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Hey there. I just wanted to talk about a topic that is widely being spread across the country, sexual fluidity. No am not here to say am apart of this community and no am not gonna preach to u that it's a sin and u should be ashamed( you already have ppl for that). Am just trying to understand what guides people, so many of them these days to walk down that narrow road- actually more like wide with all the genders and stuff. I am glad that people of our generation have broke out of the generational ideologies and have taken upon their own, thinking for themselves and what not but I don't like how easily people find themselves unable to control the single most basic instinctual drive they have just for being a human. Again not here to judge anyone I just don't understand why everyone feels the need to make sex everything about their lives. It's really not complex- sex is an act performed to make babies why put so much effort to mixing up sex with ur undefined emotions, emotions u still have no idea where they generate from, they maybe be of influence of movies or some mental health issues or even societal restrictions. We of course want something we can't have. But my point is for an unrealized youth why would u want to commit all of ur energy into choosing who to have sex with? You must know your actions and momentary thoughts can not be your identity so it surely can't be cause your Fighting for your identity. I too am a victim of irrational drives, that grunting disgusting animalistic behavior that lurks in the deeper construct of the human brain has its grasp on me too. But failing to recognize gives way to even more unspeakable horrors to come. Contemplate on these words think through your brain, maybe it's not a bad thing to have all the freedom in the world. a free dog in the woods is much scared and hungry and then again a dog in a cage is hopeless, but a dog in a field with a fence and good food is the happiest.

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Hello am 22 M
I want to ask a question. have any one lost feeling when you are in a relationship?am just depressed and have no desire for any thing. do you think i need a casual thing and there is no problem with her .and for girls out there is it normal for you just to be friend do the thing no feeling attached

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This is a question....mostly for uni students....senior honesh( a girl ) ke junior ga mawerat megenagnet or even relationship mejemer cheger alew or debari neger nw....set setehogni bebezat des milew ke anchi kef yalew ga nw....lewendoch demo keneseu yanesech newa.....so tell me wat do u think is it bad talking to ur junior when ur a senior girl or even starting a relationship or myb flirting.....I wanna knw ur thoughts on this

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Hello, I've lately been having troubles. Like my mind is not coordinating properly. I make mistakes that I don't want to they mostly appear when I write anything. I don't understand things anymore like I listen to people and my mind has processed it I know it but when I have to apply it takes ages. I literally end up laughing sometimes wondering how did I even make such mistakes and sometimes I'm crying out of embarrassment for people mistake me as a dumb minimum IQ level person. I swear, I know things but practically I don't. I don't even know how to say it. I read books, but I realise I didn't even read them. I don't remember things properly. I wouldn't have really realized but people look at me with this surprised look as in what is wrong with me! People don't bother me, it's just I myself am not able to understand why the hell is this happening. It's been 2-3 months. I don't know what is going on with me. Does anybody know what I might be going through? And do I need to consult a doctor or a psychiatrist or neurologist or what?
Just a little example, if you'll Tell me to write 'fridge' i know the spelling but I'll struggle to write it and Will even make stupid mistakes like 'furgde' or something. The paper I write on has tons of corrections despite me being aware of it. What the hell is this😕 i thought it is a Small problem but my profession requires meticulous paperwork and stuff and I can't afford such mistakes. I'm so blank always staring space. Why is this happening!!

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Hello guys
am girl 22 uni student at one of the first generation uni's in Ethiopia am not here to vent about any sexual stuff nor about relationships or family problem so let's keep this short so the thing is I want to study medicine but I got other health when matric came through .so I was a bit disappointed but not sad being just part of it made me happy and am studying what I want in other health dep. But the thing is I was good at TD when I was in high school and also thought about studying architecture so now a days am having some thought weather I made the right choice or not is it just me or u all have this thoughts and how do u deal with them.
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Hello
I just want the person i love to love me the way I love him and give me attention and appreciate me I know it pathetic but that’s it

