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Hi Everyone, I'm currently facing a situation and i dont really know who to talk to about it. So here it goes, I'm 25 married, recently not  even a year till I got married. So me and husband have been dating for almost 3 years then we got married last year 2016 (Ethiopian Calander). When we used to date I noticed some patterns where he used to drink and say staff he "says" he doesnt mean. But I believe people speak there heart when they're drunk. And he's kinda mean to me in a way. He doesn't usually drink often, let's say once a month or twice a month. But I believe he is a light weight so he gets drank easily. So when he drinks back when we were dating he used to call me late middle of the night and basically say staff that are mean and we fight all the time. And he finds staff that I might have done unknowingly on a normal day and start being mean about it, insulting me and make a big deal about even the smallest situations. And then the next day he always apologizes says he doesn't mean it whatever and then I get mad because I'm like then where did that come from you know. One day he was drank he came to my house and was like come and talk to me around midnight mind you menamen or I will knock the door so went out and talked to him  tried to come him down my mom noticed so I told her he was just mad about work and he wanted someone to talk to menamen. Becha it's always a mess when he drinks ALWAYS. When I noticed the patterns I discussed the issue with him. I told him it was a deal breaker for me and staff. He said he will change, and I did notice changes. Keza after a while he proposed. Then the whole shemgelena, meeting family happend. And I moved out.  But now yesterday, same thing happened and then I realized I'm I gonna be dealing with for the rest of my life you know. And it is scaring me. Mind you, he is a great guy other than that behavior. Good stable man, family approves, and god willing having a great potential of raising great kids and great family. And I'm thinking what does the future hold tho with this type of behavior, if that makes sense. I always end up crying, sad, depressed, feeling confused everytime he drinks because of the staffs he says to me. There are time where I dont go to work because I always end up feeling low. For example today because of what happened yesterday I'm sick, haven't eaten the whole day. And I'm like is it to late to be a factor for ending it, or am I over reacting. Any one with great life experiences to share your thoughts please. Could be something you have gone through or know someone that has gone through this situation. Thank you in Advance!

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Selamm endet nachu please guys atlefut am in Tru yalhone huneta wst I Know betammm baybsbgn madergew baytefagnn ezih Dres altsfm neber bezih amet alfe univ gebchalew betamm zktegnaa hiwot Yalen bet 😔😔 Shanta enkuan endet gezche ke sew ekul hugne lemegbat endemokerku enena fetarin enate nen mnawkew 😒 ahun ye hawasa university temari hugnalew be tmhrtr gobez neger negn gn wechiwn lchlew alchalkum kejemern tnsh koyen gn beka bzu bzu negeroch yelugnm mamualat enkuan alchalkum ke dormmate ljoch ga hula beka mnm neger lamuala alchalkum ye Gbin hiwot tawkutalachu bye asbalew tnsh sra ke gon ejemralew bye hagerunm alawkewm ena ebakachu mtchlutn bcha erdugn mnm neger mamualat alchalkum kakme belay honobgn new😪😓🙏🙏🙏🙏

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M 22 AAU Student, Fx Trader.


Tall ,Handsome ,Receive This from alot of girls.
So There is This ቀሽት Girl in our Campus እና እንዳያሁኣት ነበር የወደድኳት You know በስመአብብብ እንዴት እንደምታምር ማርያምን I was 2nd year student መጀመሪያ ሳያት አሁን 4th ነኝ Isn't it funny እስካሁን እትት ብዪኣት አላዉቅም😁😁😭😭 በአንድ Batch ነዉ ምበልጣት Eye contact በጣም አናረግ ነበር የሆነ Time ላይ Then It became weird you know ያዉ ግን ሳያት ደስ ይለኛል Still I get goosebumps , I tried to talk to her once but ኮስተር ነገር ብላ ነበርና ትቺያት ተመለስኩ and I am kind of nonchalant person በተፈጥሮዬ  እና ብዙ ነገር ላይ ጎድቶኛል ኢሄ ነገር
I receive this from alot of people Friends Even from my family Since I was a kid  ,ምንም ማድረግ አልችልም That's me thoo and fuck it.

