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Ma question is just I can't handle people. I ignor them even by little Sicily things. I just noticed my emotional intelligence is almost zero so my question here is how can I enhance my emotional intelligence. Cause of this I ain't Friend .help me out

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Hello there, I'm 20f

Sorry to bother you but currently I'm at my depression era because of my past traumas and what I'm gonna ask you guys is to recommend me any kind of job that makes me busy. I'm uv student and usually have my afternoons free. Actually I have some side hustles but those don't occupy my time enough and I also have a strong desire to stand by my feet and embrace my self so I want to do more...

If anyone knows of job opportunities, especially related to sales, event organizing, or any other part-time work that can help keep me engaged, please let me know.


Thank you for your time! 😊

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Hello, world (a little inside joke).
A bit of venting and sharing, if I may.

I don't know if this is like Reddit, but news flash: it's about a girl.

So, backstory: I'm a guy in my mid-twenties. There's this girl—or was, actually

There aren't any thought-through paragraphs in this vent. I'm going without any script, just seeing where it takes me. The worst thing about being expressive about your feelings in our generation is that you'll be seen as a try-hard, and you'd be perceived as a pushover (it's all in the subconscious). At this point, I feel like I've given you enough input to assume who ended it with whom, but before I confirm your assumptions, here’s more input: we dated for a year. She consumed me (in a good way). I wasn't always sunshine and rainbows, too, but at the end of the day, I knew she was the person I wanted next to me, wearing her wedding dress and me wearing my tux. That's how bad I wanted it.

Funny thing: I made this IG page where, after every date, I wrote a small paragraph—sort of like a diary I would give to her when we got married or at least engaged. Now I'm left with memories, three jobs getting money we will never get to spend together, and a shitty second-hand car. (Sensitive topic.) I never imagined it would end tbh and when everyone told me, "You have to think about both perspectives." On my side, I was working so much, just waiting for the right moment, when we ended up seeing and talking once or twice a month. She disconnected the day she sent the text that ended it. Honestly, deep down it didn't hit instead some part of me hit an i told you so

I don't know where this is going. Honestly, it's been a month now, and I just hope she is happy and gets everything she ever wanted. I wish I could send this to you directly, but I understand it's not my place anymore, and that's something I have to live with. I guess it's all part of the process and something I have to ponder over. I'm not bitter about anything; at the end of the day, I tried my best. You know, I just wonder sometimes why the questions brought up now weren't addressed earlier. As time goes on, some things come to mind, and I keep assuming, "Oh, did this happen because she wasn't into it in the first place?" whats honestly crushing me now is before she ended it i was saving up to do something and i sent her the tiktok about it and it ended so i never got a response you know and that sucks. I don't know; enough for today, honestly.

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I had crush last year. We used to work together and he was rude to me all the time. I don't know why he's impatient with me but hr always says the truth and hurt my feeling. But i like him. He doesn't even see my eyes. Everyone in the office told me that am really pretty. But he doesn't. Then one day one of my colleague told me that my crush thinks am really Beautiful. I just got confused so i moved on. Then he resined and we got separated.  The after awhile he started to call me. We become good friend but i still like him. So the friendship remains for the whole year and become Strong. So recently when we talk about some kind of work we decided to do it. Then we spend the night together. I was 100% sure he doesn't have feeling. But that night he said  i want to kiss you. The i got shocked and i nod saying you can kiss me. Then we started kissing each other and even make out but we didn't do sex. Then he become totally fine but am not, am so confused. Does he like me or it's just nothing? What do i do should i pretend like him or what? I just don't know what to do? Anyone whose reading this Please tell me  🙏

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Sooo is 20 appropriate age to lose the v card? I have a bf ena im just scared of regretting it after.

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I’m 24F, and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 years. Recently, it was my birthday, and I was really excited to spend the day with him. We met up, and everything seemed fine at first. After spending a little time together, he started calling his friends to join us. I thought we’d spend the day just the two of us, but it wasn’t a big deal.

So, there were now four of us—my boyfriend, his two friends, and me. One of his friends was sitting near the door, and my boyfriend insisted that his friend switch seats to sit closer to me. he started talking with o me since we had some common interests like online business,f x and graphic design. It wasn’t anything inappropriate; it was just casual conversation i swear.

