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Once i vented of not having a feeling and asked about how people care about others and now i managed to care for something
I met him in 2012 in one of the worst time of my life and started to give some shis about him we were cool as friends everyone was jealous of me because I have like him after a year or so he asked to be my boyfriend and i couldn't say no because ive thought about dating him a couple of times but i had trouble showing my love and care in the right way i explain things when their is no need and don't say anything when he misunderstood things bcha fast forward after a couple of months we broke up and i was not expecting him to be cold towards me just like that bcha it doesn't matter anymore

But now i am having a hard time with how to continue my life
I didn't care for everything and then i found something i cared for and gave it all of me without realizing it he was part of everything mnamn bcha what do u people do to fill the void left by a person
Help me out i hate being like this

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hello there hide my identity okay i am a guy 26 and live normal life, working hard, great social interaction, but born with hiv and i was okay with that. until know. for those who worry am not sick lol ???? anyway i did have r/ship two different times but ended by some reason, know am single. i am responsible for what will happen so those two girls that i have been with also positive, know a time i am feeling to get partner but i don’t know how to be much-up and also some girls told me it’s nothing and we can be together gn demo i don’t think they mean it ena after we start r/ship i think she will regret so please share your ideas thank you

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent I've just got a question for all my Ethiopian folks. This is really gonna be long. Just an observation nd dont absorb everything without doin your own research So why do our Gov't enforce everything the…
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Real identity

How many of you can give the correct answer when you get asked your identity? when you are asked "who are you"

The basic answer would be your name, what you do , what you are like (socially), what you do for fun and maybe your race. All these things are what an individual acquires when they go through the process of growing up.

so are they your real identity?

Imagine 2 kids born at the same time . Both raised in a completely different env't. When they turn out to be adults , both of them completely mirror what they saw growing up.(if one grew up in a social envt, it's most likely that he will reflect that behavior and vice versa)

So if your identity depends up on the place/ environment you grew upon what is your real identity because the person you are dont exist if it grew up in a different place.

These personalities we acquire growing up, people calling themselves confident, shy, extrovert, introvert, alpha, beta....so on are all just egos.
An identity made by the mind (brain) who likes to label things just to make them easily memorable and noticable
Example a car is made of a lot of things. When you see a car you dont name all the elements in it. You just say Car and an image pops up to the one your trying to communicate with.
So labling someone "confident or shy" without knowing their whole backgrounds (which nobody knows except themselves) is just rediculous.
Its judging , giving a label. Putting a huge thing and makin it smaller by giving it an identity.

So I ask you again, what is your real identity?who are you? You have an ego that just dies and ceases to exist when you die so what's your real identity??

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Why? Why? Whyy do i alwaysss attract liars, players and stalkers. Is it because i am a truthful, honest and nice person? I mean opposite attract each other aydl ymibalew. Sew lay aldersm then why tf wouldn't they leave me alone. Should i just give up on the wishes of having love and a healthy relationship, should i just accept that those things aren't meant for me and just settle for someone my parents pick for me? Cause i seem to have a terrible taste in humans.

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Let's talk about the so called love relationship .. when you read this i want you to have this in mind .. just be open minded and think deeper.. tnx

So let's talk about why most relationships don't work . let's assume there is a girl name Z, and Z has an ideal man in her mind which she picks up from Tv, Movies, Reality shows and from her enviroment. Z start to fall in love to that ideal man in her head and she decides just to look for him if he exists in the world. Then one day Z was walking and she sees this man A and she noticed he has the same character that she has in her mind and she fell in love with him. And everything goes right the dating mnamn and they become couples. After sometime she start to see some changes in A's character , the character that she adore which is similar to her mind image is fading away. Now she start losing interest in him and finally Z broke up with A.

So my question is
1 did Z love A at first❤️
or
2 she just insanely in love❤️ with the image she has in her mind " the ideal man" and A happens to have the same characters that the ideal man have.

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Okay guy's what's up! So i have a question i want to know how many of you know about Psychedelics and Psychedelic drugs i have been researching deeply and men what i found is fucking awsome evey human being in Ethiopia must have it, It will clear your resist mind the hate you have everything.
#isthereanyonewhotriedit ? share your experiences... how was the #trip and what was the drug is it LSD, Ayahuasca, DMT or mushrooms just share your experience.