ብቻ ሁሌ ሳያት አላስችልህ ብሎኝ ላናግራት አስብና Then am not Emotionally Stable Right now, you know my life ብዙ Ups and Downs አለዉ በዚ በኩል Class አለ በዚ በኩል ደሞ Trade አለ ብቻ ብዙ ነገር አለ ማላወራዉ Am  kinda In Fucked up situation Right now በዚ ሁኔታ ላገኛት አልፈልግም ,Trade ላይ ሴት መጨመር ደሞ Lifeን በጣም ነዉ ሚያከብደዉ Fr fr ,
Still there are girls in my life and to tell you the truth Idgaf about them ,
መጡም አይጠቅሙኝም ቀሩም አይጎዱኝም Stuff ነዉ😁,
እራሴን በራሴ ነዉ Support ማደርገዉና ያዉ Family Support ያረገኛል ግን እነሱ ሚገጩኝ መላ  በሁለት ቀን ምናምን  ሚያልቅ ነው መቀበል እራሱ ትቺየለዉ .....

I am Writing this Vent just to let it out from my heart...
ብቻ ስላነበባቹ Thank you Alot .

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Owww....How this hurts.... I pushed all my luck away.....
I'm changing rly, being mad with almost everything, being mean being rude I don't want to it's just I'm realizing the people around me only wants me for themselves n when I take myself first it's considered selfishness but when they do it n then I'm rude it ain't considered shit
Ech wht I'm I mezebareking, damn this this fuckin hurts
Wht I'm I doing in life, would I find someone secure that makes me secure or will my insecurity n trauma scare away all of em?
This is so hard, I didn't want to push u away but ykk I just needed someone to beg me, I would've opened up cried n crawl right back to u, I used to blabby lot of shit to u eko gn u seem like u didn't care I needed someone who communicates bedenb who comfort me, but no u didn't hun u u just uffff ik people that couldn't communicate change themselves for people eko, why didn't u become that person for me
I don't think I'll ever meet the secure guy I need tho
Ena bchayen? Endet bye besmab fetari yhunegn bcha🥺

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I need to vent. I met this well known gospel singer online, and we started video calling and texting constantly .making me believe we had something special, all while using God’s name and claiming to be a devoted Christian. But I never thought about the possibility that he had a girlfriend he has been dating for years while giving me his entire time Turns out, he’d been cheating on her for years, and this time around I was the ተረኛ side chick 🙆🏾‍♀️he was using 😭😂yet she kept forgiving him and taking him back. I just don’t understand how she could after so many betrayals and again this time as well

To all my Christian girls out there please, trust the Lord more than any man, no matter how convincing they seem. Don’t be fooled by their “ministry” talk. Watch their actions. ምን አይነት ልብ አለዉ በሉ don’t be fooled by their so called አገልግሎት Be careful who you give your heart to and stay strong in your faith. I hope my experience helps someone out there.

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Ena mn lelachu new br yasfelgegnal betam 2 tanash wendmoch alugn ene ga new minorut mother yelechm fatherm egna ga aynorn lela tdar yzual gn br yesetenal ahun ahun gn eyeseten yalew br kensual mnun kemn endemaregew alakm first year temari negn ketmhrte gon legon yemisera sera kale ebakachu tebaberugn betam chenkogn nw wedezi yemetawt.
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Hello my people, I am a guy 26 I have a question for y'all, I want a friend a girl friend who I can share everything with out fear of judgment, tell my stupid jokes drink morning coffee or beer together discuss about life, our regrets and futur plan etc but also kiss, make out and even fuck once in a while, but then we don't have to be in relationship she can date when she wants and so do I. I mean we are grownups right we all stress and life should be simple I belive why does every relationship should be serious and romantic or why should every relationship goal should be marriage. If you don't relate or have a postive comment swipe up and move to the next vent

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Have you ever feel insecure? No? I’ll explain the feeling. I have grown up in a broke family(grandparents). We’re still broke. But when did it start hitting me is when I get older when people my age be talking about having their own room (I would say we live in one room). Now Im at the most popular college in Addis Ababa, most of ye habtam lejs is going there , call me whatever you want but there’s always some feeling here in the heart. Not only my brokenness, they say they live with their parents. I don’t even have vivid image of my parents(they live in diff country), I have never been treated well. Don’t know what a real family could look like. Im not blaming everything on my parents, they’re still trying to provide. And that thing always makes me feel like I’m always one step backward from everyone my age. The most overwhelming thing Dmo people think I came from some rich parents. Wish I could distance myself from everyone and just keep my focus on school but naturally Im a sociable person. HURTFULL.

