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I wanna vent but it's more like a question. So I have a boyfriend of 1 year and a half.... he means the world to me and same for him we live each other a lot... but this days am being insecure about us what if he's gonna get tired of me, what if he meets someone better than me kind of questions trust me people he is the same as he was before, it's just my mind playin tricks on me I guess.... and after we celebrated our first anniversary nw this thought my mind wist yalew it's been a year and a half he must be tired of me Ik he's not that kinda guy that's y am feeling terrible by thinking like this i don't know how to explain but please guys help meee

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I'm just confused and sad about a thing that has happened between me and my friend, so here is what happened....I have a best friend ke campus jemero abren yeneberen it's been 5 years, but bemehal we've drifted apart for some reasons and got back together when i got her a job at my work place and things were smooth and all but alfo alfo teqaqen bemibalu negeroch benegachem amreren anaqem.....last week we got off work and we were walking with one of our friend who work with us ena we stopped to buy something ena there were 2 girls sitting around the shop .....i saw one of the girls body shaming my best friend ena endalaye lemehon mokerku mejemeriya, gn when were passing by degame ayehuat ena i was like "sew yihen yahel ayitayim lelela gizesh" and i was even gonna fight if she replied gn she didn't....then when my besti and the other friend asked me why, i explained what i saw....so here is when things got weird, our other friend betua selederesech me and my bestie started going to get a taxi ena her face doesn't look right, keza yelele cheneqegn keza tez yalegnen hulu mawerat jemerku, then taxi wust honen i asked her if she was alright ena she replied yes.....bet kegebahu behula yaskefahuat neger kale teyekuat betammmm selecheneqegn....her replies were aza ena mnm letenegeregn alchalechem so benegataw sagegnat teyekuat ena she replied " yayeshewun alemenager techeyi nbr cuz it will make me demotivated about my body for that second endalaye mehon eyechealsh you did it on purpose"........bruhhhhhh cherash yalasebkut yaltebekut, i was even gonna fight hula eko....becha she told me that was her reason ena yelele kefagn cuz this shouldn't even be a reason to argue with your best friend....i really really love her and mnm aynet ye mekegnnet or jealousy feelings yelegnm towards her gn i felt like she thinks .....so i want y'all to tell me if i have done something wrong🙏
Tbh i've apologized to her cuz salamezazen seletenagerku gn still wuste liqebelew alchalem ena cherash eyekefagn nw😭😭

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Books that changed your life. Books that simply opened your eyes. Just comment any book please. It would mean a lot.
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Its a girl. I vented before so my second time. I promised to tell u the next story so here it goes. I vented before that my best friend and i are fwb kind of relationship. So now we started doing everything ... we almost meet everyday...we talk about everything ...the sex was ????...everything was perfect until he brings about being his girl friend. I mean he didn't even say be my girlfriend he was like let's engaged. Wtf is that suppose to mean?...we started it just to have fun now i don't even know what he is thinking. He knows we can't date and he is the one who didn't want starting relation ship. Btw i am moving to Manchester,UK next week ena he is saying he will move too if i say yes. But don't u think its weird?...i mean even i am thinking he don't love me its just the sex that is keeping him with me. I have known him for 13 years and he is confusing me now. This days he doesn't even want to have sex he just comes to my place and sleeps. When i say sleep its literally sleeping. He says i wanted to see u and then boom he is in my bed sleeping. He asked me about the engagement about 2 weeks ago. Now he is not even interested in having sex. I tried to ask him but hr always tries to change the subject. I love him to death and i want him to be mine forever but he is really confusing me this days...so, specially guys what is in his mind?
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Hello people... I (m) am a 22 year old guy who has lost his path since about 2 years ago. The thing is I haven't spent the Critical time (being the highschool years and 3 years Of this med school) of my life with my parents and I think that affected me somehow. I had a break-up from a relationship that was built to not fall but here we are????‍♂. Things started to get ugly after that and I saw my family struggle with finance from medical issues, lost my granny to cancer who was my best friend, I have a lot of grief and emotions not expressed at the right time the right way, the relationship I have with people is being limited and am not as sociable as I was but maybe that's part of growing up. the ways I used to cope with what I thought is depression were not effective too. I got friends who care but don't understand me to the point I want them. I really don't share like this to them since I don't want to be a burden and people my age have same battles as me more or less right?
I've become religious, read about the philosophies of most trying to find a guide but still feels like I'm in the middle of ጎተራ ማሳለጫ and out of fuel????‍♂. This is my last year and I have good grades to graduate with but not as good as it could've been. I always get in to exam halls with stress induced headache no matter how much I study. Even though the results be satisfactory, I still couldn't raise that damn grade. I have tried working at night and in my free time but nothing really continued to work. I hope you understand me from this little detail I gave you so shoot your ideas people, help!????

