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I watched her from a distance, a radiant soul whose laughter danced through the air like a melody. Each time she entered a room, the world seemed to brighten, and I found myself captivated by the way her eyes sparkled with joy. Yet, she was bound to another, and I felt like a ghost in her vibrant lifeโ€”an admirer lingering at the edges of her happiness.

Our brief encounters sent my heart racing, each smile exchanged a secret treasure I tucked away. I admired her passion, the way she pursued her dreams with fierce determination, and I longed to be the one cheering her on, the one who could share in her triumphs. But with every stolen glance, I felt the weight of unspoken words pressing against my chestโ€”a longing that felt both exhilarating and heartbreaking.

In the quiet corners of my mind, I wrestled with the essence of love. Was it selfish to yearn for her affection, to dream of a connection that transcended the boundaries set by circumstance? True love, I believed, was not about possession but about cherishing every moment spent in her presence, even if it meant standing silently as a spectator to her joy.

So, I resolved to love her fiercely yet unobtrusively. I would be the steady hand behind her dreams, the warm smile in the crowd that encouraged her to soar. Even from the shadows, my heart would swell with pride for every achievement she claimed, every laugh that echoed in my ears. In my quiet devotion, I found solaceโ€”a bittersweet romance that allowed me to celebrate her spirit while nurturing my own hidden longing. And though I may never be the one she chose, I would always be her silent admirer, loving her from afar, forever enchanted by the light she brought into my life.

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โค25๐Ÿ‘15๐Ÿ”ฅ3๐Ÿคฌ3
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Hey am 24 F am here to vent specifically boys I really appreciate if you can say something so here's the thing I really have a crush on this guy who is 7 years older than me I don't even know if he's single or not but he keep giving me some sign (or maybe am delusional) but isn't married for sure...one day we talk a lot and laugh and the next day we are total strangers he smiles a little when he sees me and I also catch him staring sometimes anyways what should I do like I think am falling for him help me guys how can I make him love me or see me how I see him without me telling him how I feel

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hey everyone
um 21 M
so wode gudayu sgeba life is kicking me and i want ur help I want online job I started forex but u have to have starting balance and I don't have that um like broke rn beteseb mother bcha new yasadegechign ena degmo I've little ones ena esua ahun nuro kebdoatal ena ahun yehone neger tef tef bye esuan merdat alebgn .....merdat balchil enkuan shekm lhonbat alfelgm

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แŠจแแ‹ฌแ‹ แˆšแŒˆแˆˆแŠ แˆฐแ‹ แŠซแˆˆ, แ‰ แŠ แˆแˆ‹แŠซแ‰น แŠฅแˆญแ‹ฑแŠ, แ‰ แŠฅแŒแ‹šแ‹ซแ‰ฅแˆ„แˆญ แŒแ‹ฐแˆ‰แŠ

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This is a genuine question , especially for those couples who talk day and night and still not get tired. what are you talking about? What kind of topics made you talk about? Eski try to give us the blueprint not just if you are in love it just flows bullshit ๐Ÿ˜‚ like tangible advice with examples

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Is it possible to love someone sooo much but at the same time hate them to the point that just their sight causes you such anger??
So perplexing, I need answers

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Hey guys, here is my sin,19f I have bf I love him so much i think he love me too แŠฅแŠ“ แแ‰…แˆจแŠ›แ‹ฌ แ‰ แŒฃแˆ แˆแ‹ฉ แˆฐแ‹ แАแ‹ like he's loyal,respectable ,care given person generally he is my type แŒแŠ• our religion is different like I'm Orthodox and he's Protestant ๐Ÿ˜ญ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ฐแ‹š แˆตแˆ people said "แˆˆแˆแŠ• แŠฅแ‹ซแ‹ˆแ‰…แˆฝ relation แ‹แˆตแŒฅ แŒˆแ‰ฃแˆฝ blah blah " but แˆ˜แŒ€แˆ˜แˆชแ‹ซ แˆ‹แ‹ญ we're just friends แŠจแ‹› แˆ˜แ‰ผ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ฐแ‰ฐแ‰€แ‹จแˆจ แˆณแŠ“แ‹แ‰… แАแ‹ แ‹จแ‰ฐแ‰€แ‹จแˆจแ‹ I mean แ‹จแˆ†แА แ‰€แŠ• แ‰ฐแŒˆแŠ“แŠแ‰ฐแŠ• แˆตแŠ“แ‹ˆแˆซ แ‰ แˆ˜แˆ€แˆ he kissed me and I kissed him back๐Ÿ™ˆ แŠจแ‹› แ‰ แŠปแˆ‹ แАแ‹ แ‰ แ‹แŒฃแ‰ฝแŠ• แˆ˜แˆณแˆณแ‰ฅ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ณแˆˆ แ‹ซแ‹ˆแ‰…แАแ‹ แŠฅแŠ“ แŠ แŠ•แ‹ณแŠ•แ‹ด แˆตแˆˆ แˆ€แ‹ญแˆ›แŠ–แ‰ต แˆณแАแˆณ he just like "it's normal แŠ แŠ•แ‰บแˆ แ‰ แˆ€แ‹ญแˆ›แŠ–แ‰ตแˆฝ แŠฅแŠ” แ‰ แˆ€แ‹ญแˆ›แŠ–แ‰ด แˆ˜แ‰€แŒ แˆ แŠฅแŠ•แ‰ฝแˆ‹แˆˆแŠ• " แŠฅแŠ” แŒแŠ• แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ฐแ‹› แŠ แˆ‹แˆแŠ•แˆแข(  it's my first problems๐Ÿ˜Š)

