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I have a long time friend since like 4th grade maybe, both male. And we stayed kinda best friends for years. We always kinda enjoyed each other's company, he a funny dude so (yo this ain't a gay story don't get ahead of yo self foo ๐Ÿ˜„)

Ena you know what, after observing him all these years I'm realized he's probably a sociopath. Bro ticks off like all of the markers of a sociopath: charming, manipulative, a chameleon who acts like whoever he's with like he doesn't have a personality of his own. Migerm fetur new becha, like he literally won't defend me and nod in agreement when a hater talking shit about me, he just doesn't want to go through the hassle of being himself ๐Ÿ˜„ he finds it easier for him to be whatever you want him to be, I'm the exact opposite, it is mentally taxing to try to act different, acting different tires me...but you know, people who mask up and lie are scientifically found to have higher functioning brains able to handle being disingenuous without being mentally exhausted.

Anywayyyy, whole point of this post is, say you have a friend and they almost never call you and say what's up, 99.9% of the time it's you, and if you didn't they wouldn't call for months or maybe forever, but they're just that way they don't call people like they don't do it, do you judge them and start distancing yourself or do you accept their problem and keep keeping the friendship alive?

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Erdugn benatachu..... ke 7 wer befit lijtua ga tewaweken taxi wst.... keza tejenajen keza fkr jemernina dngl neberech wesib aregin... keza le 7 wer yakl andlay koyen gn ke 7 wer behuala slkuan sayew yene girl friend guadegna lene gf yehone photo tlklatna ehe new yene bf bzu ayamrma tlatalech keza ere yene eko endezih ayamrm tlatalech... ehen yayehut agatami new.... le break up mknyat yhonal ehe?

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I nutted in her and now she wants to have my kid ๐Ÿ˜ฐ.


I've read enough vents be it being friend zoned, lonely or failed romances and all these cases boil down to one simple thing. Genetic determinism. You see you've been taught that inner beauty or personality is what matters the most in human relationships but that couldn't be further from the truth. What really matters and is detrimental to the quality of your existence is your genetic make-up and sadly not all men are created equal, as a matter of fact there is no creator. If there is a so called god then this being is either indifferent or a joker who blesses  some by random and plays cruel jokes on others. Let me return to my point. Before you ask why you are constantly being friend zoned or shunned take a good look at your self in the mirror and evaluate your physical characteristics i.e do you look good (have good bone structure) are you atleast taller than average (for men) or are you overweight? Then decide if you are attractive or not. If the answer is the latter you can't do much about it except for the fatties and you are on the low end of genetic quality hence by the laws of nature not likely to reproduce. In layman terms it will be extremely hard for you to be in a loving relationship and near impossible to sustain it. So what should you do? The best thing to do is to pursue your interests in other fields and spend your time on things you value. Maybe you'll make buck and buy a wife who'll probably cheat and/or divorce you later who knows. And if you are a woman know your place and lower your standards. After that you'll see suitors you didn't notice while you hopelessly chased way above your league. For those who say money matters, yes it does but no amount of money can buy good genetics or stop your "wife" from cheating. Your life was predetermined at conception and there's little you can do to change it. The natural order prevails and nothing will change that. We are hardwired to subconsciously choose the best looking fittest partner we can find especially women. As a wise man said "No gym for your face, No money for your face, No personality for your face".

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Hey
Iโ€™m 20 and I kinda feel lost. Iโ€™m into nihilism and donโ€™t really believe in God or that thereโ€™s good or bad. Everything feels pointless sometimes, and Iโ€™ve been searching for meaning but just canโ€™t find it. It makes me feel really lonely.
I have a lot of friends, but I keep my distance from them. They talk about stuff like sex, girls, and money, and it just feels so shallow to me. I had a girlfriend who was Orthodox, and I really loved her. She broke up with me because she wants a religious guy, and Iโ€™m not that.
Honestly, I think about death a lot and what it all means. Just wanted to share how Iโ€™m feeling. Anyone else feel this way?
Thanks

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24 M i alredy vented couple times this is my 3rd time n this time im so scared,,the thing is im in r/ship with this girl for over 2 years( we both are in gonder universty),,she is cute asf she loves me alot but recently me feelings for her is fadding,n she is type of girl i trust more than myself,here come the problem , she is graduating in two months and im 2 years away, she lives in adis and i live in gonder so if we were supposed to continue she will have to work there at addis while im still learning for 2 years,,while we sometimes talk about marriage mnamn i repeatdly told her that i cant do it in the next 5 years but she keeps insisting to wait me she is 23 now so think about it ye addis lij hona sra lay hona distance lay honen could it be possible waiting 5 years ??? I've hurted her betam bzu gize but she is still here,i sometimes think if i let her go what if i couldnt love another girl mnamn so what shall i do im so confused n scared

