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i'm 24F so basically i fell in love with a guy before a year and half so i can say i love him and probably he feels the same too so here is the thing this guy is so freaking handsom and girls want him so bad but the problem is this guy didn't work for 1 year and half but throughout that time i provided like alot of things in his life we go to restaurants and i just handled the bills no matter the bills are coming out expensives and in this realtion i'm the one who provided a lot

So basically as a human who has different  views manesemamabachew negeroch alu andegna i have male bestfriends gn honestly speaking the all have their own life ena besent gize ande benegenagn nw and my bf hates them so bad

And on November 28 he asked my phone and i refuesd to show to him abd he thinks i cheated on him because of he asked my phone and i said sorry i cannot give my phone i have  my privacy if you know you know bestfrind yalachu sewoch if you got mad bc of your bf you talked with them so at that time he make me cry bc of some reason and i told them.and they say you guys should break up.like why you suffer and even if they say he is not the one for you  i said no i can change him even if he thinks like i am a cheater malet nw ena like starting from that day he acts weird he insulted me he just make me like trash  and he said bad words to me.and he shouted to me and he say you are a cheater and i don't want the relationship anymore bc of your a lier and for the past month i literally begged him to fix the problem like.i cried a lot and and even if we fight he asked me to have sex with him but from the very beginnings we didn't do any sexual staffs and it also make him nervous i guess and he said to me you didn't love me that's why you hate being involved in sexual things and me.how could i belive him like after doing sexual things what if he say i dont want you and last time also he tries to rape me and  he asks me every time to took virginity tests and me i said okay
On another side he literally dont like to work and he gave alot of reason for that and he.is like stopped school from 10th and i am a well educated girl who has a high positions but still i need to be matured alot , so basically i think this guy is wants me bcs of money i'm well educated and work at ngo and he said he don't want to continue with me so many times he insulted me infront of peoples saying a real bad words to me and on saturday i also texted break up messages and i insulted him  not bad words but , i told him the things he did to me and he keeps saying i don't want to see you ,to hear your voice

And yesterday i saw him with a girl and i followed him like i was so shocked and followdd him and asked him like why and he says again bad words so i called like peoples i know to asks him for his forgiveness even if i didint do any thing and he said to me call me and we i'll talk do you guys think he really needs break up or he wants to make feel bad and run to him every time and begging him

so what shall i do i am so worried and i don't really even know what to do but like calm sihon bnaweram gn he keeps saying i don't want the relationship beka you didnt full fill my desires like sexual desires and one thing i forgot to say he asked me 10,000 birr because he has surgery and i bet like it's real because if a man sicks and wants my help he must me very calm but in his case he really insults me and asks me to give money

So know i'm so worried i don't know what to do i wonder if he really loves me ??
should i say sorry and continue or leave him one or should i gave him time and he will realise and get back to me? help me out!!!

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Hi i am 30m
I am in a bad place.recently i started having sex with this girl i knew from before and everything was going amazing. That was my understanding. Apparently that was not the case she told me she wasn't satisfied with my average dick and she has been sleeping with other guys. What should i do i mean i don't have any plans with this girl other than sex
Should i continue sleeping with her or what

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Tiresene tatebe neber dr sied dental clinic before 1 month ago ena setatebe demto neber ena teyakeye mn meselachiwe matebiyawe ende merefe neger new ena blood born diseases endayezegne ferawe esi yemetaku kalachiwe andu sew tatebobete yeneberewne telewe enene be adis new miyatebugne weyse lela sew betatebebete new miyatebute eski ur answer negerugne tnx

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Selam guys ene milachu Tik tok lay rejim seat live gebitew eka mishetu sewoch alu ena awach hono nw weys endet nw rejim seat nw live mihonut?

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I think I wanna die what should i do don't say like suicide is not the solution mnamn

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25, feeling lost, and just looking for genuine advice.

This isn’t a flex, and I hope no one takes it the wrong way, but I’m a software engineer working for a massive company with over 50,000 employees. I’m not in Ethiopia anymore, and while I’ve built a decent life here, I can’t shake this deep sense of loneliness and isolation. Making connections like the ones I had back home has felt almost impossible.

To make it worse, I feel like I’m losing touch with my friends back home. I’m always the one reaching out, and it feels like no one even remembers me unless I call first. And let’s not even get started on dating. I haven’t been in a real relationship. I’ve dated, sure, but nothing has ever turned into something meaningful.

