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24 M I tired of the silence. Not the kind you hear, but the kind you feel the weight of an empty apartment, the phantom warmth of a body that isn’t there, the way voice sounds when it hasn’t been spoken back to in days. I scrolls through dating apps not for romance, but for a reprieve from the quiet. Friends with benefits. The phrase feels clinical, transactional, but i clings to it like a life raft. I tells myself it’s simpler this way. No expectations, no performances, no risk of his jagged edges cutting someone who gets too close.

But loneliness isn’t logical. It bleeds into everything.
But l keep trying. Because sometimes, in the dark, when the world feels too vast and i feels too small, even a temporary warmth is better than none at all.

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I'm 22M and I just got out of the only serious relationship I've ever been in and this shit hurt.

We dated for about a year and a half. We fell for each other and everything was smooth until a couple months back. She started this new job and met some dude there. They became suspiciously close and that started causing problems between us. One night we got drunk and she admitted she's into him and they've been flirting. We broke up the next day and I thought that was the end of that. A couple weeks later she called to talk. She told me he was an asshole who used her, and was flirting with other girls including her best friend. She said I was the the right person for her and I was good to her and she wanted me to take her back. In that moment I didn't feel sad for her, I thought "karma really is a bitch".This helped me a lot in getting over her.

But now I'm having trouble trusting people. I don't want to live my life thinking nobody can be trusted. For those of you who believe in trust, what do I do.

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26F here, so I moved out of my country 3 years ago, and before I left, I used to talk with my ex. Alea, let's be friends, mnamn blen. Then when I moved out of the country, I kind of ghosted him. Then I started living life here, mnamn; everything was going good, and I even met someone. Then we hit it off well and decided to move in together. After 1 year and a half of living with the new guy, I found out that my ex, whom I ghosted, had moved to this country, and he contacted me. Like he said, Hi, mnamn. Of course I ignored him, mnamn. Then around the end of last year, I and the new guy started having relationship problems, and then I decided to move out and start living on my own. Then i did move out mnamn but at the same time my ex started approching me again. but this time i didnt ignore him and i started contacting him too. You know I was hurt, mnamn, and I wanted company. But then my ex told me that he has a girlfriend, whom he is trying to bring to this country. which broke my heart, gn I don't know what to do now Like, i want to spend time with him. Gn demo, i dont want to disrespect his girl and also disrespect myself like that.

little history about us, tho he was not a good bf to me like we had a very toxic rship. But I always see good in him and want to keep him in my life. He is very interesting to me even though many, many people told me that he is just a random dude. I don't know why, but I gave him a very high value, and I loved him so much. and I don't even know how to get over him.

some one please tell me what to do? i am dying out here😭

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Hey I am 22F
Wede wanaw gudaye segeba ye 5Amet fekregnaye cheat argobegne brake up aregen keza teru lij tewawekugne Kesu ga Mawerat jemeren he was so nice and amazing person gn my ex litewegne fekadegna adelem bet yemetal sera ga yemetal betam Selamen nesagne 1edel sechigne yale keza bezi mehal gn yemiyaweragne yeneberew lij tefa sedewelem ayanesam esum aydewelem my ex tenagrot new endalel huletu yemigenagubet mnm agatami yelem so Mn badereg yeshalegnal

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Just feeling incredibly low and lost, like I'm screaming into a void. Anyone else out there feel like they're just... existing?

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Hello guys I'm f and uni student I have a complex story with this guy, we kind of dated in high school we met again in uni and started to talk, and he told me he hacked all my accounts including my telegram and emails and for the past few years when we were apart he used to see every guy I talk to and everything I'm up to including my google search, last time I took a selfie on my phone and I didn't sent it to anyone only did I know he also hacked my phone storage somehow like he can access my gallery so he sent that photo back to me and now he is driving me crazy, what shall I do guys specially those tech experts how can I stop him from accessing my phone storage(Gallery) and my Tg and Google accounts....