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In short be family case ke gebi kakuaretku 2 amet honege ena betam gobez temari neberku still i read alot gn mnm aynet social skill yelegem ena sera ataw gera gebtogal mnm sera lemesrat zegeju nege amna temari astena neber ena 12 tefetno alefe ahun ylem pls help me i need to work

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20yr nigga .... so i've my girl best friend ena i feel like i've something for her gn bnegrat beka ik endemataw our friendship demo mejemeria yesuan best friend I asked her to be my gf and she rejected me wendme neh mnamn bla ena keza curse buhala eskahun gf yelegnim btw good looking man , 6'1 ena personality 🤌 so ahun should I tell her keza gn esua reject btadergegn dgami alagegimim min larg wegenoche demo I've to get a gf eskezi amete dres saynoregn

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"Hey, what's up everyone. I know I’m not alone in this—especially us Gen Z folks—so hear me out. I'm 23, a college dropout, and to be real, I’ve been through a lot of struggles. But let me paint the bigger picture for you. Ethiopia’s youth, those of us under 30, make up about 70% of the population. We’re in the majority, but sometimes it feels like we’re trapped in this cycle.
I used to be a Christian, but the more I thought about it, the more I couldn't ignore the harm it caused. The guilt, the cognitive dissonance, the hypocrisy, clash with science, silence in a dark time... I couldn’t keep pretending it wasn’t affecting me.
I get it. Like many of you, I’ve dealt with addiction, especially to porn, feeling lost and desperate at times, and clashing with the older generation’s views. But all of that pain opened my eyes, made me see things clearly. It wasn’t just about the issues—it was about understanding the root causes.
I used to be deep into tech, and now I’m using those skills to tackle the real problems. To me, life feels like a script, like we’re all stuck running on autopilot. But I’m not here to just live by the script. I’m here to break free—like Neo in The Matrix.
So I’m writing a book titled Ethiopia’s Resurrection. I’m on a mission to change the narrative and bring real solutions to the problems we’re facing for now before multiplying. I’ve created a channel with the same name. Username -> 'erbtm.’ It’s not just about talking; it’s about action. Join me, support me, and help bring this vision to life. Together, we can make this happen. You can find all the details on the channel and also ways you can support me financially if you want to be part of this change." Thank you

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I lost my ex girlfriend through suicide when I was eighteen i didn't take the r/ship as seriously as she did and I always feel guilty abt that, my cousin throughw
suicide when I was the same age, and my favourite grandma through covid when I was 18 as well and I had suicidal gf at that time am 23 next month I don't feel good mentally Its been long since I was committed I go out on dates here and there but if I commit and lose that person I think that would be the last of me. I drown my innervoices by all the things that I find, but I don't even wanna think abt myself when am sober cause it will cause me to get run over by a car or sthg, my dad had a stroke when I just turned 21 the invincible man only my mom supports me and my sis, I got a job so not me technically, all my friends left except one I guess after my pops sickness idk y, am in a pit and idk how I will ever get, I feel like guts in Berserk where I always walk a lonely road with me only knowing the pain that am feeling is this how she was thinking? Hope this helps me coz I don't even text noone this couple years and noone seems to wonder why.

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Hii, 1st time venting actually it's more of a pleading msg!!
So yeah I'm 21F and there's this guy (24M) I met online and for the past two weeks he's been on my mind 24/7. We started talking because of a message that was sent here about a girl complaining about her bf's kink and stuff and we rly clicked after. He was easy to talk to and the way he spoke was so captivating in his own ways and I swear his voice is still stuck in the back of my head... We exchanged numbers and he was such a free spirit who could talk about anything on his mind. He was like one of those extroverted friends who you just wanna be around all the time. I wasn't the type of girl who blushes easily but God talking to him on the phone was different. Unfortunately, we had a misunderstanding and he vanished as if he was never there... I'm missing him more than I should and just want to have you back in my life again... I'm sorry for anyone who's third-wheeling in this msg but I desperately need him back and work things out properly, mj... You know where to find me!!

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ena min meselachu ke grade 8 jemro setoch bene mekeled des yilachewal ena high school laym endezaw enen bully madreg yasdestachewal gibi sigebam endezaw what does it mean like laughing at me? I want answers from girls

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Ma stupid idiot decisions got me to this hell...I want a peace quiet.. I mean like yewst selam efelgalehu fata mayset depression nw yeyazegn jil behone decision and it is haunting me every single day how in the hell I messed ma life. mata mata metegnat alechilm mulu kenun endet endezi areku biye nw masib😔😣 i sometimes aleksalehu overthinking is eating me Chinket anxiety depression eyebelagn nw Ahhhhhhh Betam eyetegodaw nw beyekenu haunt yaregenal min aynet kebad sihtet nw yeseraw behiwete nw yekeledikubet Endet sew berasu ej hiwetun yabelashal😡 Tmhirtunm alketatelim alatenam beyekenu sle serahut sihtet nw masb betam nw yazenku berase tichew bihed des yilegnal Bichayen eyecheleliku nw someone please help me am dying inside mayasarf hasab nalayen eyazoregn nw😭
kezi chinket endet endemweta alakim libe dires nw misemagn andande metenfes erasu yakitegnal betam over intense yehone chinket nw yagatemegn
Eee hahahahaahahahahahahaha psychopath eyehonku nw ahhhh hahahahahahahahaahha😣😣😭😡😡
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I was gtaduated 1 year ago ena currently sra lay negn gn kalegn academic background beka ezi hager mekoyet mnm waga endelelew eyetesemagn nw...so scammers Bibezum mtakut wey be tmrt or work process miayaregu please am tired of this country