Most of the women I’ve met here are in their early 20s—21, maybe 22—and I don’t know if it’s just me, but they often seem immature and… directionless? Maybe I’m being too harsh, but it feels like we’re on completely different wavelengths.

Now that I’m 25, I feel like it’s time to focus on something long-term and meaningful, but finding the right person feels impossible. So, here I am, opening up to the void and hoping someone out there has some advice. How do you build real, meaningful connections in a place that feels so… disconnected?

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Hey D i just want to say goodbye to u i hope u will see it by that time u will not gone get me i will not be there i have decided to take my life away i just can't see u like this u didn't believe when i said i loved u bc of ur ex but i was real i wish i didn't know u i was doing good until u came now i can't want to see z other world n to have some peace...love u

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What's wrong with people? I'm overweight, and everyone keeps telling me to lose weight. Like, hello, this is my body! I know I’m pretty, but their comments are starting to get to me, making me feel insecure. Funny thing is, a year ago, I lost 10 kg and looked completely different, and those same people who complain about my body now were like, 'Oh, you’re prettier when you’re chubby.' Like, excuse me? Back then, I wasn’t even healthy! And yeah, I care about what people think sometimes—not always, but on bad days, it gets to me. The worst part? I can’t even afford a gym now because I graduated, and my family won’t support me anymore. I’m out here just trying to survive on my own. But mark my words—when I get fit again, all of you people are gonna see... And i'm 24 eko lmn ende lj endemhon besmam

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የcollege first year ተማሪ ነኝ ግን እስካሁን ምን መማር እንዳለብኝ አልመረጥኩም ማለት ገና commen Cours ላይ ነን እና accounting or manegment  ከሁለት አንዱን ምረጡልኝ እባካቹ እና ለምን እንደመረጣቹት ጭምር

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Hi this is a very short vent for all men out here this is the best advise you will hear ever
Control your sexual lust and you will realise 90 percent of woman are boring they have nothing to offer If you control your lust you will became the best men in the world all of your dreams will be achievable

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I don't believe am here but let's get in to it early 20 F here so recently I started going out with this guy who I had a crush on early30 I had a crush on him as long as u remember . So what happened was on the first date we had sex ( I didn't have sexual experience before him) was painful. Betamm nber yedebergn fr but we're still dating now tho and I am falling in love esun salaseb mewal mader ayetasebem . I know that am stupid for having sex on the first date please don't judge I just wanted to know how can I make him stay ?

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Yesterday I was going through my old texts when i was in the age of 14or15 god i was cringy as hell
I literally used to say sorry to ppl for their own mistakes because all i wanted was someone to hang out with or talk to...Wth was wrong with me back then i know that
It's completely normal that i feel the way i feel now when i look back at my younger self! I know many ppl go through phases trying to fit in with ppl. It made me realize that i just wanted to maintain friendships nothing more and which is a good thing and i know making mistakes is part of growing up you know we make mistakes and we learn from them
The thing is I've learned and grown since then i don't care what ppl think of me or i don't beg for them to stay in my life anymore
I'm happy with the person i am now and will be in the future to.

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Hey 19 f ena am here to ask ur help ene ye zendro remedial temari ena pls amna remedial yeneberachu erdugn please eyelemenkuwachu betam manbebe eyekebedegn nw lelochim pls tell me mn mareg endalebegn mn aynet method litekem pls
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Hi I am 26M
I have dated 3 girls in my life(three of them hasn’t been my girlfriend). Also I date to marry .
First one was when I got out of university she is beautiful and well mannered and we knew each other’s coz we r neighbors also our parents long story short we talked in phone for 3 months and finally we went for a date I told her I like her but suddenly she said she had a boyfriend then I said ok and bye but she insisted we should be friends 3 times on that spot but I said no and never talk to her since.
(And also she is 1 year younger than me)

Second girl is I met her through friend (she was her cousin) we talked for a little while .she is perfect inside her norm, mindset and religious background perfect but not the look (she is not ugly even some people says she is beautiful )for me . She showed interest in me but I couldn’t.

The last one was I met her through work she got the looks but not that much . Her problem is she talked to much about her ex (she was 19 at time I thought there r/s was nothing) but when she talked I feel like (why am I even talking to her ). One time I asked her if she had sex with him she said she hadn’t but “only kiss and warm up “ I was like 😄 bullshit and also she have naughty friends and she seeks attention through her IG so did trust her . And also she was good with her words sometimes 😳😂shit am I the man in this relationship.

