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Let get straight to the point am 22 girl the thing is idk what to say gn am in relationship but the way I still deny i have a boyfriend when i first met him i put him in friend zone but he don't want that and we start relationship thing which is uncomfortable for me and i still pretend i kinda like it but he knows am taking steps back but he still working on me every day i put my energy together to tell him as sorry and i don't want this relationship but idk am afraid that i will eventually kill all his happiness he tell me he is happy abt the thing that we have he talks abt marriage menamn he is good to be friend but he am not really sure I need a guy like him to live my whole life just help me I know may be you would insult me but tell how to quit this thing and also I have somebody whom I love the most but we are not together in some case may b we will never be may b we will but help me just to quit this thing help and asap I don't want to stress my self out

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why does it keep getting harder . Every year i think this year will get better. But the challenges get harder . I guess this is growing up . I am tired of questioning myself, i am tired of being the third person in my own life . I want control , i want to be better and i've tried . I don't know where to start . Some were good, but most were bad . And now i feel like I need help. I admit. And i didn't know where to ask or who to ask.
Does anybody know a certified psychologist here in Addis . I've seen you guys mention some here can i get the information please .

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So I'm a 24 year old female...my problem is that I lost almost all sensation in my clitoris and its really worrying me....medical professional and girls out there who have experienced this somehow I'd really appreciate some advice...I don't know what to do.

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I suddenly realized how alone I am. Amidst of everything and everyone, I am alone. I wish to look for a shoulder to lean on and then I realize I'll only need that shoulder till I'm sad once I'm alright, that shoulder will become a liability, yes that's how cruel I am.

I've never felt so alone, I can see how irritating I can get but then I can see how stupid it is to take out my anger on anyone else for no reason.

I've never felt so alone... I want a little warmth and care but I don't want to ask for it, a little hug or a little pat on shoulder, "it's going to be fine", but I think I've built very high walls for people to climb over or even me to climb over.

I've never felt so alone... I'm giving people stuff and helping for no reason to the extent that they might think I'm stupid and a pushover, but I just perhaps want to believe I can make a difference, if I'm not needed I can still set series of changes around me, perhaps I'm reassuring myself, it's going to be fine.

I've never felt so alone, I laugh, I show every emotion, I do everything yet I can clearly see how aloof I'm, I'm in depth of something lost and losing.

I've never felt so alone.

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Mnorew ke ayate ga nw keza betam konjo negn dream girl mnamn long dark hair cute face got the body mnamn ena personality ena i met this guy sefer wst bzu alotam afralew ena he approached me mnamn keza salasbew megbabat jemern ena hulunm ngr esu nbr yasjemeregn I'm 26 ena he's 31 ena beka abren gize masalef jemern mnamn ayate hula fkr yzoshal wey esktlegn beka he was so sweet handsome wendawend mnamn beka uff???? i was happy and all till i found out he's married and got 2 kids i saw a pic of them ena tset alkut eskahun alnbrkutn i ghosted him mnamn ena when i found out he's married i was sad af mnamn ayate teyekechgn ena i told her everything asayehuat the pic ena the worst part is yet to come.....he is married to "my mom"
Like wttffff? WTFFFFFFFFF wat kinda life is this? Guys i really don't know wat ro do besmam labd nw hiwete bande nw yetekeyerew enenja gra gebtognal eskezare enaten salakat madege ykochegn nbr mnm bihon enate nat bye ahun gn balaweku noro photown balayehu noro alku ????????????????????????????????????

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I’m married 31 soon to be 32. My wife is like my mom she take care of me like a mother and also she is 11 years older than me. We have two kids. I see her as a mother figure not like a wife. I fell out of love with her. And I realllyy love this girl seferachn west. Betam nw mafkrat ena gn married ena ljoch endalugn yemetakew ngr yelem. We haven’t been taking this days idrk what happened but I’m thinking of divorcing my wife and starting a new life with her. She is like the only person that gets me and I feel free and loved around her. I'm ready to risk it all just for her.
I wanna tell her that I'm married but I'll let her go and marry her if she's willing to marry me but idk but she's been ignoring my calls ghosting me and all these days I'm confused guys mn larg

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I neva spoke my mind enough but Only heaven knows how much I feen for u, feel for you, how her heart still beats for u.. If u ask if i'm ok i will say yes then ask me how i feel n i will tell u it still hurts but u won't.. I will dig my sadness out n engrave it somewhere else away from u ..they say wats love with out pain n So you luv urs n I don't Mine,I lied buhu ..the night times depresses me now cuz the sky is Still blue n I see you..
But is cool. u just do u.Thas all.

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I (22F) keep making bad choices after bad choices and i need to make a change in almost all areas of my life.