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Hey folks hyd and drop ur thoughts in the comment and thanks you

So There was a girl I met on Telegram and over time I developed a profound sense of admiration and respect for her She was the first girl I ever took seriously the first person who made me feel like I wasnโ€™t alone One day she told me โ€˜After this Iโ€™m here Youโ€™ll never feel lonely againโ€™ No one had ever said something like that to me before and that was the moment I truly started believing in her I thought she was real but I was wrong
She became an integral part of my daily routine talking to her was something I genuinely looked forward to But then out of nowhere she disappeared istg she just vanished ende๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ without a word no explanation no closure I donโ€™t even know why and thatโ€™s what unsettles me the most Even if her reason had been foolish I wish she had at least said something Instead Iโ€™m left with unanswered questions overanalyzing everything knowing deep down she has probably long forgotten about me๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Today (19 feb) is her birthday and strangely I saw her in my dream (ik am cooked guys๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚)We were on the phone talking as if nothing had changed It brought back everything Iโ€™ve been trying to suppress making me realize how much I still need to let go The saddest part is I had even considered getting her a gift for her birthday despite knowing sheโ€™s no longer in my life The thought alone makes me feel ridiculous๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿ˜‚
The irony is I have so many other responsibilities I should be focusing on Iโ€™m 22 a university student and I support myself without family I juggle work studies and yet somehow this situation is still occupying space in my mind Iโ€™m supposed to be preparing for my exist(ofci will pass๐Ÿ˜)exam this year yet instead of concentrating on my future I find myself stuck thinking about someone who for a fact has likely erased me from memory ugh๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
ahun pleas How do I truly move on from her who never valued me the way I valued her How do I detach from this emotional burden especially when loneliness makes it even harder(๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜‚) Any guidance on how to forget and refocus on what actually matters is my goal
Ena eski What should i do ere
Wish Happy birthday ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰ for her tho

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My I ask y does girls ask for the person who takes care of them get them followers be emotionally available then wen become that person they take advantage of u and then moving on becomes very easy for them what kind of person does this do they not have brothers just b/c I'm a man I'm pure evil but wen girls do this type of things there nothing I get wen ur a girl you get lots of idiot boys trying to use u but not all of us are the same ๐Ÿ˜”

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M 21, Ke tkit weratoch befit serious relationship baybalm yehone relationship wust neberku ena Yetefeterew ljtu mnm aynet romantic neger atakm malet snawera drk yale were new mtaweragn even negerochun lemastekakel emalfeneklew neger yelem yeneber bemecheresham Kekoyta bzat yhon alakm teselachehu, Ena enem ende esua mehon jemerku kezan behuala teleyayen, Ena mn felga endeneber eskahun deres tyaqeye new mn tasbalachu?๐Ÿค—

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Hey everyone I hope Yaโ€™all r doing okay,So my thing is am a uni student & am rly rly struggling my fam ainโ€™t helping me and I couldnโ€™t even afford ye uni wechiwochen and am ready to fo any part time job ,I tried searching it up but ukโ€ฆ..I even thought bout dropping out & work but I rly wanna learn but work at the same time cuz how am I gonna finish my studies w no money so u guys pls understand me my heart is shattering am tired of crying everyday so be Mikael yezshachuhalew erdugn ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜žThanks for reading

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hello this is my first time venting and I really need your help so I got married almost few months ago and at first I was so in love I'm still in love but I'm shocked because of the things that I know about him now and I didn't know about him back then when we first start dating and stuff and at first I thought like he was you know An Angel like he didn't know anything and I mean I asked about his past and he told me that he had an ex that's it no touching nothing like he's a Muslim so nothing and stuff but now after we got married I knew that he had something other than his ex like kiss and touched and did stuff with other girls like one girl actually and kissed another I know it's his past like he saying it's my past and I didn't know how to tell you when it's not worth telling it didn't mean anything I regretted it back then it was when I was in Campus and stuff he said that but it's still stuck in my head like I feel violated because I didn't know and I asked him but then he didn't tell me and now I know after we got married and he's a really good guy don't get me wrong he's a really good guy I love him and he loves me he understands me other than that he's perfect but now I mean how can I change my perspective of him like I said he was an angel like I thought of him like that but now when I know what he did in the past I don't know it's just shocking what is killing me the most is that he's my first for everything and knowing that i I'm not his first is making me sick I don't know I tend to overthink guys how can i forget what he did. he just did stuff you know not sex though I don't know please help me it's in my head for over a month and I canโ€™t be happy I can't forget about what he did I tend to visualise what he did and I get sick I'm I know it's his past like it's his past what's wrong with me but I don't know what to do I really need your help please
Am I exaggerating am i being dramatic
Does being your first mean something
Or being loved and choosed to live for the rest of your life matters which matters most

