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You ever go on a date you’ve been imagining for months, and then the whole thing ends up being this weird mix of happiness and emotional whiplash you didn’t ask for?
Yeah. That was me.
Six months of talking to this girl. Six months of thinking, “When this finally happens, I’m gonna make it perfect.”
Perfect.
Meanwhile I’m broke as hell, pretending it’s fine, pretending I’m fine.
I couldn’t even buy her popcorn.
Popcorn.
The most basic movie gesture since humans learned how to flirt.
And there I am, standing in front of the concessions like some philosophical monk thinking, “Popcorn is overrated anyway.” No, man. You’re just broke. Own it.
But she didn’t care. She didn’t even blink. She just smiled, bought what she wanted, and somehow made me feel… normal. Like I wasn’t failing some invisible test.
And honestly? The date was good. It was fun. We had coffee beforehand — And then, in the middle of the movie, she kissed me. We teased each other after the movie, walked around like two idiots who forgot the world existed. For a second, I actually felt light. Like I wasn’t dragging forty pounds of childhood crap behind me.
Then parents came up.
Because of course they did.
The universe loves timing.
Next thing I know, I’m talking about my mom, and something in me just snaps. Not loudly, just… quietly breaks. Like a chair leg giving out under someone who already knew the chair was unstable. And I feel this wave, like every emotion I’ve been ignoring suddenly decides to stage a coup.
And I’m thinking, Not here. Not in front of her. Hold it together. Be a man. Don’t cry.
But apparently my tear ducts didn’t get the memo, because I just start cracking.
Voice shaking, eyes burning, that stupid lump in the throat that won’t go away.
I cried on a first date.
Let me repeat that: I cried. On. A. First. Date.
And not even in a cool, cinematic way. Just messy, confused, “I don’t know why this is happening right now” crying. She didn’t pull away. She didn’t judge. She didn’t freak out. She just stayed. Comforted me. And that should’ve helped, right? That should’ve made things better.
But it didn’t.
It made it worse.
Because I don’t know how to receive that.
I don’t know how to be cared for without feeling like I owe someone for it.
I’ve never learned how to just… take comfort. I only know how to earn it, pay for it, or apologize for it. So the whole time she’s being kind, I’m sitting there drowning in guilt because my brain is convinced kindness is some kind of bill that’s going to come due.
And then I get home and see my mom.
And instantly I feel like I betrayed her by having a good time. Like I didn’t do enough for her today, like I should’ve given her more, helped more, been there more.
And the messed up part?
She’s the reason I cried in the first place.
She wasn’t a good mom — not intentionally, not maliciously, but the result is the same. She hurt me in ways she still doesn’t understand.
But I can’t hate her.
God, I wish I could sometimes — it would be simpler — but I can’t. She had her own hell. And somehow I ended up inheriting both hers and mine.
So yeah. The date was great until it wasn’t.
I was myself until suddenly I wasn’t.
And now all I can do is replay the moment like a broken record, wishing I handled it differently, wishing I didn’t fall apart, wishing I knew how to just exist without feeling guilty for every good thing.
But I don’t.
I don’t know how to do any of that.
I only know how to be the guy who feels bad for crying, bad for not crying sooner, bad for not doing enough, bad for wanting something for himself.
And that’s the part that stuck with me:
She was okay with it.
I wasn’t.
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You ever go on a date you’ve been imagining for months, and then the whole thing ends up being this weird mix of happiness and emotional whiplash you didn’t ask for?
Yeah. That was me.
Six months of talking to this girl. Six months of thinking, “When this finally happens, I’m gonna make it perfect.”
Perfect.
Meanwhile I’m broke as hell, pretending it’s fine, pretending I’m fine.
I couldn’t even buy her popcorn.
Popcorn.
The most basic movie gesture since humans learned how to flirt.
And there I am, standing in front of the concessions like some philosophical monk thinking, “Popcorn is overrated anyway.” No, man. You’re just broke. Own it.
But she didn’t care. She didn’t even blink. She just smiled, bought what she wanted, and somehow made me feel… normal. Like I wasn’t failing some invisible test.
And honestly? The date was good. It was fun. We had coffee beforehand — And then, in the middle of the movie, she kissed me. We teased each other after the movie, walked around like two idiots who forgot the world existed. For a second, I actually felt light. Like I wasn’t dragging forty pounds of childhood crap behind me.
Then parents came up.
Because of course they did.
The universe loves timing.
Next thing I know, I’m talking about my mom, and something in me just snaps. Not loudly, just… quietly breaks. Like a chair leg giving out under someone who already knew the chair was unstable. And I feel this wave, like every emotion I’ve been ignoring suddenly decides to stage a coup.
