapy , and he buys expensive trainings every month. And it's starting to bother me that he has money to do all of that but he doesn't eveb have a $200 to save every month so we can meet? And on top of that he's 35 still living with his family, doesn't have a car, doesn't even have a driving licence and his family always drives his to wherever he wants to go including work and the market, and he goes to Disney Land at least once a month ( he says his family have a yearly subscription or something). And he always complains about his family even when his under them and that pisses me off. In the beginning of our relationship he did sent me clothes twice but after that he didn't get me at least a flower for my birthday and it bothered me but since I know that he doesn't earn much I didn't want to stress him out so I kept my mouth shut. But recently I talked to him about it. I told him that I'm getting older and it's getting irritating waiting for him and I asked if he's serious about us that since he's got a lot of free time on his hands he should get a part time job and make our meeting happen sooner. Then he gave me a bunch of bullshit saying if he get another job it will distract him from his main job and once he gets all his hours he'll get paid more blablabla.... So I stopped asking him because I love him and also I can be annoyingly patient and forgiving. I know he loves me very much and he means what he says. But tell me honestly am I being blinded by love? Is he simply a loser or he doesn't see my worth or how much I'm sacrificing by waiting for just by trusting his words? Is he playing me?
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i am 25 Boy
I need some advice… especially from girls.
Is it wrong to want something serious these days?
I feel like I’m the type of guy who gives effort, loyalty, and consistency. I don’t like playing games or acting distant just to seem “cool.” If I care, I show it.
But sometimes I wonder… do girls lose interest when a guy is too genuine?
Do they prefer mystery and less effort?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot because I don’t want to change who I am. I just want to understand.
So honestly… from a girl’s perspective — what makes a guy attractive emotionally?
What makes you stay?
I really want to learn, not argue. Just trying to grow.
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I am 🎭 Eyohat
I need to vent
i am 25 Boy
I need some advice… especially from girls.
Is it wrong to want something serious these days?
I feel like I’m the type of guy who gives effort, loyalty, and consistency. I don’t like playing games or acting distant just to seem “cool.” If I care, I show it.
But sometimes I wonder… do girls lose interest when a guy is too genuine?
Do they prefer mystery and less effort?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot because I don’t want to change who I am. I just want to understand.
So honestly… from a girl’s perspective — what makes a guy attractive emotionally?
What makes you stay?
I really want to learn, not argue. Just trying to grow.
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M 26 i need to vent it has been on my mind lately that I don’t chase dominant women, I’m drawn to them.
There’s something about a woman who knows she’s in control. Her voice steady. Her presence heavy. The kind who doesn’t ask — she decides.
I don’t submit out of weakness. I submit because I choose to. Because I respect strength. Because I like knowing my place beside a powerful woman.
If you lead naturally…
If you enjoy being in charge…
If you like a man who listens and responds without hesitation…
Say something.
I’m paying attention.😊
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M 26 i need to vent it has been on my mind lately that I don’t chase dominant women, I’m drawn to them.
There’s something about a woman who knows she’s in control. Her voice steady. Her presence heavy. The kind who doesn’t ask — she decides.
I don’t submit out of weakness. I submit because I choose to. Because I respect strength. Because I like knowing my place beside a powerful woman.
If you lead naturally…
If you enjoy being in charge…
If you like a man who listens and responds without hesitation…
Say something.
I’m paying attention.😊
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I feel emotionally alone in my marriage and just need to vent anonymously.
We’ve been together almost 10 years, married for almost 3 yrs and it feels like I live with a roommate. There’s no affection, no emotional connection, no real effort. He goes on with life normally..gym, work, routine ..like everything is fine, while I feel deeply sad most days.
One of the most painful parts is he’s secretly addicted to porn and masturbation. It’s not “once in a while” like he claims. Knowing he has desire but not for me has crushed my self esteem and made me feel unwanted and replaced. I approached it calmly and without blame, but nothing has changed. He just continues life like it doesn’t affect our marriage.
I’m a mom to little girls and I hate that my sadness sometimes turns into frustration. They deserve a peaceful, happy mother. I’m also financially dependent right now, which makes everything feel more complicated and heavy.
Some days I try to detach and rebuild myself. Other days I just feel lonely and tired of carrying this alone. I don’t want pity…I just needed somewhere to release this because keeping it inside is exhausting😔🤦♀️
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I feel emotionally alone in my marriage and just need to vent anonymously.
