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Hi there ! So am 25 F n i wanna tell ma lyf u guys ...so i hv this strict family (kemtasebut belay) so ma life ke cls bete kza church bka even neighborhood wef bka aychalem so bzu geze selke lay newe swe magegnew even bf ???????? cuz i hv no chance to go out ..mnm bka freedom mibale negr yelm katfahu still emtalhu ???? latamenugn techelalchu ke akem belay mibale huneta bayhonebegn ke ebet mewtat newe yemfelegew ..alemn alkatem esuwam atkegnm tinsh sferochen newe makew , yemiredugn betseboch yelugnm ene melew familyoch gen lij seten belachu yemtetykut fetarin abuse lemaderge newe ..listn i hv no confidence at all ,ke ekuyoche betach negn mederse yalbegn bota lalmderse betseboch tetayki nachew , even ke ene be edme betach yalu swoch enen menged lay meshet yechelalu lifen yakutal ene alkewm ...ende wetat weto mezenanat wef bka ...atkeast sera lemfelg lemwetat mekra newe weye becha am in prison ...ezi familyoch kalchuh pls bka lijochachehun atleast terduwachew , communicate adergu betam atkotatruwachew metafat keflegu eko simple newe lemtfat lembelashet gene lifen ene endzi aydelem yemayew lifen mekyer efelgalew gene endet endhone alakem tiru lij mehon alshelmegnm akalew gene lene lerase yalhut erase selhonkugn rasen sayt tasazengnalch wrong time lay yetfetrkugn andem yemiredagn swe almenoru , bechenket rasen metelat , behasb merbsh becha newe bka pls help guys

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Am 4th year campus student.I don't know how to ask but me and this guy started dating 3 months a go we had a connection we kissed bicha we both knew that we are different types so we decided to be just friends but after that we just continue talking like we used to he flirt with me and call me with romantic words I was the only one who stopped doing this things moreover we talk like every day,we compliment each other and we care about each other.we both know that we can't be together but is it normal? To act this way as a friend? we are going to graduate this year from campus so I need to get my self together any advice?

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Hey beautiful ppl
Let's get straight to ma question I've eplipsy n I used to take phenetoyn for more than 3&half yrs then I stopped n after 2 years it(z seizure) came back so I start taking phenobarbital for more than a year n now am sick of living like a f'n patient taking med every f'n day so I just stopped taking it almost 6 month altalegnm so I think it's gone(no one knows that I quit z med) but lately I've this fear of having seizure on public like school mnamn n I'm rly worried bout it like betam ik u don't have to quit z med mnamn I get it but u've no idea how it felt like medanit beyekenu eyekamu menor ena wht shld I do is it a life time disease? Idk what to do even to feel just to hear ur idea
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Growing up in a very toxic family with extremely toxic parents....all it has given me is insecurities.
Insecurities over insecurities over insecurities.
All the negative things people ever said to me is stuck in me and made up some parts of me.
I don't know how to love my self, infact,I can't love myself and I get so confused when others say they love me.
Now I see it ,it is affecting me Alot, Everytime I feel like I'm loved ,I find my self searching for some confirmations and I Hate it. Even when my boyfriend says he loves me I go like what does he even love about me?what is there to love in me? Guys I really need help
How can I love my self.
How can I really feel deserving of love when I'm not hiding the parts of me that I think are flawedπŸ˜”
All I feel is self hate and insecurities.
And I don't think anyone would love me when I can't even love myself

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I wanna talk about Jesus and not that oh ur gonna go to hell repent stuff cuz even I'm tired of that.... But just simple r u happy r u fulfilled in life are the things uve always wanted enough do u feel complete... r u in chaos do u sleep at night peacefully and what drove u away from God was it people, was it the preachers and pastors. Was it shame or Desire. God will forever be happy to welcome u. People who smile and tell u ull go to hell kill ur self ur an abomination who do u think they r working for their will always be a bridge their will always be some one that will make it hard for u to be close to God weather it be the misogynist that walks around telling u to submit to him tell him I only submit to God he is not a Godly man he is the wolf in sheeps clothing or the people that shame u for ur past if Jesus was cool enough to feast with a ex prostitute the why do u care what judgemental ppl say. No true God fearing person wishes death on God's children and rejoices by telling ppl they will go to hell. And its ur decision but when u feel lost afraid scared ashamed disgusted with ur self know God's always here he never left he is with u if u need guidance never be scared to communicate dnt be ashamed to say God I'm Lost I've messed up Help. It's OK he is always here dnt worry ull always have a father

