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I panic everytime I get reminded that my family will die one day and when I do my heart breaks in to millions of pieces over and over again. I just really really don't think I can cope with it when that news comes, I love my mom and dad so much and I don't think I can cope with the idea of them getting so old and dying. This is really really scaring me and I'm so sick of getting heartbroken and depressed about it. I know I have to learn to make peace with it but I don't know how and I'm so scared help me. I'm a girl 20, btw.

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Nowadays, I see a lot of hate towards society and it's become normal to the point no one is arguing abt it. Specifically in sexuality, gender and issues like that. I understand and sympathize with people who don't fall easily into gender categories or whatever but I don't think society set standards (e.g being a man) to exclude or shame or anything like that. Maybe you can see it this way. From the moment we become self-conscious we started to focus and explore our inmates and group members, how they act and how they respond to their Env't stimuli. By imitation and abstraction, we compare and contrast ourselves with others around us. Why? B/c we are highly social animals and we are evolved to do so. But compare on what bases? We see the one who is highly successful being chosen by the female and respected in the group. He got all the resources and the serotonin to enjoy. How did he do that? We can abstract his character, persona, mental, physical and moral qualities. So we did that for thousands and thousands of year's (cheering and studying the best of best) and now we have these archetypes, dramatised and expressed in d/t stories and myths, which we can relate to ourselves. These stories help us to differentiate, value and develop what we should value currently from various things what we must value in life. We live in a society where social hierarchy is inevitable as long as there is competition. (e.g boys compete with boys for girls (vice-versa) and we all compete for stable life) So some occupy the top and many stays at the bottom where all seek social justice and social change 😁. Why complain about the rules guys, just play the game. Life is not fair for all of us. Why identify yourself as something new and complicated when you can't prove yourself. You Play the victim game and then hide behind groups or communities to cover your resentful and vengeful mind. Be the hero and change the anthem. The good thing in the 21st century is you got a lot of options and competitions to prove yourself.

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There's this guy am friends with benefits with.... it started after I had a rough break up and he was there for me ena it just happened we were drinking it was an instinct we kissed at first after the kiss I knew I'm not ready for another relationship mnamn so i told him i just wanna let loose all the time and he was like i got u.... we did a lot of things which i cant say but we are very honest abt what we feel and that it's always physical no strings attached... it went on for 8 months. for other ppl we look like couples he would introduce me as his girl mnamn becha it was really fun ik we did drink a lot but as time went by he made me forget my pain and we were working on bettering ourselves. Then yehone time lay he started dating someone I dont wanna lie, it did bug me like damn I knew it was gonna happen but ok here we go ngr then I backed away completly because I felt like I owe this woman he is dating a respect so setefa he was like what's wrong with u dont do this mnamn he would call non stop so I felt like I want to be straight honest with him n told him that he is right to start dating and I should do the same .. I didn't mean it tho what I really meant was I'm falling for you dont leave me but I cant say that... I cried over him, he dont know that I've rejected ppl because of him.. I'm sad when he is sad am happy when he is happy betam new yemewedew... my feelings got deeper demo when he called me at his friends wedding drunk telling me he cant help but picture us getting married, that he thinks we are great together mnamn...my heart melted that night I told him I can picture us too. But the next morning he was a completely different person broo he was like did I call you last night ????becha ahun yalew situation my jealousy made me seek out to ppl I've rejected before n he watches my ig story like betammm uh what should i do i love him eko

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So there was this girl from my previous school and we were kinda besties since grade 2 and we kinda drift apart because of some boy drama in 6th grade. I mean he was her boyfriend and they broke up over sth I don't remember now. but she was so mad at me for talking with him and all but she didn't say nothing and instead gave me the silent treatment expecting me to figure out the problem, I mean I should have but I didn't, I was so stupid back then. I jump to the conclusion that she didn't want to be friends with me anymore. Bcha we ended up hanging out with different people I wasn't happy with my 'new'friends back then but she looked happy so I started faking it. But at the end of that year we started talking and her friends were playing and laughing together, she was looking at them and suddenly she started telling me how she doesn't belong with them and that it has been long since she laughed like that and all. I mean I wasn't happy too but I didn't tell her cuz deep down I was still mad at her, cuz when she became distant I thought she didn't want to hang out with me, I mean we were so happy together. Although I didn't show it I was heartbroken. Then she started telling me that she missed me and in my mind I was like 'I miss you too' I wanted to kiss her and slap her at the same time cuz she did that to her self. and she told me that she was sorry for giving up on us and she would like to get back together. And my dumb ass was like 'no you didn't have to apologize, and no we can't be together again' and we started acting like that conversation never happened. In 9th grade or sth we were paired up for a lab assignment and we were cool and casual at first but there was this tension between like I've always wanted to kiss her cuz she was pretty and all but I didn't know she wanted to kiss me too. Long story short we ended up making out at school and then my room after-school and we never talked about that too again. And I transferred to another school and it bothers me that I didn't tell her she meant a lot to me, it bothers me that I didn't show her how I felt when I had the chance, it bothers me that I didn't do all the things I could've done because I was scared when I had her in my arms. And it bothers me that maybe we had sth special and we didn't do anything about it.

