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it is so difficult to put to words. I'm so tired in all aspects. I feel as tho i am alone even when surrounded with people. I laugh to hide the pain. i try to make people laugh and be not sad for the moment. but it will all end soon. I hope she finds someone who can make her happy. I gave everything but came up short. I'm just not enough. it's bad to feel unwanted and then get blamed for their action. everyone will be fine without me. it's just a Matter of time

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So i'v been in a r/ship for over 4 yrs now and we've been living together for jst over 2 yrs now.. and the thing is when i first had my apartment i asked her if she wants to move in with me, since we've been together for over a yr and was getting physical(sex) n all.. at the time i asked here to move in bcus i really felt alone n my friends was all not there for me n they where the reason i got out on my own the first place,,i told her about it clearly and she told me that she don't want to move in with me cus she still hv her friends n she thought she'd lose them if she moved in with me.. i was really heart broken n i started living my own life n continued wz the r/s... almost after 2 yrs n after i got used to the lonely house life she decided to move in with me and ever since that i feel like im drifting away from the r/s we argue a lot, our core understanding of what kind of r/s we hv n want are soooo different, i started hurting my self when i got mad at her, i stay outside the house when the mood is 😡😡😡 , i started hanging out wz ppl i dont like jst cus i dont know how to be/feel around her, i feel like i'm schizoid n like she cant understand that now I'm this way like i only want my peace, wc is jst being in my house alone and i feel different n in control when she's not there n the reverse is true when she is.. i really loved her before n now i don't what this feeling is i jst know that im really in a deep dilemma i hope y'all can pitch in sm ideas..
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Hey guys im 22 from naz ....
Wth is going on ?,,hulum sewoch tikmegna honewal ene salakew yameletegn neger ale weys ene salasbew expect eyareku new 🤔

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My friend hates my boyfriend... And he hates her and at some point I am scared I am gonna need to choose one of em and leave the other. That's the last thing I would ever wanna do. So please help me make em like each other or atleast not hate. Idek why they hate each other specially her. She has no reasons like at all. Bicha help me out cause I overthink a lot and I'm stressing over getting to lose one of them

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Dude early 20th...You know those mid nights when you feel so lonely that time starts to go real fast and you notice you haven't even been doing anything?.... I'm having those days more often it's becoming an issue and sad part it's not even because I don't have friends... now I'm just kicking it by myself listening to Eleanor rugby at 3 am

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So I(17F) feel like everyone one around has bf and gf but not me all my friends have bfs but not me why? I want a bf but Idk anyone I like or who likes me I talk to a lot of ppls online but nobody I'm intrested in has tried has ever tried to ask me out I'm not ugly or anything(at least I don't think I am) gn some ppls tell me I'm look rude sometimes so what should I do?

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Hi guys

I don't think most girls know how most guy's brain function so let me share somethings with you if you already don't know.

So first I have to make we're on the same page, what's the goal of being in a relationship or dating someone?, to my understanding, the end goal is to marry and start a family with that person. If you don't agree with this then the things that I'm about to say is irrelevant so you can skip this vent.

To my point:

A guy could date or have a relationship with a girl he doesn't even love, it's also true for girls and I'll come to that in a second.

And girls if you ask why guys do that, the possible answer for most guys is SEX, it's as simple as that for the most part.

And guys if you ask why girls be in a relationship with someone they don't actually love is mostly MONEY, and I don't really blame them because who doesn't like money, who doesn't want to get rich.

But dating and marriage someone is completely different things. So the difference between those things I mentioned above is the 1st, (guys) want to date you but not the marriage, and 2nd(girls) their ultimate goal is to marry that rich guy.

And just imagine if these two people meet, a rich guy who's in it for the sex and a girl who's only in it for the money, who do you think will suffer the most at the end of the day, the correct answer would be it's the girl that would suffer the most if she didn't marry the guy which he'll probably never do because he don't wanna lose half fortune in a divorce. But the girl is losing as she ages and loses her beauty. But a man can still get married even if he's above 40(a women too but not likely)

That's why I think "date only rich guys is flawed" I'm not telling you to date broke guys, and anyone who says that is just an idiot,

So yeah if he's rich and has been dating you for more than a year or 2 he's probably using you.

