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i was wondering why do u girls hate my vent that much i mean tell me am i wrong about something , is telling the truth that bad😂?
All i said was was men are attracted to women's appearance (looks , ass , boobs) above other things, the reason is from evolution perspective when women have looks (face beauty) it signals to us that your eggs didn't die yet.
Next, why do men like ass? the answer is that the women is likely to survive child birth if she have wider hips ,there is an article I read while back stated that researchers found out women who have narrow (thin) hips are the ones who are likely to die during child birth than the wider hip chicks.
Now for the boooooobs or breasts the reason we like those is that the bigger the breast the bigger the production of milk ... In other word it will insure that the baby will get enough milk so he can be strong & healthy
This is how we are wired in instinctual level.
your behavior , submission all that stuff comes next.
Your money , States do not have value in our eyes.
And also there was comment saying "u should not put value on another person".... when I say" not having value" I didn't mean u are inferior or lower than others.
Value= what other people want from u.that's it
And also I am not kidding about Ethiopian girls most of them don't take care of there fitness all they do is applying layer and layer of make up , but there are some girl's who won't get fat no matter what but they the minority, would it kill u ladies to do cardio 1 or 2 days a week.
Benefit of cardio
-makes u look yonger
-Makes u sexual active
-Helps u lose fat
Gentleman if your bitch can't provide that u are better of alone👍
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How are u doing my fellow venters
i was wondering why do u girls hate my vent that much i mean tell me am i wrong about something , is telling the truth that bad😂?
All i said was was men are attracted to women's appearance (looks , ass , boobs) above other things, the reason is from evolution perspective when women have looks (face beauty) it signals to us that your eggs didn't die yet.
Next, why do men like ass? the answer is that the women is likely to survive child birth if she have wider hips ,there is an article I read while back stated that researchers found out women who have narrow (thin) hips are the ones who are likely to die during child birth than the wider hip chicks.
Now for the boooooobs or breasts the reason we like those is that the bigger the breast the bigger the production of milk ... In other word it will insure that the baby will get enough milk so he can be strong & healthy
This is how we are wired in instinctual level.
your behavior , submission all that stuff comes next.
Your money , States do not have value in our eyes.
And also there was comment saying "u should not put value on another person".... when I say" not having value" I didn't mean u are inferior or lower than others.
Value= what other people want from u.that's it
And also I am not kidding about Ethiopian girls most of them don't take care of there fitness all they do is applying layer and layer of make up , but there are some girl's who won't get fat no matter what but they the minority, would it kill u ladies to do cardio 1 or 2 days a week.
Benefit of cardio
-makes u look yonger
-Makes u sexual active
-Helps u lose fat
Gentleman if your bitch can't provide that u are better of alone👍
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Hi am 21 F , and am campus student. I have been in r/n since i was fresh but now he graduated and am still here .the good thing is its only for a year but still i never had a best friend like him. I have girlfriends but with him it was perfect we could spend all day without getting bored , no one would know me as he did. Anyways what i want to say is i hv been with him this way for 3 years and now its being difficult to live in campus I don't want to do anything or hangout with my friends i just spend my whole day in my dorm if i don't have class and this happens for 3 months .what should I do to get out of this depression? Tnx for listening
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Hi am 21 F , and am campus student. I have been in r/n since i was fresh but now he graduated and am still here .the good thing is its only for a year but still i never had a best friend like him. I have girlfriends but with him it was perfect we could spend all day without getting bored , no one would know me as he did. Anyways what i want to say is i hv been with him this way for 3 years and now its being difficult to live in campus I don't want to do anything or hangout with my friends i just spend my whole day in my dorm if i don't have class and this happens for 3 months .what should I do to get out of this depression? Tnx for listening
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Hi am a girl and am so confused i mean i never had sex before but today i tried i mean idk how to explain but i was in pain i mean he was trying but i stopped him and he said"kelay kelay nw" what does that even mean???.....i don't bleed but there's pain but i can walk normaly he kinda stoped it bc i was screaming and crying and we stoped and go b/c of family issue and now am so confused what to do should i take medicine for pregnancy b/c we don't use any protection .....am i virgin still?he was so forced to stop u know what should i do please God help me????????
