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I have a crush on a Deacon and I don't know what to do.
I am 25, I used to date, purely date(not sex), an ex bf and some smooches here and there. I have stopped dating for a while cause I wanted to get my life in order (getting a better job & better relationship with God) . I have started working on my relationship with God, life is going great right now, Thank God for that.
I came across my crush while listening to sermons and taking courses in church. I would be lying if I say it was only his words that caught my attention. I find him attractive and mesmerizing. He is precise, funny and serious at the same time. I want a home that worships God and he looks like someone to build that with. I'm the type of girl who emphasize on taking time to build r/nship but if he asks me to marry him I would say yes without a second thought. Yes I'm screwed.
The problems are
1. Since I know him in church, I don't know how to break the barrier and just confess or ask him out,
2. He is a Deacon and a good looking one so I don't want to be one of his tests cause I'm sure he has plenty of girls eyeing him
3. I'm a bit insecure, if I will be a fit for someone great, I'm just building my path to God whereas he was raised in church, it feels like I'm asking Maryam for her favorite child
4. I'm scared, I'm being tested cause there are times where I look for him when I'm in the church and it feels wrong
5. I don't know what courting is like in church. I used to just ask a guy out or ask for their number & talk to them, (I never had a problem approaching guys) but now I'm confused.
So help a sister out, what do I do? Cause I really want to be close to this guy, marry him if God allows.
I would really love it if specially Orthodox deacons answer this or anyone from church/ those who know the ways of church. Please
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I need to vent
I have a crush on a Deacon and I don't know what to do.
I am 25, I used to date, purely date(not sex), an ex bf and some smooches here and there. I have stopped dating for a while cause I wanted to get my life in order (getting a better job & better relationship with God) . I have started working on my relationship with God, life is going great right now, Thank God for that.
I came across my crush while listening to sermons and taking courses in church. I would be lying if I say it was only his words that caught my attention. I find him attractive and mesmerizing. He is precise, funny and serious at the same time. I want a home that worships God and he looks like someone to build that with. I'm the type of girl who emphasize on taking time to build r/nship but if he asks me to marry him I would say yes without a second thought. Yes I'm screwed.
The problems are
1. Since I know him in church, I don't know how to break the barrier and just confess or ask him out,
2. He is a Deacon and a good looking one so I don't want to be one of his tests cause I'm sure he has plenty of girls eyeing him
3. I'm a bit insecure, if I will be a fit for someone great, I'm just building my path to God whereas he was raised in church, it feels like I'm asking Maryam for her favorite child
4. I'm scared, I'm being tested cause there are times where I look for him when I'm in the church and it feels wrong
5. I don't know what courting is like in church. I used to just ask a guy out or ask for their number & talk to them, (I never had a problem approaching guys) but now I'm confused.
So help a sister out, what do I do? Cause I really want to be close to this guy, marry him if God allows.
I would really love it if specially Orthodox deacons answer this or anyone from church/ those who know the ways of church. Please
#Relationship #Adult
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Lately, I’ve been reading and hearing a lot about suicide attempts and suicidal thoughts, and I want to share my perspective on this deeply concerning issue. I understand that many different situations and struggles can push someone to feel this way. Mental health challenges, personal hardships, trauma, toxic relationships and feelings of isolation are just some of the factors that contribute to such thoughts.
It’s important to acknowledge that these struggles exist within our society, even if older generations may not fully understand them. In the past, life was structured differently, and while hardships certainly existed, issues like depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts were not as widely recognized or discussed. As a result, when we the younger generations express these struggles, they are often seen as ungrateful or overly sensitive, rather than as individuals battling serious mental challenge.
From my perspective, one of the biggest reasons for the rise in suicidal thoughts today is our modern way of living. Several factors contribute to this:
Social Media and Unrealistic Comparisons – People constantly compare their lives to the highlight reels of others, leading to feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, and low self-worth.
Lack of Genuine Human Connection – Despite being more connected online, many people feel more isolated than ever. Meaningful, in-person relationships are becoming rare.
High Expectations and Pressure – Society places immense pressure on individuals to succeed academically, professionally, and socially, often without giving them the tools to handle failure or setbacks.
Economic Struggles – Many people face financial stress, job insecurity, and the overwhelming cost of living, leading to anxiety and hopelessness.
Family and Relationship Issues – Toxic relationships, broken families, or a lack of emotional support from loved ones can leave individuals feeling abandoned.
Mental Health Stigma – In many cultures, mental health issues are still seen as weaknesses rather than real conditions that require attention and care.
To be honest, I’ve had moments in my life where I struggled with similar thoughts. There were times when I lost my sense of purpose and interest in life, leading me to make impulsive and reckless decisions. I felt lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to move forward. But by the grace of God, I was able to overcome those dark moments and learn to appreciate life again.
Life is unpredictable, full of highs and lows, but no matter how difficult things may seem, nothing lasts forever—not pain, not sadness, not failure. We only get one life, so why rush to the inevitable? Instead of focusing on the things that bring us down, we should seek meaning in even the smallest joys, find support in those who truly care, and remind ourselves that we are stronger than we think.
I hope I was able to help in some small way. Feel free to share ur thoughts or ask for my opinion on any topic I’d love to hear from u ! Yes u......
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I am 🎭 አምደፂዮን
I need to vent
Lately, I’ve been reading and hearing a lot about suicide attempts and suicidal thoughts, and I want to share my perspective on this deeply concerning issue. I understand that many different situations and struggles can push someone to feel this way. Mental health challenges, personal hardships, trauma, toxic relationships and feelings of isolation are just some of the factors that contribute to such thoughts.
