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I want to vent out something. I am writing this after see a vent about hate for Oromo.

I am not Oromo. But my parents are Oromo. Since I didn't grow up with them and I live in addis.
1. I don't want to express about my family ethnicity background.
2. I joined campus at Jimma. Most of the oromo were hate us. And most of addis guys were targeted from both Amhara and oromo groups.
3. Once upon a time I spent a wedding ceremony with my parents and my  father song a song in oromifa as they told me the translation is
'' ኦሮሞ ታላቅ ነው:
  አማራ ታናሽ ነው:
  ትግሬን በገለባ ማቃጠል ነው። ''
the moment i heard it my heart was broken. I have been consider him as a modern. I have been try to understand that not all ppl are racist and the ppls are so kind. But after the ceremony my assumption changed.
4. When I was a campus, they(father and neighbors ) had been try to advice me that word by word "ኦሮሞ ዘረኛ ነው። ''  it was also another shock and I related with the previous one and I decided that I won't be part of any ethnic group any more.
5. I had been travel to different part of the country. So when I pass the border of oromiya the feeling and peace I felt ☮️...you have no any Idea.
6. With this all I feel sad for the oromo peoples.
7. At campus I tried to discus with one of qero guy and he had no any clue about history and most of them hate to read books and only follow blind activist. ከምር ያሳዝናል።

8. stupidity done on addis ppl, Irecha, language and promoting the culture by government budget yawim be gideta... ....and so.
Am only say my perspective I don't want to generalized. Because it is not research. I think not only Oromo but also Amhara , Tigre, other's also have racism problems.
Currently I am only focus on Humanity and Christianity.

One last thing...our generation is suffered due to racism. I felt so sad for my generation. This all mess is coming from the last generation(60th).

Any way
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So the thing is lately ezi channel lay Yalu ventochn banebebku kutr I started to realize how much grateful and blessed am I. I’ve seen lots of vents about relationships, family and financial issues. Ena le hulachum bezi seat suffer eyaregachu lalachu sewoch (specially financially) experiencen Share largachu.

So 2 years back I was freshman in university ena I was just learning betesebochen lemasdeset ena bzu sewochn say demo skill enji degree mesebseb matter endemayaderg yawekubet gize nebere. Plus kebet beye weru or samntu birr maslak betam shame yasizegn ena ydebregn neber (I’m from middle class family btw) so I decided and started to learn short term courses online like Graphics designing, Digital marketing and video editing tera betera ena be mejemeriyaw 3 wer digital Marketingun temre kecheresku buhala yetemarkubet tmhrt bet sram yasketren nebere ena wediyaw lehone Restaurant social media manager Argo asketeregn mind u video mkersew part time nber kdame ena Ehud social mediachewn gn beyekenu active mareg neberebgn w/c is easy beslke slenebere ena Arif genzeb make mareg jemerku kes eyalku tmhrt betum eyeredagn berasem yetelayayu freelancing srawochn maggnet jemerku.rn ke gbi drop out adrge ye gl eyetemarku be sraye bewer keteleyayu drjtoch bewer biyans 70-80k make adergalew betesebochenm mastedadrew ene negn ena the moral of story mndnew meselachu betachalachu akm begize yerasachun skill adabru or temaru ke tmhrtachum gon le gon bihon ena beterefe tselyu egziabher talak amlak new yeteyeknew legna kalew aynesanm.
Lelaw neger demo niggas around here mnm bihon financial stability saynorachu relationship wst atgbu👍🏼.

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Am a female. Early twenties and i live abroad. Am not a very sociable person. I mean i want too but am very introverted person in a sense of making friends and connections. I only have one friend he is a guy. And these days am kinda pushing away myself from him because I thought he was doing the same so i tried to do it first because i didn’t want to get hurt by my only friend. And now am thinking abt my life since high school all of my friendships were seasonal and i started to think if am the problem. The thing is that whenever am talking to peoples i dont have a lot to say i just sit and listen. Its not because i dont want to say but i just dont have anything to comment or make a joke or anything am just simply a self aware person so i dont engage my self in to conversation and i know that this might be the reason that i dont have friends. So I want to ask you guys what should i do? Like how can be a chat able person. I swear am a cool person like but i just dont know why. I go to the same function as others and others end up being friends and i end up isolating my self. I think this is beshta anyways would appreciate if u help ur girl out.

