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Hey y’all I am freshman student at AASTU. I came here to study software engineering but unfortunately my grades are too low I even got F on physics😭 so the placement may even put me on applied science. Also my parents don’t want me to study anything other than CS or Software Engineering so any good private collage suggestions or should I apply at Addis Ababa university next year with social department???

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Quick question
why the fuck are people who don’t matter, who bring zero value to my life, acting like they’ve got a backstage pass to my damn business?

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Heyyy y’all
19M
Is it okay to be bisexual actually i like girls more but somehow im attracted to both genders
Like im not into those goofy girls and boys butt im into clean girls and boys mostly olders and riches😭😭
Any advices
Don’t judge

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Hey,
I want your advice on this, specifically from a male perspective. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over four years, and we love each other deeply. He has shown me his love on so many levels. We are in a long-distance relationship because he is at university, but he comes home whenever he has free time. We’ve shared a lot of good and bad times together, and we’ve done everything together, like planning our future.
Recently, though, he has started to become distant. I’ve tried to talk to him, but he doesn’t answer my calls or texts. When I asked him why, he said he’s not in a good place mentally and doesn’t want to drag me into his mess. He said he needs silence for now because his mind is eating him up, and he doesn’t even know what he’s feeling. He told me he still loves me but doesn’t want to talk; he just wants silence.
What should I do? I miss him so much. Talking to him was my daily routine, and all I want is to marry him and start a family. I don’t want to give up on him, but I also don’t know how to handle this. Does this kind of situation happen to all men or in all relationships? If so, how do you deal with it?
From a male perspective, how would you want your partner to react during a time like this? I really need some advice.

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Hey guys i want ask you something.... technique ena muya ict lemamer nebr ena temrachu metaku kalachu betngeruge about your experience practical knowledge nw yalew network administration yastmralu mnamn milwn betngeruge ena snt gzi nw miwesdew ena everything you know tell me please

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My high,my low and in between part 1
am a 24-year-old Male
Back in high school, there was this girl I loved—obsessively, even. I don’t know why, but I truly believed she was my soulmate. My love felt pure, and no matter how many other girls showed interest in me, I couldn’t bring myself to care. Looking back, I probably hurt a lot of feelings. Maybe I should have given those girls a chance, but love had blinded me completely.
Then, in 11th grade, I finally got the courage to confess my feelings to her. To my surprise, she said yes. I wasn’t ready for that answer. I was so overwhelmed that when a family situation forced me to miss school for a week, I almost felt relieved. But when I returned, I had no idea what to do next. So I simply started talking to her during breaks, adoring every moment with her.
She was the kind of girl everyone knew—the outgoing, popular type, always at the center of attention. But she had a wild side. She smoked weed regularly, something I was completely against. I was just a typical "nice guy," never drawn to that kind of lifestyle. Yet, none of it lessened my love for her.
At the end of 11th grade, she failed and had to transfer to another school. Just like that, she was gone.
12th grade felt different. I don’t know why, but I always seemed to attract the "bad girls"—the ones who’d playfully mess with my hair, grab my hands, and find excuses to talk to me. Maybe they liked the contrast, the idea of taming the quiet, good guy. But I was never interested. Not just because I was still in love, but because we had nothing in common. I used to read a lot of books, and I wanted deep conversations, but they weren’t interested. So I ignored them. But they didn’t seem to care. They were bold, confident—completely unbothered by my silence.
Despite my love for reading and deep thinking, I hated studying. I barely passed 12th grade with a mark I wasn’t proud of. I couldn’t get into Addis Ababa University, so I enrolled in a private university instead. Determined to change, I focused on improving myself—academically, socially, even in the way I dressed. And it worked. My grades went up, and I built a solid network of friends.
Then, during the first half of my second semester, two girls started approaching me. They asked if I could help them with their studies. I said yes, but I knew their real intentions. They were the class "bad girls"—the type who barely cared about school. That same day, they messaged me on Telegram, asking what we should study the next day.
I sighed. I knew exactly how this would go. They’d show up, pretend to take notes, then steer the conversation elsewhere. And yet, a part of me was curious—curious about their world, their confidence, the way they never seemed to doubt themselves.
The next day, they arrived at the library, dressed like they were heading to a party rather than a study session. One of them,  slid into the chair across from me, her eyes playful. ምን እናጥና መምህር
And strangely enough, we did study—well, at least for the first half-hour. Then the conversation drifted.
"You’re different," the other girl said , tilting her head.
How am i different i asked
Both said tawkewaleh

Then we talked or rather, I listened as they spoke. They were playful with their hands, constantly finding excuses to touch me. Before things could get out of hand, I told them I had to go home. They both hugged me and asked when we could study again.
That night, as I lay in bed, I thought about my past—the girl I had once loved so intensely, the ones I had ignored, the marks I had barely passed with. And now, here I was, caught between who I used to be and who I was becoming.
Maybe, just maybe, I was finally ready to let go of the past.

