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Gosh! I Never thought there where so many people with lots to say( lot's of vulnerable) things to say, shout out to people that created this community 🫡
Now its time I vent my Tale,
I'm pretty happy with my life.
I live moderately, grad in marketing, currently working a family business finally have a car life is good genuinely
But I am starting to realize that good isn't the same as "fulfilled" i realized that I don't have a social life
You see, it’s not that I can’t socialize. I can. I just move through the world in a different rhythm. My mind runs deeper, wider always drifting into meaning, nuance, spirit, a world beneath the surface. Most people float on lighter waters, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but it makes me feel like I’m built in a different dimension.
simply put i need friends real connections

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I need Advice on something
So it isnot cliche yehone ngr becha i just didn't see myself endezi ehonalewu beye so there is this friend that i have i known her around aune 4 years aune highschool andelay nebern we werenot that close highschool laye just classmates selenebern we just talked,joked around minam enam since we have a lot in common bedeb eyaweran nbr class wust ena kes kes eyalen we became friend but not that close so fast foward after 12 prom buhala we tallked even more in a slightly different way ena mehal laye she told me cinema enhid ngr ena i was like okay minam i was shocked endeza seteley gn you know yehe yale aydelem beye asbeku i thought bet mekemet deberoyal eyaleche nbr ena leza nw beye tewukut ena cinema heden (nth happned) we just chiled bet tolo sheyewat minam ena keza buhala more mawurat jemern ena remidal geba same class nebern minam yane mehal lay tinsh teraraken cuz of family issues enegar ena bezum mawurat akomen andade class egebalaewu yane enawuralen ena aune 2 year nen ena she is in the same uni as me 2 year ena aune we are talking again ena kebalefo even more mixed signal eyeseteche nw like late calls randomly,walk to her house ena bezu alu ena my friends make a move eyaluy nw she likes you gn i cant cuz we have different religions( i know i should have started with this mejemeryan laye sorry) i know if i made a move maybe we could be together gn ayekorem ena we wont last at some point yehe topic yenesal ena i have been trying to distance my self kesuwa cuz we have the same friend group ena guess she started to grow on me i realized this like balefo ena some guy tried to filrt ena ask her out ena i have to be honest liju kene belay yameral like ene erasu i am not goodlooking becha she said no yane ende des enda;ley tbh 😂 siteyekatm tinsh debroy nbr tbh yane nw yawekut i had feelings for her ena idk what to do aune gera eygebaye nw evertime i see her i cant help my self ena i cant go on like this forever min laderg Help me out please?

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I am very tired being addicted to porn vid Idk what to do I want to stop but always I found my self in it

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I have a question for the girls.
Don't u ever get scared of marriage or is it just me?
I feel like once I get married my life will be over and then I have to take care of someone else for the rest of my life. Then there will be children which you'll never sleep after having.

I've come from a very toxic family and my parents were never happy or supportive. Everyone around me is suffering from marriage. Is this just me?

If there's anyone married, I'd like to hear ur thoughts too.

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Im 32m, last time i vented in here, and gladly i met someone through it, she is beutiful with amazing character, but you know wt as soon as i met her(8-9 month ago) i landed the bigest project of my life, and it took my attention sadly i couldn't attend her fully and after 6-7 months she got tired of my busy ass. And also since i work in construction there was so many things to distract me and make me busy, and something happened in my work place and i got depressed and i couldn't be attentive as she was expecting, finaly what got me mad was she planned to get distant because i guess she didn't think it will work, although she used to love me a lot, she decided to detach and stop contacting me, i was angry,
one time i came to addis from site (which is not in addis) when i call she didn't pick, she later claimed it wasn't intentional but i got mad and texted her i wont call again, although i texted her one more time also called her, ...
Anyways i missed her,
Im still busy,
But i feel like I'm missing big
I feel like calling her is not an option,
Advice me what should i do

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This vent is for my girl ppl and for matured man only.

