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Um freshman social stu confused to decide what field should i choose
Slene snegrachu lfat miteyk sra alwedm just kuch blo theoretical sciencoch matnat mnamn new flagote (ik im in wrong country😢) ena hulunm hu wst misetu fieldoch zerzre yhen miamalugn yagegnehuacbew
Anthropology
Sociology
Ena psychology bcha nachew youtube lay mnamn say demo Anthropology yk mestegn isnt it weird no one wants it (ofc idk deeply) gn demo ferahu may be its wrong decision i might regret the rest of my life bians i wanna be financial stable after i gradute dont want to bother family again.

Ena sle anthropology or sociology በኛ ሀገር context ምታውቁት ነገር ካለ ንገሩኝ plss?
Like ምን አይነት opportunityዎች alu even if i do great academically? ያለፋቹበት ሰዎች ካላችሁ that would be so helpful
Thanks

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ሰላም እባካችሁ ሀሳባቹን ብታካፍሉኝ ደስ ይለኛል
20 አመቴ ነው እና በህይወቴ አንድ ግዜ ብቻ ነው relship ውስጥ ገብቼ የማውቀው እናም ከሁለት አመት በፊት ነበር፡
በሰአቱ ልጅቷን በጣም ነበር የወደድኳት ህይወትን የምንመለከትበት መንገድ አንድ አይነት ነው ስለ ብዙ ነገሮች እናወራ ነበር ግን ስለ sex አውርተን አናውቅም፡ ግንኙነታችን የተቆጠበ ነበር ግን በሰአቱ ብዙ አልቆየንም ለ6 ወር ያክል አብረን ከቆየን በኋላ ምንም ሳንጣላ ምናምን እንዲሁ ተለያየን፡ ያን ግዜ ትምህርት ቤት እና አንድ ክፍል ነበርን ግን በቃ ማውራትም አቆምን
ከዛ 1አመት ከ6 ወር አከባቢ አለፈ እና አሁንም አንድ ትምህርት ቤት ነበርን፡ ምንም እንኳን አውርተን ባናውቅም አያት ነበር፡ ከዛ ቀስ በቀስ የድሮ ትዝታዎች ፊቴ መምጣት ጀመሩ እና ብቻዬን ስሆን ምናምን እሷን ማሰብ ጀመርኩ፡ ከዛ የሆነ ቀን ቴሌግራም እየተጠቀምኩ ትዝ አለችኝ እና አካውንቷን ቼክ ሳደርግ ድሮ ያወራነው እንዳለ ነው አልጠፋም፡ ከዛ እንደ ቀልድ ሀይ አልኳትና እሷም መለሰችልኝ ከዛን ማውራት ጀመርን፡ ከሷ ጋር ስናወራ ወሬ አያልቅብንም እና ቀኑን ሙሉ ምናምን እንፃፃፍ ነበር ከዛ ለኔ ያላት ፍቅር እንደተመለሰ አይነት ነገር ተሰምቶኝ ወደፍቅር ቶፒክ ስገባላት ከመልሷ የተረዳሁት የኛ ፍቅር ለሷ ያለፈ ታሪክ እንደሆነ ነው፡ ከዛ እኔም ደበረኝ እና ቴክስት መፃፍ አቆምኩ እሷም መፃፍ ተወች፡ ከዛ ከሁለት ወር ምናምን በኋላ ምነው ዘጋከኝ ምናምን ብላ ቴክስት አደረገችልኝ እና እኔም አልዘጋሁሽም እኮ ብያት አሁንም መፃፃፍ ጀመርን፡ በዚህ ዙር ግን የተለየ ይመስላል፡ በጣም ስለብዙ ነገር ነው የምናወራው፡ ጠዋት ከእንቅልፌ ስነሳ የሷን ቴክስት ነው ቼክ ማደርገው እሷም እንደዛው ይመስለኛል፡ ስናወራ ሁሌ አዲስ ነገር አይጠፋም ፡ አንዳንዴ ለራሴ ሁሉ ይገርመኝ እና እስቃለሁ በvoice ስታወራኝ እና ድምጿን ስሰማው ውስጤን ደስ ይለዋል፡ብቻ አላርዝምባችሁ እና አሁን ይሄን ስፅፍ እራሱ ከሷ ጋር እያወራሁ ነው ፡

