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Why's suicide so bad? Why does everyone keep telling me taking your own life is cowardly and selfish? Do they know what it feels like? What it is to have no hope? To be born from illiterate and poor parents whom not only hate themselves but make you hate yourself too? What it is to be a stress ball for a single parent's frustration? To be broken, both mentally and spiritually? To have questions unanswered and a gloomy future? To have nowhere to go? Everytime i get close to someone they proceed to efficiently hurt me, make me insecure about myself and what i don't have. Everytime i love someone, even if it's reciprocated the gaps between us feel too big and life becomes bitter again. Where can i go where i wouldn't feel inferior? Except ofcourse end it all.
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Why's suicide so bad? Why does everyone keep telling me taking your own life is cowardly and selfish? Do they know what it feels like? What it is to have no hope? To be born from illiterate and poor parents whom not only hate themselves but make you hate yourself too? What it is to be a stress ball for a single parent's frustration? To be broken, both mentally and spiritually? To have questions unanswered and a gloomy future? To have nowhere to go? Everytime i get close to someone they proceed to efficiently hurt me, make me insecure about myself and what i don't have. Everytime i love someone, even if it's reciprocated the gaps between us feel too big and life becomes bitter again. Where can i go where i wouldn't feel inferior? Except ofcourse end it all.
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent What was the reason then?? u said am too kind to u ... am lovable person... cute enough for everyone... am the one that everyone must have... tadiya who hates this kind of girl? Or u were just comforting me huh?…
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I suddenly listened Gosaye's music 'ewedihalew bila' I felt that fr... I tried to move.. i tried to hide my pain... eshi mn larg... I decided wrong decisions for not to be close to you... left out from addis... got new direction for life... gn It didn't work... eshi mn larg.. life is unfair ewnet how dare i miss u koy.. u are the one who broke me eko...alchalkum... eshi mn larg..
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I suddenly listened Gosaye's music 'ewedihalew bila' I felt that fr... I tried to move.. i tried to hide my pain... eshi mn larg... I decided wrong decisions for not to be close to you... left out from addis... got new direction for life... gn It didn't work... eshi mn larg.. life is unfair ewnet how dare i miss u koy.. u are the one who broke me eko...alchalkum... eshi mn larg..
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Hey guys i really need u'r help i have been in a relationship for more than a year now ena my bf uses every suse u can think of ena slemakom minamin sawaraw bizu family issue endalebet ena stressun relief miyareglet esu bicha endehone yinegregal ena bezi miknyat ansmamam currently gin sekro eyedewele mayhone neger yinageregal z next day ehen issue sinanesaw tifatun wede ene yazorewal ..am a virgin ena z fact that am planning to stay that way till marriage affect eyaregew endehone ena bicha behone way tifatega yaregegal ...ena min hone meselachu akum maleten he took it as a sign of conditional love and he said he want unconditional love like z way he loves me...so what do u suggest what would u do if u find u'r self in this situation
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Hey guys i really need u'r help i have been in a relationship for more than a year now ena my bf uses every suse u can think of ena slemakom minamin sawaraw bizu family issue endalebet ena stressun relief miyareglet esu bicha endehone yinegregal ena bezi miknyat ansmamam currently gin sekro eyedewele mayhone neger yinageregal z next day ehen issue sinanesaw tifatun wede ene yazorewal ..am a virgin ena z fact that am planning to stay that way till marriage affect eyaregew endehone ena bicha behone way tifatega yaregegal ...ena min hone meselachu akum maleten he took it as a sign of conditional love and he said he want unconditional love like z way he loves me...so what do u suggest what would u do if u find u'r self in this situation
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hey people,i hope you are doing well. i need to vent
so i am a student trying to crack NEET examination. it’s on 12 september,this sunday. and my preparation is 0. i wasted an year and now i don’t know what to do. i wasted my year staying online on twitter, chatting with people that don’t even care about me,wasting hours and hours procrastinating and what not. now when i look at my parents i feel embarrassed. i wanted to be a doctor and they supported me. i told them i will work hard to crack exam in my first attempt but i didn’t i didn’t work hard. now i tell them that i will crack it next year,and i will work hard. they still support me...i know they are disappointed but they still don’t scold me and still help me sleep by patting me . dad still rubs my back and pats my head or runs his fingers through my hair if i can’t sleep. he checks on me every 2 hours all night. and if i am still up studying by 5:00 am he puts me to sleep. my mum fed me like a toddler because i couldn’t eat last night. and my dad scolded me earlier,all thise months he did so that i study. and now when he sees the kind of stress i am under because of my own mistakes he spent the entire night consoling me,that its okay i still have a chance. he told me how he had to get through college during 1984,the terrorism era. everyday it was life and death situation,he couldn’t study like he would have. he did his best,even though it took him 2 years extra he did it. and mom told me about her failures and what she learned. she told me she failed math in high school,tried again but failed again. But life had it planned out, she didn’t pursue math but by chance found an institute for shorthand course,she didn’t even know what is shorthand but the teacher said it will be helpful in getting a job. so she studied and studied like hell.for 18 hours a day,,and now she is a senior reporter. she earns well,we have 2 big houses,she married dad who is a professor and they are best parents ever.
my parents told me it’s okay,i learnt from my mistakes and its okay to take another chance. give my best in it. and if i give my 100% and still don’t make it, life will still have it planned out for me.
they are doing so much for me and all i did was disappoint them.
idek why tf was i so damn stupid. why didn’t i realise howbmuch time i am wasting. why just why wasn’t i serious for my own dreams. i threw away my first chance to build my career just because of friends.the friends who don’t even remember me. i was so stupid. i crashed from being top student to the worst one because of my procrastination laziness and friendship. i should have been selfish i should have worked hard
i am glad i am getting a second chance and i am not gonna ruin it.
i just want to say,i am willing to work my hardest. not only for my dreams but for my parents as well. i hope whenever i sense the laziness and procrastination kicking in i must remember the mistakes i made and not repeat them.
i promise to get admission in topmost medical college next year. and i have started preparing from rn
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hey people,i hope you are doing well. i need to vent
so i am a student trying to crack NEET examination. it’s on 12 september,this sunday. and my preparation is 0. i wasted an year and now i don’t know what to do. i wasted my year staying online on twitter, chatting with people that don’t even care about me,wasting hours and hours procrastinating and what not. now when i look at my parents i feel embarrassed. i wanted to be a doctor and they supported me. i told them i will work hard to crack exam in my first attempt but i didn’t i didn’t work hard. now i tell them that i will crack it next year,and i will work hard. they still support me...i know they are disappointed but they still don’t scold me and still help me sleep by patting me . dad still rubs my back and pats my head or runs his fingers through my hair if i can’t sleep. he checks on me every 2 hours all night. and if i am still up studying by 5:00 am he puts me to sleep. my mum fed me like a toddler because i couldn’t eat last night. and my dad scolded me earlier,all thise months he did so that i study. and now when he sees the kind of stress i am under because of my own mistakes he spent the entire night consoling me,that its okay i still have a chance. he told me how he had to get through college during 1984,the terrorism era. everyday it was life and death situation,he couldn’t study like he would have. he did his best,even though it took him 2 years extra he did it. and mom told me about her failures and what she learned. she told me she failed math in high school,tried again but failed again. But life had it planned out, she didn’t pursue math but by chance found an institute for shorthand course,she didn’t even know what is shorthand but the teacher said it will be helpful in getting a job. so she studied and studied like hell.for 18 hours a day,,and now she is a senior reporter. she earns well,we have 2 big houses,she married dad who is a professor and they are best parents ever.
