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Hey am 22f and here is the thing i have or had i don't know its been like 1 and half to be 2 years relationship in the middle we were break up its my fault like he said tho but i tried so many thing to bring back us and last December i talked him like our memories and i said i want go back or bring it here and he said me too but in one condition i said like what and he said private relationship i thought of his offer and said yes like knowing something will or be or going on but he covered it up like no one has to know about us getting back together and after much time we met and have good time but in the next time he disappeared no call no contact no text or seen to that what i left for him and i want to know Where am i?......what should i do then? Why he doing this to me gn
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Hey I am 20 and I am married it’s been 2 months since we have married and we went on a family vacation with him and his family then on night when we were walking at night we wanted to have some coffee after we were done he went to pay the bills and his mother left to the place we stayed at with his little brother then we started walking and he asked me at the middle of the walk where his mother was and I told him she went and by this time she may arrive at our place and he started panicking and then I was like jib belat alkut ena betam tenadede and when he asked his sis and told him what I told him before sithed endayenat he trusted her ena betam tenado he did not talked to me saying why do you say to my mother jib belat
Am I in fault I’m confused

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HEY y'all idk if I need advice, help or just someone to listen I have two topics to discuss with y'all in terms of my school and religion I'll start with the religion one. I came from non religious family I mean they have religion but yk they're not that yk I grew up zmblo neger and last year I tried to be better even for a lil bit to know about orthodoxy and I was consistent I was doing great I was curious to know more, I used to not miss any day without praying and salskeds kerche alawkm neber then i came here for uni shi and I stopped doing allat I mean I pray occasionally, never went to kidasse my excuse being having to study and not getting enough sleep or the church being too far mnamn lame excuse ik. on top of that not praying used to bother me dro dro now it doesn't even bother me even for a bit idk what has gotten into me but I'm getting weak. I don't even have a little knowledge not even a common one about orthodoxy I always feel ashamed when people asked me basic question about it bc yk I have a responsibility to know about my religion right?(it'll be helpful if y'all can recommend books, videos, channals anything you think will be helpful to strengthen my faith) and also I want to know how to pray dawit and wdasse mariam I only pray wdasse mariam currently but I'm not really good at it I want to know the rules, the instructions what to do before getting ready to pray, the times. it will be helpful if y'all help me out really? Thank you

about my academics demo yk I've always been average about my grade like always no matter how hard, how much, how smart I study I always get average mark not even satisfactory level of my effort yk. my problem is the exams ik well what I'm being taught eko just when it comes to fucking exams suddenly I'm the dumbest person to sit on that exam. I just can't seem to understand what's happening to me fr. just like last year I studied my ass off for matric and got shit results likeeeeeee what's wrong w me? currently I'm in uni and I'm repeating that as well studying my ass off and having average mark. fyi I'm only good at memorizing things yk I can't deal w concepts and calculation idk if it's that or idk and one thing that has been bothering me is that evb around me is naturally smart like ik I shouldn't comparing my self n all but I can't help it I genuinely can't help it I feel like I'm the shadow yk seeing them put a lil effort and scoring more than me gets me a lil idk bcha. unim I'm getting the average grades as always idk what to do about it salmokr bihon eshi gn I've tried y'all fr I don't get it and my chances of getting the department I want is decreasing incredibly thanks to my dumb ass, don't get me wrong I'm smart but I'm not smart when it comes to having the exams idk why that happens yk. bcha alawkm this is too long if you made it this far thank you so much for your time and it'll be helpful if you drop some advice either on the religion or academics or both it'll be helpful fr

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I am 28 male and I have got hiv from my parents and it has been killing me inside. I have tried to find the right person unfortunately i can't and I have never been in a relationship.    I'm holding onto this hope that things will change, but I know it's probably impossible. I feel that I am fooling myself. I’ve done my best, but now I am exhausted. I don’t want to keep trying anymore.I am currently looking for a FWB or a sexual partner.If there's someone interested in it, hit me up.I can get people in my circle who are not in the same condition, but I want to avoid hurting anyone. That's why I'm asking here. Please note that I am not looking for advice or insults. Thank you.

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Hey y'all endet nachu so here is the thing
i'd friend gibi lay tru tegbabtenal he's cool humble des yemil lij kind of abzagnaw setoch yemifelgut aynet but lately weird yehone bahirwoch amtha like jealously kelila wend gar endigenagn ayfelgim , flirting texts keza demo what if and lay binhon aynet weri ena guys we've known for like 3 month ena what shall i do ? I like him yea but its too soon to trust beza lay he's confused .
Pls guys don't be mean , help me figure this thing cuz i dont wanna lose my friend...

