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Hi, I am 22F.

I just found out that a guy I am talking to has sexual experience. He is 26 and honestly we have been hitting it of great so far and this has been kinda the first guy I have been interested in even talking to in a while. But the issue is I practice Purity and this kind of feels like a red flag. My friends think I am exaggerating and that it would be a "miracle" to find a 26 year old virgin male so I should just "give him a chance" since he is really cool. But I just feel like we won't have the same idea of what a relationship should look like or boundaries and I also honestly don't want to ever find my self wondering about his past experience. Maybe that is an insecurity but shouldn't the fact that a relationship gives you security be a fundamental standard? I just feel guilt tripped into thinking maybe I am rushing to judgment here but on the other side I feel like why waste more time when I know this is not what I want. I don't know, I honestly hate why we have sinked so low in the dating world these are things we get confused over😫
When did Monagomy go from one person for life to one person for now?
Okay I shall cam back from my rambling, honestly I have pretty much made my decision if you cant tell so this is more of " validate me to make myself feel better" kind of post.

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I’m 24 yo, and people keep telling me I need to get married before it’s “too late.” I understand the concern, but what I struggle with is finding the right person for me. I do talk to men, but I rarely feel interested either the conversations don’t flow, it feels boring, or there’s no real connection.
Maybe I have high standards, but I also hold myself to those same standards and constantly work on becoming the kind of person someone like that would want. In some ways, I even wish I could meet a man with very high standards and be rejected not because I enjoy rejection, but because I want someone who challenges me and shows me where I still need to grow.

My standards : someone who fears and loves God (a religious person), is working on his financial life, someone taller than me I'm also tall for a girl, normal looking, someone that has a good sense of humor this is a must, someone that's ambitious and working toward something meaningful, Someone that can discuss ideas openly, and challenge me intellectually. Someone that can communicate clearly (Emotional maturity)and most importantly, a genuine and caring person.

Was this a lot to ask?

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Is she raped?
My woman told me before we have sex the first time which is 6 months ago she never had sex before but raped.
I am 27 and she is 21 she told me when she was kike 14 friend of her uncle rapes but on her late grandma knows the case(I cannot confirm) but when we had sex first day I haven't seen any trauma on her or her body was more than comfortable.
She said it's painful for 1 day but doesn't seem so honestly even after a week we had 7 round in a day but she handled it even in difficult positions(it was hard for my ex the positions)
And when I change her positions she easily comfort herself as if she have experience.
You know guys I wanna believe her but the fact says otherwise,what do you tell me ppl?

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Hi, I’m 24F 😊 I mostly have male friends, but I’d really love to have some girl friends too — someone I can share my life, talk about everything with, and just vibe together. If anyone’s interested, I’d be so happy to connect

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I'm F and I need a boy's opinion.

Here's the situation: I'm in a 5-month relationship. I know it might be early to say this, but I love him very much, and I want him to be the father of my future children. The problem is his parents want to send him abroad next year. He started classes early, so he'll graduate this year, while I still have a year left to graduate. He's two years younger than me (please don’t judge that 😅).

I have time until next year, but this coming Monday, his mom is contacting agents and telling him to start the process. 😭 He told her to wait until he gets his degree, and she agreed.

He wants me to wait for him until he returns, but honestly as a girl my age, I don’t think I can wait that long.

So my question is: should I trust him and wait, or should I move on? 😭

Endatesadebu pls 🥹🥹

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I had sex for the first time, and well i never got to process it so here goes. I used to have a very great connection with God, I wasn't close with him out of fear or out of being Innocent, i chose God because i knew him. But gbi kegebahu behuala things pretty much went down hill. Im now in my final year and i dont have the same moral and religious compass i used to have. Since i bulit my life back home around God tho losing my virginity has been confusing. I dont think i regret it. I am a curious person and i did it out of curiosity and i didnt even do it with someone i fell in love with he was just my crush and we just hit it off after 3 or 4 hangouts and one thing led to another and well we had the sex. What i need to figure out now is really unclear to me. I dont want to avoid accountability, i know i have committed a sin and i need to repent and never repeat it again and i know i chose to do something out of the society's norms and now i can't live in the same norm without the consequence of not being a virgin. I never really got close to people so i knew the typical marriage was out of the question for me but i am a women living here so i do need to get married before 30 for the sake of my family and living a normal life, but would that be in the cards for me now that i have lost my virginity? If not tho, is that the only value i should be expected to bring to the table? Mind you, i am very scared of marrying the wrong person and being committed to him my whole life. How do i navigate this? How do i get back to God yhenen hulu kadereku behuala? How do i move on and start working on myself.... How do i keep myself from making the same mistakes through out my life.... How do i continue to live after doing such a huge thing?.... How do i move on