2.he wanna sex แŠฅแŠ” แ‹ฐแŒแˆž แŠ แˆแˆแˆแŒแˆ (btw am V) แŒแŠ• แ‹จแˆ›แˆแˆแˆแŒˆแ‹ แˆตแˆœแ‰ด แŠฅแ‹จแ‰ณแŒˆแˆˆแŠ just แŠจแ‰ตแ‹ณแˆญ แ‰ แŠแ‰ต แŠ แˆˆแˆˆแ‹ฐแˆญแŒแˆ แ‰ฅแ‹ฌ แŠ แ‹ญแ‹ฐแˆˆแˆ ๐Ÿ˜„ its because of I don't have any sense for sex . I know แ‰ตแŠ•แˆฝ แŒแˆซ แ‹ซแŒ‹แ‰ฃแˆ แˆ›แˆˆแ‰ต movie แˆณแ‹ญ แˆแŠ“แˆแŠ• แŠฅแŠฎ feel แŠ แ‹ฐแˆญแŒ‹แˆˆแ‹ แŠจแˆฑ แŒ‹ แˆตแˆ†แŠ• แŒแŠ• แ‹ˆแแแ๐Ÿ˜ณ, so  แˆตแˆœแ‰ด แ‹แŒแŒ แŠ แ‹ญแ‹ฐแˆˆแˆ แˆแŠ“แˆแŠ• แ‰ฅแ‹ฌ แˆตแˆœแ‰ต แ‹แˆตแŒฅ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ณแˆˆ แ‰ตแ‰ผแ‹ แŠฅแˆ„แ‹ณแˆˆแˆ (แŠ แ‰คแ‰ต แŠ€แŒฅแ‹ซแ‰ด แ‰ฅแ‹›แ‰ฑ๐Ÿ˜ข) แ‰ แŒฃแˆ แŠฅแ‹จแ‹ฐแ‰ แˆจแ‹ ok แ‹ญแˆˆแŠ›แˆ แข แŠ แˆแŠ• แˆ‹แ‹ญ แŒแŠ• แ‰ แŒฃแˆ แŠฅแ‹จแŠจแ‰ แ‹ฐแ‹ แАแ‹ แŠฅแŠ“ แŒแˆซ แŒˆแ‰ฅแ‰ถแŠ›แˆแข( I have another problem๐Ÿ˜‚)

3.แ‹ญแˆ„ แ‰ แŒฃแˆ แˆˆแˆ›แˆ˜แŠ• แ‹จแŠจแ‰ แ‹ฐแŠ แАแŒˆแˆญ แАแ‹ แ‹จแˆแˆญ แˆฐแˆžแŠ‘แŠ• แ‰คแ‰ฐแˆฐแ‰ฆแ‰ผ แ‰ แ‹ˆแˆฌ แˆ˜แˆ€แˆ แ‹จแˆฑ cousin แ‹˜แˆ˜แ‹ณแ‰ฝแŠ• แˆ˜แˆ†แŠ‘แŠ• แˆฒแ‹ซแ‹ˆแˆฉ แˆฐแˆ›แŠ‹แ‰ธแ‹ (แ‰  แŒŒแ‰ณ แˆตแˆ แˆแ‰ค แˆˆแˆแˆˆแ‰ต แ‰ตแˆญแŠญแŠญ แŠ แˆˆ แ‹จแˆšแ‰ฃแˆˆแ‹ แˆˆแŠซ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ฐแ‹šแˆ… แАแ‹๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”)แ‹จแˆแˆญ แ‹ฐแАแŒˆแŒฅแŠฉ แˆแŠ• แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ฐแˆ›แˆจแŒ แŠ แˆ‹แ‰…แˆ แ‹จแˆแˆญ
I know แ‰ แ‰ƒ แŠ แ‰แˆš แŠจแ‹šแˆ… แ‰ แˆ‹แ‹ญ แˆแŠ• แ‰ตแŒ แ‰ฅแ‰‚แ‹ซแˆˆแˆฝ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ฐแˆแ‰ตแˆ‰แŠ แŒแŠ• แŒแŠ• แ‹จแˆแˆญ แŠ แ‰ƒแ‰ฐแŠ แŠ แˆแ‰ปแˆแŠฉแˆ แŠฅแˆตแŠช แ‹จแˆ†แА แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ตแ‰†แˆญแŒฅ แ‹จแˆšแ‹ซแˆตแ‹ฐแˆญแŒ แАแŒˆแˆญ แ‰ แˆ‰แŠ๐Ÿ˜ข ( แ‰ณแ‹ฒแ‹ซ แŠฅแŠ•แ‹ณแ‰ตแˆฐแ‹ตแ‰กแŠ แŠฅแˆซแˆด แŠฅแˆซแˆดแŠ• แ‹จแˆฐแ‹ฐแ‰ฅแŠฉแ‰ต แ‹ญแ‰ แ‰ƒแˆ๐Ÿ™)