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Hi guys so am a 1st year law student in one of the universities and am planning on starting another degree in correspondence . What I wanted to learn was International relations and global studies but I didn't find any school that gives the field in correspondence.
For all the lawyers and law students what field should I study that works well with law ?
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Hey every one ...am trying ma best but sometimes it aint enough i dont know why am failure as daughter ,as a friend,as a gf like all time ..trust me am trying all the time but it aint good enough ..am not happy ..ma mood swings all z time .. i used to be a shy girl n ppl think i cant defend ma self n they talk down to me when i say "why u talk like that" they just say like "mnew kefash" wtf ..maybe for them its joke or simple thing but men its hurts tho ...
In relationship ,friendship dont do over thing like they hate it ...fr asmsay swe newe yastelagn ..yasbulegnal yemelachew sewoch sayker they against me ..leka allthe time they are pretenders ...bswoch mehal hono bechegneten endemfelge metfo semt yelm,endalmfelge ,endalmetawes ker yemiyasgn neger yelm..keswe mehal sew yehone swe atahugn ensew fail aderkugn ...mesasaten ayto yezenelgn yesakebgn alakem,eskene metfo yemibalu baherye yekebelgn aykebelgn alakem,judge medrgun,value almederge,almkebere,endemdeberya mekoter like everything ke family prb chemro fight eyaderkut newe yeah am tired of everything but u knw rasen sayat tasazengnalch rasen yemredawen yahel lelochen lemredat yemehonewn selmawek (am too much)wey leben awetcha masayew binor elalew i guess yehe alem le nice heart mnm bota yelewm✌️

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Hey, I'm 18 yrs old girl when i was 16 i had a boyfriend and we used to perform alots of staff like we kiss and he used to play with my bobs...about 30min we always do this...after a year we broke up because i said i don't want that relation , even we don't talk anything the whole week but when we meet we act like married person...when he starts playing with my bobs ,that get me sooo wet and i can't forget him when ever i see movies i still think about him ...my big problem is i can't fall a sleep without imagining about him...he still loves me i know but i don't wanna start our relationship again what do u guys suggest me can u tell me because i can't focus on my stay...it's killing me inside

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Can a person love two people at the same time?
I recently broke up with the man i called the love of my life
And now my bff confessed to me ofc i rejected but i realised i feel the same level of comfort i felt with my ex
I wasn't mad because he fall for me mnamn
Bcha ahun lay Its obvious that i am not over my ex but i realized i also feel something for my bestie too which is confusing
I cried about breaking up with my ex even here in the vent here channel multiple times so how can i have feelings for someone else this quick
Or im i just desperate for love

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Am a girl soon to be 20 and the thing is am simping a lot lately. I mean if I get this slightest feeling that somebody is going to even check on me boom I will be all nice, be the one who starts conversations, who will give a care and all which by the way I hate if i see somebody doing the same. So help me out on how to stop this crap behavior of mine and contented by my own company.

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Why is it so hard to forget you...the more I try to forget you, the more I get drawn to you...and you still haven't talked to me yet...I went to the place you took me last time and you weren't there. But found you somewhere else sitting alone...whenever I see you on the streets, wanted you to stop me...and always wanted(actually wished) you to call me but you didn't.... maybe you really got bored of me... I hate myself for feeling like this and for not being able to forget you and take you out of my mind...and don't worry for your up-coming quali, you are going to great. I know you will.

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Hey yall so I start my loosing fat journey since Last year , so the thing is I couldn't lose that much weight, and I start doing workouts on and off. And I heard sth that weight lifting is good for weightloss and I start doin that. I start doin weight lifting , HIIT workouts, cardio . But I focus on weightlifting more ,I start loosing some I lose 5 kg, I feel so excited and a lot , so to hit my goal I start going more but after 2 month my weight is stuck there, no gain no loss for continuous 4 months, I work a lot I workout for 2 hours ntn. Dont say its the food u eating ,i can sign my hands and legs i eat like 700 cal a day . So i used to workout at home so I shift to gym then at first i didn't want gym trainer activitys couse I tought I cant lose that much weight and it would be waste of time. So one day it was chest day , I was doin my thing and one older dude ( I am 17 btw) he would be 44 or sth he asks wht's my goal so I told him to lose fat , and he and his friend said this will never help , it makes u stronger but not flexible, it only keeps ur body as its shape, it will make not to lose that much weight. Ur body will stay there ezaw balebet u wont lose that much fat , it will only keeps u stronger. I feel so attacked. I felt shock. He so in fit body . I used to weight lift for almost a year and anything didn't happen. And I said him but weightlifting makes u gain muscle so u will lose weight, and he say it will make us body to stay there so I accept and go to somewhere to calm my self and the gym trainer comes and ask me whtsup and I say does weightlifting doesn't make u lose weight, and he say same thing it wont help. Rather focus on more cardio and HIIt and aerobics exercises. I was gonna fent , all this years 😭😭, so lemme ask u guys sth does weight lifting doesn't make u lose that much weight. Pls tell me esp if there are ppl who lose weight due to exercise?? Help ur sister I am so depressed 😭😭

