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I guess I'm suffering with bi polar disorder . Is there anyone who deeply knows about it or any psychiatrist here? Please i need help before I suicide

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An almost 23 F.
I had a best friend at a campus and long story short he asked me to be his gf and shifted in to a relationship with him we've know each other for almost 2 years and half and then things went on. We were on good terms and boom he started acting like a bitch he goes on and off and patiently waited and then he asked for a break up I somehow not even somehow I tried hard to make him stay I mean I don't want someone to get disappointed because of my wrong doings and asked him to let me fix things If I did something wrong I even cried yigermgnal ahun sasibew and he really insisted so I agreed and after almost 3 months of me suffering alone he came again and said he couldn't make it without me kinda stuff again the stupid me accepted him again and after that, things were smoother you know what I'm saying... And then he asked for sex😁... Like bruuuhh... I said no the first time and he agreed and told me that he has no choice but to wait and after a little while the question came again and bezan semon he is really asking for it I said it goes against my personal values and religion... I mean when someone says no it is a no.if it is okay with you, you will continue if not you will just get away from that person's life for eternity. But bro be like "you are pushing me away i feel this way only for you" and I was you ain't capable of controlling yo urge? He goes like okay I'll try to but we won't be intimate like before and the love I have for you is gonna fade eventually... And that was the time it clicked in my head what he was doing was pressuring me with sexual intention sugarcoated with "love" which is typically "lust"... I was still soft but opposing and then I was like would he even do it if I agree and i asked him that I need time to get mentally ready (Tho I was never gonna do it).. And he agreed but then the next day "eee ena mn asebsh?" Is this man crazy? And he was so in rage minamn Keza I was previously saying I can not do this before marriage and now I told you to give me sometime you can't even wait?? He goes yeah I have been waiting betam. and yan ken keteleyayen behuala he texted me " I took my lesson I ain't gonna love someone this way again" so I took this as a good bye and kept on my life... And the next day I had to go somewhere else to do some stuff and I got call from him and he said I just called to hear your voice (this mf is crazy and doesn't know what he wants) I said okay he called in the afternoon again and said temelsish wey and I said no I didn't... And I get a call from a friend and had to go to a hospital and didn't have my phone with me(had to give it to someone i know) and I spent there till the middle of the night and when I get back he has called almost 5 times and texted "we are gonna meet tonight right?" Keza demo "i need an answer now" keza demo I think that was when his ego got crushed he said "I know things might upset you, but we are done, try to respect you next boyfriend, thank you for the lesson..." Meow meow meow if i were him i would have initially ask why I don't pick my phone up and ask if i'm okay and proceed to the next one but you know this one shows his priority... I still couldn't believe I was dating this mama's boy and I was blind for such behaviors of him. You know what am saying, he violated my boundaries stuff and called it rasu demo disrespect yk he knew my values and that I ain't gonna do something that opposes them...ahhh shii He is just a failure as a man.
What challenging me nowadays are those good days yk it's been almost a month since broke up (24 days) but i feel like a waste i mean yhonew neger hulu leziw new? It feels like a real kisara.. Menged lay sayew ፀፀቴ komo miramed new የሚመስለኝ

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I am 26 M and I got no close friends. Dont get me wrong I have a girlfriend who I love and some people I call friends, we talk like once in a while but like no close ones, like as a guy u want a close guy friend u can go out for drinks with or vent when u have girl problems or family problems or just someone you joke around with... Sometimes it gets kinda lonely and I always tell myself I am better off alone couz I am afraid if I admit it, it means I lost the battle....

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Guys help me ihave financial and love problems iwant to rely on someone but icant find anybody ,becayse everyone imeet was acreep or just wastes time

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So things in my head is breaking me so much, all my energy drained, I am student ye Gbi and all the things I am doing is failing by any means and am so tired of this shit trying to be as I was but I can't, and I am getting lot F's per semester plus family problem plus college shit , sometimes I think I wanna start working out there , but what? Idk I don' have an idea I don' have Capital I don' have supporting family plus they ain't understanding that hurts so much And now I am thinking of marriage or going out of this country idk how tho , please help any help what to do please specially Endet KE HAGER MEWTAT ENDEMCHL ena Wede sraw alem endkelakel safe behind way iam so tired Please