It’s important to acknowledge that these struggles exist within our society, even if older generations may not fully understand them. In the past, life was structured differently, and while hardships certainly existed, issues like depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts were not as widely recognized or discussed. As a result, when we the younger generations express these struggles, they are often seen as ungrateful or overly sensitive, rather than as individuals battling serious mental challenge.
From my perspective, one of the biggest reasons for the rise in suicidal thoughts today is our modern way of living. Several factors contribute to this:
Social Media and Unrealistic Comparisons – People constantly compare their lives to the highlight reels of others, leading to feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, and low self-worth.
Lack of Genuine Human Connection – Despite being more connected online, many people feel more isolated than ever. Meaningful, in-person relationships are becoming rare.
High Expectations and Pressure – Society places immense pressure on individuals to succeed academically, professionally, and socially, often without giving them the tools to handle failure or setbacks.
Economic Struggles – Many people face financial stress, job insecurity, and the overwhelming cost of living, leading to anxiety and hopelessness.
Family and Relationship Issues – Toxic relationships, broken families, or a lack of emotional support from loved ones can leave individuals feeling abandoned.
Mental Health Stigma – In many cultures, mental health issues are still seen as weaknesses rather than real conditions that require attention and care.
To be honest, I’ve had moments in my life where I struggled with similar thoughts. There were times when I lost my sense of purpose and interest in life, leading me to make impulsive and reckless decisions. I felt lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to move forward. But by the grace of God, I was able to overcome those dark moments and learn to appreciate life again.
Life is unpredictable, full of highs and lows, but no matter how difficult things may seem, nothing lasts forever—not pain, not sadness, not failure. We only get one life, so why rush to the inevitable? Instead of focusing on the things that bring us down, we should seek meaning in even the smallest joys, find support in those who truly care, and remind ourselves that we are stronger than we think.
I hope I was able to help in some small way. Feel free to share ur thoughts or ask for my opinion on any topic I’d love to hear from u ! Yes u......
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I am 26 M, who used to be in love with this girl i know back in college. I started to catch feelings for her when we were fresh man. You know some kinda fling, and after some time my friend confessed to our gang that he had a crush on that girl, we all made fun of him and stuff you know guys do when they find out their pal is in love, he was so scared to talk to her, one of our friends get her number to him and he kinda fumbled, i thought, on a wicked sunday evening i was surfing through Facebook(since it was the only social media i can afford to access at the time), i looked at a picture of that girl, and tbh it wasn't her best. You guys wouldn't believe me when i say it but i felt my heart getting struck by Cupid's arrow. From that day forth i was totally in love with her. But i think the time was not ideal, i used to attend a CS and she was Acct, and it was our 3rd year she was getting graduated that year and I'll wait one more year. I wasn't man enough to go and directly talk to her so i tricked my other friend (the one who gets her number to my friend) to get her number, i still remember it by heart btw,and i wanted to chat but i don't know what held me back, and months pass and she graduated, i sent her a congratulations text and she responded and we started to talk. I used to write poems to her some kinda artist inside of me takes over whenever i think about her, and the last thing we ever talked about was whether she liked poems or not, she said she liked to write and read poems, and i was so ecstatic. One thing I don't like about myself is i am a perfectionsit. All of the poems i wrote for her still amaze me whenever i read them. But that wasn't enough so i was scratching my brain off to write the ultimate poem.One day while me and my friends were drinking tea, a talk about nick names started, my friend used to call her a different name and he said to me even if they were together he'd still call her by that, and i asked him if he had still feelings for her, and he said oh hell yeah. At that instant i felt like I was judas, I thought I was the worst backstabber ever, I felt like I betrayed my friend and I decided to honor my friendship over my love, so I went straight to our chats in telegram and cleared the chat history. Weeks have passed and in our of the corners in our college's compound i saw that friend of mine flirting with another girl, time froze to me, my brain went numb, I fucked up pretty bad. So I went on retaliation mode, I sent a bombardment of messages to her, no response came.
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I am 26 M, who used to be in love with this girl i know back in college. I started to catch feelings for her when we were fresh man. You know some kinda fling, and after some time my friend confessed to our gang that he had a crush on that girl, we all made fun of him and stuff you know guys do when they find out their pal is in love, he was so scared to talk to her, one of our friends get her number to him and he kinda fumbled, i thought, on a wicked sunday evening i was surfing through Facebook(since it was the only social media i can afford to access at the time), i looked at a picture of that girl, and tbh it wasn't her best. You guys wouldn't believe me when i say it but i felt my heart getting struck by Cupid's arrow. From that day forth i was totally in love with her. But i think the time was not ideal, i used to attend a CS and she was Acct, and it was our 3rd year she was getting graduated that year and I'll wait one more year. I wasn't man enough to go and directly talk to her so i tricked my other friend (the one who gets her number to my friend) to get her number, i still remember it by heart btw,and i wanted to chat but i don't know what held me back, and months pass and she graduated, i sent her a congratulations text and she responded and we started to talk. I used to write poems to her some kinda artist inside of me takes over whenever i think about her, and the last thing we ever talked about was whether she liked poems or not, she said she liked to write and read poems, and i was so ecstatic. One thing I don't like about myself is i am a perfectionsit. All of the poems i wrote for her still amaze me whenever i read them. But that wasn't enough so i was scratching my brain off to write the ultimate poem.One day while me and my friends were drinking tea, a talk about nick names started, my friend used to call her a different name and he said to me even if they were together he'd still call her by that, and i asked him if he had still feelings for her, and he said oh hell yeah. At that instant i felt like I was judas, I thought I was the worst backstabber ever, I felt like I betrayed my friend and I decided to honor my friendship over my love, so I went straight to our chats in telegram and cleared the chat history. Weeks have passed and in our of the corners in our college's compound i saw that friend of mine flirting with another girl, time froze to me, my brain went numb, I fucked up pretty bad. So I went on retaliation mode, I sent a bombardment of messages to her, no response came.
