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So yesterday be jerbaye neber yetegnahut ena hule kategebe Bible aregalew so alfo alfo yagatmegnal yehone sew elaye lay yeweta nw mimeslegn ena I can't even breath betam kbdet yalew sew elaye lay yale nw yemeselegn ena gn endezi kemesematu befit I feel like he's trying to take the Bible mnamn mostly be jerbaye wey behode stegna yhen neger experience aregewalew anyone with same experience here betam miastela smet nw besmeab ena ewketu yalachw be haymanotm lihon ychlal say smtn esti
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So yesterday be jerbaye neber yetegnahut ena hule kategebe Bible aregalew so alfo alfo yagatmegnal yehone sew elaye lay yeweta nw mimeslegn ena I can't even breath betam kbdet yalew sew elaye lay yale nw yemeselegn ena gn endezi kemesematu befit I feel like he's trying to take the Bible mnamn mostly be jerbaye wey behode stegna yhen neger experience aregewalew anyone with same experience here betam miastela smet nw besmeab ena ewketu yalachw be haymanotm lihon ychlal say smtn esti
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I wish you will read this but somehow I hope you don’t.
I have never loved someone before. I still don’t know if I loved you or it’s the obsession of the small attention you gave me. The fact that makes me angry is I still want you. What’s your problem? why do you give me those little hints and act like not interested the next minute.
The day you told me you started dating I really couldn’t breathe I was suffocating istg but I was brave enough to say good for you and she is beautiful. You still didn’t stop flirting with me while being with her. You would call me “ yne asabi” “what would I do without you” and so on. The day I told you I was dating. He doesn’t even exist. You stopped talking to me bcz of that. that’s good for me at least.
Somedays specially when I had bad day, you’re the first person I want to talk you but I can’t. You’re gone
I missed you and I look forward to the day I will forget about you.
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I wish you will read this but somehow I hope you don’t.
I have never loved someone before. I still don’t know if I loved you or it’s the obsession of the small attention you gave me. The fact that makes me angry is I still want you. What’s your problem? why do you give me those little hints and act like not interested the next minute.
The day you told me you started dating I really couldn’t breathe I was suffocating istg but I was brave enough to say good for you and she is beautiful. You still didn’t stop flirting with me while being with her. You would call me “ yne asabi” “what would I do without you” and so on. The day I told you I was dating. He doesn’t even exist. You stopped talking to me bcz of that. that’s good for me at least.
Somedays specially when I had bad day, you’re the first person I want to talk you but I can’t. You’re gone
I missed you and I look forward to the day I will forget about you.
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I am 19 I never had boyfriend. I mean it’s weird. When I was in high school I was the very nerd. I don’t go out of my house. The only time I go out is for school. I have only one friend. we always meet at my house or school. I have never been asked out or no one ever told me they like me or sth. There was one time a boy followed me after church and asked my number. I gave him but after few conversations I blocked him up bcz idk why. There was another guy who were my friend’s friend he started texting me I thought it was weird so I blocked him too. Kezi wuchi no one ever showed me an interest or sth.
Now I am in university. It’s been year still nth but I still don’t go out. I go to class and back to dorm nothing else. What should I do? What’s wrong with me?
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I am 19 I never had boyfriend. I mean it’s weird. When I was in high school I was the very nerd. I don’t go out of my house. The only time I go out is for school. I have only one friend. we always meet at my house or school. I have never been asked out or no one ever told me they like me or sth. There was one time a boy followed me after church and asked my number. I gave him but after few conversations I blocked him up bcz idk why. There was another guy who were my friend’s friend he started texting me I thought it was weird so I blocked him too. Kezi wuchi no one ever showed me an interest or sth.
Now I am in university. It’s been year still nth but I still don’t go out. I go to class and back to dorm nothing else. What should I do? What’s wrong with me?
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Hey im 17 M, im a senior in highschool and my family wants me to follow the CS major career but im not interested in it, plus it got its own risks. I wanted to follow an aviators dream, achieving many pilot goals but my family are against it. Idk what to do so i need some opinions.