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So there is something big that happend in my life recently ...and it's bugging me since I've heard the shit..bcha I know it won't pass but i couldn't stop worrying bout it..i constantly feel chest pain and my stomach hurt too yaw constant anxiety has been going on for the last 3 weeks ema temut le dekika alrsaawm ...bcha I have responsibilities to do and I have to enjoy my friends dmo eskahun alasdbrkuachwm eyasmslku but I know I will get tired of it ...how can i make it stop ..like the problem won't go away but can the anxiety can go??

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Hi guys I'm 24 year old Male, the thing is i don't know how to gate a girl friend.
Ina endate new ke αˆ΄α‰Άα‰½ ga mawurat yemichilew, magignets yemchilew yet new? betam hasab hunobignal, setochin mawurat alichilim , yeset fikeregna lemagignet min madireg alebign? I am orthodox,
please help me... thanks!

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Hi (female17yrs)
Iamin a bad mood like always .Thething is I can't seem to get over my insecurities.SometimesI think about suicide but i ain't got the nerves to do it I wish there was some other painless way of suicide and other times I think about giving my soul to the devil (illuminates) but real illuminati magegnet alchakum they r all fake ...letmejust describe my hell loop.Ihave a beautiful sis and i hate her not bcoz she's pretty but bcuz she likes it when ppl compare us n say nice things to her .Shealways care about herself even though I am her sis she doesn't feel any empathy.Ifell worthless I always feel that way that's y i even started working my ass off to get good grades and to be worth sth now I am one of those remarkable students at my school but still I feel worthless what do I gotta do to be happy huh?Ihave tried to convince my self that i am beautiful just the way i am and that i shouldn't care about anybody's opinion but shit doesn't work like that i just can't stop giving a fuck about what the society thinks of me ...andalso I have a bf he loves me he's so caring but we r in a ldt n i don't even know why he likes me I mean he says I am smart pretty blah blah and that he's glad to have me but i don't see myself that way also some guys have told me I'm cute n have showed interest but those guys r not my type malete I dont have any feelings toward them and the ones I like don't want me it's like rejection is my best friend I make the first move and i always get rejected so i set a principle for myself not to ever make a move on a guy ....yepalso i have acne issues konjo ngr neberku eko but acne scars came n ruined it .itslike the universe doesn t want me to live happily I mean srsly why me ...nI also came from a poor family so i ain't got shit anyways I just wanted to get this off my chest guys plz help me tell me what to do with my life ...Idkmaybe Real illuminate kalu suggest me (whatdo I care about I have got nth to lose after all????)orany way I could feel worthy of sth Idk give me ur tots esti

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Am a 21 yo boy who's struggling to live an ordinary life. the problem is am HIV positive, i have been living like this since i was born and now i want a relationship, a serious relationship but since i am like this i couldnt be in relationship with any one i like or find around me. i know it might seem exaggerated but i really want to have a serious relationship with whom i can build a happy family. so i dont know what to do or how to get out of this kind of depression , i keep blaming my family and God for putting me through this but blaming wont change any thingπŸ˜”

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So I've experienced lots of things through out my life based on relationships and maturity but there's one question that always runs around my mind and I want to know everyone's opinions on this, When does a Woman mature? Like this question actually goes both ways but I'm more interested about the woman aspect (maybe coz I'm a guy). So like when we're in high school, we don't even usually use the term "Woman" to begin with because they haven't really seen the true meaning of life and almost all of them change after they go out into the world after high school. So almost all of them aren't mature in highschool. And then there's Campus, after we go to campus especially if it's a university out of our hometown, we have lotssss of freedom in our hands and we do things we would never do if we were living with our parents, and we see and experience lots of new things so then we just might call her a Woman because she'll kinda start to see things more clearly and for what they really are. But still I haven't really seen anyone that I can call mature in my 4 years in campus now. And then there's the Work life, and idk if this is with all the ladies but I have friends that graduated in 3 years and started working and everything and judging from what I'm seeing, the have a hard time moving on from the irrelevant and temporary fun and games we have in campus and the don't move on to be a better version of themselves. So I can't really call them mature to. So when can we call a Woman mature is a very confusing question for me.πŸ€” I'm sorry if it sounds offensive but I just had to askπŸ˜„. Any opinions on this is much appreciated. And it'd be great if I could get both the Men and Woman's opinions. Thanks✌️

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Hi okay so am a 17 yr old girl currently in life am doing good actually better than I have ever been, no reason to smash my head in.