#MentalIllness #Relationship
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I am 26 M, who used to be in love with this girl i know back in college. I started to catch feelings for her when we were fresh man. You know some kinda fling, and after some time my friend confessed to our gang…
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Years passed and I couldn't get over her, I got graduated, get job and even pursued my masters but she was still in my mind, I kept on writing poems for her. After telegram started story adding feature i saw her posted a story, she was as beautiful as ever and I was so happy to see her, the next thing she posted on her story was interesting, it was a quote that kinda says "even if we break rules for some people, they will break us in the end" and I thought something bad happened to her and I asked her about her well being, she didn't respond, and then I confessed everything i feel about her, like i was still madly in love with her even if she didn't know, looking at other girls feels like cheating on her, and my plans for her, the name of our children and stuff. She was classy and she responded with another story, a picture of her hand holding a man's hand. That shit broke my heart into pieces, I went to full depression, people might not see it on the outside but I lost taste in life, losing people i care about the most also left me in position were everything stops making sense to me. On instagram i saw elders were sent to her house and she was married, and finally I saw her being pregnant, I felt a physical pain to my heart, I swear to God, when people said I felt a heart break i only see it as a figurative speech, but I am a witness for that. So I hid my self in addiction, not actual drug or alcohol, you know what I mean, twisted fantasies kinda make me forget everything, I don't know if I could move on. Thanks
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Years passed and I couldn't get over her, I got graduated, get job and even pursued my masters but she was still in my mind, I kept on writing poems for her. After telegram started story adding feature i saw her posted a story, she was as beautiful as ever and I was so happy to see her, the next thing she posted on her story was interesting, it was a quote that kinda says "even if we break rules for some people, they will break us in the end" and I thought something bad happened to her and I asked her about her well being, she didn't respond, and then I confessed everything i feel about her, like i was still madly in love with her even if she didn't know, looking at other girls feels like cheating on her, and my plans for her, the name of our children and stuff. She was classy and she responded with another story, a picture of her hand holding a man's hand. That shit broke my heart into pieces, I went to full depression, people might not see it on the outside but I lost taste in life, losing people i care about the most also left me in position were everything stops making sense to me. On instagram i saw elders were sent to her house and she was married, and finally I saw her being pregnant, I felt a physical pain to my heart, I swear to God, when people said I felt a heart break i only see it as a figurative speech, but I am a witness for that. So I hid my self in addiction, not actual drug or alcohol, you know what I mean, twisted fantasies kinda make me forget everything, I don't know if I could move on. Thanks
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There’s this girl I like, and we’ve been talking on and off for about a year. I swear she’s been giving me signals or maybe that’s just what I want to believe. But either way, I really like her. Her curls move like they have a life of their own, her eyes hold galaxies in shades of amber, and her smile feels like dawn breaking after the longest night. Her voice? Soft, soothing like she could talk me through anything. She’s effortless, graceful, turning heads without trying. But beyond her beauty, it’s her kindness, her rare soul, that makes her unforgettable. She’s smart, takes care of herself, has flawless music taste, and her vibe? Unmatched.
After a year, we lost touch for three months. Then, when we reconnected, something was different we talked for months like we were on the edge of something real. Since we live in different countries, I had the chance to meet her, but as the day got closer, she pulled away. She said she was getting too attached, that long distance scared her, that she could never do it. It came out of nowhere. She wanted to stop everything, said it felt like a breakup. She admitted she had feelings for me, and I told her I loved her too. Then, just like that, it all ended.
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There’s this girl I like, and we’ve been talking on and off for about a year. I swear she’s been giving me signals or maybe that’s just what I want to believe. But either way, I really like her. Her curls move like they have a life of their own, her eyes hold galaxies in shades of amber, and her smile feels like dawn breaking after the longest night. Her voice? Soft, soothing like she could talk me through anything. She’s effortless, graceful, turning heads without trying. But beyond her beauty, it’s her kindness, her rare soul, that makes her unforgettable. She’s smart, takes care of herself, has flawless music taste, and her vibe? Unmatched.
After a year, we lost touch for three months. Then, when we reconnected, something was different we talked for months like we were on the edge of something real. Since we live in different countries, I had the chance to meet her, but as the day got closer, she pulled away. She said she was getting too attached, that long distance scared her, that she could never do it. It came out of nowhere. She wanted to stop everything, said it felt like a breakup. She admitted she had feelings for me, and I told her I loved her too. Then, just like that, it all ended.
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Hello, people! I'm a 19-year-old second-year student, and lately, I've had plenty of free time with nothing to do (someone get me a job, please 😭). So, I've been watching movies all day, from different countries.
I don't know if this is making me feel delusional, but I really, really, really want to be in the film industry. I don't think I have the looks to be an actress, but I have a lot of ideas. I've even written some scripts to practice storytelling, and I watch YouTube videos about how to write scripts. I even imagine how I could direct them (not sure who would act in them, though) until I fall asleep.
So, what I'm saying is, if this obsession is just because I've been watching too many movies, I'll try to cut it out. But I would really appreciate it if you could give me advice or recommend something productive to do. Thank you in advance!
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Hello, people! I'm a 19-year-old second-year student, and lately, I've had plenty of free time with nothing to do (someone get me a job, please 😭). So, I've been watching movies all day, from different countries.
I don't know if this is making me feel delusional, but I really, really, really want to be in the film industry. I don't think I have the looks to be an actress, but I have a lot of ideas. I've even written some scripts to practice storytelling, and I watch YouTube videos about how to write scripts. I even imagine how I could direct them (not sure who would act in them, though) until I fall asleep.
