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Hey Unihorse π¦ Hide my Identity I need to vent I want to get married! With all the shinanigans, and till this thought pops into my mind i was one of the ααα°α α°α¨α«α«αͺ for why marriage is a worst decision a person can go through. And trust me it shocked me toβ¦
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I am π Starlight
I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it π how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
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If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ααα΅ thinking that ααα αααα¨α α¨αα α ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates α¨ααα°α α α£α£ ααα£α£αΉ α α ααα«αα! α¨αα α ααα ααα£α΅ α α₯ α α£α’ i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ααααα΅ α αα α αα α₯α½αααα α₯α«αα©α α¨α΅αα± α₯α«α©α αα°ααΉ!!
αα αααΆα½α¬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else α ααα α΅α³αα α© and you expressing it is just a devine ααα«αα! α°αα α¬ αααα α αα°αα αα α α α²α₯αα₯α α₯αα° αααα₯ α±α£α α°αα α₯αα¨α αα ααα°α₯ αα α΅α«α¬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something α²α«αα α©α’ α₯αα α α αα΅ α΅α₯α α₯α«αα© α₯ααα¨α³αα ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
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I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it π how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ααα΅ thinking that ααα αααα¨α α¨αα α ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates α¨ααα°α α α£α£ ααα£α£αΉ α α ααα«αα! α¨αα α ααα ααα£α΅ α α₯ α α£α’ i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ααααα΅ α αα α αα α₯α½αααα α₯α«αα©α α¨α΅αα± α₯α«α©α αα°ααΉ!!
αα αααΆα½α¬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else α ααα α΅α³αα α© and you expressing it is just a devine ααα«αα! α°αα α¬ αααα α αα°αα αα α α α²α₯αα₯α α₯αα° αααα₯ α±α£α α°αα α₯αα¨α αα ααα°α₯ αα α΅α«α¬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something α²α«αα α©α’ α₯αα α α αα΅ α΅α₯α α₯α«αα© α₯ααα¨α³αα ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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Which one would u choose?
Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.
And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.
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Which one would u choose?
Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.
And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.
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Hey Unihorse π¦ Hide my Identity I need to vent I want to get married! With all the shinanigans, and till this thought pops into my mind i was one of the ααα°α α°α¨α«α«αͺ for why marriage is a worst decision a person can go through. And trust me it shocked me toβ¦
Hey Unihorse π¦
I am π Starlight
I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it π how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ααα΅ thinking that ααα αααα¨α α¨αα α ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates α¨ααα°α α α£α£ ααα£α£αΉ α α ααα«αα! α¨αα α ααα ααα£α΅ α α₯ α α£α’ i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ααααα΅ α αα α αα α₯α½αααα α₯α«αα©α α¨α΅αα± α₯α«α©α αα°ααΉ!!
αα αααΆα½α¬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else α ααα α΅α³αα α© and you expressing it is just a devine ααα«αα! α°αα α¬ αααα α αα°αα αα α α α²α₯αα₯α α₯αα° αααα₯ α±α£α α°αα α₯αα¨α αα ααα°α₯ αα α΅α«α¬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something α²α«αα α©α’ α₯αα α α αα΅ α΅α₯α α₯α«αα© α₯ααα¨α³αα ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
#Adult
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I am π Starlight
I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it π how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ααα΅ thinking that ααα αααα¨α α¨αα α ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates α¨ααα°α α α£α£ ααα£α£αΉ α α ααα«αα! α¨αα α ααα ααα£α΅ α α₯ α α£α’ i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ααααα΅ α αα α αα α₯α½αααα α₯α«αα©α α¨α΅αα± α₯α«α©α αα°ααΉ!!