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Hey im 17 M, im a senior in highschool and my family wants me to follow the CS major career but im not interested in it, plus it got its own risks. I wanted to follow an aviators dream, achieving many pilot goals but my family are against it. Idk what to do so i need some opinions.
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I just doing it for first time I am in high school but I am not enjoying anything I learned in this school for years and I don't have friends every time I try having friends it's just always fucks up and I spend the day alone in library as day pass it becomes normally but there are times where I look at uk group of friends or ppl having fun together and I be like how does that feel having being with some one u trust and love and it just feels weird idk how to be happy for others or any of affection there where time I just pinned after ppl just to get there attention and there company but no one wants be even I tried dating for that just to know how uk being loved by someone feels Idk that feeling I was not raised by my parents until grade 8 I have the biggest freedom a parents might give for there child but I prefer just sitting down alone doing nth is it wrong?am I not normal? Is it weird I don't understand what love feels like and I don't think I am cable of love so help if u can
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I just doing it for first time I am in high school but I am not enjoying anything I learned in this school for years and I don't have friends every time I try having friends it's just always fucks up and I spend the day alone in library as day pass it becomes normally but there are times where I look at uk group of friends or ppl having fun together and I be like how does that feel having being with some one u trust and love and it just feels weird idk how to be happy for others or any of affection there where time I just pinned after ppl just to get there attention and there company but no one wants be even I tried dating for that just to know how uk being loved by someone feels Idk that feeling I was not raised by my parents until grade 8 I have the biggest freedom a parents might give for there child but I prefer just sitting down alone doing nth is it wrong?am I not normal? Is it weird I don't understand what love feels like and I don't think I am cable of love so help if u can
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Im 22F university student
Right now, I’m not religious,but im kinda but I want to be in the future just not yet. I wanna experience somethings. But what if i regret it in the future is my question adults please tell me
I’m really interested in following God , but I’m also afraid that these choices might lead to regret in the future when I finally commit
I’ve tried alcohol before not to the point of getting wasted, but I was tipsy. And now, I’m thinking about going all out, either getting completely wasted or staying out overnight. Addict tihognalesh bilachu atasbu i wont bihon noro there was a lot of opportunity eskahun
This is a question for religious people, but at the same time, I don’t want to be judged. I don’t want to hear things like “What if you die today? Just stick to God!” or “Don’t call yourself religious if you’re doing this” go talk to a nisiha abat, pastor or sheik ”
I know what I believe, I’m just not ready yet.
I’m simply asking will I regret it in the future
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Im 22F university student
Right now, I’m not religious,but im kinda but I want to be in the future just not yet. I wanna experience somethings. But what if i regret it in the future is my question adults please tell me
I’m really interested in following God , but I’m also afraid that these choices might lead to regret in the future when I finally commit
I’ve tried alcohol before not to the point of getting wasted, but I was tipsy. And now, I’m thinking about going all out, either getting completely wasted or staying out overnight. Addict tihognalesh bilachu atasbu i wont bihon noro there was a lot of opportunity eskahun
This is a question for religious people, but at the same time, I don’t want to be judged. I don’t want to hear things like “What if you die today? Just stick to God!” or “Don’t call yourself religious if you’re doing this” go talk to a nisiha abat, pastor or sheik ”
I know what I believe, I’m just not ready yet.
I’m simply asking will I regret it in the future
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Just wanted to share my observation these days I’m noticing that the power dynamic between men and women is shifting at some point it was all about men chasing women and trying to get them… but lately the amount of men wanting serious relationship has gone down significantly and that’s making women desperate for a man who wants a real relationship. It’s like pretty much every woman that I talk to I can take them on a date and start relationship with them easily. If you want something fun it’s hard to get as much as everyone is saying all girls are hoes… I don’t see that but I know it’s gotten a lot easier than it was. Do you guys share my thoughts too or is it just cause of my experience?
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Just wanted to share my observation these days I’m noticing that the power dynamic between men and women is shifting at some point it was all about men chasing women and trying to get them… but lately the amount of men wanting serious relationship has gone down significantly and that’s making women desperate for a man who wants a real relationship. It’s like pretty much every woman that I talk to I can take them on a date and start relationship with them easily. If you want something fun it’s hard to get as much as everyone is saying all girls are hoes… I don’t see that but I know it’s gotten a lot easier than it was. Do you guys share my thoughts too or is it just cause of my experience?