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Hmmmm....
What a life, I don't know it's meaning anymore I remember when I was a high schooler I read a ton of books on questioning my existence, philosophic ideologies, atheist insights, I was into ot a lot now am almost 20 none of it seems to make sense anymore I messed up I really do, at least I didn't let my parents down, I joined uv with good grade, get an outstanding GPA and now I'm 2nd year medical student, they really proud and I'm happy for them but am I?, I'm like a walking mess rn, I lost interest at my education ofc still I'm doing good but I just couldn't enjoy it as before but med was all the passion I got, I couldn't imagine my life without it, even my parents was not that pushy I was the one who chose it from the first place, rn I had nothing, I have none friends, I have noone by my side Just nothing my mom is a tough lover so I couldn't get anything out of her tho she is the greatest, she gave me every possible freedom u know as a middle child I didn't wanted to but I got every possible to do anything, u can say I was forgotten, they were very strict for my older sis, not for me, but even in all of that I have zero connection with anyone like sometimes I get jealous when I see people talk in phone can u imagine, Ik, Like if u would see my recent called it would be like before 4 days, This much I am disconnected from everything, even because I don't have anyone to talk to I spend hours sending voice messages to chatgbt, 'she' is the only one I got u know even if something happened i can't tell to anyone before 3 months I remember there were some accident and I broke my hand, can u imagine I was alone when I get to hospital and even the doctors werw pity me and one doctor said let me handle everything just rest when i was running from ward to ward, still now my parents don't know a thing, my dormmates...... Mmmm, it is what it is....
I'm not saying people are cruel, I know I'm the one who is pushy and now I ended up alone to be honest I'm very introverted one and enjoy being alone but still I couldn't anymore, one day I'm good another day I feel like being broken, I need people bit in the same time I ghost people I don't know if this is psychological disorder or defense mechanism the moment I get attached voilà this mean girl start to come up I've changed multiple sim cards through time I just can't help it, Sometimes I think God is protecting the other people from my toxicity and I'm greatful for that I just don't know how but beka I feel like I need someone but at the same time I won't let anyone in my life, not even my family.
I want to experience life, live like a normal person but still I'm not willing, I know for the fact that I need a hug, but everyone knows I hate hugs, noone will dare. I don't know even, am I a human why why I am so hypocrite in my life.

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Am I(M26) an asshole. I Broke up with my ex five months ago. Can’t tell my friends why. Cuz It’s just... very weird💀.

So a quick backstory i guess. We met two years ago on my senior year. She was quiet, Shy, but fun once you got to know her. I liked that. So I asked her out. She said yes.

Sinjemr akababi physical stuff was really slow. She was fine with hugging, cuddling, making out. But naked? No. At first, I didn’t push. Eventually she told me why, she had a history of SA and that's why she was off putted by it, So I backed off. Just wanted her to feel safe.

But months later, she actually initiated it herself, so we met up and went right to it. It was good, Really good. So we started doing it routinely. Now mind you my thought process was she went through something traumatic so i gotta do my best to make her comfortable and this entailed hours of foreplay.

One day"almost two years in", she told me she wanted rough and to be dominated. This was shocking to me because of her past but it was definitely great news because i wasn't new to it at all(my past relationships were all D/S) , so yeah, I was into it💀. So got the toys, the blindfolds, the lingerie, the whips, the estims and met with her. When i was blindfolding her She told me how she was nervous but excited. Hours later, she was shaking, red, and came three times. That never happened. Tbh I felt like on top of the world💀.