We’ve been together almost 10 years, married for almost 3 yrs and it feels like I live with a roommate. There’s no affection, no emotional connection, no real effort. He goes on with life normally..gym, work, routine ..like everything is fine, while I feel deeply sad most days.
One of the most painful parts is he’s secretly addicted to porn and masturbation. It’s not “once in a while” like he claims. Knowing he has desire but not for me has crushed my self esteem and made me feel unwanted and replaced. I approached it calmly and without blame, but nothing has changed. He just continues life like it doesn’t affect our marriage.
I’m a mom to little girls and I hate that my sadness sometimes turns into frustration. They deserve a peaceful, happy mother. I’m also financially dependent right now, which makes everything feel more complicated and heavy.
Some days I try to detach and rebuild myself. Other days I just feel lonely and tired of carrying this alone. I don’t want pity…I just needed somewhere to release this because keeping it inside is exhausting😔🤦♀️
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Couples in our late 20's. Mr and my gurl have been dating little over a year now. She is the kind of girl jnto alot weird stuffs that a guy would wish to have and experience with. As much as we have tried to explore as much now she is insisting to try 3some in FFM. It's seems interesting but a bit too much aswell. Has anyone been in that kind of situation? If so how do u manage to find the person to be in 3some and what was the experience like?
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Couples in our late 20's. Mr and my gurl have been dating little over a year now. She is the kind of girl jnto alot weird stuffs that a guy would wish to have and experience with. As much as we have tried to explore as much now she is insisting to try 3some in FFM. It's seems interesting but a bit too much aswell. Has anyone been in that kind of situation? If so how do u manage to find the person to be in 3some and what was the experience like?
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Sometimes I feel like I’m the only one who can see the whole picture.
To everyone else, my brother is… perfect. The golden son. The one you can’t stay mad at. Even when he messes up, somehow people end up apologizing to him. It’s almost impressive. He reads people like open books. He always knows exactly what to say, exactly how to say it. He can walk into a room full of strangers and walk out with admirers.
And I get it. I really do.
He’s charming. Tall, handsome, sharp as a blade. He works hard. He shows up for family. If something breaks in the neighborhood, they don’t call a repair service—they call him. And he never charges them. Of course they love him. Who wouldn’t?
That’s the part that makes this so hard.
Because the qualities that make him amazing are the same ones that make him dangerous. Especially when it comes to women.
He doesn’t have boundaries. Age doesn’t matter. Relationship status doesn’t matter. Nothing seems to matter except the chase. I don’t even know how he does it, how he convinces them. But he does. Over and over again. It’s like he can sense exactly what someone wants to hear and becomes that person for them.
Our mom has started warning female tenants about him. Imagine that. A mother warning women about her own son. My parents even offered to arrange marriage for any woman he seriously likes, just to anchor him, to give him something stable. They’re desperate to fix what they call his “woman addiction.”
And he’s only twenty-four.
Sometimes I’m angry at him. Sometimes I’m scared for him. And sometimes I’m just tired of watching everyone praise him while pretending this part doesn’t exist.
I love my brother. I really do. But loving someone doesn’t mean ignoring the damage they’re capable of. And I don’t know how long charm can outrun consequences.
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Sometimes I feel like I’m the only one who can see the whole picture.
To everyone else, my brother is… perfect. The golden son. The one you can’t stay mad at. Even when he messes up, somehow people end up apologizing to him. It’s almost impressive. He reads people like open books. He always knows exactly what to say, exactly how to say it. He can walk into a room full of strangers and walk out with admirers.
And I get it. I really do.
He’s charming. Tall, handsome, sharp as a blade. He works hard. He shows up for family. If something breaks in the neighborhood, they don’t call a repair service—they call him. And he never charges them. Of course they love him. Who wouldn’t?
That’s the part that makes this so hard.
Because the qualities that make him amazing are the same ones that make him dangerous. Especially when it comes to women.
He doesn’t have boundaries. Age doesn’t matter. Relationship status doesn’t matter. Nothing seems to matter except the chase. I don’t even know how he does it, how he convinces them. But he does. Over and over again. It’s like he can sense exactly what someone wants to hear and becomes that person for them.
Our mom has started warning female tenants about him. Imagine that. A mother warning women about her own son. My parents even offered to arrange marriage for any woman he seriously likes, just to anchor him, to give him something stable. They’re desperate to fix what they call his “woman addiction.”
And he’s only twenty-four.
Sometimes I’m angry at him. Sometimes I’m scared for him. And sometimes I’m just tired of watching everyone praise him while pretending this part doesn’t exist.
