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I have come to confess

Something is not right with me I have a lying problem I lie with ease without no reason I wasn’t like this when I was a kid just sort of grew on me . I cheated in every relationship I have been..and they never find out if I did. am that one ex they run to because they think am genuinely good person

Am in a relationship and yes I am actively cheating. why I cheat? I do not know . Who I cheat with? literally some girl I bump into or online .. for my gf am perfect ,doesn’t see anything wrong with me, I help her with her problems, I spoil her. she always say I’m the perfect guy a “masculine man” and that she’s doesn’t deserve me because I sometimes guilt trap her or play victim if smtn ever come up but mostly we don’t argue always handled it with a mature conversation ..lord knows am far from perfect.


Recently I started to feel regret .am at that stage of my life where I got get married and start a family and I don’t want this side of me to affect my marriage ..so i decided to tell the truth for once and told my ex of 2 years that I still sometimes talk to, that I cheated on her multiple times ..and what she said was kinda different to what I originally thought …😂😂 .”men are pigs “she said which is expected 😂😂😂but she also said she doesn’t care your still was a great guy and wouldn’t change anything bout me ..so now am going to tell my girl who I love the mosttttt btw, and see where that goes ..baby steps ..right ?

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I am 🎭 Rhodium 🤟🏽
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I am a man in my late 20's and I am currently living abroad. The thing I want to vent about is that I come from a low income family and I am the first born. I have wanted happiness for many years. When I was back home, I had a decent income. I used to support my family, and that was the only thing that made me happy, even though it was my responsibility.

Even during that time, I was trying to find a purpose in life. I tried being in relationships and I also tried to become more spiritual, but none of it made me feel truly satisfied.

I recently moved abroad because I thought I would make good money and improve my lifestyle but also to be much closer to my goals. However, it has been below my expectations. The working hours are long and I feel like I am a programmed robot.

What I am asking for is advice. I thought that by this age I would have most things figured out, but I still have not. I still do not earn enough to start the life I want. I still do not have a stable relationship. I am still not happy with what I have done for my family because I feel like I could have done better.

I need genuine advice. I am feeling very stressed.

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Hi I'm 19M grade 12 student

And I'm student entrance liwesd xiqit werat nw yeqerugn gin ene maxnat alchalkum mikniyatum sinfina alebgn silezi mn larg hasabachun sixugn endet laxna??

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Hey guys, I need some advice especially girlies😭

So I met this guy and we’ve been talking for about a month now he’s really my type and he’s nice to me. He even spoils me and sends me money but he told me he’s not very experienced in dating and he doesn’t really call me often we mostly just text that sometimes makes me feel confused also he has never asked me personal stuff like if I’m a virgin or anything like that, which makes me think he’s respectful he seems like a good guy but I’m not sure if he’s serious or just chill about everything so now I’m confused should I keep talking to him and see where it goes or should I just leave before I get too attached?

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Hello...i'm 25 and sometimes it feels like the entire world is having a casual sex except me the confusing part is that everyone talks like they're a sexual free agent people brag about one night stands and casual hookups and it feels like our age group is basically the golden era of casual encounters. I was totally not like that person but lately i feel like i'm being horny at 25. I wish i can ignore those feelings and hold on to my purity til marriage but lately it's getting hard tbh and i'd like a FWB situation but there's a huge inner conflict and my heart says "c'mon you're not that kind of person" and my brain says "we've to do it"...now idk what to do tbh but i feel like the brain wins so i need the experience...but i don't want to do it with a one day off random girl so am looking for fwb...with all due respect is it weird to really want this?

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Hello guys need Ur help her
It's abt my friend,
She lives with her son's father they have not been married but they live together because she got pregnant, they all live together enat ena abatu bet, the baby's father doesnot have a job sleeps all day.
He used to insult fight with my friend befit mnm slemaybal ahun lay gn he started hitting her, today he hit her REALLY bad and threatened her he will kill her while shes asleep.
I really want to help her but I don't know what I'm suppose to do

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Guys be honest do you guys regret breaking up with someone . If yes , whats the reason u regret ur decision. My bf broke up with me betsebaye mekniat but i told him why i was being like that it was a family matter ... but still didn't change his mind he said that he no longer loves me . Will he ever regret his decision behuala , im not asking this tesfa lemaggnet mnamn tesfa korechalew ene im just curious.