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Alright okay,uhmmmm its my first time here venting and i have a lot of things in my mind i want to share....andd soo like am 19 and grade 12 and guys i have no friends like i do have 2friends at school but you know we dont contact that if there is no school how do i explain this:🧐 bcha school kelele anaweram we just meet and talk at school yelem endeza neger and i dont go out from my home am always inside doing the home chores mnamin uhhhhhh and i feel like am lonely yelem beka yebechegent semet nw mesemage after finishing the home chore i will just sit my ass down and scroll tik toks and ig reeels for hours(my screen time is like 15hr a day )and i want to prepare for matric but idk whats wrong with when once i open pdf and starts read my brain become numb azagalew mnamin tolo nw becha meyastelage keza tega tega yelegeal ena esun techaw beka tik tok mnamin ayalew and i regrets for not reading yesterday tomorrow lay and like the cycle continues(i wake up,i do some chores,i sleep and then scroll's) becha uhmmm i seen most of yall vents enam i notice abzogochachu are in ya 20's enam eski yehone yelem am confused with life eski tell me what should i do and how do i get rid of this loneliness feeling yelem betam gera gebetogal life💔
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Alright okay,uhmmmm its my first time here venting and i have a lot of things in my mind i want to share....andd soo like am 19 and grade 12 and guys i have no friends like i do have 2friends at school but you know we dont contact that if there is no school how do i explain this:🧐 bcha school kelele anaweram we just meet and talk at school yelem endeza neger and i dont go out from my home am always inside doing the home chores mnamin uhhhhhh and i feel like am lonely yelem beka yebechegent semet nw mesemage after finishing the home chore i will just sit my ass down and scroll tik toks and ig reeels for hours(my screen time is like 15hr a day )and i want to prepare for matric but idk whats wrong with when once i open pdf and starts read my brain become numb azagalew mnamin tolo nw becha meyastelage keza tega tega yelegeal ena esun techaw beka tik tok mnamin ayalew and i regrets for not reading yesterday tomorrow lay and like the cycle continues(i wake up,i do some chores,i sleep and then scroll's) becha uhmmm i seen most of yall vents enam i notice abzogochachu are in ya 20's enam eski yehone yelem am confused with life eski tell me what should i do and how do i get rid of this loneliness feeling yelem betam gera gebetogal life💔
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ከ10 ዓመት በላይ በዚህ አስቀያሚ ህይወት ኑሪያለሁ። በጣም ብዙ ነገሮችን አበላሽቶብኛል። እግዚአብሔር ይመስገን በቅርቡ ግን አልፎ አልፎ በወር በሁለት ወር አንዴ ከማድረግና ከማየት ውጭ አቁሚያለሁ። ያሳሰበኝና ጥያቄ የሆነብኝ masturbate ሳደርግ ብዙ አልቆይም 30 እስከ 60 ሰከንድ ብቆይ ነው። ይህ ነገር ጤናማ የወሲብ ህይወት ስጀምር ፈተና አይሆንብኝም? እናንተን ገጥሟቸዋል? ከገጠማችሁ ሚስተካከል ነገር ነው? እባካችሁ ልምዳችሁን አካፍሉኝ።
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ከ10 ዓመት በላይ በዚህ አስቀያሚ ህይወት ኑሪያለሁ። በጣም ብዙ ነገሮችን አበላሽቶብኛል። እግዚአብሔር ይመስገን በቅርቡ ግን አልፎ አልፎ በወር በሁለት ወር አንዴ ከማድረግና ከማየት ውጭ አቁሚያለሁ። ያሳሰበኝና ጥያቄ የሆነብኝ masturbate ሳደርግ ብዙ አልቆይም 30 እስከ 60 ሰከንድ ብቆይ ነው። ይህ ነገር ጤናማ የወሲብ ህይወት ስጀምር ፈተና አይሆንብኝም? እናንተን ገጥሟቸዋል? ከገጠማችሁ ሚስተካከል ነገር ነው? እባካችሁ ልምዳችሁን አካፍሉኝ።
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Being a middle child taught me many things, such as not being the center of attention. I think that's why I don't really mind if someone cares or not. However, lately, I've noticed that I'm craving attention from a certain person, and I'm not getting it.