So, what I'm saying is, if this obsession is just because I've been watching too many movies, I'll try to cut it out. But I would really appreciate it if you could give me advice or recommend something productive to do. Thank you in advance!
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I'm 25F and I am in love with this guy from my work. ( he's my boss ). I am really attractive women.. and he gives me hints so we started seeing eachother after work and ofcourse i have a lot of privileges uk.Gn like he's 43M.. and he's rich and he gave me gifts and stuff... Ena beca I love him. Gn cegeru mn meselachehu ahun ahun tedar yalew sw mehonu yekenekenage gemer, alastega alasaref alege.. endet nw ahun mesteyewen ena lijochun maswgde yemchelawe. B/c I love him and he sould only be mine. He also keeps telling me to be with him but he can't get a divorce just now.
Please it's urgent
Be acher geze west yemesaka neger negaruge.
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I'm 25F and I am in love with this guy from my work. ( he's my boss ). I am really attractive women.. and he gives me hints so we started seeing eachother after work and ofcourse i have a lot of privileges uk.Gn like he's 43M.. and he's rich and he gave me gifts and stuff... Ena beca I love him. Gn cegeru mn meselachehu ahun ahun tedar yalew sw mehonu yekenekenage gemer, alastega alasaref alege.. endet nw ahun mesteyewen ena lijochun maswgde yemchelawe. B/c I love him and he sould only be mine. He also keeps telling me to be with him but he can't get a divorce just now.
Please it's urgent
Be acher geze west yemesaka neger negaruge.
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for programmers in here how did u go from 0 to where u r here i was doing one question in DSA the beginners course for 2 days now and it even won't run properly and that's kinda maddening ena how do u go through this mnamn any tips and generally software gebtachu kezih befit bakew yemtlutn neger pls share me and how did u study mnamn anything especially in AAiT
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for programmers in here how did u go from 0 to where u r here i was doing one question in DSA the beginners course for 2 days now and it even won't run properly and that's kinda maddening ena how do u go through this mnamn any tips and generally software gebtachu kezih befit bakew yemtlutn neger pls share me and how did u study mnamn anything especially in AAiT
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I'm 19F and feel the need to express my thoughts. I yearn for a strong faith, yet I find it incredibly difficult to pray or seek forgiveness. Much of this struggle stems from a profound sense of self-hatred, leading me to believe that I am unworthy of forgiveness. Additionally, I harbor deep-seated resentment towards God—not out of hatred, but rather an inability to reconcile my feelings. The mere thought of attending church fills me with dread, to the extent that I sometimes contemplate self-harm—quite literally. I assure you, I am not possessed; these feelings have been present since my childhood. How can I truly cultivate a bond with God when I am overwhelmed by resentment and hate? I suspect that much of this stems from religious trauma.
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I'm 19F and feel the need to express my thoughts. I yearn for a strong faith, yet I find it incredibly difficult to pray or seek forgiveness. Much of this struggle stems from a profound sense of self-hatred, leading me to believe that I am unworthy of forgiveness. Additionally, I harbor deep-seated resentment towards God—not out of hatred, but rather an inability to reconcile my feelings. The mere thought of attending church fills me with dread, to the extent that I sometimes contemplate self-harm—quite literally. I assure you, I am not possessed; these feelings have been present since my childhood. How can I truly cultivate a bond with God when I am overwhelmed by resentment and hate? I suspect that much of this stems from religious trauma.
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So, I'm 19, female, and I've been sick for half my life. I was misdiagnosed twice, which led to other health complications. My life is literally awful. I've spent half my life bedridden. I am mentally and physically so exhausted. None of my friends know about my illness; I'm not comfortable enough to tell anyone about it. What I want to say is that I'm simply exhausted from popping pills every single day – the side effects, complications with the medications, inflammation, dehydration, how it's affected my body, my mental health... going to never-ending appointments, and seeing my parents' faces. It feels like I'm rotting inside out, like I'm a lost cause they desperately want to hold on to. I can just go on and on about how fucking exhausting it is, and I feel like I'm a fucking burden on my parents. It just makes me feel so shitty, to the point where I hide when my situation gets bad to avoid costing them more money. But I just get to the point where I collapse, costing them even more money. I'm just better off dead, honestly. I don't know what to do. I'm just a fucking parasite leeching on my parents; they are better off without me. I don't know what to do. Like, I'm just posting this for advice or anything; I don't know.
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So, I'm 19, female, and I've been sick for half my life. I was misdiagnosed twice, which led to other health complications. My life is literally awful. I've spent half my life bedridden. I am mentally and physically so exhausted. None of my friends know about my illness; I'm not comfortable enough to tell anyone about it. What I want to say is that I'm simply exhausted from popping pills every single day – the side effects, complications with the medications, inflammation, dehydration, how it's affected my body, my mental health... going to never-ending appointments, and seeing my parents' faces. It feels like I'm rotting inside out, like I'm a lost cause they desperately want to hold on to. I can just go on and on about how fucking exhausting it is, and I feel like I'm a fucking burden on my parents. It just makes me feel so shitty, to the point where I hide when my situation gets bad to avoid costing them more money. But I just get to the point where I collapse, costing them even more money. I'm just better off dead, honestly. I don't know what to do. I'm just a fucking parasite leeching on my parents; they are better off without me. I don't know what to do. Like, I'm just posting this for advice or anything; I don't know.
