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Hey to the point this year was tough and I want to improve my self this year what do u think I should include in my new years revolution please anything helps
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Hey guy’s hmm so apparently there is this guy my friend introduced us together and after a while we been hooking up and is cool but my friends thinks his catching feelings except her and I’m kinda confused bc his sometimes nice and sometimes an ass but for some reason I feel comfortable with him more then the rest but I’m afraid that I end up catching feelings and he doesn’t what do you think I should do
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Hey guy’s hmm so apparently there is this guy my friend introduced us together and after a while we been hooking up and is cool but my friends thinks his catching feelings except her and I’m kinda confused bc his sometimes nice and sometimes an ass but for some reason I feel comfortable with him more then the rest but I’m afraid that I end up catching feelings and he doesn’t what do you think I should do
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Hey guys I kinda what your advice on anxiety
I’ve been having a lot of anxiety and stressed out on so many things and the worst things is that I can’t seem to open up to anybody even tho I have amazing friends who cares a lot but I’m just used to keeping it for myself and always help others before myself, and this anxiety has came so much to the point where I zoom out every time and my legs can’t seem to stop shaking have been having alot of anxiety attack and panic attack and explaining this thing to Ethiopian mom is so hard so I just gave up and she kept telling me it’s all in your head do any of you guys know how to stop it or does therapy really helps?
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Hey guys I kinda what your advice on anxiety
I’ve been having a lot of anxiety and stressed out on so many things and the worst things is that I can’t seem to open up to anybody even tho I have amazing friends who cares a lot but I’m just used to keeping it for myself and always help others before myself, and this anxiety has came so much to the point where I zoom out every time and my legs can’t seem to stop shaking have been having alot of anxiety attack and panic attack and explaining this thing to Ethiopian mom is so hard so I just gave up and she kept telling me it’s all in your head do any of you guys know how to stop it or does therapy really helps?
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Hello ive been in this group 2 years ago and I came through it again because of a friend. I can't believe how things have worsened in the young adult community in just 2 years. I just wanted to share the best news y'all could ever here. This man called Jesus came to earth to restore the relationship Adam and Eve had with God in Eden Garden. Guess what now through his shed blood we can come to God with no shame and condemnation of what we have done. His blood can cleanse us of all of out crazy thoughts and deeds. Even murder ikr crazy!! He also left the Holy Spirit to guide us help us and a lot more. This might sound like relegion but the man Jesus himself was hung by the most religious leaders. He came to preach the restoration I mentioned above. I can see that all of us are going through a lot of things but Jesus has come go take all the burden to himself and give us the easy burdens like true joy, hope, love and a lotttt more. Guess what though most of all what you'll be rejoicing about when you accept him is the eternal life he gives. Guys I've read you saying this and that is soooo good but trust me none is good but Jesus! Once you taste his spirit you can't help but hunger for more. I love you all and bless you!
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God—”
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Hello ive been in this group 2 years ago and I came through it again because of a friend. I can't believe how things have worsened in the young adult community in just 2 years. I just wanted to share the best news y'all could ever here. This man called Jesus came to earth to restore the relationship Adam and Eve had with God in Eden Garden. Guess what now through his shed blood we can come to God with no shame and condemnation of what we have done. His blood can cleanse us of all of out crazy thoughts and deeds. Even murder ikr crazy!! He also left the Holy Spirit to guide us help us and a lot more. This might sound like relegion but the man Jesus himself was hung by the most religious leaders. He came to preach the restoration I mentioned above. I can see that all of us are going through a lot of things but Jesus has come go take all the burden to himself and give us the easy burdens like true joy, hope, love and a lotttt more. Guess what though most of all what you'll be rejoicing about when you accept him is the eternal life he gives. Guys I've read you saying this and that is soooo good but trust me none is good but Jesus! Once you taste his spirit you can't help but hunger for more. I love you all and bless you!