I love my brother. I really do. But loving someone doesn’t mean ignoring the damage they’re capable of. And I don’t know how long charm can outrun consequences.
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I’m not a “pick me,” but when it comes to your ex, I can’t help dissect her in my mind. The moment I realized you were never truly over her, I started measuring myself against her invisible shadow. She’s never there, yet all my insecurities seem to mirror her strengths.
Why am I never the first choice? Always the afterthought, the rebound, the noise that fills the silence of their lingering attachment.
“How foolish I was to think I had finally been chosen.”
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I’m not a “pick me,” but when it comes to your ex, I can’t help dissect her in my mind. The moment I realized you were never truly over her, I started measuring myself against her invisible shadow. She’s never there, yet all my insecurities seem to mirror her strengths.
Why am I never the first choice? Always the afterthought, the rebound, the noise that fills the silence of their lingering attachment.
“How foolish I was to think I had finally been chosen.”
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M24 here and i am into being a dom in all of my relationships even before knowing what it was. I love being in control, i love telling my girl that trusts me what to do and to lead her during the whole process. And to be completely honest I'm really good at it(not to toot my own horn here), I have had experience with different things that i cant mention here and i also enjoy pleasing my women this way.
I know a lotta people reading this are thinking what women can be into doing stuff like this. Because their first assumption is bad when it comes to domination gn it really is fun and there are a lotta women out there who like to be ordered around by her man(not all ofcourse) you just gotta show her through it. Now my problem is i havent been with someone in a while right now and the reason is im kinda tired of slowly getting the girl im with into it, i want a girl who already wants it.
So really I'm here to vent that there is a lack of community,group or channel around this or are there?
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M24 here and i am into being a dom in all of my relationships even before knowing what it was. I love being in control, i love telling my girl that trusts me what to do and to lead her during the whole process. And to be completely honest I'm really good at it(not to toot my own horn here), I have had experience with different things that i cant mention here and i also enjoy pleasing my women this way.
I know a lotta people reading this are thinking what women can be into doing stuff like this. Because their first assumption is bad when it comes to domination gn it really is fun and there are a lotta women out there who like to be ordered around by her man(not all ofcourse) you just gotta show her through it. Now my problem is i havent been with someone in a while right now and the reason is im kinda tired of slowly getting the girl im with into it, i want a girl who already wants it.
So really I'm here to vent that there is a lack of community,group or channel around this or are there?
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I’m 23.
I graduated.
And I feel lost.
No job.
No income.
No structure.
There’s an idea in my head to start something, but it feels unfinished — just like everything else in my life right now.
Our exit exam is one year after graduation. So I’m in this weird space. Not a student. Not established. Just waiting… but not really moving either.
Most of my friends are busy. Everyone is building something. I don’t even have someone I can truly talk to. And the worst part? I can’t even explain what’s going on inside my head.
There’s a girl I care about.
I haven’t told her.
There are products I believe in.
I haven’t finished them.
There’s ambition inside me.
But it feels stuck.
My mind is noisy.
My life feels paused.
And honestly? I know myself. I’ll probably come back here with a relationship issue too. Because that’s another thing I haven’t handled. Another thing I’m avoiding.
It’s like I’m living in potential instead of reality.
Maybe this is growth.
Maybe this is confusion.
Maybe it’s just me not taking action.
I don’t know.
I just know I feel something heavy that I can’t fully describe.
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I’m 23.
I graduated.
And I feel lost.
No job.
No income.
No structure.
There’s an idea in my head to start something, but it feels unfinished — just like everything else in my life right now.
Our exit exam is one year after graduation. So I’m in this weird space. Not a student. Not established. Just waiting… but not really moving either.
Most of my friends are busy. Everyone is building something. I don’t even have someone I can truly talk to. And the worst part? I can’t even explain what’s going on inside my head.
There’s a girl I care about.
I haven’t told her.
There are products I believe in.
I haven’t finished them.
There’s ambition inside me.
But it feels stuck.
My mind is noisy.
My life feels paused.
And honestly? I know myself. I’ll probably come back here with a relationship issue too. Because that’s another thing I haven’t handled. Another thing I’m avoiding.
It’s like I’m living in potential instead of reality.
Maybe this is growth.
Maybe this is confusion.
Maybe it’s just me not taking action.
I don’t know.
I just know I feel something heavy that I can’t fully describe.