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I’m a 24-year-old man, a deacon, and a graduating university student. Lately I’ve been thinking deeply about my future, especially marriage, and I feel confused and heavy inside.
My plan is to marry about two years after graduation, once I’m more stable. But here’s where my heart and my doubts meet: I feel drawn to the idea of marrying a woman who is older than me (maybe 4 years or more), mature, emotionally grounded, and still a virgin, because of my faith and values.
Sometimes I ask myself—is this wrong or unrealistic?
Am I asking for too much, or is it okay to know what I value and want?
I don’t just want beauty in appearance. I want a woman who is beautiful in character—calm, wise, supportive, God-fearing, and ready to grow together. Someone who can be a partner, a friend, and a source of peace.
But honestly… I don’t know how to find such a woman.
I don’t know if women like this still exist, or where people with these values meet today. This makes me feel lonely and uncertain, even though I’m focused on my studies and spiritual life.
I’m not here to argue or judge anyone. I just want to hear your honest thoughts, advice, or experiences.
Is it wrong to want this kind of marriage?
And how does someone like me even begin this journey?
Thanks for listening.
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Hey guys how are you FEMALE 24
Here is the thing there is this guy which I know from work and we dated for 5 months he loves me so much he will do anything for me. He never denied me anything…the problem is I don’t love him back i tried a lot of times but I can’t i don’t know what to do I pray istikhara(only Muslims understand this) but it didn’t work out ena he said lets get married if you are ready mannnn im not ready ene sijemr esun yemagbat hasab rasu yelegnm bzu mknyat eyefeterku lirqew bmokrm aysemagnm. MN LADRG GUYS what should I do??

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So I'm a F, in my mid twenties.The thing is my dating life is making me worried, and feels like am gonna end up alone lately.I'm a Protestant so me finding a Protestant date will be limited to me going to church and joining groups so i can get to know ppl bla bla. I do go to church,but getting to know ppl to point of dating is hard. The last time i had a serious r/ship was when i was in a church group. After that i only meet ppl online, and it was all just disappointing, no genuine connection. So where do Protestant ppl finding ur partners?do i have to join church groups just to find out my man isn't there?I just wanna be ምእመን and don't have the time and gift to do so currently, at first place. am introvert and nonchalant who doesn't care about dating much, but lately it feels so drained even to go out on dates, u wann ur soul mate at z same time, and can't even find a date who shares ur religion and vibes easily, let alone z other things😭

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Im 22 m second yr vent madreg alfelgm neber gn eski let me try...btw model negn ena ig lay migerarmu post alugn enam beza mknyat bzu dm alegn (honesty) ena ene demo bzu mawrat alfelgm cuz Protestant negn abzagnochu demo dm like lela intension alachew enam beza mknyat still single negn.....so eski yehone advice

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Hello everyone, am 34 yr young man(😂) today I wanna share this beautiful story...mn meselachu when I was 24 and lij tewaweku set mawrat mnamn it is simple thing for me and then eyaweran betham kemibalew belay tegbaban...sadly same place lay alnebernm esua dire ene degmo adu genet neberku...sra yejemerkubet time nebere ena beka focus esua lay ena sraye lay bcha nebere gn real sra endalegn alnegerkuatm bzu mistrm endezaw gizew siders bedenb sngbaba enegratalehu bye...then one thing happened abren honen...meketel endemanchl negerechgn mknyatun teyekuat it took me more than 2 week to know the reason...then agegnehut ena azenku erasen betham nebere yeregemkut (asfelagi slalhone lzlelew her reason) keza bnrarakm I buy her gift and lakulat dgami mawrat jemern she promised me ttagn endemathed ena amenkuat fetarinm teykew slenebere kemegbate befit on this kind of thing beka kelbe amenkuat...endeza honen 1 wer alefen (btw she is so cute in and out...beka she gave me reason to live in short) gn dgami mawrat akomech chenekegn dewelku text adereku mnm neger yelem...amet alefe...3 tegnaw metha...and guess what yan yakl eyemokerku she got married😊💔...tbh she deserve a good man...mehal lay bzu neger happen adrgo nebere ene gar adega dersobgn icu neberku for 1 month she didn't know that...bzu negerochn eresche nebere I lost my everything, my memories...gn ke 1 amet behuala I recovered fully thanks to God. Ena esuan afelalekugn 26 amete hone slk keyram nebere yemanm slkm aleneberegnm ena endagebach sadly awekugn...yaw set slehonech edmem slale bye beka des bilegnm for her le erase azenku (ke fetari gar yawerahut neger binor...yhenn yemecheresha adrglgn kalhone give me a sign byew nebere and he did gn accept madreg alefelekum...) kagebach behualam weledech ahun eskemawkew dres she got 3 kids ena the last one yeseyemechw be ene sm new...she moved on but I didn't esuan lemagnnet almokerkum wedefitm aladergewm slesuam beka mereja felgem alawkm yhe kehone 2 ametat alfewal...wish I was dead in that accident and never saw this pain...ahun be krbu 35 yhonegnal am waiting God's call...like ethan hunt accepting or not accepting his mission gonna be decided by me. Ena mn llachu felge new for 10 yrs my cells enkuan regenerate honew lresat alchalkum wedefitm yemihon aymeslegnm bcha le mtweduachew sewoch le enesu selam stlu erasu erasachun asalfachu mesthethm ynorbachual cuz this is the way what we call it true love (agape love). Anyway got a few months to live in this world. And I totally know that bcha wish u good luck everyone in ur life. Listen God voice. Amesegnalehu