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent አለሜዋ ፍቅር እኮ እንዲህ አልነበረም ! ብዙ (ቅጥ ያጣ) መውደድ ነው ንጉሴዋ ምነው ሰለቸህሳ ? መውደድ ባትችል ወውደዴን ምነው ጠላኸው ? አፍቅረኝ ውደደኝ አልልህም ግን ትንሽ ብታስብልኝ ኖሮስ ? መስቀልህን ከተሸከምኩልህ ወዲያ፣ከተኮነንኩልህ ከተወቀስኩህም ወዲያ አልደላህም? ስምህን ልብህን ነብስህን ካጠራሁት ወዲያ ዘነጋኸኝሳ…
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ድጋሚ አልፅፍም ብዬ ነበር ግን አልቻልኩም ናፍቆትህ አቃጠለኝ
ና ፈ ከ ኝ እኮ
እኔ ግን አልናፍቅህማ ከዘመንህን እጥፋት ወጥቻለሁ አይደል?
ከኔ ግን አልወጣህም እኮ አንተን ማሰብ ሆኗል ስራዬ ሳቅህ ድምፅህ ዘፈኖችህ በጆሮዬ ላይ ያቃጭላሉ
ጠረንህስ ብትል አለሜዋ ? ከአልበስጥሮስ ሽታ የላቀ አይደለምን ?
ትዝታህ ሲነግስብኝ ናፍቆትህ ሲብስብኝ ብቻዬን ፈገግ ስል እኮ አበደች ብለው ተጠቋቆሙብኝ እኮ ስቄ አለፍኳቸው እንጂ ያንን የመሰለ ድምቀት አሳልፌ ሌላስ ቢያስደርገኝ ይደንቃል ዛሬ ግን እነዛን ደማቅ ዘመናት እንዳላለፍኩ አንገቴን አቀረቀርኩ እኮ ክብሬ አንተ ሞገሴ አንተ ሆነህ አንገቴን ማቅናት አቃተኝ የሱ ናት አትነካም እንዳልተባልኩ ዛሬ ይቺማ ብለው ዘበቱብኝ ክብሬ ነህና ነብሴ አንተን አንተን እያለች ቃተተች
5 ወር እንደቀልድ ለኔ ግን 5 ምዕተ አመታት ሆነብኝ አላሳዝንም እንደ ድሮ እኮ የምትመጣ እየመሰለኝ ቦታችን ላይ ሆኜ እጠብቅሃለሁ
በጨለማ ስሄድ ከኋላ መጥተህ የምትይዘኝ ስሜን የምትጠራው እየመሰለኝ ስንቴ ዞርኩ መሰለህ
አረፈደም እኮ ልብህ ቢራራ ደግሞ እየጠበኩህ ነው
እስኪ ስጠራህ እንደቀድሞ ወይ በለኝ
ንጉሴዋ ክብሬዋ አለሜዋ አባቴዋ
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ድጋሚ አልፅፍም ብዬ ነበር ግን አልቻልኩም ናፍቆትህ አቃጠለኝ
ና ፈ ከ ኝ እኮ
እኔ ግን አልናፍቅህማ ከዘመንህን እጥፋት ወጥቻለሁ አይደል?
ከኔ ግን አልወጣህም እኮ አንተን ማሰብ ሆኗል ስራዬ ሳቅህ ድምፅህ ዘፈኖችህ በጆሮዬ ላይ ያቃጭላሉ
ጠረንህስ ብትል አለሜዋ ? ከአልበስጥሮስ ሽታ የላቀ አይደለምን ?
ትዝታህ ሲነግስብኝ ናፍቆትህ ሲብስብኝ ብቻዬን ፈገግ ስል እኮ አበደች ብለው ተጠቋቆሙብኝ እኮ ስቄ አለፍኳቸው እንጂ ያንን የመሰለ ድምቀት አሳልፌ ሌላስ ቢያስደርገኝ ይደንቃል ዛሬ ግን እነዛን ደማቅ ዘመናት እንዳላለፍኩ አንገቴን አቀረቀርኩ እኮ ክብሬ አንተ ሞገሴ አንተ ሆነህ አንገቴን ማቅናት አቃተኝ የሱ ናት አትነካም እንዳልተባልኩ ዛሬ ይቺማ ብለው ዘበቱብኝ ክብሬ ነህና ነብሴ አንተን አንተን እያለች ቃተተች
5 ወር እንደቀልድ ለኔ ግን 5 ምዕተ አመታት ሆነብኝ አላሳዝንም እንደ ድሮ እኮ የምትመጣ እየመሰለኝ ቦታችን ላይ ሆኜ እጠብቅሃለሁ
በጨለማ ስሄድ ከኋላ መጥተህ የምትይዘኝ ስሜን የምትጠራው እየመሰለኝ ስንቴ ዞርኩ መሰለህ
አረፈደም እኮ ልብህ ቢራራ ደግሞ እየጠበኩህ ነው
እስኪ ስጠራህ እንደቀድሞ ወይ በለኝ
ንጉሴዋ ክብሬዋ አለሜዋ አባቴዋ
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There’s this girl I met when I was around 12 years old. Now I’m 22, and we’re still friends. But back when we were 12, she used to bully me. She would turn my other friends against me. We were four friends back then, and by the time we turned 14, two new best friends joined us. She tried to make them hate me too, even though I never did anything to her. I used to ignore it, pretending I didn’t notice, and I even tried explaining myself to the others so they wouldn’t dislike me. Eventually, she stopped, and she’s nice ahun and we’re still friends . But sometimes, I remember what she did to me . I dont hate her, but there’s something in my heart that still hasn’t healed.
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There’s this girl I met when I was around 12 years old. Now I’m 22, and we’re still friends. But back when we were 12, she used to bully me. She would turn my other friends against me. We were four friends back then, and by the time we turned 14, two new best friends joined us. She tried to make them hate me too, even though I never did anything to her. I used to ignore it, pretending I didn’t notice, and I even tried explaining myself to the others so they wouldn’t dislike me. Eventually, she stopped, and she’s nice ahun and we’re still friends . But sometimes, I remember what she did to me . I dont hate her, but there’s something in my heart that still hasn’t healed.
