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The thing is i have been in long relation about 6 years ke 12 grade jemren we went the same university and we used to have agood time at campus most students know us as acouple if we have free time we spend it together we met every day but she was taking information science ene degmo engineering ena with the previous carriculum she only spent 3 years in campus but mine was 5 years so she graduated first and moved out first but after that it wasn't easy for us we started fighting. She trust people easly and when some one approach her she don't see their bad intention specially when men try getting close to her pretending to be a friend, but with other intentions she don't see the danger i saw that and told her but she usually end up in bad situations (not too bad) and came to me and she used to tell me every thing but one day luck was not by her side she was raped by some guy close to her sister at her sisters home then he disappeared we can't find him. at that time she wasn't good mentally i was by her side and through time we get back to normal. Afetr i gratuated from campus i started to see her old character she didn't take her lesson because of her work type she met different peoples. for the second time she started falling for their trap but the good thing she used to tell me everything so i saved her many times and one day i want to give her agood lesson so i told her i don't like these behavior so we need to take abreak i know she love me and she was not happy we fighted for 2 month and she started drinking every day one day she cheated on me and i found out and it was not athing i can forgive so we break up and i moved on but she didn't. I blocked her number but she keep calling with different numbers she begged me and said she is willing to do any thing to get back but i just can't accept it so i said no. After that, I heard that she started falling deeper, with different men approaching her and using her. She still hasn’t completely left me either, she always asks me to talk to her only. She said she feel some relief when she talk to me. I’m not someone who forgets favor She was there for me during my weak times. Even if she has done bad things, I have a sister I don’t want her to be hurt. but I want to start a new life without talking to her anymore. I also don’t want her to have hope for something that won’t happen just because I talk to her. at the same time, seeing her trying to talk to me every day not giving up and suffer and watching her life fall apart hurts me deeply inside but I don’t want the new person who comes into my life to be troubled by this situation.
So what is your advice.

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Selam sewoch i'm M 18 ena grade 11 eski advice argugn tmhrt kejemerku jemro eskahun dres andm r/ship wst gebche alakm ena kehone gize jemro flagote kef eyale meta kegna batch ena guwadegnoche wst bzu sew r/ship wst nw ene gn wef.. yeset mekreb feracha mnamn mibal nger yelebgnm and sew lawra bil erasu ketewawekuat buhala mn ladrg mn lawra mnamn mibalut ngeroch nachew miyaschenkugn enji lela yelem. Eski meker stugn bekumneger ezi lay wesgnalw!

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I grew up without my father and mother — not because they passed away, but because they abandoned me. Since the age of three, my world was my grandmother. She was the only place where I felt safe, loved, and seen. But ten years ago, she left this world too, and since then, I’ve been carrying life on my own shoulders.

Today, I am 28 years old. I work in a private company and I earn a good salary. From the outside, it looks like I am doing fine. But inside, there is a deep emptiness that money cannot fill. I am still single, and I don’t know how to get close to women. I don’t know how to build friendships or open my heart to people. Sometimes I feel like I missed learning something very basic about being human.

Loneliness has become a constant companion in my life. I am tired of it. I long for just one person — someone I can talk to freely, someone I can share my happiness with, my sadness, my fears, my small victories, and my bad days. I want connection. I want to feel understood. I want to feel that I matter to someone.

But no matter how much I want it, I don’t know how to make it happen. And that hurts the most.

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Can someone have a crush for nine years straight, from fifth grade up to second year of university? My mind can’t forget him. I wish he were with me instead of her. There hasn’t been a single day when I didn’t think about him or stalk him. Please tell me, is this normal? We used to have a connection—it was a “right person, wrong time” kind of situation. He ended up with my best friend. Is there anyone who can relate to this?

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Hey guys 20f 3y in college am I the only one who doesn't hv a friend who match my energy ymr finding same ppl like me is getting so heavy js to hv a person you can talk freely who are actual open minded fr to have that type of ppl around you is js blessing if you're interested in psychology,
feminism , musics movies,dark humor let's hit up ty💋

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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all

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Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it 😭 how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ጉጉት thinking that ለወግ ለማዕረግ የምበቃ ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes

It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates የናንተም አባጣ ጎርባጣቹ በዛ ማርያምን! የኔም አቃቂር ማውጣት ቅጥ አጣ። i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ይሄንንስ አመል በምን እችለዋለው እያልኩኝ ከስንቱ እራኩኝ መሰላቹ!!