Meanwhile, my boyfriend was drinking a lot and chatting with his other friend. I didn’t even notice how much he had been drinking until we were getting ready to leave and pay the bill. Out of nowhere, he texted me saying he was angry because I was "disrespecting him" by talking to his friend. He also blamed me for not stopping him from drinking too much,

He asked me to step outside, and when we did, he started saying horrible things—telling me he hated me, that we should break up, and that he didn’t want to see me again. I was crying so much and tried to explain that I wasn’t ignoring him; I genuinely thought he was having a good time with his other friend while I talked to the one next to me.

The most painful thing he said was that he "lost his life" (referring to a previous girlfriend) in his birth day and that I would lose him on my birthday. Hearing that broke me completely. Despite all this, I begged him to stay, crying uncontrollably.

The next day, when he sobered up, he apologized. I accepted his apology, and we’re back together now. But honestly, I feel so broken. Every time I hear his voice or think about him, my heart aches. I don’t know how to move on from this or what to do.

I don’t have anyone to talk to about this, so I’m venting here. Thanks for reading.

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Hi i am 20F soon to be 21 and am studen  of pharmacy   and i want you'r  help ena  bezh samn balsbkut menged tekat dersobgi nber malet yemdfer mukra ena    betam chenkogal enklfe be ayne zoro aywkem  le family menager alchalkum feraw betam ena endet ende teftr lengrachu zemdachin ega bet nw yemborew ena  bezu geze ene bet west alwram  zem nw yemlew ke class semls father kale ke esu gar awrche wede kefle memls nw   ena  semonun metfo astyayt seyaygi ena   yemayhon nger semoker nber  ena  ehud elet tewat family be tewat church hedwal ene becha nberku bet yetgawt ena  salsbew be tegawbet gebto le medfer mukra adrge    gn be gezew and gudgaye     endet ende metam alkem ber be hayel senkwakwa sesma telog weta  dengto  ena be seatu tenshi dem nger nber gn sentagel sele nber  yemsligal    ena alkem keza behala zorbig nber endet endwtaw alkem keza bet ersu   becha be acheru   sengrachu father ke church semlsu tebke wede bet gebaw le menager feraw esum asfrargi ende migelig ngergi  ena lelitun kuch beye aderkug ena  tewat ye ergzna meklakya watkugi  ena ahunm betam ferchalew mn albat  argz yehon demos esum temlso yemta yehon alkem ahun yehen type sader am so afraid  alkem beka enklfem yelm  ena ebakchu  erdugi mn ladrg  berget i think mulu le mulu denglnaye altwsdm malet yaw margagcha yembalwtn ngeroch mokryachew  normal ena please meklakya mewsde becha  lale margze yargagtal please help me ehet kalchu be ehtachu sem ebakchu kalhone gn Ewnet   ersen atfalew  ebakchu erdugi  amsgnalew   please  help me please

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It had been one of those days. The kind where the weight of the world seems to press down relentlessly, suffocating every ounce of peace you’ve got left. Everything that could go wrong did go wrong. My patience had been tested to its very limit, and by the end of the evening, I could feel the frustration clawing at me. That was when I decided to grab a cigarette—a small escape, a quiet ritual that, for a fleeting moment, promised calm.
I headed out to the corner store, grabbed a pack, and returned home. The streets were unusually quiet, the air heavy but not in the way it usually was before a storm. There was a strange stillness, as though the universe was watching me. I didn’t think much of it at the time.
When I got back to my room, I noticed something odd. The Bible I rarely touched, the one that sat closed on my desk, was open. I couldn’t recall ever leaving it like that. In fact, I was sure I hadn’t touched it in weeks, maybe months. But there it was, pages spread wide. I walked over to close it, but curiosity got the better of me. I leaned in to see where it had landed.
It was open to a passage I didn’t immediately recognize, but the words caught my eye:
"Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your body."
I felt a chill run down my spine. The timing was uncanny. I brushed it off at first, blaming coincidence, but something about it nagged at me. Still, I shook my head, chuckling softly. “That’s a bit on the nose, isn’t it?” I muttered to the empty room.
I grabbed my lighter, the same one I’d used a hundred times without fail, and held it to the cigarette between my lips. Click. Nothing. I flicked it again. And again. Still nothing.
The lighter wasn’t out of fuel—I had just refilled it yesterday. It wasn’t broken either; it sparked perfectly fine when I tested it moments earlier. But for some reason, it refused to ignite the cigarette.
I tried everything. Shaking it, adjusting the flame, even testing another cigarette. Still, nothing. Frustration turned to confusion, and confusion gave way to something else entirely—disbelief. I sat there, staring at the unlit cigarette in my hand, the lighter useless in the other, and then my eyes drifted back to the Bible, still open on my desk.
It felt like the universe—or something far greater—was speaking to me. I don’t know if it was a sign or just a string of strange coincidences, but it hit me hard. Here I was, looking for a momentary escape, and something was telling me to pause, to think, to really see what I was doing to myself.
For the first time in a long while, I felt small. Not insignificant, but… watched. Like someone—or something—had been with me all along, waiting for the right moment to get my attention.
I never did light that cigarette. Instead, I put it back in the pack and closed the Bible. The frustration of the day was still there, lingering in the background, but so was something else now—a strange, almost unshakable sense of peace. And for reasons I still can’t explain, that peace stayed with me long after the cigarette was forgotten.