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To guys who cheated on their relationship what was the reason , why did u do it, what was the thought in your mind when you was cheating on her . Wasn’t breaking up before doing it the right decision? I need answers from boys . Am not saying girls don’t cheat but am girl i wanna hear it from boys perspective. I won’t request your identity, from the 20k peoples i am sure there are some of you who cheated . I am not judging i need answers this is the only thing keeping me from moving on . I healed from every pain his cheating caused me but i couldn’t get this question answered and I amnt gonna ask that mf hell nah. So help me out . Why do u fuck up the person who genuinely cared for you . Not satisfied or not toxic for you .u know u could just say amnt satisfied in this lets end it .. or is it out of immaturity?

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Ohh Hello everyone so let me get to straight .... I'm in love with this girl. I love her so much we have a lot of things in common, like if someone see us they will definitely assume like we're couples or smth like that. Am not gonna lie i feel so great when people think we're couples ik its because that i love her.....the problem is I don't know what she thinks about me sometimes she's cold somethimes she's hot I don't have clue what's our status. She is not that much open person. When we are alone she become quite, awkward mnamn ngr but if someone is with us she become so talkative, relaxed and fun like she talk to me better if someone is with us i trie lot of things to make her feel comfortable around me but i guess its not working. She called me by another dude name bzu gze malet new:( idk if she is seeking for attention manamn but now realizing this making me to feel like she is not interested in me:( I've got so many signs that she don't love me but I don't want accept the truth i wanna fight for her i don't wanna give up on her because i love her. And now I'm fighting with myself saying should i tell her that love her or should i just keep quite and Wait till she gives me a sign that she loves me pls help me sewoch

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Am 20 girl the thing is I’ve been with guy for almost 3 month after a long time I decided to date him because he makes me feel safe l, he let me be who I wanted to been we never judge each other we talk for hours and get mad because it’s getting late and we have to say goodbye I’ve been hurt by my previous relationship which is 5 years of relationship but believe me that guy was toxic he made me hate my body he used to tell me that i am thin and I should eat more and other stuff but this guy was sent from heaven bka he likes every each of me and i do too but lately he started to lose interest and i was overthinking it like did he finally realized that am not enough or is he trying to leave the country and so on and i asked him what’s wrong and he told me that it wasn’t he intention so i asked him if he needed space and he said he need that. I know this might be attachment or love but i think i fall for this guy but i don’t think that i am welling to get back with him even if i love him. I think he made mistake by letting me go this early . Am i bad person for thinking like this?

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Hey
I'm 35,Male
Lecturer in BDU
Married and hv 2 children
The thing is .....zare class segeba 1 lj ayehu,she is so fuckinggg hotttt Idk she has that geday smile😍 and dimple omg agebchalew ko btmmm mewedattt mist alchgn gn Alakm sayat btmmm does yilegnal tsegurual enkuan bedemb atabeterm lmn endezi endemhom Alakm besterjenaa fkr mn yilutal.....temariwochim saygechew alkerem mastemar alchalkum what should I do

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Hey guys,Needed to vent
I have this bsf (Well I love her wayy more than just bsf I guess,she's just special) And this time she feel kinda insecure that am gonna leave her stuff and I have tried my best but I think it doesn't work.
And I really need to prove it cause I really do love her and I won't leave her never. So what should I do to prove that I love her more than just words by action…?
Thank you for help

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Hi....so my thing is I am slowly becoming an addict of porn. Like I can see myself not resisting to touch the button to open it. And I am also a born again Christian girl Which makes it really embarrassing. I dont know what to do. Help me guys...especially Christians. Thanks.

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Why do women have to suffer this much uh? Why??!

Who have to release blood from their vagina,and endure severe pain.

Who have to bleed and endure pain during sexual intercourses

Who have to push a BABY out of their vagina

Who have to be victim of rapes because of their physical disadvantage over mens,because of their sexy looks,mind you,we didn't ask for this body so we can wear what ever we please

Who have to be hit on,grabbed ,attacked,sexually harrased continuously.


WOMEN!!!!!!

what would boys feel like if a girl sits somewhere all day and be like 'damn,I wanna slap that tight ass of yours babe' when ever a guy passes??????huh?? Would you like that?
would you ignore her and leave or would you start a fight with her just because she was hitting on you,OR would you pull on your best disgusted face and say, ' you are lucky that I don't hit girls,(why?? Because we are too weak,fragile?)
What would guys feel like if a random girl grabs your penis on the road,like you do with our ass and boobs

This is soooooo unfair. I shouldn't be afraid to wear skirts,shorts,crop tops outside my house just because mens could get turned on

I shouldnt be afraid to leave my house just because mens are horny pigs waiting outside my door

I shouldn't be afraid to go out on a walk at night,just because I could get raped

I shouldn't be afraid to stand up for my self just because guys are stronger than me.