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ሰላም fam, አንዴት ናችሁ 1 ነገር ላማክራችሁ ነበር እና long relationship ኖሮኝ አያቅም like አስካሁን 3 ሰው ምናምን date አርጊአለው ግን ሁሉንም ቢበዛ 6 month date ባረግ ነው
1st person የኔ ችግር ነበር the breakup
2nd person he block me (totally not my fault)
3rd person ደሞ he just wanna ጊዜአዊ ነገር not stable and real relationship
ብቻ what do u guys think am I in bad state

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You know what i need a boyfriend yes i fucking surely need a boyfriend like fuck all the waiting and not the right time thing i just lost my new airpod i stole from my siter i remember having it when i got out from library and before i got into the cafe then suddenly boom it's gone😭😭😭 it's new eko demo and she's gonna kill me if she know that i lost it i just wanna call to someone and cry my eyes out and tell him how i lost it and need a little comforting 😭😭😭i realized today that i really need a boyfriend 🥺

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"I'm 24m, a student at addis Ababa campus, and honestly, I'm tired of walking this life alone. I've spent years in school "chekela😋" and balancing work, never really focusing on relationships. Now, though, my heart aches for something deeper. I want to share my life with someone, with a woman who values the same things I do.

I'm a Christian Orthodox, and it's crucial to me that my partner shares that faith. I believe in true love, a love that’s built on respect, empathy, and a commitment that lasts a lifetime – a marriage. I want to be with someone who sees the beauty in humanity, someone whose actions are guided by kindness.

I admit it, I'm a virgin🙈, and talking to women(shy). I get so caught up in my head, I freeze up. But the truth is, I want to experience a real, committed relationship. I don’t want another year to pass feeling alone, longing for something real. I'm ready for love, a genuine connection, not just some fleeting moment. This isn’t just a passing thought, this is a vent from the heart. I'm ready for my compass to lead me to true love❤️."
Females give me some advice on this🫣.

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I am Sami
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Eshi selam

Ye 22 amet wend nege
my net worth
፦ 2.5Million $ / 320Million birr
  Flex lemadreg aydelem ‼️
Be wer 50k$+ / 5Mbirr  income alege salsera by my investments
Becha kezih behuala le income / le birr alseram Yaw big Empire build lemadreg kalhone beker becha bezih wer ke sera alem retired adregeyalew gen Lalefut 7 ametat angeten defche serche new ezih yedereskut ena Fetari hayle erdata !
i sacrificed my teenage years to get in here ke 8th grade befekade dropout adrege betesebochen ye business capital salteyek berase bagegehut birr reinvest eyaderegkuge  new ezi yalehut !

   ፨ Ahun wanaw neger

Ene physicaly , mentaly , financialy .. education laym teru lay nege  Chegru Relationship lay astesaseben astekakye mengedn merche megemer  felige new .!!!

፧  gf mnamn mnm alyazkum neber distract lalmehon bye

📍ahun yaluge 3 merchawich new !

1,) 1yr yahle lesua semet yalege lig alech gen distracted lalmehon awarecheyat alakim kesua gar ye 1yr-2yr plan awtecheyalew kerbeyat kehonechige date to marriage begize wedim wedyam salel lemagbat .

yezih chigru be hiwote / marriage / sex satisfy salhon cheat badergs & esuas batetamen le relationshipu new enji le birr ayasasbegm ?


2,) esuan techeyat lela setoch or models birr medbe feta eyalkuge menor travel eyaderegkuge keteleyayu hagerat setoch gar

yezih chigeru degmo loyal
alagegem selemaferarek & yene yemlat degafi feminine energy
Aynoregem !


3,) having multiple 3-5 wifs malete yemiwelduleg yale marriage gen yale esua esuan endzih madreg alfligim .

