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My social life sucks. I literally don't know how to talk to people and people think something is wrong with me. I greet them today then I don't greet them the next day. I don't know why. I don't know what the problem is. The people in my circle are only those I know since I was in the 4th and 8th grade and we're not even that close. I usually spend my time alone. It has been 3 years since I dated and now I don't even know how to talk, let alone reply to a simple text from a guy.
Not being seen by anyone makes me comfortable. But sometimes it bothers me the fact that I feel like I'm gonna lose my mind when I'm in a place where there are a lot of people bothers me more. There are times I just want to spend my time with someone but there's no fucking one there. I'm that girl who doesn't know how to talk, laugh, smile or say hi. What's wrong with me ?

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i am a girl 20. I want a man to marry me and get me out of this country its not because I love money, I just want to help my family i am student at University so i cant do nothing for my family Please guys help me Tell me if you know of any job that will help me make enough money My family has been married for 25 years i don want to sit and watch my family get divorced. i do not want them to be separated for financial reasons Please tell any work that will help me i can do whatever it is just tell me
Thank you โœŒ๏ธ

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So if a guy touches or fingers a girl with his pre cum on his finger would it actually get her pregnant?

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Hello, I had a dream recently and I felt something and some one inside that dream. A year ago I used to live with a dear member of my family who passed away, I dream of him alot, but this dream made me miss him more. In this dream I saw my family move to another country and I was helping them move one by one, and it was only me who was left here, and I felt alone, i am currently living alone away from family, and I do feel alone but not as much bcz am a guy and I think that i have to overcome this feeling since it's at the age were am not supposed to feel that way. but they're here not out of country, and suddenly I wasn't alone anymore when I was about to wake up, I saw that dear member of my family was with me and at the same time I was alone, we were going home with him and it was raining and I was hearing the song hello by Adele on the dream๐Ÿ˜„, this made me miss him more. Can any of you dreamers explain this to me?

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Is it love?

I have been in love twice in my whole life. The first one was out of regret and the usual what ifs that shackle us down. I have done some horrible things to the guy who was in love with me and paid the price. It was as if that I had wanted to be punished so badly. I kept holding onto the memories of him even long after he was gone.

I almost let him go when I fell for someone else the second time. But it was too forced. He acted like he loved me and literally worked so hard to earn my feelings. I felt like it was time to grow out of my past so I felt the obligation to love him. And I did. It took time but in the end, I got there. I think it was on the second month of our relationship. And that's when he decided he has seen enough of my scarred self and he told me that he faked it. He described it like he tried faking it till he could make it and in the end he was unable to make it. He told me that he did it for my sake where in fact, he was the one who fought for it. But, I've finally accepted that my own mind deceived me twice and I got played by my ex.

Now I'm abroad in a university. And I was doing so well in getting both guys out of my system. Heck, I was so close. And that's when guy #3 came along. He's from another country and he's in my class. We were taking classes online for sometime and we started chatting by asking each other about school and stuff. And then we finally met in person after some time. I didn't know his face but he did because I had introduced myself at the church. So I had associated this picture with his name. But when he came up and said hi to me saying his name, boy was I taken aback.

I don't even know what it means because I've never felt something instant for anyone. It's not that he was super gorgeous or anything. I mean he's good looking and way different than the picture I had in mind. But when he tapped my arm and I turned to look at him, I felt something in my chest.

The rest is history, my people. We have been meeting everyday since that day. We've become close friends and he accompanies me whenever I don't want to go alone somewhere. And the way he looks at me! Man, I'm crying. It says everything I have wanted to hear. It feels so real. It feels like somewhere I am supposed to be. I don't want to over romanticize it but it's like in the books. You know the goosebumps when your arms brush thing. We tease each other, do everything friends do and I call him bro mental slap, which he doesn't like btw.

Everything is perfect but I just don't want to be in love right now. I was crying this morning because I suddenly realized how much I don't want to be in love. I really want to do well in school and that's all I want to work on at this moment. Besides since my own mind keeps deceiving me, I can't trust myself. Like what if this is me trying to fill that distant void in my heart? Like it is so scary.

And the worst part is, to fight off these ridiculous feelings I'm developing, I've started to think about my ex again. He's the last thought before I drift off to sleep and the first when I open my eyes in the morning. I'm losing focus in my classes and I've even started missing a lot of classes. I have worked so hard to reach here but I'm about to send all the hard work down the drain so quickly. So please, help. What do you think I can do about this messed up situation??