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Hey everyone i dont know how to put this ..so am a sub who is obsessd with giving a girl head on top of me sub'ing to her i love doing that more than the actuall thing and makin her finish on me gets me going than other things and now am starting to like or starting to wanna try a golden shower too can i get a girls prespective on this? I mean what would u think if ur partner is into this? Is this smtn u would accept or would this be a deal breaker for u
And ik saying no negative comments will stop those comments but i would appriciate if there are non

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Hello everyone, I want to vent about something that I never thought I'd ever have to.
A few days ago I saw a video on tiktok and this guy was talking about how he just got diagnosed with autism spectrum as an adult and he said he'd never thought about himself that way then he started listing these symptoms of autism spectrum that he never thought were signs of autism spectrum, and after watching the whole video I realized that I do in fact have a lot of the symptoms but i never actually consider the slimmest possiblity that I might be autistic, anyway I was really worried so I did some online tests for it and the results said that I show significant signs of autism spectrum and I thought it was just stupid until I did multiple test from different resources and they all said I showed signs of autism, and I don't know what the fuck to do with this new discovery. I know that these tests aren't a diagnosis but I'm still kinda messed up. I know that I should probably get proper assessment but I'm TERRIFIED because what if it's true? How will I even tell this to my family and the few friends that I have? I think I'll just continue to live my life without knowing anything more about whether I'm neurodivergent or not. What I don't know won't hurt me. ๐Ÿ’”

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Hello everyone
Is it necessary to participate in Social activities like lekso, serg minmamin I don't feel comfort at all on such situations

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I hope the admins approve it blc this is the whome point of vent
I just want to say fuck all of you fuck that girl who is complaining about her rich parents who didn't look after her so she end being in the club fuck that dude who says he is always thinking about that girl fuck you to that girl who is lonely and depressed fuck all of u hulachum eziga kursin enizlel ena andlay erat enรฌbla yehone life eyenorin atamarubin just man up ena lifun nurut manim sile enante ayagebawm manim care aysetewm hulum ye rasu himem alebet erasachun ende main character atiyi fuck uuuuuu mutu manim tiz atilutim fuck fake friends fuck that girl who think she is cute fuck that fat girl who is depressed and got bullied in college that is how life is supposed to be we aint complaining bicha fuck all of uuuuuuu fuck the readers too

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hey guys
It's my first time venting here and I really need your advice so here is the story,me and my bf have been together since meskerem ena he is 10 yrs older than me but I don't have a problem with that he is the best thing happened in my life lately.He so protective,caring and loyal and also he treats me well.I even meet his families but the thing is there is this girl he told me abt ena they were friends with benefits before we meet ena lemecheresha gize yagegnat hamle lay neber then after all this time last week she came out of no where and told him that she is 8months pregnant and he told me right after she told him.ena he said be akal slalayewat gn alamenkuatm mnamn at first I was confused and didn't say anything then hedo endiyagegnat ena ewnetun aregagto endinegregn negergktut then hedo agegnat and yeah she is really pregnant.And he told her abt me and she is also don't want to be with him because of some reasons she only want him to be the father of their child.I like the way he is being honest with me but it really bothers me. do you guys think it's okay to see my future with him??

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El Siri, this name....
I saw the video yesterday and I'm not scared ( I have seen a lot of terrifying things on the dark web) but this video changed the way I think, my goal, made me choose my path... Before this video I was ready to do anything to get to the top... I used to say there is no wrong way, I was not religious, my only goal was power... But that video got me thinking, what's the end of it all? Okay I have money, power and everything then what? Still it'll be meaningless, won't be happy.... So I'm gonna change my way of living, I'm gonna live by this rule....
"Take care of your body as if you were going to live forever:
And take care of your soul as if you were going to die tomorrow"
....
Wish me luck
22 m here, I hope it's not to late to change (better late than never)

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i'm 20 ena my bf demo 30 new แŠฅแŠ“ แ‹จ แŠฅแ‹ตแˆœ แˆแ‹ฉแАแ‰ณแ‰ฝแŠ• แ‰ฝแŒแˆญ แŠ แˆˆแ‹?

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So I'm a 24-year-old male. So it all started when I was 14 or 15. There was a woman called Lemlem; she is our neighbor. She was probably 35 and married or above, and she used to buy me things. And one day, while I was in her house, she started touching me. One thing led to another; we had sex. It was the best thing, so we continued to do that for more than 2 years. Unfortunately, she had to move, and we also changed houses, so after that, it was hard to stay connected, so it had to stop.

So when I was in grade 12, the same thing happened. Our neighbor, who is my mom's friend, called me to help her move her new washing machine, and then I ended up sleeping with her.