Perhaps this desire stems from my insecurities; I often find myself comparing what I have to what others possess and feeling unworthy of love. As a result, I'm not doing well spiritually or mentally.
My plan for this break was to focus on my spiritual life and make peace with myself. I want my soul to understand how deeply Jesus loves her so that she won't seek love in other places. I want my soul to trust and lean on Jesus, to surrender all my worries to Him, and to live in peace.
“ነፍሴ ሆይ፤ ለምን ትተክዢያለሽ? ለምንስ በውስጤ ትታወኪያለሽ? ተስፋሽን በአምላክ ላይ አድርጊ፣ አዳኜና አምላኬን ገና አመሰግነዋለሁና።”
መዝሙር 42:11 NASV
I really want my soul to understand this.
I just wanted to let this out.
Thank you for reading.🫶🏽
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Being a middle child taught me many things, such as not being the center of attention. I think that's why I don't really mind if someone cares or not. However, lately, I've noticed that I'm craving attention from a certain person, and I'm not getting it.
Perhaps this desire stems from my insecurities; I often find myself comparing what I have to what others possess and feeling unworthy of love. As a result, I'm not doing well spiritually or mentally.
My plan for this break was to focus on my spiritual life and make peace with myself. I want my soul to understand how deeply Jesus loves her so that she won't seek love in other places. I want my soul to trust and lean on Jesus, to surrender all my worries to Him, and to live in peace.
“ነፍሴ ሆይ፤ ለምን ትተክዢያለሽ? ለምንስ በውስጤ ትታወኪያለሽ? ተስፋሽን በአምላክ ላይ አድርጊ፣ አዳኜና አምላኬን ገና አመሰግነዋለሁና።”
መዝሙር 42:11 NASV
I really want my soul to understand this.
I just wanted to let this out.
Thank you for reading.🫶🏽
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Hello I've had an accident recently and one of my tooth is completely gone. Doctors say i need an implant. Has anyone here ever had it done or do you know someone that has? I know the reputable dentists in ethiopia but Im looking for personal recommendations.
P.s implants and crowns aren't the same, Implant places metal screw in place of your teeth and takes a long time to be done
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Hello I've had an accident recently and one of my tooth is completely gone. Doctors say i need an implant. Has anyone here ever had it done or do you know someone that has? I know the reputable dentists in ethiopia but Im looking for personal recommendations.
P.s implants and crowns aren't the same, Implant places metal screw in place of your teeth and takes a long time to be done
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Hey only the guys , if u really love her don’t show her all ur love , she gon come up with a bullshit reason and say “ u love me too much , u’re too kind so we cant be together “ and u gon be wondering why
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Hey only the guys , if u really love her don’t show her all ur love , she gon come up with a bullshit reason and say “ u love me too much , u’re too kind so we cant be together “ and u gon be wondering why
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okay am drugaddict mainly tramadol and weed , athiest and loves music and computer. many guys outhere assume i am player but not am the opposite lover boy but still i didn't get the chance to prove ma self but am the type of guy who gives everthing at first day everday i got same answer. am doin what am doin cuz it keeps me company , i don't have nothing . but am pretty sure if i got some one real by ma side who gives me real happiness am ready to give it back fr am tired of temporary feelings
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okay am drugaddict mainly tramadol and weed , athiest and loves music and computer. many guys outhere assume i am player but not am the opposite lover boy but still i didn't get the chance to prove ma self but am the type of guy who gives everthing at first day everday i got same answer. am doin what am doin cuz it keeps me company , i don't have nothing . but am pretty sure if i got some one real by ma side who gives me real happiness am ready to give it back fr am tired of temporary feelings
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20M…Alright, I know this is way out there, but honestly, I love getting tapeworms. I don’t even care. I only take meds when the pain gets unbearable, but the real vibe? Pulling those sluggish worms out of my body is pure satisfaction. It feels so fucking weird but so fucking good, like nothing else. Yeah, it’s gross, but I’m not even sorry about it. It’s just one of those things that hits different and I’m here for it, no shame. Y’all can judge, but I’m living for that feeling. 🤷♂️
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20M…Alright, I know this is way out there, but honestly, I love getting tapeworms. I don’t even care. I only take meds when the pain gets unbearable, but the real vibe? Pulling those sluggish worms out of my body is pure satisfaction. It feels so fucking weird but so fucking good, like nothing else. Yeah, it’s gross, but I’m not even sorry about it. It’s just one of those things that hits different and I’m here for it, no shame. Y’all can judge, but I’m living for that feeling. 🤷♂️
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Hey, 24F. The thing is everyone wants me to get married and it is stressing me out, like I have dated before but these past two years it is just me and my work. I am usually busy. And when I sometimes find guys they all want sex which I am not gonna do before marriage. Like how do people find religious guy or someone who would not nag you|?????