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God—”
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Hellow ppl how is it going? Am man in my mid 20 and the thing is i just got out 4 year r/n we meet in cumpus i loved her since the 1st time i saw her i give it all to our love i didn't hold back but ricently we broke up the couse is she wanted things very fast i couldn't kip up things like get merry having kids😁i told her am not ready 1st we got separated was 1 year ago 4 same reason but 4 month latter she apologized and i said ok and last week she brought the same stuff and i gave her an ultimatum so we broke again so am done wiz her.i want to move on and forgot her so i want u guys to tell me if thier is a good dating site in Ethiopia u can suggest ? Am haven't talked wiz girls so long i think i should try this first Thanks
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Hellow ppl how is it going? Am man in my mid 20 and the thing is i just got out 4 year r/n we meet in cumpus i loved her since the 1st time i saw her i give it all to our love i didn't hold back but ricently we broke up the couse is she wanted things very fast i couldn't kip up things like get merry having kids😁i told her am not ready 1st we got separated was 1 year ago 4 same reason but 4 month latter she apologized and i said ok and last week she brought the same stuff and i gave her an ultimatum so we broke again so am done wiz her.i want to move on and forgot her so i want u guys to tell me if thier is a good dating site in Ethiopia u can suggest ? Am haven't talked wiz girls so long i think i should try this first Thanks
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Am a cool and funny guy in my 20's. I am in a relationship with this lady and she always complains that I visit her too much and I also call and text her too much. This insane right🤔 but that's the fate am in now. She is now telling me to end it with her, buh I don't want to let go either. Please guys What should I do...??
Cause if she insists on ending up with me, I shall give my attention to another woman..🤷. I can't even imagine that a Woman would regret such an Attention from a Man....🤦
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Am a cool and funny guy in my 20's. I am in a relationship with this lady and she always complains that I visit her too much and I also call and text her too much. This insane right🤔 but that's the fate am in now. She is now telling me to end it with her, buh I don't want to let go either. Please guys What should I do...??
Cause if she insists on ending up with me, I shall give my attention to another woman..🤷. I can't even imagine that a Woman would regret such an Attention from a Man....🤦
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i failed my exam, i know i failed because i didn't attempt the passing grade even(negative marking). i told my parents,they were very sweet,didn't scold me,said its okay you can try again next year etc etc. so today my younger sister told me how mum ranted out to her about how i am a failure,i studied 18 hours and didnt make it and am a disappointment. how i wasted time earlier and prepared like hell only in last month. how i kept talking about stupid things to her like BTS, my drawings, my friends etc. and that i i had studied from the start i may have passed. she said that i ruined my career myself. it would have hurt less if she said all this to my face,why act sweet to me. i know i deserve to be scolded i made a mistake i admit,i should be yelled at. why be sweet to me and make me feel guilty,just say everything you have to say to my face. tell me how you wish i was like your colleagues daughter, compare me to her. praise her,she deserved to be praised,she stayed consistent with her hardwork. i know my mistakes i am willing to mend them, i am not gonna repeat them,i even tore all posters,drawings,and things i made. i have deleted all my social media accounts,blocked all my friends,i have kept only study related group and well this group on telegram. i deleted all pictures of my idols,my art everything. literally the only things in my room rn are my books in bookshelf, clothes wardrobe, a bed and study table. and my mum told be to go for B.PHARMA that i can do it,and that i can prepare for medical entrance while doing it. also that if i dont pass medical entrance again,i can just do phd, after B.PHARMA and that will put a Dr. before my name too. i want to be a cardiac surgeon, i just dont want a dr before my name, i want to treat people,i want to work hard, i want to donate my earnings in wildlife santuries,orphanages,and old age homes. i want to make a school when i retire that will teach kids about values like kindness,basic life skills, sign language,mental health,proper sex ed. and will have weekly trips to volunteer at zoos,orphanages,beaches etc. i have all those aims, i want to make a good difference,have a purpose in my life. i do not want to be a pharmacist, i want to be a cardaic surgeon. so what if i failed in my first attempt of getting admission in medical college, 2 million kids give this NEET exam and only 50,000 get admission in good govt.medical college. but its alright ig,its not like i have the audacity to achieve all that. i am just a loser,who procastinated earlier then studied but still couldnt make it. i cant pass an exam, how tf will i make a difference. its alright,i will become a pharmacist, if i cant pursue that i will simply die. i will not be a burden on anyone anymore, i will simply kill myself. it will be 1 useless shit less in this world.