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Idk where to begin. My family and I are having major financial issues. I'm 3rd year college (private) student. After the previous year we are struggling A LOT! I have an elder brother who graduated but still got no job. And my mom have small shop which makes almost no money!! She's also stressing betam! Idk what to do beside being empathetic with empty hands. My father is another story he's the one who got all of us in this. 🤦🏾‍♀ For the last 5 years we have been discussing what he should and should not do on his business (which he never listens) we even sold our home to give him money! For over 2 years he was completely free from "home" costs.
But he is just waste 🤦🏾‍♀ ahh bcha idk yehone semester lay mikefel yelegnm blo you have no idea 🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀ withdraw lemola tensh nbr yekerengn I was so mad and hopeless I cut myself and all bcha chelye nbr almost 🤦🏾‍♀ ahh and I even went to delala bet sera felega but wef 🤦🏾‍♀ it's two years endemnm biye mechres efelgalehu at least but each semester idk lemar almar! I hate it here

Ahh all these years dehna zemed hula yelenm! Tegelen nw menenorew and ahun ahun mibela hula yitefal endekeld and my brother with no job🤦🏾‍♀ my mother sera wiye emetalehu enji ysukun kiray hula mekfel alchalechem life is hard and they made it even harder for us idk why!!! There's More drama in this tewut

Uff bcha I'm only here to ask you guys ene wey wendme yaltayen mefthe kale!!! Class eyetemarku mesrat mchelew Anything kale please tell me and my brother has a degree in engineering he is applying for any kind of job (even itsnot his field) so please help us! We know enesu bestekekl mesrat selalchalu new enji for family (4) who has it's own house in Addis life shouldn't be this hard bcha help

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I know i shouldn't be saying this gn any ways i have a gf she is light skinned, smart like very smart and educated , big boob , big ass , tiny waist , perfect height for a girl, her parents are good economically , gerami personality , caring ,nice hair but not too long (reaches to her back) but AVERAGE LOOK she is not ugly at all. when she puts on just a lip stick konjo thonalech endewm. she is not so cute ena bezi mkniat bcha i can sense her insecurenet. How can i comfort her please. Am handsome (according to ppl) and may be yene ksua meblet yhonal betam midebrat set slehonech but idc. I love her ena tell me how to make her secure
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I'm sick of people ruining a good relationship because of their insecurities. You should know that if you can't love your self and you'll never be able to allow anyone to love you. You always think everyone is out to get you, put you down or twist their words assuming they want to hurt you when they only wanted to help you and love.

If you have a debilitating insecurities please work on yourself before you get into friendship or relationship because you're only hurting the people who try to help you

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He is my brother's friend. The first time we met was the day he came to our home. Then he get my number from my brother and called me the other day. Keza le erjm giza senawra betam tlemamden gizwochn abern asalfen gen bemalawkew mkniyat terarakn for 2 years yalmnm nger sanawra sandewawel koyen keza 1 day our friend's father died and we were at his home ena My ex-boyfriend's brother ye ena gwadgnoch gwadgena hono ezaw agnewt keza siyastewawekugn wendmh boyfrienda nber selam belelgn bya keldku sak belo eshi alegn. migermww Ke esu gar selewendmu bmawrat ytnesa bzu giza enawra jmer normal friends honen unfotunatly He told me that he loved me. Suddenly, he was a better person than I had ever expected.He was in love with me. Enam wendmu mehonun eskersaw deres He made me happy. But bdgami metfo agatmi because of his ex girlfriend tetalan
Gen sasebw it wasn't his fault. After a while, gwadgnoca endnawra adrgewn awran . I realized it was a mistake to misunderstand him. Gen gizaw eyhede simeta I began to feel that it was wrong to love his brother, but he still wants to be together men laderg ? gen I feel guilty, sanasbew new yha hulu yhonew betam telk tfat new metfom agatami this is the worst experience of my life