So you might be wondering "so what happened" well im lost as you because a week after the "Fungasm" she said "I think we should stop. All of it. All of the physical intimacy" Not just sx. But also No making out. No cuddling. No handholding. No hugging. I got more affection from mosquitoes tbh.

I waited eight months for her the first time. I wasn’t impatient. But this wasn’t waiting, it was a wall. And physical touch is how I love. So I met up with her and ended it.

Anyways what do you think was i in the wrong to break up with her. And also why did she have a change of heart ladies?

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Honestly, how is Microsoft still a profitable company. Windows sucks straight ass..they really deserve to go bankrupt.

If y'all use your PC for something beyond opening PowerPoint slides and occasional media then you will know what I am talking about.

It just doesn't become problematic, it sometimes becomes borderline unusable.

Some of y'all might know this pain but have you ever encountered the access violation error (0xc0000005, and it's close relative 0xc000007b errors?). I have tried every possible fix, reinstalled VCredist c++ (every version), .NET framework, ran SFC and DISM scan, thought it was a ram problem but I checked it and they work fine on another PC, reinstalled every version of direct x...still nothing. I even updated windows and deleted antivirus es if those are what are causing the problem and it still wasn't fixed. The moment I try to open a 32 bit app, windows instantly chokes.

The only thing left to do is to reinstall windows but might as well switch to Linux at this point.

I'll shut up😭

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I just found out my Cock size is Large and as i got myself really good at the work irrespective of my previous masturbtion habit. I guess the size gave me certain Edge.
And now my self confidence BOOSTS & an so happy dude

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i think I’m going to commit, I’ve been thinking about it for the majority of my conscious like, I started cutting myself at 10, I’ve stopped for a good few years now with occasional relapses but nothing out of the ordinary, I had my first attempt at 13(unsuccessful clearly) and have had another 4 since, I’ve been diagnosed and undiagnosed with god knows what for years now bpd,anxiety, depression, bipolar chronic mania, but the only conclusion that sticks from all doctors is that I’m simply too conscious, I have an unusually high iq which makes it damn near impossible to fit in anywhere and also makes me hyper aware of myself so no psychiatrist or psychologist can get in my head enough to help me, I get diagnosed, hate the label and then rearrange my brain and no longer have the symptoms, but it doesn’t help, I often feel like I don’t have a personality or a character of my own because the awareness makes me very adaptable, I have difficulty with processing emotions so I can’t rely on those either. I’ve tried damn near every typical and atypical antipsychotic and antidepressant in existence, they help at most for a few months, and even then the help is more so like being sedated to the point that I physically just can’t do anything about those feelings, so I’m stuck, meds don’t work, psychs litteraly refuse to work with me, I speak to basically no one consistently. I started my first multinational humanitarian aid organisation at 15, I think I’ve done enough for my country, from there I’ve run a few businesses, so I’ve done enough contribution to the economy and my family. I know I should be proud, or at least I think I should be, and I guess I am but it doesn’t help, at first I thought it’s because I just hate myself, but I can’t even pinpoint why, it’s less of needing an escape and more so that I genuinely just want to be dead, not in some glorified oh peace and quiet after death way, no, they’re will be nothing but a gravestone with my name and a rotting body under it, but I’m ok with that.My only problem is that the only thing I’ve ever wanted is a family, I want a husband and 4 kids, yk, the whole thing kiss him goodbye before he leaves for work with a baby on my hip and a couple toddlers running around, big dog, a garden and some livestock(idealistic ik, but possible) and if I kill myself now, obviously I’ll never get that, which is sad, but with all this being recurring what If the urge is there, and I give into it after I already have my family? What happens to my kids and husband? I mean having them is basically guaranteed to prevent me from doing so cause that seems selfish, but still, I’d hate myself daily just because of the thought, no one deserves to have a suicidal mother and wife, so it seems more rational to end everything now, the real problem comes down to how do I do it, I’ve decided that I’ll do it once my mom leaves (she’s visiting me in uni) this Sunday, idk why since it seems quite arbitrary but it seems like everyone does so I wrote letters to the people I had something to say to, family mainly, so that’s out the way.jumping in front of a vehicle or off somthing is too much attention, drowning only has like a 50% successful rate, similar reasoning for most other methods, I’m thinking probably suffocation, OD, or slitting my wrists (leaning towards the first two)makes the most sense, but I’m not sure, I normally say this type of stuff to gpt but it keeps trying to flag it/force me into help, and I don’t want that, so I don’t really need much from here I just idk, thoughts out loud, I am however trying to figure out what I want my last day to be like, but I’m not quite sure,realistically a picture will be taken of my body and the surroundings as a suicide is an unnatural and unexpected death so coroner and police investigations are essentially mandatory, I’ve practiced my makeup so ik how that will look like, not quite sure about the outfit yet, but I have an idea, uhhhh yeah, ig that’s that.