In the past we had these social constraints that a girl should have sex with a guy before marriage, I think it was to protect women from these kinda dudes but that thing is gone now and a woman are expected to have sex with their bf before even engagement, (atleast in most places not all of Ethiopia), people could call this misogyny but idk


I already know the comments will be filled with
"Who hurt you"
"You're just broke"
"You're just insecure" I don't know why but girls love the word "insecure" for no reason.

Ps: it doesn't mean all guys/girls are like this but i just wanted to give you a heads up, bye

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hi every one. .. it's not a vent actually i want to ask you're thoughts on Jordan peterson ideas for those of u who read his books and watch his videos

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Hey 21 f here I’m hoping if anyone here could help me out so I know this guy for a while he’s my friend and we were like close to each other and the he started to develop feelings for me I guessed that he kinda had fallen in love with me the first time just by the way he acts and what he tries to do and then he just can’t take it anymore he told me like “I think I’m in love with you”and I just said hey man I love you too but... he stopped me there and he said it’s okay that’s exactly what I was expecting it’s not a big deal just feelings that’ll fade away after time and out of the blue I just kissed him I didn’t knew what happened to me still I think it’s the way he talks l don’t know and then it got much worse I slept with him that night now he thinks I have a feeling for him too but I don’t it was an accident I know it’s crazy the bottom line is I still see him as a friend and my question is anybody here who’ve experienced such thing I need to know how to tell him that I don’t love him that way just tell me good way to tell without making him feel bad
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Hey everyone...is there any GP or specialist here to help me...am medical student in one of university and am on my apparentship in one of hospital ena my question is there is swelling in my anal area yejemeregn ke2 or 3 amet befit nw ena yehone seat ytewegnal yehone seat yabtal ebtetu mijemregn when i get constipated it hurts when i deficate 😥but no blood in the stool ena i diagnosed ma self that i have an external hemorrhoid i read all about it and i can prescribe by ma self but the treatment confused me.metayet yalfelecute the diagnosis method🥺 i can't be comfortable with that ena ma question is what is the exact treatment for that i mean suppository or topical medication can bismuth subgallate be the treatment or what is the indication for surgery ..i get depressed when i thought about my disease help me out please i need detailed answer...thank in advance.

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I know my thing is not as important as the others but I just needed ur advise guys... Here is the thing I am in relationship with the most amazing guy in this world he is so sweet amazing handsome and very talented like my parents love him like everyone thing that we will end up together but the problem is am not happy like I am the type of person who loves their personal space plus I just can't be with the same person for three days straight I get bored betam plus I really need to focus on my dreams first and I want to breakup with him but I don't know how I don't want to break his heart but I just can't take it anymore like am sick of pretending pls don't judge me just give me advise

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well i know he loves me i really know that, chgru gn he can spend days without calling me yaw normal new gn ene demo alchlm he can spend a whole day without talking to me and i can't, yekoye relation new yalen i don't know why gn i want love and affection from him, and beglts negrewalew gn nothing changes dewye the whole day i was bored ylegnal why won't he call me? the whole day free endehonku eyaweke.... he loves me eko gn mfelgewn attention alagegnewm. keftogn mnamn the whole day saldewl ewl ena mnew tefash ylegnal bye stebk he's not there he's busy doing wat ever that i don't know... I'm being so clingy beka yan demo alfelgm, beka bzu mokre slakategn new baydewlm mnm care bayaregm still ene mnm endaymeslegn mn larg? slakategn new ahun rasu the whole day alneberem i had a bad day ena yet nesh alalegnm i know minor issue endehone and i know we're gonna stay together i love him so does he. gn when he needs space i hve to give him how am i supposed to not care about this kinda minor issues?