αα αααΆα½α¬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else α ααα α΅α³αα α© and you expressing it is just a devine ααα«αα! α°αα α¬ αααα α αα°αα αα α α α²α₯αα₯α α₯αα° αααα₯ α±α£α α°αα α₯αα¨α αα ααα°α₯ αα α΅α«α¬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something α²α«αα α©α’ α₯αα α α αα΅ α΅α₯α α₯α«αα© α₯ααα¨α³αα ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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Hey guys 20f 3y in college am I the only one who doesn't hv a friend who match my energy ymr finding same ppl like me is getting so heavy js to hv a person you can talk freely who are actual open minded fr to have that type of ppl around you is js blessing if you're interested in psychology,
feminism , musics movies,dark humor let's hit up tyπ
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Hey guys 20f 3y in college am I the only one who doesn't hv a friend who match my energy ymr finding same ppl like me is getting so heavy js to hv a person you can talk freely who are actual open minded fr to have that type of ppl around you is js blessing if you're interested in psychology,
feminism , musics movies,dark humor let's hit up tyπ
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Can someone have a crush for nine years straight, from fifth grade up to second year of university? My mind canβt forget him. I wish he were with me instead of her. There hasnβt been a single day when I didnβt think about him or stalk him. Please tell me, is this normal? We used to have a connectionβit was a βright person, wrong timeβ kind of situation. He ended up with my best friend. Is there anyone who can relate to this?
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Can someone have a crush for nine years straight, from fifth grade up to second year of university? My mind canβt forget him. I wish he were with me instead of her. There hasnβt been a single day when I didnβt think about him or stalk him. Please tell me, is this normal? We used to have a connectionβit was a βright person, wrong timeβ kind of situation. He ended up with my best friend. Is there anyone who can relate to this?
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I grew up without my father and mother β not because they passed away, but because they abandoned me. Since the age of three, my world was my grandmother. She was the only place where I felt safe, loved, and seen. But ten years ago, she left this world too, and since then, Iβve been carrying life on my own shoulders.
Today, I am 28 years old. I work in a private company and I earn a good salary. From the outside, it looks like I am doing fine. But inside, there is a deep emptiness that money cannot fill. I am still single, and I donβt know how to get close to women. I donβt know how to build friendships or open my heart to people. Sometimes I feel like I missed learning something very basic about being human.
Loneliness has become a constant companion in my life. I am tired of it. I long for just one person β someone I can talk to freely, someone I can share my happiness with, my sadness, my fears, my small victories, and my bad days. I want connection. I want to feel understood. I want to feel that I matter to someone.
But no matter how much I want it, I donβt know how to make it happen. And that hurts the most.
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I grew up without my father and mother β not because they passed away, but because they abandoned me. Since the age of three, my world was my grandmother. She was the only place where I felt safe, loved, and seen. But ten years ago, she left this world too, and since then, Iβve been carrying life on my own shoulders.
Today, I am 28 years old. I work in a private company and I earn a good salary. From the outside, it looks like I am doing fine. But inside, there is a deep emptiness that money cannot fill. I am still single, and I donβt know how to get close to women. I donβt know how to build friendships or open my heart to people. Sometimes I feel like I missed learning something very basic about being human.
Loneliness has become a constant companion in my life. I am tired of it. I long for just one person β someone I can talk to freely, someone I can share my happiness with, my sadness, my fears, my small victories, and my bad days. I want connection. I want to feel understood. I want to feel that I matter to someone.
But no matter how much I want it, I donβt know how to make it happen. And that hurts the most.
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Selam sewoch i'm M 18 ena grade 11 eski advice argugn tmhrt kejemerku jemro eskahun dres andm r/ship wst gebche alakm ena kehone gize jemro flagote kef eyale meta kegna batch ena guwadegnoche wst bzu sew r/ship wst nw ene gn wef.. yeset mekreb feracha mnamn mibal nger yelebgnm and sew lawra bil erasu ketewawekuat buhala mn ladrg mn lawra mnamn mibalut ngeroch nachew miyaschenkugn enji lela yelem. Eski meker stugn bekumneger ezi lay wesgnalw!
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Selam sewoch i'm M 18 ena grade 11 eski advice argugn tmhrt kejemerku jemro eskahun dres andm r/ship wst gebche alakm ena kehone gize jemro flagote kef eyale meta kegna batch ena guwadegnoche wst bzu sew r/ship wst nw ene gn wef.. yeset mekreb feracha mnamn mibal nger yelebgnm and sew lawra bil erasu ketewawekuat buhala mn ladrg mn lawra mnamn mibalut ngeroch nachew miyaschenkugn enji lela yelem. Eski meker stugn bekumneger ezi lay wesgnalw!
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I was in my early twenties, living in Ethiopia, when I fell in love. The timing was cruel. Just as we started dating, my boyfriend left to USA, What followed were two agonizing and hard years of a long distance relationship filled with late night calls, tears, and a bond that somehow grew stronger across oceans.
