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So I've had this crush on my brother's best friend for long time now and idk what to do.
He's 6 years older than me (he's 28) and I fear he only sees me as his friend's lil sis
He's everything u can ask for.
Our parents are also pretty close and idk what they will about it
And when I see him I become too awkward and think will embarrass myself so I don't speak to him🤦‍♀. He's quite friendly and my mom really likes him. Well the whole family likes him a lot n they talk about him all the time... One of the reasons that made me like him even more. Yet I'm the only one who's not close with him.
They somehow got along really well when I was in gbi while I wasn't there.

And now he doesn't come that often and I don't see him that much. His dad on the other hand comes to our house sometimes and he's easier to talk to. I wish they set us up or sth.
Anyone with the same experience I wanna hear please

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endet nw le nggrachew maytenekeku sewochn tolerate mtadergut?mnm satnageruachew malef ychalal wey?sometimes beka kezi behuala mnm binageru zm nw mlew elna gn i can't.ena demo beminagerut ngr mknyat wste tlacha endayfeter feralew endet nw handle mtadergut????

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Selam endet nachu I'm 18F Alhamdulillah ene mnm allm zare yemetawt hasaben lagarachu new maserat mtchlu hasab mestet mchlu kegone mekom mchlu hulu kumulgn be hasabm bemchlut agzugn wendme yezare amet bereha lay motobgnal esu eyale enate ena ene anchenekm nebere esu karefe jemro enatem mgb atbelalgnm ke bet awetam fzzz blalech halafinet ene lay tetale gn ahun betam kebdognal eskezare yechalkutnm ken sram mnm mnm eyalku chyalew ahun gn enante fit metchalew mn larg hasab stugn bchayen negn

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23F

Okay so… I’ve literally never had a boyfriend 😭
I grew up with super strict parents, especially my mom. Like, I wasn’t even allowed to talk to guys unless they were family. She used to say stuff like “if you hang with boys, you’ll get pregnant” and I was a kid… so ofc I believed her 😅

Because of that, I just avoided guys completely. No friends, no crushes, nothing. And now… when a guy talks to me, I just… freeze or ignore them. Not even on purpose, it’s just how my brain works lol.

People always say I look serious or unapproachable… but the truth is I’m soft. I just don’t know how to show it 😔
And honestly… I do want a boyfriend now. I want someone I can actually trust, someone I can be myself with, someone who sees the me behind the serious face.

It’s like my heart wants it, but my brain is still stuck in all the fears from growing up. And yeah… it’s hard
So please advice me I don’t know what to do

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23M I was talking to this girl for a month and we meet on social media she's 19 i didn't know her in person until our first date and honestly ive seen some pics of her and she was good looking but in person bruh lela sew literally another person, i was shocked i was turned off immediately but i stayed we talked and i can tell that she's in to me she was happy and i was fighting with my thoughts so after the date she texted me and said she likes me mnamn but me i don't want to talk to her anymore and at the same time i don't want to hurt her feelings by gosting her
so how can i tell her that im not interested anymore?Additionally she have so many common things with my ex and that's not a good thing she reminds me of her my ex was beautiful tho