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Hay i 20 m
From the bigning eske zare dres gf emibal neger norogn ayakm malet set ayalewu than ymechgnina yehone mawurat snjemr normal yhonbgnal keza etewewalewu bizu setoch ga endeza agatmognal wey demo wera yitefabgnal wey be lela chirg sayhon ykeral na ahun yehone godegnaye yehonech lijn bewera mehal lemn ataweratm abrachhu thadalachhu alegni than ere yemayhon neger new ene keso ga bye sekakshawu alefku keza ke 3 ken behola lijitun be akal agegnehotna mejemeriya. Lay normal neber yetesemagn keza gn sasbewu ena bedenb sayat betam des tlalech na kayehot seat jemro yehone smet ysemagni jemer ke aymroye altefa alech ke slkon ke sew tekebelku keza mn bye text larglat hulet nager metalgn 1 zelye ende jnjena lawerat bl ignore endataregegni ferahu 2 ende friend eyawerahu mehal lay wede fkr lemekeyer yan sareg demo endezawu ignore mederegn ferahu so det lawurat guys endalatat ferahu bena sihtet befit kagatemegni neger antsar
so what should i do plz say something🙏🙏

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I hope you’re all doing well. I’m reaching out to see if anyone has experienced something similar to what I’m going through and could offer some advice.
I am currently 19 years old and have not experienced any type of erection in my whole life until now. While I do have a normal level of sexual desire, the complete lack of erections is concerning for me . I also want to know if not experiencing morning erections is normal, as I understand they can be a common occurrence for many guys.
If anyone has dealt with a similar situation or has knowledge about this, I would greatly appreciate your insights or experience.

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የአይን ፍቅር ይዞዎቹ ያውቃ? እኔ ግን ይዞኛል ለዛውም ስሙን ከማላቀው ልጅ. I'm almost 19 yo girl who learns architecture in aau(2 year ).

I saw this charming creature in gov cafe for the first time when i was fresh, my heart start rising and uncommon feeling rush all over my body, i feel like he is the one. It happens so quickly i fall for what i see.
እና በቃ ሁሌ ጊቢ ውስጥ እንደአጋጣሚ ካየሁት ብዬ አይኔ ይንከራተታል by any chance ካለፈ ብዬ በdormሜ መስካት አሻግሬ አያለሁ sometimes if i don't see him for long time, i'll wonder where he is and thinking about him the whole day. I don't even know neither what dept he is nor his year. He has shy personality, most of the time lonely. One day i catch him staring at me and he bends his head and start walking. I like the way he stares at me unlike the others.
Thanks to God i'm still productive my instructor admire my work but i'm scared of lose it.
My eyes starve for him and my heart adores him.
It undeniable fact that i'm in LOVE with him unconditional.
Pls don't say ask him out it's impossible thing

Guy i chose to love him in silence but this sight love is burning me eko what shall i do😢.