After two years, he returned to Ethiopia. Not to visit, but to marry me. We kept it a secret from our families and started the immigration process. But the journey was far from smooth. The U.S. immigration office demanded documents we didnβt have, questioning the genuineness of our marriage. 7 months after he went back the stress cracked him. One day, he said he couldnβt handle it anymore and wanted to break up.
I thought my world had ended. I canβt even put into words how hard that time was, but 6 months later, he called, saying he wanted me back even though nothing has changed on the immigration process. But before I could celebrate, he confessed during our time apart, he drowned himself in alcohol, weed , and slept with another woman once under all these influences . My heart sank. Yet, despite the betrayal, I still loved him. I said yes.
But we were never the same. The fights became frequent, the connection faded. Then, a twist of fate , our marriage appeal was accepted. He called me, crying. We had won the battle, but deep inside, I felt numb. Something had changed in me. A month before my flight to the U.S., I made the hardest decision of my life. I ended things.
He didnβt understand. I couldnβt explain so I chose to ghost him. I just knew I couldnβt pretend to love him the way I used to. I told him I wouldnβt use the green card not after all the pain. But he insisted, saying he would give it to me regardless.
Two years have passed and Iβm still in Ethiopia . Heβs the only man Iβve ever known till this day. Heβs reached out countless times in these two years , even sent a spiritual father from the states to convince me. Still, Iβve kept my distance. Yet here I am, torn. Heβs still offering me the green card with no strings attached. He also told me that he has given up and doesnβt even want to get back even if I say yes after all of this .
Now, Iβm left with these three choices:
1. Accept the green card and move to the States, start a new life.
2. Decline it, and stay in Ethiopia, even if it means giving up opportunities.
3. Accept it, but find a way to repay him , maybe help his brother or family members move to the states in the future using the green card.
this choice is eating me alive and I wanted to know what people would do if they were in my shoes.
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I was in my early twenties, living in Ethiopia, when I fell in love. The timing was cruel. Just as we started dating, my boyfriend left to USA, What followed were two agonizing and hard years of a long distance relationship filled with late night calls, tears, and a bond that somehow grew stronger across oceans.
After two years, he returned to Ethiopia. Not to visit, but to marry me. We kept it a secret from our families and started the immigration process. But the journey was far from smooth. The U.S. immigration office demanded documents we didnβt have, questioning the genuineness of our marriage. 7 months after he went back the stress cracked him. One day, he said he couldnβt handle it anymore and wanted to break up.
I thought my world had ended. I canβt even put into words how hard that time was, but 6 months later, he called, saying he wanted me back even though nothing has changed on the immigration process. But before I could celebrate, he confessed during our time apart, he drowned himself in alcohol, weed , and slept with another woman once under all these influences . My heart sank. Yet, despite the betrayal, I still loved him. I said yes.
But we were never the same. The fights became frequent, the connection faded. Then, a twist of fate , our marriage appeal was accepted. He called me, crying. We had won the battle, but deep inside, I felt numb. Something had changed in me. A month before my flight to the U.S., I made the hardest decision of my life. I ended things.
He didnβt understand. I couldnβt explain so I chose to ghost him. I just knew I couldnβt pretend to love him the way I used to. I told him I wouldnβt use the green card not after all the pain. But he insisted, saying he would give it to me regardless.
Two years have passed and Iβm still in Ethiopia . Heβs the only man Iβve ever known till this day. Heβs reached out countless times in these two years , even sent a spiritual father from the states to convince me. Still, Iβve kept my distance. Yet here I am, torn. Heβs still offering me the green card with no strings attached. He also told me that he has given up and doesnβt even want to get back even if I say yes after all of this .
Now, Iβm left with these three choices:
1. Accept the green card and move to the States, start a new life.
2. Decline it, and stay in Ethiopia, even if it means giving up opportunities.
3. Accept it, but find a way to repay him , maybe help his brother or family members move to the states in the future using the green card.
this choice is eating me alive and I wanted to know what people would do if they were in my shoes.
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I feel everything and nothing at the same time. Fear, loneliness, boredom, hate, sadness, even bits of happiness all mixed up. I donβt feel confident in myself, and sometimes I hate how I feel around certain people. α¨αα α¨α social intraction, even α¨αα«α΅α°α΅α°α ααα α¨αα Iβm tired, but I keep going. I donβt know what I need maybe just peace, maybe just a break from my own mind.