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I'm 21M. I'm gonder university student. And there's this girl she was my best friend for almost 3 years. Ke and akebabi abren new ezi yemetanew ena sew adera blogn neber. Bezalay mnm yeset guadegna yelatm the whole day abren new mnwlew kene ena ke guadegnoche ga every thing kegna ga new mtaregew beka lemetegnat bcha new mnleyayew malet yshalal Lene yalat smet endetekeyere negerechgn. Ene demo beza way asbyat alakm girlfriend norogn mnamn sayhon beka ene kemejemeriya fkregnaye behuala lela set mafker alchalkum. Betam eyetekerarebn snmeta Lene yalat smet eyechemere meta ena ene demo betam extrovert negn bzu sew new makew bezi mkniat eyedeberat ena betam eyetegidach neber then my friends told me to tell her that I have feelings for her ena lela mnm amarach slaltayegn endeza areku betam Des alat ena we are officially in relationship now. Esuan lemewded betam eyemokerku new. Gn masmesel betam kebdognal. You know friendship ena relationship betam yeteleyaye new mnm enkan 3 years best friend bnhonm relationship wst sngeba things got changed.ahun lnmerek 2 year new yekeren ena 2 year mulu masmesel betam ykebdal I just don't know what to do? Do I have to pretend or tell her the truth? Huletunm bareg megodatwa aykerm lela mthedbet godegna rasu yelatm.

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I'm 19F and I live with my grandparents. My mom left me with them to work when I was two. She's not really in my life; we just don't have a connection, and I don't blame her for it. My father is a shitty person – let's just say he's better off dead. He's also absent. My grandma, though... I swear, she's either bipolar or a sadistic sociopath. She has a drinking problem, and I'm always on the receiving end. She abuses the shit out of me, even now. I don't know why I let it happen, I guess I'm just used to it. She calls me a whore, says I'll end up like my mom. She calls my mom a 'whore' and tells me I'm a 'whore' who will end up the same way – just disgusting things I don't even want to repeat. There are no limits to her words.

Yesterday was my breaking point. She was drunk and angry – she was mad because our neighbor didn’t invite her for coffee??!🤦🏽‍♀️ I didn't realize she was in a mood since I was exhausted from class. I said hi and mentioned I donated blood – BIG mistake. That was the excuse she needed to explode. She started throwing things, beat me with a broom until it broke. She started screaming how she owns me and that I don't have the right to do that, how selfish I am, like wtf? And then, when I was trying to calm her down, she pushed me down the stairs. I broke my hand. It hurt like hell, but in that moment, I was just trying to calm her down. But she kept going, kicking me in the stomach. Finally, she came down, spat on me, and walked away. The beating didn't really bother me as much as the spitting did, something just clicked. I just started screaming at her and then suddenly started vomiting. I don't know why – maybe stress. She just looked at me with disgust and told me to clean it up and get out of her house. I didn't need to be told twice. I left without a second thought and I'm at our neighbour's place. And now all my relatives are on her side, like I don't know what twisted lies she told them. Even my uncle is sending me death threats. Am I wrong for finally walking away from this abuse? I'm just so sick of it all. Why do I have to be the one who takes it? They know how abusive she is, and they just say, 'Oh, she's just like that, you know she loves you.' Love my ass, I'm being punished for existing at this point.