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Hey, 24F. The thing is everyone wants me to get married and it is stressing me out, like I have dated before but these past two years it is just me and my work. I am usually busy. And when I sometimes find guys they all want sex which I am not gonna do before marriage. Like how do people find religious guy or someone who would not nag you|?????
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It is because I could not find an answer እስቲ እናንተ ከገባችሁ የምታውቁ ከሆነ መልሱልኝ
ነገሩ እንዲህ ነው......
Relationship ውስጥ ናቸው then ብዙ እየተጋጩ ብዙ ጊዜ እየደከማቸውም ቢሆን ብዙ ነገር አልፈው ይቆያሉ ግን በቃ ከሆነ ጊዜ በኃላ እሱ interest ያጣ ይመስላል እና አዎ በእርግጥ የሆነ ምክንያት አለው ትኩረቱን ሌላ ነገር ላይ አድርጎ ነው ( ስራ ነገር ) እና አሁን እኔ ያልገባኝ ቢሆን ይናገር ነበር አይደል? Interest ማጣት ቢሆን ያወራው ነበር አይደል?ግን ደሞ ብዙ ጊዜ ወንዶች ዝም ይላሉ እና አይገባኝም
If a man doesn't like her, why doesn't he say so? Why does he stay where he doesn't want , hurting her? የሚያገኘው ነገር እኮ ላይኖር ይችላል ያው ጥቅም ፍለጋ ነው እንዳንለው
ጥቅም ካልሆነ ምንድነው ለምንድነው ለምን ተናግሮ አይሄድም? አይ በቃ i can't ይባላል እኮ አ እንዴ ምን ችግር አለው?
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It is because I could not find an answer እስቲ እናንተ ከገባችሁ የምታውቁ ከሆነ መልሱልኝ
ነገሩ እንዲህ ነው......
Relationship ውስጥ ናቸው then ብዙ እየተጋጩ ብዙ ጊዜ እየደከማቸውም ቢሆን ብዙ ነገር አልፈው ይቆያሉ ግን በቃ ከሆነ ጊዜ በኃላ እሱ interest ያጣ ይመስላል እና አዎ በእርግጥ የሆነ ምክንያት አለው ትኩረቱን ሌላ ነገር ላይ አድርጎ ነው ( ስራ ነገር ) እና አሁን እኔ ያልገባኝ ቢሆን ይናገር ነበር አይደል? Interest ማጣት ቢሆን ያወራው ነበር አይደል?ግን ደሞ ብዙ ጊዜ ወንዶች ዝም ይላሉ እና አይገባኝም
If a man doesn't like her, why doesn't he say so? Why does he stay where he doesn't want , hurting her? የሚያገኘው ነገር እኮ ላይኖር ይችላል ያው ጥቅም ፍለጋ ነው እንዳንለው
ጥቅም ካልሆነ ምንድነው ለምንድነው ለምን ተናግሮ አይሄድም? አይ በቃ i can't ይባላል እኮ አ እንዴ ምን ችግር አለው?