Just i need your advice/comment bro&sis
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I feel everything and nothing at the same time. Fear, loneliness, boredom, hate, sadness, even bits of happiness all mixed up. I donβt feel confident in myself, and sometimes I hate how I feel around certain people. α¨αα α¨α social intraction, even α¨αα«α΅α°α΅α°α ααα α¨αα Iβm tired, but I keep going. I donβt know what I need maybe just peace, maybe just a break from my own mind.
Just i need your advice/comment bro&sis
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Heyy am 21F so the case is internship lay neberku for 2 months ena i met this guys beka lweta akababi and he is so cute and have good personality and i wasnt emotionally stbale for the past 1 year bcha yetewaweken ken bzu nw yaweranew alkeskubet manmn beka lbe eref sil tawekegn and he was there for me now 1 month honotal august 4 lay bcha since that day beyekenu eyaweran nw be slk be akalm we met and alu mlachew problems hula endalegn eyareku eyestekakeleku nw rasen hognalehu this days and beka ye hiwot sew nw (30 yo) but things endih keketelu i might fall for him esun neger demo alfelgewm my 2 realtionships are toxic ena trauma hula alegn so work out kalarege lela neger wst nw mhonew am scared and there is a big line here ye haymanot liyunet we are both tenkaroch on our own ways ena mn endemihon hula maseb alchalkum what do u guys suggest please help me
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Heyy am 21F so the case is internship lay neberku for 2 months ena i met this guys beka lweta akababi and he is so cute and have good personality and i wasnt emotionally stbale for the past 1 year bcha yetewaweken ken bzu nw yaweranew alkeskubet manmn beka lbe eref sil tawekegn and he was there for me now 1 month honotal august 4 lay bcha since that day beyekenu eyaweran nw be slk be akalm we met and alu mlachew problems hula endalegn eyareku eyestekakeleku nw rasen hognalehu this days and beka ye hiwot sew nw (30 yo) but things endih keketelu i might fall for him esun neger demo alfelgewm my 2 realtionships are toxic ena trauma hula alegn so work out kalarege lela neger wst nw mhonew am scared and there is a big line here ye haymanot liyunet we are both tenkaroch on our own ways ena mn endemihon hula maseb alchalkum what do u guys suggest please help me
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Selammmm endet nachiu, 21 female,
Ene ena enatè bezi kiremt menged lay linweta new. My mom neberech serta yemtastedadren, gn tamemechbgn (atibelam,atitetam, 15 killo new yekenesechiw), ye mengist hospital wesjat bzum check alareguatm(we are in kifle hager), zm blew bet lakun.
Ena ye 3 wer ye bet kiray alebin, ena akerayachin beahunu kalkefelachihu beka wutu alechin, mn larg, mn lihun, beza lay enatè tamalech betam. The world is sooo unfair! I literally cant do anything besides crying the whole night.
Zm byè rasen latfa?
Bezi achir gizè wust min serche new birryn yemametaw ?
Mtawkut sra neger kale , bcha alakm , im just soooo worried and frustrated, and i cant get the suicide thought outta my mindπ
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Selammmm endet nachiu, 21 female,
Ene ena enatè bezi kiremt menged lay linweta new. My mom neberech serta yemtastedadren, gn tamemechbgn (atibelam,atitetam, 15 killo new yekenesechiw), ye mengist hospital wesjat bzum check alareguatm(we are in kifle hager), zm blew bet lakun.
Ena ye 3 wer ye bet kiray alebin, ena akerayachin beahunu kalkefelachihu beka wutu alechin, mn larg, mn lihun, beza lay enatè tamalech betam. The world is sooo unfair! I literally cant do anything besides crying the whole night.
Zm byè rasen latfa?
Bezi achir gizè wust min serche new birryn yemametaw ?