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i failed my exam, i know i failed because i didn't attempt the passing grade even(negative marking). i told my parents,they were very sweet,didn't scold me,said its okay you can try again next year etc etc. so today my younger sister told me how mum ranted out to her about how i am a failure,i studied 18 hours and didnt make it and am a disappointment. how i wasted time earlier and prepared like hell only in last month. how i kept talking about stupid things to her like BTS, my drawings, my friends etc. and that i i had studied from the start i may have passed. she said that i ruined my career myself. it would have hurt less if she said all this to my face,why act sweet to me. i know i deserve to be scolded i made a mistake i admit,i should be yelled at. why be sweet to me and make me feel guilty,just say everything you have to say to my face. tell me how you wish i was like your colleagues daughter, compare me to her. praise her,she deserved to be praised,she stayed consistent with her hardwork. i know my mistakes i am willing to mend them, i am not gonna repeat them,i even tore all posters,drawings,and things i made. i have deleted all my social media accounts,blocked all my friends,i have kept only study related group and well this group on telegram. i deleted all pictures of my idols,my art everything. literally the only things in my room rn are my books in bookshelf, clothes wardrobe, a bed and study table. and my mum told be to go for B.PHARMA that i can do it,and that i can prepare for medical entrance while doing it. also that if i dont pass medical entrance again,i can just do phd, after B.PHARMA and that will put a Dr. before my name too. i want to be a cardiac surgeon, i just dont want a dr before my name, i want to treat people,i want to work hard, i want to donate my earnings in wildlife santuries,orphanages,and old age homes. i want to make a school when i retire that will teach kids about values like kindness,basic life skills, sign language,mental health,proper sex ed. and will have weekly trips to volunteer at zoos,orphanages,beaches etc. i have all those aims, i want to make a good difference,have a purpose in my life. i do not want to be a pharmacist, i want to be a cardaic surgeon. so what if i failed in my first attempt of getting admission in medical college, 2 million kids give this NEET exam and only 50,000 get admission in good govt.medical college. but its alright ig,its not like i have the audacity to achieve all that. i am just a loser,who procastinated earlier then studied but still couldnt make it. i cant pass an exam, how tf will i make a difference. its alright,i will become a pharmacist, if i cant pursue that i will simply die. i will not be a burden on anyone anymore, i will simply kill myself. it will be 1 useless shit less in this world.
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So here is the thing more like a question am kindaa a nerd guy ena sle relation mnamn asbe alakm nbr since tmrt becha eyalku gn ahun maseb jemreku mokakre nbr with girls gn mndnew my family mnamn endale muslim nachew gn my mother ena father orthodox nen enen chemro ena bachru i'm betamm attracted to muslim girls beka betam des ylugnal keljnete jemrom yadekut ke muslimoch ga new ena beka muslim set bategebe stalf hula betam new des milegn is this a problem guys beka ere labd new is this a normal thing help ur bro eski?(Btw 22 a guy ena 3rd time venting)
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So here is the thing more like a question am kindaa a nerd guy ena sle relation mnamn asbe alakm nbr since tmrt becha eyalku gn ahun maseb jemreku mokakre nbr with girls gn mndnew my family mnamn endale muslim nachew gn my mother ena father orthodox nen enen chemro ena bachru i'm betamm attracted to muslim girls beka betam des ylugnal keljnete jemrom yadekut ke muslimoch ga new ena beka muslim set bategebe stalf hula betam new des milegn is this a problem guys beka ere labd new is this a normal thing help ur bro eski?(Btw 22 a guy ena 3rd time venting)
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So here is the deal,
I don't know why I am doing this but F it I have to type it down atleast.
I am an extreme porn addict, I have seen every category. If you can name it I have probably seen it.
The problem is I just can't stop. I make myself serious and stop for a few days but then the "craving" gets unbearable and I just dive back to the things I know are bad for me.
I started watching when I was in grade 7 and I have been at it for about five years and I am still the same. I have seen stuff from normal man and women to stuff you wish you wouldn't want to know existed.