I have question I fall in love with a man who only have a problem with his emotions. What I mean is when he have financial, family crisis he run away he doesn't control his anger issues even he doesn't act well when we chat .... During the crisis he act like stranger. But I was planning to help him even financially. My problem is not helping him my problem is his acts during crisis it matter to me even after this Crisis he stop calling me babe .... He stop caring the way he used to and I feel like I have to stop pushing him to work on this relation so I just want to have space. Before the space I told him what I feel this days because am not a girl sit and wait for him to do something before telling him about my feeling figure things out and even I ask him to call me babe but he doesn't have a willing to do it and when I ask why he always tell me he is in crisis so this crisis doesn't allow him to have feeling to me or make him to call me like before he used to so I chose space. And i choose to breakup i don't have energy for speace. Now I need you to suggest me on the other view side about this situation on girl and mature man side.

Thank you 🙏

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Me and myself
Who would have thought a fall is  around the corner the moment you stop being watchful? a glimpse of reality is enough to shatter the 'illusion' we have. I never thought I would be back to my old self after I became better or lack thereof. I am questioning whether I was better or my mind decided to give me a break so that I can feel I am changed person? Well it is been 2 months since that delusion is shattered. I am writing this in state of the unknown , depressed?exhausted?or simply uninterested? I am not sure which is which right now. My mind avoids the hard things for sometime and the moment I sit to do it, everything falls away. I can't tear myself off the task until I get every inch of the task. But how can I if my mind keeps distracting me from doing it? No one , I mean NO ONE is sleep deprived as me. I wake up late so everyone thinks I slept through the night. My mind won't let me rest. I think a lot. I plan a lot. I ask questions. I fantasize. I see the fallouts. Potential risks. Everything my mind gets a touch on. And then it is suddenly 2:30am. I sleep without knowing. I drink coffee because what use does quitting  have if I am not sleeping anyway? The dark circles around my eyes, the tiredness is there. The spiritual void I keep trying to feel but the lack of consistency gets in the way. I am writing this as I keep trying to make sense of everything. Maybe everyone is struggling with something we don't know of. That they don't talk about. Lots of sadness covered with mask of indifference,smile ,anger , detachment. Deep down, we want someone to see us. Not in the conventional way of ' I see you, I support you ' thing. But more than that; we need understanding, empathy or maybe a hug because words are void nowadays. Real communication is expensive. It is not about avoiding to be yourself. Wanting someone who  understands and  be there is not too much to ask. But till then, I think we should keep going. Being with ourselves, figuring out things, experiencing life by ourselves is a way to go through.

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Guys help me out ur girl needs advice

So I've had this crush on my brother's best friend for long time now and idk what to do.
He's 6 years older than me (he's 28) and I fear he only sees me as his friend's lil sis
He's everything u can ask for.
Our parents are also pretty close and idk what they will about it
And when I see him I become too awkward and think will embarrass myself so I don't speak to him🤦‍♀. He's quite friendly and my mom really likes him. Well the whole family likes him a lot n they talk about him all the time... One of the reasons that made me like him even more. Yet I'm the only one who's not close with him.
They somehow got along really well when I was in gbi while I wasn't there.

And now he doesn't come that often and I don't see him that much. His dad on the other hand comes to our house sometimes and he's easier to talk to. I wish they set us up or sth.
Anyone with the same experience I wanna hear please

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endet nw le nggrachew maytenekeku sewochn tolerate mtadergut?mnm satnageruachew malef ychalal wey?sometimes beka kezi behuala mnm binageru zm nw mlew elna gn i can't.ena demo beminagerut ngr mknyat wste tlacha endayfeter feralew endet nw handle mtadergut????