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ይሄ ጥያቄ በተለይ ለአማራ ለሆናችሁ እና አሁን ያለውን የዘርpoltica የምታቁ መልስ ስጡበት
ነገሩ ለፍቅረኛዬ በአባት በኩል ያለኝ ብሄር ደብቄዋለሁ በእናቴ በኩል ሙሉ ለሙሉ አማራ ነኝ ፈልጌው አይደለም የደበኩት እኔ ያባቴን ቤተሰቦች አላቃቸውም 1 እህት ብቻ ነው ያለው እሷም ጋር ብዙም አይነጋገሩም በ ቋንቋም ደረጃ አባቴ የሚናገረውን ቋንቋ(ኦሮምኛ) ለኔ አላስተማረኝም እሱም ቢሆን አማርኛ የማይችል ሰው ከላጋጠመው አያወራም።እኔ ያደኩት የእናቴ ቤተሰብ አካባቢ ነው በዚህም ሀይለኛ ባህል ወግ አጥባቂ አማራ ነኝ ።ይቅርታ የምትናደዱብኝ ሰዎች ከላችሁ! ግን በቃ እንዳልኳችሁ ዘረኛ አማራ ነኝ።ይሄ እንዳለ ሆኖ ከፍቅረኛዬ ጋር እየተግበባን ጭራሹኑ የአባቴን ብሄር ረሳሁት (እንደ አባቴ የማከብረውም የምወደውም ወንድ የለም)እናም አሁን 3 አመታት አለፋ ብቻ ምናለፋችሁ እኔ ትምህርቴን እስክጨርስ ነው የሚጠብቀኝ ለመጋባት አምላክ ፍቃድ ይሁንና ሚቀጥለው አመት ላይ ሽማግሌ ለመላክ እቅድ አለው።ነገር ግን የሱ ትዳር ለመመስረት መስፈርቶች ውስጥ ከሱ ብሄር(አማራ) ጋር ተመሳሳይ መሆን አለባት እኔም እንደነገርኳችሁ አማራ እንደሆንኩ ነው የማስበው ያባቴን ብሄር ግን ነግሬው አላቅም ጥያቄ ውስጥም ከቶትም አያቅም።አሁን ግን መናገር እንዳለብኝ እየተሰማኝ ነው ግን የሚፈጠሩ መጥፎ ነገሮች መኖራቸው ያሳሳስበኛል።ወይስ ሳልነግረው ሽምግልና ካለፈ በኋላ ልንገረው? ሰአቱ የቱ ይሻላል ለሱ የሚፈጥረው ለውጥ ያለ ይመስላችኋል?
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ይሄ ጥያቄ በተለይ ለአማራ ለሆናችሁ እና አሁን ያለውን የዘርpoltica የምታቁ መልስ ስጡበት
ነገሩ ለፍቅረኛዬ በአባት በኩል ያለኝ ብሄር ደብቄዋለሁ በእናቴ በኩል ሙሉ ለሙሉ አማራ ነኝ ፈልጌው አይደለም የደበኩት እኔ ያባቴን ቤተሰቦች አላቃቸውም 1 እህት ብቻ ነው ያለው እሷም ጋር ብዙም አይነጋገሩም በ ቋንቋም ደረጃ አባቴ የሚናገረውን ቋንቋ(ኦሮምኛ) ለኔ አላስተማረኝም እሱም ቢሆን አማርኛ የማይችል ሰው ከላጋጠመው አያወራም።እኔ ያደኩት የእናቴ ቤተሰብ አካባቢ ነው በዚህም ሀይለኛ ባህል ወግ አጥባቂ አማራ ነኝ ።ይቅርታ የምትናደዱብኝ ሰዎች ከላችሁ! ግን በቃ እንዳልኳችሁ ዘረኛ አማራ ነኝ።ይሄ እንዳለ ሆኖ ከፍቅረኛዬ ጋር እየተግበባን ጭራሹኑ የአባቴን ብሄር ረሳሁት (እንደ አባቴ የማከብረውም የምወደውም ወንድ የለም)እናም አሁን 3 አመታት አለፋ ብቻ ምናለፋችሁ እኔ ትምህርቴን እስክጨርስ ነው የሚጠብቀኝ ለመጋባት አምላክ ፍቃድ ይሁንና ሚቀጥለው አመት ላይ ሽማግሌ ለመላክ እቅድ አለው።ነገር ግን የሱ ትዳር ለመመስረት መስፈርቶች ውስጥ ከሱ ብሄር(አማራ) ጋር ተመሳሳይ መሆን አለባት እኔም እንደነገርኳችሁ አማራ እንደሆንኩ ነው የማስበው ያባቴን ብሄር ግን ነግሬው አላቅም ጥያቄ ውስጥም ከቶትም አያቅም።አሁን ግን መናገር እንዳለብኝ እየተሰማኝ ነው ግን የሚፈጠሩ መጥፎ ነገሮች መኖራቸው ያሳሳስበኛል።ወይስ ሳልነግረው ሽምግልና ካለፈ በኋላ ልንገረው? ሰአቱ የቱ ይሻላል ለሱ የሚፈጥረው ለውጥ ያለ ይመስላችኋል?
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hi I wanted to ask a question real quick,
Is it okay if a 19 year old girl and 32 year old man started a r/nship?
and boys would you actually fall in love with a 19 yr old girl if you were in your 30's?
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hi I wanted to ask a question real quick,
Is it okay if a 19 year old girl and 32 year old man started a r/nship?
and boys would you actually fall in love with a 19 yr old girl if you were in your 30's?
