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Last time I asked if anyone know any psychologist or someone who could help for free or talk to as a friend who it has to be some one who know about mind problems, and someone replied to me that they could help and after 2weeks of talking they cleared out chat history and removed everything we talked, I am asking this again here it's b/c I think I will lose this soon, I have many problems, like not letting of things, past problems that affect my dailylife, even physical pains like many many , pls this is not pls talk to me we can be friends stuffs I seriously need help and currently I can't afford to pay until I find a job, is there who wants to help please. I am crying writing this. Like am seriously Done.

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I'm 19 soon turning 20. Virgin. Kiss and Sex. I just cant hold it anymore. First I was just waiting for the right person, someone I love and share real intimacy with, but now I don't even care if I know their last name or even their name honestly. I get turned on by everything. literally Everything!!. Its so exhausting????????. And I am very religious and all and my hormones on the other hand are making me go crazy. It feels so wrong and i hate myself. I don't know what to do. I need help, really. What do i do? Still wait for the "Right Person" or do it with the next person who asks me out?

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Hey there im the girl who dreamed about the same thing and have it happening in real life it happened again yesterday in my dream i saw some guy waving at me and talking to me and i woke up and today i saw the same guy and he waved and offered me to get coffe with him so i just freaked out whats happening why am i seeing my dream in real life same face same smile same thing day and night🤨😔what is happening to me please somebody explain

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I still haven't lost my faith on men but it's getting harder the more I analyze it. We haven't even dated that long eko but it hurts so much. It is as if he had this big plan to earn my trust, make me fall for him and when he was sure that I have, shattering my heart into pieces. I'm just a lot of tiny pieces right now. I tried my best to be a stable woman for him, he made me feel like I was worth it, I invested nearly every ounce of my energy to make him feel loved, but it was never enough. He hid himself beneath a thick curtain and I tried to help him breakthrough. I patiently waited for him ignoring his abrupt mood swings. I held on to those bright days he had let me live through and justified his manipulation. I acted like I knew nothing just to keep us. But in the end, it just wasn't enough. He told me he lied. He told me that he sacrificed his happiness and pushed himself to love me but that he couldn't. He said that he felt pity for me because of my pathetic past. I bared my soul to him but in the end he sliced through my heart and expected me to make him feel better about what he did. Did I deserve it? Maybe I did. So I'm just gonna shut it up and force the disdain I'm consumed by down my throat because I'm no perfect. But y'all, don't ever do this to anyone. Specially to those who're trying to flap their broken wings. It kills them.

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Here it goes in 19 m and These days my life meaning atual.i dont care about anything at all. I'm just like maturating and sleeping all day. no matter what i do i just can't find anything that can make me happy besides watching movies and doing the above things. This situation has gone for 4 years ,my confidence is shit ,my grades are poor ,i hate myself .

It is a big problem for me ,how do you guys solve this?how do i care about things? How can i start living? How can i not disappoint peoples with what im doing?

I think I'm wasting my life please help me

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Okay I know this sounds weird and I know how toxic this quote unquote vent seems but yeah why not risk it at least. So I kind of got dumped a while back ago and it's been honestly rough coming to terms with it. It really took a toll on me because I got so attached for the longest time and honestly I really did every single thing imaginable to love and take care of her. Most things you'd call ridiculous enough that it's overdoing it in this day and age like staying up to on a daily basis just to help her when she feels down or bringing food to her dorm from far away or just trying to be as good as I could. But at the end of the day I guess circumstances change and people seek something different. And honestly I've talked with friends and found new avenues to atleast take my time to heal or move on. It's taking some time and I'm at a point where I wouldn't give a damn for anything even if it's hooking up with anyone who'd say yes.

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ok hey guys i am here for an advice or so. You guys have u ever heard the ababal deme merara seaw. Eshi why is someone like that? how can u stop being like that? Like any idea even if its weird i am all urs.

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My brain is lagging. I have a deficient brain. It falls short on every aspect or task that requires thinking you know. That's the only conclusion I can come up with given the experiences I have had. The life decisions I have so far besmam. I'm terrible at math yet I joined engineering. Its like I'm completely 180degrees from a sane person. No wonder My parents call me NEFEZ. This articulates how I feel about my self. May be this all stem from my childhood I thought, I grew up in a matriachal house hold with no male influence, I guess you could say I'm "chimit". Chimit dude is considered jil aydel. Wend lij keltafa sihon nw enji yibala? Malete lerase mehon enkuan akategn eko. Ahun how am I going to survive studying engineering? Electrical engineering? I have been at it for 3 years now I have got 2 years left. Holistic lifetinugn nw fam! The reason I joined engineering was because I wanted to be a pilot. I didn't consider my abilities if they were sufficient enough to get me there. I just wanted to be one.