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Selam endet nachu I'm 18F Alhamdulillah ene mnm allm zare yemetawt hasaben lagarachu new maserat mtchlu hasab mestet mchlu kegone mekom mchlu hulu kumulgn be hasabm bemchlut agzugn wendme yezare amet bereha lay motobgnal esu eyale enate ena ene anchenekm nebere esu karefe jemro enatem mgb atbelalgnm ke bet awetam fzzz blalech halafinet ene lay tetale gn ahun betam kebdognal eskezare yechalkutnm ken sram mnm mnm eyalku chyalew ahun gn enante fit metchalew mn larg hasab stugn bchayen negn

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23F

Okay so… I’ve literally never had a boyfriend 😭
I grew up with super strict parents, especially my mom. Like, I wasn’t even allowed to talk to guys unless they were family. She used to say stuff like “if you hang with boys, you’ll get pregnant” and I was a kid… so ofc I believed her 😅

Because of that, I just avoided guys completely. No friends, no crushes, nothing. And now… when a guy talks to me, I just… freeze or ignore them. Not even on purpose, it’s just how my brain works lol.

People always say I look serious or unapproachable… but the truth is I’m soft. I just don’t know how to show it 😔
And honestly… I do want a boyfriend now. I want someone I can actually trust, someone I can be myself with, someone who sees the me behind the serious face.

It’s like my heart wants it, but my brain is still stuck in all the fears from growing up. And yeah… it’s hard
So please advice me I don’t know what to do

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23M I was talking to this girl for a month and we meet on social media she's 19 i didn't know her in person until our first date and honestly ive seen some pics of her and she was good looking but in person bruh lela sew literally another person, i was shocked i was turned off immediately but i stayed we talked and i can tell that she's in to me she was happy and i was fighting with my thoughts so after the date she texted me and said she likes me mnamn but me i don't want to talk to her anymore and at the same time i don't want to hurt her feelings by gosting her
so how can i tell her that im not interested anymore?Additionally she have so many common things with my ex and that's not a good thing she reminds me of her my ex was beautiful tho

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አትለፉኝ plssss
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ከመጀመሪያው ለመጀመር ያህል ከልጁ ጋር አብረን ነው የተማርነው ከ 4-8 ክፍል ድረስ
ከዛ ወዲያ  የተለያየ ትምህርት ቤት ገባን ፍቅር ስለነበረን 9 ክፍል እያለን መንገድ ላይ አጊንቼው የምነግረው ነገር እንዳለ ነገርኩትና ተገናኘን ቀጠሮ ይዘን በዛ ስዓት ልጇች ስለነበርን አሁን ላይ አብረን መሆን አንችልም ትንሽ ከፍ እንበል ሲለኝ እሺ አልኩት ልጁ በመሀል ለትምህርት ወደ ሌላ ቦታ ሄደ ስልኩን ለማግኘት አፈላለኩት ላገኘው አልቻልኩም አመታት አለፉ እሱም አዲስ አበባ መጣ መንገድ ላይ ሲያየኝ እንኳን ሰላም አይለኝም ባላየ ነው የምንተላለፈው እኔ ደግሞ እግዚአብሔር የሰጠኝ መልክ አለኝ በዚህ መሀል ሴት ነኝ በዛ ላይ ብዙ ፈላጊዎች ነበሩኝ date አደርግ ነበር እንደማንኛዋም ሴት እድሌን እሞክር ነበር ከሁለት ሰዎች ጋርም relationship ነበረኝ ያው ሴት እንደመሆኔ የእድሜዬም ጉዳይ ያሳስበኛ but  still ድንግል ነኝ ምንም ግንኙነት አድርጌ አላውቅም የነበርኩበት relationship ሳይሳካ ቀረ የሁለቱም በዚህ መሀል ማለትም የ 3rd yr univ ተማሪ እያለሁ ስልኬን ከየት እንዳገኘው አላውቅም አወራኝ ከብዙ አመት በውሀላ ስለነበረ ገረመኝ ለምን አሁን መጣህ ስለው ቃልሽ ይዞኝ አለኝ መሀላችን ያላለቀ ፍቅር ስላለ ወድያው ፍቅሩ አገረሸብን እሱ ግን l relationship ዝግጁ አደለሁም ነበር የሚለኝ በግዜ ሂደት እያወራን ስንመጣ ወደ relationship ገባን በጣም ነው የማፈቅረው እሱም እንደዛው ግን ችግሩ የሚጀምረው እዚህ ጋር ነው እኔ ከዚህ በፊት relationship ውስጥ እንደነበርኩ አያውቅም ማለትም just date ብቻ ነው ያልኩት እሱ ደግሞ history ያላትን ሴት አልፈልግም ነው የሚለው ሁሌም እንደዚህ አድርገሽ አታውቂም አደል ማንም ነክቶሽ አያውቅም አደል እያለ ያሳቅቀኛል ባነሳብኝ ቁጥር ተጨንቄ ሞትኩኝ ማንም  ወንድ እጇን የያዛት ሴት እንኳን ብትሆን አልፈልግም ይለኛል ውስጤ በጣም ፀፀት ይሰማዋል ያውቅ ይሆን ከዚህ በፊት የነበረውን ነገር እናልኩ ሰውነቴ አለቀ በሰቀቀን ለምን አትነግሪውም እንዳትሉኝ ከነገርኩት ዞር ብሎም አያየኝም እና please ምን ላድርግ ሀሳባችሁን አካፍሉኝ

