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Okay So I'm a highschool student and last year was really tough for me I lost all my friends without knowing why the only thing I know is that they hated me from the begining and I broke up with my first boyfriend(I know it wasn't the time and I really regret about that) also my grades weren't that cool but The new year is coming and there's school and everything again so I just saw comment boxes and observed that there are mature people in this channel so guys please give me some plans to work on and help me to become the better version of myself the next year from your experience in life.

Thank you.🤎

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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend we have been together like 8 years he is my bestfriend brother and many thing ena ahun like distance lay nene almost wedfitm endzaw ahun yalhut america nw esu dmo Ethiopia ena betam hard honbgal endet handle endmnaderge gera gebtogal... enwadadln besu sure negeg gn mn maderge endalbn alwknm ... pls give us some advice i don't want to lose him endet mature mhone endlbn ...

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Some men hate feminists as if we're not the only people who believe men can actually do better 🤨,some of you people are fine in gutter.
And i don't think how straight men relize how they drag themselves.
Ya'll sleep with a women that you just met and later call her "natsy and easy" for sleeping with YOU? So basically, she has to lack self respect to allow YOU inside of her body. And y'all comment "Daddy Issues" or "Fatherless activities" under videos of women twerking. So if she is that way because her father ran off then you agree! MEN ARE THE PROBLEM! At the same time Y'all ask why feminists bash men all the time but the only men that we criticize are misogynist,predators, abusers and extra ..so if you guys think that we are bashing men in general, then you are the one who thinks that men are trash!!

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Hello there. I'm a 19 year old girl(about to be 20)
So here's the thing...I've been in a serious relationship (relatively), a not-so-serious relationship, a friends with benefit relationship, an unclassified relationship....and ppl..NONE OF IT WORKS. I just cannot find the right person. And don't mistake 'right' for 'perfect'..I'm not looking for perfect. I might be oblivious, but not that much. I just really want to settle. I wanna meet the right guy, stay with him through thick n thin and tell my kids 'we met when we were teenagers????'

Dmo gnbare lay 'sex mareg efelgalehu' teblo yeteletefe ymesl andn sew le samnt salawara they come at me like 'sex enarg????' ...seriously ppl.

I've been asked for this shit by all the partners in the relationships I listed above and currently, I despise even the thought of sex. I'm a virgin and I fear the stupidity, ignorance and genuine sgtna of the men around me might force me to stay that way.

Call me naïve but I just wanna meet some one online or in person who I can talk to as just friends for a couple of years and then we suddenly realize we're meant to be more...????

Bcha I don't even know wat I'm asking you guys for...I probably just needed to hear (read) myself talk (type)

Thanks anyway.

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I was always against the idea of venting and all, but I gotta get this off my chest. M 21 y.o here. So there's this girl in my campus and it's been almost 2 yrs since we started talking. We talk a lot (or atleast used to) on tg and I honestly enjoy every fucking minute I spend talking to her. I can't say anything on her behalf, but she clicks with me so well like nobody else, and I'm starting to worry that I'll never meet someone like her. She has anti-social phases and I have had my hardest times tryna be close to her. Fun fact we don't even say hi to each other menged lay ketegenagnen, despite us talking about everything and nearly everyday on tg. I'm so fucking tired of passing her by on streets and pretending I didn't see her. I tried to make it sth real, sth that's not just a virtual thing but it didn't work out. Never have I given this much effort into a girl, but lets just say she has this boundary that she won't let me pass. I have feelings for her but I don't really mind being her bestie. And the worst part is I just can't see her caring side. She says we are friends but c'mon a friend would, at the very least, wish you a goodluck on your exams or asks you how it went. I mean how wouldn't you say your wishes to a friend knowing that he has exams the next day? I surely know that if I stop talking to her, our friendship comes to an end. And I constantly can't have the energy, right? And recently I told her that I'm crushing on her (or she kinda knew). She has a dude and I would've been okay if our friendship was great, and the fact is, it isn't. I'm in a middle of nowhere and I'm really tired of constantly throwing efforts into something with no fucking positive outcomes.