Mtawkut sra neger kale , bcha alakm , im just soooo worried and frustrated, and i cant get the suicide thought outta my mindπ
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Hey Unihorse π¦ Hide my Identity I need to vent Er sewoch esti help me , lene becha new hiwote selchet yalchgn kekerb gize wde ymer everything eyasetlagn new lmnm nger felagote yelegnm ,and nger ejmeralew keza no commitment bade tewewalew , sew mawartβ¦
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Er sewoch esti help me , lene becha new hiwote selchet yalchgn kekerb gize wde ymer everything eyasetlagn new lmnm nger felagote yelegnm ,and nger ejmeralew keza no commitment bade tewewalew , sew mawart asetletognale malte beka leawra elna everybody is fake beka anth fete yazenlkale mnmn keza zoro yamakale gn demoπ deep down i feel loneliness esu demo endet endemeyasetla , andu setlu andu ymetale life hits hard especially in 20s lerase ersu algebagn mn eyhunku endale ,
Mn abate sendemesera erasu alkem bezew agatame sera kalchu dm me
Gn I really need ur advice πππ
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Er sewoch esti help me , lene becha new hiwote selchet yalchgn kekerb gize wde ymer everything eyasetlagn new lmnm nger felagote yelegnm ,and nger ejmeralew keza no commitment bade tewewalew , sew mawart asetletognale malte beka leawra elna everybody is fake beka anth fete yazenlkale mnmn keza zoro yamakale gn demoπ deep down i feel loneliness esu demo endet endemeyasetla , andu setlu andu ymetale life hits hard especially in 20s lerase ersu algebagn mn eyhunku endale ,
Mn abate sendemesera erasu alkem bezew agatame sera kalchu dm me
Gn I really need ur advice πππ
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Guys lets be honest most of them here is we only want sexual story we ignored another story whos same with meπ (ik my english fk up)
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Guys lets be honest most of them here is we only want sexual story we ignored another story whos same with meπ (ik my english fk up)
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So thereβs this guy
He lives in America πΊπΈ
Weβve been together for over a year now, and honestlyβ¦ itβs been messy. Heβs got a serious temper. Gets mad over the smallest things, and heβs said some really disrespectful stuff. Like, heβs called me a b before. Not just once. A lot of times
So I broke up with him. I was over it.
But, of course, he started begging me to come backβcalling, apologizing, promising to change. And yeahβ¦ I gave him another chance. Weβre back together now.
Heβs even planning to come here soon to finally meet me in person. And heβs talking about marriageβlike, maybe in a year or two.
And yeah, he supports me financially. He sends money when I need it, and that does help a lot.
But hereβs the thingβI just got offered a really, really good job here. Like, a big opportunity. Itβs solid, long-term, and honestly something Iβve been wanting. The contractβs for five or six years, and Iβd hate to lose it.
Now Iβm stuck in the middle.
Do I go for the job and focus on myself?
Or do I trust him, believe this time will be different, and risk letting this opportunity go?
I really donβt know what to do.π
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
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So thereβs this guy
He lives in America πΊπΈ
Weβve been together for over a year now, and honestlyβ¦ itβs been messy. Heβs got a serious temper. Gets mad over the smallest things, and heβs said some really disrespectful stuff. Like, heβs called me a b before. Not just once. A lot of times
So I broke up with him. I was over it.
But, of course, he started begging me to come backβcalling, apologizing, promising to change. And yeahβ¦ I gave him another chance. Weβre back together now.
Heβs even planning to come here soon to finally meet me in person. And heβs talking about marriageβlike, maybe in a year or two.
And yeah, he supports me financially. He sends money when I need it, and that does help a lot.
But hereβs the thingβI just got offered a really, really good job here. Like, a big opportunity. Itβs solid, long-term, and honestly something Iβve been wanting. The contractβs for five or six years, and Iβd hate to lose it.
Now Iβm stuck in the middle.
Do I go for the job and focus on myself?
Or do I trust him, believe this time will be different, and risk letting this opportunity go?
I really donβt know what to do.π
What would you do if you were in my shoes?
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25 M ,I miss deep conversations at 1AMβ¦ the kind where voices get low, hearts open up, and words turn into touches. Not just someone to talk to but someone whose energy pulls me in without trying. Iβm tired of surface level. I want that slow burnβ¦ the kind of connection where even silence feels sexy. Sheβs out there somewhere soft voice, sharp mind, eyes that say βI see you.β Maybe sheβs reading this right now maybe this post is your sign.
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25 M ,I miss deep conversations at 1AMβ¦ the kind where voices get low, hearts open up, and words turn into touches. Not just someone to talk to but someone whose energy pulls me in without trying. Iβm tired of surface level. I want that slow burnβ¦ the kind of connection where even silence feels sexy. Sheβs out there somewhere soft voice, sharp mind, eyes that say βI see you.β Maybe sheβs reading this right now maybe this post is your sign.