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Hey everyone, hope you're all doing well. This is my first time opening up like this, so here it goes.
I'm a 26-year-old guy, and it’s been almost four years since I’ve been with someone. For the past few years, I’ve been completely focused on building my dreams—working hard, growing my business, and securing a stable future. And while I’m proud of how far I’ve come, lately, I’ve been feeling that success isn’t just about achievements; it’s also about having someone to share the journey with.
I have a lot of passions, a love for deep conversations, and a heart that’s ready to open up again. There’s something beautiful about growing alongside someone, creating memories, and building something real together. I think I’m finally at a point where I’m ready for that—to experience love, connection, and the simple joy of having someone by my side.
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Hey everyone, hope you're all doing well. This is my first time opening up like this, so here it goes.
I'm a 26-year-old guy, and it’s been almost four years since I’ve been with someone. For the past few years, I’ve been completely focused on building my dreams—working hard, growing my business, and securing a stable future. And while I’m proud of how far I’ve come, lately, I’ve been feeling that success isn’t just about achievements; it’s also about having someone to share the journey with.
I have a lot of passions, a love for deep conversations, and a heart that’s ready to open up again. There’s something beautiful about growing alongside someone, creating memories, and building something real together. I think I’m finally at a point where I’m ready for that—to experience love, connection, and the simple joy of having someone by my side.
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I got a question for y'all... I'm 25 M and I confess that I've never had a girlfriend in my life nor did I ever kiss a girl.. and its not for a lack of trying trust me, so my question is.. is it normal like are there other people who're the same
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I got a question for y'all... I'm 25 M and I confess that I've never had a girlfriend in my life nor did I ever kiss a girl.. and its not for a lack of trying trust me, so my question is.. is it normal like are there other people who're the same
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I'm sick of it!
I am sick of being the black sheep of the family. Everything I do right goes unnoticed but the tiniest mistake I make is the one thing they'll always notice and give me an absolute hell for it. And sometimes it doesn't even have to be my fault, when I make a mistake all the blame falls on me but whenever one of my idiot siblings make a mistake I'll have to share the burden of the blame. I have absolutely no one on my side, everyone is against me. When my siblings do something right they're praised for it for what feels like decades, but I'm the one that's always there doing the most and I get absolutely no credit for anything instead, whenever I mess up just a little all of a sudden I'm responsible for every problem in the family. I can't say this to your face so I'll say it here, FUCK ALL OF YOU HYPOCRITES!
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I'm sick of it!
I am sick of being the black sheep of the family. Everything I do right goes unnoticed but the tiniest mistake I make is the one thing they'll always notice and give me an absolute hell for it. And sometimes it doesn't even have to be my fault, when I make a mistake all the blame falls on me but whenever one of my idiot siblings make a mistake I'll have to share the burden of the blame. I have absolutely no one on my side, everyone is against me. When my siblings do something right they're praised for it for what feels like decades, but I'm the one that's always there doing the most and I get absolutely no credit for anything instead, whenever I mess up just a little all of a sudden I'm responsible for every problem in the family. I can't say this to your face so I'll say it here, FUCK ALL OF YOU HYPOCRITES!
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Hey 25M here
Soo I've been friends with this girl for years now.. my intentions when i started the friendship was to date her but we were in dt places so it didn't happen but we stayed friends.. as friends i got to really know her and developed feelings for her... she even introduced me to her parents.. trough out the years I always tried to ask her out but time was never right.. she dated another guy during that time and i dated another girl too but last year we both broke up from our partners i gave it few months and i asked her out directly and i told her everything... she rejected me siting Religion and bc we are from dt Religions we can't date.. i was hurt but respected her decision and gave her space but she would give me any.. she started flirting heavily like video calling me every night kinda flirting.. i was confused but I went with it until she asked me how came i never "take care of her".. she sent me pictures of nails and asked me to buy it for her.. it was 1K birr and I said no.. she started saying things like insecure, broke boy and i have other guys who take care of me.. I was confused because I never saw this side of her before.. after a day of going back and forth she sent me a Screenshot of someone sending her money and she said i can send you money now I'm fuming and I'm done.. i told her that I don't beg others for money and that she is a gold digger and she blocked me
I want to know did I do something wrong I'm still like WTF
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Hey 25M here
Soo I've been friends with this girl for years now.. my intentions when i started the friendship was to date her but we were in dt places so it didn't happen but we stayed friends.. as friends i got to really know her and developed feelings for her... she even introduced me to her parents.. trough out the years I always tried to ask her out but time was never right.. she dated another guy during that time and i dated another girl too but last year we both broke up from our partners i gave it few months and i asked her out directly and i told her everything... she rejected me siting Religion and bc we are from dt Religions we can't date.. i was hurt but respected her decision and gave her space but she would give me any.. she started flirting heavily like video calling me every night kinda flirting.. i was confused but I went with it until she asked me how came i never "take care of her".. she sent me pictures of nails and asked me to buy it for her.. it was 1K birr and I said no.. she started saying things like insecure, broke boy and i have other guys who take care of me.. I was confused because I never saw this side of her before.. after a day of going back and forth she sent me a Screenshot of someone sending her money and she said i can send you money now I'm fuming and I'm done.. i told her that I don't beg others for money and that she is a gold digger and she blocked me
I want to know did I do something wrong I'm still like WTF
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I need to get sth off of my chest. I am 22 F & my man is 25 we’ve only been together for 4 n a half months.It’s the longest I’ve ever been with someone. I used to hv fear of commitment & intimacy…So every time a guy friend start confessing their feelings for me I immediately shut off & ghost em. But my man is just a diff story. he makes me feel so damn comfortable. He brings out this feminine side of me that I never even knew existed within me. I suddenly crave his presence and his touch feels so gentle and sends shivers down my spine. Whenever we’re together there is this sense of calmness, comfort, peace, and safety that I feel …it is hard to explain ..my brain shuts off and nothing else matters when I’m with him.