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I want to start new life but how do I do it
This new year was a great motivation but my past isn't letting me start new life
Like I don't know why I wanted new life
But my past isn't something you call good
And I'm asking how to do it like hobbies are good for start but does it also change my personality
So lately I've become kind of religious person but yet somethings bother me ..like I'm never enough ..or like I don't deserve any goodnesses in life
I was also thinking about making new friends but I'm kind of introvert and it is struggle
What do you advice me

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Hey I'm a girl (bisexual)in my early twenties and my relationship life is kind of complicated because of my specific standards and overly romantic demands also people who I previously dated told me that I'm self centered. I like doing things my way but if I actually like someone I'd compromise.
The thing is I couldn't find anyone who is my type. Like whenever I like someone they'd turn out to be toxic for me and them selves. I like stable people who can share love with me and gender wise, I've been harassed by a man not long ago so chances of me dating a man are less but still I'm down for someone who can enjoy life with me.
Is it too much to ask?

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Guys so here is the thing im 19 ena ahun entrance tefetagn negn tkmt lay gobez mibal aynet temari enebrku 12 lay mayhonu guadegnoch yazku ena wutete werede ena entrance dgmk arif wutet mamtat endalebgn bedenb akalehu
Ena lemanbeb eyemokerku nw gn alchalkum like ken lay manebew tnsh seat nw bet sira mnamn sileminor aymechm ena mata ke 3 seat jemrie eske 8 weym 9 lemanbeb felgie sijemrew gena be 5 seat mnamn enklfe yimetal
Ena pls beteley unv yalachu mnamn erdugn gideta lelit manbeb alebgn benatachu🙏 help me

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Guys sle ene aydelem my best best friend wend betam nw mitelaw idk why beka astesasebua wendcoh achberbari nachew wendoch aytekmum mnamn nw gira sigebagn koy abatshs wend aydel silat abaten be abatnetu enji be balnetu alawkewm neber melsua ena i am confused
Be wend tegodta nw.endalil chirash relation wst gebta atakim

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Hey guys i have a question is being a virgin stng to be ashamed of ? And would u date virgin girl and wait till marriage ?and boys what would u feel if u'r gf is a virgin ?

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So here is my problem...i don't know my ethnicity ...no biracial , i don't conform to any "group identity" because it's hard for me, being unsure about which group i belong to and quite frankly i hate how popular culture has us thinking that being mixed race is cool when nobody actually knows the bull shit people go through merely by the crap we've been going through as a nation for the last 3 years or so ...if there is anyone else going through this dilemma , how are you coping with it ?
thank you in advance

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This is my first time venting here. I have this awesome bf that I'm proud to have of. It's been 2 months since we officially started dating and the thing is I get jealous of the girls I see around him. I know and am sure that he loves me so much and can't be easily distracted. But lately, I don't even want to be seen with him out in public cuz of the eyes that are driven to him.
He seriously had told me that I am also attracting his friends and others but all I want to know is how I can feel okay with the other girls staring at him.
I hope u'll say something.

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SOME THING TO THINK ABOUT🤔
I know it's long but it will help... or not