my parents told me it’s okay,i learnt from my mistakes and its okay to take another chance. give my best in it. and if i give my 100% and still don’t make it, life will still have it planned out for me.
they are doing so much for me and all i did was disappoint them.
idek why tf was i so damn stupid. why didn’t i realise howbmuch time i am wasting. why just why wasn’t i serious for my own dreams. i threw away my first chance to build my career just because of friends.the friends who don’t even remember me. i was so stupid. i crashed from being top student to the worst one because of my procrastination laziness and friendship. i should have been selfish i should have worked hard
i am glad i am getting a second chance and i am not gonna ruin it.
i just want to say,i am willing to work my hardest. not only for my dreams but for my parents as well. i hope whenever i sense the laziness and procrastination kicking in i must remember the mistakes i made and not repeat them.
i promise to get admission in topmost medical college next year. and i have started preparing from rn
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I'm so anxious since matrik is getting closer ,I wanna study but my anxiety is not letting me.... Last night I just couldn't study cuz I was hyper ventilating, tearing up and my heart beat rate was high... It always always happens lelit lelit when I think I'm screwed.... And my mom doesn't care...she just wants me to her help her at work all day long , she just wants to use me and if I fail I know dang right sew endemataregegn. I know she will absolutely hate me and also my dad will probably not look me in the eyes for the rest of my life. I'm all grades for my parents, I remember once I got all the answers Wrong on a 5 question class work in the first grade, I told my mom hoping she could help me and she smacked my face on the spot.... And there were ppl around. Because of the grades have been one of the reasons that made me suicidal until I understood I am not my grades, and they don't decide whether I live or not but if I don't get good grades in matrik I'll be dependent on my toxic narsisstic emotionaly and mentally abusive parents being treated not so well and I don't want to live like that... Anyways I'll work hard despite all of it, cuz the harder the situations get the more meaningful what you're grinding for will be
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I'm so anxious since matrik is getting closer ,I wanna study but my anxiety is not letting me.... Last night I just couldn't study cuz I was hyper ventilating, tearing up and my heart beat rate was high... It always always happens lelit lelit when I think I'm screwed.... And my mom doesn't care...she just wants me to her help her at work all day long , she just wants to use me and if I fail I know dang right sew endemataregegn. I know she will absolutely hate me and also my dad will probably not look me in the eyes for the rest of my life. I'm all grades for my parents, I remember once I got all the answers Wrong on a 5 question class work in the first grade, I told my mom hoping she could help me and she smacked my face on the spot.... And there were ppl around. Because of the grades have been one of the reasons that made me suicidal until I understood I am not my grades, and they don't decide whether I live or not but if I don't get good grades in matrik I'll be dependent on my toxic narsisstic emotionaly and mentally abusive parents being treated not so well and I don't want to live like that... Anyways I'll work hard despite all of it, cuz the harder the situations get the more meaningful what you're grinding for will be
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I need to tell this to some one. I am some one in my mid twenties and i can't live like this anymore. I don't know what's wrong with me. I can't trust my own mind. Its been like this as far back as i can remember. I get this days where i get so sad and depressed out of no where, and the thing that trigerrs me is so random. Like a crying child, the sky being dark or hearing something sad. And when i say sad i mean the type of sadness where i feel like there is no more happiness in the world. And then i feel better again, like it was a dream so much so i wonder if i made it up. Becha I'm so freaking exhausted. Up and down my mind goes and i can't stop it or control it. My friends and family know there is something wrong with me but they can't figure it out. I don't tell them because they wouldn't understand. The only sickness habesha people understand is a physical one not sonething they can't see.
I just wish i could have a normal emotion spectrum. I can't take it anymore guys. It's too much. I've tried praying, tsebel and even taking pain killers when the pain gets too much. I just want to die. I don't know what the hell this is. The older i get the harder it is to fight. I just wanna give up already. Last night i prayed so hard for God to just let me die. But here i am. Its like im drowning and im not sure im going to hold on anymore. I can't imagine living like this anymore.
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I need to tell this to some one. I am some one in my mid twenties and i can't live like this anymore. I don't know what's wrong with me. I can't trust my own mind. Its been like this as far back as i can remember. I get this days where i get so sad and depressed out of no where, and the thing that trigerrs me is so random. Like a crying child, the sky being dark or hearing something sad. And when i say sad i mean the type of sadness where i feel like there is no more happiness in the world. And then i feel better again, like it was a dream so much so i wonder if i made it up. Becha I'm so freaking exhausted. Up and down my mind goes and i can't stop it or control it. My friends and family know there is something wrong with me but they can't figure it out. I don't tell them because they wouldn't understand. The only sickness habesha people understand is a physical one not sonething they can't see.
I just wish i could have a normal emotion spectrum. I can't take it anymore guys. It's too much. I've tried praying, tsebel and even taking pain killers when the pain gets too much. I just want to die. I don't know what the hell this is. The older i get the harder it is to fight. I just wanna give up already. Last night i prayed so hard for God to just let me die. But here i am. Its like im drowning and im not sure im going to hold on anymore. I can't imagine living like this anymore.
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I am 24 guy .......ena the thing is I am kind of the ideal guy except my personality like I am super rich( oky my FAM is gn they kind of give me the business),I have the look ,I tall,I am kind of hot like I work out MNM ....but when it come to her like none of this matters she doesn't even care for any of this stuff......mm mselachihu I meet her few month ago she was seating with her friend cafe wust my friend want talk to her friend her friend was kind of hot ena I was stalk with her she wasn't pretty or hot she isn't even average looking but yawu endayidebrat I start talking to her and she was kind of interesting person bchs but I didn't even get her number bcha like mata I started thinking about her the things.she say and I ask her number from her friend I call her she pic up I was nerves kmr I say wtf is wrong with me I talk to her neger she was beka amazing then I don't usually use t.g gn leso bye metekem jemerku I ask her out on date dinner ena she literary came wearing a big ass Hoody ....anyhow I fall head over hill in love with her beka even if I lose everything I don't care as long as she is with me ....I been fucking a lot of girls gn she is the only I ever make love and that was ways better that getting head from 2 different girls ....... I even introduced her to my dad and she kind of read a lot of books ena she known a lot of stuff sigenagu they don't even want talk to me lol........I told my dad I want marry her and he say he will be More than happy .....campus sthad after the corona I latterly cry she is 3rd year she will graduate next year I am thinking about proposing her their
But ppl ,I have problems
1.she is so insecure like betam some times she didn't want go anywhere with me like she will say blackmail adrgawu newu enji yichi askeyami gar mn yiseral .....yawu sewechi yaweralu I even punch my best friend for calling her " gmbaram" after known her tho they love and respect her
2,I am erasa insecure like endemalmetnat newu yemasbewu enough endalhonku I fell like I am too dumb for her
3 their is this guy her ex like she has other ex's gn she only talk about him.ena I am betam ekenalhu like liwesdbgi yichilal bye
4.is it is about her family they are kind of poor ena I want help them she told me she want buy them a home after she got job ....ena when I told her I can buy them house right know she was so mad she told me do u want buy me neger .....+ even when I send her money gibi huna she will get mad ......endewum like I want buy her a car for her birthday SL semta she get mad she told me u know how man ppl are starving in our country even she don't want me to take her to expansive places ..... Bcha sewechi gr gebtogal mn ayinet sewu leso mhon endalebi I need help........