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Women of this generation since most of you are self proclaimed "mature" individuals, please normalize letting the person you're talking to know when you've lost interest, as some people do genuinely feel like they've done something wrong and keep running in circles to fix a problem that they didn't cause in the first place, and all the sigma boys cocking your pie holes to say some pointless things in the comments... please, do stay on your leashes your services aren't needed here.

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Hey, I’m a guy in my mid-20s.

My ex and I were together for about four years. Toward the end of our relationship, I started feeling distant from her, but I still trusted her even with her guy friends. Then she told me she had cheated on me with one of them. She said it was just a drunken mistake and that there were no real feelings involved.
This happened almost a year ago. At the time, I felt completely broken. But even in that pain, I remember wishing her well in her next chapter of life. I only asked one thing that she wouldn’t end up with the guy she cheated on me with. She promised me that.
Later, I found out she was with him and that they were in what seemed like a perfect relationship. That broke me all over again.
But stepping back and seeing the bigger picture, I’ve learned something. Sometimes it feels like cheaters win at first. But I believe they eventually have to live with their own guilt and shame trap . And the guy she’s with now if he truly understands how their relationship started will either become the next victim or never fully respect her, because deep down he knows what she did to the man she was with before. And me now i ve the best mindset ,no guilt trap no shame .

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"I am a very friendly person, and I have many male friends, but I have never been in a relationship with anyone—I’ve never had a boyfriend. Every time I meet someone new and that person wants to meet me or call me, I feel stressed; yet, deep down, I want to have a relationship and settle down. Why is that, and how can I fix it?"

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I am Fenan. 🌝

This is about my friend of five years. I study in a different city and met her in college. She joined our class late and sat next to me, starting a conversation. At first, I thought she was shy, humble, and sweet. But that’s not who she really is! I’ve learned a lot from her life experiences.

I come from a sheltered background, so I don’t know much about the world, boys, relationships, or clubs. (Thank God for that; it’s better this way.) She told me all the details about her life, and I saw how tough the world can be. I tried my best to support her, praying for her and sacrificing my time and grades. I don’t feel guilty because I gained so much from her.

For example, I met some of her other female friends, and I saw how they struggled because of their boyfriends. I learned that beauty alone isn’t enough; character matters a lot. God (Jesus Christ) is the true source of life, happiness, and joy. She took me to a luxury hotel, and while I appreciated it, I realized that I wouldn’t sell my identity for comfort or money. I know my worth!

I remember in 2015, my family was struggling financially. I went hungry for a week, only drinking water. During that time, she called me to tell me about having dinner at Sheraton Addis with someone. I listened but told her it wasn’t a good choice. I never shared my struggles with her because she wasn’t really my friend; I was just her friend.

Over time, I gave up on her because she didn’t respect my boundaries. My feelings and thoughts didn’t matter to her. I take responsibility for that.

I truly wish good things for her, but after graduation, I don’t want to see her again.

Yeah, I’m done.🤦‍♀...

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Help guys!!! Crush situation!!! I've got a major crush on this guy after one hug i've officially caught feelings. I think he was into me earlier but I was dumb and shut him down now that hug has me spiraling and he's all i think about i slid into his DMs with a reel and he just reacted😭 like really but when we talk in person the way he looks at me is just insane🫠 what do i do? How do i give him the signal to talk yk open that door???

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let's me tell about me ima l look normal gn astedadege it's not how u think it was terrible am fine looking guy fiten btayut beka normal ordinary type person neg but deep down am different like even i overthinking a lot of shit ina kelal neger irasu btwashug besmeam i will find it bezim ale beziya demo agatamiwochu new iko yemigermug beka fetari hulu neger ygeletlk yale ymesl besmeam i have trust issues yaw hiwote lay effect binorewm gn beka if u lie i will find the truth even balfelgm ewnetaw enen blo ymetal 🥲😂

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Part-1

WOMEN FRUSTRATE ME. Not in any of that "why don't they want me" whiny sense. I'm actually the kind girls record while in the library(true story... please don't do that, "cry cry" "sobbing noise"), I'm the kind that get's attention from women(& girls) of concerning age ranges. Just to say I know what I'm talking about, to say you can all suck it, & most importantly it is to build up on the fact that I can be so shallow & very picky.