እና እንደነገርኳቹ እስከዛሬ ባለው እሷ የመጀመርያም የመጨረሻዬም ናት፡ ስለ rilship ያን ያክል እውቀት የለኝም እና የናንተን ምክር እሻለሁ፡ አብረን እንሁን ብዬ ልጠይቃት አሰብኩና እንቢ ብላኝ አሁን ያለው ጓደኝነታችን እንዳይበላሽ ደሞ ፈራሁ፡ እንደነገርኳችሁ እኔ ከሷ ጋር ስሆን ስለ sex ቅንጣት ታክል እንኳ አስቤ አላውቅም እንዲሁ መጨዋወት ነው፡ ብቻ i think am experiencing a real love 😄, ብቻ በተረፈ በህይወቴ በጣም ደስተኛ ሰው ነኝ እና ፈጣሪ ይመስገን ምንም የጎደለብኝ ነገር የለም፡ እናንተንም ፈጣሪ ምንም አያሳጣችሁ😊

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After moving to the U.S. at 19, I met this guy online, “Guy A,” and we clicked instantly FaceTiming, texting, and dropping “I love yous” like it was nothing. He had this charming, lowkey player vibe, so I didn’t know if he was for real. Then he got sick, and everything flipped. He stopped calling, barely replied to texts, and eventually just ghosted. No explanation. I moved on and started dating “Guy B.” He was sweet, visited me, and even moved to my city, but after two years, things turned toxic. He got controlling, and I felt like I lost myself. I ended it and focused on healing. A few months later, I started talking to “Guy C,” who’s older, super mature, and treats me like a queen flowers, trips, the whole deal. But let’s be real, there’s no spark. I enjoy his vibe but don’t see him as someone I’d date seriously.

Fast forward three years, and out of nowhere, Guy A hits me up, saying he thought of me during a rough patch. Turns out, he was seriously sick, had surgery, and his mom was ill too he was overwhelmed and ghosted because he didn’t know how to handle it. He’s been apologizing and says he never got over me. Now, my feelings for him are all over the place again. Guy C is stable, makes me feel relaxed, and lives up to the provider role I value, but he’s not “my type.” Meanwhile, I’m set to meet Guy A soon after a trip with Guy C, and I’m stuck do I go back to my first love or stick with the safe option? It’s giving major love triangle stress.

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Selam, I hv bf 2 wer yhonenal ,ena lela Hager nw yalewu ewedewalehu esum edezawu ,enam sengenagn abren edenhon malet sex enednadergm yfelgAl ene degmo V negn ena ke marriage behuala nw mfelgewu so hule tyake yanesal betam maderg endemifelg ena ene eyedeberegn nw ....so tyake sayanesabgn mkoybet way nigerugn ene mnm alsemamam bezi guday (before marriage)...so wegenoche hasab stugn pls!!!

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Hi guys , mn meselachu like how can i be a ተግባቢ guy? I mean like yehone conversation ke sew gar ejemir ena wediyaw ymilew yitefabignal a'emiroyen yehone miyzegn neger yisemagnal menager felige salinager zm elalehu ena how can i be a good communicator?,,  ena demo be were mehal rasu zm bilo sake yimetal lemndn new ? 😁 pls help me out

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I'm a 25-year-old woman going through a tough time. I struggle with getting fixated on guys who aren't interested in me. When someone shows genuine interest, I push them away and lose my feelings for them. But if someone makes me doubt their feelings, I end up falling for them. I'm not sure what's going on or how to change. This pattern is causing a lot of distress in my life. I find myself constantly feeling down, obsessing over guys who aren't into me. And just to clarify, my life is more than just about men; I just feel lonely.