Sorry for how I wrote it I never writer this kind of thing
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I am 24 guy .......ena the thing is I am kind of the ideal guy except my personality like I am super rich( oky my FAM is gn they kind of give me the business),I have the look ,I tall,I am kind of hot like I work out MNM ....but when it come to her like none of this matters she doesn't even care for any of this stuff......mm mselachihu I meet her few month ago she was seating with her friend cafe wust my friend want talk to her friend her friend was kind of hot ena I was stalk with her she wasn't pretty or hot she isn't even average looking but yawu endayidebrat I start talking to her and she was kind of interesting person bchs but I didn't even get her number bcha like mata I started thinking about her the things.she say and I ask her number from her friend I call her she pic up I was nerves kmr I say wtf is wrong with me I talk to her neger she was beka amazing then I don't usually use t.g gn leso bye metekem jemerku I ask her out on date dinner ena she literary came wearing a big ass Hoody ....anyhow I fall head over hill in love with her beka even if I lose everything I don't care as long as she is with me ....I been fucking a lot of girls gn she is the only I ever make love and that was ways better that getting head from 2 different girls ....... I even introduced her to my dad and she kind of read a lot of books ena she known a lot of stuff sigenagu they don't even want talk to me lol........I told my dad I want marry her and he say he will be More than happy .....campus sthad after the corona I latterly cry she is 3rd year she will graduate next year I am thinking about proposing her their
But ppl ,I have problems
1.she is so insecure like betam some times she didn't want go anywhere with me like she will say blackmail adrgawu newu enji yichi askeyami gar mn yiseral .....yawu sewechi yaweralu I even punch my best friend for calling her " gmbaram" after known her tho they love and respect her
2,I am erasa insecure like endemalmetnat newu yemasbewu enough endalhonku I fell like I am too dumb for her
3 their is this guy her ex like she has other ex's gn she only talk about him.ena I am betam ekenalhu like liwesdbgi yichilal bye
4.is it is about her family they are kind of poor ena I want help them she told me she want buy them a home after she got job ....ena when I told her I can buy them house right know she was so mad she told me do u want buy me neger .....+ even when I send her money gibi huna she will get mad ......endewum like I want buy her a car for her birthday SL semta she get mad she told me u know how man ppl are starving in our country even she don't want me to take her to expansive places ..... Bcha sewechi gr gebtogal mn ayinet sewu leso mhon endalebi I need help........
Sorry for how I wrote it I never writer this kind of thing
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So there's this guy I've been talking to or seeing whatever u call it for the past 6 months and we got really close. See the thing is we don't have a label on what we actually are. He keeps giving off this mixed signals. One day he's telling me he's falling for someone else the next he's all over me ..bcha I don't really mind how this ends, whether im just a friend or more i just want to keep him in my life. I don't ever wanna lose him. And lately hes been going through a lot mnamn and struggling mentally and emotionally and I don't know what to do or say to help. He's getting in a really dark place and I don't know how to save him from his own mind. I've already lost people to depression and suicide and i really don't want to go through that again so whenever something happens I can't help but get so anxious. help what do i do. How do i help him
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So there's this guy I've been talking to or seeing whatever u call it for the past 6 months and we got really close. See the thing is we don't have a label on what we actually are. He keeps giving off this mixed signals. One day he's telling me he's falling for someone else the next he's all over me ..bcha I don't really mind how this ends, whether im just a friend or more i just want to keep him in my life. I don't ever wanna lose him. And lately hes been going through a lot mnamn and struggling mentally and emotionally and I don't know what to do or say to help. He's getting in a really dark place and I don't know how to save him from his own mind. I've already lost people to depression and suicide and i really don't want to go through that again so whenever something happens I can't help but get so anxious. help what do i do. How do i help him
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Man there aint no more long lasting r/nship kinda staff anymore i might be young to say these but...
In my opinion its cuz its not 1900s anymore thanks to the growing social media all this girls will have a lot of men to compare u with n u might be able to win few competition but as time goes u gonna loose ur worth n one of the guys in her Dms or what so ever will win n all u got is a simple text that reaps ur heart out n long nights to question what u hv done wrong.
Wanna hear my mans opinion on why do this girls do good guys dirt...wanna hear the girls to y u r addicted to dopamine of changing guys within 3 months .
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Man there aint no more long lasting r/nship kinda staff anymore i might be young to say these but...
In my opinion its cuz its not 1900s anymore thanks to the growing social media all this girls will have a lot of men to compare u with n u might be able to win few competition but as time goes u gonna loose ur worth n one of the guys in her Dms or what so ever will win n all u got is a simple text that reaps ur heart out n long nights to question what u hv done wrong.
Wanna hear my mans opinion on why do this girls do good guys dirt...wanna hear the girls to y u r addicted to dopamine of changing guys within 3 months .
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I'm 24 &guy I'm an eng garaduated this yr the thing is I'm living in the past. since I jonied the field(with the advice of bro) I'm not doing good also my grade is low. I also didn't enjoy campus life even if I hate both things I spent 5&half yrs at campus .i wasn't happy at all I felt like I was in the camp(not campus) for past years.i tried to quit learning but fam don't want that so I finished. now I don't have a job . I start regretting every day that why I spent 5yrs at that conditon😢😢😢.
Genrally I stack at that life I'm not thinking forward so pls help me out how to forget this things & start new life??
I'm so bored at this time😒
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I'm 24 &guy I'm an eng garaduated this yr the thing is I'm living in the past. since I jonied the field(with the advice of bro) I'm not doing good also my grade is low. I also didn't enjoy campus life even if I hate both things I spent 5&half yrs at campus .i wasn't happy at all I felt like I was in the camp(not campus) for past years.i tried to quit learning but fam don't want that so I finished. now I don't have a job . I start regretting every day that why I spent 5yrs at that conditon😢😢😢.
Genrally I stack at that life I'm not thinking forward so pls help me out how to forget this things & start new life??