A lot of websites have been saying how bad and unhealthy it is but I just couldn't bring my self to stop.
I am just blabbering here in hopes that some one might have sth to say.
And more importantly would you accept a person like me if I were to be open and honest about the stuff I just mentioned.
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So here is the deal,
I don't know why I am doing this but F it I have to type it down atleast.
I am an extreme porn addict, I have seen every category. If you can name it I have probably seen it.
The problem is I just can't stop. I make myself serious and stop for a few days but then the "craving" gets unbearable and I just dive back to the things I know are bad for me.
I started watching when I was in grade 7 and I have been at it for about five years and I am still the same. I have seen stuff from normal man and women to stuff you wish you wouldn't want to know existed.
A lot of websites have been saying how bad and unhealthy it is but I just couldn't bring my self to stop.
I am just blabbering here in hopes that some one might have sth to say.
And more importantly would you accept a person like me if I were to be open and honest about the stuff I just mentioned.
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20 years old girl.
I compailn about my single life a lot. So I decided that I will stop being a baby about it and put myself out there.
All the guys that end up sliding in my DM either want to meet up after talking for 10 minutes or they want to talk dirty. I am not saying it's bad I know most people around my age enjoy that but I dont. Idk if there is something wrong with me, i just dont like talking about what kind of dick I like or about the size of my butt. It's not that I dont get attracted to people it's just feels weird saying that shit out loud.
I don't like fast paced relationships where you end up doding all sexual stuff after 2 or 3 dates and its seems like that what most people are in to this days.
At this point dying single seems like the best option for me.
But seriously to all the other girls out there how do you do it ?
And guys like be honest when you want to someone for serious stuff do you want to meet quick or even ask about sexual stuff or do you do that when you just want a hookup?
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20 years old girl.
I compailn about my single life a lot. So I decided that I will stop being a baby about it and put myself out there.
All the guys that end up sliding in my DM either want to meet up after talking for 10 minutes or they want to talk dirty. I am not saying it's bad I know most people around my age enjoy that but I dont. Idk if there is something wrong with me, i just dont like talking about what kind of dick I like or about the size of my butt. It's not that I dont get attracted to people it's just feels weird saying that shit out loud.
I don't like fast paced relationships where you end up doding all sexual stuff after 2 or 3 dates and its seems like that what most people are in to this days.
At this point dying single seems like the best option for me.
But seriously to all the other girls out there how do you do it ?
And guys like be honest when you want to someone for serious stuff do you want to meet quick or even ask about sexual stuff or do you do that when you just want a hookup?
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Am confused guys
Does ridding bicycle destroys your hymen...
What else destroys it except the sex stuff tho🤔
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Does ridding bicycle destroys your hymen...
What else destroys it except the sex stuff tho🤔
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Hello, what would think about a guy that constantly talks about sex to a girl? Does that mean he only wants sex? If so kalachew the guy always find a way to contact the girl whenever she avoids him. I mean who would try that hard just for sex, doesn't that shows that he has feelings?
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Hello, what would think about a guy that constantly talks about sex to a girl? Does that mean he only wants sex? If so kalachew the guy always find a way to contact the girl whenever she avoids him. I mean who would try that hard just for sex, doesn't that shows that he has feelings?
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A girl 22 years old I'm not hopefull as I was few years back I'm realizing that I'm a loser I'm not beautiful I don't have a family I have never had a bf I'm poor I don't have anything idk what to do im feeling empty im turning into a cold bitch I'm not like before anymore I'm going to loss my mind help me
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A girl 22 years old I'm not hopefull as I was few years back I'm realizing that I'm a loser I'm not beautiful I don't have a family I have never had a bf I'm poor I don't have anything idk what to do im feeling empty im turning into a cold bitch I'm not like before anymore I'm going to loss my mind help me
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Hey....im a girl 20 so when i was in highschool i had my best friend who was called my twin and stuff and she insulted me with all other girls because i didnt want to go out and switched my phone off for a week and i might even do it more because i was going through bad stuff i was going through a difficult time😔after that she said sorry i didnt want to see her face ever again sad but true i was thinking that i need my own space once you disrespect someone you actually ate with wear dresses of and all that stuff how do you want me to react to that i distance myself when i see something that breaks my heart and the thing is i dont believe in second chances because if i give you the best me(im not the kind of friend who does snicky shit,stab you in the back,i will never gossip about you behing your back)and when i was looking back that bestfriend of mine she actually insulted me with those girls who were gossiping about her they thought i was crazy for not wanting to talk about her when she was not there too bad....but now my attitude towards friendship is fucked up i trust nobody i like going out by my own even if its years passed i just felt the need to have no friends and do my own thing and focus on myself and have no interest in the concept of best friend even if i have lots of friends am i wrong for that?