I was hanging out with my friends to realize that am the only single one and it got me thinking do I want that? And honestly , I don’t want the β€œnormal” relationships. I don’t want to be crazy in love or butterflies, right now all I want is fun , I want calm and healthy communication with the understanding that no expectations, no pressure , no obligations yet being able to talk with that person like intimately and vibing I guess. Someone who I can talk about books and movies and life in general. But when I told my friends they said it sounded a lot like friends with benefits but I don’t think so.... anyway this person who would be down for this is practical non existent so I should give up and live my life right ? What do u think

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Hey im 22 F. So my q is do i have hope for relationship?
- Tseym
- Medical student
- Wish to marry be teklil, I respect my religion and I want my partner to do that too.
- Love my country, enjoy knowing more abt my country and history.
- Into sports...Football, swimming, Car race
- I really enjoy visiting monasteries, and other historical places in Ethiopia.
- Medium height

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Hmm I need ur help. And pls don't juge me just listen to me. I have had many boy-friend's in the past some sweet and good others not so much but after a while I started to have feeling for girls. I would blush or have fantasy abut them like in a good way. Then I had this best friend and we were rly close and I fell for her like deep I hated it when she had a boyfriend and all that but I never told her after years of getting disconnected we connected again and I had those feelings again then as usual I pushed her away hoping the feeling would stop but it didn't not a single bit. Now a days I was thinking may be I should be wiz a girl and see what it actually is. Uk if I am just curious or its true I like girls and guys. What do y'all think?

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Hello everyone, I'm 24 and I'm an introvert guy. I have never dated or kissed anyone which makes me feel kinda bad and all the social media influence, movies and shows are not helping, plus I'm the only guy in my group not to experience those things. I've been told some girls had a crush on me in high school but I was too blind to see it at the time because I had a huge crush on this other girl. My friends advise me to put my self out there by getting outside my comfort zone and putting in some effort but I'm to reluctant to do that because of my introvert behavior. Other than this my life is pretty good, I am healthy, I have loving family and friends, I make a decent amount of money, so basically I'm here today to ask if there's a way to stop this feeling inside of me that wants to experience relationship, dating and stuff cause I don't have the energy to put in the work.

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Well it might be a little thing but I'm happy today I went out alone.im most of the time alone I pick the places no one eats at when I go In so that no one can bother me and today I did the same thing but people started to get in to the place I was in they were all boys.after awhile durye mimeslu sewodoch kebebugn beka I was so uncomfortable.i couldnt leave I have already ordered food so I ate it was peaceful andachew metww yanagrugnal bye ferche neber but they didn't.they were talking about foot ball beka I was happy and i left.for those boys thank u for not making me uncomfortable glad to know there are people like this

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Hey...am a girl 25.
And all my life i tried so hard to make it work with guys even if i only see guys as friends and am not sexually attracted at all...i think am asexual and romantically attracted to only females...and sometimes i just wish i live in the westerns cuz i would probably be dating right now but here...i have to always hide a huge part of me and act like am just waiting for the right guy for the people around me ????????????...and they think am shy and yebet lej who don't date around as her peers...but the thing is the more u grow up the more u realize things about urself and i just wish that i have my girl around me.
Am a very knowledge driven person who is into philosophy,astrology,art,fashion and i love smoking kush sometimes and i just want my kind of girl ...that weirdo who loves to talk about the moon and ths sky with me...am tired of all this niggas with balls hanging bothering me everytime...and its really hard to date in ethio when u r part of the lgbtq+...i wish there was like a dating site for us.