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Hi all so if its helpful im 25 years old dude .
And I had only one relationship which was before couple of years after that I never had a relationship I mean me and my ex we had a good relationship as I belive I mean we go out have fun and all well and yes we had some intercoce as well it was my first and well not hers tho honestly it wasn't as I expected it to be tho like u know I never had to see her during sex I mean we always had sex during the night and on saturday only she's very strict I remember once I don't know what got into me ans kissed all over her body and she literally snapped I apologised and never done it I wouldn't say I don't miss her I mean she's so strict tho ans I like it to some extent anyhow I just wanted to vent about how to even find a girlfriend all my friends have a girlfriend and all well I'm not as fast and talkative as they are with girls I mean in work I talk but not on other thing even my sisters friends try to make me shy there is this one friend of her who called me during the night and said just wanted to talk I literally told her don't ever call me I mean I sometimes wish I could have a girl who i can be free with....I go to a room all by my self and sleep naked when I'm so horney I don't masterbate by the way I just take a cold shower no sex for more than 2 years tho...yesterday tho couldn't handle it I was on my way home from work and self lay this girl is wearing a mini skirt its from Mexico to jemo and I swear she's beautiful and short I would be lying if I said I didn't have a bonner I did have a bomner she has noticed and went on the taxi we sat next to each other struggling to just be myself...when she got off I swear she touched my dixk and got off I kinda shaked ....I don't want to be this kind of dude everyone thinks I'm brave ans confident but nah its only in work with girls they scare me the more beautiful they are the more I fear them. Wow 8ts amazing to say whats in my mind freely tho ufffff ...I sometimes wish I have a girlfriend whose like me. Dayumm by just writing all the above I feel 20 pound less.

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Okay so am 18 and a girl I am in my first relationship we've known each other for 1 year or so but we just got in to a relationship recently but its so powerful ,beautiful, its not easy like in a beautiful way he has a great heart so I just knew that he wanted to have sex ( he never had sex) and my plan used to be to wait til marriage but i said yes but not now cz I wasn't ready uk but he told me he would wait for me but am so scared cz everyone in our society says we girls shouldn't we should wait and ik he is the one but still am scared af wut should I do wtf is this please help me

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Me and my ldr boyfriend have been together from 19th of November till 19th December. He told me that his mom forced to break up with me and blocks me after that. He also blocked my friends who he was close with.. Reading my messages we had during we're dating is just it hurts me so much every night i cry and just missing him so badly.. If only i can spend time w him at least just 1 more day.. Then i can move on peacefully.

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hey y'all. this community seems to lean towards sex and date related stuff, so I think you can help me with this. I'm a 22 yo guy and never had dated so I need some tips. Yeah I've watched the stuff on youtube, but I need actual details like, how does the things we see on youtube translate into real life. where do I even take the girls out ( I started going out of my home very recently). And how can I afford all of this? I have female friends at school and based on what they've told me, I find dating kind of expensive and a tip around that would help. And where do I even find girls?( people around me use the internet and that doesn't seem to work for me) I have no idea about all these things. Some boomers might comment to just wait.... but c'mon I need some of the experience at least. I'm basically an adult now, and I believe it's time to move into the real life stuff beyond screens. Thanks.

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So idk who to ask this so I'm asking for an advice here. Someone i used to date(if it's even called dating cause we never met, it was online dating) came back saying she misses me after she broke up with me months ago. Ene I've moved on and was over it, so i was like okay cool we can be friends. Ena now she's saying she is in love with me, being all romantic and all but says she's unable to commit to me or be with me. Ena i feel like i am being played here cause another ex kezi befit just like her when she heard i was dating gave me all her attention, saying she loves me mnamn but as soon as she knew i got single she made up an excuse why we can't be together and tefach, it's like people just like to chase me but don't really want me. So ik if i gave any romantic attention back to this girl she will make up an excuse and leave too, it's like she don't want me but don't really want to see me with someone else either, she just want the attention i give her. I am fine with giving her attention ko, lezam nw we can be friends yalkuat, but she's now crossing boundaries and trying way too hard to make me fall for her, and that's making me angry btm. Ena what do you guys think? Should i tell her we should stop talking and block her cause i feel like I'm a back up plan here weys did i read the situation wrongly? Maybe she is being genuine if so should i be more understanding, be the friend she needs and help her to move on?

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How can i make any conversation with a boy less awkward & be able to make guy friends. I can't find guy friends from school because I'm unapproachable & when I'm trying to be friendly all i can do is bullying which makes me look mean. Also when i try to get friends online they're either flirty or they wanna talk 24/7. And when i try to be politely dismissive they think I'm playing hard to get.
That's all thank u for reading πŸ˜‚

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I have had it. More than 5 years in a relationship and the dude still want to play the boyfriend girlfriend card. As much as I would like to understand him I am also a woman and the biological time is ticking for me. Even if we are the same age he thinks we're still the same kids that were in college 4 years ago. This is ridiculous. I've tried being the bigger person and wait it out till he makes the decision but he seems to be getting comfortable by the day. I tried I really did but nothing so far. His family don't know I exist and he wants to keep it that way and I am in no hell planning to spend more time like this. I either need to work on myself or this damn relationship. Is it bad that I either want to move forward or just call it quits? I feel like I'm being an asshole even if I talked to another guy that has a sort of interest in me. Yet my man is living his best life and expects me to wait another 5 years to settle down