Lack of self-awareness... This time, on how girls don't know that they really are actually special. I believe that humans in general are not so special, that people are the most replaceable resources in the world. You can draw a line. For me, my parents are not replaceable. My wife will be irreplaceable(depends). My kids are gonna be absolutely irreplaceable. Girlfriend or boyfriends are the most replaceable. Why? Because there are billions of people on earth?! At least in the dating sense, I have learnt two key things for both genders: 1. There is always a lookalike, 2. (More importantly & even more prevalently) There is a better one, both inside & outside... ለምን አንድ ሰው ላይ እንደምትጋደሉ መቼም ነው ማይገባኝ... But if it is not fighting for someone &(or) choosing the best person for you, what is love? Those ideas are problematic for me, they're selfish but love is selfless. I define love as a choice; a choice to give a person YOUR best, not finding the best person for you. A person you can give your best to is almost everyone. A person who wants to give you their best is as abundant. This is why I never understand the አንድ ሰው ላይ መጋደል፣ "I don't want to lose him or her", "He or she is the only or best person for me" load of bull...

I still believe humans are not as special, I also manage to find the special things everyone has. Maybe I am very insightful or whatever but I find many special things about people I interact with. As an example, here is a description of personal interactions with women I find to be special but ended up becoming the sources of this frustration. It goes as, while I am finding them special, & explicitly telling them that, they don't see that & constantly telling me, fighting with me that they are not as special. Girls, don't do that. I mean why?!! Why do you undersell yourself? At least nod along, just say thanks & move on? That can also put you in a situation of not thinking you are special & expecting to be found special by someone else. If you are unlucky, you end up in the hands of a loser who takes advantage of the situation(I needed to use this word "loser" because it is a very low-bar action to make a girl feel that way. Making her question her worth, to corner her into her trying to gain your approval, using that against her & using her for your base needs? That's very low, callous & inhumane. So boys, let's just not do that?). Btw, a man doesn't need to be convinced to understand your speciality. If he doesn't see it already, then he just doesn't, move the fuck on. Both cases where a woman not finding herself as special or where a woman tries to convince me into finding her special is unattractive and frustrating to me.

Even without being my ideal people in terms of physical attraction, I find myself being drawn to them just based on what I find to be special about them. But ironically, in these cases cause the appreciation I had suddenly turns into pity, killing whatever I was feeling. I guess it is not attractive. So imagine how many good people you will lose just because you were not aware how special you are...

So girls, you don't need to prove you are special to anyone. I know it is hard, but it's better to go through hardship and make it than compromising for unworthy people. One guy is not interested? Tell him to go fuck himself. You have no obligation to prove to him you are special. Someone else, your person will find you special and you will be happy for waiting.

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I am male i am in adama and i want a real girlfriend Which she loves and Care about me Please any one agenagugn yechin lej becegnenetu liyasabedegn new yemer dena yetesakalegn sera erasu bezi neger mekneyat eyetawekegn new fail siyareg ena Please Please

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hello guys ymserawu sera online selhon bizu gez bet nw ymwulwu ena set gar ymgenagnbt way chrash ylm malt ychlalal relationship wust megbat eflgalhu gen how and where by the way i am male