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So this is my story im happier than i used to be but the thing is i am a univeristy student about to be 3rd year before going to univeristy i was all alone in a big house i was very lonely i didnt have anyone my age i felt alone only daughter i have my mom and dad but whenever they go i felt alone my mom is sweet women so after i finish highschool i also had allergic reaction to the shower of the house maybe its because i did not like the house so i cant shower and i couldnt handle it anymore the loneliness and allergy everything so i asked them when i finish highschool i want to move out beka i cant do this so surprisingly they said alright but the house they got for me is very expensive 6000 birr a month and now im 2nd year shower very good i dont feel lonely nomore but the money😭they pay for it but i couldnt go on no more what if they are struggling to pay my house rent eyalku techeneku i cant even see my mom eyes nomore i feel sad so today i told her whatever happenes i dont want you to pay nomore and shower lela bota eyareku i can get back to that lonely place alkyt and am i wrong?

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Hey you guys how are u all doing? I hope all great and stuff. So I am here to ask everyone to give me an opinion on stg that I am planning to do. So I am girl and been dating this guy for 2 years. I mean we had our the best and happy moments together. But then again dude could be emotionally abusive. Like a lot more abusive and even calls me names and the names are like Soo uk god damn. And his excuses were like I didn't mean to, it was out of anger. And his way of showing love and affection for me depends on his mood. The worst part is when I don't tell him about my life he gets pissed and when I do especially the dark side of it he freaks out and say why did u tell me?and shit. Let's not even talk about the past where he cheated or showed me his interest for another woman. I pretend to fool myself like maybe we weren't that into eachother. But I actually was. He even used to get pissed when I told him I loved him more than anything.
Now he says that back but the names and some stuffs didn't stop. But you know no talking about the past as long as I kept up with it uk. But even right now his way of hurting me changed but he didn't. Yet again I am so in love with him (Cringey ). But it starts to feel like I am the one who's trying to keep us together. So I am trying to keep my distance from him but what if I make a mistake and lose him? Would I be able to handle life without him? I really don't know what to do.

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I lost everything. 5 internships this year alone ruined the chance to become medalist from my section (I am college student) and my suicidal ideations resurfaced anyone who has gone through the same thing please give me advice I have lost my will to keep going

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Something I found while reading, hope it helps some of u guys.

in one study, they asked supporters of two presidential candidates (George W. Bush and Al Gore) how happy or unhappy they expected to be if their candidate won or lost. 4 Then a month later, after Bush won, they went back and asked people how happy or unhappy they were about the outcome. Bush supporters were less enthused than they expected to be and Gore supporters were less upset than they expected to be.
But here’s the kicker: five months later, psychologists asked the same people how happy/upset they remember being after Bush won, and across the board people exaggerated how they had actually felt at the time.
Bush supporters remembered being happier than they were, and Gore supporters remembered being more upset than they were. It seems that our estimations of how happy/unhappy we are become more and more exaggerated the further away from the present they occur.
This means that horrible family trip that we hated so much as a kid probably wasn’t as bad as we thought it was, and winning the Call of Duty 4 tournament we practiced so hard for won’t actually be as enjoyable as we expect. The reason for this is that our minds aren’t capable of remembering every tiny detail of experience, nor are they capable of predicting every detail of experience either. As a result, our mind takes the general vision of an experience (past or future) and fills in the blanks. If what we remember was somewhat painful and unenjoyable, we just assume that all of it was painful and unenjoyable. If, in our future fantasies, all we can imagine are the enjoyable and exciting aspects of an experience, our mind goes ahead and fills in the blanks and assumes everything about the situation will be great.
That's all I Got🙏🏾

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Is it ok to want to find closure from your rapist? Is it okay to want to talk to him or confront him about what he did? Is it okay to want to hear him say sorry? Is it okay to feel this way or am I just crazy or weird?