ያልነገርኳቹ ነገር እሱ የአሜሪካ process ነበረውና አልተሳካለትም ቢሳካለት ኖሮ እኔ ጋር አይመጣም ነበር በዛው ይሄድ ነበር

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I swear, being an intern in GynObs is a whole new level of madness. You walk into the ward and immediately get surrounded by shouting, random orders, and zero actual guidance. Seniors ask the dumbest, most pointless questions in the middle of chaos — questions no one would remember in real life. And the moment you don’t answer perfectly, they act like you’re lazy, clueless, or completely useless, as if we’re not the ones running around doing everything they don’t want to do.

They disappear when work actually gets real, then reappear just to point fingers and shout. Watching people who should be teaching act like their only job is to criticize is exhausting. Meanwhile, we’re surviving on no sleep, running on pure willpower, and holding the ward together.

Honestly, I don’t know why anyone would willingly join GynObs unless they’re completely sick in the head.

RIP for the unsaid words.

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I'm 24 years old female... I don't know ahun yemisemagnn smet endet endemgelts but I know one thing I hate me. Graduate adrge 2 amet yalesra ketkemetkugn buhala besnt yebeteseboche tselot sra agegnehu betam busy negn kesegno eske arb sra then weekend class. I thought sra matate bzu endasb yaregen gn sra yze after a few weeks I felt z same sheet I hate me I hate my body... Ene eko sewochn emekralehu aberetatalehu but I feel hallow in my inside... Lenesu mmekrewn lerase aladergm. Even I have got better salary lerase and yereba neger salaregbet drashun atefawalehu. Sra bota, taxi wst bcha every places I don't know how to defend my self beka slcht ylegnal lerase mekom I felt like unworthy. When I see my self in the mirror attract yemiyareg face endalegn gn sweta yemecheresha askeyami endehonkugn new misemagn
... Even pp admire my look I allways feel like they r mocking me. Bcha mot mot memot new mitayegn

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❤️My 6-Month Situationship: A Comedy, A Tragedy, A Full Mental Illness

Based on true emotional damage

So let me tell you all how my peaceful life ended.

I was on a bus, minding my business, a normal law student just trying to go home.
Then boom — a tall, handsome bus assistant appears like a romantic movie intro I did NOT ask for.

He was helping everyone, talking sweet, looking good…
Basically a walking distraction.

I even asked if he wanted my number, but he said:
“I already have your phone.”
Sorry??
Who are you? FBI? MI6? Ethiopian Sherlock Holmes???
Then I discovered this man asked my friend for my number —
So he liked me from DAY ONE.

We start texting.
He’s charming.
He’s funny.
He’s tall.
He’s handsome.
Basically: dangerous for my mental health.

Two months later, he begged to meet.
I didn’t want to — I swear — but he begged like he was about to cry.
So we met.

On the date, he admired EVERYTHING:
my eyes, my lips, my nails, my ass, my feet…
Like sir, calm down, I’m not a museum.