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Hi guys i am 28yr female . I am the last child to my family.most of my childhood is fine with family except that outside the house people ashamed me with my weight. After college i lost my confidence and my self esteem has fallen down after graduation.... after graduation i tried so many options to get a job because of my weight and my confidence i couldn't get it . Even the guy i was seeing the past 2 years said i have to lose weight to marry him (which he is not supportive of )so i decided we go our separate ways . After searching and keeping up with things for 4 years I opened my shop with the help of my family and people are still telling me how beautiful i am if i lose a little weight and so many suggestions are given to me based on my physical. After 3 month I met a guy who is a church person..... which i liked after 2 months his behavior completely changed. He is not a person i rely on . Due to my lack of confidence and low self esteem I am losing myself I don't plan, have no Bright future i hate the person i am now, he still doesn't care if i am alive or dead . Because of these things i am sobbing everyday . Please i need help how can i change my emotions , confidence and develop my self esteem ? help 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Hey im f and a uni student so here's the deal , i feel soo lonely all the time but i have friends tho , im extremely friendly noone would think that im lonely , my friends are incredible and thoughtful but still there is some part of me that feels misunderstood & there r somethings i can't communicate well ,even tho they did ntn wrong before. im secure with my family and friends but idk wt to do with this feeling.

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Im in love with a someone and he told me that he loves me but i don't trust him what should i do? I love him so much 😭

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I wanna share this for people to read and start rethinking there decisions,
I’m gonna say this so people can read it out loud … ITS OKAY TO HAVE SEX… weather your a guy or a girl… it’s natural, and there is abso-fucking-loutley, no problem…..
Do it consensually and safely ,
educate yourself on all the safety precautions to have a healthy sex life.
Please understand, that’s the sexual drive your feelings wouldn’t be there if nature doesn’t designate it.
I see this guy making tiktok video carrying a white bored with sth jibberish about “ women virginity “… how tragic is that, that in the 21st century women need to be shamed of her sexual drive ….. with all the scientific evidences thats showing what a healthy sexuality is natural and health. Don’t like such kind of remark cause they’re carrying a very nasty underlaying message with a sugar coating…..
Have sex enjoy sex, virginity is absolutely meaningless…its as stupid as the people who came up with it….. listen to what your saying you have to deprive and make yourself celibate until god knows when you gonna be married in what world would this be considered healthy…

And also stop shaming for teenage guys for wanting to have sex, it’s like you’re telling him to fight his natural needs…. Educate him about sex education on staying safe…. and keep him away from people who are trying to make a lucrative business out of his deprived need like those pornographic sites which could lead to something which is truly unhealthy…. Let him have sex, let her have sex!



And don’t even get me started with the verses and quotes from all the religious books…. If those things led to prosperous outcome we wouldn’t be in this situation as a country….. zoro zoro I’m not even gonna argue about them here….. we are in a different discussion here

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I met a guy 3 yrs ago on ig.and talked for whole 2 yrs.a
Me almost  26 F and he 30.
Beqa beakal salqew wededkut. He was my first love. I couldnt accept that i was in love with a person i met online. It was hard.always questioning what if we dont like eachother ,baymetas minamin. Gin beqa bekefagn seat selawekut, santewaweq siltewadedn minamin betamm value argew nbr.
Keza he came to Eth ,begid new yimetaw cause he cant stay there. We met and luckliy everything went perfect .we continued as if we dated the whole 2 yrs in person.
We had different life goals.he wanted to go abroad and i wanted to stay here. He had some bad behavior like yakorfal ,dont understand me ,treat me the right way minamin....gin beqa i understood him hiwot silaltmechew new, life didn't treat him nice . minim altmechignm nbr the r/ship cause but i couldn't let me him go. Asbut i waited for him, was ok not being treated like a GF .
Keza esu he became confused here .like he couldn't go back abroad as he planned ,no work here.btm kebdew ezi. Then he started to change .enem zim alkut ,min largew . Then he started saying alteqmishim minamin... then we broke up.

I know you are here in this bot hope you read it.....

From the days we started i knew that we going to have hard days coming.i tried everything that we had good rship. Waited for you.i planned that we can stay here or worse go with you abroad.
I understood everything of You .had lots of txt that i couldnt send you to break up ante bezi seat teche alhedim biye😭😭 nege lela qen new😭and ofc i loved you too.