And I’m thinking, Not here. Not in front of her. Hold it together. Be a man. Don’t cry.
But apparently my tear ducts didn’t get the memo, because I just start cracking.
Voice shaking, eyes burning, that stupid lump in the throat that won’t go away.
I cried on a first date.
Let me repeat that: I cried. On. A. First. Date.
And not even in a cool, cinematic way. Just messy, confused, “I don’t know why this is happening right now” crying. She didn’t pull away. She didn’t judge. She didn’t freak out. She just stayed. Comforted me. And that should’ve helped, right? That should’ve made things better.
But it didn’t.
It made it worse.
Because I don’t know how to receive that.
I don’t know how to be cared for without feeling like I owe someone for it.
I’ve never learned how to just… take comfort. I only know how to earn it, pay for it, or apologize for it. So the whole time she’s being kind, I’m sitting there drowning in guilt because my brain is convinced kindness is some kind of bill that’s going to come due.
And then I get home and see my mom.
And instantly I feel like I betrayed her by having a good time. Like I didn’t do enough for her today, like I should’ve given her more, helped more, been there more.
And the messed up part?
She’s the reason I cried in the first place.
She wasn’t a good mom — not intentionally, not maliciously, but the result is the same. She hurt me in ways she still doesn’t understand.
But I can’t hate her.
God, I wish I could sometimes — it would be simpler — but I can’t. She had her own hell. And somehow I ended up inheriting both hers and mine.
So yeah. The date was great until it wasn’t.
I was myself until suddenly I wasn’t.
And now all I can do is replay the moment like a broken record, wishing I handled it differently, wishing I didn’t fall apart, wishing I knew how to just exist without feeling guilty for every good thing.
But I don’t.
I don’t know how to do any of that.
I only know how to be the guy who feels bad for crying, bad for not crying sooner, bad for not doing enough, bad for wanting something for himself.
And that’s the part that stuck with me:
She was okay with it.
I wasn’t.
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im a guy So me and the girl im seeing have been sexually active for a while now, and there’s something I’m trying to address. I know it’s normal for women to have natural scents, but sometimes the fishy ..... gets a bit strong, and it affects me during intimacy. I mentioned it to her gently before, and it improved for a while, but recently it’s come back. Ladies, how can I bring this up again without making her feel insecure (without hurting her feelings)? Cuz recently its turning me off n im havin little to no desire, and I really want to address it in the kindest way possible.
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im a guy So me and the girl im seeing have been sexually active for a while now, and there’s something I’m trying to address. I know it’s normal for women to have natural scents, but sometimes the fishy ..... gets a bit strong, and it affects me during intimacy. I mentioned it to her gently before, and it improved for a while, but recently it’s come back. Ladies, how can I bring this up again without making her feel insecure (without hurting her feelings)? Cuz recently its turning me off n im havin little to no desire, and I really want to address it in the kindest way possible.
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M 26 recently I’ve become so drawn to dominant women. All my videos i watch are about them nowadays and i liked it to much now couldn't even resist it. someone who’s comfortable taking the initiative and setting the tone. I’m trying to figure out how to actually communicate that to someone who embodies it. Is it normal??
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M 26 recently I’ve become so drawn to dominant women. All my videos i watch are about them nowadays and i liked it to much now couldn't even resist it. someone who’s comfortable taking the initiative and setting the tone. I’m trying to figure out how to actually communicate that to someone who embodies it. Is it normal??
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U guys I'm here stressing out and the reason is like I'm this year's remidial student and I haven't started studying yet ngl I studied hard for matric too anyway that's not the point point is if you were a remidial student last year and u passed tell me ur expriance and tips okayy
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U guys I'm here stressing out and the reason is like I'm this year's remidial student and I haven't started studying yet ngl I studied hard for matric too anyway that's not the point point is if you were a remidial student last year and u passed tell me ur expriance and tips okayy
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Here is my vent or more like a confession. I am 29 yo now and this happened like 2 years ago. I met a girl online and she was very calm and introvert. But the more we know eachother the more we became close. And we started to speak literally turns out we are both into bdsm kind of stuff and she thought me a lots of stuff for 6 months straight. Until she leaves this country and our relationship end. But to this i miss her.
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Here is my vent or more like a confession. I am 29 yo now and this happened like 2 years ago. I met a girl online and she was very calm and introvert. But the more we know eachother the more we became close. And we started to speak literally turns out we are both into bdsm kind of stuff and she thought me a lots of stuff for 6 months straight. Until she leaves this country and our relationship end. But to this i miss her.
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24 Christian M,mn meselachu gbi wst new chigru yetefeterew.
