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Hello, this is my first time venting. I am a 26 male who lives alone. i am very selfaware narcissist that struggle with a deep sense of detachment from people in general. over time, that detachment has grown into resentment toward everyone. i often feel ashamed of being born here in ethiopia and i don’t have close to none friends or family nearby, and my contact with anyone is minimal. despite that, I am generally liked at work. i know how to be socially functional i can say what people want to hear, smile when needed, and move fake.
i have only been in two serious relationships. i was able to make them work on the surface, but i was still i always prefer being alone and feel more at ease in isolation which am currently enjoying.
i carry a lot of anger, and it runs deep enough that people sometimes sense it without me saying anything. there are moments when others ask if I dislike them, even when I havent expressed it openly.
what I want most is to feel real fully present and alive being the hateful and prideful self. that desire sometimes gets tangled with a need for emotional control, and i am aware that this comes from unresolved pain. i get pleasure from expressing anger or pushing people away, even though I know it’s not healthy. i also struggle with intrusive and disturbing morbid fantasies that reflect this internal conflict, The hardest part is knowing that the things that make me feel real are rooted in pain, while healthier ways of feeling kinda far and that leaves me feeling trapped, exhausted, and deeply disconnected from myself and others but
what makes me grounded is talking to my self inside my head, dressing my self and buying my self nice shoes and watches. i often spend quality times watching tv series and i relate to dexter and joe from you. musically i prefer soft jazz while working or writing and my dream and goal in life is to own my own house far from civilization, eating what i grow and dying old on my porch watching a sunset.

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Hey. I'm a woman in my 20s and I'm feeling a bit down. I work as a digital marketer but I'm not satisfied with my job. I'm looking for a friend nearby who I can talk to. I live around Ayat.

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Hey
21M
All vents here are about relationships and most of them are how do i do this how i do that type que
My question is why would you start a relationship if you are not ready for everything ?

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Emmm am 22 f from HU Medicine student ena mndnew he was my best friend like betam close best friend betam minkebakebgn miwedegn enem bezaw lek betam new mewedew even kewchi yalu sewoch thought we were a couples endeza nw mimeslew ena he have girlfriend gn abzagnawn gize miyatefaw kene gar new hulachnm ye Adama ljoch nen ena ena esua ezaw adama nech ene ena esu hawassa nen ena abren ena takegnalech gn yalenn deep connection atawkm ena and ken abren adern ke esu gar( without sex) gen neck kiss ena hickey nebrw gen tnsh koyto we start to kissed each other ik lek endalhone gn maskom alchalkum keza tewat mnm endalteftere hendn beka tnsh benadedm esun metew alchalkum keza bewala gen dgame jemern mesasamun beka makom alchalnm we know eko abren lnhon endemanchl fkr mnamn edeleleln gen beka esum enen enem esun matat enferalen Eski and negr belugn mknyatum confused hognalew even mnseraw lek bayhonm enem esum lek endehonem nw mnasbew like tekekel endehonen ena mn yishalal
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Hi
I am feeling indifferent to most things. Just numb.
I would still choose that over chaos.
Have you ever been to place you feel you won't fit?
Yes I have had that. To escape the boredom, I did things I am not proud of. I met people out of it and regretted it.
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I have lots of things to do,but my head feels heavy.

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So im 22,f. So far i haven't thought about adulting as much beka emaralw, if i have to work during the summer i work ena i never gave myself much time for relationships and friendships outside of university.
Ena now that im graduating i have this discomfort. I feel like i would have to meet up with people, establish a new social life and get into relationships eventually. And ik it seems obnoxious, to say i don't see myself dating someone random from a random background. Yadegut its in a certain way, im educated in different fields and my parents raised me well, ena i dont see the point in dating someone i dont have a common ground with or someone with no ambition in life whatsoever. If i date too i dont want to have short term relationships and sleep around with men before marriage.
Becha with this vent i wanna ask, where do you guys usually meet people (that's not in a late night club meeting or atmosphere).any groups to join, any communities. If you have any recommendations i would appreciate it

