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I’m 23 and I’m beyond done pretending I fit into the soft gentle slow motion idea of intimacy everyone acts like is the default. I’ve never been built for that. I’m wired for intensity the kind of dynamic where you don’t have to hold back or shrink yourself to make the other person comfortable.
Every time someone hits me with the “just be normal” routine, its so fucking boring. I don’t want quiet, I don’t want delicate, and I don’t want a performance where we both pretend we’re enjoying something that feels like a lukewarm handshake. I want someone who actually likes things rough, who doesn’t flinch when things get real, who isn’t scared of a dynamic that requires trust and strength.
And yeah, finding that match is a nightmare. Most of the time it’s just the same safe, bland patterns, and I walk away feeling like I wasted my time. It’s frustrating being built for a level of intensity that most people just can’t or won’t meet.

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22F live in Adiss. I was in uni before, but I dropped out cause honestly I didn’t wanna waste all those years just sitting in class. I got dreams i wanna start my own business, learn and hustle at the same time.
But my dad ain’t with it 😩. He keeps saying I gotta graduate first, then he’ll give me money to start my business Like bruh, I don’t wanna wait that long. Time’s moving and I feel like I’m stuck.
I can’t even tell him how I really feel, cause I’m scared of him a bit. He’s strict, and when he says something, you just… say “okay.” So now I’m thinking about going to Dubai (ye madam kimem 👩‍🍳)just so I can do something with my life. I can’t keep waiting on him to decide my future. I just wanna start my bus😭 kene ytshalachu mikrachune ehtachu tishalech

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I'm 26 F
Im totally lost i mean in my dating life I'm kinda outdated I think. I was in long term relationship and then it failed after that I didn't date for a lot of months so recently when I try to connect with people idk how it works ngr and no one seems serious about this thing I mean I want a person that feels like home, supportive, who knows what he wants in life( is it too much to ask?). Ena the thing is what did I miss, how are you guys finding your person? Tell me the cheat code እድሜዬ እየገሰገሰ ነው😁

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I was wondering if it is only me but here is the thing. I was reviewing a book last night after a long procrastination and the ideas just kept flowing until I had to cut some of them or generalize. Then I wanted to share it to my friends but something just hit me there. Why? Is that because of the deep feeling to be approved ? Or is it a pure ' I reviewed a book' thing? I inclined towards the former and I realized that it is for a reason we are told to never seek the approval of others, because it makes you dependent on other people's views. Your entire mood will be determined based on how they respond. External validation is the new 'old' slavery. Maybe it might be weird but I started my analysis from the title of the book, the reason why the characters are named and how it connects to the story and then went to the main idea. Some people told me one I read too much on things. ' the book is Just the story of two people ' well the more I read, the more I realize it is beyond that. I always wondered why I am into books instead of movies. Tragedies and sufferings, Then I knew. I am into multi layered things. I appreciate things that stretches my imagination and the way I see things. I like complexities ,Nuances. Contradictions. It makes me alive for whatever reason. The idea of finding a subtext in books is what I long for. Maybe getting a glimpse of people's mind is addicting or the logic of the author is contestable you can't stop your self from criticizing. Either way, it is one of the ways to get close to ourselves through the mirror of another.

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So I'm shy (took a lot of energy to accept this btw), kind of an ambivert but becoming more and more introvert thanks to my social anxiety. Most of the time it's under control but mostly not and that's awkward like it really is and don't even know how to manage it. And I have many areas of life to stress over and don't wanna find myself thinking about dating and stuff but I'm here thanks to my conversions with my friends, social media and my own plans it seems unavoidable fr... I'm 21 and I don't feel the desperation to be in one but I wanna know how it feels like to be in the right, aligned and true kinda relationship obviously that could lead to marriage. And people kept saying if it doesn't happen now when? Don't get me wrong I understand this kinds of standards have theirs own costs and there's so called God's timing and actually I don't mind dying alone if I don't find the right person. I just need to adopt children and achieve other goals of mine. But the pressure of wanting someone truly present for you as you do for others is natural. Maybe that's why I feel this way and think that having your person is a blessing even if I have always been okay being by myself and don't usually felt lonely but I do now. Maybe it’s because the person I used to think I had (my bestie) isn't there anymore btw having atleast 1 person means a lot. I have people around me but still yk I'm not the type to open up easily and have deep connection with everyone. I stay autentic with them always and they're nice and it's a blessing to have them... I have other things to worry and this means nothing compared to them but wanna get this off my chest.