# Sle genzeb bzu gd aysetegnim neber,
# keza after a while i found my self tebsh lay, then yejone gize demo ynoregnal(ping pong).
#Ena beka it wired my brain in some way that i want money and i want to hold it, or save it despite basic needs. Ena demoze mnamn kedme new plann maregew. Calculated yalhone spend makes me anxious.
#Ena ahun yalegn erasu mibekagn aymeslegnim. genzeb sinoregn confidence with happiness ysemagnal.
Enega bcah new ehe??
If yo guys having same issue, how did u cope up with it?
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24 Christian M,mn meselachu gbi wst new chigru yetefeterew.
# Sle genzeb bzu gd aysetegnim neber,
# keza after a while i found my self tebsh lay, then yejone gize demo ynoregnal(ping pong).
#Ena beka it wired my brain in some way that i want money and i want to hold it, or save it despite basic needs. Ena demoze mnamn kedme new plann maregew. Calculated yalhone spend makes me anxious.
#Ena ahun yalegn erasu mibekagn aymeslegnim. genzeb sinoregn confidence with happiness ysemagnal.
Enega bcah new ehe??
If yo guys having same issue, how did u cope up with it?
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Hello everyone! I'm a 23-year-old girl, and I recently met a handsome guy. We've been talking for four months and have gone on two dates. We also see each other every day at work since we have the same job. He’s a really nice guy—caring and treats me well.
Before I got to know him, he had friends at work, but he told me that he doesn't talk to them anymore. He believes they might be saying negative things about him. Recently, he asked me what I talk about with them when it comes to him. I got really upset because I like him a lot, and it hurt that he thought I would say anything bad about him.
He mentioned that people see him as a player and immature, but he insists he isn’t like that. I don't understand why he's so concerned about what they might say since I haven't heard anything negative. I told him that if he doesn't trust me, maybe we should stop talking. Since then, we haven’t communicated. I really like him, and I'm unsure what to do next.
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Hello everyone! I'm a 23-year-old girl, and I recently met a handsome guy. We've been talking for four months and have gone on two dates. We also see each other every day at work since we have the same job. He’s a really nice guy—caring and treats me well.
Before I got to know him, he had friends at work, but he told me that he doesn't talk to them anymore. He believes they might be saying negative things about him. Recently, he asked me what I talk about with them when it comes to him. I got really upset because I like him a lot, and it hurt that he thought I would say anything bad about him.
He mentioned that people see him as a player and immature, but he insists he isn’t like that. I don't understand why he's so concerned about what they might say since I haven't heard anything negative. I told him that if he doesn't trust me, maybe we should stop talking. Since then, we haven’t communicated. I really like him, and I'm unsure what to do next.
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It is around 1:16 pm that I am writing this. The time is worth mentioning because there is something peaceful about night times that pulls you in, draws you near..to let you see the reflection of yourself you have been trying to replace. I wonder though, why we keep changing the mirrors instead of our reflections if we don't like what we see? it almost seems a futile attempt to restore whatever fragment of us is left tainted by the world.
What if our scars are not the damnations we cried over and over but a blessing in disguise? You see; scars, painful departures, despair and all the emotional as well as mental hardships we have gone through made us who are today. We sometimes can't change the fact that we are no longer the 'innocent ' and optimistic person we once were. Change is scary indeed, but it is worth the doubt, the fear and discomfort. We are made through hardships, congratulations for you all who are being tested by life; that is where we are built to become the best version of ourselves we are meant to be. We need to be grateful for everything that has gone wrong and a blessings we often overlook. I never understood 'live in the moment ' phrase. Why? Because I was worried about what tomorrow hold. I was afraid I was going to lose whatever best thing that I have had in my hand. But guess what? I was wrong, I admit. We need to live in the moment. Not in the 'let's do whatever we want today and worry about the consequences' style but by being careful of our choice yet to never let uncertainty to become bar from truly appreciating things, people, opportunities and so on we have in life.
Well this is just written to avoid studying for tomorrow's upcoming mid exam that I have🥲
But case in point is, we should start accepting ourselves; not to justify our misconducts, but to forgive ourselves and continue with our lives.
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It is around 1:16 pm that I am writing this. The time is worth mentioning because there is something peaceful about night times that pulls you in, draws you near..to let you see the reflection of yourself you have been trying to replace. I wonder though, why we keep changing the mirrors instead of our reflections if we don't like what we see? it almost seems a futile attempt to restore whatever fragment of us is left tainted by the world.