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Hey everyone where can I meet people who know a lot of things idk it could be through life experience or through reading bcha who I can have a great convo with ?
I want to build myself am trying to read and listen to videos mnamn and it would be cool to to have people to talk abt the law of attraction, positivity๐Ÿฅฐ, business , books , psychology, education, mature love , family , fitness , technology ( am almost zero on this ๐Ÿ˜‚) , health , religion , philosophy bcha bcha everything
Where can I meet them with out any romantic involvement ( any group or person ) am not perfect either but u know I want to develop

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Ayeee y'all
So I know this guy for like 3 month and we spend lots of time since then. But after some time my feeling for him start changing mnamn and I thought he feels the same was abt me. Ena before a week mnamn he kissed me which I was expecting him to do ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ and I really thought things will be different after that but he don't talk about what he wants or what he feels like am so confused right now. Bka ymetal we will talk abt different thing he will kiss me and hug me keza wede dorm u yhedal and I just felt like his taking an advantage ene lay enji he don't like me
Do u think he likes me๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฉ?

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I don't like dating short girls. ๐Ÿ™‚
Btw I'm a tall guy (1.88m). But I have noticed how some of my friends get rejected because they are short. I do not want to risk the odds of having a son, who comes out to be shorter because of the mothers gene. I do not want him to grow up constantly being laughed at in the dating market if he was to be short.
Am I the only one who thinks this way? ๐Ÿค”

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This question is for the gays, more specifically bi folks. So if you're not gay/bi, this ain't for you. So I'm bi and I like to act mascular when I'm with a girl and feminine when I'm with a guy. Is this internalized homophobia? Because of the whole heteronormative "opposites attract" thing?

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Hey there, it's about the current situation in ethiopia that I want to chat...as we all know we're not in a good place as a country and it's all because of the war going on. And I've never been in to politics and I don't even understand any of it. and thing is I am tigraway and it feels like a big burden to be born tigraway...and every body is making it heavy to live as we are! What I want to ask is do y'all think this way just because ur friend is tigraway ur befriending him? or ur interest is that person banishes soon as you know his ethnicity?what kills me most is that whenever I ask these questions they say you've been robbing our country for 27 years...dude I don't even have a cuz that years old. And do we all should be criticised by this?and isn't this disrupting and polluting the new generation???Please I need to know if I'm wrong.

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Hey๐Ÿ™‚ ive been through a lot my dad is alcoholic my mom n him argue a lot he doesn't like me as well he thinks that i am the reason for the problem between him n my mom because of this i have trust issues n at some point i think that all boys are the same my relationship don't last for over a month beka i hate everyone i feel exhausted i even tried a lot of things to kill ma self but i regretted after i did it i have to live for my mom i am my own enemy i am so selfish and the bad person in everyone's life i have a lot to say but i better stop here and yeah life goes on ๐Ÿ™‚

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Its kinda a dumb subject gin here goes,22M ... So i know people who've used minoxidil to grow beards ena i know for a fact that it works ena i kinda wanna do that too, i already bought it gin I'm worried if its too much trouble once i get the beard ale aydel trimming it minamin and some people already beard yalatchew sewotch say its not worth the trouble yilalu ena yimokal yilalu ... so eski u guys give me a comments. men, is it worth it ? ena degmo women, do u prefer guys with beards or do u prefer guys with no beard?

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There is this guy who I love more than 3years. I know we can't be together again, but no matter how hard I try, leresaw alechalkum.There are a lot of guys around me who want to start a relationship with me and they have a good personality gin endesu lewedachew alechalkum and esun lebe lay yeze r/s mejemr it's not fair..ena I feel like bezi hunetaye kome yemeker.i don't know what to do.

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I love her. I love her even though she's the reason i cry most of the time. I love her even though she gave me 99% of my mental health issues. I love her even though i couldn't tell her how much she's hurting me. I love her even though she wouldn't understand me.
But i hate her
I hate her because may be she would understand me. I hate her because ik she's in pain too. I hate her because i can't blame it on her. I hate her because she doesn't know how much i love her.
โ€ขI don't hate her, i hate how much i love her.
I hate how much i try to understand her. I hate how much she makes me happy by giving the bare minimum. I hate how hard i try to put a smile on her face. I hate how she makes me forget every bad thing about her just because i see her smile. I hate how much i hate it without her.