But you didn't even thought abt me .even try ande enquan to fix our thing.you thought ur problem was greater than me.you know i was struggling with life.(no parents,family issues,work ,school,mentally drained) Endet ene ezi west hogne tinish lene enquan alsbkim???
After we broke i wasnt hurt cause u left cause i knew it gin i couldn't accept that i loved such a heartless person,someone terdtogn yemayaq, the treatment minamin betam yamal. Endeza masbelet sew lene minim endalsebe sawq it hurts btmmm.some one i prayed daily for i still do 😊 I know you love me bdnb.(but i loved you more)gin erashen becha asqedmek, hiwot genzeb becha meselh, you thought rship was abt sex .i was just so easy for you. Was a such easy decision aydel?? lijnet new endalelew your young enough.....

Thanks GOD i didn't marry you.andem qen he left me biyye alaqem. Egziyabher redagn. He protected me. Bizu ngr qelelgn.

When am alone and think abt you gin💔

I really hope that one day you will get me....and you will.
dont treat the nxt lady like me,asbelat,be a MAN for her,life is about two of you, sele ante becha aydelm.

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አልችልም፣ አልቻልኩም ደከመኝ ታከተኝ፣
የጭቅጭቅ ህይወት የእሮሮ ኑሮ፣
ላንቃዬን በጩኸት አዳክሞ አዳፍቶ፣ መተንፈስ አቃተኝ።

አልቻልኩም ላስረዳ የልቤን ደም እንባ፣ የልቤን እውነታ፣
ጆሮ ባይሰማኝም አይንም ባያየኝም አፌ ተንገላታ።

እጅህን ዘርጋልኝ ብለው ክርስቶስን፣
የኔን ምስኪን ፀሎት ይሰማኝ ይመስል፣
ራሴን ሰጥቼው ብጠብቅ በተስፋ፣
ምንም አላገኘው ጭንቀቴን ሚገፋ ።

እንድያውም ጨመረ ስቃዬ ተባዛ፣
ለጋ ትንሽ ነፍሴ ያላቅም ያለድሜው መጨነቅ አበዛ።
ገና በልጅነት በመከራ አድጌ በስቃይ ብዙአየሁ፣
ለስሙ ብኖርም ውስጤማ ተቀብሮ አመታትን ቆየው።

ለማንስ ምን ብዬ እንዴት ብዬ ላውጋው
የምያውቁኝ አያውቁት የውስጤን ያንጀቴን፣
ከወረቀት ውጪ አዳማጭ ማጣቴን፣
አይገባቸው ብዬ አልችልምን ይዤ ባራት ነጥብ ዘጋው።

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Selam endet nachu today am gonna vent about religion..የአብዛኛው sew emenet yewresew ye abatun nw enji biblen teredtot aydelem ጴንጤ woch getan tekebelu silu orthodox ስለ ክርስቶስ yemematsebk nw mimeslachew gera new migebagn ቅዳሴው,ማህሌቱ, አምልኮው leman honena ena lek haymanot setekeyeru yemetatlalut erefu maryamn bezalay ጌታን agegnehut telalachu orthodox bet yalagegnatun ጌታ ከ ቤቱ wetachu yetem atagegnutem ena pente ppl የ ክርስቶስን ቃሉን nurut,tegberut ፁሙ, ስገዱ,ፀልዩ beteneshu selam yesemachhual plus le ድንግል ማርያም yalachehun telacha kenesu mn batefach tesedebalech ye አለም ብርሀንን seleweledech ?? Lenegeru betamesgenuat ፅድቁ lenante nw mnm mikerbat neger yelem ande እግዛብሄር akberuatal ena!! Orthodox awiyan haymanotachehun tebeku mnm neger endayetalelachu melkam ken🤍