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I'm F 29. I can't ask this to any of my family members or friends without being judged or pressed so I need an outside opinion, please help. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years now. My boyfriend lives in a different country and when we started dating he was doing his masters but he did not have a job and he still lived with his parents and honestly that never bothered me because at the time I didn't care about money and a proper job. And because he didn't have any earnings we planned that he comes to meet me in person once he graduates and gets a job. When he graduated he got hired immediately but unfortunately in order to be paid well he needs to finish 3000 hours of under supervision work when he sees clients and he doesn't get a lot of clients because he's not good with socializing so he only does like 3-4 hours of work a week. Other times it's meetings and stuff like that. So he's been doing that for about 3 years now and he still has about 800 hours left to be licensed and be properly paid. In the first 3 years of our relationship it never bothered me but as I start to get older I started noticing things. He buys games, multiple laptops, Nintendo Switchs. And he got into meditation so he buys multiple books a month on meditation and therapy , and he buys expensive trainings every month. And it's starting to bother me that he has money to do all of that but he doesn't eveb have a $200 to save every month so we can meet? And on top of that he's 35 still living with his family, doesn't have a car, doesn't even have a driving licence and his family always drives his to wherever he wants to go including work and the market, and he goes to Disney Land at least once a month ( he says his family have a yearly subscription or something). And he always complains about his family even when his under them and that pisses me off. In the beginning of our relationship he did sent me clothes twice but after that he didn't get me at least a flower for my birthday and it bothered me but since I know that he doesn't earn much I didn't want to stress him out so I kept my mouth shut. But recently I talked to him about it. I told him that I'm getting older and it's getting irritating waiting for him and I asked if he's serious about us that since he's got a lot of free time on his hands he should get a part time job and make our meeting happen sooner. Then he gave me a bunch of bullshit saying if he get another job it will distract him from his main job and once he gets all his hours he'll get paid more blablabla.... So I stopped asking him because I love him and also I can be annoyingly patient and forgiving. I know he loves me very much and he means what he says. But tell me honestly am I being blinded by love? Is he simply a loser or he doesn't see my worth or how much I'm sacrificing by waiting for just by trusting his words? Is he playing me?

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I am 🎭 Eyohat
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i am 25 Boy
I need some advice… especially from girls.

Is it wrong to want something serious these days?

I feel like I’m the type of guy who gives effort, loyalty, and consistency. I don’t like playing games or acting distant just to seem “cool.” If I care, I show it.

But sometimes I wonder… do girls lose interest when a guy is too genuine?
Do they prefer mystery and less effort?

I’ve been thinking about this a lot because I don’t want to change who I am. I just want to understand.

So honestly… from a girl’s perspective — what makes a guy attractive emotionally?
What makes you stay?

I really want to learn, not argue. Just trying to grow.

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M 26 i need to vent it has been on my mind lately that I don’t chase dominant women, I’m drawn to them.
There’s something about a woman who knows she’s in control. Her voice steady. Her presence heavy. The kind who doesn’t ask — she decides.
I don’t submit out of weakness. I submit because I choose to. Because I respect strength. Because I like knowing my place beside a powerful woman.
If you lead naturally…
If you enjoy being in charge…
If you like a man who listens and responds without hesitation…
Say something.
I’m paying attention.😊

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I feel emotionally alone in my marriage and just need to vent anonymously.
We’ve been together almost 10 years, married for almost 3 yrs and it feels like I live with a roommate. There’s no affection, no emotional connection, no real effort. He goes on with life normally..gym, work, routine ..like everything is fine, while I feel deeply sad most days.
One of the most painful parts is he’s secretly addicted to porn and masturbation. It’s not “once in a while” like he claims. Knowing he has desire but not for me has crushed my self esteem and made me feel unwanted and replaced. I approached it calmly and without blame, but nothing has changed. He just continues life like it doesn’t affect our marriage.
I’m a mom to little girls and I hate that my sadness sometimes turns into frustration. They deserve a peaceful, happy mother. I’m also financially dependent right now, which makes everything feel more complicated and heavy.
Some days I try to detach and rebuild myself. Other days I just feel lonely and tired of carrying this alone. I don’t want pity…I just needed somewhere to release this because keeping it inside is exhausting😔🤦‍♀️

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Couples in our late 20's. Mr and my gurl have been dating little over a year now. She is the kind of girl jnto alot weird stuffs that a guy would wish to have and experience with. As much as we have tried to explore as much now she is insisting to try 3some in FFM. It's seems interesting but a bit too much aswell. Has anyone been in that kind of situation? If so how do u manage to find the person to be in 3some and what was the experience like?

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