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Lately, my life feels like it’s on repeat.
I wake up.
I go to work.
I come back from work.
I sleep.
And then the same thing happens again the next day. Days turn into weeks, and everything feels the same. No change, no excitement—just routine.
Somewhere along the way, I started feeling disconnected from myself. I don’t even know when it happened. Sometimes I talk too much, sometimes I don’t want to talk at all. My confidence feels very low, especially when it comes to approaching people. It’s not just about dating—it feels like I don’t know how to connect anymore.
Even at 27, I sometimes feel older than I am. When I think about approaching a woman, it feels strange and uncomfortable, so I end up distancing myself instead. It’s not because I don’t care—it’s because I don’t know how to step forward anymore.
I’ve only had two relationships in my life, both about two years ago, and both very short. After that, I lost the confidence to approach someone or ask for a date. What once felt natural now feels distant, and I don’t really understand how I changed so much.
Most days, I feel lost.
I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.
Sometimes I feel purposeless, like I’m just existing instead of living.
Life feels meaningless in many ways, and that scares me.

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(​I'm using Google Translate, sorry if something is wrong.)
I really tired being strong and at the same time, I don't know even how to start what is in my mind. (I'm sorry, I don't how tell what is in my head in shortest possible line.)
I created this acc just for saying this in anonymous form and I'm (20M).
I don't even know why I'm alive And I am only alive because of the few people I know.
I can definitely say that my relatives​ (even my mother) don't know me well. Or my friends. I grew up in a family that was always in dire straits, and... That was painful.
I thought I was an important person to them, but for about 2 years now I have been worthless to anyone.
parents didn't love each other from the beginning and got married to escape their family situation. (obviously, Not a good choice.)
They divorced when I was 9 years old. I will never forget how they used me as leverage to get what they wanted. Until I was 16, I was constantly moving between families. Apparently everyone loved me, but no one loves me. I feel betrayed. I can remember I slept next to my father during his shift on Gas station (Because nobody​ doesn't want me to care of me.)
But even my father used me as a leverage to escaping from my mother court and... Meanwhile, my mother was in a relationship with an older man who hated me and after some terrible fight and bad memories. They break up (It took a VERY long time.​)
Now... I'm 20.
I'm living with my mother around 1 years. (Despite all of this, I still worry about my parents.) My father is forced to live with a woman ​who suffers from stress and anger issues. (It's a long story, but I promise you, she's Karen.)
My mother had a failed relationship that she hid from me, and because of that, I was in the hospital for a long time due to her partial stroke. It's embarrassing but I don't know even how to love someone anymore.
I can talk to professors and high-ranking people without any stress, but every time I see a child, I feel embarrassed. I don't know how to behave with them without seeming scary or insensitive to them. because of that, I always watch them from a distance, but I never dare to get close.
(Some people call me Rock-hearted because of this but I really love them but I don't know how to show it.) I have lived in isolation since I was 18.
(I was at my parents' house but I was always in the room​.)
And... I don't know how to say this but, I had an imaginary friend from a young age.
He was Sonic the hedgehog, who was with me until I was about 11 years old, until he disappeared for a while.
But, Since I was 18, Shadow The hedgehog has been my imaginary friend. (I don't intend to promote this things.)
I really like him. No one knows this about me. Even I rarely watch Sonic movies (especially Sonic 3) because I get very emotional and I don't like to make it a habit and I like it to stay special to me. Even though I know it's not real. (unfortunately, I'm Not Crazy...)