I'm so bored at this time😒
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Ok its my first time venting here or any were for that matter so basically am here to vent plus ask for advice.here goes
I am in love with this beautiful gorgeous human in its full meaning.never met anyone like her funny..smart she is all that and more she knows i love her and i know she loves me too the problem is religion i am protestant and she is orthodox i have no problem with that but she don’t see this going anywhere so...I don’t really know what am asking ur advice on but tell me what u think.thanks in advance
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I am in love with this beautiful gorgeous human in its full meaning.never met anyone like her funny..smart she is all that and more she knows i love her and i know she loves me too the problem is religion i am protestant and she is orthodox i have no problem with that but she don’t see this going anywhere so...I don’t really know what am asking ur advice on but tell me what u think.thanks in advance
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ፌሚኒዝምን እንደአንድ ጠቅልላቹ የምትፈርጁ ሰዎች በመጀመሪያ ስንት አይነት ፌሚኒዝም አንዳለ ማወቅ አለባቹ አብዛኛዎቻቹ የምትወቅሱት ራዲካል ፌሚኒዝም የሚባለውን ፅንፍ የያዘው ፌሚኒዝምን ነው ራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶች የሴቶችን መብት ለማስከበር የወንዶች የበላይነት ያለበትን የአሁኑ ፓትሪያርኪያል ማህበረሳበዊ መዋቅር ሙሉ ለሙሉ መቀየር አለበት ብለው የሚያምኑ ሲሆን፤ የማህበረሰቡ መሰረታዊ እሳቤ ካልተቀየረ የተለያዩ ህግጋትን በማውጣት ብቻ እኩልነትን ማምጣት አይቻልም ሲሉ ይከራከራሉ፡፡ እንደ ራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶች እምነት ከሆነ ጥልቅ እንቅልፍ ውስጥ ያለን ሰው ለመቀስቀስ በለሆሳስ ስሙን መጥራት ፋይዳ የለውምና ድምፅን እጅግ ከፍ ማድረግ አሊያም የተኛውን ሰው መወዝወዝ ይጠይቃል፡፡ አሁን ያለንበት ማህበረሰብም የወንዶችን እና የሴቶችን እኩልነት ለመረዳት በማይችልበት ጥልቅ ድንቁርና ውስጥ ስለሚገኝ ማህበረሰቡን ለማንቃት ፅንፍ መያዝ አስፈላጊ ነው ብለው ያምናሉ፡፡ ከራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶች መካከል ገሚሶቹ የሴት ልጅ ማርገዝ ለደካማነቷ መንስኤ በመሆኑ ውርጃን እና የተለያዩ የወሊድ መቆጣጠሪያዎችን መጠቀምን ያበረታታሉ፡፡ በእርግጥ ደግሞ በተቃራኒው መራባት የሴት ልጅ የሀይሏ ምንጭ ነው፡፡ እርግዝና ወንዱ የሌለውና ሴቷ መብቷን ለማስከበር የምትጠቀምበት መንገድ ሊሆን ይገባል ብለው የሚያምኑ ራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶችም አሉ፡፡
ሌላው ሊበራል ፌሚኒዝም ፌሚኒስቶች ሴቶችም ሆኑ ወንዶች በተፈጥሮ እኩል ናቸው ብለው የሚያምኑ ሲሆን አሁን ያለው ልዩነት የመጣው ፓትሪያርኪያል በሆነው ማህበራዊ መዋቅር ነው ይላሉ፡፡ ይህ የወንዶች የበላይነት ያለበት ማህበራዊ መዋቅር ደግሞ የተንጠለጠለው እስትንፋሱን ለማቆየት ባወጣቸው ህግጋቶች በመሆኑ እንዚህን ህግጋቶች ማስተካከል ከተቻለ የሴቶችን እና የወንዶችን እኩልነት ማስከበር ይቻላል ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡ ይህን ለማድረግም ሴቶች ከወንዶች እኩል በፖለቲካው በኢኮኖሚው እና በማህበራዊው መስክ የሚሳተፉበትን መንገድ ማመቻቸት ዋናው መንገድ ነው ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡ ህግጋትን በማውጣት እና በተለያዩ መስኮች ላይ የሴቶችን ተሳትፎ በማሳደግ ብቻ የማህበረሰቡን ስነልቦና መለወጥ ይቻላል ወይ የሚለው ጉዳይ ግን ጥያቄ ውስጥ የሚገባ ነው፡፡ ሴቶች ከፍተኛ የሚባሉትን የስልጣን እርከኖች በጨበጡባቸው ሀገራት ውስጥ እንኳን ፆታዊ ጥቃቶች መቀጠላቸው የሚያረጋግጠው እውነታ ቢኖር ህግጋት ስነልቦናዊ ለውጥ ለማምጣት በራሳቸው በቂ እንዳልሆኑ ነው፡፡
3ኛው ካልቸራል ፌሚኒዝም አሁን ሀገራችን ላይ በብዛት የተለመደው ፌሚኒዝም ተከታይ ፌሚኒስቶች ደግሞ በወንዶች እና በሴቶች መካከል ባዮሎጂካል የሆኑ ልዩነቶች አሉ ብለው የሚያምኑ ሲሆን በልዩነቱም ውስጥ ሴቶች የተሻሉ ናቸው ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡ ይህቺ አለም በአብዛኛው በሴቶች የምትተዳደር ቢሆን ኖሮ አሁን እንዳለው አይነት እልቂት እና ጦርነት አይኖርም ነበር፡፡ ሴቶች በተፈጥሯችን ሩህሩህ እና ተጋባቢ በመሆናችን ይላሉ፡፡ ካልቸራል ፌሚኒስቶች ማህበረሰቡን በማስተማር ለውጥ ይመጣል ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡
ግን ከሁሉም በማስቀደም ሴቶች ራሳቸው ስለራሳቸው ያላቸውን ግንዛቤ መቀየር አለባቸው፡፡ በራሳቸው ምሉዕነት የማይሰማቸው ከሆነ የወንዶች ጥገኛ መሆናቸው የሚቀጥል ነው፡፡ አንዳንድ ሴቶች መብታቸውን ማስከበር ማለት የሚፈልጉትን ያለተቃውሞ መልበስ ይመስላቸዋል፡፡ የምትፈልጊውን ያለተቃውሞ መልበስሽ ሳይሆን ልብሱን የፈለግሺበት ውስጣዊ ምክንያትሽ ምግብ እና መጠለያን የሚያቀርብልሽን ወንድ ለመሳብ ብቻ ከሆነ ከወንዱ የበላይነት አልተላቀቅሽም፡፡ካንቺ በታች የሆነ የኑሮ ሁኔታ ወይም ተፈጥሯዊ አቅም ያለው ወንድ የማይስብሽ ከሆነ አሁንም ራስሽን በራስሽ ለማስተዳደር በቂ ነኝ ብለሽ የማታስቢ እና የወንዱን የበላይነት በልቦናሽ የተቀበልሽ የወንዱ ጥገኛ ነሽ፡፡
እንዲህ አይነት በርካታ ምሳሌዎችን እያነሱ ሴቶች በእውነት እኩልነታቸውን ተገንዝበውታል ወይ የሚለውን መጠየቅ ይቻላል፡፡ እውነታው ገና ሴቶች ራሳቸው እኩል መሆናቸውን አምነው አለመቀበላቸው ነው፡፡