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Hi am a girl and am so confused i mean i never had sex before but today i tried i mean idk how to explain but i was in pain i mean he was trying but i stopped him and he said"kelay kelay nw" what does that even mean???.....i don't bleed but there's pain but i can walk normaly he kinda stoped it bc i was screaming and crying and we stoped and go b/c of family issue and now am so confused what to do should i take medicine for pregnancy b/c we don't use any protection .....am i virgin still?he was so forced to stop u know what should i do please God help me????????
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Hey there, am a guy, mid twenties, I'll go straight to my question. What would you guys do when you feel stuck, feeling like there is nothing you can do, you try hard and hard but don't succeed, you hope things to be better but they don't, you wish for some thing sometimes you get it but you screw it up or take it for granted until you lost it and realize how blessed you were...that's the feeling I been feeling lately, am not sure what to do, I have things I wish to do, they don't seem to work out... I don't know if am even taking things for granted right now but one thing I do know is am not happy with my life and I want to be happy.
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Hey there, am a guy, mid twenties, I'll go straight to my question. What would you guys do when you feel stuck, feeling like there is nothing you can do, you try hard and hard but don't succeed, you hope things to be better but they don't, you wish for some thing sometimes you get it but you screw it up or take it for granted until you lost it and realize how blessed you were...that's the feeling I been feeling lately, am not sure what to do, I have things I wish to do, they don't seem to work out... I don't know if am even taking things for granted right now but one thing I do know is am not happy with my life and I want to be happy.
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Betam mewedew bf nbrgn betam nbr mnewadedew almost 3 abern koytnal he is my first be hulum nger Ahun keteleyayen 7 were honen still alersawtm newlife mjmer akatgn eyandandu nger lay esun new masbew yetetalanew dmo cheat argobgn new ena semonun dmo medewawel jmern enem ayaschlgnm edewelalew what can I do metew new yalbgn weys ....
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Hey everyone, I'm 20 and campus student, i want ur help everyone beteley setoch, I'm insecure by ma height (I'm 1:61) all girls that i talk always said that they like tall man mnamn then after that i lost ma chat appetite even be akal des yalechignn set lemawrat mefrat jemerku i don't know why bcha I'm afraid, i know i can't change that but i want a true love for ma life (but all ma families said that if u have a money they will come mnamn) i have good things wiz out ma height fYI those girls love my voice mnamn and also ma behavior too.... Bcha eski give me your comments, if it's you, you will date me or not? Why?
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Hey everyone, I'm 20 and campus student, i want ur help everyone beteley setoch, I'm insecure by ma height (I'm 1:61) all girls that i talk always said that they like tall man mnamn then after that i lost ma chat appetite even be akal des yalechignn set lemawrat mefrat jemerku i don't know why bcha I'm afraid, i know i can't change that but i want a true love for ma life (but all ma families said that if u have a money they will come mnamn) i have good things wiz out ma height fYI those girls love my voice mnamn and also ma behavior too.... Bcha eski give me your comments, if it's you, you will date me or not? Why?
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I want to ask, when is the right age for a guy to start a serious relationship? Its like every guy I meet they just want to have fun, fwb or be in an open relationship???? so I'm confused....should I just start dating a guy who is like 10 years older than me malet jemriyalew this days because I couldn't find someone who wants to even try
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I want to ask, when is the right age for a guy to start a serious relationship? Its like every guy I meet they just want to have fun, fwb or be in an open relationship???? so I'm confused....should I just start dating a guy who is like 10 years older than me malet jemriyalew this days because I couldn't find someone who wants to even try
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This whole vent is about simping so no need to remind me in the comments
So i really like this girl we had a rough past but we friends now and don't tell me man up and make a move cause she specifically told me not to do that cause I would ruin what we have I kinda did but we good now and I have a question how does a women make me feel this good about myself a conversation would make day even a week there no negative self talk cause I tried it by myself I just keep running away from my problems but when I talk to her boom all gone just a serotonin rush so what do I do I keep talking to her she will get bored if I don't my problems start to catch up if I make a move I will lose everything I have
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This whole vent is about simping so no need to remind me in the comments
So i really like this girl we had a rough past but we friends now and don't tell me man up and make a move cause she specifically told me not to do that cause I would ruin what we have I kinda did but we good now and I have a question how does a women make me feel this good about myself a conversation would make day even a week there no negative self talk cause I tried it by myself I just keep running away from my problems but when I talk to her boom all gone just a serotonin rush so what do I do I keep talking to her she will get bored if I don't my problems start to catch up if I make a move I will lose everything I have
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Idk why you all are pressed it's maybe because you all can't be one
Fictions are based on true story except for the fairytale part
And judged my standards 😒
I said fictional cause there aren't many guys who are carrying loving adoring and accepting for who I am and nothing else it smeed like Fiction
Not a Prince to wake me up with kiss 🤦🏻♀
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Idk why you all are pressed it's maybe because you all can't be one
Fictions are based on true story except for the fairytale part
And judged my standards 😒
I said fictional cause there aren't many guys who are carrying loving adoring and accepting for who I am and nothing else it smeed like Fiction
Not a Prince to wake me up with kiss 🤦🏻♀
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Hello there.
this is a question for Protestants. Others are welcome to answer too.