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M 24 i always feels like girls don't need me idk why but am not ugly gn beka they do not want me why gera slegebage new ex nberchige yetleyaynew bemayrba nger new let me l..k ur p beyat enbi belage new yetleyaynew😭😭😭😂bcha i wanna know girls mn telalachu

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Hey this is for people who can maintain a relationship bka your lover enanten bcha endil madreg mitchilu sewoch awarugn, i have girlfriend legizew tru lay nen gn beziw keketele i have a feeling things could go sideways ena ene demo i really love this girl and it would suck if i lose her.(yetlk sew mkr nw mifelgew) here's my at 👉 betterdays134

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hello this is my first time venting and I really need your help so I got married almost few months ago and at first I was so in love I'm still in love but I'm shocked because of the things that I know about him now and I didn't know about him back then when we first start dating and stuff and at first I thought like he was you know An Angel like he didn't know anything and I mean I asked about his past and he told me that he had an ex that's it no touching nothing like he's a Muslim so nothing and stuff but now after we got married I knew that he had something other than his ex like kiss and touched and did stuff with other girls like one girl actually and kissed another I know it's his past like he saying it's my past and I didn't know how to tell you when it's not worth telling it didn't mean anything I regretted it back then it was when I was in Campus and stuff he said that but it's still stuck in my head like I feel violated because I didn't know and I asked him but then he didn't tell me and now I know after we got married and he's a really good guy don't get me wrong he's a really good guy I love him and he loves me he understands me other than that he's perfect but now I mean how can I change my perspective of him like I said he was an angel like I thought of him like that but now when I know what he did in the past I don't know it's just shocking what is killing me the most is that he's my first for everything and knowing that i I'm not his first is making me sick I don't know I tend to overthink guys how can i forget what he did. he just did stuff you know not sex though I don't know please help me it's in my head for over a month and I can’t be happy I can't forget about what he did I tend to visualise what he did and I get sick I'm I know it's his past like it's his past what's wrong with me but I don't know what to do I really need your help please
Am I exaggerating am i being dramatic
Boys Does being your first mean something
Or being loved and choosed to live for the rest of your life matters which matters most

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I am a guy mid twenties have a decent job and the thing is I had a couple of girlfriends Ena ahun those who understand me betam (I love that part). Ena ahun lay I am became a guy who don’t tolerate any bs , yehone Yeteleye tsebay Kate hubs hew I am gone , literally cut new marrgachew. I don’t think it is Normal to disappear just like that Ena yihe neger tikikl new weys am I losing my way.

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26F, never been in a relationship before (yeah, I’m serious 🧐). I block every chance, even when I have feelings for someone. I’ve lost a lot of great guys ones I now regret when I think about them. Like, why was I acting like that? They were so good to me, the kind of men other women dream of. Who did I think I was?

The worst part? My surroundings think I have some psychological problem with men because of this (actually, I do have some child trauma). I was raped by my neighbor when I was around 10. No one knows this story, not even my family. he probably thinks I forgot. Stupid dude. I have also some insecurity in my body ( i will mention this at last) But I don’t think those are my problems . I don’t even know what my problem is. I just shut down every path that might make me fall for someone.

I assume romance is a sin 😁—calling each other babe, talking on the phone for an hour, wondering what he’s doing when we’re apart, replaying our last conversation instead of sleeping… Am I even capable of doing all that at this age? I don’t think so. I have a lot of things to do.

But here’s the thing—I do want to get married. I just don’t want the whole dating process. I want a marriage where two sweet young people meet and get married within a month. But I don’t want an arranged marriage either. I want something real, just… fast.

And no, I don’t want to meet my guy online, so don’t ask for my ID. I just need a little advice—is this even possible? Is there a man, even if he’s in his late 20s, who hates wasting time on dating and just wants to get married as soon as possible?
Last but not least, is there a man out there who wants to marry a pretty tall girl—around 1.78m? (Yes, that’s me 😔🤣). Be honest—do I have a chance at marriage, or should I just embrace my sweet single life forever?
Ena l only want advice from mature men and women. With all due respect, if you’re in your early twenties or a teenager, just keep your opinions to yourself—I honestly don’t even know why you’re here. Maybe the admin should consider classifying the group by age.