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Girl 19. So.. I was a feminist. Like a real hard core feminist. My whole existence seemed like it had a purpose, that is to be a feminist and to help my fellow sisters. I didn't just go around saying I was a feminist though. I did everything for that belief, i started campaigns, movements, charity and all that. Like I said I "was" a feminist. Am not anymore because I realised something. Men will be men. I am gone say this real clear. 95% of men are trash. Period. Am being generous saving the 5%. Anyway, I learned to live with it. I accepted the creatures that I was made to live with which consist of half the population. This is just the way they are, can't do shit by being a feminist. I will admit some things have changed by feminism. But still there is something in them that makes them men. I have learned to live with it. I have found my inner peace.😇😌

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent Secound time and i hope its my last time. And i just read this quote which is so true when it comes to my life the quote goes "when you get what you want that's GOD direction, when you dont get what you want thats…
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Hi I am dude and I still think about my ex it's been 1 and a half year since we last spoke I was a total jerk let me start from the beginning I think we met almost 3 years ago its was pretty casual they were ditching class I was sitting alone listening to music they came by we talked we exchanged numbers within 3 weeks we are in relationship idk how it happened but we clicked but we only talked in telegram when we meet in person I was not as comfortable as talking to her in text and voice messages but we named kids 🤦‍♂ and I got scared!  the commitment I suggested we should break up she broke down I can still feel her pain she gave me Room to apologize but I was relieved at moment I didn't wanna get back together but that was one my worst mistake in my life she was that kind of person most people wouldn't be grateful for but when she leaves you would end like me sitting in the pile of remorse one thing I learned tho pain really changes people it did not only change me but her too back then I was this spoiled brat who is not grateful for what he has I was soo materialistic and my parents obviously could not afford me I wouldn't blame them I use to get so irritated when this four words come out of my dad mouth "I don't have money" so I took matters to on my hands and tried to make money I wasted 3 years the only thing i got was depression and she didn't like this materialistic me she thought I was too obsessed with money she was totally right I wouldn't miss one unboxing and reviewing video she was the most minimalist person you could ever think of she was happy by what she got and i ruined it for her after we broke up she became materialistic Idk how it happened the best reason I could possibly think of is I left her without an explanation I only said its was me and I was right this commitment was 📈 anyway she took it really hard and she might thought the reason I broke up with her is she is not caught up in this world yet chasing shiny stuff trying to show the lives your not living or maybe I overthinked it but I am pretty sure she changed alot and a year and half ago I think I found the voice messages I saved it in my clouds incase she deleted it and she did right after we broke up listening to it was not a good idea
Being depressed, heartbroken and feeling her pain that I made her go through I just couldn't stop the self hatred all the things I did not only to her but everybody else it just kept coming and I couldn't take it anymore so I apologize to her and you know she is beautiful from the inside out when she replied with lovely words made me feel better about myself and she changed me alot I am very happy by what I got it's just life takes the hard way teaching me a lesson and this was not for your guys It was meant one person and not my ex either i met this lovely girl after after my ex politely turned me down and i didn't expect nothing esle I just wanted her to accept my apologies and she did 🙂 and life goes on and this lovely girl I promised myself i would treat her like angel and I thought she would heal my scars from the past but she finished it off 🤡but I wouldn't blame her for it was meant to be.👆

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Hi guys🤗 ....here is the thing I'm a girl and for the Past two days ,i was with My bf and we Were having sex too many times.I can't even count ☹️and now my thing has become very very red and it hurts so much 😥 I'm burning what should I do?

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Why's suicide so bad? Why does everyone keep telling me taking your own life is cowardly and selfish? Do they know what it feels like? What it is to have no hope? To be born from illiterate and poor parents whom not only hate themselves but make you hate yourself too? What it is to be a stress ball for a single parent's frustration? To be broken, both mentally and spiritually? To have questions unanswered and a gloomy future? To have nowhere to go? Everytime i get close to someone they proceed to efficiently hurt me, make me insecure about myself and what i don't have. Everytime i love someone, even if it's reciprocated the gaps between us feel too big and life becomes bitter again. Where can i go where i wouldn't feel inferior? Except ofcourse end it all.

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Hey Unihorse 🦄 Hide my Identity I need to vent What was the reason then?? u said am too kind to u ... am lovable person... cute enough for everyone... am the one that everyone must have... tadiya who hates this kind of girl? Or u were just comforting me huh?…
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I suddenly listened Gosaye's music 'ewedihalew bila' I felt that fr... I tried to move.. i tried to hide my pain... eshi mn larg... I decided wrong decisions for not to be close to you... left out from addis... got new direction for life... gn It didn't work... eshi mn larg.. life is unfair ewnet how dare i miss u koy.. u are the one who broke me eko...alchalkum... eshi mn larg..