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you broke me and it's not your fault!
it's been more than 2 years since our last contact and guess what you are still on my mind. i know you never really had feelings and we were never a "thing" but damn, you knew i was crazy about you the whole time. stalking has been my profession since you left. visiting your social medias every single day for 2 years and a half ,a little exaggeration but God you cooked me. i won't lie tho some days are better than others, there are times i thought i moved on fr but after a day or 2 u just creep back in my mind and torment my soul. how is life holding you up tho? how is that person u left me for? did you guys made it to the relationship stage? i heard some rumours u actually did. but hey, please know that the chances of you finding a person that loves you the way i did is pretty low! a little ego boost for me right there :). am doing not so bad too if you care to ask. don't get me wrong am single as f. but life other than your thoughts is going pretty well. still chasing my dreams and all that.
well i hope you read this, cause it would be a bummer if you didn't.

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Selamm endet nachu please guys atlefut am in Tru yalhone huneta wst I Know betammm baybsbgn madergew baytefagnn ezih Dres altsfm neber bezih amet alfe univ gebchalew betamm zktegnaa hiwot Yalen bet 😔😔 Shanta enkuan endet gezche ke sew ekul hugne lemegbat endemokerku enena fetarin enate nen mnawkew 😒 ahun ye hawasa university temari hugnalew be tmhrtr gobez neger negn gn wechiwn lchlew alchalkum kejemern tnsh koyen gn beka bzu bzu negeroch yelugnm mamualat enkuan alchalkum ke dormmate ljoch ga hula beka mnm neger lamuala alchalkum ye Gbin hiwot tawkutalachu bye asbalew tnsh sra ke gon ejemralew bye hagerunm alawkewm ena ebakachu yehonech neger eskjemer dres mtchlutn bcha erdugn mnm neger mamualat alchalkum kakme belay honobgn new maryamn😪😓🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Howdy people
I couldn't help noticing something in this generation(and even the one before us) and been thinking bout it for the past few weeks.

It's very difficult to find genuine relationships nowadays. I mean there are a lot of dateable people in the pool however I don't see a fulfilling and long-lasting relationships anywhere(not saying it doesn't exist, but not generally)
People are dating at a higher rate, thanks to the rise of social media, maybe? lemme dive into what's I've noticed well
1. Serious ones are kinda rare. People just wanna have fun, feel the cringy romance, then f . I don't see many people doing something significant with their dates.
2. I see people breaking up with dumb n dumb reasons. No explanation needed here but "ውሃ ቀጠነ" is breaking people up betam.
3. There's a high number of people aged 28 - 35ish who aint married. It's okay not to get married but this number isn't similar to what was there previously. Could this imply something?


Plus I think the hostility of men and women towards each other has grown immensely. Rather than working together as a complimentary team, like key n lock, we're competing against each other, IG.

Anyways, what are we doing wrong ? is it money, looks or status? what's up?
What things should a person do or be to get a fulfilling and genuine one?

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"I'm waiting for the right person" has to be up there with the dumbest things to say. I mean okay and then what are you going to do when the right person comes. What do you think happens when a person who never drove a car in his life gets on the wheels for the first time?. So go out and date the wrong people, we might learn a thing or two. Let's pick new red flags we didn't know existed. We all fell when we learnt how to ride the bike. So go and have a new tebasa, pretty sure it would be a cool story to tell.

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hey guys endet nachu, my problem is i have a very ugly teeth and I’ve always struggled with my teeth, but lately, it’s been taking a toll on my mental health. They’re crooked, uneven, and honestly, pretty hard to look at when I see myself in the mirror. I try not to smile in public or even around friends because I feel like people are constantly judging me. It’s exhausting trying to hide something so visible, something I can’t fix on my own.

i’m not sure what I’m hoping for by posting this, but I just needed to vent. Maybe someone has advice or has been through the same thing. ena if you guys are hiring mnamn since i need money for braces i will take the job, help your girl out....

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