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Hellooo how ru all guys hoping that ur all good....I'm 23F I have a question for people who are in realtionships or have experiance betely for orthodox christians,is it possible to wait untill marriage to be intimate?(any kind) What if you make this decision later on and the person you are going to marry is not a deacon?how do you reach that understanding? What are some ways to spend time together while adhering to this decision? It feels quite challenging nowadays.

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This days im giving up in life not cuz im losing smthn but cuz of im not anyone's type

I got good connection with ppl like im friendly guy everyone who approaches me becomes my friend cuz i have gd personality but no one sees me more than a friend cuz of my disability my disability is not that worse but its just dont walk normally
Im scared that I'll end up single i always wanted to have someone who loves me who puts effort on me the same way i put in them

Why dont u girls dont want a man with disability,
Pls answer me

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Hi guys am 21m and I feel loneliness like I don’t want go out side , depressed every day I don’t have job also broke like I don’t wanna be like this I see myself in top but I not doing nothing just big dreams that’s hard help me guys let’s be friends and share u r ideas 🙏

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Hi, i am 25yo f. I am full time employee and cs extension student. I have a fiance(will be married next year) and he is not in AA. I love him selezi i don't have any friend cause when you have a friend you need to give some energy, time, money hasab lenesu like i am busy ena i don't want that slemnm maseb gn sometime kesnt ande when my bf is busy or weekend lay bchayen sehon mnale friend binoreg hangout yemadergew mnamn bye asbalew gn i like reading, watching movie ena besu gizeyen asalfalew.ena bemn mknyat endehone alakm kehone time jemro sew say balaye mnamn new malfew. Sra or tmrt kehone eseralew mnamn other kemnm setm wendm gar alaweram aldewawelm mnamn. Ena yesterday me and my fiance had a speech set friend binorsh tru new aynet esu yhonal sew endtrki myadergsh alegn. Ene demo i want the freedom ke lonlieness magejew plus i don't need to you are my friend alkut gn sew lyasfelgsh ychlal ene ruk at least kesnt andem bihon mtgenajiw alegn. Ene degmo ahun lay slalemedku meslegn guadegna magjet endet endalebgn alakm because i like the freedom i get from the loneliness ena wuste guadegna endinoregn ayfelgm. Gn wedefit social lifen affectyaderg ychlal bye feraw yhe bahriye. Can you guys guve your suggestion. Ena tru set guadegna magjet yemchlbet bzu energy time money maneneten mekeyer saynorbgn mchlbet means kalem please tell me. Thank you

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Hay I'm 20F second year uni student ena men meselachu le brake bet gebeche neber ena brake sialk gibi memelesm hone bet mekret alfelgem bc bet kehonku  toxic  yehonu akstoch ena agotoch alugne😩 even gibi bemegbate yenadedalu 🙄 keza demo dorm demo lela tata 1 negeregna lij alech normal were setawera erasu ye demtsu tone ye neger new ena berasu energy negerochen emeleselatalehu keza testekakelalech gen ene negative energy mawtate mechot yenesagnal bezalay she's kof tatbo ciqa keza demo lela 2 lijoch alu anduan ende servant anduan endashangilit new metayat beka she is gatewet and kehulum belay lek endehonech new metasebew ena bezia lay I'm overthinker ena gera gebtognal  men laderg demo gibi mehede gideta new😭

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Come on guys we were just having fun we were kids we were teenagers and now suddenly graduated and life feels serious but it’s not too late to laugh to be creative to explore to live to chase dreams I used to think it was too late for me but now I’m only 23 and that’s nothing so much time ahead to make friends to meet amazing people to find a stable job to socialize to work on ur self to strengthen faith to fall in love to be creative to create things that make proud to find new hobbies to entertain myself to be happy to wake up and do something exciting and for my girlys habibiti it’s not too late to glow up to work on ur self to start a new business to feel beautiful again to accept ur body face everything can shine in ways never imagined love don't let anyone tells u when ur enough what ever u do  do it for ur self okay and for guys don’t make it only about work or stress can still laugh still enjoy life still push to grow stronger and better without losing joy life isn’t over just because grown up allowed to dream allowed to play allowed to fail allowed to get up again allowed to shine allowed to be ur self allowed to enjoy little things quiet moments big adventures allowed to glow to love to create to work on ur self inside and out don’t let anyone not even ur self make feel like it’s too late just getting started time to become everything want to build life want and be proud of every single day not too late for happiness for love for success for everything ✨🌸