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Hey guys i really need u'r help i have been in a relationship for more than a year now ena my bf uses every suse u can think of ena slemakom minamin sawaraw bizu family issue endalebet ena stressun relief miyareglet esu bicha endehone yinegregal ena bezi miknyat ansmamam currently gin sekro eyedewele mayhone neger yinageregal z next day ehen issue sinanesaw tifatun wede ene yazorewal ..am a virgin ena z fact that am planning to stay that way till marriage affect eyaregew endehone ena bicha behone way tifatega yaregegal ...ena min hone meselachu akum maleten he took it as a sign of conditional love and he said he want unconditional love like z way he loves me...so what do u suggest what would u do if u find u'r self in this situation

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hey people,i hope you are doing well. i need to vent

so i am a student trying to crack NEET examination. it’s on 12 september,this sunday. and my preparation is 0. i wasted an year and now i don’t know what to do. i wasted my year staying online on twitter, chatting with people that don’t even care about me,wasting hours and hours procrastinating and what not. now when i look at my parents i feel embarrassed. i wanted to be a doctor and they supported me. i told them i will work hard to crack exam in my first attempt but i didn’t i didn’t work hard. now i tell them that i will crack it next year,and i will work hard. they still support me...i know they are disappointed but they still don’t scold me and still help me sleep by patting me . dad still rubs my back and pats my head or runs his fingers through my hair if i can’t sleep. he checks on me every 2 hours all night. and if i am still up studying by 5:00 am he puts me to sleep. my mum fed me like a toddler because i couldn’t eat last night. and my dad scolded me earlier,all thise months he did so that i study. and now when he sees the kind of stress i am under because of my own mistakes he spent the entire night consoling me,that its okay i still have a chance. he told me how he had to get through college during 1984,the terrorism era. everyday it was life and death situation,he couldn’t study like he would have. he did his best,even though it took him 2 years extra he did it. and mom told me about her failures and what she learned. she told me she failed math in high school,tried again but failed again. But life had it planned out, she didn’t pursue math but by chance found an institute for shorthand course,she didn’t even know what is shorthand but the teacher said it will be helpful in getting a job. so she studied and studied like hell.for 18 hours a day,,and now she is a senior reporter. she earns well,we have 2 big houses,she married dad who is a professor and they are best parents ever.
my parents told me it’s okay,i learnt from my mistakes and its okay to take another chance. give my best in it. and if i give my 100% and still don’t make it, life will still have it planned out for me.

they are doing so much for me and all i did was disappoint them.
idek why tf was i so damn stupid. why didn’t i realise howbmuch time i am wasting. why just why wasn’t i serious for my own dreams. i threw away my first chance to build my career just because of friends.the friends who don’t even remember me. i was so stupid. i crashed from being top student to the worst one because of my procrastination laziness and friendship. i should have been selfish i should have worked hard

i am glad i am getting a second chance and i am not gonna ruin it.

i just want to say,i am willing to work my hardest. not only for my dreams but for my parents as well. i hope whenever i sense the laziness and procrastination kicking in i must remember the mistakes i made and not repeat them.

i promise to get admission in topmost medical college next year. and i have started preparing from rn

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I'm so anxious since matrik is getting closer ,I wanna study but my anxiety is not letting me.... Last night I just couldn't study cuz I was hyper ventilating, tearing up and my heart beat rate was high... It always always happens lelit lelit when I think I'm screwed.... And my mom doesn't care...she just wants me to her help her at work all day long , she just wants to use me and if I fail I know dang right sew endemataregegn. I know she will absolutely hate me and also my dad will probably not look me in the eyes for the rest of my life. I'm all grades for my parents, I remember once I got all the answers Wrong on a 5 question class work in the first grade, I told my mom hoping she could help me and she smacked my face on the spot.... And there were ppl around. Because of the grades have been one of the reasons that made me suicidal until I understood I am not my grades, and they don't decide whether I live or not but if I don't get good grades in matrik I'll be dependent on my toxic narsisstic emotionaly and mentally abusive parents being treated not so well and I don't want to live like that... Anyways I'll work hard despite all of it, cuz the harder the situations get the more meaningful what you're grinding for will be