What if our scars are not the damnations we cried over and over but a blessing in disguise? You see; scars, painful departures, despair and all the emotional as well as mental hardships we have gone through made us who are today. We sometimes can't change the fact that we are no longer the 'innocent ' and optimistic person we once were. Change is scary indeed, but it is worth the doubt, the fear and discomfort. We are made through hardships, congratulations for you all who are being tested by life; that is where we are built to become the best version of ourselves we are meant to be. We need to be grateful for everything that has gone wrong and a blessings we often overlook. I never understood 'live in the moment ' phrase. Why? Because I was worried about what tomorrow hold. I was afraid I was going to lose whatever best thing that I have had in my hand. But guess what? I was wrong, I admit. We need to live in the moment. Not in the 'let's do whatever we want today and worry about the consequences' style but by being careful of our choice yet to never let uncertainty to become bar from truly appreciating things, people, opportunities and so on we have in life.
Well this is just written to avoid studying for tomorrow's upcoming mid exam that I have🥲
But case in point is, we should start accepting ourselves; not to justify our misconducts, but to forgive ourselves and continue with our lives.
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Sometimes I feel like life has been nothing but a long fight.
My family is poor… really poor.
While others buy whatever they want, live comfortably, and move through life without worrying, in my house everything is a struggle. Every small thing becomes a battle.
And what breaks me most is my mom.
She can’t afford a new one.
I watch her get sad over things she doesn’t deserve to struggle with.
I watch her pretend everything is fine so I won’t worry, but I see the stress in her eyes.
It kills me that I can’t fix it.
It kills me that she has suffered her whole life.
I have 3 more years left in school, and sometimes that feels like forever.
I feel like I’m stuck watching her live through pain and I can’t do anything.
And in my worst moments, I think things I shouldn’t think…
I get desperate enough to want to sacrifice myself just to change her life now.
Not because I don’t value myself, but because I love her that much.
Because it hurts to watch her hurt.
But the truth is… everything feels unfair.
Life feels unfair.
Our situation feels unfair.
I’m tired of being strong.
I’m tired of surviving.
I just want a day where things are easy for her — and for me.
This is my confession:
I’m overwhelmed, I’m hurting, and I’m carrying more than I should.
But I’m still here.
I’m still fighting.
And I’m still hoping that one day, all of this pain will turn into something better.
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Sometimes I feel like life has been nothing but a long fight.
My family is poor… really poor.
While others buy whatever they want, live comfortably, and move through life without worrying, in my house everything is a struggle. Every small thing becomes a battle.
And what breaks me most is my mom.
She can’t afford a new one.
I watch her get sad over things she doesn’t deserve to struggle with.
I watch her pretend everything is fine so I won’t worry, but I see the stress in her eyes.
It kills me that I can’t fix it.
It kills me that she has suffered her whole life.
I have 3 more years left in school, and sometimes that feels like forever.
I feel like I’m stuck watching her live through pain and I can’t do anything.
And in my worst moments, I think things I shouldn’t think…
I get desperate enough to want to sacrifice myself just to change her life now.
Not because I don’t value myself, but because I love her that much.
Because it hurts to watch her hurt.
But the truth is… everything feels unfair.
Life feels unfair.
Our situation feels unfair.
I’m tired of being strong.
I’m tired of surviving.
I just want a day where things are easy for her — and for me.
This is my confession:
I’m overwhelmed, I’m hurting, and I’m carrying more than I should.
But I’m still here.
I’m still fighting.
And I’m still hoping that one day, all of this pain will turn into something better.