ለዚህም ነው እንኳን የሴቶች እና የወንዶች እኩልነት ተከብሯል ልንል ቀርቶ ሴቶች ራሳቸው እኩል መሆናቸውን አምነው እንዲቀበሉ ብዙ ርቀት መሄድ ያስፈልጋል የምንለው፡፡ በተለይም ደግሞ ጋብቻ የሴቶች ‹‹አለም›› እንደሆነ በሚታሰብበት እና ‹‹አለምሽ ዛሬ ነው ዛሬ›› እየተባለ በሚዜምበት ማህበረሰብ ውሥጥ ሆኖ፤ እናት ሴት ልጇን ለማጀት ወንዱን ለአደባባይ እንዲሆኑ አድርጋ ቀርፃ በምታሳድግበት ማህበረሰብ ውስጥ፤ ሀይማኖታዊ እሳቤዎች የሁሉም ነገር መሰረት በሆኑበት ማህበረሰብ ውስጥ፤ ሴት የሀጢአት ምንጭ እንደሆነች ሲሰበክ በኖረ ማህበረሰብ ውስጥ እኩልነትን ለማምጣት ገና ብዙ ርቀት መሄድ እና ስር ነቀል ማህበረሰባዊ ለውጥ ማምጣት ያለብን
Vent Here
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ፌሚኒዝምን እንደአንድ ጠቅልላቹ የምትፈርጁ ሰዎች በመጀመሪያ ስንት አይነት ፌሚኒዝም አንዳለ ማወቅ አለባቹ አብዛኛዎቻቹ የምትወቅሱት ራዲካል ፌሚኒዝም የሚባለውን ፅንፍ የያዘው ፌሚኒዝምን ነው ራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶች የሴቶችን መብት ለማስከበር የወንዶች የበላይነት ያለበትን የአሁኑ ፓትሪያርኪያል ማህበረሳበዊ መዋቅር ሙሉ ለሙሉ መቀየር አለበት ብለው የሚያምኑ ሲሆን፤ የማህበረሰቡ መሰረታዊ እሳቤ ካልተቀየረ የተለያዩ ህግጋትን በማውጣት ብቻ እኩልነትን ማምጣት አይቻልም ሲሉ ይከራከራሉ፡፡ እንደ ራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶች እምነት ከሆነ ጥልቅ እንቅልፍ ውስጥ ያለን ሰው ለመቀስቀስ በለሆሳስ ስሙን መጥራት ፋይዳ የለውምና ድምፅን እጅግ ከፍ ማድረግ አሊያም የተኛውን ሰው መወዝወዝ ይጠይቃል፡፡ አሁን ያለንበት ማህበረሰብም የወንዶችን እና የሴቶችን እኩልነት ለመረዳት በማይችልበት ጥልቅ ድንቁርና ውስጥ ስለሚገኝ ማህበረሰቡን ለማንቃት ፅንፍ መያዝ አስፈላጊ ነው ብለው ያምናሉ፡፡ ከራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶች መካከል ገሚሶቹ የሴት ልጅ ማርገዝ ለደካማነቷ መንስኤ በመሆኑ ውርጃን እና የተለያዩ የወሊድ መቆጣጠሪያዎችን መጠቀምን ያበረታታሉ፡፡ በእርግጥ ደግሞ በተቃራኒው መራባት የሴት ልጅ የሀይሏ ምንጭ ነው፡፡ እርግዝና ወንዱ የሌለውና ሴቷ መብቷን ለማስከበር የምትጠቀምበት መንገድ ሊሆን ይገባል ብለው የሚያምኑ ራዲካል ፌሚኒስቶችም አሉ፡፡
ሌላው ሊበራል ፌሚኒዝም ፌሚኒስቶች ሴቶችም ሆኑ ወንዶች በተፈጥሮ እኩል ናቸው ብለው የሚያምኑ ሲሆን አሁን ያለው ልዩነት የመጣው ፓትሪያርኪያል በሆነው ማህበራዊ መዋቅር ነው ይላሉ፡፡ ይህ የወንዶች የበላይነት ያለበት ማህበራዊ መዋቅር ደግሞ የተንጠለጠለው እስትንፋሱን ለማቆየት ባወጣቸው ህግጋቶች በመሆኑ እንዚህን ህግጋቶች ማስተካከል ከተቻለ የሴቶችን እና የወንዶችን እኩልነት ማስከበር ይቻላል ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡ ይህን ለማድረግም ሴቶች ከወንዶች እኩል በፖለቲካው በኢኮኖሚው እና በማህበራዊው መስክ የሚሳተፉበትን መንገድ ማመቻቸት ዋናው መንገድ ነው ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡ ህግጋትን በማውጣት እና በተለያዩ መስኮች ላይ የሴቶችን ተሳትፎ በማሳደግ ብቻ የማህበረሰቡን ስነልቦና መለወጥ ይቻላል ወይ የሚለው ጉዳይ ግን ጥያቄ ውስጥ የሚገባ ነው፡፡ ሴቶች ከፍተኛ የሚባሉትን የስልጣን እርከኖች በጨበጡባቸው ሀገራት ውስጥ እንኳን ፆታዊ ጥቃቶች መቀጠላቸው የሚያረጋግጠው እውነታ ቢኖር ህግጋት ስነልቦናዊ ለውጥ ለማምጣት በራሳቸው በቂ እንዳልሆኑ ነው፡፡
3ኛው ካልቸራል ፌሚኒዝም አሁን ሀገራችን ላይ በብዛት የተለመደው ፌሚኒዝም ተከታይ ፌሚኒስቶች ደግሞ በወንዶች እና በሴቶች መካከል ባዮሎጂካል የሆኑ ልዩነቶች አሉ ብለው የሚያምኑ ሲሆን በልዩነቱም ውስጥ ሴቶች የተሻሉ ናቸው ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡ ይህቺ አለም በአብዛኛው በሴቶች የምትተዳደር ቢሆን ኖሮ አሁን እንዳለው አይነት እልቂት እና ጦርነት አይኖርም ነበር፡፡ ሴቶች በተፈጥሯችን ሩህሩህ እና ተጋባቢ በመሆናችን ይላሉ፡፡ ካልቸራል ፌሚኒስቶች ማህበረሰቡን በማስተማር ለውጥ ይመጣል ብለው ያስባሉ፡፡
ግን ከሁሉም በማስቀደም ሴቶች ራሳቸው ስለራሳቸው ያላቸውን ግንዛቤ መቀየር አለባቸው፡፡ በራሳቸው ምሉዕነት የማይሰማቸው ከሆነ የወንዶች ጥገኛ መሆናቸው የሚቀጥል ነው፡፡ አንዳንድ ሴቶች መብታቸውን ማስከበር ማለት የሚፈልጉትን ያለተቃውሞ መልበስ ይመስላቸዋል፡፡ የምትፈልጊውን ያለተቃውሞ መልበስሽ ሳይሆን ልብሱን የፈለግሺበት ውስጣዊ ምክንያትሽ ምግብ እና መጠለያን የሚያቀርብልሽን ወንድ ለመሳብ ብቻ ከሆነ ከወንዱ የበላይነት አልተላቀቅሽም፡፡ካንቺ በታች የሆነ የኑሮ ሁኔታ ወይም ተፈጥሯዊ አቅም ያለው ወንድ የማይስብሽ ከሆነ አሁንም ራስሽን በራስሽ ለማስተዳደር በቂ ነኝ ብለሽ የማታስቢ እና የወንዱን የበላይነት በልቦናሽ የተቀበልሽ የወንዱ ጥገኛ ነሽ፡፡
እንዲህ አይነት በርካታ ምሳሌዎችን እያነሱ ሴቶች በእውነት እኩልነታቸውን ተገንዝበውታል ወይ የሚለውን መጠየቅ ይቻላል፡፡ እውነታው ገና ሴቶች ራሳቸው እኩል መሆናቸውን አምነው አለመቀበላቸው ነው፡፡
ለዚህም ነው እንኳን የሴቶች እና የወንዶች እኩልነት ተከብሯል ልንል ቀርቶ ሴቶች ራሳቸው እኩል መሆናቸውን አምነው እንዲቀበሉ ብዙ ርቀት መሄድ ያስፈልጋል የምንለው፡፡ በተለይም ደግሞ ጋብቻ የሴቶች ‹‹አለም›› እንደሆነ በሚታሰብበት እና ‹‹አለምሽ ዛሬ ነው ዛሬ›› እየተባለ በሚዜምበት ማህበረሰብ ውሥጥ ሆኖ፤ እናት ሴት ልጇን ለማጀት ወንዱን ለአደባባይ እንዲሆኑ አድርጋ ቀርፃ በምታሳድግበት ማህበረሰብ ውስጥ፤ ሀይማኖታዊ እሳቤዎች የሁሉም ነገር መሰረት በሆኑበት ማህበረሰብ ውስጥ፤ ሴት የሀጢአት ምንጭ እንደሆነች ሲሰበክ በኖረ ማህበረሰብ ውስጥ እኩልነትን ለማምጣት ገና ብዙ ርቀት መሄድ እና ስር ነቀል ማህበረሰባዊ ለውጥ ማምጣት ያለብን
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hey guys, i needed to get this out. i have my final exams in 3 days and i don’t know a damn thing. i don’t think i will get even 50% and ik i am gonna fail. even rn i am in online class trying to concentrate my best but things keep going over my head. i try to attempt mock tests but give up after like 5 questions. my attention span is too small. ik if i am able to concentrate i may be able to barely pass. but i don’t know how to...i really don’t. i waste hours daydreaming and whatnot.