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አትለፉኝ plssss
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ከመጀመሪያው ለመጀመር ያህል ከልጁ ጋር አብረን ነው የተማርነው ከ 4-8 ክፍል ድረስ
ከዛ ወዲያ  የተለያየ ትምህርት ቤት ገባን ፍቅር ስለነበረን 9 ክፍል እያለን መንገድ ላይ አጊንቼው የምነግረው ነገር እንዳለ ነገርኩትና ተገናኘን ቀጠሮ ይዘን በዛ ስዓት ልጇች ስለነበርን አሁን ላይ አብረን መሆን አንችልም ትንሽ ከፍ እንበል ሲለኝ እሺ አልኩት ልጁ በመሀል ለትምህርት ወደ ሌላ ቦታ ሄደ ስልኩን ለማግኘት አፈላለኩት ላገኘው አልቻልኩም አመታት አለፉ እሱም አዲስ አበባ መጣ መንገድ ላይ ሲያየኝ እንኳን ሰላም አይለኝም ባላየ ነው የምንተላለፈው እኔ ደግሞ እግዚአብሔር የሰጠኝ መልክ አለኝ በዚህ መሀል ሴት ነኝ በዛ ላይ ብዙ ፈላጊዎች ነበሩኝ date አደርግ ነበር እንደማንኛዋም ሴት እድሌን እሞክር ነበር ከሁለት ሰዎች ጋርም relationship ነበረኝ ያው ሴት እንደመሆኔ የእድሜዬም ጉዳይ ያሳስበኛ but  still ድንግል ነኝ ምንም ግንኙነት አድርጌ አላውቅም የነበርኩበት relationship ሳይሳካ ቀረ የሁለቱም በዚህ መሀል ማለትም የ 3rd yr univ ተማሪ እያለሁ ስልኬን ከየት እንዳገኘው አላውቅም አወራኝ ከብዙ አመት በውሀላ ስለነበረ ገረመኝ ለምን አሁን መጣህ ስለው ቃልሽ ይዞኝ አለኝ መሀላችን ያላለቀ ፍቅር ስላለ ወድያው ፍቅሩ አገረሸብን እሱ ግን l relationship ዝግጁ አደለሁም ነበር የሚለኝ በግዜ ሂደት እያወራን ስንመጣ ወደ relationship ገባን በጣም ነው የማፈቅረው እሱም እንደዛው ግን ችግሩ የሚጀምረው እዚህ ጋር ነው እኔ ከዚህ በፊት relationship ውስጥ እንደነበርኩ አያውቅም ማለትም just date ብቻ ነው ያልኩት እሱ ደግሞ history ያላትን ሴት አልፈልግም ነው የሚለው ሁሌም እንደዚህ አድርገሽ አታውቂም አደል ማንም ነክቶሽ አያውቅም አደል እያለ ያሳቅቀኛል ባነሳብኝ ቁጥር ተጨንቄ ሞትኩኝ ማንም  ወንድ እጇን የያዛት ሴት እንኳን ብትሆን አልፈልግም ይለኛል ውስጤ በጣም ፀፀት ይሰማዋል ያውቅ ይሆን ከዚህ በፊት የነበረውን ነገር እናልኩ ሰውነቴ አለቀ በሰቀቀን ለምን አትነግሪውም እንዳትሉኝ ከነገርኩት ዞር ብሎም አያየኝም እና please ምን ላድርግ ሀሳባችሁን አካፍሉኝ

ያልነገርኳቹ ነገር እሱ የአሜሪካ process ነበረውና አልተሳካለትም ቢሳካለት ኖሮ እኔ ጋር አይመጣም ነበር በዛው ይሄድ ነበር

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I swear, being an intern in GynObs is a whole new level of madness. You walk into the ward and immediately get surrounded by shouting, random orders, and zero actual guidance. Seniors ask the dumbest, most pointless questions in the middle of chaos — questions no one would remember in real life. And the moment you don’t answer perfectly, they act like you’re lazy, clueless, or completely useless, as if we’re not the ones running around doing everything they don’t want to do.

They disappear when work actually gets real, then reappear just to point fingers and shout. Watching people who should be teaching act like their only job is to criticize is exhausting. Meanwhile, we’re surviving on no sleep, running on pure willpower, and holding the ward together.

Honestly, I don’t know why anyone would willingly join GynObs unless they’re completely sick in the head.

RIP for the unsaid words.