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I need to tell this to some one. I am some one in my mid twenties and i can't live like this anymore. I don't know what's wrong with me. I can't trust my own mind. Its been like this as far back as i can remember. I get this days where i get so sad and depressed out of no where, and the thing that trigerrs me is so random. Like a crying child, the sky being dark or hearing something sad. And when i say sad i mean the type of sadness where i feel like there is no more happiness in the world. And then i feel better again, like it was a dream so much so i wonder if i made it up. Becha I'm so freaking exhausted. Up and down my mind goes and i can't stop it or control it. My friends and family know there is something wrong with me but they can't figure it out. I don't tell them because they wouldn't understand. The only sickness habesha people understand is a physical one not sonething they can't see.
I just wish i could have a normal emotion spectrum. I can't take it anymore guys. It's too much. I've tried praying, tsebel and even taking pain killers when the pain gets too much. I just want to die. I don't know what the hell this is. The older i get the harder it is to fight. I just wanna give up already. Last night i prayed so hard for God to just let me die. But here i am. Its like im drowning and im not sure im going to hold on anymore. I can't imagine living like this anymore.

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I am 24 guy .......ena the thing is I am kind of the ideal guy except my personality like I am super rich( oky my FAM is gn they kind of give me the business),I have the look ,I tall,I am kind of hot like I work out MNM ....but when it come to her like none of this matters she doesn't even care for any of this stuff......mm mselachihu I meet her few month ago she was seating with her friend cafe wust my friend want talk to her friend her friend was kind of hot ena I was stalk with her she wasn't pretty or hot she isn't even average looking but yawu endayidebrat I start talking to her and she was kind of interesting person bchs but I didn't even get her number bcha like mata I started thinking about her the things.she say and I ask her number from her friend I call her she pic up I was nerves kmr I say wtf is wrong with me I talk to her neger she was beka amazing then I don't usually use t.g gn leso bye metekem jemerku I ask her out on date dinner ena she literary came wearing a big ass Hoody ....anyhow I fall head over hill in love with her beka even if I lose everything I don't care as long as she is with me ....I been fucking a lot of girls gn she is the only I ever make love and that was ways better that getting head from 2 different girls ....... I even introduced her to my dad and she kind of read a lot of books ena she known a lot of stuff sigenagu they don't even want talk to me lol........I told my dad I want marry her and he say he will be More than happy .....campus sthad after the corona I latterly cry she is 3rd year she will graduate next year I am thinking about proposing her their

But ppl ,I have problems
1.she is so insecure like betam some times she didn't want go anywhere with me like she will say blackmail adrgawu newu enji yichi askeyami gar mn yiseral .....yawu sewechi yaweralu I even punch my best friend for calling her " gmbaram" after known her tho they love and respect her
2,I am erasa insecure like endemalmetnat newu yemasbewu enough endalhonku I fell like I am too dumb for her
3 their is this guy her ex like she has other ex's gn she only talk about him.ena I am betam ekenalhu like liwesdbgi yichilal bye
4.is it is about her family they are kind of poor ena I want help them she told me she want buy them a home after she got job ....ena when I told her I can buy them house right know she was so mad she told me do u want buy me neger .....+ even when I send her money gibi huna she will get mad ......endewum like I want buy her a car for her birthday SL semta she get mad she told me u know how man ppl are starving in our country even she don't want me to take her to expansive places ..... Bcha sewechi gr gebtogal mn ayinet sewu leso mhon endalebi I need help........

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So there's this guy I've been talking to or seeing whatever u call it for the past 6 months and we got really close. See the thing is we don't have a label on what we actually are. He keeps giving off this mixed signals. One day he's telling me he's falling for someone else the next he's all over me ..bcha I don't really mind how this ends, whether im just a friend or more i just want to keep him in my life. I don't ever wanna lose him. And lately hes been going through a lot mnamn and struggling mentally and emotionally and I don't know what to do or say to help. He's getting in a really dark place and I don't know how to save him from his own mind. I've already lost people to depression and suicide and i really don't want to go through that again so whenever something happens I can't help but get so anxious. help what do i do. How do i help him

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