ግን ወንዶችዬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else በዛላይ ስታፈቅሩ and you expressing it is just a devine ማርያምን! ተፈቅሬ ምናምን አይደለም ግን በቃ ሲጥልብኝ እንደ መዝገብ ዱባለ ደቃቃ እንከን ላይ መመሰጥ ነው ስራዬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something ሲያፈቅሩ። እኔም በቅናት ድብን እያልኩ እመለከታለው ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is

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Which one would u choose?

Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.

And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.

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Which one would u choose?

Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.

And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.

#Family #Adult
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am 🎭 Starlight
I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it 😭 how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ጉጉት thinking that ለወግ ለማዕረግ የምበቃ ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes

It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates የናንተም አባጣ ጎርባጣቹ በዛ ማርያምን! የኔም አቃቂር ማውጣት ቅጥ አጣ። i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ይሄንንስ አመል በምን እችለዋለው እያልኩኝ ከስንቱ እራኩኝ መሰላቹ!!

ግን ወንዶችዬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else በዛላይ ስታፈቅሩ and you expressing it is just a devine ማርያምን! ተፈቅሬ ምናምን አይደለም ግን በቃ ሲጥልብኝ እንደ መዝገብ ዱባለ ደቃቃ እንከን ላይ መመሰጥ ነው ስራዬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something ሲያፈቅሩ። እኔም በቅናት ድብን እያልኩ እመለከታለው ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
Which one would u choose?

Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.

And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.

#Family #Adult
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am 🎭 Starlight
I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it 😭 how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ጉጉት thinking that ለወግ ለማዕረግ የምበቃ ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes

It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates የናንተም አባጣ ጎርባጣቹ በዛ ማርያምን! የኔም አቃቂር ማውጣት ቅጥ አጣ። i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ይሄንንስ አመል በምን እችለዋለው እያልኩኝ ከስንቱ እራኩኝ መሰላቹ!!

ግን ወንዶችዬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else በዛላይ ስታፈቅሩ and you expressing it is just a devine ማርያምን! ተፈቅሬ ምናምን አይደለም ግን በቃ ሲጥልብኝ እንደ መዝገብ ዱባለ ደቃቃ እንከን ላይ መመሰጥ ነው ስራዬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something ሲያፈቅሩ። እኔም በቅናት ድብን እያልኩ እመለከታለው ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is

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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all

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Hey guys 20f 3y in college am I the only one who doesn't hv a friend who match my energy ymr finding same ppl like me is getting so heavy js to hv a person you can talk freely who are actual open minded fr to have that type of ppl around you is js blessing if you're interested in psychology,
feminism , musics movies,dark humor let's hit up ty💋

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Can someone have a crush for nine years straight, from fifth grade up to second year of university? My mind can’t forget him. I wish he were with me instead of her. There hasn’t been a single day when I didn’t think about him or stalk him. Please tell me, is this normal? We used to have a connection—it was a “right person, wrong time” kind of situation. He ended up with my best friend. Is there anyone who can relate to this?

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I grew up without my father and mother — not because they passed away, but because they abandoned me. Since the age of three, my world was my grandmother. She was the only place where I felt safe, loved, and seen. But ten years ago, she left this world too, and since then, I’ve been carrying life on my own shoulders.

Today, I am 28 years old. I work in a private company and I earn a good salary. From the outside, it looks like I am doing fine. But inside, there is a deep emptiness that money cannot fill. I am still single, and I don’t know how to get close to women. I don’t know how to build friendships or open my heart to people. Sometimes I feel like I missed learning something very basic about being human.

Loneliness has become a constant companion in my life. I am tired of it. I long for just one person — someone I can talk to freely, someone I can share my happiness with, my sadness, my fears, my small victories, and my bad days. I want connection. I want to feel understood. I want to feel that I matter to someone.