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So I'm a high school senior, and what I want to study in uni is architecture. BUT I can't draw shit(they say it doesn't matter but like flagot yasfeligal ye drawing?) and we couldn't even take TD classes cuz timirt minister didn't even decide whether we should learn or not so here I am asking for any youtube vids/channels you think are helpful for beginners or any advices you would give if you're an arc student or you've already graduated. It'd mean a lot!

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I panic everytime I get reminded that my family will die one day and when I do my heart breaks in to millions of pieces over and over again. I just really really don't think I can cope with it when that news comes, I love my mom and dad so much and I don't think I can cope with the idea of them getting so old and dying. This is really really scaring me and I'm so sick of getting heartbroken and depressed about it. I know I have to learn to make peace with it but I don't know how and I'm so scared help me. I'm a girl 20, btw.

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Nowadays, I see a lot of hate towards society and it's become normal to the point no one is arguing abt it. Specifically in sexuality, gender and issues like that. I understand and sympathize with people who don't fall easily into gender categories or whatever but I don't think society set standards (e.g being a man) to exclude or shame or anything like that. Maybe you can see it this way. From the moment we become self-conscious we started to focus and explore our inmates and group members, how they act and how they respond to their Env't stimuli. By imitation and abstraction, we compare and contrast ourselves with others around us. Why? B/c we are highly social animals and we are evolved to do so. But compare on what bases? We see the one who is highly successful being chosen by the female and respected in the group. He got all the resources and the serotonin to enjoy. How did he do that? We can abstract his character, persona, mental, physical and moral qualities. So we did that for thousands and thousands of year's (cheering and studying the best of best) and now we have these archetypes, dramatised and expressed in d/t stories and myths, which we can relate to ourselves. These stories help us to differentiate, value and develop what we should value currently from various things what we must value in life. We live in a society where social hierarchy is inevitable as long as there is competition. (e.g boys compete with boys for girls (vice-versa) and we all compete for stable life) So some occupy the top and many stays at the bottom where all seek social justice and social change 😁. Why complain about the rules guys, just play the game. Life is not fair for all of us. Why identify yourself as something new and complicated when you can't prove yourself. You Play the victim game and then hide behind groups or communities to cover your resentful and vengeful mind. Be the hero and change the anthem. The good thing in the 21st century is you got a lot of options and competitions to prove yourself.

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There's this guy am friends with benefits with.... it started after I had a rough break up and he was there for me ena it just happened we were drinking it was an instinct we kissed at first after the kiss I knew I'm not ready for another relationship mnamn so i told him i just wanna let loose all the time and he was like i got u.... we did a lot of things which i cant say but we are very honest abt what we feel and that it's always physical no strings attached... it went on for 8 months. for other ppl we look like couples he would introduce me as his girl mnamn becha it was really fun ik we did drink a lot but as time went by he made me forget my pain and we were working on bettering ourselves. Then yehone time lay he started dating someone I dont wanna lie, it did bug me like damn I knew it was gonna happen but ok here we go ngr then I backed away completly because I felt like I owe this woman he is dating a respect so setefa he was like what's wrong with u dont do this mnamn he would call non stop so I felt like I want to be straight honest with him n told him that he is right to start dating and I should do the same .. I didn't mean it tho what I really meant was I'm falling for you dont leave me but I cant say that... I cried over him, he dont know that I've rejected ppl because of him.. I'm sad when he is sad am happy when he is happy betam new yemewedew... my feelings got deeper demo when he called me at his friends wedding drunk telling me he cant help but picture us getting married, that he thinks we are great together mnamn...my heart melted that night I told him I can picture us too. But the next morning he was a completely different person broo he was like did I call you last night ????becha ahun yalew situation my jealousy made me seek out to ppl I've rejected before n he watches my ig story like betammm uh what should i do i love him eko