Lately I am on the way of getting good job like really good and I feel like after that a woman who came over will probably be gold digger .and I will be target should I get back to one of them or not(leave the last one)?

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Selam just a quick question lol. I’m getting ready to look for marriage gn US citizen negn ena eza bzum altemechugnm ena I wanted to find someone here. The problem is that every woman I know (my friends and family) that married here and took the man there, they ended up leaving them after they got their papers. Ena at first I thought they were just running into the wrong ppl gn my aunt said it’s inevitable lol ena I wanted to ask here….are there really no men that will stay in the marriage even after becoming a citizen?? Lmao is it that serious ende

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I don't know where to start but there is a college basketball tournaments and I was like wow it's real interesting thing like these happened in Addis first i saw there social media page then I saw there poster in uni ask around and try to register but they told me there full like wtf ik they only want 5 players since it will be 5v5 but there actually members must be 10 so I was tf I deserve to be in I can beat all 10 of them guys in 1v1 even 1v2 there ass but can't do nothing about it so I'm going to watch my team getting crushed I have friends that played in Challenges and the Afro Hoopers so should I do to the Federation and tell them or should I Begged my director need advice chat can't see my college lose and me doing nothing abt it

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Hi, this isn’t a vent more like a question. So am 23f still lives with parents but got my own well paying job. So am dating this guy almost a decade older than me. We’ve been together for more than a year on and off (another story) and he really wants kids and a family and staff soon.
Considering his age mnamn and am the kind of person who doesn’t really think about that often. He causally jokes mech nw mitweljilegn and I casually joke like I wouldn’t be able to take care of kids kebeteseb bet salweta and my mom is still taking care of me mnamn… u get it. And I take my contraception very very seriously.
And semonun we’ve been trying to cook from home a set up a whole kitchen (in his home) which I bought every single thing. He said he was too busy and lazy this days so I had to buy every yebeteka. And one night I asked him why he’s not helping and he said he’s been pressured in to it and there is a responsibility he is not quite ready for. Mind u it was his idea to set up a kitchen, the lets eat home more often but when it comes to actions suddenly pressured????
So finally last night I accidentally forgot my contraception and I wanted to buy a post pill. So I asked him for money(50birr) coz I didn’t bring any cash when going out at the time not because I didn’t wanna pay for a 50birr pill but I simply didn’t bring a bag with me when he came to pick me up. And he said no and he wouldn’t pay for my post pill coz he wants kids… he knew it wasn’t the right time for us to be pregnant, I also told him previously that if I had a child it would be after am married, stable and a really high paying job for me and my kid and other responsible things but he just kept quite.
So I left, bought my pill and paid with my phone. Took the pill right in front of him and asked him to take me back home and he did. Mind u I asked him repeatedly if he wants to talk about it reasonably and logically and if he really believed now is the right time to get pregnant for both of us. he kept quiet that when I said I wanted to go home. And he did not call or text me for a week. So did I do anything wrong? Kitchen supply megzat pressure nw kemil sew ga having a baby while not married or engaged and living with my parents??

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20M , started s at young ageee and  here is a thing am in relationship with a girl(same age) i want to wife up , i don't wanna lose her at all and she don't wanna have s bc it's not "right time" as  she said , the question is for older mens start argo for long time makom ygodal? Ofc i will wait her timing but i wanna know if there is any side effect bc i don't think am getting some at least for 2 years 😭 enaa help me guys ( if you are teenage scroll it )

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I'm uni student and I got 2.3 in first semster ena in second snt endemameta idk betam yastelal ahun lerasu ena I'm scared kezi zk yale endayhon be ahunu betamm yemiyastela neger endaydersegn gn anebalew eko fetena sihon it is so hard ena psychology new memar mfelgew so guys do u think psycho endemgeba?

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Hello people (20M) i need to question something
Here, do girls like lonely boys i mean im so lonely i don't have friends, betam new bchegnet misemagn i never had a relationship before mnamn. If i tell a girl this, will she avoid me? bchegna slehonku bcha hulum sew avoid miyaregegn ymeslegnal ena there's this girl betam mwedat ena beakal tegenagnten anawkm ena i caught felling. Lnegrat eyasebku weird sew arga endatasbegn eyeferahu zm new mlat so mn madreg new yalebgn guys im so worried i really need your help 🙏

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