Thanks for your time 🤗

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Let's go so it's so funny and serious the funny part is ene ezih ga vent madrege the serious part degmo i need your advice new mibalew or something bcha yehone idea so there is a girl be edme like 7 or 8 year gap yalegn set ga yehone krrb tefetere ena me i like her ena tekerarbenal gn betam bzu difference ale ena now mn yidereg new wogen eski say something lindaw woys lakumew 😁😐😭

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I am a 22M and I have never been in a relationship. I have genuinely loved three different girls, but they all rejected me. Once, a girl liked me, but she wasn't the kind of person I was looking for.
I am a religious person and would like to marry traditionally (through Teklel), but I also want to have a girlfriend. Last year, I tried to start a relationship, but as the girl started to accept me, I backed off. I told myself I needed to focus on my finances and that it wasn't the right time for love.
My situation hasn't improved much since then. I'm working in my field and might change companies soon for a better salary. Although I still prioritize financial stability, I really want to find a good girl and have a relationship. I believe I am a sincere lover—I truly cared for those three girls. However, after the third rejection, I changed my mind. Now, I feel I shouldn't fall in love unless I feel a real, mutual connection from the girl first.
My biggest struggle is a long-standing pornography addiction, which started around 9th or 10th grade and has become severe. For some time, I was masturbating regularly, and now I watch explicit categories that disrespect women. I don't want this to continue to affect my mind. I want to stop and try to change my mindset gradually because of my porn addiction.
Can anyone relate or offer advice?

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Lately I’ve been wondering why it’s so hard to have a calm and mature conversation with many women I meet. I’m 27, confident, hard-working, and very clear about what I want in life. I’m also someone who listens, communicates openly, and respects boundaries. If someone is not interested, I appreciate honesty. I don’t rush intimacy and I value meaningful connection. Even things like kissing can wait until marriage if that’s important to her.
What I’ve noticed is that some women actual most of them become anxious or avoidant the moment a deeper or more serious conversation comes up. I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature and genuinely wants a real relationship, not someone chasing attention or temporary excitement. It’s starting to feel tiring, and I’m just trying to understand why this has become so common.

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I need to vent before my brain resigns too.
It’s been a whole YEAR since I graduated in Economics.
Do you know how wild that is?
I literally spent my entire childhood, teenage years, and early adulthood studying…
Just to end up with a salary that couldn’t even afford a proper mental breakdown snack.

I worked as an accountant for one year.
And honestly, the work wasn’t the problem…
It was the salary.
My salary was so small, it used to whisper to me, ‘Just manage.’
I swear the moment I receive my salary the moment I start laughing like a mad person because…
What is this?
Pocket money?
Side dish?
Salary or charity donation?
So I left.
Because no way I was fighting with Excel while getting paid like an intern attached by mistake.
Now I’m in my Confusion Era like genuinely confused.
I wake up every morning like:
‘Okay God, what’s today? Career? Business? Crying? Starting a new life in another country?’
Some mornings I stand in the mirror like,
‘Girl… what exactly do you DO? What is your profession right now? Because I don’t know.

I used to think life after graduation would be so easy:
Graduate and Get a job and Live luxury and Be that girl.
But the truth slapped me like:
Graduate and Get confused and Get underpaid and Lose direction and Laugh through the pain and Repeat.

And here’s the part I’m confessing:
Sometimes I ask myself if I’m the only one who doesn’t know what to do.
Like everyone else seems to have a plan — except me.
But then I remember…
Half of us are just pretending we know what’s going on.
I’m not lost-lost…
I’m just buffering.
Still trying to load: ‘What should I do now?’
Still trying to update my life.
Still waiting for the soft life I was promised.

This is my confession…
Funny, yes.
But also very real.. please tell me am not the only one

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Am i the only one who is feeling it ?a universal dystopian police state is upon us ...my brain keeps talking to me ...I am a severly depressed,unemployed man not knowing what to do with my life...sometimes,I feel very much disgusted with my fucking life...what is the point of living really ???doing the same shit over and over again...sleeping getting up walking,smiling as if there is something to smile about ...what is the cuntish point ...is suicide the answer ?maybe...am I being weak...maybe ...We suffer just by existing ...when writing this thread...I am holding a big middle finger up towards the sky...fuck what the ever the fuck has created me...that moloi cunt must have considered not bringing me to existence ...bedatam

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hey yall
sometimes life feels heavy in a quiet way and I still walk through it with a soft heart and a tired smile and Alhamdulilah for the strength that keeps me going even when things feel too much
I been through things that changed me and taught me that life cant be always shiny and perfect and sometimes it is just slow steps small wins quiet prayers and learning myself again
I am still finding my way still learning still growing still trying to become better in my own pace
I want something warm and kind in life something real something peaceful and I believe it will come at the right time and it can come for u too
ur heart deserves gentle days
ur soul deserves softness
ur future deserves light
and I know it gets overwhelming and sometimes it feels like ur carrying too much but look at u still moving still trying still surviving storms u thought would break u
u thought u gonna end with that person or u thought u would work with who u were with or u didnt think of losing ur loved ones or u thought life would go ur way but ur Lord wrote a better end okay
life will not always be bright but it will not always be dark either
better days are coming for both of us
warm hug from me to u