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Hey every one, how was every things ?
እኔጋ ሁሉ ሰላማዊ ነው ግን አንድ ሀሳቤን የረበሸ ነገር ነበረኝ ለማንም ማውራት አልችልም እና እንደ ብዙዎች የ Relationship ጉዳይ ያመጣኛል ብዬ ባስብም ይኸው 24 አመታት ተቆጠሩ አንዳች የለም ነው የምላችሁ.. Situationship እንኳ ይጥፋ😁, ወንዶች ሆይ ግን በሰላም ነው? ቀረሁባችሁ... ለማንኛውም አንገብጋቢው ጉዳይ ምንድነው መሰላችሁ በእውነት ግን በዚ አስቀያሚ ጉዳይ የምመጣ አልመሰለኝም ነበር..
እህቴ (የአክስቴ ልጅ) በጣም ባለውለታዬ ናት ቸር ነች ለኔ ፍቅሯ ከስጋ እህቷ ባልተናነሰ ነው በጣም አከብራታለሁ የሷ ባለቤት እንደ ወንድሜ ነው እሷ ስለኔ ከምትነግረው መልካም ነገር በመነሳት ልክ እንደሷ ቸር ነው ብዙ መልካም ነገሮችን አድርገውልኛል። እና ከቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲ እሱ ጉንጬን እየሳመ ሰላም ይለኛል, ምን ችግር አለው እንዳትሉ ከቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲህ ነው እና በጣም ያስተዋልኩት ሳሎን ሁሉም ባሉበት ሳይሆን ውጪ ሲያገኘኝ ነው እንደዛ የሚያደርገው እና ዛሬ እቤት መተው ከውጪ እቃ ልገዛ ወጥቼ እሱ ደሞ መጣ እና ከመኪናው ሳይወርድ ጉንጬ ላይ ቆይቶ ሳመኝ በጣም ቀፈፈኝ እና ቶሎ ብዬ ሸሸት ብዬ ሳየው ሰው አየኝ እንዴ በሚል ከኋላ ሲያይ ያየሁት መሰለኝ እና ይኸው እናንተ እጅ ላይ ጣለኝ..ሌላ የረሳሁት ነገር በህልሜ አብረን እንድናድር ሲለምነኝ አይቻለሁ በጣም ደንግጬ ነቃሁ እንዲሁ እንዳቅለሸለሸኝ ዋልኩኝ ግን በቃ ስጋት ስለሆነብኝ ነው ብዬ እራሴን አስረሳሁ ከዛ ቡሀላ እንደ ድሮው ደስ ብሎኝ እነሱ ቤት አልሄድም የሆነ ጭንቀት አለ ውስጤ እሱ ከሌለ ግን ደስተኛ ነኝ..ድሮ እሷ ባትኖርም ሰራተኛዋ ካለች ምግብ እንዳለ ጠይቄ ሄጄ እበላለሁ አሁን ግን በፍፁም...ሲኖር ስለስራ ያወራኛል ስለ ትዳርም ይመክረኛል አብረው ይቀልዱብኝና ይስቃሉ እንስቃለን ግንንን አዎ ግንንን ውስጤ ልክ ያልሆነ ነገር እንዳለ ይነግረኛል, ይሄ ጥርጣሬዬ ደሞ ውሸት ሆኖ አያውቅም..እውነት እንደዛ አስቦ ከሆነ ግን እግዚአብሔር አምላክ ልቡን ይመልስለት።
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I am a psychologist and sometimes I feel frustrated when I do more to help the person than the person himself. The only way I have realized to stay mentally sane after watching people do contrary to my advice and seeing them mess things up even more is that I can’t make anyone do anything. But I still work on my skills to help people in a way they would actually use it and change their life.

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Hey, I need your opinion on something. One day I was chatting with my friends and I heard them say they'll never be friends with someone who has HIV. I've never told them I'm positive and now it's bugging me yk thinking they'd never be my friends if they'd known the truth. So what should I do? Should I stay friends with them or not. I really appreciate your responses 🙏