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Heyy yall it’s not my first time venting
But today’s vent is a bit odd than the others
Im 18m grade 12th student
So here is my problem
My grandma raised me since i lost my father (14 years ago)
I love my grandma very much
I don’t even know how to explain butt things started to change this year Lelit betam yaselat jemer aktam bzu alat mnamn(chronic cough)we went to the hospital but they told us that she got asthma and they informed us thats its okay if she take her medicine correctly but the problem is we don’t have enough money for those medicines
Y’all ke tena belay mnm yelem mibalew neka ewnet new esua afnuat setesekay mayet lene betam kebad new like betamm i started feeling like birr seleleleg mewedaten ayaten latat new
Y’all zare enante fit yekomkut ke akme belay selehone new enji manm ye sew fit mayet des milew yelem bezi sat lene 100 birr value alat lesua 1 strip almetamin yegezal ebakachu tebaberug
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Hey am 18 girl I just joined university so here is the thing my boyfriend is grade 11 I don't have problem with that but ig he do like he don't want any one to know that he is with me he don't even tell people that he is taken but he say that he loves me and all how we met is actually crazy it was two years ago i was grade 11 he and his friend was 9 and I had crush on his friend for like one semester and then I started talking him(my bf)in summer and we talked he is so nice and all we became friends btw we are in the same school so we see each everyday and then friendship turned to love and when the next school year starts I always wanted to meet him but he didn't want but then with a lot of argument he said okay so we started meeting at his class ik so wired I was 12 at that time he was 10 and like he wasn't very comfortable with it and like i get it but we be in the class and there won't be much students around then just we stopped meeting so we just text and rn we don't text much I feel like he is kinda idk mb losing feelings cause of idk that I went to university or that just am older or anything
My question is how can I get that spark we had in the first and that ntg will change because I went to university

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If ur guy friend is cheating on his gf and u know the gf. And she's in love with him and even crossed a lot of lines for him mnamn. would u guys consider telling her
So he's a friend of mine and I know her too but not that much. And last week we were hanging out with him and I saw that he was texting with another girl(they were talkin abt the night they spend together mnamn). I got shocked and told another friend of ours and he told me they all know he's cheating but he does that all the time so they were chill abt it. But I wasn't okay with that I know this girl and balawkatim enkuan it's so wrong. So yesterday we met up as a group and he brought her with him. And she was acting up yelele melik serach beka. U know how we girls act when we're in love right we ignore everybody and show off a lot. She even acted like she doesn't know me. Lela gize she would come and say hi and talk for a while yetim bota btayegn. Yan ken the way she greeted me and acted the whole time made me so mad.I felt so bad for her before and even considered giving her a heads up abt him. keza gn I was like fck that btch endewim Imma give her the honor to find out by herself. So am I wrong for this, what would u do if u were in my shoes

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Hey first time venting, so I am 23 female. Befit when I was in high school I used to say be 23 amete asgebalew mnamn 😂. Yetelaye wend tewawkyalew ewnet lemenager gn andachewm serious neger felgo ayawkum ena le commitment yiferalu idk why. Sometimes when I see yene kuyawochn serious relationship norachew, tekbabro say kene new ende chgiru elalew. Bicha yeteleyaye neger mokerku even dating apps mnamn transport lay idk why hulum yaw honubgn kene new ende chgiru bye beka mawarat akomalew then mawrat sijemr temelso yaw yagtmugnal ik ahun lay bezi stress mehon yelebgnm gn eskemeche yihe routine miketlew akalew yihe neger stress leyadergegn germe germe wendoch endalu gn enen chrash aygatmegnm. Ene bicha negn weys mndn new?

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Hey, so I'm 18M, and I'm a senior in high school. Lately, I’ve been feeling kind of stuck, you know? I have friends, but everything just feels a bit... boring. It's like I’m going through the motions. I really want to meet new people, make real connections, and have friends I can actually vibe with—people who aren't just around for the basics, but people who are down to grow, hustle, and build something together. I just need that energy, that excitement that comes with having people around who genuinely want to level up too. It makes me wonder, though—am I the only one feeling like this? Like, will this loneliness follow me even into the future? Or am I just in a weird phase? It’s frustrating sometimes because I feel like I’m in a rut, and I want more—people who understand the grind, who can actually vibe with me and push me to be better. If there’s anyone else out there who feels the same way—like you’re just ready for a new chapter, to meet new friends, and build something bigger—let’s connect. Drop me a message or leave a comment. I want to create a space for us to link up, chat, and see where things go.


Thanks for reading. 🙏🏽

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So, I’m a 27M from A.A., and here’s the deal: I was seeing this amazing girl for about a year, and honestly, it was one of the best relationships I’ve ever been in. She was gorgeous, super smart, caring, and wild in all the best ways. I’d say I’m a bit of a sex addict myself, so we matched perfectly—like, we really clicked on every level. We explored some pretty adventurous stuff together, and it was always fun, exciting, and fulfilling.