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Let get straight to the point am 22 girl the thing is idk what to say gn am in relationship but the way I still deny i have a boyfriend when i first met him i put him in friend zone but he don't want that and we start relationship thing which is uncomfortable for me and i still pretend i kinda like it but he knows am taking steps back but he still working on me every day i put my energy together to tell him as sorry and i don't want this relationship but idk am afraid that i will eventually kill all his happiness he tell me he is happy abt the thing that we have he talks abt marriage menamn he is good to be friend but he am not really sure I need a guy like him to live my whole life just help me I know may be you would insult me but tell how to quit this thing and also I have somebody whom I love the most but we are not together in some case may b we will never be may b we will but help me just to quit this thing help and asap I don't want to stress my self out

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why does it keep getting harder . Every year i think this year will get better. But the challenges get harder . I guess this is growing up . I am tired of questioning myself, i am tired of being the third person in my own life . I want control , i want to be better and i've tried . I don't know where to start . Some were good, but most were bad . And now i feel like I need help. I admit. And i didn't know where to ask or who to ask.
Does anybody know a certified psychologist here in Addis . I've seen you guys mention some here can i get the information please .

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So I'm a 24 year old female...my problem is that I lost almost all sensation in my clitoris and its really worrying me....medical professional and girls out there who have experienced this somehow I'd really appreciate some advice...I don't know what to do.

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I suddenly realized how alone I am. Amidst of everything and everyone, I am alone. I wish to look for a shoulder to lean on and then I realize I'll only need that shoulder till I'm sad once I'm alright, that shoulder will become a liability, yes that's how cruel I am.

I've never felt so alone, I can see how irritating I can get but then I can see how stupid it is to take out my anger on anyone else for no reason.

I've never felt so alone... I want a little warmth and care but I don't want to ask for it, a little hug or a little pat on shoulder, "it's going to be fine", but I think I've built very high walls for people to climb over or even me to climb over.

I've never felt so alone... I'm giving people stuff and helping for no reason to the extent that they might think I'm stupid and a pushover, but I just perhaps want to believe I can make a difference, if I'm not needed I can still set series of changes around me, perhaps I'm reassuring myself, it's going to be fine.

I've never felt so alone, I laugh, I show every emotion, I do everything yet I can clearly see how aloof I'm, I'm in depth of something lost and losing.

I've never felt so alone.

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Mnorew ke ayate ga nw keza betam konjo negn dream girl mnamn long dark hair cute face got the body mnamn ena personality ena i met this guy sefer wst bzu alotam afralew ena he approached me mnamn keza salasbew megbabat jemern ena hulunm ngr esu nbr yasjemeregn I'm 26 ena he's 31 ena beka abren gize masalef jemern mnamn ayate hula fkr yzoshal wey esktlegn beka he was so sweet handsome wendawend mnamn beka uff???? i was happy and all till i found out he's married and got 2 kids i saw a pic of them ena tset alkut eskahun alnbrkutn i ghosted him mnamn ena when i found out he's married i was sad af mnamn ayate teyekechgn ena i told her everything asayehuat the pic ena the worst part is yet to come.....he is married to "my mom"
Like wttffff? WTFFFFFFFFF wat kinda life is this? Guys i really don't know wat ro do besmam labd nw hiwete bande nw yetekeyerew enenja gra gebtognal eskezare enaten salakat madege ykochegn nbr mnm bihon enate nat bye ahun gn balaweku noro photown balayehu noro alku ????????????????????????????????????

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I’m married 31 soon to be 32. My wife is like my mom she take care of me like a mother and also she is 11 years older than me. We have two kids. I see her as a mother figure not like a wife. I fell out of love with her. And I realllyy love this girl seferachn west. Betam nw mafkrat ena gn married ena ljoch endalugn yemetakew ngr yelem. We haven’t been taking this days idrk what happened but I’m thinking of divorcing my wife and starting a new life with her. She is like the only person that gets me and I feel free and loved around her. I'm ready to risk it all just for her.
I wanna tell her that I'm married but I'll let her go and marry her if she's willing to marry me but idk but she's been ignoring my calls ghosting me and all these days I'm confused guys mn larg

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I neva spoke my mind enough but Only heaven knows how much I feen for u, feel for you, how her heart still beats for u.. If u ask if i'm ok i will say yes then ask me how i feel n i will tell u it still hurts but u won't.. I will dig my sadness out n engrave it somewhere else away from u ..they say wats love with out pain n So you luv urs n I don't Mine,I lied buhu ..the night times depresses me now cuz the sky is Still blue n I see you..
But is cool. u just do u.Thas all.

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I (22F) keep making bad choices after bad choices and i need to make a change in almost all areas of my life.