📍ke lelochin setoch gar life asalfe degmo wedesua behedm cheat badergs bcha gra yegebaw caze !

📍ena hasabachu glesulige bene bota bthonu men tadergalachu or men baderg  yshalegal  bezaw yenanten ፦ age , states ...

body count & net worth high yehone kasalfachut negeruge
1 women / 100 women
yetu yeshalegal yetekmegal ⁉️

♦️ bednb letagzuge yemitchilu kehone usernam askemtulige
& Tnx all of you ‼️

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Helloo everyone i hope y'all are doing good.
so straight to the point, I'm in my freshman year at aastu, it is basically draining me emotionally plus im diabetic and it's not suitable for me at all and i didn't actually know it's an engineering campus before joining. I hate maths and physics which makes engineering feilds literal hell for me lol. Anddd also i have a strong and well providing mom but It really saddens me to see her strive all by her self, i feel like i have to at least make my own money for my own spendings. For next year I'm planning to join one of the private universities in addis, evening programs and work during the day. What do you guys think? What would you do if you were me? It's good to see from different povs. Thank you in advance!

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This surely is gonna ruffle some feathers but am I the only one who gets the feeling that our sense of morality and justice as a human society is getting warped day by day?

We are wasting so much time on topics that otherwise shouldn't be controversial and more of a common sense. As time goes by we are getting inclined more towards what is superficial rather than doing the right thing. To mention a few there are some topics that divide the world into two groups like pro-life and pro-choice in the case of abortion, the normalisation of sex before marriage and many more.

I am open to an intelligent debate but I have never encountered a good argument in support of the legalization of abortion. We as humans have fallen so far as to justify the murder of an innocent child for the sake of "mental trauma" that the mother would have to go through. Things have become so twisted that arguing against pro-choice would get you the label of being misogynistic and oppressive but idiots that argue against pro-life won't be labeled as murderers. If killing someone who is born is morally wrong then I don't see why killing someone who isn't born is morally right. It might sound crazy to say but all of the losers that say abortion should be legal have already been born. If anything they are the ones being oppressive. As much as I would like to be open-minded on this topic, I have never seen someone that can truly justify things like abortion.

The next hot topic is sex before marriage. Just in the case of abortion, we tend to look at this topic in a more superficial way. People tend to claim biological factors as a natural response and go against a certain phenomenon such as social values by calling them mindsets of a cult. Again it might sound like a controversial take for some of y'all but as natural as having the desire to have sex is, the shame and guilt society would put you through for falling for your lust is just as much as natural.

We humans aren't the only creatures in the animal kingdom that follow certain patterns of rules. It is kinda idiotic to think that we have broken free from the bindings of nature. Look at lions for example, they have their own territory, there is only one male lion in a single pride if either of these conditions were to be broken or trespassed, they are frequently seen going to war. Same case for coyotes, when a male coyote and a female coyote mate, they mate for life.

What I am trying to say is the specific sets of rules and regulations that we developed over the years as a human population are a result of 2 million years of evolution so they are natural. There is nothing unnatural about restricting sexual intercourse to marriage and I don't mean to be insulting but people that claim everyone should have sex whenever they want to are idiots and don't really understand the premises they are making

If you have read through all this thank you. And I am willing to debate anyone who has an opposing idea.

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So it's urgent please and admins please approve it fast as possible you can!!

The thing is am in university with 2 bad insecurities. The first is that I have a pronation feet problem that I can't walk normally and can't wear shoes or Crocs(endzi aynet problem ylbachu terdugnalachu) and the second one is that I have assymtric face beka mnm lastkaklew alchalkum .. be mirrors eko I look hot but in the back camera photos bruh😭.ena please help eski🙏🙏

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19F
How do you guys study for hours straight i swear i can't concentrate for more than 5 minutes let alone an hour. So help your sister out😭give me a tip for studying longer without getting distracted. Thank you.

