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I'm from Addis Ababa, but right now I'm studying engineering in another city.. I ended up here for a bunch of reasons, but deep down, I don't feel like this is it for me. My mind keeps telling me to go back to my hometown and just start something yk anything. I know it won't be easy, but I can handle the struggle if I can just see a way forward.
Every time I sit down to take an exam, all I can think is, "Why am I here? How much longer does this last?" And I just realized—I don't look back and wish I'd left earlier. I look at now and think, "I should go." So what's actually stopping me?
I should also say: my family can't be my safety net. My dad's sick and getting weaker. My mom is carrying everything on her back. My younger brother already dropped out and is making little money somewhere. If I go back, I'm on my own.
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I'm from Addis Ababa, but right now I'm studying engineering in another city.. I ended up here for a bunch of reasons, but deep down, I don't feel like this is it for me. My mind keeps telling me to go back to my hometown and just start something yk anything. I know it won't be easy, but I can handle the struggle if I can just see a way forward.
Every time I sit down to take an exam, all I can think is, "Why am I here? How much longer does this last?" And I just realized—I don't look back and wish I'd left earlier. I look at now and think, "I should go." So what's actually stopping me?
I should also say: my family can't be my safety net. My dad's sick and getting weaker. My mom is carrying everything on her back. My younger brother already dropped out and is making little money somewhere. If I go back, I'm on my own.
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Yesterday i met my childhood crush! We just greeted each other and went on our ways.
Since we were kids we really liked each other but other people constantly meddled in our relation and everything becomes awkward. She moved out from our neighbour when she was like 15 so our connection literally died.
We've met on several occasions but our conversation is always weird because she's always shy as if she did something wrong in the last.
Anyway, we came across each other when i was walking and that sparked the desire to reach her out and see in there is any potential for us to become something else.
But a couple of things are disturbing me.
1. Our family knows each other and they might feel awkward if they find out we're dating. Her mother really love me and respect our family but i'm still hesitant.
2. Her mom has HIV so there's a high possibility that she might also have the virus but she also might not.
3. We're both Habesha but from different ethnic group and with the current dirty politics our relation might face some bumps, not from us but from her family (i know my family wouldn't mind). The same thing has caused friction in my previous relation during the Tigray war.
should i go ahead and see if it works? And how can i check the HIV thing without making her feel bad?
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Yesterday i met my childhood crush! We just greeted each other and went on our ways.
Since we were kids we really liked each other but other people constantly meddled in our relation and everything becomes awkward. She moved out from our neighbour when she was like 15 so our connection literally died.
We've met on several occasions but our conversation is always weird because she's always shy as if she did something wrong in the last.
Anyway, we came across each other when i was walking and that sparked the desire to reach her out and see in there is any potential for us to become something else.
But a couple of things are disturbing me.
1. Our family knows each other and they might feel awkward if they find out we're dating. Her mother really love me and respect our family but i'm still hesitant.
2. Her mom has HIV so there's a high possibility that she might also have the virus but she also might not.
3. We're both Habesha but from different ethnic group and with the current dirty politics our relation might face some bumps, not from us but from her family (i know my family wouldn't mind). The same thing has caused friction in my previous relation during the Tigray war.
should i go ahead and see if it works? And how can i check the HIV thing without making her feel bad?
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Heyy 22f,peoples who don't have a mom specially girs how is life going,me i can't it's affecting me in every thing, long story short,my mom is mentally ill she never raised me growing up i used to see her on the streets yaw being mentally ill,and my dad couldn't do anything cus he has to work all the time to payy the bills ,so the house Responsibility's were on my shoulder, i wass literally the mom of our house since i was like 9,ena ahun gn am grown i havee a good job,mnmn gn i can't seem to be normal I've never been happy ewnet never been in r/ship, i don't want to have kidsss, i lost hope at religions,tbh idk y i exist, does it really get better?if not am going to end it here ewnet
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Heyy 22f,peoples who don't have a mom specially girs how is life going,me i can't it's affecting me in every thing, long story short,my mom is mentally ill she never raised me growing up i used to see her on the streets yaw being mentally ill,and my dad couldn't do anything cus he has to work all the time to payy the bills ,so the house Responsibility's were on my shoulder, i wass literally the mom of our house since i was like 9,ena ahun gn am grown i havee a good job,mnmn gn i can't seem to be normal I've never been happy ewnet never been in r/ship, i don't want to have kidsss, i lost hope at religions,tbh idk y i exist, does it really get better?if not am going to end it here ewnet