Things hv been going smoothly .it’s my first ever long-term committed r/ship. I know it’s a bit early for us but we both knew we seriously wanted to be with each other & grow old with one another 2 weeks after talkin. I love him & he loves me too. He is a walking work of art full of green flags. በዚች አጭር ጊዜ ውስጥ አብረን ብዙ ነገር አሳልፈናል a lot of highs & lows. Our problem is I don’t want to hv sex before marriage beka it’s a boundary I am not willing to cross for myself. I want him eko he turns me on and all. But as much as I want him I’m not breakin the promise I made to myself. It means a lot to me & I want it to happen the night of our wedding the way it’s supposed to be done.I don’t want it to happen in some random room & have to deal with the stress about pregnancy, abortion, post-pill side effects, STDs mnamn…. Who the heck wants to deal with all of that just for the sake of pleasure that wd fade minutes after you are done? Plus I recently learned about the concept of soul ties . So እንደው እግዚአብሄር አያርገው እና what if we breakup how am i gonna deal with that?
He keeps saying nthn is gonna change bn us …u doing it or not doing it, is not gonna bring any changes to our r/ship ይለኛል But hypothetically speaking I know it will change how I’ll see myself I feel like I’ll lose respect for myself if I do it. I’ll lose respect for him too. I feel like it will rob me of the peace of mind that I hv once u go down that path its gonna be to hard to go back. If it is after marriage we won’t hv to worry about all of this because whatever happens u r bound together & will accept whatever comes and deal with it together. Ahun my issue is that our marriage ain’t happening soon obviously because we are both in class እሱ ስራ ጀምሯል on the side እኔ ግን ገና አልጀመርኩም ። ሁለታችንም family ጋር ነን እና it will take time for us to start our own family. We are aware of that ግን how do couples these days succeed in controllin their urges to not do the deed? The temptation be hittin harrrrd when u hv mutual feelings for each other. he’ll listen if I say I don’t want to he respects my boundaries he is such a gentleman, has self-control which I admire so much. ግን አሁን I’m finding it hard to control myself. እና እንደዚ ስል በጣም weak የሆንኩ ያህል እየተሰማኝ ነው So if anyone relate or have tips u think will help me, please do share thank u.
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I need to get sth off of my chest. I am 22 F & my man is 25 we’ve only been together for 4 n a half months.It’s the longest I’ve ever been with someone. I used to hv fear of commitment & intimacy…So every time a guy friend start confessing their feelings for me I immediately shut off & ghost em. But my man is just a diff story. he makes me feel so damn comfortable. He brings out this feminine side of me that I never even knew existed within me. I suddenly crave his presence and his touch feels so gentle and sends shivers down my spine. Whenever we’re together there is this sense of calmness, comfort, peace, and safety that I feel …it is hard to explain ..my brain shuts off and nothing else matters when I’m with him.
Things hv been going smoothly .it’s my first ever long-term committed r/ship. I know it’s a bit early for us but we both knew we seriously wanted to be with each other & grow old with one another 2 weeks after talkin. I love him & he loves me too. He is a walking work of art full of green flags. በዚች አጭር ጊዜ ውስጥ አብረን ብዙ ነገር አሳልፈናል a lot of highs & lows. Our problem is I don’t want to hv sex before marriage beka it’s a boundary I am not willing to cross for myself. I want him eko he turns me on and all. But as much as I want him I’m not breakin the promise I made to myself. It means a lot to me & I want it to happen the night of our wedding the way it’s supposed to be done.I don’t want it to happen in some random room & have to deal with the stress about pregnancy, abortion, post-pill side effects, STDs mnamn…. Who the heck wants to deal with all of that just for the sake of pleasure that wd fade minutes after you are done? Plus I recently learned about the concept of soul ties . So እንደው እግዚአብሄር አያርገው እና what if we breakup how am i gonna deal with that?
He keeps saying nthn is gonna change bn us …u doing it or not doing it, is not gonna bring any changes to our r/ship ይለኛል But hypothetically speaking I know it will change how I’ll see myself I feel like I’ll lose respect for myself if I do it. I’ll lose respect for him too. I feel like it will rob me of the peace of mind that I hv once u go down that path its gonna be to hard to go back. If it is after marriage we won’t hv to worry about all of this because whatever happens u r bound together & will accept whatever comes and deal with it together. Ahun my issue is that our marriage ain’t happening soon obviously because we are both in class እሱ ስራ ጀምሯል on the side እኔ ግን ገና አልጀመርኩም ። ሁለታችንም family ጋር ነን እና it will take time for us to start our own family. We are aware of that ግን how do couples these days succeed in controllin their urges to not do the deed? The temptation be hittin harrrrd when u hv mutual feelings for each other. he’ll listen if I say I don’t want to he respects my boundaries he is such a gentleman, has self-control which I admire so much. ግን አሁን I’m finding it hard to control myself. እና እንደዚ ስል በጣም weak የሆንኩ ያህል እየተሰማኝ ነው So if anyone relate or have tips u think will help me, please do share thank u.
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Hey guys im about to graduate and i literally have no actual friends.0. I only have school friends i meet when i go to class. I have one semester left so how can i make friends. The students in my class really don't go with my personality so where else can i meet people? How did you do it?
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Hey guys im about to graduate and i literally have no actual friends.0. I only have school friends i meet when i go to class. I have one semester left so how can i make friends. The students in my class really don't go with my personality so where else can i meet people? How did you do it?
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