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Hey....im a girl 20 so when i was in highschool i had my best friend who was called my twin and stuff and she insulted me with all other girls because i didnt want to go out and switched my phone off for a week and i might even do it more because i was going through bad stuff i was going through a difficult time😔after that she said sorry i didnt want to see her face ever again sad but true i was thinking that i need my own space once you disrespect someone you actually ate with wear dresses of and all that stuff how do you want me to react to that i distance myself when i see something that breaks my heart and the thing is i dont believe in second chances because if i give you the best me(im not the kind of friend who does snicky shit,stab you in the back,i will never gossip about you behing your back)and when i was looking back that bestfriend of mine she actually insulted me with those girls who were gossiping about her they thought i was crazy for not wanting to talk about her when she was not there too bad....but now my attitude towards friendship is fucked up i trust nobody i like going out by my own even if its years passed i just felt the need to have no friends and do my own thing and focus on myself and have no interest in the concept of best friend even if i have lots of friends am i wrong for that?
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Hi guys. I'm 19 and the thing is i got this girl who is really nice and we are vibing all that.I like spending time with her. She loves me so much. she have this amazing personality. She makes me happy and I fall for that we are together. But the thing is physically she is not my type.(every guy has he owm type) So i fear that after sometime i might losse interest on our relationship. So guy should i end it here or should i try maybe i would fall inlove with her everything?
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Hi guys. I'm 19 and the thing is i got this girl who is really nice and we are vibing all that.I like spending time with her. She loves me so much. she have this amazing personality. She makes me happy and I fall for that we are together. But the thing is physically she is not my type.(every guy has he owm type) So i fear that after sometime i might losse interest on our relationship. So guy should i end it here or should i try maybe i would fall inlove with her everything?
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Ere guys I need help. Yehew this is my ninth year anniversary since I started masterbating. This all years I been jerking off. I lost all my qualities. I used to be the smart guy, now I take 30min to understand simple shit. I cant focus on a single thing, I just cant. Confidence zeroooooo.
And I lost my hair too. Now I am in my mid 20's and not a single hair on my head. I tried to stop this shit, I tried to get help but nobody seems to be able to help me. Is there anyone whose gone through this shit and beat it? Help me guys or my life will be ruined even more🙏🙏
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Ere guys I need help. Yehew this is my ninth year anniversary since I started masterbating. This all years I been jerking off. I lost all my qualities. I used to be the smart guy, now I take 30min to understand simple shit. I cant focus on a single thing, I just cant. Confidence zeroooooo.
And I lost my hair too. Now I am in my mid 20's and not a single hair on my head. I tried to stop this shit, I tried to get help but nobody seems to be able to help me. Is there anyone whose gone through this shit and beat it? Help me guys or my life will be ruined even more🙏🙏
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Hey y'all I am a girl and soon to be 18 and I want to ask you guys some questions
1. If you had the chance to confess to your 18-year-old self what would it be.
2. What is your life advice cause I want to start a small business this year or it can be a part-time job I can do when I start studying here.
3. I am thinking to apply to universities abroad and I am asking some of my friends who live there but the thing is they are not giving me all the information I wanted so if you guys know anything that will help pls share it with me the process and all the things that I need to know
4. What is your biggest life lesson.
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Hey y'all I am a girl and soon to be 18 and I want to ask you guys some questions
1. If you had the chance to confess to your 18-year-old self what would it be.
2. What is your life advice cause I want to start a small business this year or it can be a part-time job I can do when I start studying here.