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Male 23 (if it matters or to put some perspective)
I've been through university and got done with it this year, but it feels like I've got enough of everything. This might sound a bit delusional but my mind won't stop working. I just need like an hour. Just void. This didn't happen because of my interaction with my classmates or anything. I'm a very observant person, that it might sound a bit creepy, I promise you I'm not like that. I see how people react to certain tests I put them through. And sometimes I watch them from afar. And it got me thinking we'll are very vulnerable and everyone is easy to manipulate. And this thing is eating me inside out. I just want an hour of peace and quiet. I tried so many things. I tried to be alone, it got worse. I tried to be with people and be bodily present and make mind shut itself, it didn't work. Even when I'm writing this I've thought about a million stuff. Damn this thing getting out of hand.
So any advices...
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I've been through university and got done with it this year, but it feels like I've got enough of everything. This might sound a bit delusional but my mind won't stop working. I just need like an hour. Just void. This didn't happen because of my interaction with my classmates or anything. I'm a very observant person, that it might sound a bit creepy, I promise you I'm not like that. I see how people react to certain tests I put them through. And sometimes I watch them from afar. And it got me thinking we'll are very vulnerable and everyone is easy to manipulate. And this thing is eating me inside out. I just want an hour of peace and quiet. I tried so many things. I tried to be alone, it got worse. I tried to be with people and be bodily present and make mind shut itself, it didn't work. Even when I'm writing this I've thought about a million stuff. Damn this thing getting out of hand.
So any advices...
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Please guys my loved fam is diagnosed with fatty liver I have been crying all the day the doc said him modify what you eat and it will change after 2 month stuff but liver is the most complicated disease ande ayaz ena guys please what should I do please if you know anyone with these things endet honu
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Please guys my loved fam is diagnosed with fatty liver I have been crying all the day the doc said him modify what you eat and it will change after 2 month stuff but liver is the most complicated disease ande ayaz ena guys please what should I do please if you know anyone with these things endet honu
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Hey. Men on dating apps what’s your problem? Always saying, “I want secret sex,” “FWB,” “just for fun.” So you also think with your dick? Bro, if all you want is sex, go pay someone and stop wasting women’s time. God, this generation is hopeless. May He protect me from the unserious, sex-thirsty men out here.
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Hey. Men on dating apps what’s your problem? Always saying, “I want secret sex,” “FWB,” “just for fun.” So you also think with your dick? Bro, if all you want is sex, go pay someone and stop wasting women’s time. God, this generation is hopeless. May He protect me from the unserious, sex-thirsty men out here.
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Semonun slehonech lij eyasebku neber, i don't know if i should look for her or not. 5 or 6 years ago, i stumbled on an experience called "sexting" whom a girl named R introduced me to, and she had an amazing body which gives me chills to this day. And she lived in debrebirhan. But it wasn't just sexting, we had a connection, but when we got deeper into each other's soul, she hesitated to give me her all and decided to call it quits. I wanted to meet her in person and officialize our bond but she for unclear reason wanted to leave.and i still think about her to this day.If anyone experienced this, why do u think she withdrew?
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Semonun slehonech lij eyasebku neber, i don't know if i should look for her or not. 5 or 6 years ago, i stumbled on an experience called "sexting" whom a girl named R introduced me to, and she had an amazing body which gives me chills to this day. And she lived in debrebirhan. But it wasn't just sexting, we had a connection, but when we got deeper into each other's soul, she hesitated to give me her all and decided to call it quits. I wanted to meet her in person and officialize our bond but she for unclear reason wanted to leave.and i still think about her to this day.If anyone experienced this, why do u think she withdrew?
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A letter for my future wife!
Dear Future Wife, I wanted to write this to tell you that even though we haven’t met yet, I am already choosing you every day. For the last eight years, I’ve stayed sober! no drinking, no smoking because I want to be fully present and clear headed when I finally look into your eyes. I’m spending my time now healing from old traumas and unlearning bad behaviors, because I refuse to let my past become your future burdens. I’m doing the heavy lifting now so our home can be a place of peace.
I’ll be honest sometimes I feel sooooo lonely. I take long walks and play games to pass the time, but I’m also using this season to grow. I’m trying out all sorts of new hobbies and staying curious about the world. I’m even researching "survival" skills learning how to protect and provide no matter what happens. I’m reading, I’m learning how to raise children with the care they deserve, and I’m pushing through the boring parts of the gym to stay strong for you.
I’m working hard on my mindset, too. I’m practicing being positive every single day, even when things are tough. I’m focusing on my job and my finances so that when you arrive, we are ready. And little by little, I’ve started buying things for us small belongings for our future life together. I hope you’ll like them, but I want you to know that if they aren’t your style, we can throw them all away and start fresh.