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Hi there it's ma first time to vent
Have you ever imagine a bad things in your dream and done in real life (Precognitive dreams) Betam bezu geze I feel something ena yekoyal enji mhonu aykerm once i dreamed when yasadgchgne (i called here grandma) setmot ena ynbrewn eyandandun event I saw it then bzum saykoy betam tama hospital gbach lk be helme endayhut aynet status asalfku yzan kn dengate bnorgnem mata lay eyasbkut metgnatm alchalkum I feel like am guilty b/c lemchersha geze yetykchiwn ngr awek nbr idk kzan bhuala i feel so psychotic after a year sefer west yhone sw simot taygne like eza bet west lekso endminor i kept silent cuz sewyew ke hospital teshlotal tblo keweta almost 2samnt bhonew nw u know endzi aynet ngr aychalew beye bnager ye sefer sw even betsebem ayamngnem yhen bayhu 2kn saymolaw tedewele arfual tblo betam nbr yedengetkut kza le enate ngrkuat ayy hasabsh west slale nw bla tshbel endiyargagagne metmek jmrku zen last year I lost ma best friend betam tamo nbr ke lelochu gar kidamne lnhed nbr erob mata betam chnkogne aderku malet eza snders nech lebso ke ahun bhuala mchem altamemem arefku blo sesk ayhut bslk sawrawm kidame enmetaln yzan lelit 1enklf alwesdgnem then hamus wede 10seat akababi motual blew dewlulgne kza gn ngrochn mefrat jmrku then zare lelit i saw ma cousine wedding ena his mom kne gar ymthedew bla wesdchiw (fyi she is dead) nech lebsual betam dstgna nw lk esuan seyayat teton tefabn snflgewm ylm after a few min we got ke enate gar ngne atflgugne yekrta ymil wereket eytdrge ynbrew ye church serg nbr(orthodox) ena agelgayochu tikur degdegat adrgewal ahun betam eyachnkgne yalew ngr is that normal negrochn akabje eyayhut nw weys betam gera eygbagne nw even tshbel eytetmku nw gn still i want to live freely what should i do like it’s feels like a movie gn maryamn betam eychnkgne nw mn ladrg

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Im 27 m so i have a huge problem i don't interact with people betam zimitegana kesew ga awkward negn bezih miknyat my life is empty. if i feel someone is talking bad behind me i just stop talking or say hi to them even if they are አብሮ አደግ and i feel so dumb and stupid when i see them now i know i don't have to worry abt this at my age gn i can't stop malet astedadegem metfo silehone nw biye asbalew so if u have any advice 🙏🙏

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Girlies do you ever find your self soo bord that you start crushing on mf who's is not even your type (just have the looks) like you wouldn't do it if you were on your right mind but you don't have a man to commit to and you also don't wanna to miss the excitement, butterflys like all that thing you know and you start crushing on mf and make that eye thing and sending whole energy 😂🙆‍♀
I feel like my whole life been like this and this isn't normal and when they get serious I start to freak out 🤦‍♀ sometimes I get scared like what if this behavior got me in to unwanted marriage like imagine falling for የሰፈር ቆንጆ ስራ ፈት ድርዬ no offense just saying 😭🙏 mekaruge eski 21 f
Thank you🙂

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Hi, I'm F and I'm 22. Lately, I feel like nothing is going my way. I have a clear idea of what I want, like the perfect guy and the ideal lifestyle, but I keep getting used and manipulated. These days, I just go to work and come home exhausted. I also want a strong spiritual life, but my faith is shaky right no I haven't read my Bible or prayed in a while. I know what I want, but it feels like everything is pushing me in the opposite direction, especially when it comes to relationships. The last guy I dated broke my heart into pieces.

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🔴Again bale best friend stuff ene negn from HU and adama
Still am so confused mknyatum one side cherash lataw malfelgew bcha sayhon malfelgew sew nw beka at my lowest yagegnewt sew nw endet bye ltewew one side beka cheating biggest sin nw ikr bedenb even kezi bewala boundary limit mareg alchlm beka yikebdegnal mn aynet hasan alen yalen deep attachment endi bekelalu mikuaret aydelem esu nw betam yekebedegn maybe attachmentachn ke boundary beltobgn yihonal
Eski gimme advice ‼️

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am i the only one who wants a girl who is experienced and are into alot of weird things i don't even care if she has been with hundreds of people i just want someone who is cute and soo balege i swear am not joking

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Am 26M
Believe it or not am about to turn 27 and still i got baby face, patchy beard, long straight nose, hert shaped lip, perfect jawline and light skin.
And people assume that am 19 or 20 years old.. i do ride ena ke asru sebatu bewere mehal they ask how old i am cause they qould got in disbelief that the way i talk and my actual face card doesn't match. They be like wait how could you have this kind of awareness and unique perspective?
And boom! When i tell my actual age they go crazy
Some of them might even got jealous, like they think endante bhon tolo alarejm mnmn

Me i never had a negative thought of my appearance, endewm i got different respect and smile wherever i go, clubs, restaurants, banks etc

The only thing am fearing is i might actually look this same physical appearance when i hit 30s..