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Hi Everyone, I'm currently facing a situation and i dont really know who to talk to about it. So here it goes, I'm 25 married, recently not  even a year till I got married. So me and husband have been dating for almost 3 years then we got married last year 2016 (Ethiopian Calander). When we used to date I noticed some patterns where he used to drink and say staff he "says" he doesnt mean. But I believe people speak there heart when they're drunk. And he's kinda mean to me in a way. He doesn't usually drink often, let's say once a month or twice a month. But I believe he is a light weight so he gets drank easily. So when he drinks back when we were dating he used to call me late middle of the night and basically say staff that are mean and we fight all the time. And he finds staff that I might have done unknowingly on a normal day and start being mean about it, insulting me and make a big deal about even the smallest situations. And then the next day he always apologizes says he doesn't mean it whatever and then I get mad because I'm like then where did that come from you know. One day he was drank he came to my house and was like come and talk to me around midnight mind you menamen or I will knock the door so went out and talked to him  tried to come him down my mom noticed so I told her he was just mad about work and he wanted someone to talk to menamen. Becha it's always a mess when he drinks ALWAYS. When I noticed the patterns I discussed the issue with him. I told him it was a deal breaker for me and staff. He said he will change, and I did notice changes. Keza after a while he proposed. Then the whole shemgelena, meeting family happend. And I moved out.  But now yesterday, same thing happened and then I realized I'm I gonna be dealing with for the rest of my life you know. And it is scaring me. Mind you, he is a great guy other than that behavior. Good stable man, family approves, and god willing having a great potential of raising great kids and great family. And I'm thinking what does the future hold tho with this type of behavior, if that makes sense. I always end up crying, sad, depressed, feeling confused everytime he drinks because of the staffs he says to me. There are time where I dont go to work because I always end up feeling low. For example today because of what happened yesterday I'm sick, haven't eaten the whole day. And I'm like is it to late to be a factor for ending it, or am I over reacting. Any one with great life experiences to share your thoughts please. Could be something you have gone through or know someone that has gone through this situation. Thank you in Advance!

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Selamm endet nachu please guys atlefut am in Tru yalhone huneta wst I Know betammm baybsbgn madergew baytefagnn ezih Dres altsfm neber bezih amet alfe univ gebchalew betamm zktegnaa hiwot Yalen bet 😔😔 Shanta enkuan endet gezche ke sew ekul hugne lemegbat endemokerku enena fetarin enate nen mnawkew 😒 ahun ye hawasa university temari hugnalew be tmhrtr gobez neger negn gn wechiwn lchlew alchalkum kejemern tnsh koyen gn beka bzu bzu negeroch yelugnm mamualat enkuan alchalkum ke dormmate ljoch ga hula beka mnm neger lamuala alchalkum ye Gbin hiwot tawkutalachu bye asbalew tnsh sra ke gon ejemralew bye hagerunm alawkewm ena ebakachu mtchlutn bcha erdugn mnm neger mamualat alchalkum kakme belay honobgn new😪😓🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Tall ,Handsome ,Receive This from alot of girls.
So There is This ቀሽት Girl in our Campus እና እንዳያሁኣት ነበር የወደድኳት You know በስመአብብብ እንዴት እንደምታምር ማርያምን I was 2nd year student መጀመሪያ ሳያት አሁን 4th ነኝ Isn't it funny እስካሁን እትት ብዪኣት አላዉቅም😁😁😭😭 በአንድ Batch ነዉ ምበልጣት Eye contact በጣም አናረግ ነበር የሆነ Time ላይ Then It became weird you know ያዉ ግን ሳያት ደስ ይለኛል Still I get goosebumps , I tried to talk to her once but ኮስተር ነገር ብላ ነበርና ትቺያት ተመለስኩ and I am kind of nonchalant person በተፈጥሮዬ  እና ብዙ ነገር ላይ ጎድቶኛል ኢሄ ነገር
I receive this from alot of people Friends Even from my family Since I was a kid  ,ምንም ማድረግ አልችልም That's me thoo and fuck it.

ብቻ ሁሌ ሳያት አላስችልህ ብሎኝ ላናግራት አስብና Then am not Emotionally Stable Right now, you know my life ብዙ Ups and Downs አለዉ በዚ በኩል Class አለ በዚ በኩል ደሞ Trade አለ ብቻ ብዙ ነገር አለ ማላወራዉ Am  kinda In Fucked up situation Right now በዚ ሁኔታ ላገኛት አልፈልግም ,Trade ላይ ሴት መጨመር ደሞ Lifeን በጣም ነዉ ሚያከብደዉ Fr fr ,
Still there are girls in my life and to tell you the truth Idgaf about them ,
መጡም አይጠቅሙኝም ቀሩም አይጎዱኝም Stuff ነዉ😁,
እራሴን በራሴ ነዉ Support ማደርገዉና ያዉ Family Support ያረገኛል ግን እነሱ ሚገጩኝ መላ  በሁለት ቀን ምናምን  ሚያልቅ ነው መቀበል እራሱ ትቺየለዉ .....