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"The Weight of Holding Others’ Pain While Carrying My Own"
I’m a 30year old male psychiatrist. I spend my days sitting in a quiet room, listening to people pour out their deepest fears, their darkest thoughts, and their most painful memories. I hold space for their grief, their anger, their confusion. I help them untangle the knots in their minds, guiding them toward clarity and healing. It’s a privilege to do this work, to witness the resilience of the human spirit, to see people grow and heal. But sometimes, it feels like I’m drowning in the weight of it all.
I’m supposed to be the one who has it together. The one who knows how to fix things. The one who can sit calmly and say, “Let’s break this down,” or “Have you tried this coping skill?” But what happens when I’m the one who can’t get out of bed in the morning? What happens when the darkness I help others navigate creeps into my own mind?
I have depression. It’s not something I talk about often, because how can I? How can I sit across from a patient and tell them, “I understand your pain,” when they might see my struggle as a weakness? How can I reassure them that there’s hope when some days I can’t even find it for myself? It feels like a betrayal of the trust they place in me.
I know the tools. I know the techniques. I know the science behind it all. But depression doesn’t care about what I know. It doesn’t care that I’ve spent years studying the brain, that I’ve helped countless people through their own battles. It doesn’t care that I’m supposed to be the strong one. It just sits there, heavy and unrelenting, whispering that I’m not enough, that I’ll never be enough.
Some days, I feel like a fraud. How can I help others when I can’t even help myself? How can I tell someone to reach out for support when I struggle to do the same? The stigma I fight against every day the stigma that says "mental illness is a sign of weakness" is the same stigma that silences me. It’s the voice in my head that says, “You should know better. You should be better.”
But here’s the truth: I’m human. I’m not immune to the very things I treat. And maybe that’s okay. Maybe it’s okay to admit that I don’t have all the answers, that I’m fighting my own battles while helping others fight theirs. Maybe it’s okay to let myself be imperfect, to seek help when I need it, to lean on the people who care about me.
Depression is hard. Being a psychiatrist with depression is even harder. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that we’re all in this together. And maybe, just maybe, my struggle can make me a better healer not because I have all the answers, but because I understand what it means to sit in the darkness and still believe in the light.
So today, I’ll keep going. For my patients, for myself, for the hope that things can get better. Even if it’s just one small step at a time.
#MentalIllness #Melancholy #HealthComplications #Agitation
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"The Weight of Holding Others’ Pain While Carrying My Own"
I’m a 30year old male psychiatrist. I spend my days sitting in a quiet room, listening to people pour out their deepest fears, their darkest thoughts, and their most painful memories. I hold space for their grief, their anger, their confusion. I help them untangle the knots in their minds, guiding them toward clarity and healing. It’s a privilege to do this work, to witness the resilience of the human spirit, to see people grow and heal. But sometimes, it feels like I’m drowning in the weight of it all.
I’m supposed to be the one who has it together. The one who knows how to fix things. The one who can sit calmly and say, “Let’s break this down,” or “Have you tried this coping skill?” But what happens when I’m the one who can’t get out of bed in the morning? What happens when the darkness I help others navigate creeps into my own mind?
I have depression. It’s not something I talk about often, because how can I? How can I sit across from a patient and tell them, “I understand your pain,” when they might see my struggle as a weakness? How can I reassure them that there’s hope when some days I can’t even find it for myself? It feels like a betrayal of the trust they place in me.
I know the tools. I know the techniques. I know the science behind it all. But depression doesn’t care about what I know. It doesn’t care that I’ve spent years studying the brain, that I’ve helped countless people through their own battles. It doesn’t care that I’m supposed to be the strong one. It just sits there, heavy and unrelenting, whispering that I’m not enough, that I’ll never be enough.
Some days, I feel like a fraud. How can I help others when I can’t even help myself? How can I tell someone to reach out for support when I struggle to do the same? The stigma I fight against every day the stigma that says "mental illness is a sign of weakness" is the same stigma that silences me. It’s the voice in my head that says, “You should know better. You should be better.”
But here’s the truth: I’m human. I’m not immune to the very things I treat. And maybe that’s okay. Maybe it’s okay to admit that I don’t have all the answers, that I’m fighting my own battles while helping others fight theirs. Maybe it’s okay to let myself be imperfect, to seek help when I need it, to lean on the people who care about me.
