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I hate my Job! I get a very good salary and everything, but I hate my boss, the messed up work environment... What should I do? I am being jealous of girls who do nothing but have money, wake up at whatever time they want, and have free time. Is this life? I don't think I can do well if I start any business. So will I repeat this lifestyle until I will be old? What should I do?
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I hate my Job! I get a very good salary and everything, but I hate my boss, the messed up work environment... What should I do? I am being jealous of girls who do nothing but have money, wake up at whatever time they want, and have free time. Is this life? I don't think I can do well if I start any business. So will I repeat this lifestyle until I will be old? What should I do?
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So, women typically make men wait for sex, fearing that they might leave after they get it. But that comes with certain implications that most of us donβt think about: (1) Does that mean that women have nothing to offer beyond sex? Because if they did, they would be confident that men would stay for something else other than sex. (2) If a woman makes a man wait for say 6 months and he leaves after smashing, wouldnβt the heartbreak be worse than him leaving after smashing on the 2nd date? Logically speaking it makes more sense to have sex within the first 3 dates to see if the guy wants you for more than your body.
Another point. We always hear people saying that the woman is the prize. To get a guy, a woman shouldnβt do much. Her being attractive gets her 75% of the way. On the other hand, a man needs to have looks, game (or personality) and money to land the woman of his dream. So, if a man needs to embody these multiple qualities to get the woman of his dreams, doesnβt that make him the prize?
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So, women typically make men wait for sex, fearing that they might leave after they get it. But that comes with certain implications that most of us donβt think about: (1) Does that mean that women have nothing to offer beyond sex? Because if they did, they would be confident that men would stay for something else other than sex. (2) If a woman makes a man wait for say 6 months and he leaves after smashing, wouldnβt the heartbreak be worse than him leaving after smashing on the 2nd date? Logically speaking it makes more sense to have sex within the first 3 dates to see if the guy wants you for more than your body.
Another point. We always hear people saying that the woman is the prize. To get a guy, a woman shouldnβt do much. Her being attractive gets her 75% of the way. On the other hand, a man needs to have looks, game (or personality) and money to land the woman of his dream. So, if a man needs to embody these multiple qualities to get the woman of his dreams, doesnβt that make him the prize?
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I'm 19 I just finished school and the problem i have no commencation skill , I have never dated a guy or spoken to one that isn't a friend and all my friends keep telling me that I should date but I don't know how to speak to a guy what should I do
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I'm 19 I just finished school and the problem i have no commencation skill , I have never dated a guy or spoken to one that isn't a friend and all my friends keep telling me that I should date but I don't know how to speak to a guy what should I do
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Hey, 18F. I don't know hw to say this but I'm just going to say it. I was sexual assaulted when I was in first grade. He was in 8th or 9th grade. It may seem like I'm overreacting but I'm not idk hw but I still remember that guys face. Becha he would always come on lunch time around my classroom and touche me places and forces me to kiss him and if I don't he would hit me and told me not to tell anyone or he would hit me harder....this lasted almost 7 month or so and I finally tried to stand for myself and told him to let me go and he hit me across the face, I run before he could do anything and some girl in my class saw me crying and asked me wht happened and I just told her that some kid hit me. Then she went to my teacher and told her about the kid who hit me b/c I showed her who he was. I was never scared in my life when the teacher brought him to me and made him say sry.....but that was the last time i ever saw him. He changed school when I went to second grade, But those 7 months were a nightmare, I some times have this dreams where he(just a guy) comes and hits me, Or force me to kiss him.
I haven't told this to anyone and it's been running through my mind a lot, had to let it out.