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Hey y'all I'm loza, I just want to tell this because I'm afraid π£
I'v bf ena almost 4 Amet ke 6 wer akababi hononal esu enen mafker yejemerew le first day we met jemero new yesu endehon bzu leftual betam tru sew new endafekrew lemadreg mokrual enem abrem benebernbet 2 ametatoch west kemeta yimta kekere yiker idc aynet huneta lay neberku gn yesu fkr 3gnaw Amet lay betam endewedew aregegn ignore eyarekut betam tilek ego neberebgn esun chlo koyto afekerkut.
Esun matat mefrat jemerku gn esum endeza aladeregem still abren nen
Chgeru gn distance lay nen ahun megenagnet sifeleg ayhonm new yemlew bc I'm busy tbh sraye gize aysetegnm gn esun sebeb arekugn enji yehonech seat lay magegnet echl neber a ik it.π
Yemaldebkachu neger esu be bezu setoch yewededal gn esu hulem enen new yemimertew idk why ππene hule esun eyanadedkut kesu gar lemehon lemimotulet lijoch lemndnew gize yemaysetachew? Lemndnew enen teto enesun yemaymertew? ππ Maryamn bemulu lebe new yemewdew even mnm aynet wend lay impressed alhonm kesu wechi gn demo lesu endemalmetnew yisemagnal esu betam mert sew new
Yihe negere demo fkrachnen eyebetebetew new mn larg ? Ene bzu gize esu endayazn beye breakup enarg beyew neber gn esu kanchi gar hogne begoda yeshalegnal yilal
Benatachu mn ladreg asebut 5 Amet malet Γ hun wede tedar lenhed new he knows everything about me and I know too beka chgeru esu Lene aygebagnm new ππ
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Hey y'all I'm loza, I just want to tell this because I'm afraid π£
I'v bf ena almost 4 Amet ke 6 wer akababi hononal esu enen mafker yejemerew le first day we met jemero new yesu endehon bzu leftual betam tru sew new endafekrew lemadreg mokrual enem abrem benebernbet 2 ametatoch west kemeta yimta kekere yiker idc aynet huneta lay neberku gn yesu fkr 3gnaw Amet lay betam endewedew aregegn ignore eyarekut betam tilek ego neberebgn esun chlo koyto afekerkut.
Esun matat mefrat jemerku gn esum endeza aladeregem still abren nen
Chgeru gn distance lay nen ahun megenagnet sifeleg ayhonm new yemlew bc I'm busy tbh sraye gize aysetegnm gn esun sebeb arekugn enji yehonech seat lay magegnet echl neber a ik it.π
Yemaldebkachu neger esu be bezu setoch yewededal gn esu hulem enen new yemimertew idk why ππene hule esun eyanadedkut kesu gar lemehon lemimotulet lijoch lemndnew gize yemaysetachew? Lemndnew enen teto enesun yemaymertew? ππ Maryamn bemulu lebe new yemewdew even mnm aynet wend lay impressed alhonm kesu wechi gn demo lesu endemalmetnew yisemagnal esu betam mert sew new
Yihe negere demo fkrachnen eyebetebetew new mn larg ? Ene bzu gize esu endayazn beye breakup enarg beyew neber gn esu kanchi gar hogne begoda yeshalegnal yilal
Benatachu mn ladreg asebut 5 Amet malet Γ hun wede tedar lenhed new he knows everything about me and I know too beka chgeru esu Lene aygebagnm new ππ
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So back in 2013Ec I met this girl on telegram her name was Rosa n we talked n quickly bonded it didnt take much before we had a incredible bond plus we both started to have feelings and almost after a year my phone was taken from me n me lost contact with her but when I got back her account was deleted n she cleared everything so I was shocked n scared to call her bc the phone number was her mother's so I was just scared to call but after a 5 months or smth she got joined telegram with that same number so I reached out but she had already moved on and she has a bf at that moment so me didnt push it negr then after 2 days of using that account she deleted it again but after that never riched out.