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I need ur help guys
I met him when we were remedial n we were in the same class n am introvert n he is extrovert but after sometimes we started to talk then he dm me then told me about his feelings n it was really fast n i didn't have that kind of feelings for him so i turned him down but he has been begging me since that yr to now (we r in freshman now) n i told him i had bf to make him stop talking to me but he said he wants to be my friend but i said no cuz i dont want him to expect sth like love from me n in return it will hurt him but he still didn't stop so i said ur annoying me n he stopped but after we came back to uni (mind u this was back when we were remedials) we would have eye contact most of the time one time we just looked at each other unexpectedly n i felt a sharp pain in my heart n quickly turned away (both of us tho ) n i would meet him everywhere i go cuz the uni is small then he started texting again saying he still likes me mnamn i can tell that he really likes me but i dont want to be in relationship so i talked to him for few days n then told him he shouldn't expect sth new from me n should move on  n find another girl but he still texted me back after that then i stopped talking to him n the problem started now i cant seem to get him out of my mind every day i would think about how different it would have went if we were couple mnamn , my heart burns if i think about him also if we have eye contact i would feel sudden pain in my heart mnamn... n i also find myself thinking about him subconsciously
Pls guys help me out do i love him and did i do right thing when i stopped talking to him ?

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ይሄን ማድረጌን ማመን አልቻልኩም ለዚህ ሁሉ ያበቃኝ fapping ነው ይሄን የተረገመ ነገር ያወኩበት ቀን የተረገመ ይሁን፤ ኧረ ዋናው ምን ሆነና porn የተባለ የተረገመ ይሁን እሱን ያየሁበት ቀን የተረገመ ይሁን፤ ግን እኮ ልጅ ነበርኩ ክፉና ደጉን እንኳን የማለይ፤ ጓደኛየን መርገምም ሆነ መውቀስ አልፈልግም ምክንያቱም እሱም ለራሱም የማያውቅ ነበር ብቻ ያሳዝናል ለምን ግን ፈጣሪ የኔን ትውልድ በጣም ከባድ ፈተና ላይ ጣለን? ለምን? ቤተሰቦቻችን እንኳን ነግረናቸው ሊረዱን ቀርቶ😥😥(የአብዛኞቻችን)

አሁን ደሞ ብዬ ብዬ ሴተኛ አዳሪ ጋር ሄድኩ😫😫😫 እስካሁን ማመን አልቻልኩም፤ በህይወቴ እንደዚህ ደረጃ የመዝቀጥ ስሜት ተሰምቶኝ አያውቅም የዛኛው ሳያንሰኝ ወይኔ

እንዲህ አልነበርኩም ነበር እኮ በጣም ንፁህ የዋህ ተጫዋች ቦራቂ ደስተኛ ፈጣሪውን የሚወድና የሚፈራ ነበርኩ😭😭😭😭 ታገልኩ ታገልኩ ግን አልቻልኩም ከእያንዳንዱ ያ የተረገመ ነገር በዃላ ስቅስቅ ብዬ አለቅስ ነበር በእያንዳንዱ ማታ ግን ፈጣሪ ዝም አለኝ 😭😭😭 አሁን ደሞ ጭራሽ hoe ወይኔኔኔ አሁንስ ተስፋዬ ማነው እሺ በቃ የሆነ ሀይል በግድ እያዳፋ ነው የሚወስደኝ ከዛ ለራሴ ትቶኝ ይሄዳል ከዛ የገዛ ራሴ ለራሴ ጠላት ይሆናል ከዛ እንደገና አዙሪት.... እስከ ቅርብ ጊዜ ድረስ ሰዎች ስለ ራሰ ማጥፋት ሲያወሩ ይገርመኝ ነበር አሁን ግን ገባኝ ኡፍፍፍ ደከመኝ ወገኖቼ የምር ደከመኝ፤ ብቻ በፀሎታችሁ አስቡኝ እንጂ እኔ አብቅቶልኛል ምንም ተስፋ አይታየኝም😣😣😣🙏🙏🙏

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hey u guys this might sound silly but its kinda bothering me so a lot of people tell I'm attractive like random strangers both boys and girls but the problem is that nobody actually approaches me like for dating and stuff when i come think of it even in friendship I'm not really close with them (i don't even have numbers of some people i call friend )I'm 20 i wanna have fun date people mnamen I'm not doing none of that so am i the problem or is there something else

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Hey 22M

So here's the thing, I kinda spent the past few years telling myself am not gonna date unless it's someone I picture myself going the distance with, but what this has resulted in is me staying single for a few years and i basically lost all the ability i had to talk to girls, but recently some of my friends kinda convinced me to try and put myself out there again because "you can spend the rest of your life alone waiting for a girl that might never come"... so now I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, I dont wanna stay single... but I also don't wanna be in the typa "relationships" half the ppl my age are in its just to damn immature, the hell do I do

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Hey, I am 17 and currently I have a crush on a girl who doesn't even correctly know me. We were on the same class last year and I had this crush for almost a year. On exam also we worked together but after that I was assuming we will be a little bit friends but as I saw and understand she tries to ignore. Even though we had eye contacts wherever we just passed by each other she immediately look to other direction.