3. I am thinking to apply to universities abroad and I am asking some of my friends who live there but the thing is they are not giving me all the information I wanted so if you guys know anything that will help pls share it with me the process and all the things that I need to know
4. What is your biggest life lesson.
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YENE HIYWET YETELEWETEW TAHSAS 12 KEN NEBER!
I loved this girl, and we dated for a while too. But after some time it looked like as if a relationship was not feasible due to factors out of our control. So it was decided that we should put the relationship on hold and see what might happen after a while.
The thing is, she seemed like she moved on in a short time, and I thought I had to move on as well, and I tried. It's been over 2 months now. I have moved on to a reasonable extent, but at what cost? I have alienated her and things are different between us now. It's tough for even a friendship to be salvaged. The thought of what could have been haunts me.
But there's hope. I was just about to cut ties when I saw something that revived my spirits. But it's a spark, and nothing major.
If I put in effort, I want to have a connection once more. I want to go back to the relationship after some time. If I leave, I want to move on completely, without any second thoughts, and with no memories whatsoever.
I'm torn between tending to that spark, adding wood, fanning the flame; and between finishing my "moving on" journey and letting this whole thing go. After all, I'm only 18. I have more life to live, right? Would all this matter in a year? In two years? Do high-school relationships even matter? What would 20 year old me think when he looks back?
What if I put my effort into tending to the flame, only to be frustrated after a year's time? What if nothing comes out of it? What if it grows into a beautiful, radiant fire, with warmth to spare? This question is especially for people who have been through this. 20+ folks are welcome to answer, although I'm willing to bear with ths nihilistic teens and the starry-eyed idealistic kids.
Which risk am I supposed to take: the risk of going all in and coming up empty, or the risk of not being able to move on completely after a year?
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YENE HIYWET YETELEWETEW TAHSAS 12 KEN NEBER!
I loved this girl, and we dated for a while too. But after some time it looked like as if a relationship was not feasible due to factors out of our control. So it was decided that we should put the relationship on hold and see what might happen after a while.
The thing is, she seemed like she moved on in a short time, and I thought I had to move on as well, and I tried. It's been over 2 months now. I have moved on to a reasonable extent, but at what cost? I have alienated her and things are different between us now. It's tough for even a friendship to be salvaged. The thought of what could have been haunts me.
But there's hope. I was just about to cut ties when I saw something that revived my spirits. But it's a spark, and nothing major.
If I put in effort, I want to have a connection once more. I want to go back to the relationship after some time. If I leave, I want to move on completely, without any second thoughts, and with no memories whatsoever.
I'm torn between tending to that spark, adding wood, fanning the flame; and between finishing my "moving on" journey and letting this whole thing go. After all, I'm only 18. I have more life to live, right? Would all this matter in a year? In two years? Do high-school relationships even matter? What would 20 year old me think when he looks back?
What if I put my effort into tending to the flame, only to be frustrated after a year's time? What if nothing comes out of it? What if it grows into a beautiful, radiant fire, with warmth to spare? This question is especially for people who have been through this. 20+ folks are welcome to answer, although I'm willing to bear with ths nihilistic teens and the starry-eyed idealistic kids.
Which risk am I supposed to take: the risk of going all in and coming up empty, or the risk of not being able to move on completely after a year?
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This a question and maybe not a vent. I am graduating this week from a University. Freaking Engineering. I want to be independent, I want to have a dream a Vision and work hard for it. But I am just an empty being sitting in my dorm. Pls How can I find out my dreams? P.S. I have read a lot of books but they didnt seem to help that much. God,, I dont want to live some ugly ass random life. I better die I swear.
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Hey Guys
This a question and maybe not a vent. I am graduating this week from a University. Freaking Engineering. I want to be independent, I want to have a dream a Vision and work hard for it. But I am just an empty being sitting in my dorm. Pls How can I find out my dreams? P.S. I have read a lot of books but they didnt seem to help that much. God,, I dont want to live some ugly ass random life. I better die I swear.
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I'm venting this in the middle of chaos my mind has been creating all day long.