I am feeling numb right now. The fire in me has died out. I don't feel the presence of holy spirit in my heart any more. I don't feel like praying I don't feel like reading the bible. When i listen to gospel songs I just sing the lyrics I don't feel anything. Right now as i'm righting this my heart is void I know i should pray but I don't have the drive to do it. I feel like God left me or He's waiting for me to repent and follow him but i just don't seem to have the passion. Please someone Help me over come this numbness. It's been 3 months now and this emptiness is not worth it compared to the peace and love I had when i was closer to God.
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Hello there.
this is a question for Protestants. Others are welcome to answer too.
I am feeling numb right now. The fire in me has died out. I don't feel the presence of holy spirit in my heart any more. I don't feel like praying I don't feel like reading the bible. When i listen to gospel songs I just sing the lyrics I don't feel anything. Right now as i'm righting this my heart is void I know i should pray but I don't have the drive to do it. I feel like God left me or He's waiting for me to repent and follow him but i just don't seem to have the passion. Please someone Help me over come this numbness. It's been 3 months now and this emptiness is not worth it compared to the peace and love I had when i was closer to God.
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I know you are going to see this. So this is a goodbye of some sort. A closure, perhaps?
I miss you. Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell. I miss you every hour. And you know what the worst part was? It caught me completely by surprise. I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you. I'd catch myself just walking around to find you, not for any reason, just out of habit, because I'd seen something that I wanted to tell you about or because I wanted to hear your voice. And then I'd realize that you weren't there anymore, and every time, every single time, it was like having the wind knocked out of me. I've risked my life for you. I've walked half the city for you, and I'd do it again and again and again just to be with you, just to steal with you and run with you and hear you complain about your back pain every day.
And I feel lonely. I'd never been lonely. I've been in a room -- I've felt suicidal. I've been depressed. I've felt awful -- awful beyond all -- but I'd never felt that one other person could enter that room and cure what was bothering me...or that any number of people could enter that room. Loneliness was something I'd never been bothered with because I've always had this terrible itch for solitude. And you came along and changed that. Now that you are gone once more, I feel nothing but lonely.
And I cry. I have come to realize that the worst type of crying wasn't the kind everyone could see--the wailing on street corners, the tearing at clothes. No, the worst kind happened when your soul wept and no matter what you did, there was no way to comfort it. A section withered and became a scar on the part of your soul that survived.
I think perhaps I will always hold a candle for you – even until it burns my hand.
And when the light has long since gone …. I will be there in the darkness holding what remains, quite simply because I cannot let go.
It’s difficult for me to imagine the rest of my life without you. But I suppose I don’t have to imagine it... I just have to live it.
Good bye.🖤
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I know you are going to see this. So this is a goodbye of some sort. A closure, perhaps?
I miss you. Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell. I miss you every hour. And you know what the worst part was? It caught me completely by surprise. I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you. I'd catch myself just walking around to find you, not for any reason, just out of habit, because I'd seen something that I wanted to tell you about or because I wanted to hear your voice. And then I'd realize that you weren't there anymore, and every time, every single time, it was like having the wind knocked out of me. I've risked my life for you. I've walked half the city for you, and I'd do it again and again and again just to be with you, just to steal with you and run with you and hear you complain about your back pain every day.
And I feel lonely. I'd never been lonely. I've been in a room -- I've felt suicidal. I've been depressed. I've felt awful -- awful beyond all -- but I'd never felt that one other person could enter that room and cure what was bothering me...or that any number of people could enter that room. Loneliness was something I'd never been bothered with because I've always had this terrible itch for solitude. And you came along and changed that. Now that you are gone once more, I feel nothing but lonely.