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Hey, 18F. I don't know hw to say this but I'm just going to say it. I was sexual assaulted when I was in first grade. He was in 8th or 9th grade. It may seem like I'm overreacting but I'm not idk hw but I still remember that guys face. Becha he would always come on lunch time around my classroom and touche me places and forces me to kiss him and if I don't he would hit me and told me not to tell anyone or he would hit me harder....this lasted almost 7 month or so and I finally tried to stand for myself and told him to let me go and he hit me across the face, I run before he could do anything and some girl in my class saw me crying and asked me wht happened and I just told her that some kid hit me. Then she went to my teacher and told her about the kid who hit me b/c I showed her who he was. I was never scared in my life when the teacher brought him to me and made him say sry.....but that was the last time i ever saw him. He changed school when I went to second grade, But those 7 months were a nightmare, I some times have this dreams where he(just a guy) comes and hits me, Or force me to kiss him.
I haven't told this to anyone and it's been running through my mind a lot, had to let it out.
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So guys i am so confused about this thing. I met this boy and we live around the same place. Once he was kind of sick and I made him some food and took it for him. Since then he asks me to make him some food with the excuse of "I am busy" "I am sick" which I am so happy to do. We got close through that even if we met countable times. We got so comfortable with each other within a short time. So last week he invited me to his house to hang out and we were just watching movies. Without realizing it we were tangled. He was sleeping on my chest me hugging him and playing with his hair. Apparently I was the big spoon in the cuddle ππI don't know how we got to that position but it was really comfortable and through time he just started kissing my neck, my cheek, my forehead, my nose. It was all sweet Nothing sexual I didn't feel threatened at least. So yhe hulu yekebaterkut it is to ask one question ππ can guys cuddle and kiss any girl? Even if they have no feelings? Is he acting like this just because I happened to be around or is he actually interested? Help me my people so I can know where to take this. if you know what I mean π
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So guys i am so confused about this thing. I met this boy and we live around the same place. Once he was kind of sick and I made him some food and took it for him. Since then he asks me to make him some food with the excuse of "I am busy" "I am sick" which I am so happy to do. We got close through that even if we met countable times. We got so comfortable with each other within a short time. So last week he invited me to his house to hang out and we were just watching movies. Without realizing it we were tangled. He was sleeping on my chest me hugging him and playing with his hair. Apparently I was the big spoon in the cuddle ππI don't know how we got to that position but it was really comfortable and through time he just started kissing my neck, my cheek, my forehead, my nose. It was all sweet Nothing sexual I didn't feel threatened at least. So yhe hulu yekebaterkut it is to ask one question ππ can guys cuddle and kiss any girl? Even if they have no feelings? Is he acting like this just because I happened to be around or is he actually interested? Help me my people so I can know where to take this. if you know what I mean π
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So I don't really know how to do this whole vent thing but here goes nothing. Okay so I am confused as fuck. You may ask why, well okay I had this guy best friend for almost 2 years and we always talked nonstop and all, you know the cliche. And there was a whole point of me only opening telegram to talk to him. And I really don't what happened but at the start of the year he started drifting from me, like just there but not there kinda type. And he used to reply so fast and started to go from an hour to a day or two and he wont give me an explanation to his drifting away. And that really messed me up because I really thought it was my fault even though I hadn't done anything at all. And the long replies turned to short replies and a month ago he ghosted me like straight up ghosted me and I still don't know why. Can you pls tell me why you think he is acting this way? Or do you think it has anything to do with me, that it is my fault?
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So I don't really know how to do this whole vent thing but here goes nothing. Okay so I am confused as fuck. You may ask why, well okay I had this guy best friend for almost 2 years and we always talked nonstop and all, you know the cliche. And there was a whole point of me only opening telegram to talk to him. And I really don't what happened but at the start of the year he started drifting from me, like just there but not there kinda type. And he used to reply so fast and started to go from an hour to a day or two and he wont give me an explanation to his drifting away. And that really messed me up because I really thought it was my fault even though I hadn't done anything at all. And the long replies turned to short replies and a month ago he ghosted me like straight up ghosted me and I still don't know why. Can you pls tell me why you think he is acting this way? Or do you think it has anything to do with me, that it is my fault?