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I am 22 male
I am in confusion now...

When i start grade 11 i told my self not have any connection with female students, i don't know why ... may be that was because i was shy....
As i was good at class i also wanted to focus on my my education only.
So on first day of class i sat alone on front bench and i started waiting until male student sit next to me.
But on second or third day one girl came and sat next to me. I thought she would change her mind and change place but continued sitting, and we started talking...
As  time went by we became good classmates.
And as i feared i started thinking about her at my home,when i engage with my friends..when i realize now i was falling in love.
Even if we were on same bench we didn't know each other's number .but for assignment we exchanged and i started talking on telegram( that was my first time talking with girl on tg)
That was actually very cheerful.... she was very humble,knew what to talk...
But as time goes i became very obsessed with her and couldn't focus on my education..
But i was able to got first place on first semester...
On second semester my obsession continued. My mind was in absolute turmoil.
Anyways found my self at the end of the year, and i decided to quit telegram and any relationship with my best friends as well as with her.
I didn't even take my report card on parents day even though i was first in the class.
Also there was summer class in our school to cover topics that we didn't learn due to covid, but i was unable to attend that because of the situation i was in...
Even if it was very hard i passed it,  and grade 12 class began. I changed my phone number so there was no way to continue my relationship with her.
On first day of grade 12 i met her, but we were in different class. We used to say hi to each other but we didn't got opportunity to talk about What happened between us...
As we were going to take entrance exam at the end of the year i started focusing on my class.
but it was sooo hard.....
i couldn't read at library , i was getting very emotional when i see her at break time .....
Even if it was so hard i was able to finish the year and got good score on entrance....

Now i am 3rd year at aau.
The thing is i can't forget her till this time. She is always in my mind.
I don't know at Which university she is learning , What department she is taking and even if she is fine or not..๐Ÿฅน
Now i have strong urge to reach her out. But as i was the one who stopped talking 3 years ago, i find it unfair to reach out, as i feel it might disturb her.

And the thing that i couldn't bear at this time is that i am seeing her in my dream almost everyday.

My question is
is it normal to miss someone that we stopped talking 3 years ago and see that person in dream everyday

And is it common to start talking again after this long time?

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๐Ÿ‘20โค9๐Ÿ˜ข4
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M here

So

I over think a lot and trust me when i say a lot i mean by A LOT. But the thing is i actually don't always hate it but sometimes it eats me uk imagine thinking every decision you are going to make before you make it and also after you do too. Imagine not taking a break because your brains firing with all cylinders even when your trying to sleep. Playing and trying to understand, think about every little scenario, every little possibility of your and other peoples decisions in your head and that is not right you know. So i wanted to fix that. A dear friend of mine suggested i do some meditation and stuff and i want to atleast be able to cope with it like at least be able to control or even not be bothered by it so i feel like need y'all help.
So i don't even have a clue about meditation so if yall could point me in the right direction and also i want to start reading cause i feel like it will take my mind off things so if yall could help that would be rly great.