Ena guys pls help me I am dying b/c of this

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Hi, I’m a 25-year-old woman. I recently met a guy who I find physically attractive and who I can see as a potential husband. We connected on Telegram, and he reached out to me first. We talked a lot, and he expressed that he’s physically attracted to me and hopes to marry me in the future. He even said he loves me, which feels quite fast since we’ve only been talking for about two months.

I’m really drawn to him and told him I like him too. However, since yesterday, he hasn’t been replying to my messages quickly or calling me. I’m worried and unsure about what’s going on. Could you help me understand if he’s the right guy for me?

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Hi! I am a 21-year-old female going to a christian university in the us. i became a christian 1 year and a couple of months ago and its been one hell of a journey. right as i got saved i broke free from some things i was addicted to such as masturbation, listening to secular music and reading smut. a few months after accepting Jesus Christ as my lord and savor i gave up my phone and started using those old school flip phones because i just felt like my phone was nothing more than distraction for the year that i was going to have. since i was still in high school during this time it was relatively easier to give up my phone. during this time of being phoneless i dove into my bible and grew really close to God. however, there were a lot of things trying to distract me, one of which was a guy who messed me up to a certain degree. throughout that year I got into a total of 2 relationships, 1 situationship, 2 infidelities, i lost a friend, got accepted to the college that i go to now, wrote my national exam, made friends, cut off friends and learned a great life lessons.
that was just a summary of my life.
right now I'm in a great relationship, gotten some really great friends, felt farther from God than i have ever felt, and lost my virginity to my current bf.
I am so grateful for my life but i hate my life. I miss God. I miss my family. I miss being free. I miss being at peace. I miss my church community. I miss the support system i left. you might be thinking "don't you go to a christian school?" I do and i think that is the problem. dear reader when i tell you this i mean it with everything in me, preformative christians might just be worse than satantists. these preformative christians are absolutely filthy. Paul tells us to be open to eachother about things we are struggling with and trust me i have tried to be open to these people but all i got was judgmental eyes and gossip behind my back. i genuinely hate whatever is going on with most of the christians in my school. it is absolutely sad to see people put bible verses in the instagram and to find out that they are dl messing with people in their girl groups.
don't get me wrong, i'm a sinner and i have done things i am not proud of and said things i am not proud of but it is so draining and destroying when people say things like "oh pastor so and so, weren't you doing this and this a month ago?" and then they treat you like you're literally Jesus Christ who never fails, who never says a bad word, who never gets annoyed, who loves all. like geniuenly wtf are we saying. its so fucking retarded to hear people downplay whatever you have to say because they know of some times you have genuinely failed at. its so sad. im not saying i want to be treated as an official but whats the point of making fun of people who are just trying to get back on track?
all this is to say, i don't know what to do. I love my friend group and i love my boyfriend but neither of these are pushing me closer to God but rather they are pulling me away from him. losing my virginity to my bf wasn't supposed to happen but it did and ever since then I have been careless about having sex with him and because of that I feel like I'm a whole planet away from God because I know what the word says about those who know the word and keep on sinning. because of that I feel way too guilty to turn to Jesus, i feel way too dirty. how many times will i fail and nag Jesus for help? what a burden this life is.

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mejemria lay yafekrkgn meslogn lemafker eymokerku nebr yehone seat lay endematafkrgn gebagn....,keziya behula melkamnth,tru gudegneth new yemitaygn enem tru lemhon new mmokrewu.... iwunetun sngrh tfkrgnaleh bye alasbm...enem endezawu gn betam iwedhalehu balatah des ylegnal. my gf sent me this and i say ok and know eshi i didn't mine like zate , i dont know wt to say i lose interest in her , any advice u guys tell me , thanks for your time

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really I don't wanna die but everything around me is falling apart I'm not doing well at uni my mental is getting worse day by day no job no friends betrayed by people I trusted and know all I really think about is ending my self the only person I have in my life rn is my mom and can someone please help me help ur brother out I don't think I can hold it any longer if some one whose a  therapist please contact me

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I am 26 m and I don't know why people assume I am some kind of susegna person (but I don't smoke or drink alcohol )
Recently One of my friends girlfriend asked to go out to night club with her and she even said she had weed minamin I was shocked cause I didn't know she do all this stuff and to your surprise neither my friend
So should I tell him
Please help me out

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