And still, we did NOTHING.
Not even a hug.
Because I wasn’t ready — and he accepted that.
(Iconic behavior, thank you.)

Then the plot twist came like a Netflix series:
He tells me…

“I have a girlfriend… but feelings for you too.”

Boy, be serious.
Be for real.
Pick a struggle.

He kept calling, texting, saying “I love you,” “I miss you,”
while having a whole girlfriend like a side character with speaking lines.

So I ended it.
I blocked him.
I threw away the key.

But this man?
He’s persistent like bad WiFi.
After one month he BEGS me to meet again.
I go.
We talk.
Again — nothing happened.
Not even a hug.

After the date he calls me like:
“I wish I kissed you… mnamn.”
Sir… why are you like this?

Now look at me.
Six months in this emotional chaos.
I don’t even know what we are —
Situationship?
Confusion-ship?
Mental-damage-ship?

And the worst part?
I’m supposed to be a LAW STUDENT.
Reading cases.
Studying.
Building my future.

But no.
I’m here crying over a man with a girlfriend who works on a bus.
God please, why me?

I’ve tried leaving.
Blocking.
Avoiding.
Ignoring.
Everything.
But somehow I still have feelings.
My heart is stupid and my brain is tired.

So please —
What should I do?
Do I block him again?
Do I run away?
Do I pray?
Or do I just drop out and let life finish me?

Because honestly…
This situationship has me fighting for my life.

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Is anyone here suffering from maladaptive daydreaming?
If you don't know what that is, it's basically when you're brain creates alternate realities in your head and you get so immersed that you detach from reality for some time. It typically happens due to abuse or trauma, where your brain tries to escape reality by using your imagination. In sever cases some ppl can spend hours of their day just daydreaming about what they want in their life. Money, fame, romantic relationships, anything they want.
I've been suffering from it for 6 years now and you might think it's not that bad but it's taking up hours of my day and i hate it. I'm not going through abuse or anything severe, my life is just so boring and lonely. I am at a time in my life where i need to lock in, but my brain drifts away for a moment and i wake up like hours later. Most times I'd need darkness or silence to daydream, I'd listen to songs to watch edits and I'd drift away immediately. I need this to stop. Please help me

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i have a problem if a girl have long hair pretty face and light skin i don't care if she's run through she could have 100 bodies for all i care my heart melt like butter infact am the type who wants those balege one's the most like someone who has experience and are open-minded am into alot of weird stuff and i know dis is not acceptable in our society but i can help it

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Would you believe me if I said my house is G+2 in Addis Ababa, but we are very poor? I'm not joking or anything; we are really struggling. If someone gets sick, we can't even pay for the bill. Is there anyone else like me?

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26M ,fresh graduate and working as General practitioner and lecturer in one university hospital.
Here is what am struggling with from very beginning.
Am kind of extroverted introvert but most of the girl I meet makes me disinterested after a couple of date .
Bicha am eager to find a partner but it isn't working yet

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The advice from guys who have already graduated is much appreciated.
Life was on the track until they told as to "ማዞር our መነሳንስ ከግራ ወደ ቀኝ". Then it was a dead end. We don't know where to go. We scatter. We run up and down for a job. The process took weeks for few. Months to years for some and eternity for the rest. Then we got a job and look back and there is a lot we have lost. We have lost the link to our friends, potential soul mates and a lot of people we were hanging out with. We start to work on a job that is too boring for our Millennial brain and now we don't have friends to hang out with. we don't have friends with same interest group who we can talk about ideas, books, movies or else. we don't have our dears. Then we try to revive some of our relationships from campus. It seems to go well until we understand that we are not on the same page anymore. How do you guys keep after graduation. Isn't it a lot of burden to feel detached? So now we have to hangout with people we have not much to talk about just because they are all we have, available? So now we have to get into serious relationship with some girl who we couldn't even have a long conversation if she was in campus back then just because we were too fool to expect things will just go fine after graduation? so now we have to get married to 'some one' instead of 'the one' just because we have to and the selection pool is so small? How do you guys handle this?

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