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So heres the thing i got framed as the most disgusting shit ever like they framed me as guy and hacked my ig,tg,WhatsApp and send it for everybody you know what's the funniest shit the persons who did this is a church drummer and hes psycho you all saw the fake telegram stars lately aight it is him. He spied on my phone figure out which chanel and group i am into and he just did every crazy stuff and i don't mind it all except when i try to get back to god and ask for help from all hes and his girlfriend wicked shit they tell me that god will not forgive or help me cause i commited blasphemy and all and i don't appreciate that. Recently i moved to another collage cause of them. They ruind my life and they didn't stop that they want to keep ruin it untill i gave up and die. So you might wonder why all this evil shit? Its because one time hes girl and were talking and he said to her yamewal ende mnamn and she screenshoted it and sent it to me and i got so angry infact i have adhd and and am insecure about my health and i called him retared cause he was one. God forbid cause of that and his girl liked me he got so angry untill he felt hes hand tied cause of his religion to do every possible evil shit to ruin my life at first i thought he might have a point to crashout cause i called him retard infront of his girl but this is beyond everything. And guys he's one of the most dangerous hacker i ever met he got control every device me and my family are using. You know what's crazy he made me hated litterally by everybody because when he begun doing all this evil shit i just freezed i couldn't do nothing to defend my self and now i think it got to the point where their is no turning back from it before i start talking with anybody he will tell them every lie possible to make them hate me and not talk to me and recently he told me (Anonymously) now that i am unattractive like him and he will keep doing it. Gosh hes girl is just like him she thinks shes unattractive and all and shes extremist Christian like him but what they do is like they don't have something moralachewn lemegrat... and in the next part ill tell you how wechewgood podcast plotted on my death
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So heres the thing i got framed as the most disgusting shit ever like they framed me as guy and hacked my ig,tg,WhatsApp and send it for everybody you know what's the funniest shit the persons who did this is a church drummer and hes psycho you all saw the fake telegram stars lately aight it is him. He spied on my phone figure out which chanel and group i am into and he just did every crazy stuff and i don't mind it all except when i try to get back to god and ask for help from all hes and his girlfriend wicked shit they tell me that god will not forgive or help me cause i commited blasphemy and all and i don't appreciate that. Recently i moved to another collage cause of them. They ruind my life and they didn't stop that they want to keep ruin it untill i gave up and die. So you might wonder why all this evil shit? Its because one time hes girl and were talking and he said to her yamewal ende mnamn and she screenshoted it and sent it to me and i got so angry infact i have adhd and and am insecure about my health and i called him retared cause he was one. God forbid cause of that and his girl liked me he got so angry untill he felt hes hand tied cause of his religion to do every possible evil shit to ruin my life at first i thought he might have a point to crashout cause i called him retard infront of his girl but this is beyond everything. And guys he's one of the most dangerous hacker i ever met he got control every device me and my family are using. You know what's crazy he made me hated litterally by everybody because when he begun doing all this evil shit i just freezed i couldn't do nothing to defend my self and now i think it got to the point where their is no turning back from it before i start talking with anybody he will tell them every lie possible to make them hate me and not talk to me and recently he told me (Anonymously) now that i am unattractive like him and he will keep doing it. Gosh hes girl is just like him she thinks shes unattractive and all and shes extremist Christian like him but what they do is like they don't have something moralachewn lemegrat... and in the next part ill tell you how wechewgood podcast plotted on my death
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Ere ezi channel laye yalachu sewoch gn gerem nw metlugn I swear sexual ngr becha nw ende miyasasbachu koy be hiwotachu west chigr yelem andande sayachu ekenalew ezi Hager bezi seat wetat hono bezi lik lezi mechenek sera matat yemeslegnal yooo focus on your goal brooo!
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Ere ezi channel laye yalachu sewoch gn gerem nw metlugn I swear sexual ngr becha nw ende miyasasbachu koy be hiwotachu west chigr yelem andande sayachu ekenalew ezi Hager bezi seat wetat hono bezi lik lezi mechenek sera matat yemeslegnal yooo focus on your goal brooo!
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I need your advice here. So this is more like my friends story but it's gotten so messed up.
So while we were in college she started dating this guy who seems like a gentleman and wise, but he had a best friend who is a total doush bag and a player but we didn't know back then.
When something happens they have each other's backs a lot that his friend can even deny what he said all together or take the blame for each other to save themselves of trouble.
Ena what happended is recently he has been chatting and flirting with her friends and people in our friend circle. They send me screenshot and ask if he broke up with his gf. when I told her about it she said they are doing fine and got offended for blaming him.
Guys some of the screenshots are so bad and you know what he told her? He said it was his best friend messing around by his account. Like come on it's all over telegram, and insta. And they're not even in the same city anymore.
You know the crazy part? She believed him. She is so deep she can't even see it. Now me and the other friends are the bad guys for trying to "sabotage" their r/s
Guys please how do I prove to her he's cheating? We no longer live in the same city and it's hard finding any more evidence. I want him to get what he deserves so bad.
She's talking about marriage and I can't watch this happen.
Mind you before he started dating her, he asked out another friend of us but she rejected him. Now he's with my friend and it's been like 2 years now
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I need your advice here. So this is more like my friends story but it's gotten so messed up.
So while we were in college she started dating this guy who seems like a gentleman and wise, but he had a best friend who is a total doush bag and a player but we didn't know back then.
When something happens they have each other's backs a lot that his friend can even deny what he said all together or take the blame for each other to save themselves of trouble.
Ena what happended is recently he has been chatting and flirting with her friends and people in our friend circle. They send me screenshot and ask if he broke up with his gf. when I told her about it she said they are doing fine and got offended for blaming him.
Guys some of the screenshots are so bad and you know what he told her? He said it was his best friend messing around by his account. Like come on it's all over telegram, and insta. And they're not even in the same city anymore.
You know the crazy part? She believed him. She is so deep she can't even see it. Now me and the other friends are the bad guys for trying to "sabotage" their r/s
Guys please how do I prove to her he's cheating? We no longer live in the same city and it's hard finding any more evidence. I want him to get what he deserves so bad.