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Well I have been friends with this girl for years and I feel like she have this evil things she wants to do on me or she hates when I do something better than her. I honestly donβt wanna even be with anyone like that but there is this uncomfortable bond I have with her. She is the only person I can talk about what I like and still she be treating me like shit. When I say that if I tell her something Iβm interested she will try to make me feel embarrassed. Every time I put effort on my looks and it actually works out she sees me with stress and find it hard to compliment me. But donβt get me wrong I actually behave good around her I donβt do this fake love she gives me. I have actually been loved by her family bc how I helped her on her worst. We used to go to church together on Sundays and there is this guy who is my love interest and silly me told her about him. Well as you thought she was being with him the next minute. Its fine idc really, she is just insecure I understand but letting your insecurities on your own friends and even tryna downgrade them is so uncool. I sometimes canβt stand how she acts when I ask her the simplest things she starts to mention what she did for me yearsss ago or some basic things friends does-
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Well I have been friends with this girl for years and I feel like she have this evil things she wants to do on me or she hates when I do something better than her. I honestly donβt wanna even be with anyone like that but there is this uncomfortable bond I have with her. She is the only person I can talk about what I like and still she be treating me like shit. When I say that if I tell her something Iβm interested she will try to make me feel embarrassed. Every time I put effort on my looks and it actually works out she sees me with stress and find it hard to compliment me. But donβt get me wrong I actually behave good around her I donβt do this fake love she gives me. I have actually been loved by her family bc how I helped her on her worst. We used to go to church together on Sundays and there is this guy who is my love interest and silly me told her about him. Well as you thought she was being with him the next minute. Its fine idc really, she is just insecure I understand but letting your insecurities on your own friends and even tryna downgrade them is so uncool. I sometimes canβt stand how she acts when I ask her the simplest things she starts to mention what she did for me yearsss ago or some basic things friends does-
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I need to let go of something....
I'm not as innocent as you claim me to be... I am and I'm not at the same time I've had my dayssss...
I've smoked weed and vaped(I hit it to hard my face turned pink) this will be in the books first time I got white girl wasted was off of 'tej' my grandmother just said and I quote "weha ena mar new" so I told my self I must be one crazy bitch if I get drunk off of this and I did I passed out on the bathroom floor????(now ik what they mean by traditional drink)after drinking four glasses consequently, sent shitty nudes at 1am, tried masterbation(used a vibrating toothbrush I tried asking my mother indirectly but considering I come from an Habesha Family I couldn't) And my friend's would be doing all types of stuff with their man and I would be all talk when they would ask me if I would be all up on that dick "the way I suck it like a brand new engine" would be my answer (hell freaking ????????ββ no)
I did things and I regret them it was a façade...... This whole I'm trying to break the good girl image type shit... wearing black, cutting of my hair, black eye liner it was never me....
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I'm not as innocent as you claim me to be... I am and I'm not at the same time I've had my dayssss...
I've smoked weed and vaped(I hit it to hard my face turned pink) this will be in the books first time I got white girl wasted was off of 'tej' my grandmother just said and I quote "weha ena mar new" so I told my self I must be one crazy bitch if I get drunk off of this and I did I passed out on the bathroom floor????(now ik what they mean by traditional drink)after drinking four glasses consequently, sent shitty nudes at 1am, tried masterbation(used a vibrating toothbrush I tried asking my mother indirectly but considering I come from an Habesha Family I couldn't) And my friend's would be doing all types of stuff with their man and I would be all talk when they would ask me if I would be all up on that dick "the way I suck it like a brand new engine" would be my answer (hell freaking ????????ββ no)
I did things and I regret them it was a façade...... This whole I'm trying to break the good girl image type shit... wearing black, cutting of my hair, black eye liner it was never me....
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Reality
One of the toughest questions that i have ever faced "what's reality" well it's a hard one. Is reality universal? Or is it really subjective? Is the so called my reality also your reality? Or is it just an illusion?