Ill hit 30 in two years or so, it feels a little scary.
I hope you’re out there taking care of yourself and chasing your own dreams, too. I’m waiting for you patiently, and I’m becoming the man you deserve.
Yours truly.
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A letter for my future wife!
Dear Future Wife, I wanted to write this to tell you that even though we haven’t met yet, I am already choosing you every day. For the last eight years, I’ve stayed sober! no drinking, no smoking because I want to be fully present and clear headed when I finally look into your eyes. I’m spending my time now healing from old traumas and unlearning bad behaviors, because I refuse to let my past become your future burdens. I’m doing the heavy lifting now so our home can be a place of peace.
I’ll be honest sometimes I feel sooooo lonely. I take long walks and play games to pass the time, but I’m also using this season to grow. I’m trying out all sorts of new hobbies and staying curious about the world. I’m even researching "survival" skills learning how to protect and provide no matter what happens. I’m reading, I’m learning how to raise children with the care they deserve, and I’m pushing through the boring parts of the gym to stay strong for you.
I’m working hard on my mindset, too. I’m practicing being positive every single day, even when things are tough. I’m focusing on my job and my finances so that when you arrive, we are ready. And little by little, I’ve started buying things for us small belongings for our future life together. I hope you’ll like them, but I want you to know that if they aren’t your style, we can throw them all away and start fresh.
Ill hit 30 in two years or so, it feels a little scary.
I hope you’re out there taking care of yourself and chasing your own dreams, too. I’m waiting for you patiently, and I’m becoming the man you deserve.
Yours truly.
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It’s funny.
I can walk into a room and accidentally start a fan club.
No speech. No strategy. Just vibes.
Girls be impressed.
I be confused.
But the one I actually like?
System crash.
With everyone else: Confidence 100%.
Eye contact strong.
Energy calm.
With her: Brain lagging.
Overthinking activated.
Confidence downgraded to trial version.
I can attract strangers like it’s a feature.
But when it comes to someone I care about? I start checking my bank account, life progress, future plans, exit exam, everything.
Suddenly I’m like: “Am I stable enough?” “Is my life aligned?” “Is this the right quarter to initiate romance?”
Bro.
Why is it easier to impress the public than to text one girl?
Maybe I’m not scared of rejection.
Maybe I’m scared she’ll see the unfinished version of me.
CEO outside. Under construction inside.
Attracting? Easy. Confessing? Software not installed yet.
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It’s funny.
I can walk into a room and accidentally start a fan club.
No speech. No strategy. Just vibes.
Girls be impressed.
I be confused.
But the one I actually like?
System crash.
With everyone else: Confidence 100%.
Eye contact strong.
Energy calm.
With her: Brain lagging.
Overthinking activated.
Confidence downgraded to trial version.
I can attract strangers like it’s a feature.
But when it comes to someone I care about? I start checking my bank account, life progress, future plans, exit exam, everything.
Suddenly I’m like: “Am I stable enough?” “Is my life aligned?” “Is this the right quarter to initiate romance?”
Bro.
Why is it easier to impress the public than to text one girl?
Maybe I’m not scared of rejection.
Maybe I’m scared she’ll see the unfinished version of me.
CEO outside. Under construction inside.
Attracting? Easy. Confessing? Software not installed yet.