Depression is hard. Being a psychiatrist with depression is even harder. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that we’re all in this together. And maybe, just maybe, my struggle can make me a better healer not because I have all the answers, but because I understand what it means to sit in the darkness and still believe in the light.
So today, I’ll keep going. For my patients, for myself, for the hope that things can get better. Even if it’s just one small step at a time.
#MentalIllness #Melancholy #HealthComplications #Agitation
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I want to vent and experiences regarding my journey as a restaurant owner I am in my twenties and have established my own restaurant which is more of a fastfood spot although telekm manmn adlm mnamn ena I am passionate about my work I am a selftaught chef who takes pride in cooking and I have received many compliments on the dishes ena erase yeserawachw menuwoch alug however as I navigate this new venture I have encountered several challenges I had no prior experience in running a restaurant before opening it aside from my skills in cooking one of the difficulties I face is managing inventory while I understand the basics of purchasing supplies I struggle with determining how long I can store and and use certain ingredients also how can I pricing some of ingredients are so difficult hisabu lemawetat aza new gra new migebaw ena currently employ five workers ena hulum yerasun sera yeseral smoothly while buying in bulk would be more cost-effective I often choose to purchase from nearby small shops because I lack assistance in handling bulk shopping additionally one of my employees show unprofessional attitude making subtle jokes with colleagues about my purchasing decisions despite this all my employees respect me I have also realized the challenge of maintaining a professional boundary with my team I treat them with kindness and consider their situation knowing they have left their families for work yaw ale aydel hulum sew hiwote alw ena sasebew yasazenugal mnamn ena jegiziyat bewala when I try to create a supportive environment some of them tend to overstep boundaries when mistakes occur they sometimes fail to acknowledge them which adds to my difficulties in managing the team effectively I find myself in a state of confusion but I remind myself that challenges are part of the journey if there is a solution I would appreciate any advice if not I am grateful for taking the time to share my thoughts I believe that even the hardest days will pass
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I want to vent and experiences regarding my journey as a restaurant owner I am in my twenties and have established my own restaurant which is more of a fastfood spot although telekm manmn adlm mnamn ena I am passionate about my work I am a selftaught chef who takes pride in cooking and I have received many compliments on the dishes ena erase yeserawachw menuwoch alug however as I navigate this new venture I have encountered several challenges I had no prior experience in running a restaurant before opening it aside from my skills in cooking one of the difficulties I face is managing inventory while I understand the basics of purchasing supplies I struggle with determining how long I can store and and use certain ingredients also how can I pricing some of ingredients are so difficult hisabu lemawetat aza new gra new migebaw ena currently employ five workers ena hulum yerasun sera yeseral smoothly while buying in bulk would be more cost-effective I often choose to purchase from nearby small shops because I lack assistance in handling bulk shopping additionally one of my employees show unprofessional attitude making subtle jokes with colleagues about my purchasing decisions despite this all my employees respect me I have also realized the challenge of maintaining a professional boundary with my team I treat them with kindness and consider their situation knowing they have left their families for work yaw ale aydel hulum sew hiwote alw ena sasebew yasazenugal mnamn ena jegiziyat bewala when I try to create a supportive environment some of them tend to overstep boundaries when mistakes occur they sometimes fail to acknowledge them which adds to my difficulties in managing the team effectively I find myself in a state of confusion but I remind myself that challenges are part of the journey if there is a solution I would appreciate any advice if not I am grateful for taking the time to share my thoughts I believe that even the hardest days will pass
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I have adhd and bpd . It's making my life so hard . What do I do . I'm a teen and i don't want to tell my parents about it but I'm having trouble learning , focusing , maintaing friendship or rship . I don't know what to do help me out 😭🙏🏻
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I have adhd and bpd . It's making my life so hard . What do I do . I'm a teen and i don't want to tell my parents about it but I'm having trouble learning , focusing , maintaing friendship or rship . I don't know what to do help me out 😭🙏🏻
#Friendship #MentalIllness #Family #Teen
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