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I'll pour my heart out and it will be okay......My writing may be all over the place
I'm grateful for everything I've ever had แŒแŠ• having Ethiopian parents who didn't listen to anything I had to say is why I'm in the shitery I am in now...
แˆแˆ›แˆญ แ‰ฅแ‰ป แАแ‹ แ‹ซแˆแŠณแ‰ต we had to move back it was my senior year shit happened and the fucking embassy was closed I emailed and called them it's an emergency I have to move back I'm missing out on school and they said school is not an emergency. I was stuck home for 5 months and แŠฅแŠ“แ‰ดแŠ• แ‹จแˆ›แ‰ตแŠจแŠแˆแŠ แŠจแˆ†แА แˆ˜แ‹ตแˆƒแŠ’แŠ แˆˆแˆ แˆแˆ›แˆญ แ‰ฅแ‹ซแ‰ณแˆˆแ‹.. And I meant it keza shes like genzeben anchi lay chefchife endet แ‹จ แˆ˜แŠ•แŒแˆตแ‰ต แ‰ต/แ‰คแ‰ต แˆแˆ›แˆญ แ‰ฒแŠ›แˆˆแˆฝ..I just wanted to learn that's all I wanted I have never asked her for anything.... I'm in my early 20s I should be in college I don't even have my high school diploma yet and it makes my heart ache to say that cuz Ik my potential... แˆฒแŒ แˆแ‰ฅแŠ แŠ แŠ•แ‹ต แˆ‹แ‹ญ แАแ‹ I managed to save 6k in 3 months Idk how but I have 2k rn I never even did anything for myself... I'm trying beyond trying แŠฅแŠ“ it gets draining at some point... I wanted to go to Yale become a successful woman that's all I ever wanted แŒแŠ• แŠ แˆแˆ†แАแˆ....
แŠฅแŠ“ I need to take a breather cuz I'm on the verge of having a serious meltdown..... My sister asks me questions if I loved a man, แˆตแˆˆ แ‰ฃแˆแˆฝ แ‰ณแˆตแ‰ขแ‹ซแˆˆแˆฝ and etc..., my father is diabetic, I have rent, car, insurance, work...
And I want to drift away....

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Hey guys I an a college student.....And I wanted to ask you guys...why am I so horny all the time...i cant even control it...any time any where i see some one attractive I get horny....is it just me? Do i need to get checked?...is it the same for both sex?

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Hey guys let me tell you something i am keep it 100% with you i dont want love the concept of love is nottin to me now i am a 22 year old college student that just got out of a 2 year comitted relationship 2 months ago i dont want anything i just want have to experience being single again i dont want nottin serious something casual and chill that netflix and chill stuff but the problem is most girls this days dont like this concept malet you either have to lie or have to be extremely prince charming looking to get this kind of Friends with benifits kinda stuff so guys what the fuck should i do i am too mature to spoil freshman girls and i am too tired to start a new relationship cause am not emotionally ready esti help me someone thats been through this before

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I have a girl friend we have been together more than 6 months. We are in Uni. She is okay and everything but she distances herslef when i get close to her. She doesn't want to hold hands privately. She treats me like a stranger and it feels so bad. She told me she is shy and everything.

When we started being together... i told her she has to try for the relationship to work.

But lately i am planning to cut my loses and breakup.

3 weeks ago she didn't pick up when i called but few minutes later she picked up when i called using my friends phone.

I tot may be she was with family, uncomfortable...i gave her the benefit of the doubt.

Well the same shit happened with texts. She is chatting with my bros......may be i tot she was playing hard to get and all!


Well! I started doing a soul searching and went off the grid for while. Now we have drifted.
And i am thinking of ending the relationship so that I can focus on myself, internship and all.
I do love her but I believe loving someone is letting them go when the need arises.

One thing I learned is that I will avoid dating someone with an avoidant attahment style in the future.

Don't get me wrong she is gorgeous, smart with beautiful hair. But she wasn't in the moment with me.

I will improve my choice next time.

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This is not a vent but i still want to talk about it. Men back in the days prefer chubby แ€แ‹ญแˆ girls with a kinky afro. Why do guys now adays prefer lightskin girls with european features ? Girls like Sayat Demisse ...

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Hey am 27 male from addis
I used to have a girlfriend for 2 years we used to live together we used to had sex like daily not oce not twice more than 3 rounds we used to be crazy we have tried so many things together but due to some other issues we couldn't be together plus i almost dried out malete aleku due to a lot of sex i lost like 20 kg after all this my life was hell i started fro scratch nd now am working i hv been with dfrnt woman but after i had sex with them things will start to change for me they need more of it but i lose my apitite nd we couldn't continue the rln i don't kw y this is happening to me becha now days i tried relationship with no sex ( no dick involved sex) but do other crazy shits ( bj, lk ......) But its not working i couldn't find a woman who can understand me

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