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I know I am already a loser when i am writing this so bear with me. I am a girl in her early 20s. I am about to graduate. So lately I have been feeling a strong desire to be in real romantic relationship. I have never been in serious relationship before. All I had was useless situationships that lasted for 3 months tops. I am not lucky when it comes to romantic relationships. Its comes easy for some people but for me it still didn't happen. Ever since I was young I would daydream about it but nothing happens eskahun. And lately I started to get this deep sense of fear that I may be lonely for the rest of my life or I will settle down at an old age with someone I may not 100% like. I have seen what God does for others cause my age mates are either getting married, getting engaged or are in long committed relationship but here I am, with none of those. Since I feel like I have been waiting long I am beginning to think there must be sth wrong with me cause yehema betena aydelem. Sw endet bwhiwotu and sw yatal?!!! I am not ugly( but I am not 9 or 10 on beauty scale), I am a decent person,educated, a lover girl, a girl who stays at home most of the time, only give out a good vibes, God fearing so where is the problem?!!!!!!!!! Cause I am getting frustrated guys...its eating me alive. Is there a hope for me or should I accept maybe love is not for me? Am I that unlucky cause 😡😡😡😡😡...I dont even have a single potential person that I might like yan yakl nw tesfa askorach huneta west yalehut. Online lay yalut wendoch geta yedreselachew enji ayhonum andachewem. Ufffff....Church sihed rasu I feel like I am going with ulterior motive leza shame eyeyazegn meta. All I ask is one person that's is my soul mate. I am getting mad ....help. Pray for me guys beteley begeta yehonechu sewoch.

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Heyy there am 19 M Bahirdar uni fresh
i want to ask something mainly it's big question to me but i think it's not for others um finding my soul mate(gf) since elementry but still now i don't have gf and i know it's Gods will to get your soul mate but why mine slows i am tall, handsome...and normal men and i want to know how to get gf help me girls or boys please 🙏

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I've been thinking about something recently i'll try to keep it simple and brief

so Currently am about to graduate but the thing is the department i thought i enjoyed isn't fun for me anymore and the thought of working in some shitty company here in Ethiopia answering to some shit head boss is killing me.
So now the only think i keep thinking about is figuring out a way to get the fudge out of this country... that's when this thought got in my head which is almost everyone ik including my friends share this thought everybody these days want to get out of these country which is bad but i think when you look to the future its actually necessary.

So i ask you this when and what do you think went wrong to our country ?
i mean for almost 75-90% of us not seeing any future for ourselves here that's disappointing asf

This is my personal opinion and am down to listen to both who oppose or agree.

Also girls that are actually for real and seeking for the real shit hit me up 😏

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Hello everyone I just want to write sth cuz It has been forever since I vent okay here we go

21 F..I had/maybe have a crush on this dude since 9th grade(age 15 ig)he was a new student in our class he is tall, kinda cute in a way I can only see, he is funny and smart nd I hv never seen a wider shoulders than his😭effuoy his lazy smile mnamn demo🫠ena like I never told him(tfff cringe) gn Im sure he knows abt my feeling cuz masayew involuntary action yasabekal I lose my ability to speak if he stands in front of me and my hands begins trembling mnamn ehuu anyway lemecheresha gize yayehut I think before a year nw in a cafe ...so ummm this vent has no point apparently okay wish u all good luck

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25 M I have ADHD(diagnosed )it has been a curse in my life i was misrable and sucidal at some point but i fought that life and now i am ok.. Taking adhd med(concerta)has been a blessing to me  it totally  is life changing ... And i believe there should be awareness for adhd in Ethiopia and avaliblity of the meds b/c there is no stimulant med in ethiopia for ADHD...

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I've been married for a year now, and everything seemed to be going well, but there's this one issue that's really bothering me. Whenever my wife and I are intimate, she experiences pain, and it breaks my heart to see her struggle like that. I love her deeply, and I just want to make sure that we can enjoy these moments together without her feeling discomfort.
I’ve tried to be as gentle as possible, but the pain doesn’t seem to go away.any advice pls(specialy from married ones).

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I am 25 years old, 1.70 m tall, and an independent man seeking my dream girl to marry. I value a good personality and a positive attitude, so if you’re not toxic and have a charming demeanor, I’d love to hear from you. While I appreciate a cute face, perfection isn’t necessary. Ideally, I’m looking for someone with a body type reminiscent of Selena Gomez or Camila Cabello. If you resonate with this description, let’s connect and see where things go!

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አንድን ነገር ንስሐ ገብታችው gn still regret eymdergchew lmndnew ? ጭንቅላቴ እረፍት አጣ 😭

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