She's talking about marriage and I can't watch this happen.
Mind you before he started dating her, he asked out another friend of us but she rejected him. Now he's with my friend and it's been like 2 years now
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I want to leave my family and start to live alone. I recently turned 24 and i can no longer tolerate the bad behavior of my family.
I literally spend most of my day serving my parents, specially my dad, which is not bad but I'm 4th year CS student at college, I'm taking marketing course and I also do freelancing. As if this is not enough, all of them want a portion of my time everyday.
I have a problem of not sleeping much since i was a kid. I stay awake 1-4 hr in the middle of the night but i sleep back before the morning starts. But both of my parents literally get up in the morning at 12:00 and start to make noise, argue, throw stuff here and there so i my already ruined sleeping routine gets even more ruined.
Then the entire day i spend my time studying, working and doing whatever my parents told me to do. My dad all of a sudden comes up with some idea and say "why don't we do this" then he waste like 40-50 min of my day! I often make food because my mom abandon all the home shores and go wherever she wants. The only thing i don't do is to make Injera!
I expect to make good amount of money in the coming months and i want to rent a small house and live alone. I have ungrateful family who don't even know what I'm going through. I just want to leave them.
I don't know how life will be when i start to live by myself but i want to really try it and get away from this chaotic family.
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I want to leave my family and start to live alone. I recently turned 24 and i can no longer tolerate the bad behavior of my family.
I literally spend most of my day serving my parents, specially my dad, which is not bad but I'm 4th year CS student at college, I'm taking marketing course and I also do freelancing. As if this is not enough, all of them want a portion of my time everyday.
I have a problem of not sleeping much since i was a kid. I stay awake 1-4 hr in the middle of the night but i sleep back before the morning starts. But both of my parents literally get up in the morning at 12:00 and start to make noise, argue, throw stuff here and there so i my already ruined sleeping routine gets even more ruined.
Then the entire day i spend my time studying, working and doing whatever my parents told me to do. My dad all of a sudden comes up with some idea and say "why don't we do this" then he waste like 40-50 min of my day! I often make food because my mom abandon all the home shores and go wherever she wants. The only thing i don't do is to make Injera!
I expect to make good amount of money in the coming months and i want to rent a small house and live alone. I have ungrateful family who don't even know what I'm going through. I just want to leave them.
I don't know how life will be when i start to live by myself but i want to really try it and get away from this chaotic family.
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I'm 24 years old male, and here is the thing there is a girl ena she loves me , but i don't love her. i mean i like her, but i don't love love her ena latley I'm feeling like I'm giving her mixed signals. Please, guys tell me what to do ... i don't wanna waste her time , how should i leave her without hurting her?
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I'm 24 years old male, and here is the thing there is a girl ena she loves me , but i don't love her. i mean i like her, but i don't love love her ena latley I'm feeling like I'm giving her mixed signals. Please, guys tell me what to do ... i don't wanna waste her time , how should i leave her without hurting her?
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Heyyy I’m a 23 y.o G.C at uni and i grew up sheltered being provided by my family for everything, not going out at all and only having 2 friends who are just like me, I never had to go out of my comfort zone all my life but I have a feeling that life is gonna smack the shit outta me when I finally graduate and become a regular adult. I never learned to hustle or communicate outside of my house and school so I’m kinda bad at that and I know for sure that my family is gonna switch up and expect me to be this hard working successful business person lol but they won’t even let me go out to anywhere by myself unless I sneak out and yeah I need some advice on what to expect after I graduate and what the hell should I do with my current potato state, I hate to be one of those kids who stay home until their 30s still living off their family, I actually want to retire them uk.
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Heyyy I’m a 23 y.o G.C at uni and i grew up sheltered being provided by my family for everything, not going out at all and only having 2 friends who are just like me, I never had to go out of my comfort zone all my life but I have a feeling that life is gonna smack the shit outta me when I finally graduate and become a regular adult. I never learned to hustle or communicate outside of my house and school so I’m kinda bad at that and I know for sure that my family is gonna switch up and expect me to be this hard working successful business person lol but they won’t even let me go out to anywhere by myself unless I sneak out and yeah I need some advice on what to expect after I graduate and what the hell should I do with my current potato state, I hate to be one of those kids who stay home until their 30s still living off their family, I actually want to retire them uk.