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hey everyone, 23 female. after i finished 12 i was trying to do my own job like negd mnamn so it didn't go as planned i was also struggling financially because i was supporting my family ena i started reselling items online, i have a huge potential and interest working in cosmetics betoch and lebs betoch so anyone lebs bet yalachu serategna metfelegu or mifeleg sew metaku please help your sister out or any work bihonm i'll be happy to do it, I've been doing online shopping for 5yrs I have experience on that too, i can be a waitress too ena ezi business lay yalachu mekter metchelu please help and thank you for your time 😊🫶🏻

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Hey guys im 19 female so the thing is im single and I really want a stable relationship and I only date to marry the problem is men my around my age are not mature enough for me and I find my self getting attracted to older men not old old tho early 30s and it’s scaring me is it normal and do you think they would be interested and if you have the same experience pls give me advice

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Ere pls  tru eyeserabet yale any  pharmacy professional sew kale graduate kareku almost years currently am working in wholesale lay be 5k net salary
I need to work further for this beka retail lay ,seals btam bzu so mnm eyegebagh aydelm yalteredahut aserar ew weys i don't know getan sewu tru yiserabetal ene gn mnm algebaghm
Pls if u know any information about this help me guys

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I’m 30, a man with good looks and grace.

It’s been four years since my engagement ended, yet my ex still appears in my dreams occasionally. Our careers sometimes bring us into the same spaces, even though she’s moved on married, thriving, and living her own life while I feel stuck reliving the past. How is it possible for someone to linger in your mind so long after everything’s over? But here I am. In the years since, I’ve built a stable career, traveled every part of the world, and achieved financial success, just as she has. On the surface, my life looks glamorous, but it feels hollow. Lately, I’ve tried connecting with people to build a family, but I catch myself unconsciously drawn to partners who mirror her traits: ambitious, financially secure, often in fields like medicine or high-powered careers. At the same time, I’ve shut down emotionally toward anyone who doesn’t meet strict intellectual or financial standards. It’s like I’m guarding myself from feeling anything unless they “measure up,” which leaves me isolated in this polished, yet lonely, existence.

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Hello everyone i don't even know if i should do this or not but gra slegebagn new lamakrachu I'm a 24 years old man who couldn't get to high school enkuan university ena wede 8 wer lemihon gize yebet kiray mishefnew ene neberkugn for the family but i had issues with my work ena ahun almost 2 wer lihonegn new salkefl I'm so stressed guys algebachum anyways i don't even know lemn ezi endemawera maybe saweraw kelel lilegn ychlal bemilew new bcha thank you for your time i appreciate you all so my question is is there anything you can help me with maybe a short term job that can get me out of this situation?

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I'm 19f and mn meslachu ke boyfriende gar getetalan ke 6 wer belay yehonenal ena i'm still love him ena selesu mn lay edale mawk alchlem esum endene filling yenorew yehon mn larg pls

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Hey every one, i transfered money by error to the wrong person via telebirr. Is their any means to return my money. I have tried to call him but he doesn't answer. Do you know any solution related to ethio tele and any other techinolgial aspects?

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i don't know how to vent i will just say am Try to  fighting with my feeling I watch to much movies and Tv serious and I have feeling to that so I can't stop watching that thing  so Looking les here  give me advice how to stop or how to do that thing I don't do that thing before with 💃💃 20+ female who want to  feel something ???? Or give me advice Just Advice or Dm me

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Hey guys I have sexual problem mastuabtion btm bzu gize honotal mn endemareg gra gebagn please help me #SexualAssault #Adult #Agitation Telegram • Instagram • Twitter
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Hey everyone
Ahun lay sele hiwete awereche erasu alcheresm btm btm nw yedekemegm maregew nw gera yegebagn family erasu sayredak sikr btm yikebdal tmro alhon blogn sera eyefelku nw gn mnm alsaka alegn edle dmo twut ende ende end yetememebet ylm eski mekerugn bemaryam
Ahun mergeta ga mehed nw yekeregn maryamen pls mekrugn agezugn