at this point i just want to cry and scream,i am gonna go crazy. and my dad will kill me if he finds out i fail
please tell me how can i concentrate.
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hey guys, i needed to get this out. i have my final exams in 3 days and i don’t know a damn thing. i don’t think i will get even 50% and ik i am gonna fail. even rn i am in online class trying to concentrate my best but things keep going over my head. i try to attempt mock tests but give up after like 5 questions. my attention span is too small. ik if i am able to concentrate i may be able to barely pass. but i don’t know how to...i really don’t. i waste hours daydreaming and whatnot.
at this point i just want to cry and scream,i am gonna go crazy. and my dad will kill me if he finds out i fail
please tell me how can i concentrate.
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Im currently learning computer science at unity and i have good grades i think, i got 3.4 this semester and i will get better with each semester and also add the subjects with not so good results, i hope to graduate with 3.8 or 3.6 atleast but i keep thinking about employers and how they see unity as this playground for adults and im really afraid that i wont be able to get a job just because of that fact. If theres anyone with a computer science degree from unity please comment and tell me your experience after graduation. Thanks in advance
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Im currently learning computer science at unity and i have good grades i think, i got 3.4 this semester and i will get better with each semester and also add the subjects with not so good results, i hope to graduate with 3.8 or 3.6 atleast but i keep thinking about employers and how they see unity as this playground for adults and im really afraid that i wont be able to get a job just because of that fact. If theres anyone with a computer science degree from unity please comment and tell me your experience after graduation. Thanks in advance
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Have you guys ever been in a relationship where nothing else mattered as long as you're together? We only dated for two months but we literally gave each other our all, met up every day and had 3 meals together I felt like I was living in a movie. But that ended after I left the country for college, and compounded by the fact that we were from different religions (she Pente and I Muslim) we mutually agreed to end the relationship. Fast forward now you can pretty much say I'm a shell of my former self. I find it really hard to open up and be vulnerable to people. I do go on a lot of dates cuz I do come off as interesting in the beginning but most of them lose interest after a couple of dates because I'm not allowing them to get to know the real me. But I have so much to give, my personality used to make people feel like they had superpowers but now it's like I got no personality at all. How does one get their mojo back? How do you start to feel the music again?
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Have you guys ever been in a relationship where nothing else mattered as long as you're together? We only dated for two months but we literally gave each other our all, met up every day and had 3 meals together I felt like I was living in a movie. But that ended after I left the country for college, and compounded by the fact that we were from different religions (she Pente and I Muslim) we mutually agreed to end the relationship. Fast forward now you can pretty much say I'm a shell of my former self. I find it really hard to open up and be vulnerable to people. I do go on a lot of dates cuz I do come off as interesting in the beginning but most of them lose interest after a couple of dates because I'm not allowing them to get to know the real me. But I have so much to give, my personality used to make people feel like they had superpowers but now it's like I got no personality at all. How does one get their mojo back? How do you start to feel the music again?
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Lately i am literally tired of these regret. . . since i was a little girl i develop a feeling of being sexually insecured around boys without even knowing it i always enjoy only spending time with my best friend, i used to spend a day and night with her and we spend almost all summer together we sometimes even kissed eachotther but we both wasn't aware of what was going on until one day this summer my best friend tells me that she is in love with me which really shocked me by that time cause i wasn't aware of a thing about my sexuallity it freaks me out for a while so i just go home with out saying a thing and it takes me 3 days to process all that but i finally decided to tell her that i was feeling the same and happy to try that but she just rejected my calls and also she moved to hawassa for a while. The problem is while i was waiting her her to come back to AA , my parents tells me that my US visa was accepted and i had to leave. So i got no choice i just leave before a month .... i never get rest since arrival i was texting , Dm' ing and calling her everyday but i didn't get a response now i am regretting the way i reacted to her i regret for not telling her my feelings on time i can't be happy this day please help me out
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Lately i am literally tired of these regret. . . since i was a little girl i develop a feeling of being sexually insecured around boys without even knowing it i always enjoy only spending time with my best friend, i used to spend a day and night with her and we spend almost all summer together we sometimes even kissed eachotther but we both wasn't aware of what was going on until one day this summer my best friend tells me that she is in love with me which really shocked me by that time cause i wasn't aware of a thing about my sexuallity it freaks me out for a while so i just go home with out saying a thing and it takes me 3 days to process all that but i finally decided to tell her that i was feeling the same and happy to try that but she just rejected my calls and also she moved to hawassa for a while. The problem is while i was waiting her her to come back to AA , my parents tells me that my US visa was accepted and i had to leave. So i got no choice i just leave before a month .... i never get rest since arrival i was texting , Dm' ing and calling her everyday but i didn't get a response now i am regretting the way i reacted to her i regret for not telling her my feelings on time i can't be happy this day please help me out
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Why are we like this? Is this how a nation supposed to act? Why are we ignorant to one another's pain? Why is it hard for us to find sympathy to one another? Where did this fucking tribalism came from?? Don't you dare say it's the Past 3 decades blah blah....people hated each other before that. Maybe those past decades contributed to the issue but they are not the cause. Let's take this channel for example if anybody vents about tigray whether they are non-harm or offensive, most of you non-tigrayans are racist and hateful towards that vent. I read comments that said "you people deserved it" "karma is a bitch" are y'all really dumb like that? And when ever a person talks about ማይካድራ massacre a tigrayan person would go to the comments and be like "tigres died not amharas" "they are faking it, they were told to sleep" how fucking immature and stupid can you be to Just blindly believe something and post about it on social media. I know people are entitled to their opinion I know but like why does it bother you so much? The bottom line is people got hurt why can't you just except that? And If a person posts about the HUGE killing that happened in tigray or even mentions about the government not being right all of a sudden you are supporting Tplf. Like the fuck?? Can't I just be a human?? And have sympathy? And please, when a person talks about the women in tigray being raped, massive amounts of people getting killed or even riots, loots don't I mean DON'T be like "another Tplf's propaganda" whether you want them to be true or not those things happened. People don't have homes no more. Or even loved ones. Ffs a 4 year old lost her legs, her parents, grand parents. She is a 4 year old what did she do? Is she a terrorist? Why is it hard to admit she was targeted cause of her ethnicity? Why is it hard to believe trouble things happened and are happening just without having a reason to justify them? People are racist towards tigrayans now in addis abeba. (saying this with first hand experience) Amhara people are being killed for no fucking reason and nobody says nothing. Not even the government of amhara region. What happened in አጣዬ? What inflicted all of that pain and killings? Are the people getting help? Are the people that have done this behind bars? Why is nobody saying nothing. For all of the problems it's always Tplf Tplf Tplf. Sure they could be the cause but what did the government do to prevent it?(and lemme tell you you can't blame somebody for every single problem) Why can't we have sympathy for each other? Why does everyone wants to act like the victim and the other one is the bad one? Why are those 3 ethnic groups causing so much harm in a country where 80+ ethnic groups live? Like what the fuck is wrong with us??