Seriously girls,you know what we should do?? Ban mens from earth!!!????????????

P.S I know there are nice guys too. sorry for those of you

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I graduated college recently but I don't feel ready for the real world. I know it's useless to beat myself up for not starting things sooner. I have no driver's license and no job experience whatsoever, but I'm trying to make slow progress. I'm going to try to reach out and get some entry level work in my field, I know it won't be glamorous but it's a start. I'm working on learning to drive, it's going slow but I'm better than when I started. I'm trying to work on overcoming my anxiety and stop comparing myself to my peers so that my life can get better. I'll make it someday.

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Hey ppl how y’all doin
I’m in a confused part of life so here’s the thing I just wanna let it out because no one can understand if you are not in my position so here’s the thing my mom works for these ppl they are not relative or something but we live with them coz like I said my mom works with them and they are such a great ppl I have known them since I came to this world they have 2 daughters and we are like sisters with them but the thing is I can’t tell my friends who my real mom is not because I’m Ashamed of her or something it’s coz the lady I call her mom and things are good with her I love her like my mom but if I tell my friends that she ain’t my mom and like if she comes and says I’m her mom that’s gonna be hella weird not only weird she is gonna feel bad and I talked to my real mom about this and she said it’s okay and she really mean it but the thing is i feel bad and pls tell me what should I do and don’t tell me to tell the truth because it’s already late
I feel so bad right now u don’t even understand
Please help me out.

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It's more of a question for girls what do u do when the love of ur life isnt eager to meet like u Like u are he says he says he loves you.some times u come early to see him ask to meet him

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23F. Someone tell me how to accept being cheated on. I can't get myself to accept what happened and I can't come to the right terms with my feelings. like I can't even seem to figure out what EXACTLY I'm feeling. I cry now and feel better, but the next time I find myself angry and wanting revenge which is definetly not the type of person I am. It's like when I'm done dealing with one part of my emotion, I discover different types of feelings everyday and I'm exhausted trying to deal with them all the time. What should I do

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I'm really worried about my mom. She's not being herself lately. Her dad had Alzheimer and I'm so worried she might have it too.. I and my sister took care of our grandpa when he was sick. And the disease was really bad. At first, it was just him talking nonsense and nobody paid attention to it. But after a while, he wouldn't even remember us. He used to refer us as "serategnochu". It was really hurtful to see the strong man I knew and loved change into someone unrecognizable. I still think of him everyday even tho it's been almost 3 years since he passed away. And I'm worried that my mom will end up like him too. And I'm seeing some patterns that seem like that. Maybe I'm just being paranoid because of my grandpa (and I really really really hope that's the case) but I just can't help to notice that she's slowly becoming like him. I don't want to talk about this with my sister or my dad because I don't want to stress them out. This might seem like a ridiculous reason but my sister is just a student and she can't do anything about it and I don't want to tell her and make her feel terrible. Plus maybe she also noticed it but not talking about it not to stress me out. And my dad is also getting old. I mean he's not that old (he's 60) but people around him that are his age or even younger are dying. So I don't want him to worry about a single thing. I don't know what to think or do. I wish I could do something but I'm just a 22 yr old who graduated from college recently trying to get her life together. I don't want to see my mom becoming like my grandpa. I rather die than seeing this.

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Quick question ...for men in here specifically . How many of you are willing to be in a relationship but wait on for sex until marriage ? Like straight forward , believing that it is how things must be and remaining loyal. Please don't let me down , dudes

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More like a quick question

Do you wanna spend the rest of your life with the person you currently dating? Or the Dora in you still wants to explore?

And singles, just turn around and hug your pillows 😈

By: Lagetha 👩

Status: Pending

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Hey there,girl 20
Its said dont hate people who are jelous of you ,they just think ur better than them.....
I been having some problems lately.i have this freind who is so competitive with me and everything i do she wants to do better.when i look good,she doesnt speak causally to me all day,when i talk to guys she gets reallllly mad and when i socialize she tries so hard to take those people i am talking to.....this has been going on for 2 month and worse and worse.she is cool and fun but tooooo clingy at the same time.what should i do?and how do u think i can make her stop and trust me talking to her will only make it worse.

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