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Okay let's dive in to it MN meselachu am at my lowest ena it is not even like bekin mknyat yalew nger like I see all the people having bzu trouble gn mine is not as hard as them but am like close to like take ma life away ena am always insecure about my body like since like I was a kid I have trouble focusing on studying also I think I have ADHD and since I was a kid I've been like Loved my parents try there best to like masadg me ena demo my mom were never active in my life like she spend her like provide bemaderg nw yasalefechw ena my dad also but he is like alcoholic and he smokes he don't know that I know ena enough back story I feel like this is long sorry so fast forward to know like this 4 years my mom left again but this Time she left me and my sister she is 8 ena MN meslechau like class and y bet sra mnamn gar tedemro my mental health is like out of the window ena 9 ena 10 public school neberuk ena yezane I have everything under control I thought ena last year private school gebahu ena like 11 sngeba natural ena social ymeretal ena my whole life I've been sure am gonna be a lawyer and I also love Geo ena beka I was sure social endememert but guess what my dad said no and natural gebahu ena mn meselachu I hate evey bit of it I feel like dying know am 12 and am worried like mewdek ymeslgnal but I don't want to I resent my dad every and I hate that but I can help it and like am insecure one day someone mistake me for my mom ena ask how my husband is whenever am in public beka yhone sw Will comment about my body ena I haven't have a real like love life mnamn not this like teenage girls malet like I always look bigger than my age no friends like introverted asf ena beka am good for nothing I know this might not be a real probably for anyone gn like I feel guilty about my feelings maryamn I read the storys out here ena l feel lucky gn beka idk thank you if you made it this far if you like this one I will gonna vent another one 💕

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Hey guys almost 19 (M) here. So the thing is my name is Nati. because of that a lot of girls stay away from me. which i liked it since i need my peace and i don't want situation ships, friend with benefits,... anything like that i just want to leave in peace btw.. but the problems is girls are GETTING AWAY TOO FAR.

i noticed it one time i was going to ask one girl for her note since im in college and she acted like i want to take her our on a date minamn and she asked me "is ur name nati?" im like "Yeah?"... like bro im human normal human. it is peaceful but annoying at the same time. when i talk to girls they think i want them minamn...

so i was thinking to change my name, any advice?

the second thing is about V. apparently im single and V. and a lot of people don't beilive me because of my name. the point im trying to make is my close friends are bullying me. but is it worth it? to loose ur V? for just random girl?

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This is a poem i wrote on how i feel about love does anyone think this way
LOVE                                             I always wanted to experience teenage love
I always wanted to experience my person
Know how we have our opposites
And how we can make them in to something that's common
Learning how to bond with a person
And build that relationship with trust and love
And in all the things you see in like the movies and staff
Treating like a princess and giving her flowers
Being by her side through out the rough times
Thats the kind of love i always dream about
But i have the habbit of self sabotaging
Even tho i have never been in love
I always think that this person is gonna find somebody better
This person is probably gonna lose interest and get bored of me easily
Or what if this person didn't come for Love
Nowdays girls are very unpredictable
I am not saying all girls are the same
But i don't know my luck
What if i fall for the one that is like that
Which is why i really don't like to get in a relationship or even talk to people
But for some reason i always crave to be in love
I feel that i am a hoplless romantic
That it's too scared to be a romance
But i guess that one day maybe i'll give it a shot
And get heartbroken for the first time or
have the love of my life.

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Is it real? This whole sugar momma thing in Ethiopia, is people making money. I see hints, but nobody talks straight. It's like this huge secret. You see how some people struggle, the lack of opportunity, and then you hear these rumors about women with resources, looking for… companionship. Is it a way out? A trap? Nobody says. Just shifty looks and "it's complicated." Yeah, everything's complicated, but this feels extra murky.

Are these women even real? Legends? And if they are, how do you even… approach that? No sugar dating apps in Addis Ababa! Just whispers and rumors. Frustrating! Then there's the guilt. Is it wrong to even think about this? But then you see the dead-end jobs, the lack of options… what choice do I have? Just tell me the truth! Myth? Possibility? Dangerous game? I need to know. This uncertainty is killing me.

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Hy guys,i am f 24. I have a question. Is it not normal to be a virgin bezi edme ende?
ena demo wendoch atfelgum ende virgin set?
Please let me know guys

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The Consequence of Eating Our Dinner at Breakfast
It has been a while since I last shared my thoughts, but today, I want to talk about something important—how our generation is facing problems that didn’t exist in our parents' time. Worse, we’re not handling them well.
Through both personal experience and observation, I’ve noticed a few key issues:
1.Lust
Desire is everywhere, but meaning is lost. Relationships have become transactional, and deep connections are rare. People chase pleasure without commitment, mistaking temporary satisfaction for fulfillment—only to be left empty. Worse, we ruin our future for a moment of lust, only to regret it immediately. So, my people, know the difference between lust and love.
Don’t get me wrong—I am no saint. I struggle just like each and every one of you. But I never lie to myself. I know this path leads to misery.
Yet, despite all of this, hope is not lost. We can choose differently. The road to something meaningful is never easy, but it is always worth it. And no matter how far we’ve strayed, we can always turn back.

2. The Mental Toll of Social Media
Social media fuels unrealistic expectations, making us fixate on what we lack instead of appreciating what we have. Anxiety and depression are soaring, yet we numb ourselves with distractions instead of real solutions. It’s time to step back, practice gratitude, and reclaim our peace.