Through my path to answer this question, i have stumbled in to one of my favourite quote up to date and which i accepted for a while now. The short version of the quote goes "in order to survive, people cling to what they know and label it reality." It's to damn convincing in a way. Atleast it seems that way. Most of us have this assumption or illusion of reality. Sadly life tends to show us we r wrong shattering our reality. That is one of the hardest thing that could happen to anyone. You drastically move from living in YOUR reality to drowning deep in to abyss. What do we do to get out of the chaotic world we just sank in to? We rejoin the broken pieces of the reality and form a new one. And now that becomes our new reality. We live by it as if it's inescapable and unbreakable world. Until the next time life once again proves us wrong. So simply put the reality is there is no reality. That it self forms a paradox. So what is it. Is the world the reality or our perception of the world that's the reality. In that case what's real. Can we lable sth as real based on it's physical appearance or our sense organs? How about the things we can't see, touch, smell or hear, what do we make of that. Is there a ground rule to call sth real? If so what's it?
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One of the toughest questions that i have ever faced "what's reality" well it's a hard one. Is reality universal? Or is it really subjective? Is the so called my reality also your reality? Or is it just an illusion?
Through my path to answer this question, i have stumbled in to one of my favourite quote up to date and which i accepted for a while now. The short version of the quote goes "in order to survive, people cling to what they know and label it reality." It's to damn convincing in a way. Atleast it seems that way. Most of us have this assumption or illusion of reality. Sadly life tends to show us we r wrong shattering our reality. That is one of the hardest thing that could happen to anyone. You drastically move from living in YOUR reality to drowning deep in to abyss. What do we do to get out of the chaotic world we just sank in to? We rejoin the broken pieces of the reality and form a new one. And now that becomes our new reality. We live by it as if it's inescapable and unbreakable world. Until the next time life once again proves us wrong. So simply put the reality is there is no reality. That it self forms a paradox. So what is it. Is the world the reality or our perception of the world that's the reality. In that case what's real. Can we lable sth as real based on it's physical appearance or our sense organs? How about the things we can't see, touch, smell or hear, what do we make of that. Is there a ground rule to call sth real? If so what's it?
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I am in love with a person who has a girlfriend more likely he has a wife they even moved in together and he is cheating on her but he will be with me whenever I need him and he can't break up with her because he loves her I am not sure if I wanted that to happen at the sametime I don't want to lose him. I am really confused I don't know what to do .
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I am in love with a person who has a girlfriend more likely he has a wife they even moved in together and he is cheating on her but he will be with me whenever I need him and he can't break up with her because he loves her I am not sure if I wanted that to happen at the sametime I don't want to lose him. I am really confused I don't know what to do .
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Me is fine the thing is two months before I was this simp guy who would try to talk to every girl in groups to attempt to get them to be my gf I was so desperate the fact that I am turning 23 in 2 months and I don't have any true experience of relationship made me too needy and also I have got low self esteem I don't believe anybody would be attracted to me I don't know why I am not bad looking guy tbh but my insecurities make feel like their is no one uglier than me and two months ago their was this girl in my class we started talking in telegram after a year of no talking and I asked her to motivate me in my studies and she also demanded the same from me and we started to get along after few days I started missing her and I started calling her three or more times a day and she told me she have a bf and I was so shocked and broken then I continued talking to her up until last week when my friends told me that she knows that I have a feeling for her and she can't do anything about it after I heard it I break down started crying and told her to stop contacting me but she insisted that we should talk in person and when we met she told me she loves her bf and she hate break ups and she started it planning for the future and that she only saw me as her friend since day one then I become depressed she changed me for real and the fact that I can't get her is so heart breaking so guys what do u advice me to move on and start focusing on my studies thanks in advance
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Me is fine the thing is two months before I was this simp guy who would try to talk to every girl in groups to attempt to get them to be my gf I was so desperate the fact that I am turning 23 in 2 months and I don't have any true experience of relationship made me too needy and also I have got low self esteem I don't believe anybody would be attracted to me I don't know why I am not bad looking guy tbh but my insecurities make feel like their is no one uglier than me and two months ago their was this girl in my class we started talking in telegram after a year of no talking and I asked her to motivate me in my studies and she also demanded the same from me and we started to get along after few days I started missing her and I started calling her three or more times a day and she told me she have a bf and I was so shocked and broken then I continued talking to her up until last week when my friends told me that she knows that I have a feeling for her and she can't do anything about it after I heard it I break down started crying and told her to stop contacting me but she insisted that we should talk in person and when we met she told me she loves her bf and she hate break ups and she started it planning for the future and that she only saw me as her friend since day one then I become depressed she changed me for real and the fact that I can't get her is so heart breaking so guys what do u advice me to move on and start focusing on my studies thanks in advance
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Hi 20 male the thing is I can't remember the last time I was happy I have financial issue like next level I am an introvert I don't know what to say around people I've never have a real friend that I can trust even when I was in highschool, my family doesn't understand me at all and now I am starting to have this thoughts in my mind I can't get rid off it is like just kill your self u are useless u are burden believe me I don't want that but the voice won't stop it's like a ticking watch so help me out......