And I cry. I have come to realize that the worst type of crying wasn't the kind everyone could see--the wailing on street corners, the tearing at clothes. No, the worst kind happened when your soul wept and no matter what you did, there was no way to comfort it. A section withered and became a scar on the part of your soul that survived.
I think perhaps I will always hold a candle for you – even until it burns my hand.
And when the light has long since gone …. I will be there in the darkness holding what remains, quite simply because I cannot let go.
It’s difficult for me to imagine the rest of my life without you. But I suppose I don’t have to imagine it... I just have to live it.
Good bye.🖤
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I need to get this off my chest. There is this guy and I was in love with him. And I want to call him rn but I know I shouldn’t which is why I’m writing here instead. This guy has hurt me so much like beyond belief and I’ve been distanced from so many people because of him. Despite how horrible he is to me, I can’t get him out of my heart. When we were on good terms. When he called me, texted me and we met up, the way he’d kiss me and say all these sweet things really did rope me in. But he’s such a fucking liar and believe me when I say this, just outright a douche. But my dumbass still wants to call him. We’re not on good terms right now( that’s an understatement) because of you guessed it, another fucking horrible thing he did to me. So why do I want to call himmmm like what’s wrong with me? I think I may be addicted to the thrill of the forbidden things, like when we would meet up, we’d smoke, drink, make out, and I don’t want to do those things but when I’m with him, it’s like I become a completely different person and not the good kind. I need someone to just take my phone away from me because I know I’m gonna get myself hurt if I call him. And I don’t want closure because the last time he hurt me like this, he got back in my stupid heart because I wanted closure and I accepted his apology. But this time he didn’t even call or text me despite being at fault. I mean that may be because I drunkenly cursed him out the last time we talked and someone very close to me also told him not to call me anymore because they are aware of this toxic relationship. I don’t know what to do guys, help me out. How do I move on from him and erase him from my mind? Ugh
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I need to get this off my chest. There is this guy and I was in love with him. And I want to call him rn but I know I shouldn’t which is why I’m writing here instead. This guy has hurt me so much like beyond belief and I’ve been distanced from so many people because of him. Despite how horrible he is to me, I can’t get him out of my heart. When we were on good terms. When he called me, texted me and we met up, the way he’d kiss me and say all these sweet things really did rope me in. But he’s such a fucking liar and believe me when I say this, just outright a douche. But my dumbass still wants to call him. We’re not on good terms right now( that’s an understatement) because of you guessed it, another fucking horrible thing he did to me. So why do I want to call himmmm like what’s wrong with me? I think I may be addicted to the thrill of the forbidden things, like when we would meet up, we’d smoke, drink, make out, and I don’t want to do those things but when I’m with him, it’s like I become a completely different person and not the good kind. I need someone to just take my phone away from me because I know I’m gonna get myself hurt if I call him. And I don’t want closure because the last time he hurt me like this, he got back in my stupid heart because I wanted closure and I accepted his apology. But this time he didn’t even call or text me despite being at fault. I mean that may be because I drunkenly cursed him out the last time we talked and someone very close to me also told him not to call me anymore because they are aware of this toxic relationship. I don’t know what to do guys, help me out. How do I move on from him and erase him from my mind? Ugh
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Whenever my eye is thrown at u... My heart beats so fast
Whenever my mind thinks of u... The feeling that I don't know warms my body... My arms are thirsty for hugging an angel 😇 like you. My lips 👄 want to go to ur chin and lips ... They're eager to deliver a message how deep my love is for u. I want to touch ur brown hair... Feel ur aroma... Enjoy ur existance...
And my soul, my soul could've be in rest and escape from what awaits it had been that u helped and stood beside me. Feed me with determination, hope and hardwork. In these desperate feeling of boredom and hopelessness, i knew that I loved u. I loved ur weird personality... I loved ur swinging mood. I just loved all part of u.
I'm glad to have this feeling before my body and mind rests for once and last.
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Whenever my eye is thrown at u... My heart beats so fast
Whenever my mind thinks of u... The feeling that I don't know warms my body... My arms are thirsty for hugging an angel 😇 like you. My lips 👄 want to go to ur chin and lips ... They're eager to deliver a message how deep my love is for u. I want to touch ur brown hair... Feel ur aroma... Enjoy ur existance...
And my soul, my soul could've be in rest and escape from what awaits it had been that u helped and stood beside me. Feed me with determination, hope and hardwork. In these desperate feeling of boredom and hopelessness, i knew that I loved u. I loved ur weird personality... I loved ur swinging mood. I just loved all part of u.