But no matter how much I want it, I don’t know how to make it happen. And that hurts the most.

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Selam sewoch i'm M 18 ena grade 11 eski advice argugn tmhrt kejemerku jemro eskahun dres andm r/ship wst gebche alakm ena kehone gize jemro flagote kef eyale meta kegna batch ena guwadegnoche wst bzu sew r/ship wst nw ene gn wef.. yeset mekreb feracha mnamn mibal nger yelebgnm and sew lawra bil erasu ketewawekuat buhala mn ladrg mn lawra mnamn mibalut ngeroch nachew miyaschenkugn enji lela yelem. Eski meker stugn bekumneger ezi lay wesgnalw!

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I was in my early twenties, living in Ethiopia, when I fell in love. The timing was cruel. Just as we started dating, my boyfriend left to USA, What followed were two agonizing and hard years of a long distance relationship filled with late night calls, tears, and a bond that somehow grew stronger across oceans.

After two years, he returned to Ethiopia. Not to visit, but to marry me. We kept it a secret from our families and started the immigration process. But the journey was far from smooth. The U.S. immigration office demanded documents we didn’t have, questioning the genuineness of our marriage. 7 months after he went back the stress cracked him. One day, he said he couldn’t handle it anymore and wanted to break up.

I thought my world had ended. I can’t even put into words how hard that time was, but 6 months later, he called, saying he wanted me back even though nothing has changed on the immigration process. But before I could celebrate, he confessed during our time apart, he drowned himself in alcohol, weed , and slept with another woman once under all these influences . My heart sank. Yet, despite the betrayal, I still loved him. I said yes.

But we were never the same. The fights became frequent, the connection faded. Then, a twist of fate , our marriage appeal was accepted. He called me, crying. We had won the battle, but deep inside, I felt numb. Something had changed in me. A month before my flight to the U.S., I made the hardest decision of my life. I ended things.

He didn’t understand. I couldn’t explain so I chose to ghost him. I just knew I couldn’t pretend to love him the way I used to. I told him I wouldn’t use the green card not after all the pain. But he insisted, saying he would give it to me regardless.

Two years have passed and I’m still in Ethiopia . He’s the only man I’ve ever known till this day. He’s reached out countless times in these two years , even sent a spiritual father from the states to convince me. Still, I’ve kept my distance. Yet here I am, torn. He’s still offering me the green card with no strings attached. He also told me that he has given up and doesn’t even want to get back even if I say yes after all of this .
Now, I’m left with these three choices:
1. Accept the green card and move to the States, start a new life.
2. Decline it, and stay in Ethiopia, even if it means giving up opportunities.
3. Accept it, but find a way to repay him , maybe help his brother or family members move to the states in the future using the green card.

this choice is eating me alive and I wanted to know what people would do if they were in my shoes.

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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26 M
I feel everything and nothing at the same time. Fear, loneliness, boredom, hate, sadness, even bits of happiness all mixed up. I don’t feel confident in myself, and sometimes I hate how I feel around certain people. የነበረኝ social intraction, even የሚያስደስተኝ ነገር የለም I’m tired, but I keep going. I don’t know what I need maybe just peace, maybe just a break from my own mind.

Just i need your advice/comment bro&sis

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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Heyy am 21F so the case is internship lay neberku for 2 months ena i met this guys beka lweta akababi and he is so cute and have good personality and i wasnt emotionally stbale for the past 1 year bcha yetewaweken ken bzu nw yaweranew alkeskubet manmn beka lbe eref sil tawekegn and he was there for me now 1 month honotal august 4 lay bcha since that day beyekenu eyaweran nw be slk be akalm we met and alu mlachew problems hula endalegn eyareku eyestekakeleku nw rasen hognalehu this days and beka ye hiwot sew nw (30 yo) but things endih keketelu i might fall for him esun neger demo alfelgewm my 2 realtionships are toxic ena trauma hula alegn so work out kalarege lela neger wst nw mhonew am scared and there is a big line here ye haymanot liyunet we are both tenkaroch on our own ways ena mn endemihon hula maseb alchalkum what do u guys suggest please help me

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