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Hi 20 male the thing is I can't remember the last time I was happy I have financial issue like next level I am an introvert I don't know what to say around people I've never have a real friend that I can trust even when I was in highschool, my family doesn't understand me at all and now I am starting to have this thoughts in my mind I can't get rid off it is like just kill your self u are useless u are burden believe me I don't want that but the voice won't stop it's like a ticking watch so help me out......
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I've best friend she is 19 and she is in love with a man older than us by 8 or 9 years first she told us about him that he is so gentle sweet serious but i told her that I don't think that he is a good guy cuz he talks a lot as if he knows everything in our life I've never been in a relationship before and I never been in love cuz I think it's fooling our self in our age so I don't know how to help.she got so deep in it that she always talk about him now he knows about her feeling fet nestuatal malet diacon new he has to be supportive no one wants him to be with her we just want him not to hurt her she is so vulnerable she lost her father this year and I can't help her with this cuz I don't know anything about this stuff I don't think that his a good person not just my thoughts everyone thinks that he is an idiot selfish dumb she have to get him out of her mind cuz he is destructing her from many things he took a lot of space from her mind and she always thinking about him and he continues to hurt her feeling please help me how can I help her out
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I've best friend she is 19 and she is in love with a man older than us by 8 or 9 years first she told us about him that he is so gentle sweet serious but i told her that I don't think that he is a good guy cuz he talks a lot as if he knows everything in our life I've never been in a relationship before and I never been in love cuz I think it's fooling our self in our age so I don't know how to help.she got so deep in it that she always talk about him now he knows about her feeling fet nestuatal malet diacon new he has to be supportive no one wants him to be with her we just want him not to hurt her she is so vulnerable she lost her father this year and I can't help her with this cuz I don't know anything about this stuff I don't think that his a good person not just my thoughts everyone thinks that he is an idiot selfish dumb she have to get him out of her mind cuz he is destructing her from many things he took a lot of space from her mind and she always thinking about him and he continues to hurt her feeling please help me how can I help her out
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Im friend with my ex we talk about everything we laugh and stuff but i also see other people or talk to other people and i tell him that and he also do the same he knows that we will never get back together....its like a brother and sister relationship ( I knw that ke relationship behuala endezi sis brother mebal yekebedal) gn yaw we act like that he care about me and get worried when I'm in a bad mood and feels down and needs someone to talk to and the same for him and his friends and my friends yegeremalu endet le 3 yr Abrew yekoyu sewoch endet enedenante act yaregalu yelunal gn we knw that we aren't compatible to be together ene ena esu andlay mehon anechelem and we just talk like friends and when he won't pick up my phone and doesn't reply and won't reply to my texts I get worried and he did just that yesterday.....and what do I do
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Im friend with my ex we talk about everything we laugh and stuff but i also see other people or talk to other people and i tell him that and he also do the same he knows that we will never get back together....its like a brother and sister relationship ( I knw that ke relationship behuala endezi sis brother mebal yekebedal) gn yaw we act like that he care about me and get worried when I'm in a bad mood and feels down and needs someone to talk to and the same for him and his friends and my friends yegeremalu endet le 3 yr Abrew yekoyu sewoch endet enedenante act yaregalu yelunal gn we knw that we aren't compatible to be together ene ena esu andlay mehon anechelem and we just talk like friends and when he won't pick up my phone and doesn't reply and won't reply to my texts I get worried and he did just that yesterday.....and what do I do
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Hey yβall so the thing is I had unprotected sex with my bf ena After we had sex 14 hour bewhala nw post pill yewesedkut , so today i got my period 3 weeks early nw itβs kinda dark brown ena there is clotting and Iβm having cramps
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Hey yβall so the thing is I had unprotected sex with my bf ena After we had sex 14 hour bewhala nw post pill yewesedkut , so today i got my period 3 weeks early nw itβs kinda dark brown ena there is clotting and Iβm having cramps
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To the girl with an overly demanding best friend (who is a girl too).