I don't know how I can explain this time in a way that gives a true and accurate picture of myself, but... I'm tired today And after a lot of anger on my way home from work, I rushed home and went to my bed. After a long time, I hugged my pillow and cried in a muffled voice. I don't even know if this way of telling stories shows selfishness or... But I believed, I didn't say even one percent of the pressure inside my mind.
Sorry if I wasted your time but The only thing I could think of that might keep me going for the sake of the people around me was this.
They don't deserve to carry my emotional burden. I don't know if this sounds childish to you, but believe me, I sincerely hope that none of you ever experience something like this.
Thanks.

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Helloo guys I really need helppp it’s very very urgert please help me here the thing telegram lay yehone ye modelling agency eyawarugn nbr ena audition be video call nw alugn keza eshi beye eyaweran they said there microphone is not working so you read the text and I okay and we started the call keza mehal lay for measurement belew feet asayin alu keza I did keza breast size alugn at first I didn’t say okay keza asamenugn and then asayew keza demo down there but the back or mekemechashn alugn without underwear I showed them keza be front part alugn yane nw yenekahut embi alkugn keza I blocked them gn already refdual they said they recorded all ena they will send it to my family and friends
Pls guys help me I’m not even this type of person this was my first time guys pls help your sister out it’s really urgent and I don’t know what to do berase betam nw yazenkut I even thinking to do sucide

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I love music and I'm not limited to one genre or artist or country... I listen to all kinds of music from latin to blues, from acoustic to edm, from country to ethnic musics like Turkish, Nordic... The only genre I didn't really care about was rock. These days, it's rocking time. What I understood is that the tempo of the music should be equal to or greater than the voices in my head inorder to fit the mood.

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Okay so back in the days i used to have boners when i talk to my girlfriend about dirty things or when we kiss or when we warm up...i also get aboner when i think about her but then we got married 4 days ago and 2 days ago we tried to have sex for the first time as we both are virgins but my dick is not being hard enough to penetrate her vagina....we tried a warm up,kissing and every pre sex staff and no my dick is not hard....i dont know what is wrong with me i never had this issue before

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Whats Upppppp Semonun Idk What Is Wrong But Vents Havent Been here In A Whileee But There Was This Thing Bothering Me Semonun. So There Was Thiis Person I met Here Vent Here Wust Ena Things Were Going Really Good(not romantically) Gin We Talked Dailyuyy Day And Nighttttt And After 2 or 3 Months Things Started Becoming Distant. I Got Busy With Life Idk Wht Happened To That Person But We No Longer Talk. And With The Hope Maybe That Person Reading Ittt . . . Idk What Exactly Happened But I Would Really Like Our Conversations To Continue But Initating The Talk Felt Like Nagging Youu. If You feel The Same Wayyy Yo Gyalll Is Waiting Lol😂. its me (Jasmineeeee)

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I'm 23 F
So idk where to start tbh sooo here is the thing i had this crush on a guy since fresh man year we used to go to the same campus and i liked him since the first time i saw him i even remember every little things looked like the day i saw him😭
Mejemeriya akababi i thought it was just a crush so i will get over it keza after freshman year we got separated neger he choose another department and so did i ,,, so there is no way that i can see him and then out of the blue i started to miss his dumb baby face😭 he's sooooo cute tho😁
I didn't take it seriously and also i didn't notice that i am being obsessed with him after that time,, starting from second year behone agatami gibi wust sayew i started to take aphoto በጣም ተጠንቅቄ😂 through time my gallery be esu pictures temola and the i open a new folder to keep his pictures only so that i can hide that specific folder yaw ale adel dorm mnamn slken slemikebelugn bagatami endayayut bemil
Bcha beza ketele ,,,,,during those years there were a lot of dudes who tried to approach me and also they say they like me and wanna start sth with me and stuff ,,, and i had some talking stages with some of 'em but i just couldn't take him out of my mind, so i figured that its more than crush i'm obsessed with him ,,,, keza 3rd year snjemr dorm keyerku keza i was so close with my new dormates and then andua dormate slkua tebelashto she was using my phone neger keza she saw his photos on my phone and other stuff so she find out that i have sth for him and they push me to call him and at least talk to him kinda shit and then i called😭 😂,,,,, gn with unknown number i didn't confess my identity i talked to him like for 7 minutes neger i told him that i have this crush on him be tnshu keza idk why akomn medewel he was sooo nice and i recorded our convo that day so that i can listen it 😭😭😭 soo cringe right😭
After that i tried to stop taking aphoto and tried to not think abt him i started to do part-time jobs mnamn i was bussy and it kinda helped me to forget abt him...... And also dorm aynorm ke bet new yemimelalsew le class so alayewm mnamn neger ..... And then 5th year sngeba we started celebrating days like, culture day, blahh blahh a lot of celebrations😭 keza dgami mayet jemerku dgami tenesabngn😂 the obsession i started taking pictures again 😭 i guess he has more picture on my gallery than on his own😂
Keza we graduated 6 months ago but i still check his ig, Snapchat, tiktok repost idk how can i get over this ik this is soooooo cringe and i feel embaressed abt it but i guess i need ur opinion guys