3.The Illusion of Social Approval
Why do we crave social approval so much? What’s so satisfying about likes, followers, and virtual friendships when none of them truly matter? You could have 10K followers on Instagram, yet not one would contribute a dime when you actually need help. So, what are you really achieving?
I can’t help but laugh when I see people in recreational areas forcing a fake smile just for a photo—living for the post instead of the moment. Why not just enjoy life as it happens, without needing an audience to validate it? እዉነት እስቲ እራሳችሁን ጠይቁት ለማን ነው ሁሉስ ነገር

4. The Cost of the Easy Road
Some young men spend their youth with sugar mamas for quick cash, while some educated, healthy women choose to be with older men for material gain. I've seen people take this path, and they all regret it.
I understand those with no options—those struggling to support a sick family member or facing true hardship. But if you have a choice and still take the easy road, know that the price of that shortcut is often far greater than it seems.
I understand the importance of money in today’s world we all live in this reality. But we must ask ourselves: is it truly worth sacrificing our dignity, our peace, and our soul

Our generation is eating its dinner at breakfast—consuming everything too soon, too fast, without patience or wisdom. And the consequences are already unfolding before us.
እራታችንን ቁርስ ላይ መብላት ለ ጊዜው ያስደስት ይሆናል ነገር ግን እራት ሰዐት ሲደርስ በፆም ለማደር ያስገድደናል ::
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent My high,my low and in between part 1 am a 24-year-old Male Back in high school, there was this girl I loved—obsessively, even. I don’t know why, but I truly believed she was my soulmate. My love felt pure, and…
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my high,my low and in between part 2
The next day, I sat at the front of the class, as usual. The girls showed up late and immediately pulled the chairs beside me, greeting me with a simple "Hi." I nodded, returning the greeting, and then refocused on the class. The strange thing was, I actually enjoyed being in class now. If the teacher was engaging, I’d participate and speak up, something I never did in high school. Back then, I barely cared. But now, I couldn’t understand why some people just sat there quietly when we were all there to learn. Our families expected us to make something of ourselves, so why waste the time and resources?
The class was a double period, and when it ended, we had another session in the afternoon. I was planning to grab lunch with my friends at our usual cheap spot, but the girls asked where we should study. I suggested the back of the building and then went to my friends, telling them to call me when they were heading to lunch. They asked where I was going, and I casually told them I was helping the girls study. They laughed, surprised, and asked when that had started. "Since yesterday," I said, and then left to join the girls.
When we got to the back of the building, it was crowded, so we moved to a nearby classroom and found an empty space. We sat down, chatted for a bit, and I asked what we should study. To my surprise, they weren’t as out of touch as I’d expected. Don’t get me wrong—they weren’t geniuses, but they weren’t stupid either. In fact, I could see a lot of potential in them. We studied for about 30 or 40 minutes before the conversation drifted, and I mostly listened. I wasn’t much of a talker at the time, but they certainly were. They seemed to enjoy talking, and I didn’t mind listening.
However, I wasn’t entirely comfortable with the way they constantly touched me. They’d say things like, "Your hands are beautiful," which made me feel uneasy. I thanked them, but I wasn’t sure how to react. Then one of them said, "Why don’t you talk more? Are you afraid of us?"
I shook my head. "Why would I be?"
She seemed unsure, almost like she was probing me for something. "I don’t know. You don’t talk much. You seem uninterested..."
I shrugged, trying to brush it off. "I’m not uninterested. It’s just my nature. Don’t overthink it."
I tried to engage in their conversation more, but my mind was still on the discomfort. Soon after, my friends called and asked where I was. I told them, and they informed me they were heading to lunch. I said I’d meet them afterward. But the girls insisted I eat lunch with them. They wouldn’t take no for an answer.
Reluctantly, I told my friends I wouldn’t be joining them, and I went with the girls instead. They led me to a place that wasn’t familiar to most students—a fancier, more expensive restaurant. One of them paid for the meal, and I didn’t even think twice about it. I only had 150 birr in my pocket, so I wasn’t about to argue. We had a good meal, and then we left.
As we walked out, we kept talking. I found myself more at ease now, but still uncertain. The mix of curiosity and unease was hard to shake off. But there was something about it that drew me in, something that made me think I could learn a lot from these girls.
As we parted ways, I couldn’t help but reflect. It was strange—this life I was starting to embrace felt so different from the one I’d lived before. I was still figuring things out, caught between the past and whatever was coming next. But one thing was clear: I was starting to let go of old habits, old feelings, and perhaps even old regrets. Maybe, just maybe, I was ready for what life had in store.

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