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Hellow guys,Am love sick, 26F.. love is blind so i wanted to ask you guys. So there is this boy i had crush on him for months and one day i talked to him,to my surprise he was so open that day and the next two days, those 3 days we were texting like crazy seriously 24/7 ,,our vibes were insane, then he suddenly started talking about sex and he couldnt change it. I tried to avoid his text thinking he is a walking red flag but i kept missing him, so i played along and 3 month passed, he still couldnt change the subject, i become disgusted abt myself, i never sent any picture but he keeps sending me his u know. We planned on meeting, i was scared but i love him so i met him, omg he is soo hundsome, cool,simple guy but guess what, he is worse in person, he was saying dirty words and stuff,and tried to do alot of things in publicccc guys we were in the middle of bunch ppl , i only kissed him then swore i will never talk with him. i dated 4 boys, started situationships to forget him, but i couldnt its been 2 years, and i couldnt block him, i did blocked him at some point but i got sick, i couldnt eat, sleep all i think is about him, he also tells me he loves me but i never believed it, and funny part is he texts me once a month i guess to be sure am still onto him, sometimes i reply but sometimes i ignore it,,,,and i wish it wasnt serious but its affecting my life sooo much, .my heart only wants him, and it hurts bc i knowwwwww he doesnt like me back, he is Fk boy...i want to give chance to boys who likes me truly. HOW to get over a player F boy mans?

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guys hiii semu has anyone here tried minoxidil?and like does it make ur hair fall out after stopping it?i was gonna use it to grow my edges for my big ass forehead😂but everyoneee says it falls out after stopping it lmk in the comments any doctors or anyone who has tried itt thanks!

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I 18m I’ve been dating this girl for 8 months. The thing is I feel like this rnship is a loss on my side the thing is her parents are strict like so strict. Her father sees her as a 13yo even though she’s 18 I can’t go out on a date with her that much it’s been like 4 times til now and we’re not going out anytime soon. Tbh I’m not that guy I can do long hours of chatting but it’s better to talk in person . But the thing is she doesn’t even txt that much often because of family problems. I get it it’s out of her control but even in person she doesn’t show me that much interest . She can’t put her comfort before our rnship. Above all this she has this problem of keeping guys as friends who have told her that they have feelings for her it pisses me off I have already told her she said she’ll fix it but it’s not getting any better . I make all the conversation if I didn’t say anything the conversation just dies. I’ve changed a lot for this girl I’ve lowered my expectations on how often we should go out on dates, how much we need to talk in txt.she says she loves me but it doesn’t matter if u don’t show it. She tells me that her ex was manipulative and stuff this is why she can’t show her love that much. Every time we get in a fight (doesn’t matter who’s fault is it) I’m the one who approaches and start the conversation. After all that she said to me if I wanted her for her body we’ve nvr did anything except Makeout but idc about all that w/o romance it’s not a rnship. She tries smtimes but it’s not as me .Genuinely ik I’m doing so much I feel like a simp tbh and I should just break it up but I can’t for some reason. Am I the problem or is she. Plus there’s the problem of her strict parents. How many times should a couple go out on a date at this age. Help me out. Is this even healthy

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Hey you guys how you doin zare kemr kebad ngr nw yemamakrachu melsulgn I have final exam bekrbu ena dmo gobez yemibal lij aydelehum beka gobez neberku highschool elementary mnamn even eshelemalehu hula ke class alkerm nbr mnamn ena ahun gn sgeba beka tebelashehu manbeb eyefeleku gn yastelgnal yichenkegnal silalanebebku even wedefit mn endemhon eyasebku enkuan manbeb yaktegnal beteseb masafer alfelgm beka gn yaktegnal ena beka mnm alawkm bibal yikelal mn larg endezi aynet smet wst yalefachu pls mkerugn🥺

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To live is to be recognized, to be known that you are there. But UK it is such a hustle. I hate mornings, My eyes randomly open, and there is lights coming through the window mirror, but, I want to stay in the bed, I really do, maaaan what a hustle. I genuinely hate getting up from the bed, boo-hoo, 👎,,, booo-million times. Then wash my face? Boo--2 million times. If I was still with my mom, my home(I fucking miss it so much) , water's only use would be to wash my Sarah-deserted water pipe lines, genuinely. I remember picking out the morning dirt in my eyes by using my angelic fingers whenever I wake up, good old days. And showers? Nah, nah man, that ain't my forte. Anyways, what interesting things do you guys do while on bed or while not properly sitting on a comfy sofa with your legs facing the heavens---Except watching movies, and chatting, and games ofcourse.

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"I wanna cry, and I wanna love
But all my tears have been used up on another love, "

He was the "best friend" first.
I kissed him.
He knew I just wanted to have "fun." Then things escalated too much too fast. I was okay with it. Gues, what did he say?