After I got to university, I had multiple girlfriends, but I still wanted to sleep with older women. And when I was in my second year, I went to my aunt's house for our semester break, and while I was there, there was a lady called Hasset. Hasset was twice my age, and she even had a daughter that was older than me. And one day, my aunt told me to drive Hasset, and I was there. We were going to her aunt's house, who died recently. We were there for her semanya, and I took my aunt's car because it could carry stuff. And that day, when we came back, she invited me to her house. One thing led to another; we ended up sleeping together. And at that time, I even had a girlfriend, but for some reason, I'm attracted to women who are older. I want to sleep with them, and I can't stop. And currently, I'm sleeping with Hasset. I can't help it...

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selam!

I want to vent out something. I am writing this after see a vent about hate for Oromo.

I am not Oromo. But my parents are Oromo. Since I didn't grow up with them and I live in addis.
1. I don't want to express about my family ethnicity background.
2. I joined campus at Jimma. Most of the oromo were hate us. And most of addis guys were targeted from both Amhara and oromo groups.
3. Once upon a time I spent a wedding ceremony with my parents and my  father song a song in oromifa as they told me the translation is
'' แŠฆแˆฎแˆž แ‰ณแˆ‹แ‰… แАแ‹:
  แŠ แˆ›แˆซ แ‰ณแŠ“แˆฝ แАแ‹:
  แ‰ตแŒแˆฌแŠ• แ‰ แŒˆแˆˆแ‰ฃ แˆ›แ‰ƒแŒ แˆ แАแ‹แข ''
the moment i heard it my heart was broken. I have been consider him as a modern. I have been try to understand that not all ppl are racist and the ppls are so kind. But after the ceremony my assumption changed.
4. When I was a campus, they(father and neighbors ) had been try to advice me that word by word "แŠฆแˆฎแˆž แ‹˜แˆจแŠ› แАแ‹แข ''  it was also another shock and I related with the previous one and I decided that I won't be part of any ethnic group any more.
5. I had been travel to different part of the country. So when I pass the border of oromiya the feeling and peace I felt โ˜ฎ๏ธ...you have no any Idea.
6. With this all I feel sad for the oromo peoples.
7. At campus I tried to discus with one of qero guy and he had no any clue about history and most of them hate to read books and only follow blind activist. แŠจแˆแˆญ แ‹ซแˆณแ‹แŠ“แˆแข

8. stupidity done on addis ppl, Irecha, language and promoting the culture by government budget yawim be gideta... ....and so.
Am only say my perspective I don't want to generalized. Because it is not research. I think not only Oromo but also Amhara , Tigre, other's also have racism problems.
Currently I am only focus on Humanity and Christianity.

One last thing...our generation is suffered due to racism. I felt so sad for my generation. This all mess is coming from the last generation(60th).

Any way
Peace and love!

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25 man Experiencing intense sexual feelings without a compatible partner can be a deeply challenging and isolating experience. Itโ€™s natural to feel frustration, loneliness, or even self-doubt when desires go unfulfilled and didn't get what u want especially in a world that often conflates intimacy with validation. These emotions are valid, and acknowledging them is the first step toward navigating this phase with compassion and intention so i believe this so girls can you?

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So the thing is lately ezi channel lay Yalu ventochn banebebku kutr I started to realize how much grateful and blessed am I. Iโ€™ve seen lots of vents about relationships, family and financial issues. Ena le hulachum bezi seat suffer eyaregachu lalachu sewoch (specially financially) experiencen Share largachu.

So 2 years back I was freshman in university ena I was just learning betesebochen lemasdeset ena bzu sewochn say demo skill enji degree mesebseb matter endemayaderg yawekubet gize nebere. Plus kebet beye weru or samntu birr maslak betam shame yasizegn ena ydebregn neber (Iโ€™m from middle class family btw) so I decided and started to learn short term courses online like Graphics designing, Digital marketing and video editing tera betera ena be mejemeriyaw 3 wer digital Marketingun temre kecheresku buhala yetemarkubet tmhrt bet sram yasketren nebere ena wediyaw lehone Restaurant social media manager Argo asketeregn mind u video mkersew part time nber kdame ena Ehud social mediachewn gn beyekenu active mareg neberebgn w/c is easy beslke slenebere ena Arif genzeb make mareg jemerku kes eyalku tmhrt betum eyeredagn berasem yetelayayu freelancing srawochn maggnet jemerku.rn ke gbi drop out adrge ye gl eyetemarku be sraye bewer keteleyayu drjtoch bewer biyans 70-80k make adergalew betesebochenm mastedadrew ene negn ena the moral of story mndnew meselachu betachalachu akm begize yerasachun skill adabru or temaru ke tmhrtachum gon le gon bihon ena beterefe tselyu egziabher talak amlak new yeteyeknew legna kalew aynesanm.
Lelaw neger demo niggas around here mnm bihon financial stability saynorachu relationship wst atgbu๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ.

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