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Hey, I need to vent.
Sometimes I feel embarrassed to say this, but I want to be with a financially stable / rich woman. Not because I’m lazy or trying to use someone, but because I grew up with a lot of financial stress and instability, and I know how heavy that life can be.
I’m working hard on myself and my future, but the idea of building a life with someone who is already stable feels safe and peaceful to me. I don’t want luxury — I want security, calm, and less constant worry about money.
What I honestly don’t know is how someone like me would even meet a woman like that, especially in a respectful and serious way. Where do people with this kind of mindset usually meet? How do you approach without looking opportunistic or fake?
I know some people might find this boring or wrong. I’m just being honest about where my thoughts are right now.
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I'm F 19
I broke up with my boyfriend last year now I got him back and I feel bored soo what do I do?

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ምን አይነት Relationship ውስጥ ሆናችሁ ታውቃላችሁ ወይም አይታችሁ? ዘግናኙን ልንገራችሁ - የሀይማኖት፣ የብሔር፣ የቦታ ልዩነት (ፕሮቴስታንት ሲዳማ አዲስ አበባ vs ኦርቶዶክስ ጉራጌ ሶዶ) wtf combo, ደግሞ ኮኔክሽኑ አይጣል ነው። 5 አመታት ቆየን በአካል ተለያይተን እንኳን ሳንለያይ። በደንብ አልተገናኘን ወይ አልተለያየን ተምች ህይወት I will give the full credit to ሰይጣን አቦ እናትህን ልይልህ

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Hey y'all guys
Call me the " messy gurl"
So here is a thing Im currently heading to 17 and yh ofc a highschool student. The thing is all people around me seek relationship 😭 the boy needs the beautiful and the sexy gurl and the gurl seeks a good hearted boy even knowing the relationship won't exist after 3 or 4 weeks. Ofc there are a worest times where I seek to have a bf like who can understand me. When boys try to reach me out on IG or other social media I always prefer to ignore them in real life but I need to have the true one not to be called she have a bf, not to kiss or any other staffs but the real one ik I won't never gate such kinda person gn bka you always imagine to have. And when other teens vent here and ask about alove in teens age the commentors say no just study well and this thing come later to love or to being loved, honestly I agree with it without and doubt I need to prioritize my study over man gn I don't have any friends to talk what I'm going through and I don't know what to say , anyone pls share what u blieve it's correct just ad ur lil sis .💕

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Hey, so I know that I would make one lucky guy the happiest but I don't know why God keeps every possible way closed, for now. I trust His timing, even when it’s hard.

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I’m an adult (10+ years older than my niece) and we live in the same house. My 17-year-old niece frequently makes jokes and comments that feel disrespectful toward me.
I’ve tried ignoring it, staying calm, and setting boundaries, but it keeps happening. When I bring it up to my mom, she usually minimizes it or defends my niece, which makes my niece feel untouchable.
Today I felt extremely angry because this has become a pattern, not a one-time thing. I don’t want to constantly argue, but I also don’t want to allow disrespect.
Important context: I’m already in the process of moving out , so this is temporary — but I still have to live here for now.
What’s the healthiest way to handle repeated disrespect from a teenager when the parent enables it? How do I protect my peace without escalating things?