So today was the day we took our graduation picture and the day turned out well tbh.. indeed with insecurities. We took group pictures and I look ugly af, I never felt this ugly fr I used to look at the mirror and boost my ego but this time it was different. I've very visble undereye bags, quite big nose, cant wear mo make up and dress whatever I want to due to my parents. I wore sth that doesnt show cleavage nor my body not even my hands. Ik this year college egebalehu and I'm on my own but being ugly didnt mean anything to me until I heard my mom saying hulem eko new mtasteyiw... ofc.. you're the one who used to say I prayed for you to be ugly so you can be successful, oh really? Yeah you're cute and boys were all over you n you failed at your dreams because of men
No mami I dont need boys in my life, I needed sth to make me feel better, not for you to tell me I look shit. AND YES I LOOK SHIT BEACUSE OF YOU. I've to say this FUCK YOU even if you're the best mother.
P.S to me
Remember when you take a picture of beautiful sunset, the picture isnt as beautiful as the real view.
Vent Here
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
I'm venting this in the middle of chaos my mind has been creating all day long.
So today was the day we took our graduation picture and the day turned out well tbh.. indeed with insecurities. We took group pictures and I look ugly af, I never felt this ugly fr I used to look at the mirror and boost my ego but this time it was different. I've very visble undereye bags, quite big nose, cant wear mo make up and dress whatever I want to due to my parents. I wore sth that doesnt show cleavage nor my body not even my hands. Ik this year college egebalehu and I'm on my own but being ugly didnt mean anything to me until I heard my mom saying hulem eko new mtasteyiw... ofc.. you're the one who used to say I prayed for you to be ugly so you can be successful, oh really? Yeah you're cute and boys were all over you n you failed at your dreams because of men
No mami I dont need boys in my life, I needed sth to make me feel better, not for you to tell me I look shit. AND YES I LOOK SHIT BEACUSE OF YOU. I've to say this FUCK YOU even if you're the best mother.
P.S to me
Remember when you take a picture of beautiful sunset, the picture isnt as beautiful as the real view.
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Which one is better to have Pride or love I know most would say love dah! But I chose love too I believed in us 😂😂 I woke up today and went for my phone to check if u were online and you were But when…
Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I need to vent
Anger
Fear
Helplessness
Sadness
But absolutely no empathy
That was what I felt when u told me ur final decision
I wanted to say something at the same time the mind was blank as new sheet of paper
I wanted to return the pain ten fold
At the same time
I wanted it to stop hurting
I feared regretting and not fighting back against yourself the one who wanted to end it all and at the same time maybe its for the better
But their is no thought that said u are losing him
When u told me you were in pain my pain felt a little lighter
There was no sigh of the care I'd claimed I had for you
In a way we both are selfish
But we also did have an amazing time you showed me love and also showed me I could love too you said I warmed up ur heart (a lil😂) but u put mine on fire baby😂😂, I cared for you in my own way and I know you did too.
I just wish we had more time
But if you hear me saying thus u would say no amount of time will feel enough for you😂😂😂
I admit I miss us
But everything happens for a reason and I want to believe this is what is best for both of us
And I'm lucky to have met you
This is my way of Coping mechanism
Vent Here
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
Anger
Fear
Helplessness
Sadness
But absolutely no empathy
That was what I felt when u told me ur final decision
I wanted to say something at the same time the mind was blank as new sheet of paper
I wanted to return the pain ten fold
At the same time
I wanted it to stop hurting
I feared regretting and not fighting back against yourself the one who wanted to end it all and at the same time maybe its for the better
But their is no thought that said u are losing him
When u told me you were in pain my pain felt a little lighter
There was no sigh of the care I'd claimed I had for you
In a way we both are selfish
But we also did have an amazing time you showed me love and also showed me I could love too you said I warmed up ur heart (a lil😂) but u put mine on fire baby😂😂, I cared for you in my own way and I know you did too.
I just wish we had more time
But if you hear me saying thus u would say no amount of time will feel enough for you😂😂😂
I admit I miss us
But everything happens for a reason and I want to believe this is what is best for both of us
And I'm lucky to have met you
This is my way of Coping mechanism
Vent Here