But here’s the twist: after some deep thinking, she decided to go all-in on her faith and become super religious. At first, I thought it was just a phase, but she was serious. She started asking me to join her on this spiritual journey, and while I respect her choices, it’s just not for me. I’m Orthodox, and she’s Protestant, so our beliefs don’t exactly align. I tried to make it work, even considered adjusting my own faith, but after some thought, I realized it wasn’t the right move for me.

Now, here’s where I’m at: it’s been months since we split, and I’ve been struggling to find someone who matches her energy. Every girl I meet seems way too conservative or just doesn’t have that same spark. I’ve had opportunities, but nothing compares to the connection we had.

So, yeah, I’m kinda venting here because it feels like finding someone who’s smart, fun, and open-minded is harder than I thought. If you’re someone who’s into keeping things casual, adventurous, and no-strings-attached, hit me up! Let’s vibe and see where it goes.

P.S. I wear glasses—hope that’s not a dealbreaker lol.

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I have a long time friend since like 4th grade maybe, both male. And we stayed kinda best friends for years. We always kinda enjoyed each other's company, he a funny dude so (yo this ain't a gay story don't get ahead of yo self foo 😄)

Ena you know what, after observing him all these years I'm realized he's probably a sociopath. Bro ticks off like all of the markers of a sociopath: charming, manipulative, a chameleon who acts like whoever he's with like he doesn't have a personality of his own. Migerm fetur new becha, like he literally won't defend me and nod in agreement when a hater talking shit about me, he just doesn't want to go through the hassle of being himself 😄 he finds it easier for him to be whatever you want him to be, I'm the exact opposite, it is mentally taxing to try to act different, acting different tires me...but you know, people who mask up and lie are scientifically found to have higher functioning brains able to handle being disingenuous without being mentally exhausted.

Anywayyyy, whole point of this post is, say you have a friend and they almost never call you and say what's up, 99.9% of the time it's you, and if you didn't they wouldn't call for months or maybe forever, but they're just that way they don't call people like they don't do it, do you judge them and start distancing yourself or do you accept their problem and keep keeping the friendship alive?

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Erdugn benatachu..... ke 7 wer befit lijtua ga tewaweken taxi wst.... keza tejenajen keza fkr jemernina dngl neberech wesib aregin... keza le 7 wer yakl andlay koyen gn ke 7 wer behuala slkuan sayew yene girl friend guadegna lene gf yehone photo tlklatna ehe new yene bf bzu ayamrma tlatalech keza ere yene eko endezih ayamrm tlatalech... ehen yayehut agatami new.... le break up mknyat yhonal ehe?

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I nutted in her and now she wants to have my kid 😰.


I've read enough vents be it being friend zoned, lonely or failed romances and all these cases boil down to one simple thing. Genetic determinism. You see you've been taught that inner beauty or personality is what matters the most in human relationships but that couldn't be further from the truth. What really matters and is detrimental to the quality of your existence is your genetic make-up and sadly not all men are created equal, as a matter of fact there is no creator. If there is a so called god then this being is either indifferent or a joker who blesses  some by random and plays cruel jokes on others. Let me return to my point. Before you ask why you are constantly being friend zoned or shunned take a good look at your self in the mirror and evaluate your physical characteristics i.e do you look good (have good bone structure) are you atleast taller than average (for men) or are you overweight? Then decide if you are attractive or not. If the answer is the latter you can't do much about it except for the fatties and you are on the low end of genetic quality hence by the laws of nature not likely to reproduce. In layman terms it will be extremely hard for you to be in a loving relationship and near impossible to sustain it. So what should you do? The best thing to do is to pursue your interests in other fields and spend your time on things you value. Maybe you'll make buck and buy a wife who'll probably cheat and/or divorce you later who knows. And if you are a woman know your place and lower your standards. After that you'll see suitors you didn't notice while you hopelessly chased way above your league. For those who say money matters, yes it does but no amount of money can buy good genetics or stop your "wife" from cheating. Your life was predetermined at conception and there's little you can do to change it. The natural order prevails and nothing will change that. We are hardwired to subconsciously choose the best looking fittest partner we can find especially women. As a wise man said "No gym for your face, No money for your face, No personality for your face".