You're not her mother. she goes off, falls in love with some idiot and gets her heart broken, a
ll the while you were telling her not to, then let her deal with it, not you.
If you tell her not to hang out with the people you think are bad influence but she thinks you're just jealous, leave her be. Quit stressing about her irresponsible desicions, it's her problem, not yours. she'll get it when it's time. she'll get that you were just thinking about her, just looking for what's good for her.
look girl, sometimes you can't fight some battles of the people you love, you can't always protect them. some battles are there for them to fight, to learn from. so just back off.
Besides, her constant life drama will just drain you emotionally. You're not a trash can that she just comes and throws all her stress and baggage on you and walks away. You're a strong, beautiful human being who knows better. You have a bright freaking future ahead of you, don't let the bad decisions of an irresponsible girl whom you think you care for pull you back. You deserve better.
And let me tell you, try to have a few days free from her, without talking to her or texting her, you'll see the peaceful air you'll breathe; no bullshit, no overthinking, no 'what did you do now?!' conversations, just you and your thoughts. It's the best experience. Trust me on this. I'm not recommending you split up or stop the friendship, all I'm saying is just don't be so invested in her life because it's her's to live, not yours.
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To the girl with an overly demanding best friend (who is a girl too).
You're not her mother. she goes off, falls in love with some idiot and gets her heart broken, a
ll the while you were telling her not to, then let her deal with it, not you.
If you tell her not to hang out with the people you think are bad influence but she thinks you're just jealous, leave her be. Quit stressing about her irresponsible desicions, it's her problem, not yours. she'll get it when it's time. she'll get that you were just thinking about her, just looking for what's good for her.
look girl, sometimes you can't fight some battles of the people you love, you can't always protect them. some battles are there for them to fight, to learn from. so just back off.
Besides, her constant life drama will just drain you emotionally. You're not a trash can that she just comes and throws all her stress and baggage on you and walks away. You're a strong, beautiful human being who knows better. You have a bright freaking future ahead of you, don't let the bad decisions of an irresponsible girl whom you think you care for pull you back. You deserve better.
And let me tell you, try to have a few days free from her, without talking to her or texting her, you'll see the peaceful air you'll breathe; no bullshit, no overthinking, no 'what did you do now?!' conversations, just you and your thoughts. It's the best experience. Trust me on this. I'm not recommending you split up or stop the friendship, all I'm saying is just don't be so invested in her life because it's her's to live, not yours.
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When I found this vent I feel into tears cause it just described what I was feeling lately but I didn't know how to put words together to let it out....hope the girl who posted it doesn't mind....