(Summary)i cheat, i lie, i am a terrible friend,i have no real connection with anyone, i have a bad gpa and im wasting my time, money and more
Some examples of my bad choices:-

i hardly study( I’m an engineering major ) i can honestly say i don’t know a single thing and My gpa for my major is 2.4( i have two years left idk ifs enough time to raise to a 3.0 mark)and my parents think I’m still top of my class and never ask for grade reports because they are very confident about me

, i have a part time job but i skip it for no reason , put no effort, always go late, i even got caught smoking in the bathroom once, i did manage to save around 10k within 5 months at some point ( i don’t have to pay tuition, my parents also fund my other needs) but ended up blowing it all on eating out , weed and robbortripping and drinking within a month and now i have about 500 left.

I cheated multiple times on my ex bf (23M) whom i was with from freshman year of high-school to first year college, he finally left and i got together with a guy i cheated on him with, we are still together 1+year we are in love Butt i went out on two different dates with 2 other dudes ( i didn’t do anything physical with them but still)

I self sabotage i don’t like when anyone tries to help me, i get really offended with the gentlest of criticisms, i am super indecisive i even get really angry when people ask me simple questions like what do u wanna eat or do or sth

I have lost 3 really good friends because i was inappropriate with their bfs.

So yeah I’m a mess.

Going forward i just want to improve my grades, stop cheating, stop wasting money, make a genuine connection and build friendship with women and just do better as whole. I am considering therapy ( eventho idk anyone IRL who has gone to therapy )but other than that I’m seeking for any thoughts , advice or help on how to do that.

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Idk anymore I don't...it was when I was 50 feet in the air hanging from the railing, my hands were sweaty the wind was blowing my hair and I couldn't let go the waterfalls were coming and call me a retard but the only thing that came to mind was the man I was inevitably supposed to end up with.. lunatic of me ikik...I couldn't help it. The woman that came into my life always asked me if I did love a man and I had this smile that was filled with pain behind it and I always said no and it made my heartache. Even if it didn't last or I wasn't the mother of his beautiful kids it would've been a privilege from me to say you know what I did love man. I eventually got off the railing and walked I felt numb but even if I did let go that sunset was breathtakingly beautiful. You ask why I was hanging down and why I got back up well. Constant abuse at a young age physically sexually, mentally takes a toll on you, being kicked out of the house, running away, constant insults and all of that fuckery. Why did I get back up well I wanted to meet him...I did..Now I won't tell him what happened... Its irrelevant to talk about.. But I will tell him eventually but not yet not right away at least...... And uk fucking what I'm one hell of a woman id want people saying she would've died at an early age.. I have med school, bills, and all of that mess but I'm stronger than titanium I'll tell u that...

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So it's mostly me talking to myself out loud.
So these days I'm facing difficulties, how so? You know, I'm being looked down up on and I very well know I deserve it due to my incompetency. So yes, I can call anyone mean or anything because they don't really tell me anything but I can sense how I'm dragging everyone down instead of helping.

Now what made me write this vent is actually this realization that I recently made.

With all the behavior around me, the firsts of things I'm experiencing made me see an ugly version of myself. You know, first I wanted to look for anyone to just make me feel good maybe by appreciating me so I tried art, songs, poetry and all.. You know I told myself I'm just letting my frustrations out but I guess I was actually looking for validation.

Then, when it wore down, I realized I'm beginning to look down on people (really for no real reason) may be to make myself feel better or may be to make myself feel like I'm above them or something like that.

And when I realized how I'm becoming, it was devastating. I really despise people who use the term ugly to describe people, I never ever have believed anyone is ugly... But the me right now, did it.. I did it, you can't believe how ugly I felt.

I think I understood a version of people who are condescending, how helpless they are. How powerless they must feel.

I don't want to become someone ill despise forever. Maybe these tough times will last a little longer but I really hope I want lose my humanity in the process.

Being kind in this world is a blessing, so if you're.. You're blessed.

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Hi, I am a 21 yrs old university student...and the reason that I'm venting here is that idk but I have several issues regarding to making friends like I'm the most talkative person in the university and since I talk to girls a lot many ppl call me a player even though I'm not😊😊...but the point is regarding to the statements above like I have said no one approaches like a real friend and for that reason I'm feeling kinda lonely...so please Is there someone who can help me out regarding to making REAL friends....Tnx for your help mates👍👍

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So the thing is I want new friends. Am a girl btw. And am not good with girls I only have one bestie n my boyfriend who is a lot more for me.... whenever I met a new person they'll ghost me after they know I've a boyfriend.... I want a guy friend who don't have any other intention beside being my best friend please help me out

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