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Lenegeroch ye commitment chigir alebign ena bizu neger jemire tewalew bebzat ye online timirtochin...like graphics video editing blender social media marketing and so on ... Ena betam miketatelgn sew yasfeligegnal eskemasakaw dires more demo list karekwachew negeroch ga related yehone sew bihon yeteshale nw แˆจแˆตแ‰ธแŒแˆซแ‰น pls if there is anyone who can help me by checking my progress and motivate me pls let me know

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Hello everyone 24m ok to the point is it normal that betam eqeldalew in every situation like serious situations and the worst part is erase lay hula keldalew like yehone neger lifeya lay happen siyareg negerun kayere tinsh eznanalew tameme erasu ka car accident ka mote weteche hula keldalew i don't know is that a bad thing esti don't be mean just tell me thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Guys i'm 20y old and M.

Beachiru guys wode gudayi sigeba 12v N class 2016 e.c nbr yetefetenkut result fail aderegebign so family degmo bizum aydelem ena enesun support madreg alebign wend mehon hard nw fam lay so Ene ahun hulet ngr echilalew andegnaw Graphic design sihon huletegnaw degmo forex trading course cherishialew ewketu alegn gn I lost my first penny. So hard nw btw negeru pls erdugn mikerugn siram kale please lifen ligifaw pls.

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Heyy yall 19M
There's something im struggling with. How can i forget her?? I know she loves another dude and it eats my mind everytime i love her so much i can't even focus myself these days all i think about is her i tried to forget her talking to other girls but i couldn't. The worst part is we never dated even in person yetegenagnenew 2 ken bcha new ik this is stupid and im delusional but don't judge pls what should i do and how can i get her off my fucking mind

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So am 22 m and i have to ask you guys something it's about insecurity am cute many girls told me that but i have some insecurity it's my nose i wana change it but I can't i always think about it when am on the mirror what should I do to move on cause i can't change anything

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A bit of venting and sharing, if I may.

I don't know if this is like Reddit, but news flash: it's about a girl.

So, backstory: I'm a guy in my mid-twenties. There's this girlโ€”or was, actually

There aren't any thought-through paragraphs in this vent. I'm going without any script, just seeing where it takes me. The worst thing about being expressive about your feelings in our generation is that you'll be seen as a try-hard, and you'd be perceived as a pushover (it's all in the subconscious). At this point, I feel like I've given you enough input to assume who ended it with whom, but before I confirm your assumptions, hereโ€™s more input: we dated for a year. She consumed me (in a good way). I wasn't always sunshine and rainbows, too, but at the end of the day, I knew she was the person I wanted next to me, wearing her wedding dress and me wearing my tux. That's how bad I wanted it.

Funny thing: I made this IG page where, after every date, I wrote a small paragraphโ€”sort of like a diary I would give to her when we got married or at least engaged. Now I'm left with memories, three jobs getting money we will never get to spend together, and a shitty second-hand car. (Sensitive topic.) I never imagined it would end tbh and when everyone told me, "You have to think about both perspectives." On my side, I was working so much, just waiting for the right moment, when we ended up seeing and talking once or twice a month. She disconnected the day she sent the text that ended it. Honestly, deep down it didn't hit instead some part of me hit an i told you so

I don't know where this is going. Honestly, it's been a month now, and I just hope she is happy and gets everything she ever wanted. I wish I could send this to you directly, but I understand it's not my place anymore, and that's something I have to live with. I guess it's all part of the process and something I have to ponder over. I'm not bitter about anything; at the end of the day, I tried my best. You know, I just wonder sometimes why the questions brought up now weren't addressed earlier. As time goes on, some things come to mind, and I keep assuming, "Oh, did this happen because she wasn't into it in the first place?" whats honestly crushing me now is before she ended it i was saving up to do something and i sent her the tiktok about it and it ended so i never got a response you know and that sucks. I don't know; enough for today, honestly.

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โค12๐Ÿ‘9๐Ÿคฃ1
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I'm 19 F am still scared to lose my virginity to my boyfriend โ€˜21 Mโ€™ of 4 years, how do I get over this? Please help me out!!!

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๐Ÿคฃ16๐Ÿ‘6๐Ÿคฌ3โค1
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Eshi guys endet nachu am M highschool student and I need ur advice. There is a girl that I love ena I think she loves me too i told her that I love her but she doubts if I really love her or not beza lay she was hurt before she got trust issues. like relationship wst adelenm ena demo I made a mistake like I told her that I love her gn yhenn doubt endtareg miyaregu mistakes serchalew like I ignored her for a week I have a girl bsf ena I didn't leave my bsf for her mnamn gn wanaw point like she wants me to show her that I love her not by words but by actions and I never been in a serious situation of love like this one. I don't wanna lose her. We meet for 30 min maximum in a day ena esua lela tmro nw mtmarew stweta lshegnat sl nw mngenagnew mnamn ena her parents are so strict that I can't meet her any other places. I dunno what to do to show her that I love her in these moments so gimme ur advice what should I do except physical touchs like relationship wst slalonn I won't do that ena guys help me out I don't wanna lose her.