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Its most likely question not vent but i did? Yap who cares ????‍♀ am a girl middle 19. to the point. I chat with this boy in Snapchat for only 1 week then we meet in person actually in the first everything is going well then maybe for 1 month he treat me like a queen he tell me that he didn't want to lose me wanna spend his life with me bla bla????‍♀(gosh how did i believed him) booom after all he become stranger ...like ene bcha negn mdewlew. Even When i call him he talk like nothing happen between us. ????bcha am really confused????this is ma q . Is he a player? Or is this just ma imagination?

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Hey there every body, am 17, and here is my problem ???? there was a guy which he was saying that he loves me & then lately after lotss of drama i folle in love with him & we are on same school, on the same class, so one day i gave him a love letter❤️ ????, well he is acting so weiord & also he just told to his firends that i gave him a love letter & i think he made them read it.well right now am angry becouse i gave him the letter cause i thought he is in love with me & he may be understund me, i thought we were on the same place but he just changed so fast. And one of my friend t askd him if he has feelings for me & he just said no.well he did alot of things to make me folle in love with me but after that he changed just like that???????????? but no matter what he did i stile love him & think abt him all the fucking time.& i also hate him on the same time,he just played a game with my feelings???????? but now his friends are acting weirod in the class i don't know why? I know they know abt the letter i gave him. & i don't know what to do to stop them????‍♀ they are making me unconfertable in the class. So wt do you guys say i should do??

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You dont get to choose who you love .

It doesnt matter if none of the guys looked at me the way u did. Or the 3 page letter you wrote me on Valentine's day even tho I hate the holiday . Or the roses u always brought me which other guys think is cliche Or how nervous u were around me u constantly made jokes. How u overly compromised to keep things right.

Maybe I will never find someone that will love me like u did . The 3 years after we parted did not changed that . I letted u go when i realized it was selfish to keep u without giving u all. I knew u were a special one even when I was with u . That's why I tried , tried so hard to love u but I couldn't. I couldnt go past valuing the person u were. Cause u loved me even back when i did not loved myself.

A once in a life time , straight out of book love . My head doesn't stop replaying the times I had with u . It broke me the way we parted at the same coffee shop we had our first date on . I still think about it when I go to piyassa. I wish I had the power over who I fall for and not . Cause u were the one . U will always be . U deserved everything but alas

But even after all that , after all those years ; why can't I forget about you ?

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Hey umm, i have a question which I would really like a PRACTICAL solution to .i already know what most of you are gonna say I have heard it before, so when u guys help please also tell me what I should actually do .okay so I'm at the point of my life where I am realizing I'm going in the wrong path in life I'm 20 in my dream campus with multiple chances of scholarships, a lot of recourses to develop my skills and would lead me to amazing internships and jobs things which I can actually use and make a living off but instead i somehow always end up finding myself high hanging out with a bunch of people who haven't been to class for month talking about how woke they are about life and how its all a scam, I find myself preserving to go out and drink onstage of doing an assignment that could increase my grade a bit, and everytime I do things like that I always find comfort in the voice in my head that tells me “ not everyone who works hard succeeds” something in my head tells me it will all be fine ,then I get high and I agree with it actually I forget about it and when it influences my grades I'm like it's normal I can settle with a lower grade and then of course come those days where I find myself blaming myself for doing things like that knowing I could do better knowing I am better knowing that everything I am doing is taking me thru the worst path but then I am at a party until 10:00LT on drugs and alchol😭while I got class in the morning which I should not miss cuz it will help with my grades but I do miss it then I end up telling myself “its just one class” what do I do?and my friends do not help they are going through the same thing any spare time we have we use it to get high or drunk wtffff and it's always why not it's like we don't have other ways for fun anymore. It always why not get drunk 😭 and don't tell me the obvious okay I've tried a lot of things I've tried signing up for courses but somehow I always end up missing every single class or I'm late or when I am available the class gets canceled I don't know what to do istg it's like the problem and the solution both are clear as day but somehow I'm so blind , help please I cannot go down the path my parents did so much to keep me from, I also know I can do so much better I just know I can be doing so much rn.tell me where to start please.