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“Hi guys, I am 22 years old and I have a boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. We love each other, but our relationship is not good. We argue a lot, mostly because of jealousy and something easy. We try to fix things and give each other time, but we keep arguing again and again.
Thinking about a breakup is very hard for both of us, and he doesn’t want to break up either. I am very tired and confused. I am scared to lose him and I fear I will never find someone who loves me like he does. But at the same time, we argue so much that it feels like we can’t make this relationship work.
What should I do

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Hello, this is my first time venting. I am a 26 male who lives alone. i am very selfaware narcissist that struggle with a deep sense of detachment from people in general. over time, that detachment has grown into resentment toward everyone. i often feel ashamed of being born here in ethiopia and i don’t have close to none friends or family nearby, and my contact with anyone is minimal. despite that, I am generally liked at work. i know how to be socially functional i can say what people want to hear, smile when needed, and move fake.
i have only been in two serious relationships. i was able to make them work on the surface, but i was still i always prefer being alone and feel more at ease in isolation which am currently enjoying.
i carry a lot of anger, and it runs deep enough that people sometimes sense it without me saying anything. there are moments when others ask if I dislike them, even when I havent expressed it openly.
what I want most is to feel real fully present and alive being the hateful and prideful self. that desire sometimes gets tangled with a need for emotional control, and i am aware that this comes from unresolved pain. i get pleasure from expressing anger or pushing people away, even though I know it’s not healthy. i also struggle with intrusive and disturbing morbid fantasies that reflect this internal conflict, The hardest part is knowing that the things that make me feel real are rooted in pain, while healthier ways of feeling kinda far and that leaves me feeling trapped, exhausted, and deeply disconnected from myself and others but
what makes me grounded is talking to my self inside my head, dressing my self and buying my self nice shoes and watches. i often spend quality times watching tv series and i relate to dexter and joe from you. musically i prefer soft jazz while working or writing and my dream and goal in life is to own my own house far from civilization, eating what i grow and dying old on my porch watching a sunset.

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Hey. I'm a woman in my 20s and I'm feeling a bit down. I work as a digital marketer but I'm not satisfied with my job. I'm looking for a friend nearby who I can talk to. I live around Ayat.

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21M
All vents here are about relationships and most of them are how do i do this how i do that type que
My question is why would you start a relationship if you are not ready for everything ?

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Emmm am 22 f from HU Medicine student ena mndnew he was my best friend like betam close best friend betam minkebakebgn miwedegn enem bezaw lek betam new mewedew even kewchi yalu sewoch thought we were a couples endeza nw mimeslew ena he have girlfriend gn abzagnawn gize miyatefaw kene gar new hulachnm ye Adama ljoch nen ena ena esua ezaw adama nech ene ena esu hawassa nen ena abren ena takegnalech gn yalenn deep connection atawkm ena and ken abren adern ke esu gar( without sex) gen neck kiss ena hickey nebrw gen tnsh koyto we start to kissed each other ik lek endalhone gn maskom alchalkum keza tewat mnm endalteftere hendn beka tnsh benadedm esun metew alchalkum keza bewala gen dgame jemern mesasamun beka makom alchalnm we know eko abren lnhon endemanchl fkr mnamn edeleleln gen beka esum enen enem esun matat enferalen Eski and negr belugn mknyatum confused hognalew even mnseraw lek bayhonm enem esum lek endehonem nw mnasbew like tekekel endehonen ena mn yishalal
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Hi
I am feeling indifferent to most things. Just numb.
I would still choose that over chaos.
Have you ever been to place you feel you won't fit?
Yes I have had that. To escape the boredom, I did things I am not proud of. I met people out of it and regretted it.
No spontaneity
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I have lots of things to do,but my head feels heavy.