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๐Ÿคฃ13๐Ÿ‘8โค6
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I am ๐ŸŽญ Mr unbothered
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So, I finished uni a couple of months back but failed the exit exam. My plan was to graduate, apply for a masterโ€™s program somewhere far away from Africa, and disappear.

Now that Plan A is out the window, and Plan B doesnโ€™t exist, what the fuck am I supposed to do? Iโ€™ve been running in circles to find a way but no shit

So, the million-dollar question is: I have a couple of hundred grand in hand, and my ticket to get out of here via a masterโ€™s program has been burned. What are the alternatives to getting out of here? Feel free to write down whatever that could help

Btw am 23M

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Hey guys I need to vent mn meselachu ke yhonch lij gar r/ship jemre neber gn lijtuan alafekratm gn betua manm saynor siker tdewlalch ena enenm eza heje bzu neger enaregaln. Ene gn yemwedat lij neberch ena esuan hul gize ayatalew esum endeziw gn endemwedat menager debregn mknyatum esua sle bzu wendoch tnegregnalch gn 1 qen ke lijtua gar be slk snawera tsemanalch ena lijtua na tlegnalech kezan gize jemro yemwedat lij hule sle esua new mtaweragn erefi belatm enbi alch ena mn ladrg yachin tchat ke mewedat lij gar lhon?gn hule sle lela wend new mtaweralgn enam ene demo ke Lela set gar shon des aylatm twdedegnn atwdedegn alakm gn wendme bla new mteragn ene endi teblo mterat alfelgm guys I need your comment

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Hey I am 24M. I'm having a feeling of lonelieness since high school. Everyone around me seems selfish including my friends, they need me when they want something. I don't believe there exists true friendship. Is there anyone having this kind of problem or I am the only one, please let me know in your comments. Thanks in advance!

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Okay i wanna vent  this because i read another vent  about a free will. The comments were all too much and the topic is somehow i think a lot about and ...wanted to share my opinion with you.
Hope it will be posted soon.

So let me start with saying the we humans does not have a free will. To even assume that is crazy for me. What we do have  is a choice , we got plenty of it btw.

Let me explain.
A will by defination is a voluntary act, without any thing that interfere and alter the course of the act.

So in our case, the humans doesn't have that power. But we think so, like when we decide to do something without anybody telling us to do, to decide what our life would be,  to be independent, to believe in whatever created us (or in some case not to believe somthing created us),  the truth...  we can go down the list. All these in one way or another have been influenced, altered  in our life, some one interfered somewhere. When that happens the free will  becomes a choice

Think about it esti, lets leave out the God  scenario for a minute here, in you day to day life which of your actions are of that free will? Basic example, do you think you deciding to wake up early morning is of a free will? Or you scored to face the day even tho you are burnt out? Or you decided to loyal to you partner?

The answer is it is not because of your free will but your choice...  We don't even have a free choice eko. แŠฅแˆณแ‰ฑแˆ แ‹ญแˆ„แ‹แค แ‹แˆƒแ‹แˆ แ‹ญแˆ„แ‹แข you chose because you know the consequence,Which is a beneficiary for you. You know what to decide because you know what effects your decision  brings. It is all set out(for every cause there is some kind of effect)...so tell me how do we have a free will? You will just choose one of the other causes that might a greater good effect or the lesser bad effect.

This is a way of saying, you to be good because you know the effect of being bad. You are loyal be caused the consequence of cheating is bad. You chose to work your ass off because the effect is highly rewarding.

Let me put it in a simple case. You are taking an exam. It got multiple choices for a question. You choose the right answer (this is what we humans have just a choice for our live.) A free will is  like you selected an answer (which might be right or wrong) but you alter the question so that your choice  will be right.

And in reality, in your life, you cannot change the question. Here is why. the society, is a huge system that has being builed up from the first men up to now, you think all the good and bad came out of the blue. why do you think some people like terrorist? and why is the world not fair ?

the world is not fair  because Good and Bad exist. didn't  you think what might be good for you is bad for me ? why God tells eve eating the fruit will destroy human kind? Did she really ate because of she wanted the harm? ... see that is how we are operating now. What is bad is bad and what is good is good you can not change that algorithm. But you can choose  to be bad and say it is because the right thing to do.

I think that we need to separate God from religion ...but that is another topic, but even if in the absense of a religion, i think there will still be God and  hell and heaven and you choose to be good or bad

I really want to explain in detail genuinely ...gn my thoughts are gettting hazy( not good at explaining things)and this tipic is not appropriate  for a vent plat form

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