👉 Trauma Is Not the End, It’s the Beginning

The first 50 years or so of psychological/psychiatric practices dealt with the really hard cases. You know, schizophrenics, manic depressives, suicidal people , and so on. This created a sort of selection bias. Since psychologists were only studying the most extreme mental health cases, and pretty much all of these cases involved the patient experiencing some terrible trauma at some point, early psychologists came to the logical conclusion that trauma leads to mental health issues . But this, it turns out, is wrong. And, in fact, it’s often the opposite. It wasn’t until psychology and psychiatry became more mainstream that the field began to realize that trauma is incredibly common. In fact, trauma is a fact of life. And not only do most of us not succumb to severe mental breakdowns, but many end up growing and developing into stronger people due to their past pains. As many as 90% of people who experience a traumatic event also experience at least one form of personal growth in the following months and years. Now, before you go on thinking, “OMG, all I need to do is experience some of that rip-out-your-heart-and-spit-in-your-face trauma and then my life will finally be the way I want it. Let’s get this trauma started!” Uhh… No. There’s more to it than that. It turns out that trauma in our lives, in whatever form it takes, isn’t actually the thing that makes us “stronger”. All those inspirational quotes with cheesy sunsets about enduring adversity and “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,” they all kind of mislead you into thinking that just enduring some form of hardship is enough to steel yourself against future hardship. That’s not entirely true. It’s what comes after the trauma that really matters. It’s not the survival of trauma that makes you stronger, it’s the work you put in as a result of the trauma that makes you stronger. Traumatic experiences shake us to the core. They make us question our fundamental beliefs about the world and our place in it. They make us question the degree of benevolence and kindness and predictability in the world, and of the people around us. Some traumas serve as stark reminders of our mortality—something most of us don’t want to think about. And then there you are, traumatized and bewildered, lost and questioning everything about your life . At that point, it can basically go one of two ways:
1⃣. You fall off the proverbial mental cliff and experience some Real Shit that leads to a lot of dysfunction (less common than you think);
2⃣. You use this as an opportunity to forge a new set of beliefs and a new worldview that is more resilient and enduring than your previous worldview (a lot more common than you think).
So now what's left is one question - which path are you gonna take? 1⃣ or 2⃣?

Just remember this is for ur thoughts so try not being an asshole in the comments😁
That's all I Got🙏🏾

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I'm a 21 year old female who's learning med at Gondar University. I have zero interest in what I learn at this moment and I decided to quit, but my family persuaded me to return. I obliged but I only did because I thought it'd make my parents happy even though I'm not happy with it myself.

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I never thought i'd share my felling with you guys....i'm madly in love with this girl we've been together for more than a year ke bzu gize behuala kesua ga sehon nw ewnetgnea feker yetsemagne i would give all i got just to be with her.....it's clear you know me well more than anyone....i don't care if we have different religion,life standard,thoughts or anything when i am with her everything will be perfect and makes sense.....yaleshn feker salawk eskezare abraesh hognealw i'll still keep my promises and be with you....i knew you were the one since our first(Date)....bahun seat ethiopia behon noro le 1 ken enkuan kegonesh alrekem nbr....i hope yalshbet metfo gize siyalf hulum ngr endadis yejemral....i love you till my last breath (Enate❤️)

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Hey 👋
This question is for my Protestant brothers

It may not be the right platform to ask but I am not good on the ''hebret'' thing so let me ask it here
So how many of u are keeping your virginity till marriage and planning to live ye kidisna hiwot , how many of u r learning relationship teachings , abt boundaries mnamn, he many of u r willing to not to kiss till marriage ( I know it seems exaggerated but the majority aderegew malet its the right thing malet adlem 😉) , how many of u are working on ur self as a great future husband and dad

Bcha eski I wanna know abt Protestant guys pls tell me anything

Tnk u so much
U r loved ❤️

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it never, gets better, just easier
time doesnt heal anything
it just makes u forget that it hurts,
when it hurts really bad.
what didnt kill me didnt make me stronger sometimes,
it just made me wish it would've,
coz am not a fighter,
i havent been for a long time.
lying and saying am 'tired' when ppl ask me if am alright
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i didnt write this i dont know who did i just relate to the song betam......can anyone tell me how to heal from trauma..... sexual abuse physical abuse and religious trauma if anyome has experience on how to deal with this things

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Hello y'all. This is my story.
I was home alone one day, about 16 years old. Same horny teenage boy as all the others. But my cat was napping in the living room, so I went to pet it. As I was petting it though, I realized something. I could fuck this cat and nobody would know. I could release some of the sexual tension held within my horny teen body.

So I grabbed the cat. It started yowling at first and it scratched my arm, but I didn’t care. I put my weight on the cat and pulled my dick out of my pants. I found the cats asshole and tried to push inside of it. It was really tight, so much so that I almost gave up. But I kept pushing. Eventually I got inside. It felt so good. I pumped into the cat a few times. It was still screaming it’s head off. I finished inside the cat and pulled out.

Remember how I said that I had put my weight down on the cat? Well apparently, I had broken it’s ribs or something. Because it kept making these weird noises when it tried to breathe. I left the room to clean up, and when I came back inside, the cat was dead. So not wanting to get into trouble, I picked the dead cat up and tossed it in the road. It was already pretty flat from where I had pushed on it while fucking it, so it was believable when I told my mom that it must have been hit by a car.

Well as they say once you've had a taste, you can never go back .I been lusting for our neighbors cat for a while now n I need your help here folks. Shall I molest kitty or listen to my sane side and go out there and find a girlfriend ⁉️

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