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21m and after a while from the break up we met on the road and got a chance to talk about our life, the thing that happened after the break up and we both found out that other was not in great place after the break and we started talking frequently and got back together and it kinda been a year

Well guys I'm getting married
i proposed and she said yes🥳 👰‍♀️🤵

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Hi, here’s the situation. I was in a long-distance relationship, and we went through a lot of ups and downs together. We lasted four years. Recently, he gave me access to his Telegram account, and I found out he was flirting with other women. He claims one of them is his childhood best friend, but he was talking to her through her friend’s account, and he was flirting with both of them at the same time.

What hurt the most was that the things he said to them were the same things he used to say to me. He even said “I love you” and “I like you.” I went through all his chats, and that particular conversation clearly crossed boundaries.

When I confronted him, he said he was talking to her the same way he talks to his brother, which honestly didn’t make sense to me. I did forgive him, but I can’t bring myself to be with him anymore. Every time he apologizes, it feels fake, and I feel played.

Anyone who’s been in a long-distance relationship knows how hard it is, and something like this just makes it worse. One thing that keeps making me question myself is that I’ve messed up in the past too. When I received attention from other men, I sometimes talked to them, but it was always just talk and nothing more. The moment I felt like they were heading toward “love” territory, I cut them off immediately.

This time, though, it hurt the most because it came from my boyfriend(now my ex)especially since he was the one who was always very strict about boundaries with friends. I really need advice. Am I being dramatic, or are my feelings justified?

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Hi guys endet nachu ene dehna neger negn becha wede vente segeba i know this guy for along time. He was my friend ena betam close nen selachu beka yhen belaw hedku every thing enaweralen beyekenu bagegnenew seat ena ngl wededkut ena beka text hula kalakelgn mhonewn new mataw even attached kemehone i know it may be seem feel weird chgr hula ketefeterebet sense hula aregalew ena mndenew he is so good betam ena act mnaregew ende couple new beka ymr esum betam lovely neger yilegnal mn hone meselachu church yehonech lij agegne ena esuan akatalew nice sew nech keza yezan ken syagegnegn mnm react alaregem mengedun kesua ga silefelf hede i was so mad keza bet segeba silemetash des blognal alegn keza mn enen agegnehegn esuan enji alkut which is so weird keza ken buhala beka hule new mntalaw lovely words keru chgru most of time ene nbrku ena esum family chgr agatemegn blo ayawaragnm malet still ale gn wef beka tewe endedro esuam ga mnm tetetewal zen ahun mn tefetere esu resagn meselegn alakim ene gn i am struggling i always pray for him beka metfo sisemagn mnanmn ebakachu mersat michlbetn nger feterulgn ewnet uff 😭

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I'm from Addis Ababa, but right now I'm studying engineering in another city.. I ended up here for a bunch of reasons, but deep down, I don't feel like this is it for me. My mind keeps telling me to go back to my hometown and just start something yk anything. I know it won't be easy, but I can handle the struggle if I can just see a way forward.
Every time I sit down to take an exam, all I can think is, "Why am I here? How much longer does this last?" And I just realized—I don't look back and wish I'd left earlier. I look at now and think, "I should go." So what's actually stopping me?
I should also say: my family can't be my safety net. My dad's sick and getting weaker. My mom is carrying everything on her back. My younger brother already dropped out and is making little money somewhere. If I go back, I'm on my own.

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Yesterday i met my childhood crush! We just greeted each other and went on our ways.

Since we were kids we really liked each other but other people constantly meddled in our relation and everything becomes awkward. She moved out from our neighbour when she was like 15 so our connection literally died.

We've met on several occasions but our conversation is always weird because she's always shy as if she did something wrong in the last.

Anyway, we came across each other when i was walking and that sparked the desire to reach her out and see in there is any potential for us to become something else.

But a couple of things are disturbing me.

1. Our family knows each other and they might feel awkward if they find out we're dating. Her mother really love me and respect our family but i'm still hesitant.

2. Her mom has HIV so there's a high possibility that she might also have the virus but she also might not.

3. We're both Habesha but from different ethnic group and with the current dirty politics our relation might face some bumps, not from us but from her family (i know my family wouldn't mind). The same thing has caused friction in my previous relation during the Tigray war.

should i go ahead and see if it works? And how can i check the HIV thing without making her feel bad?

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