(Summary)i cheat, i lie, i am a terrible friend,i have no real connection with anyone, i have a bad gpa and im wasting my time, money and more
Some examples of my bad choices:-

i hardly study( I’m an engineering major ) i can honestly say i don’t know a single thing and My gpa for my major is 2.4( i have two years left idk ifs enough time to raise to a 3.0 mark)and my parents think I’m still top of my class and never ask for grade reports because they are very confident about me

, i have a part time job but i skip it for no reason , put no effort, always go late, i even got caught smoking in the bathroom once, i did manage to save around 10k within 5 months at some point ( i don’t have to pay tuition, my parents also fund my other needs) but ended up blowing it all on eating out , weed and robbortripping and drinking within a month and now i have about 500 left.

I cheated multiple times on my ex bf (23M) whom i was with from freshman year of high-school to first year college, he finally left and i got together with a guy i cheated on him with, we are still together 1+year we are in love Butt i went out on two different dates with 2 other dudes ( i didn’t do anything physical with them but still)

I self sabotage i don’t like when anyone tries to help me, i get really offended with the gentlest of criticisms, i am super indecisive i even get really angry when people ask me simple questions like what do u wanna eat or do or sth

I have lost 3 really good friends because i was inappropriate with their bfs.

So yeah I’m a mess.

Going forward i just want to improve my grades, stop cheating, stop wasting money, make a genuine connection and build friendship with women and just do better as whole. I am considering therapy ( eventho idk anyone IRL who has gone to therapy )but other than that I’m seeking for any thoughts , advice or help on how to do that.

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Truth of the matter is well....
Idk anymore I don't...it was when I was 50 feet in the air hanging from the railing, my hands were sweaty the wind was blowing my hair and I couldn't let go the waterfalls were coming and call me a retard but the only thing that came to mind was the man I was inevitably supposed to end up with.. lunatic of me ikik...I couldn't help it. The woman that came into my life always asked me if I did love a man and I had this smile that was filled with pain behind it and I always said no and it made my heartache. Even if it didn't last or I wasn't the mother of his beautiful kids it would've been a privilege from me to say you know what I did love man. I eventually got off the railing and walked I felt numb but even if I did let go that sunset was breathtakingly beautiful. You ask why I was hanging down and why I got back up well. Constant abuse at a young age physically sexually, mentally takes a toll on you, being kicked out of the house, running away, constant insults and all of that fuckery. Why did I get back up well I wanted to meet him...I did..Now I won't tell him what happened... Its irrelevant to talk about.. But I will tell him eventually but not yet not right away at least...... And uk fucking what I'm one hell of a woman id want people saying she would've died at an early age.. I have med school, bills, and all of that mess but I'm stronger than titanium I'll tell u that...

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So it's mostly me talking to myself out loud.
So these days I'm facing difficulties, how so? You know, I'm being looked down up on and I very well know I deserve it due to my incompetency. So yes, I can call anyone mean or anything because they don't really tell me anything but I can sense how I'm dragging everyone down instead of helping.

Now what made me write this vent is actually this realization that I recently made.

With all the behavior around me, the firsts of things I'm experiencing made me see an ugly version of myself. You know, first I wanted to look for anyone to just make me feel good maybe by appreciating me so I tried art, songs, poetry and all.. You know I told myself I'm just letting my frustrations out but I guess I was actually looking for validation.

Then, when it wore down, I realized I'm beginning to look down on people (really for no real reason) may be to make myself feel better or may be to make myself feel like I'm above them or something like that.

And when I realized how I'm becoming, it was devastating. I really despise people who use the term ugly to describe people, I never ever have believed anyone is ugly... But the me right now, did it.. I did it, you can't believe how ugly I felt.

I think I understood a version of people who are condescending, how helpless they are. How powerless they must feel.

I don't want to become someone ill despise forever. Maybe these tough times will last a little longer but I really hope I want lose my humanity in the process.

Being kind in this world is a blessing, so if you're.. You're blessed.

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Hi, I am a 21 yrs old university student...and the reason that I'm venting here is that idk but I have several issues regarding to making friends like I'm the most talkative person in the university and since I talk to girls a lot many ppl call me a player even though I'm not😊😊...but the point is regarding to the statements above like I have said no one approaches like a real friend and for that reason I'm feeling kinda lonely...so please Is there someone who can help me out regarding to making REAL friends....Tnx for your help mates👍👍

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So the thing is I want new friends. Am a girl btw. And am not good with girls I only have one bestie n my boyfriend who is a lot more for me.... whenever I met a new person they'll ghost me after they know I've a boyfriend.... I want a guy friend who don't have any other intention beside being my best friend please help me out

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Ok so guys I am like this talkative honest kind of girl who talks all about her life and not talk about her life at the same time to ppl she met like 5 min ago and to hive u an over view I am kinda of beautiful ok so here is the thing I don't feel like any kind of empathy for ppl u may say I am selfish but it's just that I try to make my self feel empathy but I just can't and I am starting to even ask myself if I am a human anymore anyone who can relate or any advice that could help will be appreciated
Thanks in advance