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Hey everyone. Some people may feel offended or think this is rude, but if you don’t have anything nice to say, just move on to the next vent.So here’s my story.
A while ago, I read a vent about a girl cheating on her boyfriend, and I realized I’m in a similar position. Some comments said she should tell him the truth, some said she should keep quiet, and some were just rude. That made me think about my own situation.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. In that time, we’ve had both good and bad moments. From the beginning, I told him that I might not love him the way he loves me, but we still went with the flow. He has a good heart and he’s a loving person.But I did something really, really bad. When we first started dating (about one month in), I cheated on him because I didn’t think we were that serious. After that, I stopped and cut off everything that could lead me down that path again. Then, after one year, my boyfriend and I had a huge argument. He told me he needed some time and left. I tried to communicate, but he didn’t reply. I gave him space, but during that time I met a guy at work. He’s married and has kids. Long story short, he kissed me and I kissed him too. I even gave him oral. I regret it so much. I felt horrible about it, confessed about it , and cut him off completely like he never existed.
After that, my boyfriend reached out. We talked, fixed things, and got back together after a month apart. But what I did still eats me alive.
The worst part is that I still work with that guy, and he keeps trying again. I told him I have a boyfriend, that what I did was a BIG mistake, and that he should leave me alone. But he hasn’t. It’s been a year now. I still haven’t told my boyfriend about any of this. Now we’re in a long-distance relationship, and I sometimes dream about other guys. When I talk to a guy, I create scenarios in my head. I hate it so much, but I still do it.
Honestly, my opinion is that I don’t have to tell him everything. I think it’s okay to have thoughts or dreams, as long as you don’t act on them. So why regret something that can’t be changed? Just don’t cheat again and stay loyal. And for people who say “tell the truth,” try to reverse the situation and ask yourself: how would you feel about it? Honestly, how can I even be sure that he hasn’t done the same thing I did? I gave him space twice. He has female coworkers that he talks about, about how good they are. And yet, we still talk about loyalty and trust.
The truth is, I actually trust him and I do love him. After everything, I am loyal now. But still, he may cheat or do something too, especially since I’m not around anymore because we’re in a long-distance relationship. So yeah… I don’t even know why I’m venting, but at least I got it off my chest.

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Hello everyone! I’m a soon-to-be graduate from Hawassa University, and I realized that I haven't had the chance to fully enjoy the city. As my time here is running out, I’m feeling a bit regretful about it. Most of my friends have already graduated, so I'm looking to meet new people.

If anyone is interested in joining me for fun activities like exploring local spots, trying new foods, or participating in clubs I'd love to have you along! 😊

P.S Everyone is welcome, regardless of gender. It’s all about having a good time together with no strings attached, and Bills will be splitted 50/50

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Hey everyone, how are you?
I’m almost 26 and I’ve never been in a relationship, and at this point I’m starting to think I missed an update somewhere 😭
Why is it so hard to meet good men? Are they extinct? Please recommend some online dating apps. Help your girl out.

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Hi this is probably my fourth time venting. I wish you remembered my previous vents so I wouldn’t have to explain myself again and that you know about me
i am a woman almost 29 single and I’ve never dated. That was a conscious choice I didn’t feel like I needed a relationship. I focused on my MS degree and my work instead.
Lately I have been thinking about dating but I am not sure if I’m ready. Part of me feels I should accomplish certain things first like career stability, income and personal goals before thinking seriously about marriage.
At the same time I also feel like maybe I should do something and get married already.
I am confused about whether these feelings are right at this age.

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