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I think I’m a little spoiled, maybe a little too soft. Here I am, on the edge of tears, feeling like my heart hasn’t quite learned the lessons life is trying to teach. I’ve always been this way.so full of emotions, so easily touched, yet unsure of why I feel so heavy. There’s something inside me, quietly growing, but I don’t know how to embrace it. I see others...people with children and so little...and still, they find ways to smile. But here I am, so alone, tangled in my emotions, unable to rise above my own struggles.
I hate pretending to be something I’m not. I hate trying to connect when everything inside of me feels so tired. I’m so tired, but no one knows. I don’t even feel God’s presence anymore, so I stopped going to church. the onlt time i go to church is when the sadness becomes too much to bear, when I can’t hold it in any longer, I go to cry...because it’s the only place where I feel safe enough to let the tears fall.
I used to be the kind of person who could forget everything with just a small joy....a piece of cake, a silly little thing. But now there’s an ache in my heart that nothing can fill, no matter how much I try to distract myself.
The only reason I’m still here is because I’m not dead yet,btmm hmem slmfera And in my silly little way, I think maybe, just maybe, if I work hard enough, I can make my parents rich, as if that would make everything better. I’ve always been unlucky. When life needs luck, I can feel it slipping away from me. At school, and even now at work, I can do everything perfectly for 29 days, but the one time I make a mistake, everyone notices. I’m that girl,the one who gets lost in the small failures. I used to ignore it, trying to create my own luck, but now I question everything. Do I not have God’s favor? Am I not His daughter too? Why does He seem to bless others but not me?

And yet, I am thankful. Thankful that I’m not disabled, that I can eat, that my family is healthy, and that people...especially children...tell me I’m beautiful. They see something in me that I sometimes forget is there. I connect with them more than with anyone else, maybe because they don’t expect me to be anything other than myself.

I am like a little person, my emotions dancing on my face for all to see. I can be so easily made happy by the tiniest of things, but just as easily brought to tears by the smallest ache. I don’t want to keep living like this. My will is so broken, and if anyone has ever felt like this and found a way to rise again, please, tell me how you did it

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I am male 20 I want to share my story mn meselachu i failed matric 2015 lay ena 2016 remedial private college eyetemarku neber keza tamemku type 1diabetes(ስኳር ) alugn fetenam ameletgn wedeku bzu neger  atahugn gobez negn gn alchalkum ena hulum mihonew tena sinor nw ena atamaru temesgen malet alebn

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Guys so basically my mom saw a pic of me and my talking stage kissing video as you all know its shes ye Ethiopia mom uk but she actually wasn’t mad mad bro but still me personally i embarrassed asf cause i respect my mom and i literally didn’t want her to ser that on top of that i have been working aaaaaaaa lot to gain her trust back and i dont want to lose it like that bekelalu bro like damn tf i mean she just said dont do it again shes a really nice mom btw but still sleachu is it that big of deal should i be worried ab it i mean i never did she other than kissing but i have been kissing guys since i was 15 or smt ena like idk man and my grades kinda dropping minamen and all ena am genuinely worried ab her opinion i gained her trust back man

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Hey Y'all here is my story so i've a best friend we met in highschool know we both are Gc in DBU our friendship lasted almost 9yr. She was such a good friend. Our families became friends because of our friendship. Ena the main thing is i started to notice red flags on her. 1. She is always comparing herself with me befit this much care aladrgim nber ahun gn beza betam every single thing compare tadrgalch
2. One day when we were talking on the phone suddenly she started talking about my ex ena she said when we were together she wanted him to be with her wna she was daydreaming about him like abrew bihonu min aynt relationship endminorachw
3. When something good happens in my life she tries to matatal that's not good eko mnamn eyalch
So guys what should I do???? Should i cut her off from my life or continue our friendship
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I don’t even know why I’m writing this. Maybe just to get it out of my head. I feel so alone. I have boyfriend but still I feel empty inside because everyone around me have their own expectation toward me so I don't feel like anyone's really want see true side of me

I try to pretend I’m okay, but the truth is I’m really exhausted. And lately, I’ve been thinking… maybe it would be easier if I just disappeared. Not that anyone would care. maybe my (mom's)

Every day feels the same, I see other people with goals, dreams, people who love them, and I have… nothing.