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It doesn't matter if you're too cool, too rich or too attractive, HIV/AIDS doesn't care. Your bestie might have it or even your crush or maybe your siblings. Lets not forget viruses like hepatitis and herpes which can be transmitted through saliva. Look it's less likely your crush will tell you "till death do us part" unlike this viruses, this babies are here to stay permanently. Get tested befor you decide to do anything including a kiss.
Take care y'all also make sure to take screeshot of this as a reminder.
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Hello everyone
So I have a friend who is diagnosed with end stage cancer and he is in hospital currently on palliative care.
I am a student there, I try to go and check him talk to him atleast twice a day but u know I wanna do more I dont know how to make his days a little bit brighter. To tell u the truth I met him at hospital few weeks before then I get close to him and we become friends so I basically know only little. talking about the past I felt like I am just making him sad because he feels hopeless now blc it recurred after a remission. I just want to help. And I am kind of boring person u know I am not funny and everything I just dont know how to help him psychologically.
Any advice on how I can make his days brighter.

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Hey guys im 20yr F college student in jimma. I just needed to let this off my chest. I just feel so stupid thinking about this all day. The whole thing is that I have this huge crush on this guy. The first time i saw him on campus i think he's new idk, i just froze he's so tall so handsome ena demo he just has this confidence in the way he walks when he caught my gaze i didn't know what to do, i still think about that moment. That was a month ago i see him around all the time, mostly at the library i want to go ahead and just talk to him but I'm just not that kind of girl i rly wish i was tho. A few days ago i saw him sitting at the library and decided to say smth but as soon as i got close to him men endehone alakem beka tset alku he just smelled sooooo good it caught me off guard keza beka techew i just end up sitting next to him awkwardly staring at him from the side.Demo akalew that other girls like him too my friends like him too ene demo i hate that. I feel jealous and possessive of someone I don't even know ????‍♀ gin alchalkum beka.I have a biochemistry test this week and all i think about is him. Lately demo i see him and idk if its cuz i pay attention to him so much but he looks a little sad and lonely idk becha i feel like i can be there for him. I just need someone to talk me down. I'm not the type of girl to go crazy for nobody gin yehe lij salasebew beka he's in my head it's not even about looks beka in my mind i make up scenarios about how he is and when you stare at someone leza gize beka u feel like u know them already. I can't talk to none of my friends because they'll make fun of me or worse.

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I need to make some thing clear. I do try not to juge ppl by the physical appearance but when I try to date or be open minded but my mind will still compare. Look ik it's bad I just need help on how do I stay open minded no matter what

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Well I am abut to tell u abut my crazy ex. So I am 18 years old and he is 23. So at first I wasnt sure if I wanted an older guy but the way he was treating me was like I was a princess. And so once he wanted to meet up it was a normal shit we had fun but then once we started to have a real conversation he wanted a serious relationship which scared me a lot. So I told him that maybe we should take it easy which got him rly mad and I was scared so what you need to know abut me is that when I am scared or nervous I start to distract my self so that's what I did I picked up my phone and started to just look at it and stuff and he got rly rly mad and he took my phone and threw it away and Lord knows I felt like he was abut to hit me cuz that's what it looked like and then I was scared and wanted to leave and he wouldnt let me anyway after that we still texted and talked but anytime he wanted to meet up I would make up an excuse to not see him. So like he started to become obsessive and weird and he created multiple telegram account to talk to me and uk the usual toxic relationship. So slowly I broke up wiz him and he was like let's be friends and I didn't see why that would be a bad thing so we became "friends" but he was still strange, obsessive and all that toxic so I blocked him. Now he is out to get "revenge" he still texts me wiz multiple telegram account to the point I started to block ppl I don't know he would tell me that he will send all pics to the public and all that and now idk I needed to vent. Ik I am young but I hv dated before but they were never like this. So I need ur help what shall I do?

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