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I'm 24 years old female... I don't know ahun yemisemagnn smet endet endemgelts but I know one thing I hate me. Graduate adrge 2 amet yalesra ketkemetkugn buhala besnt yebeteseboche tselot sra agegnehu betam busy negn kesegno eske arb sra then weekend class. I thought sra matate bzu endasb yaregen gn sra yze after a few weeks I felt z same sheet I hate me I hate my body... Ene eko sewochn emekralehu aberetatalehu but I feel hallow in my inside... Lenesu mmekrewn lerase aladergm. Even I have got better salary lerase and yereba neger salaregbet drashun atefawalehu. Sra bota, taxi wst bcha every places I don't know how to defend my self beka slcht ylegnal lerase mekom I felt like unworthy. When I see my self in the mirror attract yemiyareg face endalegn gn sweta yemecheresha askeyami endehonkugn new misemagn
... Even pp admire my look I allways feel like they r mocking me. Bcha mot mot memot new mitayegn

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❤️My 6-Month Situationship: A Comedy, A Tragedy, A Full Mental Illness

Based on true emotional damage

So let me tell you all how my peaceful life ended.

I was on a bus, minding my business, a normal law student just trying to go home.
Then boom — a tall, handsome bus assistant appears like a romantic movie intro I did NOT ask for.

He was helping everyone, talking sweet, looking good…
Basically a walking distraction.

I even asked if he wanted my number, but he said:
“I already have your phone.”
Sorry??
Who are you? FBI? MI6? Ethiopian Sherlock Holmes???
Then I discovered this man asked my friend for my number —
So he liked me from DAY ONE.

We start texting.
He’s charming.
He’s funny.
He’s tall.
He’s handsome.
Basically: dangerous for my mental health.

Two months later, he begged to meet.
I didn’t want to — I swear — but he begged like he was about to cry.
So we met.

On the date, he admired EVERYTHING:
my eyes, my lips, my nails, my ass, my feet…
Like sir, calm down, I’m not a museum.

And still, we did NOTHING.
Not even a hug.
Because I wasn’t ready — and he accepted that.
(Iconic behavior, thank you.)

Then the plot twist came like a Netflix series:
He tells me…

“I have a girlfriend… but feelings for you too.”

Boy, be serious.
Be for real.
Pick a struggle.

He kept calling, texting, saying “I love you,” “I miss you,”
while having a whole girlfriend like a side character with speaking lines.

So I ended it.
I blocked him.
I threw away the key.

But this man?
He’s persistent like bad WiFi.
After one month he BEGS me to meet again.
I go.
We talk.
Again — nothing happened.
Not even a hug.

After the date he calls me like:
“I wish I kissed you… mnamn.”
Sir… why are you like this?

Now look at me.
Six months in this emotional chaos.
I don’t even know what we are —
Situationship?
Confusion-ship?
Mental-damage-ship?

And the worst part?
I’m supposed to be a LAW STUDENT.
Reading cases.
Studying.
Building my future.

But no.
I’m here crying over a man with a girlfriend who works on a bus.
God please, why me?

I’ve tried leaving.
Blocking.
Avoiding.
Ignoring.
Everything.
But somehow I still have feelings.
My heart is stupid and my brain is tired.

So please —
What should I do?
Do I block him again?
Do I run away?
Do I pray?
Or do I just drop out and let life finish me?

Because honestly…
This situationship has me fighting for my life.

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Is anyone here suffering from maladaptive daydreaming?
If you don't know what that is, it's basically when you're brain creates alternate realities in your head and you get so immersed that you detach from reality for some time. It typically happens due to abuse or trauma, where your brain tries to escape reality by using your imagination. In sever cases some ppl can spend hours of their day just daydreaming about what they want in their life. Money, fame, romantic relationships, anything they want.
I've been suffering from it for 6 years now and you might think it's not that bad but it's taking up hours of my day and i hate it. I'm not going through abuse or anything severe, my life is just so boring and lonely. I am at a time in my life where i need to lock in, but my brain drifts away for a moment and i wake up like hours later. Most times I'd need darkness or silence to daydream, I'd listen to songs to watch edits and I'd drift away immediately. I need this to stop. Please help me

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i have a problem if a girl have long hair pretty face and light skin i don't care if she's run through she could have 100 bodies for all i care my heart melt like butter infact am the type who wants those balege one's the most like someone who has experience and are open-minded am into alot of weird stuff and i know dis is not acceptable in our society but i can help it

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Would you believe me if I said my house is G+2 in Addis Ababa, but we are very poor? I'm not joking or anything; we are really struggling. If someone gets sick, we can't even pay for the bill. Is there anyone else like me?