So if u see this Rosa am Jack n am still her uk and if u could rich out it would be great i just wanna know if ur fine n alive actually, but what bout jijiga u still there or u back in adis
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So back in 2013Ec I met this girl on telegram her name was Rosa n we talked n quickly bonded it didnt take much before we had a incredible bond plus we both started to have feelings and almost after a year my phone was taken from me n me lost contact with her but when I got back her account was deleted n she cleared everything so I was shocked n scared to call her bc the phone number was her mother's so I was just scared to call but after a 5 months or smth she got joined telegram with that same number so I reached out but she had already moved on and she has a bf at that moment so me didnt push it negr then after 2 days of using that account she deleted it again but after that never riched out.
So if u see this Rosa am Jack n am still her uk and if u could rich out it would be great i just wanna know if ur fine n alive actually, but what bout jijiga u still there or u back in adis
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Iβm 17, in Grade 11. I donβt know where to start, but I really want a solution from you guys.
When I was in Grade 9, someone said something that I still canβt get out of my mind. I was a fresh student in high school. I wanted to talk to someone and be friends with him. So I told his friend about it. The person I wanted to be friends with was an old student, and his friend was a new student like me.
That day, his friend and I were walking home together, talking about him. Then he said, βYouβre fine, but only your noseβ¦β He didnβt finish the sentence. I was like, βHuh? My nose?β Then he continued talking about something else. I didnβt care that much at the time, but that night I started rethinking why he said that.
I looked in the mirror and started wondering what was wrong with my nose. I said to myself, βSo he meant my nose is big, and he might not like me because of my looks?β Suddenly, my nose looked bigger to me, and it felt like everyone else had small noses. I had never really noticed my nose before, but now my side profile looked bad to me.
After that, I became really insecure about my face. I literally disappear when people talk about facial features. I donβt know what to call my noseβGreek or hookedβbut having that plus crooked teeth feels like it doesnβt go together. I hate it when someone I want to be friends with sits beside me. I hate my side profile. Even my best friends, who I would die for, started using bullying words.
I went through Grades 9 and 10 like that. Then I changed schools for Grade 11. I thought my insecurities would fade away, but in my new school, during the first week, friends I met there also said my nose was ugly. Forget boysβeven girls laughing at me was hell. Like, damn, canβt I even have best friends?
Please help me. Iβve lost all my confidence. This isnβt about anyone else; itβs about me. I want the biggest glow-up. I want to get braces, because I feel like if my teeth are straight, my nose will look okay. If you know any dental clinics with lower prices, please tell me the address and price (if you know). And if you have tips to make my nose look smaller or to improve my side profile, please help me.
Thank you.
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Iβm 17, in Grade 11. I donβt know where to start, but I really want a solution from you guys.
When I was in Grade 9, someone said something that I still canβt get out of my mind. I was a fresh student in high school. I wanted to talk to someone and be friends with him. So I told his friend about it. The person I wanted to be friends with was an old student, and his friend was a new student like me.
That day, his friend and I were walking home together, talking about him. Then he said, βYouβre fine, but only your noseβ¦β He didnβt finish the sentence. I was like, βHuh? My nose?β Then he continued talking about something else. I didnβt care that much at the time, but that night I started rethinking why he said that.
I looked in the mirror and started wondering what was wrong with my nose. I said to myself, βSo he meant my nose is big, and he might not like me because of my looks?β Suddenly, my nose looked bigger to me, and it felt like everyone else had small noses. I had never really noticed my nose before, but now my side profile looked bad to me.
After that, I became really insecure about my face. I literally disappear when people talk about facial features. I donβt know what to call my noseβGreek or hookedβbut having that plus crooked teeth feels like it doesnβt go together. I hate it when someone I want to be friends with sits beside me. I hate my side profile. Even my best friends, who I would die for, started using bullying words.
I went through Grades 9 and 10 like that. Then I changed schools for Grade 11. I thought my insecurities would fade away, but in my new school, during the first week, friends I met there also said my nose was ugly. Forget boysβeven girls laughing at me was hell. Like, damn, canβt I even have best friends?
Please help me. Iβve lost all my confidence. This isnβt about anyone else; itβs about me. I want the biggest glow-up. I want to get braces, because I feel like if my teeth are straight, my nose will look okay. If you know any dental clinics with lower prices, please tell me the address and price (if you know). And if you have tips to make my nose look smaller or to improve my side profile, please help me.
Thank you.
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