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Hi endet nachu ene ke Ethiopia wchi wetche meserat felgalew Anywhere ke madam mnamn wchi ena enelkaln milu sewochn sawera mulu photo mnamn yilalu koy sera lmketer photo lmn yasfelgal ene endza silugn dengtalew ena tolo zegalew eski kedme kfya yelelew astmamgn sera myasera mtakut weym ezi yalachu kalachu please dgmo albale ngerm yalhon electrical tmari negn gn mesrat felgalew ቆንጆ negn gn mesfert wst ymikatet bayhon des yilgnal sera ena sera bcha ene labed new begeta 🙏
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Hi endet nachu ene ke Ethiopia wchi wetche meserat felgalew Anywhere ke madam mnamn wchi ena enelkaln milu sewochn sawera mulu photo mnamn yilalu koy sera lmketer photo lmn yasfelgal ene endza silugn dengtalew ena tolo zegalew eski kedme kfya yelelew astmamgn sera myasera mtakut weym ezi yalachu kalachu please dgmo albale ngerm yalhon electrical tmari negn gn mesrat felgalew ቆንጆ negn gn mesfert wst ymikatet bayhon des yilgnal sera ena sera bcha ene labed new begeta 🙏
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Hi,I'm F and I'm 23 mn meslachu bkerbu goro akababi sera jemryalew ena sera botaye fit lefit yehon erteb bet ale ena eza hule yemimeta lij ale betam eye contact alen gn mnm awerten anakm sayew des yelgnal 1 ken kekre endet endmidbergn salafkrew alkerm esun sasb bka betam tru semt nw yemismagn endet bmn menged lekrbew endmchel alakm dmo fkregna binorews bye asbalew telant lawraw mokre feraw zare bka yehon hasab metolgn gn lewta sel alkaye meta mewtat alchalkum eyaywet hede zare betam telk edel nw yameltegn maryamn berase tenadjalew esti guys endet lekrbew
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Hi,I'm F and I'm 23 mn meslachu bkerbu goro akababi sera jemryalew ena sera botaye fit lefit yehon erteb bet ale ena eza hule yemimeta lij ale betam eye contact alen gn mnm awerten anakm sayew des yelgnal 1 ken kekre endet endmidbergn salafkrew alkerm esun sasb bka betam tru semt nw yemismagn endet bmn menged lekrbew endmchel alakm dmo fkregna binorews bye asbalew telant lawraw mokre feraw zare bka yehon hasab metolgn gn lewta sel alkaye meta mewtat alchalkum eyaywet hede zare betam telk edel nw yameltegn maryamn berase tenadjalew esti guys endet lekrbew
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They sell you this version of manhood that's all edges. All grit, all swagger, all distance. You're supposed to want one thing, and it's supposed to be hard and fast and loud. Your hands are for gripping, for building, for pushing away. Your body is a tool, a weapon, a machine.
But mine isn't.
Mine is a radiator. And all it wants is to be close. To be a source of warmth for someone else, and to have that warmth returned. Not as a prelude to something else, not as a transaction, but as the whole point.
I want to cuddle help your guy girls.
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They sell you this version of manhood that's all edges. All grit, all swagger, all distance. You're supposed to want one thing, and it's supposed to be hard and fast and loud. Your hands are for gripping, for building, for pushing away. Your body is a tool, a weapon, a machine.
But mine isn't.
Mine is a radiator. And all it wants is to be close. To be a source of warmth for someone else, and to have that warmth returned. Not as a prelude to something else, not as a transaction, but as the whole point.
I want to cuddle help your guy girls.
#Friendship #Relationship #Adult
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It feels like my desire is a secret I'm supposed to be ashamed of. I'm a young guy, and the blueprint they hand you is so specific: chase the narrow, the lean, the hard-edged ideal plastered on every screen. But my eyes… they just don't work that way.
I see a girl with a soft smile and curves that look like comfort, and something in my chest just… clicks. It’s not a choice. It’s a magnetic pull. I want the warmth of a real body, one that feels lived-in and generous. I want to hold something substantial, to find my hands perfectly framed by the softness of her waist. I want the way a chubby girl laughs with her whole being, a vibration you can feel. There’s a confidence there, a quiet power in occupying space in a world that tells you to disappear, that I find utterly intoxicating.
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It feels like my desire is a secret I'm supposed to be ashamed of. I'm a young guy, and the blueprint they hand you is so specific: chase the narrow, the lean, the hard-edged ideal plastered on every screen. But my eyes… they just don't work that way.
I see a girl with a soft smile and curves that look like comfort, and something in my chest just… clicks. It’s not a choice. It’s a magnetic pull. I want the warmth of a real body, one that feels lived-in and generous. I want to hold something substantial, to find my hands perfectly framed by the softness of her waist. I want the way a chubby girl laughs with her whole being, a vibration you can feel. There’s a confidence there, a quiet power in occupying space in a world that tells you to disappear, that I find utterly intoxicating.
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The loneliness hits hardest here, because it feels so niche. It’s not just "I want a girlfriend." It’s "I want a partner-in-crime for the quiet rebellions." You scroll through profiles that talk about hiking and ambition, and all you’re screaming inside is, “But do you just want to sink into the couch and vibe? Do you understand how sacred that is?”
You feel like you’re waiting for a signal in the fog—for someone who speaks the same slow, smoky language. It’s lonely because the thing that’s supposed to connect you (the weed) also feels like it boxes you in. You’re not a stoner stereotype; you’re just a person who found a little peace in the ritual and desperately wants to share that peace with someone who sees it the same way.