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Hi guys
I dont know if this things work but i am just try to get ride of my mind
Here is the thing this past month i meet with beautiful girl she is new employee and we just start talking ,going walk together and we just taking about relationships so ya i liked her betammm but we are different in many thing for example i like fun thing i little bit drinking onece in a week i like dancing music but she doesn't like any thing we have the same religion ya she is strong religious. What should i do guys need advice

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i am a 14 year old girl living in condominium...ena chat ekimalew always...i enjoy chat mekam..ahun rasu eyekamku new mawarachu....chat kemekame yetenesa tirse beyesusim key honual.. ena sewoch endet arge chat makom endalebign bitnegrugn ..tlantna film eyeyehu kamku shint betm kuch biye sikm neber ....nege alkimim biyalew neger gn lenege biye zare belecho gezichalew....agote chat yikimal....chat goji new ofcourse....gn sus yasizal ..opiumim ewesdalew....lelochim negeroch adrigiyalew.. ena sewoch mn tilalachu beyesusim esti erdugn ....amesegnalew

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Okay so i never really thought i would be here writing a vent but here i am: so i am a young male in his early 20s and i have always been very insecure about my body i am what you would consider fat and i am kind of tall too and i dont even know where to start to just let my emotions out, my entire life i have been fat and my family has always made sure i always knew that i mean not that they are doing anything to hurt me but they were concerned since i was little so i always grew up thinking there is something wrong with me that needed to fixed you know and dont even get me started on the comments, all the fun people make of you you would think that you would get used to but that is never the case its just a never ending of feeling sad and trying to hid your emotions when people/relatives tell you something about your weight. you know what my worst experience is its when a realtive comes to visit specially a relative i havent seen for a long time just hearing in my house that this certain person is coming would put me in a awful deperession because i know what they will say the second they see me and i always dont know how to act when that happens. and i always look confident and all specially around my friends i dont seem to care about my weight because i dont want people to feel pitty for me but there are some friends that just know and i can see them always choosing their words trying not to offend me and i really appreciate that, besides that i have never told anyone how i feel about this and it has been eating me inside my whole life, i have had all of these episodes where i would cry, distance myself, be very defensive when a family brings this up and all that all because i was trying to protect my emotions, i dont really date because i think i am not attractive enough to date desipite hearing a lot of good things from girls and all they would always say i look very gracious and they really love that and i have girls crushing on me regularly but i would just push them away even if i want to be with them because of this, anyways i just needed to get this off my chest just writting this made me feel better and for everyone who reads please please be very very mindful of your words, i have never met an overweight person that is 100% cool with their body they might look like that but we all feel something not just to overweight people just dont comment on peoples appearances, thank you.

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Am done yewunt ....i don't even wanna explain ma self any more am absolutely fucking done....i ain't fucking kidding i don't want to be here any more why don't i ever have the courage to just end it instead off waiting for a "God" that's clearly doesn't even fucking care .......it's so fucking clear eko i don't belong in this fucked up piss off shit ppl call earth ...just because ma old man decided to nut instead i am here and they expect me to be hppy abt it ....am not fucking hppy ...it amazes me how fucked up i am ...how can some one be this anxious , unhppy , just fucked up so bad that always going around looking for smtn bad to happen to me a fucking comma and i just be not here any more am only 22 and i don't even think i leave to be 23 ...the worst part is it's not because am going to kill ma self no no ...it's because am going to die inside and am just gonna give up on everything but i will not hv the fucking guts to end it all ....i wanna scream ...wanna fucking explode ....am done ...because of this i hv excluded all ma frds i don't hv any one any more ....i hv a bf but am giving up on him too this is wht happens i just shut everybdy out ...i don't want to i want to talk to him but i hate crying in front of ppl i am only used to crying on my own since 7th grd i hv got used to comforting ma self don't need anybdy else .....ma bf got me used to talking to him everyday aftr a long time i felt like i don't hv to hied that am broke any more but because of external factors we can no longer meet up everyday and he got bizzy wiz school and everything i get it eko gn i need him but at the same time i feel like am might be to clingy or he might be bizzy .....i know some of u might say whts new but trust me it's not as esay as u might think it is .....bottom line is i want it to end who ever is fucking in charge end me ...for the fuck sake take me now am done

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So my question is
Why do mens cheat???
i dont really get it koy does cheating makes you any cooler ende....??

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So how y'all doin

This is not actually a vent but Question to y'all who ever tried forex/day trading

I understand that forex has it's own risk as you go with leverage, i can read the charts and spot bearish and bullish indicators i can calculate pip movement also but i couldn't get myself to join the market

My questions are as follows
-how to join the market?
-What platform do you use?
-what brokerage do you use?
-with how much investment you started either $/ETB?
-what currency pair do you often trade?
-how do you link you acc with brokerage account?
-how do you make deposit to your brokerage?
-and ofc the most important question how do you withdraw the profits?

Any tip is warmly welcomed!!!

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