It shouldn't be this "easy."


Now, I have become "Easy."

Worst part?

I didn't care about being "easy."

In the end, none of it matters.

Do I "love" him like that?

Doesn't matter.

But he is "younger."

Doesn't matter.

It will be "difficult."

Doesn't matter.

It will "not work."

Doesn't matter.

I've tried "loving before", it didn't work. Tried "again and again." Same result!

Now?

I don't think "it" matters.

But

Why?
Why?
Why?
Why?

Why do I still think like this?

He said I am "hopeless romantic " and, according to him, no more "hopeless."

Am I afraid? Yes, but I've been afraid before, too. I didn't let fear stop me. But that "ended, too."


Can I think of "this"?

What is "this"?

"Love?"

Come on, my dear. You can't be serious, right?

Stop being "delulu!"


Shut up, mind!

I want "peace." But he said,"u find peace boring."

He is right ✅️

I don't want him to be "right."

Too much "scared,"
Too many "experiences,"
Too many "disapoiments,"


At some point, you start to "wonder?"

What can you give a person who you haven't given to "another" already?

"Another love," Tom Odell

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A random 22 y/o girl's snippets of thoughts (Doing this here, because I don't have any real friends to converse in a deep level with😭😭).

1. I consider myself a religious person. I live by (or at least try to live by) God's wills. ግን do you know what scares me? I didn't pass through enough hurdles and ፈተና's in life to really test how strong my faith is. Like, would I be on the same position if, let's say, I was an abandoned mother whose infant is crying because I can't provide food? Or a person who's lost all hope because a loved one died tragically? Would my faith be strong or fragile in such situations. I don't know, man... አይ ሮ ኖ.

2. I hate Java errors😭😭😭😭😭😭... Like why in the world would one incorrect configuration produce thousands of UGLYYY UNREADABLE RED LINES LIKE WHY WHYYY GODDDD???

3. Remember the scene from It's Always Sunny, where Dennis repeatedly says "The Implication"? Yeah, I still think of that from time to time.

4. Every time I order a Ride, I talk to them as a completely different person (Wildest one was, I said I worked at a school, and he told me that his sister works there too, and asked if I knew her😂).

5. እሺ I understand some of you are making maad money... But, I'm 10000% sure that most of y'all Forex bros are fakes. Why pretend tho?? በቃ እስኪያልፍልህ ድረስ ከሌለህ የለህም ነው፣ ፍታን እንዴዴዴ.

6. Idk why but I'm hot for guys holding their eyeglasses in their hands or on their shirt, but not wearing them in their eyes. Like I had a lecturer who always had his on his ሸሚዝ, and needless to say I didn't miss a single class of his😂.

7. I hate እሮብ ከሰዓትs.

8. The shortness in distance between the feelings of imposter syndrome and the sense of entitlement actually are, never ceases to amaze me fr (Like literal days sometimes).

9. ከልደታ ፍ/ቤት (campus) እስከ ጦር ሀይሎች የሚወስደው መንገድ ላይ, on a random Tuesday (ታህሳስ 22, to be exact) ያየዋችሁ coupleኦች... Y'all are too cute together. Like the way she was looking at him, smiling, as he was passionately explaining something to her🫠. Hope you get married.

10. ቆይ a sense of responsibility, dignity ምናምን የሚባሉት ነገሮች ጠፉ በቃ? It's staggering the amount of people in social media doing ungodly things ('ungodly' የሚለው ነው የሚገልጸው😂). Is this how bad our situation is ማለት ነው? ሌላው ቢቀር Digital Footprint ምንም አያሳስበንም. ሙድ የሚይዝባቸው ጓደኛ ምናምን የላቸውም እንዴ ቆይ?

11. On a last note, I hate the fact that ፒያሳ isn't there anymore. It was where I had my first date, and my first kiss (on a different day, lol). I loved my ቅዳሜ ከሰዓት machiattos there. I loved sitting there in a cafe with my pc with nothing to do, just scrolling through web pages. I loved seeing old people dressed sharp as hell, ጫማቸውን እያስጠረጉ ሲያወሩ. I loved how peaceful the chaos was. And all of that is gone😭 (ምን ለማለት መሰላችሁ, Fuck 'u know who').

P.S. Fuck you Java Developers

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