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Shit today I missed you a lot today almost called you and ruined my streak of getting over you(which by the way is not working at all I think about you every day)but you don’t want me we left every thing in good terms.my question is do you even think of me. What am I even saying of course you don’t think of me….. i miss saying this to you so here goes ….up and down ….left and ..πŸ˜”

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Hello all 24 years old dude
Is its wrong to say im a sadist? I mean what if I am and yes I am
if I say I am sadist and someone agrees and enters the room what's wrong to whip someone then. I didn't do it forcefully we agreed I mean I know its a bit hard for most Ethiopian ppl but not for some well thanks to the creator of this platform for our free speech yes sadist exist here in addis ababa we do exist.and i like to whip a girl ....ufff here i let it out ....melt a candle, choke , and all....
But why do people act like all angle and all when someone raises the idea of being tied up and all its not as if no one saw a bdsm porn and said ewww I mean its most peoples fantasy obviously but ppl.hide it under them well I won't anyhow when I get to my story I met a girl and we've been talking for months and we decided to get a room and she said be wild and all well I agreed and I tied her up covered her mouth and melt a candle on her back and .....anyhow she said im not a good person and all how on earth im not I know who I am I swear I rather be me rather than being and acting innocent ans cheating on other yes I'm a sadist and I like it rough....hate me or love me I am my self.
Keep it up for the developers.

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Any medical interns here? Eski tell me how you're coping up with internship cuz I'm not. I'm constantly tired and depressed... any GPs or people who went through it are welcome too

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Hi guys am 22
Let me get straight to the point .my ex gf sister died i think 2 month ago and i heard 2 days ago and i don't know what to do either to call or don't call her and let me make it clear guys when we break up it was so bad that i can't even call her and now i can't just get her out of my mind all i feel is so sad for her and how much it can hurt her but still i couldn't call her because since the breakup its been almost 2 year and after the breakup we didn't talk and now i feel like she must forgot me now its not a big deal to call her and ask her how she is doing because i left her and now there is massive shame to talk to her. do you think i should call her or do nothing?....and i did write this for only you guys for your opinion also to tell her that" I AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS " thank you for reading.

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Hi guys
So this is for the feminists out there, I've got one or two questions that I'll like y'all to answer.

This is based on this habesha tiktoker feminist that I've seen recently , so her point was, the man should cook, clean, wash and all that stuff you know what I'm talking about, and I asked her if some family has like 4 or 5 kids then who should stay home and takecare of them, she said whoever makes less money, and I said man(fathers) ain't really better choice then a women(mother), most of them doesn't have the communication skills like the mom do.
Guess what's her reply was, she called me a sexist, but am I a sexist for telling her that.

For the questions that I mentioned before

1, let's say your friends came to your house, would you be happy if your husband, α‰αŒ­ α‰₯ሎ ከነ αˆ›αŠ•αŠ¨ αˆ½αŠ¨αˆ»α‹ α‹­α‹ž α‰‘αŠ“ α‰’α‹«αˆαˆ‹, αŠ₯αŒ£αŠ• αŠ α‹«αˆ¨αŒˆ αˆαŠ“αˆαŠ• while you sit with your friends. I basically reversed the current situation in most households in Ethiopia. Or when your parents come to α‰ͺαˆ΅α‰΅, do you want them to see him, αŠ αŠ•αŒ€αˆ« αŠ₯α‹¨αŒ‹αŒˆαˆ¨ αˆαŠ“αˆαŠ•. It's a simple yes or no question

2. Is being home raising your kids such a bad idea?, I've seen so many comments saying that if you're his housewife then you're his mom,do you want to leave your 1 or 2 year old to some maid while you work for like 8 hours and be back when your kids sleep. Like I know some of you want to work instead of being home but most of them talk about it like it's the worst thing that could happen to them.

These are simple yes or no questions, you could also explain why you answered like that if you want to:)

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Hey so I just wanna say this, it's your decision to make baby girl do what you want but with pure intentions and a good heart, and for those calling you a hoe and all lol don't mind them, they jealous and trying to channel that shot into you, you'll be good make this decision for yourself baby girl. Have fun!!!

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My girlfriend is obsessed with sex. We're both college students I'm 20,She's only 18...She wants it every time she sees me,you may say 'you're lucky' but trust me too much of anything isn't fun, we'd have sex 3 or 4 times a day if we meet but we don't live together she never get enough of it so she wants it over phone too she calls in midnights when I'm in class or when I'm really tierd, if I try to say no she feels rejected or I don't love her.
Im also worried her constant need of sex has something to do with her past. She was raped as a freshman by a male a few years older than me, other time her cousin touched her inappropriately. I want to spend time with her, do other things too not have sex all day long.

Has anyone else been in this situation before?

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