I'm glad to have this feeling before my body and mind rests for once and last.
Remember me once u graduate ... Marry and have kids...
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Hi guy am kinda stressed about my life because am 12 grade and when I finish school wth happens them I know I be going to UV to the big world were I be tested to bad and am scared I can't imagine life with out family and friends to help me but I know I have to do it by myself but wth if sth happens to am scared I need help........
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Hey everyone, so I have a group of friends and a bf who loves me with all his heart. Don’t get me wrong I love him too. But uk what the problem is, from the group of friends that I have one of my friend is very close to me. But at the same time whenever am with her I start to hate myself. She says all sorts of things that are so mean to me and my family. I come from a family who provides everything I ask for. Am not saying am spoiled and all. I just have this life style. If am honest, I can call my self humble. And because of that she picks on my. She uses my words to manipulate me. But I never know all this time that it was like that. Anyhoo, right after I started dating my bf I asked for her opinion on what she thinks about him, and she said that he was ugly nothing more. But tbh he is so handsome, a complete gentleman, very respectful, he knows how to treat a women, very hard working and all. That didn’t affect me much and I started the relationship anyways. But what am here for is am the only one going through this type of relationship with a so called best friend some one you trust so dearly. I really need help, what should I do???
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Hey everyone, so I have a group of friends and a bf who loves me with all his heart. Don’t get me wrong I love him too. But uk what the problem is, from the group of friends that I have one of my friend is very close to me. But at the same time whenever am with her I start to hate myself. She says all sorts of things that are so mean to me and my family. I come from a family who provides everything I ask for. Am not saying am spoiled and all. I just have this life style. If am honest, I can call my self humble. And because of that she picks on my. She uses my words to manipulate me. But I never know all this time that it was like that. Anyhoo, right after I started dating my bf I asked for her opinion on what she thinks about him, and she said that he was ugly nothing more. But tbh he is so handsome, a complete gentleman, very respectful, he knows how to treat a women, very hard working and all. That didn’t affect me much and I started the relationship anyways. But what am here for is am the only one going through this type of relationship with a so called best friend some one you trust so dearly. I really need help, what should I do???
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I always seek for validation.. My happiness is always based on someone's perspective of me .. Lately I am feeling so lonely I don't know what I need but I feel so empty I guess I am addicted to the feeling of not being happy idk if it makes sense. have any one feel the same? How did u get over it.. How can I be happy?
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I always seek for validation.. My happiness is always based on someone's perspective of me .. Lately I am feeling so lonely I don't know what I need but I feel so empty I guess I am addicted to the feeling of not being happy idk if it makes sense. have any one feel the same? How did u get over it.. How can I be happy?
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why i can't pass the friendzone? whenever i met a girl we talk really hit it offf and we become friends and stuck there. It happened more than once. Idk what should i do about it. what do u guys think?
If it helps I've never been in relationship even tho i'm old enough to be in
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why i can't pass the friendzone? whenever i met a girl we talk really hit it offf and we become friends and stuck there. It happened more than once. Idk what should i do about it. what do u guys think?
If it helps I've never been in relationship even tho i'm old enough to be in
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Hi, 19 M.
So i just had this conversation with my friends about why i don't want to date anymore and they were pretty adamant that i was wrong.
Here's my position.
I don't view love and relationships as this magical thing like a lot of people do. But that does not mean i don't give it value. I can see people can gain a lot of things from being in relationships, like for example security, a feeling of belongingness and all that. But what we don't need to do is act like relationships are the only way we can get those things.
And i think the reason it's difficult for people to grasp this is because they haven't accepted 2 things about love yet.
A) what love is: what i mean here is that we often find ourselves giving love a definition more than what it actually needs.
Love IS a chemical reaction with different hormones in our brain and we have to stop acting like that's a very shallow definition for love because it really isn't. Infact i would argue it gives it more value than any other definition we might give it. Imagine someone having so much influence on you that they're able to cause chemical reactions in your brain that make your body go crazy. I don't know about y'all but i think that's the most romantic thing i can imagine.
B) we have to accept that there's not more than 2 reasons we even get into relationships in the first place
1) enjoyment
2) natural evolutionary instincts.
These two things are very important but like i said, they can be found elsewhere.
Just like you can find enjoyment from video games but also watching movies.