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I have a guy friend and let me tell u the signs and u tell me if he likes me or not ????
❤️1 He'd carry an umbrella for me when we go out from school
❤️2 we both r mega law students and library engenagn yilegnal endnatena bchachnn and I'd say no
❤️3 our friends u guys like eachother yilunal and they'd always mock us and I'd like eeeewwww we r just friends and he'd say nothing
❤️4 he calls me almost everyday to check if am studying
❤️5 he talks abt other hot girls in front of me
❤️6 party enhid u and me ylegnal
❤️7 he never compliments me
❤️8 I've made clear that I want no relationship
❤️9 I always feel like he likes me but he's hiding it as I am so strict
❤️10 he sends me funny videos and pics
❤️11 he send me his pic and videos
❤️12 am not that cute but he is hot
❤️13 he begs me to come to class and I'd say no cuz I don't like going to class
❤️14 whenever I am online he'd just talk to me
❤️15 he usually asks me if I want to date someone and why I don't have an interest mnamn
❤️16 he respects me malet even if he is zm blo miyawera type sew when it comes to me tset new milew
❤️17 I suggested to hook him up wz my friend and he was OK with it

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What is the meaning of toxic relationship?
Is being jealous a toxic trait?
Is being insecure about your relationship a toxic trait?
I just wanna know what toxic means cuz I'm really scared that me being conscious about every steps of my bf will lead me to lose him. I love him so much and I know he does too more than I can imagine. But now I'm being insecure about my body, my status and other stuffs ( even tho he never mentioned about any of those things) but I want to be perfect for him so that I won't get jealous of the other girls around him. I don't want to be the kind of girl that asks him yet wetah yet gebah keman ga neh mnamn but I still want to be concerned about his day and friends mnamn.
I know what you'll say guys just don't focus your answers on me, is this being toxic or not?

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So idk if this is hiding me user but do it anyway,anyways I have this problem am bad at English like so bad I want to improve it but idk how and I can't watch YouTube videos cuz I don't have wifi😭 and my school just not that good at English even my friends are not that good....am bad at speaking like so so so bad and I can't watch films ketach kaltesafe in Arabic or English but I'll understand better in Arabic and my writing and reading are not that bad but am good only on the simple English u feel me like I want to use that heavy English idk if yall get me😭 but I want to be good in all speaking writing and all and idk what to do😭😭I already read books on wattpad and it helped a lot actually but still there are many things I don't get it even if I googled it help yo sister fam am 16 yo girl I don't want to start my life in a few years without being good at English if there is any books or smth I can do to improve it anything anything just drop it in the comments pls🙂 thanks

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Why are men so freaking inconsistent with the things they do? Like why would they ever start shit and stop abruptly?
It gets so frustrating for us women...like uk damn well we don't need u but for some unknown fucked up reason, us showing some kinda vulnerability makes u think that's us needing u but you're wrong we don't.

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Hey everyone hope yall have a great day im a male with a very bizarre problem which i need help with
So here is something i have been struggling with okay i love giving head like some freaky i never saw it coming type of head but not getting one and im really spontaneous about it too i dont wait for occasions if i feel like it im going to make it happen with her consent ofcourse but the thing is after im done eating her inside out they get excited to give me one right but here is the thing i dont really enjoy it at all i get hard when ever im giving some one head compared to getting one which gets them off that moment you know .... every thing else is okay its that getting head part that gets me off at times idk has anyone ever experienced that before i even took viagra one time so that she can play with it however she wanted with out me worrying about not being hard enough while she was fucking her throat with it but it didnt work .....................i need some help what can you really do about it

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I would to like to ask for help
I cant stop masturbating whatever method i try to hold myself from it. Its pretty much all i do when am alone. Sometimes i wonder if others people are like me too. I am in a state where pretty much have already given up on quitting. But people who have succesfully "healed" from this suit yourself in the comments

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The modern man needs to rewire his brain and its thought-process. We have been programmed by the society and this instant-gratifying culture to be laid-back and careless. You must understand this as a man. Men today are weaker than ever, not just physically but emotionally and mentally too. There is no sense of confidence among young men. No self-esteem whatsoever. And that’s not only our fault. Our brains have been plagued by so many misconceptions. We as men need to step-up and conquer our place in society. We need to take cognizance of the situation. We must stop feeding our brain the junk that social-media presents to us. The absolute trash that is men need to be more sensitive. Now, don’t get me wrong. I don’t mean to say that we should hide our feelings and be more reserved with our emotional side. Not at all. But that men should abide by the feminine traits of the culture and just be an outright Simp. As a man, you must know that men were meant to lead. That’s how nature intended it to be. You should be unpredictable and learn to take a stand for yourself as a man. Unfortunately, this is absolutely rare in today’s young men. Never ever Simp for a girl. Develop yourself to the extent that girls chase you instead. Stop ignoring this massive threat to masculinity. Get up and start your shit, fellow Kings!

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I suffer from Hyperhidrosis since my birth(i guess)
But its about a year ago that i knew about my condition and it makes me anxious. Before i knew i have hyperhidrosis i was okay being sweaty infront of everyone 😁
But now i cant😢.
I know many people suffer from this condition so tell me your experience and any medicine that gives you a solution(if there is any)
thanks

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