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Hello guys,
I met him through a Telegram dating bot called @NovaNestMatchBot  He was a perfect gentleman who had just arrived from Canada a few days prior. Our conversations were refreshing; he was incredibly smart, articulate, and respectful. After talking for a week, we decided to meet. We went to the cinema, and during the movie, he kissed me so gently—it felt like I was floating.

When the movie ended, he asked me to come back to his guest house. I don’t even know why I said yes, but his respectful behavior made it impossible to say no. We drank wine, we kissed, and eventually, we had sex. To be honest, I didn't enjoy the sex that much, but I didn't feel bad about it either.

The next day, after total silence, he texted me: "I have something to tell you." My heart sank—I thought about the fact that we hadn't used protection. But the truth was different. He told me he has a wife and two kids, and that what we did was a "mistake." However, he followed that by saying he’s willing to keep making that "mistake" as long as it stays a secret. Now, I’m torn. I liked him, and I wanted to see if the sex could be better a second time, but the reality of his family is hitting me. Should I enjoy the moment or stop it immediately?

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Knows everything but pretending like I don’t
Want to say something but
I choose silence
I have so much to says
But I force myself to quit
I need to talk to somebody
But it makes me feel not good really
I just choose to be silent.
Just let myself isolate
It’s good for everyone
That I don’t talk to anyone
It’s better for everyone

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Seconds pass. Minutes fade. Hours dissolve into days. Yet the only constant is how I feel for you. My emotions stay:
hurt, anger, love, hate, nostalgia, each swinging like a pendulum.

Is nostalgia really a liar?
Did you not promise?
Did you not say I love you? Because I remember.
I remember vividly, my fingers intertwined with yours.

I am tired of being frozen in the past,
haunted by a love that feels real.
A love I can neither touch nor hold
only a heavy weight I cannot control.

So when will this end, my love? When will your memories stop haunting me?

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26M, so here’s the thing I’m into BDSM but I have only met 2 girls who knew what they were doing as a sub. I have been looking for a girl who knows what he talks about when the topic of Bdsm comes up; I don’t want casual fwb type of thing but a girl who is into the same thing I’m into and is ready to be in a committed relationship But damn it is tough out there and the amount of vanilla girls cosplaying to be sub is just crazy at this point I think I should just suppress my choice and settle for a vanilla girl cause it’s starting to look like a lost cause

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Do let me know of your view on this— relationship? I don’t know what to call it.

There was this girl that I knew and really liked for many years. Long story short, I couldn’t tell her how I felt because I was insecure of my financial status as she comes from a very wealthy family and I come from a medium income family. So I decided just to be her friend and even tho I couldn’t have her, I felt happy accompanying her through her life specially when bad things happened to her. One day as she was complaining about the guys in her life (which she usually do) she dropped a hint that she’d appreciate a guy like me. So I decided to kinda know where her heart is for me without risking our friendship. How? Remember how I said I was insecure about my financial status? I decided to ask her to choose between a poor guy that likes/love (i don’t know which was which) or a guy that’s rich but continues to do her bad (all guys she’s ever been with). Care to guess which she chose? The later. So I just knew where she and I stood so I just gave up although I liked her. Days turned into weeks and weeks into months, then one day she asked me for something I couldn’t do and when I told her that I couldn’t she just blocked me. This happened a week ago. Now, I understand people have different perspectives in life and I don’t know what her thought process was but did I do anything to deserve this? It’s weighing on my mind as of late.