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26M ,fresh graduate and working as General practitioner and lecturer in one university hospital.
Here is what am struggling with from very beginning.
Am kind of extroverted introvert but most of the girl I meet makes me disinterested after a couple of date .
Bicha am eager to find a partner but it isn't working yet

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The advice from guys who have already graduated is much appreciated.
Life was on the track until they told as to "ማዞር our መነሳንስ ከግራ ወደ ቀኝ". Then it was a dead end. We don't know where to go. We scatter. We run up and down for a job. The process took weeks for few. Months to years for some and eternity for the rest. Then we got a job and look back and there is a lot we have lost. We have lost the link to our friends, potential soul mates and a lot of people we were hanging out with. We start to work on a job that is too boring for our Millennial brain and now we don't have friends to hang out with. we don't have friends with same interest group who we can talk about ideas, books, movies or else. we don't have our dears. Then we try to revive some of our relationships from campus. It seems to go well until we understand that we are not on the same page anymore. How do you guys keep after graduation. Isn't it a lot of burden to feel detached? So now we have to hangout with people we have not much to talk about just because they are all we have, available? So now we have to get into serious relationship with some girl who we couldn't even have a long conversation if she was in campus back then just because we were too fool to expect things will just go fine after graduation? so now we have to get married to 'some one' instead of 'the one' just because we have to and the selection pool is so small? How do you guys handle this?

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You ever go on a date you’ve been imagining for months, and then the whole thing ends up being this weird mix of happiness and emotional whiplash you didn’t ask for?
Yeah. That was me.

Six months of talking to this girl. Six months of thinking, “When this finally happens, I’m gonna make it perfect.”
Perfect.
Meanwhile I’m broke as hell, pretending it’s fine, pretending I’m fine.

I couldn’t even buy her popcorn.
Popcorn.
The most basic movie gesture since humans learned how to flirt.
And there I am, standing in front of the concessions like some philosophical monk thinking, “Popcorn is overrated anyway.” No, man. You’re just broke. Own it.

But she didn’t care. She didn’t even blink. She just smiled, bought what she wanted, and somehow made me feel… normal. Like I wasn’t failing some invisible test.

And honestly? The date was good. It was fun. We had coffee beforehand — And then, in the middle of the movie, she kissed me. We teased each other after the movie, walked around like two idiots who forgot the world existed. For a second, I actually felt light. Like I wasn’t dragging forty pounds of childhood crap behind me.


Then parents came up.
Because of course they did.
The universe loves timing.

Next thing I know, I’m talking about my mom, and something in me just snaps. Not loudly, just… quietly breaks. Like a chair leg giving out under someone who already knew the chair was unstable. And I feel this wave, like every emotion I’ve been ignoring suddenly decides to stage a coup.

And I’m thinking, Not here. Not in front of her. Hold it together. Be a man. Don’t cry.
But apparently my tear ducts didn’t get the memo, because I just start cracking.
Voice shaking, eyes burning, that stupid lump in the throat that won’t go away.

I cried on a first date.
Let me repeat that: I cried. On. A. First. Date.

And not even in a cool, cinematic way. Just messy, confused, “I don’t know why this is happening right now” crying. She didn’t pull away. She didn’t judge. She didn’t freak out. She just stayed. Comforted me. And that should’ve helped, right? That should’ve made things better.

But it didn’t.
It made it worse.

Because I don’t know how to receive that.
I don’t know how to be cared for without feeling like I owe someone for it.