I am Writing this Vent just to let it out from my heart...
ብቻ ስላነበባቹ Thank you Alot .

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Owww....How this hurts.... I pushed all my luck away.....
I'm changing rly, being mad with almost everything, being mean being rude I don't want to it's just I'm realizing the people around me only wants me for themselves n when I take myself first it's considered selfishness but when they do it n then I'm rude it ain't considered shit
Ech wht I'm I mezebareking, damn this this fuckin hurts
Wht I'm I doing in life, would I find someone secure that makes me secure or will my insecurity n trauma scare away all of em?
This is so hard, I didn't want to push u away but ykk I just needed someone to beg me, I would've opened up cried n crawl right back to u, I used to blabby lot of shit to u eko gn u seem like u didn't care I needed someone who communicates bedenb who comfort me, but no u didn't hun u u just uffff ik people that couldn't communicate change themselves for people eko, why didn't u become that person for me
I don't think I'll ever meet the secure guy I need tho
Ena bchayen? Endet bye besmab fetari yhunegn bcha🥺

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I need to vent. I met this well known gospel singer online, and we started video calling and texting constantly .making me believe we had something special, all while using God’s name and claiming to be a devoted Christian. But I never thought about the possibility that he had a girlfriend he has been dating for years while giving me his entire time Turns out, he’d been cheating on her for years, and this time around I was the ተረኛ side chick 🙆🏾‍♀️he was using 😭😂yet she kept forgiving him and taking him back. I just don’t understand how she could after so many betrayals and again this time as well

To all my Christian girls out there please, trust the Lord more than any man, no matter how convincing they seem. Don’t be fooled by their “ministry” talk. Watch their actions. ምን አይነት ልብ አለዉ በሉ don’t be fooled by their so called አገልግሎት Be careful who you give your heart to and stay strong in your faith. I hope my experience helps someone out there.

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Ena mn lelachu new br yasfelgegnal betam 2 tanash wendmoch alugn ene ga new minorut mother yelechm fatherm egna ga aynorn lela tdar yzual gn br yesetenal ahun ahun gn eyeseten yalew br kensual mnun kemn endemaregew alakm first year temari negn ketmhrte gon legon yemisera sera kale ebakachu tebaberugn betam chenkogn nw wedezi yemetawt.
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Hello my people, I am a guy 26 I have a question for y'all, I want a friend a girl friend who I can share everything with out fear of judgment, tell my stupid jokes drink morning coffee or beer together discuss about life, our regrets and futur plan etc but also kiss, make out and even fuck once in a while, but then we don't have to be in relationship she can date when she wants and so do I. I mean we are grownups right we all stress and life should be simple I belive why does every relationship should be serious and romantic or why should every relationship goal should be marriage. If you don't relate or have a postive comment swipe up and move to the next vent

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Have you ever feel insecure? No? I’ll explain the feeling. I have grown up in a broke family(grandparents). We’re still broke. But when did it start hitting me is when I get older when people my age be talking about having their own room (I would say we live in one room). Now Im at the most popular college in Addis Ababa, most of ye habtam lejs is going there , call me whatever you want but there’s always some feeling here in the heart. Not only my brokenness, they say they live with their parents. I don’t even have vivid image of my parents(they live in diff country), I have never been treated well. Don’t know what a real family could look like. Im not blaming everything on my parents, they’re still trying to provide. And that thing always makes me feel like I’m always one step backward from everyone my age. The most overwhelming thing Dmo people think I came from some rich parents. Wish I could distance myself from everyone and just keep my focus on school but naturally Im a sociable person. HURTFULL.

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In short be family case ke gebi kakuaretku 2 amet honege ena betam gobez temari neberku still i read alot gn mnm aynet social skill yelegem ena sera ataw gera gebtogal mnm sera lemesrat zegeju nege amna temari astena neber ena 12 tefetno alefe ahun ylem pls help me i need to work

#Adult #Agitation
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I need to vent
20yr nigga .... so i've my girl best friend ena i feel like i've something for her gn bnegrat beka ik endemataw our friendship demo mejemeria yesuan best friend I asked her to be my gf and she rejected me wendme neh mnamn bla ena keza curse buhala eskahun gf yelegnim btw good looking man , 6'1 ena personality 🤌 so ahun should I tell her keza gn esua reject btadergegn dgami alagegimim min larg wegenoche demo I've to get a gf eskezi amete dres saynoregn

#Friendship #MentalIllness #Relationship #Teen
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