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I’m 20 and I kinda feel lost. I’m into nihilism and don’t really believe in God or that there’s good or bad. Everything feels pointless sometimes, and I’ve been searching for meaning but just can’t find it. It makes me feel really lonely.
I have a lot of friends, but I keep my distance from them. They talk about stuff like sex, girls, and money, and it just feels so shallow to me. I had a girlfriend who was Orthodox, and I really loved her. She broke up with me because she wants a religious guy, and I’m not that.
Honestly, I think about death a lot and what it all means. Just wanted to share how I’m feeling. Anyone else feel this way?
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24 M i alredy vented couple times this is my 3rd time n this time im so scared,,the thing is im in r/ship with this girl for over 2 years( we both are in gonder universty),,she is cute asf she loves me alot but recently me feelings for her is fadding,n she is type of girl i trust more than myself,here come the problem , she is graduating in two months and im 2 years away, she lives in adis and i live in gonder so if we were supposed to continue she will have to work there at addis while im still learning for 2 years,,while we sometimes talk about marriage mnamn i repeatdly told her that i cant do it in the next 5 years but she keeps insisting to wait me she is 23 now so think about it ye addis lij hona sra lay hona distance lay honen could it be possible waiting 5 years ??? I've hurted her betam bzu gize but she is still here,i sometimes think if i let her go what if i couldnt love another girl mnamn so what shall i do im so confused n scared

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So There was a girl I met on Telegram and over time I developed a profound sense of admiration and respect for her She was the first girl I ever took seriously the first person who made me feel like I wasn’t alone One day she told me ‘After this I’m here You’ll never feel lonely again’ No one had ever said something like that to me before and that was the moment I truly started believing in her I thought she was real but I was wrong
She became an integral part of my daily routine talking to her was something I genuinely looked forward to But then out of nowhere she disappeared istg she just vanished ende😂😂😂 without a word no explanation no closure I don’t even know why and that’s what unsettles me the most Even if her reason had been foolish I wish she had at least said something Instead I’m left with unanswered questions overanalyzing everything knowing deep down she has probably long forgotten about me😂😂😂😂😂😂
Today (19 feb) is her birthday and strangely I saw her in my dream (ik am cooked guys😭🤦🤦🤦🤦😂😂😂)We were on the phone talking as if nothing had changed It brought back everything I’ve been trying to suppress making me realize how much I still need to let go The saddest part is I had even considered getting her a gift for her birthday despite knowing she’s no longer in my life The thought alone makes me feel ridiculous🤦🤦🤦😂
The irony is I have so many other responsibilities I should be focusing on I’m 22 a university student and I support myself without family I juggle work studies and yet somehow this situation is still occupying space in my mind I’m supposed to be preparing for my exist(ofci will pass😁)exam this year yet instead of concentrating on my future I find myself stuck thinking about someone who for a fact has likely erased me from memory ugh😭😂😂😂😂
ahun pleas How do I truly move on from her who never valued me the way I valued her How do I detach from this emotional burden especially when loneliness makes it even harder(😭😭😭😭😂) Any guidance on how to forget and refocus on what actually matters is my goal
Ena eski What should i do ere
Wish Happy birthday 🎈🎈🎉🎉 for her tho

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My I ask y does girls ask for the person who takes care of them get them followers be emotionally available then wen become that person they take advantage of u and then moving on becomes very easy for them what kind of person does this do they not have brothers just b/c I'm a man I'm pure evil but wen girls do this type of things there nothing I get wen ur a girl you get lots of idiot boys trying to use u but not all of us are the same 😔

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