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Why are we like this? Is this how a nation supposed to act? Why are we ignorant to one another's pain? Why is it hard for us to find sympathy to one another? Where did this fucking tribalism came from?? Don't you dare say it's the Past 3 decades blah blah....people hated each other before that. Maybe those past decades contributed to the issue but they are not the cause. Let's take this channel for example if anybody vents about tigray whether they are non-harm or offensive, most of you non-tigrayans are racist and hateful towards that vent. I read comments that said "you people deserved it" "karma is a bitch" are y'all really dumb like that? And when ever a person talks about ማይካድራ massacre a tigrayan person would go to the comments and be like "tigres died not amharas" "they are faking it, they were told to sleep" how fucking immature and stupid can you be to Just blindly believe something and post about it on social media. I know people are entitled to their opinion I know but like why does it bother you so much? The bottom line is people got hurt why can't you just except that? And If a person posts about the HUGE killing that happened in tigray or even mentions about the government not being right all of a sudden you are supporting Tplf. Like the fuck?? Can't I just be a human?? And have sympathy? And please, when a person talks about the women in tigray being raped, massive amounts of people getting killed or even riots, loots don't I mean DON'T be like "another Tplf's propaganda" whether you want them to be true or not those things happened. People don't have homes no more. Or even loved ones. Ffs a 4 year old lost her legs, her parents, grand parents. She is a 4 year old what did she do? Is she a terrorist? Why is it hard to admit she was targeted cause of her ethnicity? Why is it hard to believe trouble things happened and are happening just without having a reason to justify them? People are racist towards tigrayans now in addis abeba. (saying this with first hand experience) Amhara people are being killed for no fucking reason and nobody says nothing. Not even the government of amhara region. What happened in አጣዬ? What inflicted all of that pain and killings? Are the people getting help? Are the people that have done this behind bars? Why is nobody saying nothing. For all of the problems it's always Tplf Tplf Tplf. Sure they could be the cause but what did the government do to prevent it?(and lemme tell you you can't blame somebody for every single problem) Why can't we have sympathy for each other? Why does everyone wants to act like the victim and the other one is the bad one? Why are those 3 ethnic groups causing so much harm in a country where 80+ ethnic groups live? Like what the fuck is wrong with us??
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hey..
i am sorry i really need to talk this out. ok so,,yesterday night my dad and cousin argued a bit about my mums side of family. (my cousin is also from mums side) they were bitching about certain relatives and my dad was bit drunk and got hyper. he started saying how they don’t respect him and how my uncles son said that he will slap my dad and beat him. and he said like 10 times how he has lended them money,paid for their kids tution and whatnot. my mum was agreeing with it all,even she said that her sister-in-law’s are greedy.
and today in morning,my mum is bitching about my dad’s side of family. saying how they are snakes and keep using her.that they lie to dad to get money etc etc.
now both my parents are in bad mood,and taking it out in passive aggressive manner. my sister just asked to pass her her notebook and dad snapped at her like,”TAKE IT YOURSELF “ and he keeps muttering something,,mum has a frown on her face since morning and it’s stressing me out. i don’t understand why they gotta be like this because of some greedy bitchy relatives?¿ why just why can’t they stay normal. it’s been 19 goddam years since they married and they still haven’t figured it out to not take out anger on your kids because you are in a bad mood because of a conversation you started. i have my exams and i am sitting here crying instead of studying
if i fail they will scold me.
everytime it’s like this. they ruin the atmosphere and i can’t focus or enjoy whatever i am doing. they don’t understand but these things stick with me. when i hear about my stupid relatives it ruins my mood,then i am too annoyed to do anything. then my parents act sweet to the same relatives. fuck them. seriously they cause fights and stress in our home all the time. i wish my parents would sort this shit out in private and for gods sake not be passive aggressive about it. idc go fight in a hotel room but SORT IT OUT IN PRIVATE I DO NOT WANT TO TAKE STRESS BECAUSE OF SOMETHING STUPID
now my mood is ruined and i don’t want to study or do anything. i tried meditation,taking a small nap qnd all but this is too hard. i seriously want to bang my head against a wall and burst it. atleast the hospital room would be quieter.
i like quiet peaceful environment. no tension,no passive aggressiveness,no one bitching about something, just peace with everyone doing their own things quietly.
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hey..
i am sorry i really need to talk this out. ok so,,yesterday night my dad and cousin argued a bit about my mums side of family. (my cousin is also from mums side) they were bitching about certain relatives and my dad was bit drunk and got hyper. he started saying how they don’t respect him and how my uncles son said that he will slap my dad and beat him. and he said like 10 times how he has lended them money,paid for their kids tution and whatnot. my mum was agreeing with it all,even she said that her sister-in-law’s are greedy.
and today in morning,my mum is bitching about my dad’s side of family. saying how they are snakes and keep using her.that they lie to dad to get money etc etc.
now both my parents are in bad mood,and taking it out in passive aggressive manner. my sister just asked to pass her her notebook and dad snapped at her like,”TAKE IT YOURSELF “ and he keeps muttering something,,mum has a frown on her face since morning and it’s stressing me out. i don’t understand why they gotta be like this because of some greedy bitchy relatives?¿ why just why can’t they stay normal. it’s been 19 goddam years since they married and they still haven’t figured it out to not take out anger on your kids because you are in a bad mood because of a conversation you started. i have my exams and i am sitting here crying instead of studying
if i fail they will scold me.
everytime it’s like this. they ruin the atmosphere and i can’t focus or enjoy whatever i am doing. they don’t understand but these things stick with me. when i hear about my stupid relatives it ruins my mood,then i am too annoyed to do anything. then my parents act sweet to the same relatives. fuck them. seriously they cause fights and stress in our home all the time. i wish my parents would sort this shit out in private and for gods sake not be passive aggressive about it. idc go fight in a hotel room but SORT IT OUT IN PRIVATE I DO NOT WANT TO TAKE STRESS BECAUSE OF SOMETHING STUPID
now my mood is ruined and i don’t want to study or do anything. i tried meditation,taking a small nap qnd all but this is too hard. i seriously want to bang my head against a wall and burst it. atleast the hospital room would be quieter.
i like quiet peaceful environment. no tension,no passive aggressiveness,no one bitching about something, just peace with everyone doing their own things quietly.
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A note to self....
6/14/21 02:40 pm....