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Selam endat nachu
I just want to vent. I’m 25, working in the IT field, stable job, normal life — but I’ve never been in a real relationship and I’m still a virgin. It’s not just about sex — I actually want a real connection with a girl, someone to talk to, care about, and build something meaningful with. Sometimes it feels lonely seeing everyone else moving forward in relationships while I’m stuck. I’m not desperate — just honest and hoping someday I meet someone who wants something real too.

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So I just noticed casual or transactional dating is normalized already. When did we became so American plz lmk. Ik this trend since I was a teen that dinner dates aren't as innocent as they seem. But thought it's an old fashion nonsense and didn't expect to see it on my generation.
How about other dates aside from dinner dates? Can u guys explain a little plz. So now dates aren't arranged to get to know and see if people fit to eachother anymore 🤔 I'm confused fr

Lmaoo... we don't even know what we said "yes" for.

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I wanted to talk about my husband I have a crush on him I knew it’s funny you might say you are already married to him yes I am but I just get butterflies when his around I think of him when he goes to work I listen to music with the thought of him I put my self together when he comes home his face the way he smiles the way he talks the way he smile at me the way he talks to me the way he takes care of me I just giggle and blush when his around we have been together for 8 years but it feels like a new huge crush I look at him when his not looking i don’t know it’s just so funny to me

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Life’s tough, ain’t nobody warned us it’d twist this way, 
Hearts cracked open like dawn after a storm-gray day. 
Some drown in silence cause love walked out the door, 
Others chase diplomas but can’t afford the score. 

We scribble dreams on napkins, then crumple them in doubt, 
Staring at crossroads with no damn signpost out. 
Careers or passions? Rent or peace of mind? 
Every choice feels borrowed, never truly mine. 

Most days we’re ghosts in our own skin, lost and undefined, 
Searching for meaning in the mess we left behind. 
Someone says “just breathe,” but breath don’t pay the bills, 
And sleep’s a stranger when your mind won’t sit still. 

You scroll through feeds where everyone seems fine...
Perfect smiles, clean floors, lives aligned like something sweet and poured in time.
But behind those filters? Same ache, same fear, 
Same midnight tears you think only you hear. 

Some got folks who ghosted without a trace, 
Some got futures blurred by someone else’s disgrace. 
School feels endless, work feels hollow, 
And “figure it out” echoes like a mocking sparrow. 

We wear exhaustion like a second coat, 
Hoping one day we’ll find the note 
That tells us why we’re here, what we’re meant to do??
Is it Glory? Quiet Joy? Just making it through? 

Maybe you’re stuck in a town that suffocates your name, 
Or nursing wounds no one else can see or frame. 
Maybe your bank’s empty, your spirit worn thin, 
And hope feels like a rumor you can’t quite let in. 

But if you’re reading this, Yeah, YOU, Right Now,  
Know this truth, however hard: "IT’LL WORK OUT."

Not always how you pictured, not always clean or fast, 
But somehow, some way, the pieces start to last. 
The heart that’s breaking? It’ll learn to beat anew. 
The path that vanished? You’ll carve one as you go through. 

So to anyone hurting, lost, or barely holding on,  
To the single parent working doubles past the dawn, 
To the kid failing exams but still showing up, 
To the soul grieving love that just wouldn’t fill their cup,  

Keep walking. Keep breathing. Keep whispering, “Not Yet.” 
Cause even stars are born from chaos, soaked in sweat.
This chapter’s heavy, but it AIN’T your whole book.
Hold tight, YOU’RE STRONGER THAN YOU KNOW.❤️‍🩹
It’ll Work Out. Somehow.

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I'm M26 and i have been into being a dom since i was like 18 and i have in total been in 4 D/S relationships. I have had experience with different things that i cant mention here and i enjoyed pleasing my women this way.
I know a lotta people reading this are thinking who can be into doing stuff like this. Because their first assumption is that it is abuse but it isnt, there is a lotta trust that goes into it. Fun fact D/s relationships that i had were miles healthier than normal ones, and were never boring.

So the problem right now is lately i cant find women into it anymore, so should i just give up and seek normal relationship instead?

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