So the vent is the ache for that specific gravity. For a girl who will match MA energy, not drain it. Who will be your friend first, your smoking buddy second, and maybe—hopefully—something infinitely more
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The loneliness hits hardest here, because it feels so niche. It’s not just "I want a girlfriend." It’s "I want a partner-in-crime for the quiet rebellions." You scroll through profiles that talk about hiking and ambition, and all you’re screaming inside is, “But do you just want to sink into the couch and vibe? Do you understand how sacred that is?”
You feel like you’re waiting for a signal in the fog—for someone who speaks the same slow, smoky language. It’s lonely because the thing that’s supposed to connect you (the weed) also feels like it boxes you in. You’re not a stoner stereotype; you’re just a person who found a little peace in the ritual and desperately wants to share that peace with someone who sees it the same way.
So the vent is the ache for that specific gravity. For a girl who will match MA energy, not drain it. Who will be your friend first, your smoking buddy second, and maybe—hopefully—something infinitely more
#Melancholy #Relationship #Adult
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Don't play confused now. You knew exactly what the f you were doing. Every time you cross my boundaries and watch me question my own reality, you pushed, pulled, lied and manipulated situations just enough to keep control, then stood there acting shocked. When I finally snapped, you watch me explain myself over and over, knowing damn well you understood. You just didn't care because accountability never benefited you. Every time I reacted, you flipped the script, made me feel crazy, and convinced me my pain was the problem instead of your behavior. That wasn't confusion. That was control. And you enjoyed watching me doubt myself while you say comfortable and untouched. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed honesty would eventually matter more than your need to keep power. But I see it clearly now. People don't misunderstand boundaries this consistently unless they're choosing disrespect on purpose. So don't play confused anymore. You lost access the moment I stopped explaining myself and started trusting what the f I felt.
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Don't play confused now. You knew exactly what the f you were doing. Every time you cross my boundaries and watch me question my own reality, you pushed, pulled, lied and manipulated situations just enough to keep control, then stood there acting shocked. When I finally snapped, you watch me explain myself over and over, knowing damn well you understood. You just didn't care because accountability never benefited you. Every time I reacted, you flipped the script, made me feel crazy, and convinced me my pain was the problem instead of your behavior. That wasn't confusion. That was control. And you enjoyed watching me doubt myself while you say comfortable and untouched. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed honesty would eventually matter more than your need to keep power. But I see it clearly now. People don't misunderstand boundaries this consistently unless they're choosing disrespect on purpose. So don't play confused anymore. You lost access the moment I stopped explaining myself and started trusting what the f I felt.
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Hey, I’m 21F. I study at AAU, and my boyfriend studies at Jimma University, so we’re in a long-distance relationship. The thing is, he got sick and hasn’t been available most of the time. He has been diagnosed for days now, and his family is really worried. The illness won’t kill him, but it doesn’t let him live his life normally either. I’m constantly worrying about him, and it’s draining me and affecting my mental health. So… should I leave him?
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Hey, I’m 21F. I study at AAU, and my boyfriend studies at Jimma University, so we’re in a long-distance relationship. The thing is, he got sick and hasn’t been available most of the time. He has been diagnosed for days now, and his family is really worried. The illness won’t kill him, but it doesn’t let him live his life normally either. I’m constantly worrying about him, and it’s draining me and affecting my mental health. So… should I leave him?
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Hi I'm 19 f
Guys I'm still in high-school and will still be until I'm 21 due to the war case but I'm trying to ignore that. By that I mean the fact I'm quite behind ppl my age and all of my peers seem to have their shit together while I'm here trying to get better marks i used to be an overachiever but now I feel like I'm super dumb and stupid tho my results are okay it shouldn't have to be like this it should have been better i should have been better in general but i feel like I'm stuck in a loop and life is rubbing it in my face. Cmon now I was supposed to retire my parents early and support my siblings but I'm still struggling and don't even know what the heck i want like what path should I choose? Natural or social? I'm gd in both but idk what to choose and what do i even want to be and why am I so difficult. And I guess it's the lack of peers around me but I feel super lonely so often anyways thanks for taking the time to read my vent
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Hi I'm 19 f
Guys I'm still in high-school and will still be until I'm 21 due to the war case but I'm trying to ignore that. By that I mean the fact I'm quite behind ppl my age and all of my peers seem to have their shit together while I'm here trying to get better marks i used to be an overachiever but now I feel like I'm super dumb and stupid tho my results are okay it shouldn't have to be like this it should have been better i should have been better in general but i feel like I'm stuck in a loop and life is rubbing it in my face. Cmon now I was supposed to retire my parents early and support my siblings but I'm still struggling and don't even know what the heck i want like what path should I choose? Natural or social? I'm gd in both but idk what to choose and what do i even want to be and why am I so difficult. And I guess it's the lack of peers around me but I feel super lonely so often anyways thanks for taking the time to read my vent
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