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So guys I'm freshman and 20y male
It's good to be stressed
It's good to be knowing that you don't deserve to be loved
Its good to be alone enjoy the silence
It's good to do it rather than dreaming
It's good to argue with yourself and have weird explanation about it
It's good to have the night to see the dawn
And praise the lord for all the blessings that we got
Just its good to be alive ✋🏼🙂↕️
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So guys I'm freshman and 20y male
It's good to be stressed
It's good to be knowing that you don't deserve to be loved
Its good to be alone enjoy the silence
It's good to do it rather than dreaming
It's good to argue with yourself and have weird explanation about it
It's good to have the night to see the dawn
And praise the lord for all the blessings that we got
Just its good to be alive ✋🏼🙂↕️
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Hey guys I'm 21f ena is it only me like I don't have friends but I want to have some like genuinely a group of friends mnmn to spend time with but its hard for me
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Hey guys I'm 21f ena is it only me like I don't have friends but I want to have some like genuinely a group of friends mnmn to spend time with but its hard for me
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Hey😘💋what's up anywho so to my vent I'm 24 a girl I'm lonely because of my choice any guy trys to date me I turn it down and when it comes to friendship I've had bad experiences with girls I guess guys too which made me detached from people I have 0 friends and don't like dating anyone the only calm thing I have is music and going to church and walking I don't know how I got this detached but it's true I don't like when women try to chitchat and try making friends out of me because I've been fucked over by female friends and don't trust them around me and guys let's say I don't like them.so reality is I'm getting older and thinking will I ever be comfortable in this generation love or friendship?that's my question
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Hey😘💋what's up anywho so to my vent I'm 24 a girl I'm lonely because of my choice any guy trys to date me I turn it down and when it comes to friendship I've had bad experiences with girls I guess guys too which made me detached from people I have 0 friends and don't like dating anyone the only calm thing I have is music and going to church and walking I don't know how I got this detached but it's true I don't like when women try to chitchat and try making friends out of me because I've been fucked over by female friends and don't trust them around me and guys let's say I don't like them.so reality is I'm getting older and thinking will I ever be comfortable in this generation love or friendship?that's my question
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I am a 28-year-old male who has been working my ass off for the past eight years and has secured a house in Addis, a decent car, and is earning a fair amount of money.
The problem is I have a fiancée who was broke when we met. We fell in love and got engaged six months ago, but I don't think she loves me, as evidenced by many things. She lies to me so much, and our sex life is really unsatisfactory. I told her we need to improve it, but unfortunately, nothing has changed. I have started to cheat on her with several girls who are much better than her in many ways, whether in beauty, academics, or career. Yet, I can't stop thinking about her every minute of my life.
I am considering taking back that expensive engagement ring and ending our relationship. What do you guys think?
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I am a 28-year-old male who has been working my ass off for the past eight years and has secured a house in Addis, a decent car, and is earning a fair amount of money.
The problem is I have a fiancée who was broke when we met. We fell in love and got engaged six months ago, but I don't think she loves me, as evidenced by many things. She lies to me so much, and our sex life is really unsatisfactory. I told her we need to improve it, but unfortunately, nothing has changed. I have started to cheat on her with several girls who are much better than her in many ways, whether in beauty, academics, or career. Yet, I can't stop thinking about her every minute of my life.
I am considering taking back that expensive engagement ring and ending our relationship. What do you guys think?
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I don’t even know where to start, so I’m just going to spill it the way it sits in my chest.
My name is Kirubel. I’m 15, from Addis — and honestly, my life has felt like a long list of things I had to “handle” before I even knew what handling meant.
I was born into young love that didn’t survive long. My parents split when I was barely old enough to talk. My dad struggled with things I was too young to understand, and my mom held everything together the way only mothers can.
For the first years of my life, she and I were a team of two. No neighbors, no kids around — just us. And then, when I was ten, she left for Dubai so I could have a future. And that’s the kind of decision you don’t understand as a kid… but you feel it. Deep.
Moving in with my grandmother and aunt sounded fine at first. My grandma loved me like I was the only kid on Earth. But the house was cold. My cousin treated me like I was some kind of inconvenience. I got blamed for defending myself, blamed for things I didn’t even do. And when my grandmother’s memory started fading… it felt like I was losing my last safe person in slow motion.
She passed away right as I finished Grade 8— and I still carry this weird guilt, like her stress was somehow my fault. I know it’s not true, but feelings don’t follow logic.
Then there’s Z — my closest friend, the one I actually trusted, the one I saw my whole teenage life with. I liked her quietly for years. And when I finally got brave enough to tell her? I found out she liked someone else. And he liked her too. I felt like I showed up to my own love story and found out I was an extra.
It’s been three years, and I still haven’t fully gotten over her.
Other girls try to get close — good girls, kind girls — and I just… can’t. Not because I’m trying to be a player, but because loyalty sticks to me like my own shadow.