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እኔ ብቻ ነኝ ግን ሰው ሚባል ማላምነው? ሰዎችን በሙሉ ልቤ ብቀርብ እንደሚጎዱኝ ሚሰማኝ እኔ ብቻ ነኝ ግን? ሰዎች የሚቀርቡኝ ለጥቅም እየመሰለኝ ነው ብዙ ጓደኛ ተብዬዎች ቢኖሩኝም ብቸኝነት የሚሰማኝ ግን እኔ ብቻ ነኝ? በፊት ወላጆቼ ሰውን እንዳላምን ይመክሩኝ ነበር በርግጥ አልፈርድባቸውም ብዙ ያሳለፉት ታሪክ አለ እኔም ትንሽም ቢሆን በራሴም ላይ በማውቃቸውም ሰዎች ላይ የደረሱ ነገሮች አሉ ቆይ ችግሩ ከኔ ነው ወይስ እኔና ቤተሰቦቼ ልክ ነን? ችግሩ እኔም ከሆንኩኝ እንዴት ራሴን ልፈትሸው? ነገሩ ውስብስብ ሆነብኝ:: ከአዲስ መጀመር እፈልጋለሁ Please ሀሳብ ስጡበት
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እኔ ብቻ ነኝ ግን ሰው ሚባል ማላምነው? ሰዎችን በሙሉ ልቤ ብቀርብ እንደሚጎዱኝ ሚሰማኝ እኔ ብቻ ነኝ ግን? ሰዎች የሚቀርቡኝ ለጥቅም እየመሰለኝ ነው ብዙ ጓደኛ ተብዬዎች ቢኖሩኝም ብቸኝነት የሚሰማኝ ግን እኔ ብቻ ነኝ? በፊት ወላጆቼ ሰውን እንዳላምን ይመክሩኝ ነበር በርግጥ አልፈርድባቸውም ብዙ ያሳለፉት ታሪክ አለ እኔም ትንሽም ቢሆን በራሴም ላይ በማውቃቸውም ሰዎች ላይ የደረሱ ነገሮች አሉ ቆይ ችግሩ ከኔ ነው ወይስ እኔና ቤተሰቦቼ ልክ ነን? ችግሩ እኔም ከሆንኩኝ እንዴት ራሴን ልፈትሸው? ነገሩ ውስብስብ ሆነብኝ:: ከአዲስ መጀመር እፈልጋለሁ Please ሀሳብ ስጡበት
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ከሀገር ዉጪ ነዉ እምኖረዉ የመለያየት ህመም በድብቅ እያመመኝ ነዉ የልቤ ግማሽ ከኔ ጋ አደለም ህፃኑን እኔ መሆን ይሻል እናቱ ጠርታ ሱቅ የምትለከዉ ዙረት ሲያገኘዉ አባቱ በካልቾ እያለ ወደቤት እሚያስገባዉን። እንዴት ካልቾ ይናፈቃል? መለያየት የሞት ታናሽ ወንድም ይለኛል አባቴ በብዙ የስቃይ እና የብቸኝነት ጊዜያትና እራሱ ያለፈ ነዉና ስሜቱን ኖሮታል ግን ዋሽቶኛል? ለካ ታላቅ ወንድምየዉ ነዉ። ሞት ተስፋንም ይዞ ነዉ የሚሄደዉ የሰዉ እርሙን አስወጥቶ …መለያየት ግን ተስፋን ከህመም ጋ ሰቶ መዳንን አና ነገን ያስናፍቃል እርምን ማዉጣት በስንት ጣእሙ ! አንዳንዴ እዛዉ ቤተሰቦቼ ያሉበት ከተማ መለያየትን ገድየዉ በታሰርኩና ምሳ ቋጥረዉ መተዉ በጠየቁኝ እላለዉ አይናቸዉን ለማየት እድል ይኖረኛል ፤ የህይወት ምርጫ ግን እራሴን አጥር በሌለዉ እርቀት በሚባለዉ እስር ቤት ያለ ጠያቂ ዘመድ አስሮኛል ።
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ከሀገር ዉጪ ነዉ እምኖረዉ የመለያየት ህመም በድብቅ እያመመኝ ነዉ የልቤ ግማሽ ከኔ ጋ አደለም ህፃኑን እኔ መሆን ይሻል እናቱ ጠርታ ሱቅ የምትለከዉ ዙረት ሲያገኘዉ አባቱ በካልቾ እያለ ወደቤት እሚያስገባዉን። እንዴት ካልቾ ይናፈቃል? መለያየት የሞት ታናሽ ወንድም ይለኛል አባቴ በብዙ የስቃይ እና የብቸኝነት ጊዜያትና እራሱ ያለፈ ነዉና ስሜቱን ኖሮታል ግን ዋሽቶኛል? ለካ ታላቅ ወንድምየዉ ነዉ። ሞት ተስፋንም ይዞ ነዉ የሚሄደዉ የሰዉ እርሙን አስወጥቶ …መለያየት ግን ተስፋን ከህመም ጋ ሰቶ መዳንን አና ነገን ያስናፍቃል እርምን ማዉጣት በስንት ጣእሙ ! አንዳንዴ እዛዉ ቤተሰቦቼ ያሉበት ከተማ መለያየትን ገድየዉ በታሰርኩና ምሳ ቋጥረዉ መተዉ በጠየቁኝ እላለዉ አይናቸዉን ለማየት እድል ይኖረኛል ፤ የህይወት ምርጫ ግን እራሴን አጥር በሌለዉ እርቀት በሚባለዉ እስር ቤት ያለ ጠያቂ ዘመድ አስሮኛል ።
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