I’ve never learned how to just… take comfort. I only know how to earn it, pay for it, or apologize for it. So the whole time she’s being kind, I’m sitting there drowning in guilt because my brain is convinced kindness is some kind of bill that’s going to come due.

And then I get home and see my mom.
And instantly I feel like I betrayed her by having a good time. Like I didn’t do enough for her today, like I should’ve given her more, helped more, been there more.
And the messed up part?
She’s the reason I cried in the first place.

She wasn’t a good mom — not intentionally, not maliciously, but the result is the same. She hurt me in ways she still doesn’t understand.
But I can’t hate her.
God, I wish I could sometimes — it would be simpler — but I can’t. She had her own hell. And somehow I ended up inheriting both hers and mine.

So yeah. The date was great until it wasn’t.
I was myself until suddenly I wasn’t.
And now all I can do is replay the moment like a broken record, wishing I handled it differently, wishing I didn’t fall apart, wishing I knew how to just exist without feeling guilty for every good thing.

But I don’t.
I don’t know how to do any of that.
I only know how to be the guy who feels bad for crying, bad for not crying sooner, bad for not doing enough, bad for wanting something for himself.

And that’s the part that stuck with me:
She was okay with it.
I wasn’t.

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im a guy So me and the girl im seeing have been sexually active for a while now, and there’s something I’m trying to address. I know it’s normal for women to have natural scents, but sometimes the fishy ..... gets a bit strong, and it affects me during intimacy. I mentioned it to her gently before, and it improved for a while, but recently it’s come back. Ladies, how can I bring this up again without making her feel insecure (without hurting her feelings)? Cuz recently its turning me off n im havin little to no desire, and I really want to address it in the kindest way possible.

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M 26 recently I’ve become so drawn to dominant women. All my videos i watch are about them nowadays and i liked it to much now couldn't even resist it. someone who’s comfortable taking the initiative and setting the tone. I’m trying to figure out how to actually communicate that to someone who embodies it. Is it normal??

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U guys I'm here stressing out and the reason is like I'm this year's remidial student and I haven't started studying yet ngl I studied hard for matric too anyway that's not the point point is if you were a remidial student last year and u passed tell me ur expriance and tips okayy

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Here is my vent or more like a confession. I am 29 yo now and this happened like 2 years ago. I met a girl online and she was very calm and introvert. But the more we know eachother the more we became close. And we started to speak literally turns out we are both into bdsm kind of stuff and she thought me a lots of stuff for 6 months straight. Until she leaves this country and our relationship end. But to this i miss her.

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24 Christian M,mn meselachu gbi wst new chigru yetefeterew.

# Sle genzeb bzu gd aysetegnim neber,

# keza after a while i found my self tebsh lay, then yejone gize demo ynoregnal(ping pong).

#Ena beka it wired my brain in some way that i want money and i want to hold it, or save it despite basic needs. Ena demoze mnamn kedme new plann maregew. Calculated yalhone spend makes me anxious.

#Ena ahun yalegn erasu mibekagn aymeslegnim. genzeb sinoregn confidence with happiness ysemagnal.

Enega bcah new ehe??

If yo guys having same issue, how did u cope up with it?

#MentalIllness #Adult #Agitation
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Hello everyone! I'm a 23-year-old girl, and I recently met a handsome guy. We've been talking for four months and have gone on two dates. We also see each other every day at work since we have the same job. He’s a really nice guy—caring and treats me well.

Before I got to know him, he had friends at work, but he told me that he doesn't talk to them anymore. He believes they might be saying negative things about him. Recently, he asked me what I talk about with them when it comes to him. I got really upset because I like him a lot, and it hurt that he thought I would say anything bad about him.

He mentioned that people see him as a player and immature, but he insists he isn’t like that. I don't understand why he's so concerned about what they might say since I haven't heard anything negative. I told him that if he doesn't trust me, maybe we should stop talking. Since then, we haven’t communicated. I really like him, and I'm unsure what to do next.

#Friendship #Relationship
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