Now I’m in Grade 9, living with my dad’s new family. They’re not bad people, but I still feel like a visitor in my own life. My grades dropped. My mind drifts a lot. I feel alone even when the room is full.
But here’s the twist:
Out of all this chaos, I built something.
I became a developer.
A real one — not the “I watched one YouTube tutorial” type. I built systems, apps, websites. I lost money, learned fast, came back stronger. I made 20k ETB with AI agents while other kids were stressing about homework I finished in 10 minutes.
I’m young, but my brain works like a grown engineer.
I’m the kid who thinks 20 steps ahead but still doesn’t know who to talk to when everything gets heavy.
And lately… it is heavy.
I feel stressed.
Lost.
Weirdly lonely in a life that should feel full.
I want to do right by my mom. I want to bring her back from Dubai. I want to prove her sacrifice wasn’t for nothing.
But some days? I feel like I’m just tired. Too tired for my age.
I’m still fighting though.
Still building.
Still coding my future even on the days my heart is lagging behind.
This is me.
This is my vent.
I’m Kirubel — strong, smart, focused…
but also a boy who feels alone sometimes and doesn’t know what to do with all this weight.
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I don’t even know where to start, so I’m just going to spill it the way it sits in my chest.
My name is Kirubel. I’m 15, from Addis — and honestly, my life has felt like a long list of things I had to “handle” before I even knew what handling meant.
I was born into young love that didn’t survive long. My parents split when I was barely old enough to talk. My dad struggled with things I was too young to understand, and my mom held everything together the way only mothers can.
For the first years of my life, she and I were a team of two. No neighbors, no kids around — just us. And then, when I was ten, she left for Dubai so I could have a future. And that’s the kind of decision you don’t understand as a kid… but you feel it. Deep.
Moving in with my grandmother and aunt sounded fine at first. My grandma loved me like I was the only kid on Earth. But the house was cold. My cousin treated me like I was some kind of inconvenience. I got blamed for defending myself, blamed for things I didn’t even do. And when my grandmother’s memory started fading… it felt like I was losing my last safe person in slow motion.
She passed away right as I finished Grade 8— and I still carry this weird guilt, like her stress was somehow my fault. I know it’s not true, but feelings don’t follow logic.
Then there’s Z — my closest friend, the one I actually trusted, the one I saw my whole teenage life with. I liked her quietly for years. And when I finally got brave enough to tell her? I found out she liked someone else. And he liked her too. I felt like I showed up to my own love story and found out I was an extra.
It’s been three years, and I still haven’t fully gotten over her.
Other girls try to get close — good girls, kind girls — and I just… can’t. Not because I’m trying to be a player, but because loyalty sticks to me like my own shadow.
Now I’m in Grade 9, living with my dad’s new family. They’re not bad people, but I still feel like a visitor in my own life. My grades dropped. My mind drifts a lot. I feel alone even when the room is full.
But here’s the twist:
Out of all this chaos, I built something.
I became a developer.
A real one — not the “I watched one YouTube tutorial” type. I built systems, apps, websites. I lost money, learned fast, came back stronger. I made 20k ETB with AI agents while other kids were stressing about homework I finished in 10 minutes.
I’m young, but my brain works like a grown engineer.
I’m the kid who thinks 20 steps ahead but still doesn’t know who to talk to when everything gets heavy.
And lately… it is heavy.
I feel stressed.
Lost.
Weirdly lonely in a life that should feel full.
I want to do right by my mom. I want to bring her back from Dubai. I want to prove her sacrifice wasn’t for nothing.
But some days? I feel like I’m just tired. Too tired for my age.
I’m still fighting though.
Still building.
Still coding my future even on the days my heart is lagging behind.
This is me.
This is my vent.
I’m Kirubel — strong, smart, focused…
but also a boy who feels alone sometimes and doesn’t know what to do with all this weight.
#School #MentalIllness #Family #Relationship #Teen
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I'm 26 male konjiye setga tewaweken nbere ena tnsh awran endewededkuwat ngerkuwat Arif lay nberen gn tnsh tifat katefaw bka alfeligm anawra tlegnalech keza demo sawerat taweragnalech ena ahun lay bedenb fkr endiyzat ignore ladrgat le tnsh gizeyatoch setoch ignore stderegu fkrachu yichemral ende ?
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I'm 26 male konjiye setga tewaweken nbere ena tnsh awran endewededkuwat ngerkuwat Arif lay nberen gn tnsh tifat katefaw bka alfeligm anawra tlegnalech keza demo sawerat taweragnalech ena ahun lay bedenb fkr endiyzat ignore ladrgat le tnsh gizeyatoch setoch ignore stderegu fkrachu yichemral ende ?
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