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So im 22,f. So far i haven't thought about adulting as much beka emaralw, if i have to work during the summer i work ena i never gave myself much time for relationships and friendships outside of university.
Ena now that im graduating i have this discomfort. I feel like i would have to meet up with people, establish a new social life and get into relationships eventually. And ik it seems obnoxious, to say i don't see myself dating someone random from a random background. Yadegut its in a certain way, im educated in different fields and my parents raised me well, ena i dont see the point in dating someone i dont have a common ground with or someone with no ambition in life whatsoever. If i date too i dont want to have short term relationships and sleep around with men before marriage.
Becha with this vent i wanna ask, where do you guys usually meet people (that's not in a late night club meeting or atmosphere).any groups to join, any communities. If you have any recommendations i would appreciate it

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Hey every one, how was every things ?
እኔጋ ሁሉ ሰላማዊ ነው ግን አንድ ሀሳቤን የረበሸ ነገር ነበረኝ ለማንም ማውራት አልችልም እና እንደ ብዙዎች የ Relationship ጉዳይ ያመጣኛል ብዬ ባስብም ይኸው 24 አመታት ተቆጠሩ አንዳች የለም ነው የምላችሁ.. Situationship እንኳ ይጥፋ😁, ወንዶች ሆይ ግን በሰላም ነው? ቀረሁባችሁ... ለማንኛውም አንገብጋቢው ጉዳይ ምንድነው መሰላችሁ በእውነት ግን በዚ አስቀያሚ ጉዳይ የምመጣ አልመሰለኝም ነበር..
እህቴ (የአክስቴ ልጅ) በጣም ባለውለታዬ ናት ቸር ነች ለኔ ፍቅሯ ከስጋ እህቷ ባልተናነሰ ነው በጣም አከብራታለሁ የሷ ባለቤት እንደ ወንድሜ ነው እሷ ስለኔ ከምትነግረው መልካም ነገር በመነሳት ልክ እንደሷ ቸር ነው ብዙ መልካም ነገሮችን አድርገውልኛል። እና ከቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲ እሱ ጉንጬን እየሳመ ሰላም ይለኛል, ምን ችግር አለው እንዳትሉ ከቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲህ ነው እና በጣም ያስተዋልኩት ሳሎን ሁሉም ባሉበት ሳይሆን ውጪ ሲያገኘኝ ነው እንደዛ የሚያደርገው እና ዛሬ እቤት መተው ከውጪ እቃ ልገዛ ወጥቼ እሱ ደሞ መጣ እና ከመኪናው ሳይወርድ ጉንጬ ላይ ቆይቶ ሳመኝ በጣም ቀፈፈኝ እና ቶሎ ብዬ ሸሸት ብዬ ሳየው ሰው አየኝ እንዴ በሚል ከኋላ ሲያይ ያየሁት መሰለኝ እና ይኸው እናንተ እጅ ላይ ጣለኝ..ሌላ የረሳሁት ነገር በህልሜ አብረን እንድናድር ሲለምነኝ አይቻለሁ በጣም ደንግጬ ነቃሁ እንዲሁ እንዳቅለሸለሸኝ ዋልኩኝ ግን በቃ ስጋት ስለሆነብኝ ነው ብዬ እራሴን አስረሳሁ ከዛ ቡሀላ እንደ ድሮው ደስ ብሎኝ እነሱ ቤት አልሄድም የሆነ ጭንቀት አለ ውስጤ እሱ ከሌለ ግን ደስተኛ ነኝ..ድሮ እሷ ባትኖርም ሰራተኛዋ ካለች ምግብ እንዳለ ጠይቄ ሄጄ እበላለሁ አሁን ግን በፍፁም...ሲኖር ስለስራ ያወራኛል ስለ ትዳርም ይመክረኛል አብረው ይቀልዱብኝና ይስቃሉ እንስቃለን ግንንን አዎ ግንንን ውስጤ ልክ ያልሆነ ነገር እንዳለ ይነግረኛል, ይሄ ጥርጣሬዬ ደሞ ውሸት ሆኖ አያውቅም..እውነት እንደዛ አስቦ ከሆነ ግን እግዚአብሔር አምላክ ልቡን ይመልስለት።
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I am a psychologist and sometimes I feel frustrated when I do more to help the person than the person himself. The only way I have realized to stay mentally sane after watching people do contrary to my advice and seeing them mess things up even more is that I can’t make anyone do anything. But I still work on my skills to help people in a way they would actually use it and change their life.

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