It dark in my heart. I've always wanted to love and be loved, to have a life full of joy and warmth. But how ever many people I keep around myself, I always end up ultimately alone and empty.because eventually they leave maybe my fault or there's. Everyone seems to have better things to do than be around me. You are no exception. You have much much more to do than to stay around and chat with me and ask me about my day or about me. Took you a month to fall out of your habits that were leading me to fall for you. I don't blame you. I'm not all that. I can't always be fun to be around and u may hv ur own problems ...but I wish I could share them with me... When the lights go out and the drapes shut off my true colour is black. I'm dark inside out. I'm not always happy, not always chirpy, I'm not always supportive and I don't have it in me to be always be the one who tells you that misses and needs u without it taking a toll on me, without it making me feel like you don't care anymore. I can not always tell you to be mine, you made me fall for you by being EXACTLY what I needed and now you have no time to be that person anymore, within a matter of weeks. You're an adult, I can not tell you how to be. If I have to condition you it means you don't have any inclination of being that person for me anymore. And I can not tell you that, If I do it may take for the turns for the worst . It breaks my heart everytime I read our old messages,(I do when ever I think Abt u boo) how your words were just the perfect words, I miss those words. I miss being missed by you. I miss you saying anything and not just agreeing with me. Now I don't say it I don't either. I miss you being genuinely interested on how my day went. I miss your early morning texts. I miss the you I was falling in love with.
More than that I want to be complete. I don't want to have to need you around. My world is empty and when I found you it felt as if I finally belonged somewhere I sight cause I found someone that gets me. But maybe that's not the way to go. I want to make a home for myself. I want to not need anyone to be complete maybe my frds or you. To be free and happy. I want to be at peace.
With this being said guys I need ur help I am in a situation where I can't leave or stay we talk but not like we used to I want him but he wants space and this so called space is pulling us apart ...I wanted to talk to him but I fear I might scare him away ...demo I kinda feel like he doesn't rlly care as much anymore so why bother I would just end up being embarrassed....on the other hand I say it's over there is no way of reviving this I should just end it keza demo maybe am thinking like this because I am mad ena I should wait be patient I don't know how to decide because being patient is taking a toll on me and am hearting
I need ur advice p.s were are not in the same city demo so the talking on the phone complicates things more
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It dark in my heart. I've always wanted to love and be loved, to have a life full of joy and warmth. But how ever many people I keep around myself, I always end up ultimately alone and empty.because eventually they leave maybe my fault or there's. Everyone seems to have better things to do than be around me. You are no exception. You have much much more to do than to stay around and chat with me and ask me about my day or about me. Took you a month to fall out of your habits that were leading me to fall for you. I don't blame you. I'm not all that. I can't always be fun to be around and u may hv ur own problems ...but I wish I could share them with me... When the lights go out and the drapes shut off my true colour is black. I'm dark inside out. I'm not always happy, not always chirpy, I'm not always supportive and I don't have it in me to be always be the one who tells you that misses and needs u without it taking a toll on me, without it making me feel like you don't care anymore. I can not always tell you to be mine, you made me fall for you by being EXACTLY what I needed and now you have no time to be that person anymore, within a matter of weeks. You're an adult, I can not tell you how to be. If I have to condition you it means you don't have any inclination of being that person for me anymore. And I can not tell you that, If I do it may take for the turns for the worst . It breaks my heart everytime I read our old messages,(I do when ever I think Abt u boo) how your words were just the perfect words, I miss those words. I miss being missed by you. I miss you saying anything and not just agreeing with me. Now I don't say it I don't either. I miss you being genuinely interested on how my day went. I miss your early morning texts. I miss the you I was falling in love with.
More than that I want to be complete. I don't want to have to need you around. My world is empty and when I found you it felt as if I finally belonged somewhere I sight cause I found someone that gets me. But maybe that's not the way to go. I want to make a home for myself. I want to not need anyone to be complete maybe my frds or you. To be free and happy. I want to be at peace.