The natural instincts, i don't feel, are that big of a motive to be able to convince anyone to literally give themselves to another person because there are many other natural built in instincts that we ignore and live normally with.
So to end all of it I'd like to ask a question
Name one thing that we can find only from relationships, that we can't live without.
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Hi, 19 M.
So i just had this conversation with my friends about why i don't want to date anymore and they were pretty adamant that i was wrong.
Here's my position.
I don't view love and relationships as this magical thing like a lot of people do. But that does not mean i don't give it value. I can see people can gain a lot of things from being in relationships, like for example security, a feeling of belongingness and all that. But what we don't need to do is act like relationships are the only way we can get those things.
And i think the reason it's difficult for people to grasp this is because they haven't accepted 2 things about love yet.
A) what love is: what i mean here is that we often find ourselves giving love a definition more than what it actually needs.
Love IS a chemical reaction with different hormones in our brain and we have to stop acting like that's a very shallow definition for love because it really isn't. Infact i would argue it gives it more value than any other definition we might give it. Imagine someone having so much influence on you that they're able to cause chemical reactions in your brain that make your body go crazy. I don't know about y'all but i think that's the most romantic thing i can imagine.
B) we have to accept that there's not more than 2 reasons we even get into relationships in the first place
1) enjoyment
2) natural evolutionary instincts.
These two things are very important but like i said, they can be found elsewhere.
Just like you can find enjoyment from video games but also watching movies.
The natural instincts, i don't feel, are that big of a motive to be able to convince anyone to literally give themselves to another person because there are many other natural built in instincts that we ignore and live normally with.
So to end all of it I'd like to ask a question
Name one thing that we can find only from relationships, that we can't live without.
#Relationship
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I just want to die ,is that too much to ask ?
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Yemiwagabetn Miknyat yemayakewu ye tigray wetat aleke. Tegedo hone wedo gebto, fire yelelewu tesfa amno yihewu aschefechefuachuwu Ende kitel. yenesun ye siltan timat lemarkat sibal, betat lemikoterut sibal ager yemiyakl hizb endemnm magedu, yedehawun yegeberewun lig, yenesuma min bewetawu bewuch Hager honk, Hizbe aleke. Yihe amrachu wetat ahun ketet newu yemigegnewu. Enesun yemitekawus man new, Sintu ye tigrayn enat ena abat fireachewu teketefu. Enesu min chegerchewu yesewu hiwet lenesu min hono. ezam ezam wedko and hiwetun lenesu yemayhon siltan sil sewa. Yemisasalatn. Weyn wendme weyne ehte lemaychebet tesfa Ende zaf fire wedeku. Kene and sewu bata yamegna, Ahunma ager yamewa. Bewunetu hulum yamewal.
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Yemiwagabetn Miknyat yemayakewu ye tigray wetat aleke. Tegedo hone wedo gebto, fire yelelewu tesfa amno yihewu aschefechefuachuwu Ende kitel. yenesun ye siltan timat lemarkat sibal, betat lemikoterut sibal ager yemiyakl hizb endemnm magedu, yedehawun yegeberewun lig, yenesuma min bewetawu bewuch Hager honk, Hizbe aleke. Yihe amrachu wetat ahun ketet newu yemigegnewu. Enesun yemitekawus man new, Sintu ye tigrayn enat ena abat fireachewu teketefu. Enesu min chegerchewu yesewu hiwet lenesu min hono. ezam ezam wedko and hiwetun lenesu yemayhon siltan sil sewa. Yemisasalatn. Weyn wendme weyne ehte lemaychebet tesfa Ende zaf fire wedeku. Kene and sewu bata yamegna, Ahunma ager yamewa. Bewunetu hulum yamewal.
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Hi I've never vented before so I'll just go directly to my vent so uhh i went to this party yesterday and i met this girl i used to talk to and we ended up making out mnamn and i just got into a rs this week with like the perfect girl and betam chenkogn i went to her house after the party and just talked to her and kissed her mnamn and its stressing me out ahun cuz I cheated and went to my girls house as nothing happened. what should I do now pls help me out
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Hi I've never vented before so I'll just go directly to my vent so uhh i went to this party yesterday and i met this girl i used to talk to and we ended up making out mnamn and i just got into a rs this week with like the perfect girl and betam chenkogn i went to her house after the party and just talked to her and kissed her mnamn and its stressing me out ahun cuz I cheated and went to my girls house as nothing happened. what should I do now pls help me out
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