This moment right here feeling Soo lonely and sad surrounded by people, peoples who are there but not actually there, they are not the kind of people u want at the moment then this feeling of emtyness grows really big Everytime I use but it will relief me of the grief of life at least for a while Soo I do it anyway, it seems it got no solution but in reality it have solutions that arises from with in I believe in this shit but I don't know why it's Soo hard to change it to that I have like trying my ass off actually I always feel like I didn't give it my best just try then with a very tiny difficulty I loose hope this world is Soo hard I can't handle it anymore I know I need change but where is that change that seems Soo far like this, what is happening in this world u are given million things to enjoy but in reality those things are surrounded with like a damn maze that might get u lost and most do, this empty feeling nothing in life works out the way we planned it I know it is everybody that feels like this and that don't make any fucken diff I'm like this and I really hate it to get out I have to change my core I'm not gonna tell u how hard this is lately I'm feeling if I got my dad at home it would have been Soo much better at least I'll have a dad to show me the right and wrong may be I would never become this confused I can't say this with certainity but I really wish things were not like this okay here ur wondering what are this things that this guy want to change to make him feel Soo empty like this okay let me tell u this every thing is fucked up everything seems it's flawed in some way in a sense everything I do, begening from this day's I don't have shit that I'm focused on I got nothing that interest me anymore this world stops to amuse me everything becomes boring, and this courage thing fuck it, okay tell me this how come somebody don't have a thing that he is good at, and this world that everybody acts as they figured it all how are u Soo damn good at that shit are u this gud let me clap for u really, how can I make my life interesting, what makes me feel bad?
~i don't approach bitches Soo I feel like I'm always afraid(and I know this guy who also grew up with a dad and I noticed he is as fucked up as me) Soo what is the deal we r all result of the things happened in our life, tell me if two guys are in a fighting compition(life) and u give one an automatic gun and the other a sword and the other a spear it's clear that the one with the gun will win first the man with spear then the with a sword will be off unless they know that they will face a damn gun man and trained in that specific task but the gun man has a gun and in every task he has a lead and others must change Everytime
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A note to self....
6/14/21 02:40 pm....
This moment right here feeling Soo lonely and sad surrounded by people, peoples who are there but not actually there, they are not the kind of people u want at the moment then this feeling of emtyness grows really big Everytime I use but it will relief me of the grief of life at least for a while Soo I do it anyway, it seems it got no solution but in reality it have solutions that arises from with in I believe in this shit but I don't know why it's Soo hard to change it to that I have like trying my ass off actually I always feel like I didn't give it my best just try then with a very tiny difficulty I loose hope this world is Soo hard I can't handle it anymore I know I need change but where is that change that seems Soo far like this, what is happening in this world u are given million things to enjoy but in reality those things are surrounded with like a damn maze that might get u lost and most do, this empty feeling nothing in life works out the way we planned it I know it is everybody that feels like this and that don't make any fucken diff I'm like this and I really hate it to get out I have to change my core I'm not gonna tell u how hard this is lately I'm feeling if I got my dad at home it would have been Soo much better at least I'll have a dad to show me the right and wrong may be I would never become this confused I can't say this with certainity but I really wish things were not like this okay here ur wondering what are this things that this guy want to change to make him feel Soo empty like this okay let me tell u this every thing is fucked up everything seems it's flawed in some way in a sense everything I do, begening from this day's I don't have shit that I'm focused on I got nothing that interest me anymore this world stops to amuse me everything becomes boring, and this courage thing fuck it, okay tell me this how come somebody don't have a thing that he is good at, and this world that everybody acts as they figured it all how are u Soo damn good at that shit are u this gud let me clap for u really, how can I make my life interesting, what makes me feel bad?
~i don't approach bitches Soo I feel like I'm always afraid(and I know this guy who also grew up with a dad and I noticed he is as fucked up as me) Soo what is the deal we r all result of the things happened in our life, tell me if two guys are in a fighting compition(life) and u give one an automatic gun and the other a sword and the other a spear it's clear that the one with the gun will win first the man with spear then the with a sword will be off unless they know that they will face a damn gun man and trained in that specific task but the gun man has a gun and in every task he has a lead and others must change Everytime
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I guess this is what love means
Even at this time I couldn't stop thinking about you
Eventhough things between us are very uncertain, hopeless and shattering but the way my heartbeats for you is still the same I couldn't change the way I feel I don't want to do it ..or so I can't do it
Because this is what love is for me you are my love
I have been through a lot since I started developing this feelings hardest one was the emotional pain I have to go through
I don't go by wrong time right guy
You know they say there is no right time there is just a time and what you choose to do with it
I choose to spend my forever lifetime with you
Cause forever is composed of now's as Emily Dickinson said
Let's dare to start a life together
I really love the person who I am now and it's all because I found you
I love both of us . please
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I guess this is what love means
Even at this time I couldn't stop thinking about you
Eventhough things between us are very uncertain, hopeless and shattering but the way my heartbeats for you is still the same I couldn't change the way I feel I don't want to do it ..or so I can't do it
Because this is what love is for me you are my love
I have been through a lot since I started developing this feelings hardest one was the emotional pain I have to go through
I don't go by wrong time right guy
You know they say there is no right time there is just a time and what you choose to do with it
I choose to spend my forever lifetime with you
Cause forever is composed of now's as Emily Dickinson said
Let's dare to start a life together
I really love the person who I am now and it's all because I found you
I love both of us . please
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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Something I found while reading, hope it helps some of u guys. in one study, they asked supporters of two presidential candidates (George W. Bush and Al Gore) how happy or unhappy they expected to be if their…
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Another piece of knowledge found in a book, as always it's here in hopes it might help you as it did me.
A toxic relationship
occurs when one or both
people are prioritizing
love over the three core
components of a healthy
relationship : respect, trust, and affection.
This might sound crazy to some people, but love should not be the reason to stay in a relationship , and that’s because it can cloud our judgment in these other very important areas.
If you prioritize the love you get out of a relationship over the respect you’re given, you’ll tolerate being treated like a doormat.
If you prioritize love over trust in the relationship, you’ll tolerate lying and cheating.
If you prioritize love over affection in the relationship, you’ll tolerate a cold and distant existence in the relationship.
We tolerate bad relationships for all sorts of reasons—maybe we have low self-esteem , maybe we’re not self-aware enough to realize what’s going on, maybe we don’t have a good handle on our emotions , and so on. But all this does is create a superficial, psychologically unhealthy, and potentially
abusive relationship.
That's all I Got🙏🏾
OH... And Happy New Year 🌼🌼🌼
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Another piece of knowledge found in a book, as always it's here in hopes it might help you as it did me.
A toxic relationship
occurs when one or both
people are prioritizing
love over the three core
components of a healthy
relationship : respect, trust, and affection.
This might sound crazy to some people, but love should not be the reason to stay in a relationship , and that’s because it can cloud our judgment in these other very important areas.
If you prioritize the love you get out of a relationship over the respect you’re given, you’ll tolerate being treated like a doormat.
If you prioritize love over trust in the relationship, you’ll tolerate lying and cheating.
If you prioritize love over affection in the relationship, you’ll tolerate a cold and distant existence in the relationship.
We tolerate bad relationships for all sorts of reasons—maybe we have low self-esteem , maybe we’re not self-aware enough to realize what’s going on, maybe we don’t have a good handle on our emotions , and so on. But all this does is create a superficial, psychologically unhealthy, and potentially
abusive relationship.
That's all I Got🙏🏾
OH... And Happy New Year 🌼🌼🌼
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