With this being said guys I need ur help I am in a situation where I can't leave or stay we talk but not like we used to I want him but he wants space and this so called space is pulling us apart ...I wanted to talk to him but I fear I might scare him away ...demo I kinda feel like he doesn't rlly care as much anymore so why bother I would just end up being embarrassed....on the other hand I say it's over there is no way of reviving this I should just end it keza demo maybe am thinking like this because I am mad ena I should wait be patient I don't know how to decide because being patient is taking a toll on me and am hearting
I need ur advice p.s were are not in the same city demo so the talking on the phone complicates things more
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18F. I have a girle bestfriend friend for long time and she is so nice ena if u ask me about her I will tell u about her past, ex ,family problem, ymtelawen $ymtewdewn like everything kemer even little details mnm ayamletgem .gn eso mnm atawekm sele ena even lengraat enkone segmer malete new she brings the Same scenario that happened to her beka because of that menager akomko long time ago . Beze honeta meketel selselchgn negerkote gn ahonem yaw nat even zem belo friend ymyakewen neger atakem ahone lay beka zem beya admach hognalew.βΉβΉ overreact eyderko new pls help me ππ
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18F. I have a girle bestfriend friend for long time and she is so nice ena if u ask me about her I will tell u about her past, ex ,family problem, ymtelawen $ymtewdewn like everything kemer even little details mnm ayamletgem .gn eso mnm atawekm sele ena even lengraat enkone segmer malete new she brings the Same scenario that happened to her beka because of that menager akomko long time ago . Beze honeta meketel selselchgn negerkote gn ahonem yaw nat even zem belo friend ymyakewen neger atakem ahone lay beka zem beya admach hognalew.βΉβΉ overreact eyderko new pls help me ππ
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Hello people,I'm a π§π½19 yo like I'm turning into another lady who's literally dark inside I mean according to relation ships I meant like when I even see couples mnamen lerasu I'm like what is the use koy ,men yetekemalu abrew Honew mnamn ena plus I don't really believe in love demo that's worse i know gen awke aydelem I swear like Mnm sense aysetegnm bcha menor sichal why with a boy bye asbalew ,like date kareku lerasu it's been 2 and a half years uk it wasn't real just teenages shit and my question is koy love exist yaregal belachu tasbalachu please explain yehen astesaseben kaltewku single hogne memote new plus I don't have any sense like the perfect guy mlew be rase perspective erasu mnm attract ayaregegnm
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Hello people,I'm a π§π½19 yo like I'm turning into another lady who's literally dark inside I mean according to relation ships I meant like when I even see couples mnamen lerasu I'm like what is the use koy ,men yetekemalu abrew Honew mnamn ena plus I don't really believe in love demo that's worse i know gen awke aydelem I swear like Mnm sense aysetegnm bcha menor sichal why with a boy bye asbalew ,like date kareku lerasu it's been 2 and a half years uk it wasn't real just teenages shit and my question is koy love exist yaregal belachu tasbalachu please explain yehen astesaseben kaltewku single hogne memote new plus I don't have any sense like the perfect guy mlew be rase perspective erasu mnm attract ayaregegnm
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π am 25 F and a Lecturer. . When ever i talk to new guys.. lets just forget that.. i don't even date em anymore all i am doing is laugh, catching feeling and forget em. Its always a one time thing. α₯α» guys don't like it when we make em laugh, replay fast, checks on em mnamn.. ena. The guys am not interested in won't leave me alone. P.S i am taking about chatting on social media. With guys i know in person
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π am 25 F and a Lecturer. . When ever i talk to new guys.. lets just forget that.. i don't even date em anymore all i am doing is laugh, catching feeling and forget em. Its always a one time thing. α₯α» guys don't like it when we make em laugh, replay fast, checks on em mnamn.. ena. The guys am not interested in won't leave me alone. P.S i am taking about chatting on social media. With guys i know in person
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I just had sex with a prostitute... third time this is happening. Did it twice tonight and the second time was so uncomfortable. I've lost all hope. I'm starting to feel like I have no good in me. And it seems like there's no way out.
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I just had sex with a prostitute... third time this is happening. Did it twice tonight and the second time was so uncomfortable. I've lost all hope. I'm starting to feel like I have no good in me. And it seems like there's no way out.
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