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So there was this girl from my previous school and we were kinda besties since grade 2 and we kinda drift apart because of some boy drama in 6th grade. I mean he was her boyfriend and they broke up over sth I don't remember now. but she was so mad at me for talking with him and all but she didn't say nothing and instead gave me the silent treatment expecting me to figure out the problem, I mean I should have but I didn't, I was so stupid back then. I jump to the conclusion that she didn't want to be friends with me anymore. Bcha we ended up hanging out with different people I wasn't happy with my 'new'friends back then but she looked happy so I started faking it. But at the end of that year we started talking and her friends were playing and laughing together, she was looking at them and suddenly she started telling me how she doesn't belong with them and that it has been long since she laughed like that and all. I mean I wasn't happy too but I didn't tell her cuz deep down I was still mad at her, cuz when she became distant I thought she didn't want to hang out with me, I mean we were so happy together. Although I didn't show it I was heartbroken. Then she started telling me that she missed me and in my mind I was like 'I miss you too' I wanted to kiss her and slap her at the same time cuz she did that to her self. and she told me that she was sorry for giving up on us and she would like to get back together. And my dumb ass was like 'no you didn't have to apologize, and no we can't be together again' and we started acting like that conversation never happened. In 9th grade or sth we were paired up for a lab assignment and we were cool and casual at first but there was this tension between like I've always wanted to kiss her cuz she was pretty and all but I didn't know she wanted to kiss me too. Long story short we ended up making out at school and then my room after-school and we never talked about that too again. And I transferred to another school and it bothers me that I didn't tell her she meant a lot to me, it bothers me that I didn't show her how I felt when I had the chance, it bothers me that I didn't do all the things I could've done because I was scared when I had her in my arms. And it bothers me that maybe we had sth special and we didn't do anything about it.

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So there is something big that happend in my life recently ...and it's bugging me since I've heard the shit..bcha I know it won't pass but i couldn't stop worrying bout it..i constantly feel chest pain and my stomach hurt too yaw constant anxiety has been going on for the last 3 weeks ema temut le dekika alrsaawm ...bcha I have responsibilities to do and I have to enjoy my friends dmo eskahun alasdbrkuachwm eyasmslku but I know I will get tired of it ...how can i make it stop ..like the problem won't go away but can the anxiety can go??

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Hi guys I'm 24 year old Male, the thing is i don't know how to gate a girl friend.
Ina endate new ke ሴቶች ga mawurat yemichilew, magignets yemchilew yet new? betam hasab hunobignal, setochin mawurat alichilim , yeset fikeregna lemagignet min madireg alebign? I am orthodox,
please help me... thanks!

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Iamin a bad mood like always .Thething is I can't seem to get over my insecurities.SometimesI think about suicide but i ain't got the nerves to do it I wish there was some other painless way of suicide and other times I think about giving my soul to the devil (illuminates) but real illuminati magegnet alchakum they r all fake ...letmejust describe my hell loop.Ihave a beautiful sis and i hate her not bcoz she's pretty but bcuz she likes it when ppl compare us n say nice things to her .Shealways care about herself even though I am her sis she doesn't feel any empathy.Ifell worthless I always feel that way that's y i even started working my ass off to get good grades and to be worth sth now I am one of those remarkable students at my school but still I feel worthless what do I gotta do to be happy huh?Ihave tried to convince my self that i am beautiful just the way i am and that i shouldn't care about anybody's opinion but shit doesn't work like that i just can't stop giving a fuck about what the society thinks of me ...andalso I have a bf he loves me he's so caring but we r in a ldt n i don't even know why he likes me I mean he says I am smart pretty blah blah and that he's glad to have me but i don't see myself that way also some guys have told me I'm cute n have showed interest but those guys r not my type malete I dont have any feelings toward them and the ones I like don't want me it's like rejection is my best friend I make the first move and i always get rejected so i set a principle for myself not to ever make a move on a guy ....yepalso i have acne issues konjo ngr neberku eko but acne scars came n ruined it .itslike the universe doesn t want me to live happily I mean srsly why me ...nI also came from a poor family so i ain't got shit anyways I just wanted to get this off my chest guys plz help me tell me what to do with my life ...Idkmaybe Real illuminate kalu suggest me (whatdo I care about I have got nth to lose after all????)orany way I could feel worthy of sth Idk give me ur tots esti

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