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One day, I prayed like I had never prayed before. Do you know why? Because I had given up on my life. My only hope was God, but I doubted His existence. I thought to myself, If He really exists, He wouldn’t even care about me. But still, I prayed.

It was 2004, Sene 30. I told God that if He could change my life once and for all, I would give everything I have for His sake—and I meant it from the bottom of my heart. I remember that day clearly. I was crying earnestly, desperate for the touch of God. I asked Jesus to come into my heart. I had tried everything to satisfy the hunger of my soul, but nothing gave me the peace and satisfaction I longed for. This was the one thing I had never tried. So, I invited Jesus into my life.

I didn’t want to be like those people who only call on God in their darkest hour. I wanted Him every single day. I longed for a relationship with the Creator of my soul.

When I finished my prayer, I had no idea that this moment would be the turning point of my life. As I opened the door of my room to walk outside, something unexpected happened. To my surprise, I felt a peace I had never known before. The rest was history.

The peace was so deep that even if someone had pointed a gun at my head, they couldn’t take it away. I asked myself, What is this? Is this real? I was calm. I was at peace.

Right after that day, I began to see a difference in my life. I started to pray, and I spent most of my days reading the Word of God. No one told me to do this, but there was an urge in my heart to pray and seek God’s face—and I enjoyed it. Before this experience, prayer and reading the Bible seemed boring to me, but now, it felt like I couldn’t live without it.

I stopped hanging out with my old friends. They saw the change in me, but they didn’t embrace it. Little did I know that this was only the beginning of something much greater.

One day, I was sitting on the couch, watching a man of God preach on TV. He said, Those of you who want to receive the Holy Spirit, raise your hands. This was new to me. I had always thought of the Holy Spirit as something unexplainable—I didn’t know He had a personality, just like Jesus. You see, you can’t fully understand Jesus without the Holy Spirit. He is the one who gives life to our dead spirit.

Let me go back to my experience.

I raised my hand—and something unexplainable happened. To this day, I don’t know if I saw Jesus or an angel, but a figure appeared right in front of me. He was covered in light. I stood in awe. My body became weak, and I couldn’t stand. I collapsed on the floor.

I know this is hard to believe, so let me tell you where I come from. I didn’t believe in these kinds of experiences. To me, they were myths. But today, I know they are real—because I have experienced them.

After that supernatural encounter, the figure disappeared before my eyes. Then, I felt fire inside me. Joy unspeakable filled my heart. I felt a joy I had never known. I said to myself, This is what I have been searching for my whole life.

From that day, everything about life became supernatural. For the first time, I felt loved. God was truly touching me. That experience kept me going.

But then, the devil showed up. I knew I had been a prisoner in his hands, and he didn’t want to let me go. He threw everything he had at me. There were paranormal attacks that I can’t even describe.

To make a long story short, by the grace of God, I overcame the schemes of the enemy.

After meeting Jesus, my life was never the same. I have come to the conclusion that Jesus is all-powerful and the only one capable of changing a person’s life. He changed mine completely.

Today, when I look back at my old life, I have no regrets about my decision to follow Christ. One touch from God can change your life forever.

God is not far away—He is closer to us than we think.

I hope my testimony speaks to you in some way.

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Endet nachu bf neberegn ena bemalawkew mknyat zegagn enem demo laweraw beye betam feraw awrchew zm beley sew alhonm beye zmtan meretku keza after 1 month he reply my story he said endet nesh mnamn ena aweran ena teyekut ena balemenageru sry blo hiwot endekebedew family case ena lelochm bzu ngr lerasum mehon machlbet geze ley endehone negeregn akalew bzu meyaschenkut ngeroch endalu gn bcha metwedutn sew begetemachu chger mknyat metewu lek nw?esti ngerugn

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Hey guys endet nechu I'm m 20 ena lijoch eyalen yehoch lij neberch nefsua ymarewu ena betam neber mwedat endemwedat demo manm aywukm neber ena wendmua demo koltafa neber wendmua gar ahunm ders agegnwalehu ena esu sayewu esua tz telegnalech simeslegn gn eskahun single lemehoe mknyat esua nat bye new masbewu yemr new mlachu asefawu ke momotu ke hulet ken befit tz blagn betam neber yalkeskut keza demo ke hulet ken behuala demo asfawu mote beka hiwet endezih nech ahun lay life betam eyazagechgn new ena eski yehone yhone neger beleugn please

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I went to therapy for depression & It was the best decision of my life.

All my life I thought mental health issues where never a serious issue and a scapegoat for being weak and lazy and I continued to ignore it until i couldn't. See my life all of a sudden became perfect graduated with distinction in engineering accepted into pilot school, fam got crazy rich with money lasting generations, 10/10 girls flocking in my direction you name it. I thought I would feel great and to my surprise I still felt down, empty inside, inferior to others & unworthy. I started to wonder, what am I missing? why I'm feeling this way? and I couldn't pinpoint where this feeling came from until I met my therapist.

Where we started Deconstructing every aspect of my life starting with childhood one by one from kg up to G12
It turns out my childhood affected me more than I could ever imagine. I was bullied for being ፈሪ, the big boys taking my lunch, and even my close friends betraying me because i was humiliated by everyone never stood up for myself, excluded from sports like football, basketball because i was bad at sports and never had a normal childhood like everyone being the ostracized kid which greatly contributed to my Depression that I didn't know the source of.
Like my typical afternoon ውሎ after school was having elevated anxiety level living on fight or flight mode overthinking about the conversation I had with people and staring into the ceiling in 5th grade while my peers were playing having the time of their life back then. what a sad childhood😔

The point is maybe you're miserable now, because a certain group of people you have met early in your formative years brainwashed you to feel inadequate, unworthy which is still affecting you to this day.

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Please be humble while reading this cos maybe some of you can think that this can't be a problem but it is big problem for me as a girl I really wanted to proud my dad I was good in school but when I go to university my grade wasn't good as I worked hard for it bicha second semester field mrca lay all I wanted was to join medicine keza kewerede degmo other health mnamn gn yederesegn pre-eng. nbr ena my father disappointed betam because he didn't expect it ena esun slasdeberkut enem keftognal betam wuxete arif endeneber new ene maqew endet esu endederegn alaqm bicha tesfa yemequret caf lay negn specially leloch sle eng.miweru negerochin sisema bexam new midebregn beqa kezi wexche mndnw mihonew biye asibna andand sew Leset eko memar bicha beqi new yilalu gn lane memar sayhon independent hogne abaten proud madreg new lane tlqu success .
Highschool lay kale guadegna tmrten guadegna arge nbr yemexahut ena do I really deserve this? Bye erasen mexeyeq honoal sraye bzu yisemagnal gn mawxat alchalkum sorry betam arezemkut share lemareg new yemisemagnin thank you🥰

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So my problem is I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and a year ago i got this job and people tell me I'm a sociable person so i get along with everyone. But at my workplace i met two diffrent girls and i fell in love with both of them. This might sound like bullshit but it's true. And i found myself trapped between 3 girls right now. Lately I've been distant from people and hate my job my working environment. I feel like shit all the time. I mean it's not my fault aydel falling for the girls? Is it? I blame myself for it cause endet girlfriend eyalegn eyewededkuat how can this happen? I really need a genuine advice from whoever is reading this.

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I feel completely drained, both physically and emotionally, as a deep sadness weighs heavily on my heart. The voices in my head, once whispers, are now growing louder, echoing doubts and fears that I can’t seem to silence. It feels like an endless storm inside me, swirling with thoughts I wish I could escape from, yet they only seem to grow stronger with each passing moment.I feel an overwhelming sense of loneliness, as if I’m drifting through an empty space with no one to reach out to. More than anything, I just need someone to talk to someone who will listen, understand, and remind me that I’m not alone in this silence.

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